Following are 10 criteria for effective feedback. You may not need to concer
yourself with all of them and may find yourself focusing on a cluster of. 405 which,
are problems
EFFECTIVE FEEDBACK
INEFFECTIVE FEEDBACK
Describes the behaviour
which led to the feedback-
‘You are finishing my
sentences for me..?
Comes as soon as appropriate
afer the behaviour -
immediately if possible, later
ifevents make that necessary
(something important going
on, you need time to cool
down etc)
Is direct, from sender to
receiver
Uses evaluative / judgmental statements.
‘You're being rude! Or generalized ones.
“you're trying to control the conversation’
Is delayed, saved up, and dumped. Induces
guilt and anger in the receiver, because
after time there is not usually anything he
can do about it.
Indirect, ricocheted- Tom, how do you
feel when Jim cracks his knuckles? - also
known as let’ you and him fight
Is owned by the sender,
who uses ‘I’ messages and
takes responsibility for his
thoughts, feelings, reactions,
Ownership is transferred to ‘people, the
book, ‘upper management, etc
Includes the senders real
feelings about the behaviour,
insofar as they are relevant to.
the feedback- ‘T get frustrated
when I'm trying to make a
Point and you keep finishing
my sentences?
Feelings are concealed, denied,
misrepresented, distorted. One way to
do this is to ‘transfer ownership, Another
Way is to smuggle the feelings into the
interaction by being sarcastic, sulking,
competing to see who's right, etc.
fs checked for clarity, to
see that the receiver fully
understands whats being
conveyed.
Not checked. Sender either assumes
clarity or - fairly often- is not interested in
whether receiver unders
FN Semen
CON ot)Asks relevant questions
which seek information, with
the receiver knowing why
the information is sought
and having a clear sense that
the sender does not know the
answer.
‘Asks tions which are really
statements-'Do you think I am going
to let you get away with that?” or which
sound like traps- ‘Do you behave that way
at home too?”
Specifies consequences of the
behaviour - present and/or
future- ‘If you keep finishing
my sentences I won't want to
spend much time talking to
you in the future’.
Provides vague consequences- “That kind
of behaviour is going to get you into
trouble. Or specifies no consequences-
‘you shouldn't do that’
Is solicited or at least to some
extent desired by the receiver.
Is imposed on the receiver, often for his
own good.
10
Refers to behaviours about
which the receiver can do
something, if he wants to.
Refers to behaviours over which the
receiver has little or no control
theCOMMUNICATION STYLES IN VARIOUS MULTICULTURAL
CONTEXTS
i i has. unique style of communicatin
As previously mentioned, each person has au ;
which may depend not only on his/her linguistic ability but also on his/her SD
ae anny. Some EA era RES SEPT Some
always seem formal, while some have a lot of introduction before getting to themain
point Commins ets the choices pope make andthe sategsor
Golsthepuslintherprocesofcommunicaiop. syle may sometimes depend
on the demands of the communicative situation, as well as on the needs and
requirements of the target recipients of the information.
Each suk has two dimensions: the (1) @SS@riVERESSHIeVEl and the (2)
/hich is shown in the Communication Styles Matrix below.
High Ematir
igh Emotions Displays Emotions
Low expressiveness
Low Assertiveness
Im LES SCANNER PRO.THE COMMUNICATION STYLES MATRIX
The model, developed by Dr. Eileen M. Russo, shows four different
communication styles (direct, spirited, systematic and considerate), categorized
further into two different dimensions (level of assertiveness and level of
expressiveness). All of these must be considered because people with diferent
cultural contexts tend to have varying levels and styles of communica
People who are categorized within the assertive communication level tend
totell or instruct others iwhat to do and sometimes even how to doit, while the less
assertive styles usually tend to be on the receiving end, often asking for guidance,
{instructions or directions. On the other hand, people who fall under the expressive
Jovel usually show their rel feelings and emotions through facial expressions, tone
of voice, or language use. The less expressive ones tend to either hide thei feelings
or exert some effort for these feelings not to sho
“The combination of these levels result to the basic communication styles:
High Expressiveness + High Assertiveness
spirited =
Considerate = High Expressiveness + Low Assertiveness
Direct = Low Expressiveness + High Assertiveness
Systematic = Low Expressiveness + Low Assertiveness
‘Tips for People with a Spirited Communication Style
1. Respect decisions and agenda that have been agreed upon, as well s
time limits during meetings or any communicative situation.
2 Try w limit your sharing of personal anccdotes that may take the
discussion off-topic.
Make sure you are allowing others to contribute their ideas and
Suggestions and that you are genuinely Iistening to them.
14, Bebrtain that any request you make is lear and that you convey the
reason for such request.
5, Communicate your appreciation for others work and input
“Tips for People with a Considerate Communication Style
1, Recognize that other peoples opinions about a topic are separate
from their opinions about you.
2, Realize that not everyone is comfortable discussing personal topics
with colleagues.
Yilow others to open personal matters before asking questions of
that nature.
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See aae others and be treated ~ professionally.
Tips for People with a Direct Communication Style
hers. Avoid interrupting.
ake an effort to listen carefully to ot
Axe ane far ‘hatting’ at the beginning of a meeting,
Recognize that others may also feel the need to express themselves,
Recognize that brainstorming can be effective and is not a waste of
5, Take'some time to show your appreciation for others’ contributions
Tips for People with a Systematic Communication Style
1. Recognize that for good working relationships, consideration for
others’ felings is important.
2 Learn to ask qualifying questions that will help you get the
information you need.
3. Make sure you understand the background of the discussion or
scope of the conversation so no time is wasted.
4. Politely ask other questions about themselves if you want to build
rapport.
5. If you need to ask for more time to know, analyze or discuss
something, explain the benefit of the information you need to know.
Ethics in Communication
Std be Communication is ethical communication, Communication is
foci belicfeana a Settine, open, cooperative and sensitive to one’s cultural and
to any organ ee thereisan intent conceal the truth, or bring damage
unethical. Daioh Broup or individual person, communication is considered
table en teh tte is no intent to harm, but damage 4 3