Daygame List of Openers

The document provides examples of conversation starters that can be used when first approaching someone to start a conversation. Some of the suggested openers include saying hi, giving a compliment, asking for an opinion on a topic of interest to women, making an observation about the person, or starting with a cliché and changing it up. The goal is to break the ice and engage the other person with a light, fun, or thought-provoking comment to begin an interaction.

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you come up with in the moment will typically be best, but if you’re
struggling for something to say, here are some good go-‐tos. And also, the more you
use these formats, the more they’ll start to come out naturally and effortlessly as your
normal conversation.

Basically, just say hi.

Ex: Hi, Hey, Hello, Oi, etc.

Give a compliment that doesn’t give your power away—or even possibly makes her
slightly insecure.

Ex: Hey, you looked (adorable, interesting, fun, etc.), so I thought I’d say hi.

Ex: You seemed very . . . interesting.

Ex: You surprise me.

Ask a female opinion, ideally (but not necessarily) on a topic women enjoy talking
about.

Ex: Hey, I need a female opinion on something. Who lies more: More or women?

Ex: Hey, my friend’s shirt? Too gay? Or just gay enough?

Ex: Hey, I need to ask you something: can men and women be friends?

Just how it sounds. A negative spike gets her attention and conveys value, but because
it’s not personal, she can’t really get offended.

Ex: Don’t do it! (Don’t buy that/Don’t go in there, etc.) [and typically follow up with
"just kidding"].
Ex: Don’t gimme that look.

Ex: Wow, I hate x (where x is unrelated to her).

Compliments are great—but physical compliments make you look needy or like you’re
only interested in sex. Also, a compliment should not appear as if you’re buttering her
up for something.

Ex: I love your (look, smile, dress, shoes, style, etc.).

Ex: That (whatever she just did) was amazing.

Ex: You just had the most adorable expression.

Light, funny observation that causes her introspection, but is nonthreatening.

Ex: Wow, you are so (California, New York, soulful, stylish, business casual, etc.).

Ex: You remind me of (insert name of a cartoon character, movie star, etc.).

Ex: You seem very (insert adjective, i.e., quirky, stylish, businesslike).

Give a compliment and a negative statement in the same sentence.

Ex: You look like trouble . . . in the most adorable way.

Ex: You seem fun . . . but I don’t know you yet, so who knows? You might be totally
weird.

Ex: That (refer to item or action) was awful, but you actually seem pretty okay.

Start towards a cliché, then change it up. Good for humor and shock value.

Ex: Are you shy? I’ve been here for at least five minutes and you haven’t come over
and complimented me or grabbed my ass yet, so I thought you must be shy. . . .

Ex: Hi, you looked bored, so I thought I’d come over here and amuse . . . myself.
Ex: You have such nice . . . timing. You’re lucky I came here today.

Say something massively arrogant but in a way that’s silly or fun enough that it’s not
off-‐putting (should be said with a smile).

Ex: I’m sorry, hate to bother you, but I was wondering if you’d by any chance noticed
how ridiculously attractive I am.

Ex: Hi, I’m Todd. I thought I’d grace you with my presence for a moment.

Ex: Hi, I saw you noticing me. I thought I’d help you out by introducing myself.

Starts indirect, but as soon as there’s a positive response, immediately go direct.

Ex: Hey, are you from . . . Actually, you’re quite cute. Who are you?

Ex: Hey, I need your opinion. . . . Actually, you seem rather interesting. What’s your
name?

Ex: Hey, where’s the— Oh, you know what? I like your (x).