Here are 50 important life lessons that have

stood the test of time:

1. Your life is now.
We keeping waiting for that amazing thing to happen in the future that will be
the key to our happiness.

But this is it. Your life is right now. Life continues to be a series of right nows.
So learn to love your life right now, and you'll have an amazing life.

2. Fear is an illusion (mostly).

Most of the things we fear never happen. Or if they do happen, they are rarely
as bad as we fear they will be. For most of us, fear is the worst thing that will
happen to us. Reality isn't as painful.

3. Relationships rule.
At the end of the day, what matters most are the people in our lives.
Put them first every single day. Before work. Before the computer. Before your
hobbies. Treat them like they are everything for you. Because they are.

4. Debt isn't worth it.

Nothing is more draining and humiliating than being in debt.

Buying things you can't afford might give you a short-term buzz, but in the
long run, it's extremely stressful.

Spend below your means. Save money. Wait until you can afford it. Live free.

5. Your kids aren't you.

You are the vessel to bring your children into the world and their
caretakers until they can care for themselves.

You can teach them, love them, and support them, but you can't change them.
They are unique individuals who must live their own lives and learn from their
own mistakes. Let them.

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6. Things gather dust.

Time and money spent accumulating material things will one day irritate you.

You have to clean, maintain, store, and move stuff. The less stuff you have,
the freer you are. Purchase mindfully. Simplify. Declutter your life.

7. Fun is underrated.
How much of your day is fun? Really fun?

Life is short. You should enjoy it. Don't make things serious that don't have to
be.

Create more fun in your life. Don't worry about what other people think of your
fun. Just enjoy it.

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Lincoln

8. Failure is good.
We try so hard to avoid failure, but failure is the real evidence that we've had
the courage to try.

If you avoid failure, you avoid taking action. Expect and accept that failure is
part of the experience. Learn from it, grow from it, and move on.

9. Friendships need care.

One of the top five regrets of the dying is that they let their friendships fade
away.

Friendships need time and attention. They need to be prioritized not just in
word but in, deed.

Nurture them like a prized garden. The payoff is so worth it.

10. Prioritize experiences.

The pleasure and positive memories afforded by great experiences far
outweigh material things. If you're trying to decide between the new sofa or
the family trip, take the trip every time.

Save and plan for new adventures and meaningful experiences. Don't just
dream about them — make them happen.

11. Anger isn't worth it.

The feel-good release of anger lasts a few minutes. The repercussions last far
longer.

Regret, stress, and unhappiness are the byproducts of angry outbursts. Learn
healthier ways to communicate your feelings, and when anger arises, step
away until it dissipates.

12. Kindness matters.

Small expressions of kindness have an enormous positive impact on other
people and on your own happiness.
It doesn't take much to be kind. Practice it every day, in every situation, until
it's your natural way of being.

13. Age is a number.

When you're twenty you think fifty is old. When you're fifty, you feel thirty.
When you're seventy, fifty looks like adolescence.

Our chronological age doesn't have to define us. Don't allow a number to hold
you back or prevent you from being the person you are inside. Just be the
person you are inside.

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14. Vulnerability heals.
Being real, open, and vulnerable invites people in and allows them to relate to
you on a much deeper and more intimate level.

Vulnerability, practiced with safe and loving people, can heal emotional pain
and strengthen relationships.
Let down your walls and connect. It's surprisingly liberating.

15. Posturing builds walls.

Creating a persona to impress or shield yourself from pain diminishes intimacy
and authenticity.

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People generally see through this, and it pushes them away. And you look like
a fool.

16. Exercise is power.

Exercise should be a daily priority for everyone. It makes you physically,
mentally, and emotionally stronger. It improves your health and your outlook.
It is the panacea for just about everything.

17. Grudges cause pain.

Holding on to a grudge is like injecting poison into your body every day.
Forgive and let go. There's no other way.

If your ego is preventing you from forgiving and letting something go, then tell
your ego to take a hike. It's getting in the way of your happiness and well-
being.

18. Passion upgrades life.

When you find that thing you love to do with all your heart, every day feels like
a gift.

If you haven't found your life passion, make it your mission to find it. The joy it
brings you spills over into all aspects of your life.

19. Travel expands you.

Travel makes you a more interesting, insightful, and accepting person.

It expands you, enlightens you, and teaches you about the variety of people,
lifestyles, and cultures. It is a pursuit well worth saving for.
20. You aren't always right.
We think we have the answers, know what's right and wrong, good and bad,
best for ourselves and other people. But we aren't always right.

There's always more than one version. There are many perspectives that are
valid. Keep yourself open to that truth.

21. It will pass.

Whatever is causing you worry or pain right now won't cause you worry and
pain forever. Time heals. Things change. It will pass.

22. You define meaning.

A meaningful life is what you define it to be.
If you neglect to define meaning, you won't experience it. Decide what makes
life worth living for you, and then design your life around that.

23. Risk expands you.

To make a positive change in your life, you often must take a risk. You must
tolerate some level of uncertainty.

Taking thoughtful, calculated risk strengthens your “change muscle” and helps
you grow.

24. Change is good.

Life is change. We shouldn't resist it.

Remaining stagnant is in opposition to the natural order of life. Flow with

change. Embrace it and regard it as an adventure.

25. Thoughts aren't real.

Every moment of the day, we have random thoughts floating through our
brains.
Many of the thoughts are negative and limiting. You don't have to believe
them. They aren't the truth or the whole truth.

Thoughts can become our reality, but only if we let them.

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26. You can't control others.

We want people to think and behave as we do. We want them to
accommodate us and live the way we think they should live. We want to
change them.

But with awareness, we realize we can't and shouldn't try to control others.
Instead, embrace differences and honor the uniqueness of the people in your
life.

27. Your body is a temple.

We all have something, or many somethings, we hate about our bodies. But
your body houses your very essence.

Treat your body with respect and care for the efficient and wondrous way it
takes care of you. Even if there are parts of your body you don't like, focus on
your body with a sense of love and gratitude.

28. Touch heals.

Physical touch is healing and intimate. It bonds us to other people and
relieves stress and anxiety.

It has a myriad of health benefits such as lowering heart rate and improving
the immune system.
Mindful, loving touch with those you love is a gift that should be shared.

29. You can handle it.

Whatever you think you can't handle, you actually can.

You have more strength, more resilience, and more inner wisdom than you
give yourself credit for. You'll get through it and survive — and maybe even be
better for it.

30. Gratitude multiplies happiness.

Consciously focusing on all you have rather than thinking about what you
don't have is a far better use of brain power. Gratitude fosters positivity and
well-being.

31. Intuition counts.

Your judgment is important, but your intuition supercharges your judgment.
Intuition is data from your subconscious mind, based on your past
experiences and patterns in life.
It can arise spontaneously when you are called on to make a decision or need
information. 

32. Please yourself first.

Pleasing others for approval and acceptance might feel good in the short
term, but eventually, you will lose yourself and feel resentful.

Please yourself first and give to others based on conscious choice, not the
desire for approval or feelings of guilt.

33. Self-honesty is freedom.

When you are in denial about something, you are blinding yourself to the truth.

Even if the truth is temporarily painful, it will ultimately set you free. Be
radically honest with yourself so you can live authentically.

34. Perfection is boring.

Perfection is unattainable, and the pursuit of it makes us boring.

It is our differences, our foibles, and our imperfections that connect us to

humanity and make us real.

35. Serving creates meaning.

If you want meaning in your life, start with serving others. Find a way to make
a difference, even a small difference, and your life will feel purposeful.

36. Little things matter.

It's not the big wins, the great accomplishments, or your status in life that
really count.
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It's the accumulation of little things — the quiet moments in nature, special
time with our kids, seeing the smile on your spouse's face when you walk in
the door. Pay attention to these things.

37. Learn forever.

There is so much to learn and explore in our very short lifetimes. Take
advantage of learning every single day.

Challenge yourself to acquire a new skill, read something different, take a

class. Learning keeps our minds engaged and sharp, even into old age.

38. Aging happens.

Our bodies age. It is a truth we can't avoid. You can manage to age well by
doing the best with what you've got.

Beyond that, do your best to let it go. Enjoying life is the best antidote to
getting older.

39. Marriages change.

The person you married will change over time. You will change over time.

Hopefully, you will change in the same direction or come to love the changes
in the other person. Don't let these changes take you by surprise.

If the changes start to pull you apart, take action as soon as possible to heal
the rift.

40. Worry is worthless.

Worry is useful only if it leads directly to a solution. But the very nature of
worry implies that it doesn't.

You worry about “what ifs” that aren't real, and the worry itself creates stress
and physical symptoms that cause real reason for angst. Learn how
to manage your worrythoughts.

41. Heal your wounds.

Don't allow pain from your past (or present) to linger and cause you suffering.

Don't stuff it down or pretend it doesn't matter when it does.

Seek support from a professional trained to help you heal and renew your
emotional health.

42. Simple is better.

A life full of complications, obligations, and an overwhelming schedule make
life more difficult and stressful. A simpler life in all regards gives you more
space for joy, authenticity, and engagement.
43. Do the work.
If you want something in life, you must do the work to get it. There are rarely
shortcuts.

But fortunately, the work is what affords the most sense of accomplishment.
The process is more engaging than the outcome.

44. It's never too late.

This is an excuse for not trying. Great things can be accomplished at any age.
Telling yourself otherwise is a sure way to remain stuck and frustrated.

45. Action beats angst.

Action is the cure for worry, procrastination, indecision, anxiety, and
frustration.
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Stop thinking and do something, and you will create momentum that leads to
something valuable — or at the least heals your turmoil.

46. Creation beats reaction.

Be proactive in your life, designing exactly what you want rather than reacting
to what life throws at you.

Creation empowers you and expands your opportunities. Reacting

disempowers you and diminishes your choices.
47. Release attachments.
Don't become too attached to outcomes or beliefs. Remain open to all
possibilities and ideas.

You will be surprised how much more there is to life when you don't cling to
your beliefs, opinions, and things.

48. Words matter.

The words you speak have power. Consider your words carefully. Use them
for good rather than harm. Once they are out, you can't take them back.

49. Make every day count.

If you live to age ninety, how many days do you have left?

It is a finite number, and one day you will reach that last day. Remain
conscious of the value of every single day.

Ask yourself every morning, “What can I do to make today count?”

50. Love is the answer.

Love is why we are here. It is the force for good in this often random, painful,
and harsh world. Share it freely. Express it daily. Use it as your lodestar.