HBET3403 Listening and Speaking in ESL - Edec20
HBET3403 Listening and Speaking in ESL - Edec20
HBET3403 Listening and Speaking in ESL - Edec20
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INTRODUCTION
HBET3403 Listening and Speaking in ESL is one of the courses offered at
Open University Malaysia (OUM). It is a three-credit hour course that should
be covered over 8 to 15 weeks.
COURSE AUDIENCE
This is a core course for all Bachelor of Education students majoring in TESL
(with Honours). As such, it is an important course for all students pursuing this
programme. As language teachers, the onus is on us to impart the necessary
knowledge to help our learners become skilled and knowledgeable in ESL
listening and speaking.
STUDY SCHEDULE
It is a standard OUM practice that learners accumulate 40 study hours for
every credit hour. As such, for a three-credit hour course, you are expected to
spend 120 study hours. Table 1 gives an estimation of how the 120 study hours
could be accumulated.
Study
Study Activities
Hours
1. Identify the factors that affect listening in relation to speaking and reading
and how features in language affect listening;
COURSE SYNOPSIS
The course is divided into 10 topics. The synopsis for each topic is presented
as follows:
Topic 1 deals with the process of listening, specifically listening in daily life and
listening comprehension.
Topic 2 is about features of listening input. This is about listening recall, features
of the listening task and context and purposes of listening.
Topic 4 talks about listening and language learning. Subjects such as listening in
first and second languages, models of listening comprehension, relevance theory
and communication models are discussed.
Topic 5 deals with basic considerations in speaking. In this topic, subjects such
as elements of speaking, language feedback, connected speech, expressive devices
and negotiating languages are brought into the picture. This topic also deals with
mental-social processing and the communication context like encoding-decoding,
competence, messages as well as feedback and feedforward.
Topic 6 discusses the process of speaking. It deals with the processing and
reciprocity conditions of speech and writing.
Topic 7 deals with speaking skills, specifically interaction skills and second
language learning oral strategies.
Topic 10 deals with listening and communication. Subject areas for this topic are
the challenge of listening and listening to support others.
Learning Outcomes: This section refers to what you should achieve after you
have completely covered a topic. As you go through each topic, you should
frequently refer to these learning outcomes. By doing this, you can continuously
gauge your understanding of the topic.
Summary: You will find this component at the end of each topic. This component
helps you to recap the whole topic. By going through the summary, you should be
able to gauge your knowledge retention level. Should you find points in the
summary that you do not fully understand, it would be a good idea for you to
revisit the details in the module.
Key Terms: This component can be found at the end of each topic. You should go
through this component to remind yourself of important terms or jargon used
throughout the module. Should you find terms here that you are not able to
explain, you should look for the terms in the module.
References: The References section is where a list of relevant and useful textbooks,
journals, articles, electronic contents or sources can be found. The list can appear
in a few locations such as in the Course Guide (at the References section), at the
end of every topic or at the back of the module. You are encouraged to read or
refer to the suggested sources to obtain the additional information needed and to
enhance your overall understanding of the course.
PRIOR KNOWLEDGE
No prior knowledge required.
ASSESSMENT METHOD
Please refer to myINSPIRE.
REFERENCES
Anderson, A., & Lynch, T. (1988). Listening. Oxford: Oxford University Press.
Brown, G., & Yule, G. (1983). Teaching the spoken language. Cambridge:
Cambridge University Press.
INTRODUCTION
Stop what you are doing. Get a pen or pencil and a piece of paper to write on.
Now, concentrate and listen carefully. List down all the sounds you hear (do not
cheat!). Are you done? If so, put the piece of paper aside and continue reading.
We will come back to your list later.
ACTIVITY 1.1
(f) Nurul and her husband donÊt seem to listen to each other very well.
What are some of the words you came up with to replace „listen‰? You probably
came up with words such as think about, monitor, pay attention, appreciate,
care for, be entertained, and follow directions. Look at the variety of concepts
that the single word „listen‰ covers! Listening is a complex mental capacity
involving social and cognitive processes; it influences how we relate to others
and how we structure our schema. In order to understand the listening process,
we must take these two aspects into account.
To that end, this topic will start with a delineation of what listening, speaking and
reading entail. Then, we will look at how sounds and speech are perceived and
end with an examination of the factors which affect listening.
(a) Firstly, listening and speaking are two sides of the same coin; we cannot
communicate effectively unless the two skills are developed in tandem.
It follows that in many circumstances, listening is a reciprocal skill i.e.
speakers and listeners exchange roles all the time. This fact is especially
relevant when we talk about practising and teaching listening skills.
Figure 1.1 illustrates an example of speakers and listeners switching roles.
(b) Secondly, listening and reading involve interaction with a text. Although
this necessitates different linguistic decoding skills (i.e. visual vs. aural),
the cognitive strategies underlying effective listening are pretty similar to
those underlying effective reading. Good readers, like you and me, do not
read every single word in the Sunday papers. We skim the headlines and
go to our favourite section. We scan for information that is new to us and
use what we know of the topic to help us understand this latest input.
In the same way, we do not attend to all the auditory stimuli that bombard
us; we select what we want to listen to. In other words, both listening and
reading are selective. This fact is important, especially in relation to listening
tasks; we will develop to teach listening skills. We will take a closer look at
the relationships of these three skills in the following subtopics. Figure 1.2
shows examples of various types of reading.
THINK
When you read, do you read aloud to yourself in your head and listen to
your mental voice? Are you reading or actually listening?
Vivid imagination and remote probability aside, the above incident highlights the
fact that listening and speaking are complementary skills, equally needed for
successful communication. We cannot reciprocate effectively if we cannot listen to
(and understand) what is said to us. In short, to be able to communicate
successfully, we must be skilled in listening and speaking, and be able to integrate
both skills.
With regard to the teaching of listening skills, this interdependence has not always
been appreciated by language teachers. Consequently, listening and speaking are
normally taught as separate skills; speaking is done after listening, not while
listening. Reciprocal listening, a vital skill in successful communication as we have
discussed above, is sadly neglected.
Such a practice also encourages a passive view of listening. Listeners are not able
to indicate when they do not understand the message nor provide feedback that
they have understood it. This will inadvertently lead listeners to suppose that
successful listening is a purely receptive activity i.e. they merely receive and record
what is heard. You and I know that this is far from true. We will take up this issue
later in this topic.
We should note that studies on listening and speaking (e.g. Anderson et al., 1984;
Brown et al., 1987) show that effective speaking depends on successful listening
for both L1 and L2 learners. Communication experiments show that speakers
performed more effectively after they have become listeners on a similar task;
they were better able to provide clear and explicit input. It follows that an effective
programme to develop listening skills must provide adequate practice in both
reciprocal and non-reciprocal listening.
ACTIVITY 1.2
However, studies on the development of these two skills (e.g. Neville, 1985;
Carr et al., 1985) have produced evidence to the contrary; the development of
listening and reading skills show no „ceiling‰ effect. In other words, both skills
could be improved upon through explicit practice, regardless of age and
proficiency level. This suggests that we do not develop and master listening skills
once and for all. Research (e.g. Markman, 1979; Garrod, 1986) also shows that
there is a general language processing skill that influences performance in listening
and reading. In particular, it is the ability to consider each sentence as a complete
unit and each text as a unified thematic whole, that appear to be just as
important ă and difficult ă when listening as it is when reading. Although many
of the studies involve L1 listeners and readers, and not much is known of
L2 listening/reading relationships, we can conclude that effective listening skills
could only improve both listening and reading skills for L1 and L2 learners.
ACTIVITY 1.3
How has your listening and speaking skills improved over the years?
In your opinion, what are the reasons for this evolution? Compare your
answer with other coursemates in the myINSPIRE forum.
The two main responsibilities of the ear are hearing and balance. The ear has
three parts: outer ear, middle ear, and inner ear.
The outer ear, the part that we can see, is composed of the pinna or auricle
(the folds of skin and cartilage that we usually refer to as the ear) and the outer ear
or auditory canal. The pinna modifies incoming sounds, particularly higher
frequencies, and allows us to locate the source of the sounds, while the outer ear
or auditory canal delivers sounds to the middle ear. Within the outer ear canal are
wax-producing glands and hairs that protect the middle ear.
The middle ear is a small cavity with the eardrum or tympanic membrane on one
side and the oval window (i.e. a small opening in the skull to the inner ear) on the
other. Within the middle ear are three small bones known as ossicles. These are the
smallest bones in the human body. The osssicles are made up of hammer or
malleus, anvil or incus, and stirrup or stapes, named so because of their shapes.
These bones act like a system of angular levers to conduct sound vibrations into
the inner ear. The hammer is attached to the lining of the eardrum, the anvil is
attached to the hammer, and the stirrup links the anvil to the oval window.
The main function of the middle ear is to ensure efficient transfer of sound (in the
form of air particles) to the inner ear where it is processed into a signal that our
brain recognises. In addition, the middle ear performs a protective function.
The ossicles have tiny muscles which can contract (called the reflex action) to
reduce the level of sound that reach the inner ear. This reflex action occurs when
we are presented with loud sounds such as the roar of a jet engine. In this way,
the delicate hearing mechanism is protected from damage. Interestingly, the reflex
action also occurs when we begin to speak, thus preventing us from hearing
too much of our own speech.
The middle ear is also connected to the throat by a narrow channel, called the
Eustachian tube. Ordinarily, the Eustachian tube is closed but when we swallow
or yawn, it opens briefly to allow an exchange of air, thus equalising the air
pressure within the middle ear and the air pressure outside.
The inner ear contains the most important parts of the hearing mechanism
ă two chambers called the vestibular labyrinth and cochlea. The vestibular
labyrinth consists of elaborately formed canals (three semi-circular tubes that are
filled with fluid and connected to one another) which are largely responsible for
our sense of balance.
The cochlea, which begins at the oval window, is a small bony structure, about the
size of a thumbnail, which curves into a shape that resembles a snail shell. It is
narrow at one end and wide at the other and is filled with fluid. The membranes
inside the cochlea respond mechanically to movements of the fluid. Lower
frequency sounds stimulate primarily the narrower end of the membranes and
higher frequencies stimulate only the broader end. Each different sound, however,
produces varying patterns of movement in the fluid and membranes.
At the side of the cochlea nearest to the brain stem are thousands of tiny hair cells,
with ends both inside and outside the cochlea. The outer hair cells are connected
to the auditory nerve fibres which lead to the auditory cortex of the brain. These
hair cells respond to minute movements of the fluid in the membrane, and convert
them into nerve or neural activity. The nerve fibres, like other nerve systems in the
body, have evolved a high degree of specialisation. This means that different
auditory nerve fibres respond only to specific frequencies of sound.
As you can see, the cochlea seems to be the most important part of the ear in terms
of auditory perception. So, how do we hear sounds?
In simple terms, when sound waves from the world outside strike the eardrum,
it vibrates. These vibrations from the eardrum pass through the bones of the
middle ear and into the inner ear through the oval window. They are then
disseminated into the cochlea where they are converted into electrical impulses
and are transmitted to the brain via the auditory nerve.
ACTIVITY 1.4
(a) http://www.theearfound.com/anatomy.html/
(b) https://www.britannica.com/science/ear
English phonemes are classified into consonants and vowels (refer to Figures 1.5
and 1.6).
As you should already be familiar with both terms, we will not go into details
here; suffice that we note the following:
In normal speech, these phonemes do not occur in isolation. Speech is not made
up of individual consonants and vowels but sounds that flow into each other.
During speech, the articulators are in constant movement. Usually, we start
making a sound before completing the sound before it. A sound, therefore,
is influenced by sounds before and after it, causing it to change. The phonemes
are said to go through allophonic variations, which delete, add and modify
sounds present in the normal pronunciation of a word (refer to Figure 1.7).
These allophonic variations include assimilation, insertion and deletion.
Speakers often insert sounds into words, the most common being the
„schwa‰ (/q/). This may be done to break up awkward consonant clusters
e.g. pronouncing „athlete‰ as /aq li:t/. Other reasons for insertion include
self-conscious articulate or emphatic speech e.g. pronouncing „please‰ (which
is generally pronounced as a single syllable) as /p li:z/ (which contains
two syllables).
Lastly, native English speakers often delete sounds, especially unstressed vowels.
For example, the word „mathematics‰ is usually pronounced /maqmatIks/
without the / /, while in „family‰, the / I / is unstressed and thus deleted in
casual speech, yielding /famli:/.
Secondly, we can only perceive continuous speech within a context. This means
we do not decipher sounds, syllables and words in isolation.
Before we move on to the next subtopic, keep in mind that regular speech
(i.e. speech produced by fluent speakers like you and me) is naturally full of
allophonic variations. These processes are completely normal and expected.
Without them, speech may be incomprehensible. For the speaker, they make
pronunciation easier while for the listener, the processes serve to eliminate
phonetic difficulties.
(a) Word frequency (i.e. how often a word occurs in a listenerÊs listening
vocabulary);
(c) Meaning and context (i.e. a wordÊs relationship to the larger meaning of
the sentence/utterance).
Research on word recognition also shows that when we hear speech, the
presentation of competitors/similar words (i.e. words like the ones we have
already heard) tends to speed up recognition while the presentation of different
words (i.e. words unlike those we have already heard) has the opposite effect.
This again is due to anticipation effects. In addition, we tend to recognise
frequently heard words more quickly than unfamiliar or rarely used words.
Lastly, estimating the meaning of a word will influence the speed of recognition.
When we hear a word in speech, we normally estimate the meaning intended
by the speaker through the context of the sentence/utterance. This is such a
natural process that we never give it a second thought! However, ambiguous
words (i.e. those that could reasonably refer to more than one thing) will stop us
short and draw our attention to the actual process. A very obvious example
involves names.
Aida: Paul.
Suzy: Paul who?
It is clear that Suzy must know more than one Paul. So, the name „Paul‰
becomes ambiguous.
Another possible source of ambiguity is homophones i.e. words that have the
same sound but different spelling. For example,
Sum ă some
Bare ă bear
Meat ă meet
Seen ă scene
Too ă two
Sea ă see
This problem is also rare in listening because the context will nearly always rule
out the competing word.
Finally, we have ambiguity caused by polysemy i.e. the use of a word which has
several related meanings. For example, the words head and run. Head can refer
to a personÊs head, the head of an organisation, and the action of directing, as in
to head the new government. Similarly, run can refer to several actions related
to the basic meaning of moving quickly e.g. clocks run, trains run, and companies
run.
We become more effective listeners when our knowledge of the words a speaker
uses is primed or set. Basically, this may be done in two ways: by syntactic or
semantic association. Syntactic association is the process of thinking of words with
related form while semantic association is the process of thinking of words with
related meaning. Both processes are essential for effective listening; nevertheless,
semantic association is more powerful.
ACTIVITY 1.5
ACTIVITY 1.6
The first simultaneous process is putting words we hear into their grammatical
categories. These are, in all languages, basically noun, verb, adjective, adverb and
preposition. In parsing, we must start with some kind of a core unit; for all
languages, this will be a verb (which can be defined as a basic action). Most
utterances have a clear verb i.e. the basic action is stated. Sometimes, no action is
stated. In these cases, we assume a simple linking or existence relationship e.g.
This is my house.
SELF-CHECK 1.1
SELF-CHECK 1.2
(d) She drove from Kuala Lumpur to Johor Bahru in less than three
hours.
(Adapted from Rost, 1994, p. 40)
Notice that you took quite a while to do the exercise. This is definitely not what
we do when we listen in real time. It would be disastrous! When we listen,
we engage in partial analysis. This means we normally focus on new information
(which is cued by the speaker through prominence). Given (or known) information
is not parsed at all in our working memory. In many cases, listeners may even
skip any parsing whatsoever and derive information directly from individual
words.
In speech, the things we talk about, i.e. people, places, objects, actions and
qualities, are likely to be mentioned and referred to several times. This is termed
as co-referencing and it can be expressed in several ways:
With a proform:
(e.g. I respect En. Amir. He has been a dedicated supporter...)
The second cohesion process is filling in ellipsis. A close look at spoken discourse,
especially conversations, will reveal to us that most of the time, much of the
message is not explicitly stated. It is ellipted. The full lexical items and relational
links between items are often left out, normally because the listener can easily
reconstruct them or it is assumed that they can be inferred from the context.
For example, let us consider the following verbal exchange:
BÊs responses are not stated explicitly but it is obvious that B is answering AÊs
questions. A seems able to recover the ellipted items and understand BÊs
responses. The use of ellipsis is a continued strategy which allows speakers to
introduce new information quickly. Speakers use ellipsis on the assumption that
listeners will be able to recover given items and given links between items.
Before we end this subtopic, here is a final note on how we process sentences
or parsing. Like categorical perception and word recognition, parsing appears
very complex to describe, yet we seem to do it effortlessly. This is because
the characteristics of spoken language allow us to listen effectively, which include
(Rost, 1994, pp. 49ă50):
ACTIVITY 1.7
YouÊd better ask Amir where to get your Amir has a Toyota VIOS and he knows
Toyota serviced. where to get it serviced.
Lee will probably be late because of the Rain causes poor driving conditions, so
rain. people will take more time.
Why donÊt you use that lotion bought The person has a back problem that can be
for your back? alleviated by the use of the lotion. She/he
does not realise the lotion can help him/
her.
Many situations involving the understanding of language entail the use of logical
reasoning. We need to draw inferences on what we know, even if we know that
we do not and cannot have all the relevant facts and experience. Much of language
comprehension, therefore, is the process of reasoning with incomplete
information. However, to be able to infer effectively, we should fulfil the
following conditions:
(a) The conclusions we make must be true i.e. they must be based on the
premises/assertions;
(b) The conclusions should have a higher information value than any of the
premises. They should not repeat the premises; and
(c) The conclusions should contain relevant information i.e. information that is
useful in the situation.
Beyond the sentence, we process discourse using logical reasoning. When we listen
to discourse, much of the reasoning is accomplished through claims and
supporting grounds. Claims are assertions that are made by the speaker, which
the listener is expected to accept. Supporting grounds are facts or ideas that help
the listener to accept the claims. LetÊs say we hear this claim:
We may agree if we happen to know about Amir and that he made many sacrifices
for his family. We will ask for supporting grounds if we are not familiar with
Amir or if we choose to challenge the claim as we have contradictory evidence.
You will find that virtually all supporting grounds used in conversations are
largely implicit. This is because the speaker and listener assume that they share a
common ground; giving explicit statements would be an unnecessary waste of
time. Leaving assumptions implicit is usually efficient and sensible. Needless to
say, implicit assumptions may not be shared and can lead to miscommunication.
Another important tool that we utilise to process discourse is schema, which can
be defined as an organisational system for keeping topical knowledge. We have an
infinite number of schemas in our memory, based on our experience and
imagination. Our schema can be concrete (memories of tangible experience e.g.
Rantau Abang) or abstract (memories of concepts e.g. love, responsibility).
Read the following story and answer the question at the end.
Amir was returning home after an enjoyable afternoon at the lake with his
friends. His pleasant feeling changed quickly when he saw his grandfather
at the woodpile, doing AmirÊs job. Still in his prayer clothes, his grandfather
was kneeling on the ground picking up several logs. Amir started running
towards his grandfather, shouting, „Wait Atuk, IÊll do that!‰
There is no inherently correct answer to the question but most people would
choose (c) guilty. Why? An important proposition in the passage is his grandfather
doing AmirÊs job. In the process of growing up in our society, we learn concepts
such as „responsibility‰, which means „not needing to be reminded of your
duties‰ and „feeling guilt‰ if someone has to remind you. A schema related to
responsibility was activated in AmirÊs mind, which explains the underlying
meaning of the passage. In short, the more we know about a particular topic,
the more quickly and efficiently we will understand what we hear.
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TOPIC 1 PROCESS OF LISTENING 25
Assimilation Parsing
Homonym Polysemy
Homophone
Imagine you are on a spacecraft on your way to the moon. All of a sudden,
you lose your thinking ability but you still have knowledge of the world around
you. Relate your experience as an astronaut to us. Remember, you are still a
normal housewife.
INTRODUCTION
THINK
Listening can be easy yet sometimes difficult. Reflect on your various listening
experiences and for each experience, try to work out why it was easy or difficult.
Before we end our initial foray into the skill of listening, we need to consider
an important aspect of the skill. Everyday experience tells us that sometimes it is
easy to listen to something and at other times, it is not. For example, I am sure
you would agree that it is easier to listen to a fairy tale than to a lecture on
quantum physics (unless you are Stephen Hawking!). Why is this so?
Needless to say, there are many factors that could make listening easy or difficult.
These could be categorised into three principal types, related to:
(b) The type of listening task we engage in (i.e. our listening purpose); and
(a) They have an informative title (which seems to activate the subjectsÊ prior
knowledge/schemata); and
So, we could conclude that even with more demanding input, how the information
is structured/organised can make it easier or more difficult for listeners. Language
teachers should keep in mind the two conclusions made by Anderson and Lynch
(1988) when selecting or producing listening materials, especially the use of
informative titles and pre-listening tasks to activate prior knowledge/schema.
(c) A text on a familiar topic (i.e. we have prior knowledge of it) is easier to
understand, even if its content is new.
In another study (Hare & Devine 1983), familiarity of topic was found to make
listening easier. More interesting, however, was the finding that level of interest
had no effect on recall. In short, this suggests that although it is important to
provide listening materials that are of interest to students, teachers should
perhaps bear in mind that they may not necessarily produce effective listening.
(a) Redundancy (i.e. whether the listening text contains contrastive and/or
redundant information)
One study by Sonnenschein (1982), involving L1 children show that
younger listeners find redundant messages unhelpful; they simply give too
much information. Older listeners, on the other hand, seem to benefit
from the extra information.
(a) Sufficiency of information (i.e. whether the speaker provides the necessary
information)
Studies by Paris and Lindauer (1976), and Small and Butterworth (1981)
show that listening materials which do not require listeners to draw
inferences or make their own interpretations are easier to process for
young L1 and beginner L2 listeners. A note of caution, though. Care should
be taken to ensure that the use of explicit listening input is not perceived
by L2 listeners as „talking down‰ to them.
SELF-CHECK 2.1
Excerpt A
Âand he takes off his hat and scratches his head... (pause)... in confusionÊ
Excerpt B
Âwell the man doesnÊt know what to do... (pause)... heÊs very puzzled ...
(pause)... and so he scratches his head which means „I donÊt know what
to do‰Ê
Excerpt C
Âthis was rather puzzling ... (pause)... so he takes off his hat and scratches
his headÊ
(Lynch, 1987)
Do you think that either of the L2 learners felt that they were being
talked down to? Why or why not?
(c) Referring expressions (i.e. the way a speaker chooses to refer to the people
or objects she/he mentions)
Studies by Tyler (1983) and Chaudron (1983) indicate that listening input
containing a varied range of referring expressions, such as pronouns and
repeated noun phrases, are difficult to process for L1 and L2 listeners. This
type of input should therefore be utilised after more straightforward
materials or with a lot of support (maybe in the form of pre-listening work).
Figure 2.2: Brown and YuleÊs framework for grading listening input
Source: Anderson & Lynch (1998)
The framework shown in Figure 2.2 displays two scales of difficulty. Horizontally,
difficulty increases from left to right between types of input. This means a
description (of something) is assumed to be the easiest to listen to while giving an
opinion is the most difficult. Vertically, difficulty increases from top to bottom
within any one type of input. This means a description of, let us say, a room would
be easier to listen to compared to that of an entire building, as a room has fewer
elements.
Please note that although this framework is essentially based on the speaker,
studies show that listeners face the same difficulties with the type of input as
delineated by it.
THINK
Have you ever faced a situation in which you are not sure how you should
listen? Do you notice that if you listen in a wrong context, you may end up
receiving a wrong or misleading interpretation?
The second factor that could ease or complicate listening is the nature of the
listening task itself. Tasks which require an immediate response, such as drawing
or ordering pictures, are easier than those which are evaluative, such as
summarising (which entails listening and selecting). The most difficult task type
is differentiating between fact and opinion. This task-type factor is perhaps
one consideration we should keep in mind when planning listening activities.
Refer to Figure 2.3 for the listening task features and its context.
The third factor affecting listening is aspects of the listening context. This could be
grouped into three types:
In the same way, classroom listening tasks that make students listen to
relatively long and informationally dense messages first before being asked
questions are extremely demanding. Research findings suggest that if the
students are told what to listen for in advance, the tasks become considerably
easier. This kind of help, usually given at the pre-listening stage, decreases
the amount of processing load and memorisation.
However, we should take note that the very richness of input that the
VCD/DVD offers may also be a source of confusion and distraction for
learners. In other words, this kind of support should only be used in a
controlled manner or when you have complete control of the teaching-
learning situation.
We will take a closer look at the contexts of listening in the next topic.
SELF-CHECK 2.2
THINK
Is it true that we listen for a purpose? If yes, try to list down a few purposes that
you can think of.
SELF-CHECK 2.3
Determine what „extra‰ skills are needed when listening to the following
people:
We listen in a variety of situations and for various purposes. In fact, we can group
our purposes for listening along a continuum, from the purely social to the
informative (Anderson & Lynch, 1988). Refer to the four situations given in
Self-check 2.3 earlier. We are not listening for any specific information in the
first and second situations. In the first situation, we listen to show our sympathy
and to empathise. Meanwhile, in the second situation, we want to show our
love and interest. In the same way, we listen to share our feelings (declaring
your undying love for each other under a full moon), to maintain relationships
(patiently entertaining the neighbourhood gossip, a.k.a. „Mami Jarum‰, who has
stopped by uninvited), and for pure enjoyment (listening to Kenny G while
driving home alone at night).
In contrast, the third and fourth situations require that we listen carefully to get
the information we need. In the third situation, it is vital that we locate the
medicine as soon as possible while in the fourth, the claim form must be completed
correctly or we stand to lose our claim.
According to Galvin (1985 in Underwood, 1989, p. 4), there are five main reasons
for listening. These reasons are shown in Figure 2.4:
However, our purpose for listening may sometimes be two-fold. For example,
we spend time gossiping with our friends as much to get information as to
acknowledge and maintain our friendship. We will come back to this subtopic
and the selectivity of listening later in the module.
There are other listening situations that we should prepare our students for
(refer to Figure 2.5). These situations will result in different purposes for listening.
Take note that in order to serve these different purposes, the situations may
involve either auditory input only or a combination of auditory and visual input.
The following list is adapted from Underwood (1989, pp. 5ă7) to illustrate this.
ACTIVITY 2.1
The listenerÊs roles can be viewed on a continuum, from having equal rights as
the speaker and being actively involved in the construction of the discourse
(i.e. participant) to having no rights in the conversation (i.e. eavesdropper). These
listener roles (Rost, 1990, p. 5) are shown in Figure 2.6.
(a) Participant
A person who is being spoken to directly and who has speaking rights
equal to others involved in the discourse (e.g. a conversation between
two friends on a topic of mutual interest and shared background).
(b) Addressee
A person in a discourse who is being spoken to directly and who has limited
rights to respond (e.g. a student in a traditional classroom in which the
teacher is lecturing).
(c) Auditor
A person in a discourse who is a member of an audience that is being
addressed directly and who has very limited rights to respond and is not
expected to respond (e.g. a commuter train operator announcing the name
of the next stop to the passengers [i.e. audience] on the train).
(d) Overhearer/Eavesdropper
A person who is not being addressed but who is within earshot of the
speaker, and who has no rights or expectations to respond (e.g. hearing the
conversation of a bank teller and the customer who is in front of you as you
stand in line waiting).
(e) Judge
A person who is not being addressed directly but is expected to make some
form of an evaluation of the speakerÊs message (e.g. listening to an argument
or a sales pitch).
THINK
Recall the last movie that you went to, the last song that you heard, the last
meal you enjoyed or the last face that you saw. Describe each situation as
clearly as possible. You may not be able to recall everything. Why do you think
this is so?
We come now to the last factor that affects listening ă our ability to remember.
One of the main characteristics of the auditory stimuli or input is that it is
transient. How often have we heard the excuse, „I canÊt remember what you
said! ‰ Unlike the permanence of the written word, we never produce the same
sound, let alone the same message in exactly the same way twice! So, for the
listener, memory is vital.
Needless to say, there are many factors that influence our ability to recall. Let us
do the following exercise.
SELF-CHECK 2.4
Think back to the list of sounds/things you noted in the first exercise at
the beginning of this topic (do not look, just recall!). How many could
you recall now? Why could you recall them and not others on your list?
Your answers could include any number of reasons: they caught your interest;
they remind you of something significant; you were told that you needed to
refer to the list later, etc. According to Rost (1994), we must have four degrees of
efficient recall in order to recall efficiently (see Figure 2.7):
Before we end this rather brief discussion on listening and recall, we should
note that different listening situations and purposes place different emphasis on
how much we recall. Listening to your lecture or gossiping with your friends,
for example, would require strict recall when compared to, for example,
a conversation you overhear on the LRT. Although most of us generally cannot
produce a 100 per cent recall, we can reproduce a clearer recall in response to
questions. As the questions become more specific, the more focused our recall.
You may recall our discussion on information overload and ways to decrease it.
Questions are another support/aid for listeners. Recall questions could be
categorised according to what we need to remember (Rost, 1994, p. 75):
Using these questions could promote better listening and clearer recall.
THINK
Have you ever wondered why it is an uphill task for a witness to actually
recall all that had happened at the scene of a theft? Now, you will probably
understand better why recalling can be very difficult at times. In which
instance did you go through a similar experience?
• In this topic, Factors Affecting Listening, we analysed factors that get in the
way of our listening.
• First, we looked at 2.1 Features of the Listening Input, followed by 2.2 Features
of the Listening Task and Context.
Eavesdropping Interpretive
Explicit Recall
Inferential Verbatim
What are the factors which affect listening? What are the steps that you often
take to make a recall?
What are the problems that we always face when we make a recall? When does
a fact or an information in a message become a „noise‰ (lots of interference in
the content of the message)?
INTRODUCTION
As we have discussed in Topic 1, listening is a complex process that involves
far more than our ears. To listen well, we rely on our ears, minds and hearts.
In other words, listening has psychological and cognitive dimensions. Having
established that, we continue with a look at another equally important facet of
listening. We listen differently for different reasons or purposes, and in different
situations. This is obvious.
And so, in this topic, we will start with an examination of the types of listening.
For these, we will refer to sources from language acquisition studies and
communication. Then, we will focus on two common listening contexts i.e.
listening in conversations and listening in cross-cultural encounters. These
contexts are specifically delineated as they are deemed most common for teachers
in their daily school environment. Now that you have the map of the terrain,
so to speak, let us continue.
We start with a look at work on first language speech education, which identifies
four general types of listening as shown in Figure 3.1 (Galvin, 1985):
THINK
The term „transactional communication‰ was coined by Brown and Yule (1983a)
to refer to communication that is primarily aimed at achieving a successful
transfer or exchange of information. The focus of transactional listening is on the
informative aspects of the input, with emphasis on linguistic skills. A good
example of transactional listening is when you attend a lecture. In this listening
situation, you use your linguistic knowledge to decode and understand the lecture.
You have little opportunity to provide feedback or ask for clarification.
According to Galvin (1985), among the transactional listening skills that you
could develop in your students are as follows (refer to Figure 3.2):
(g) Test ideas for consistency with own experience ă Evaluate the ideas they
learn.
Among the interactional listening skills that you could develop in your students
are shown in Figure 3.3 (Galvin, 1985):
(a) Recognise levels of meaning ă See the speakerÊs meanings, intentions and
underlying feelings;
(b) Try to see ideas from the speakerÊs point of view ă Understand why the
speaker sees things or experiences events in a certain way; and
ACTIVITY 3.1
THINK
Yet another type of listening is critical listening. As the term suggests, the purpose
of critical listening is to evaluate the reasoning and evidence that you hear.
This listening situation requires the listener to not only focus on the linguistic
aspect of the input in order to extract as much information as possible, but also
to evaluate the input as it is understood. A good example of this type of listening
is in the courtroom where the jury listens to arguments and questioning by
lawyers and testimonies of witnesses and evaluates their truth-value.
Figure 3.4 shows some guidelines on how to improve your critical listening
skills (Devito, 1995, p. 75):
For example, are your ethnic, national or religious biases preventing you
from appreciating a speakerÊs point of view? Biases may also lead to
sharpening, the tendency for a particular item of information to take on
increased importance because it confirms your stereotypes or prejudices.
Among the recreational listening skills that you could develop in your students
are shown in Figure 3.5 (Galvin 1985 in Rost, 1994):
ACTIVITY 3.2
THINK
What will happen if you do not listen to what someone is saying to you?
Will you be able to communicate effectively with that person?
Adler et al. (2004, pp. 143ă144) identifies four main types or purposes for listening
as shown in Figure 3.6:
(a) The first is listening to understand and retain information. In virtually any
situation, understanding the instructions and advice of superiors and
colleagues, learning about the needs and reactions of others, and discovering
the concerns of clients and members of the public are very important.
(c) Thirdly, we also listen to build and maintain relationships, a type of listening
most relevant to interpersonal communication. Studies show that effective
listening builds better relationships while poor listening weakens or
prevents them from developing altogether. Failure to take another
personÊs perspective when listening has often been cited as one of the
most common communication problems among married couples.
(d) The last type of listening is to help others. Listening is an essential tool of
professionals such as doctors, lawyers, therapists and teachers; they have to
listen carefully in order to offer sound and appropriate assistance.
However, professionals are not the only ones we call on for help; we also
turn to our friends and family. When they listen to us with understanding
and concern, we can gain different and useful perspectives for solving
our problems.
(c) Most of the time, we listen for information. We listen to gain and understand
information in order to act appropriately. To do this, we need to use skills for
critical thinking and for organising and retaining information. These include
the following:
ACTIVITY 3.3
Where are they? (Spoken by a woman looking for her car keys)
Can you do this for me? (Spoken by a child as she hands over a jar to her
father)
True enough, these utterances are easily understandable. However, upon closer
examination, we must conclude that they are so only if the context allows it.
Most of the time we need very few words as the context (i.e. the setting,
participants and their actions) of communication speaks volumes. „Indeed, it
might be said that language is needed only when we must make up for the lack
of information in the context‰ (Rost, 1994, p. 52).
THINK
We engage in conversations all the time. At the very least, we talk to ourselves.
As a teacher, conversing is natural. We talk to our colleagues, we talk to our
students and we impart knowledge. However, we normally believe that we are
speaking rather than listening. Listening is actually a principle skill in conversation
involving two or more people as when one speaks, the others listen. When a
teacher teaches, students listen. What we take so much for granted actually
involves many linguistic and social skills (Rost, 1994); among these are shown in
Figure 3.8:
Most often, however, a listener has a wide range of options to choose from,
depending on how she/he wants to participate in the conversation. Being
able to choose the right option determines the success of the listenerÊs
participation in the conversation.
SELF-CHECK 3.1
Read the following conversation. For each line, describe one (or more)
function the speakers/listeners might be performing.
THINK
Imagine that you are in the commuter train all alone and bored when,
suddenly, a stranger gets in at one of the stops. You want to start a
conversation with this newcomer. What would your opening
conversation or introduction be like?
The way we talk to each other reflects many of our cultural norms and
values. For example, the ways we express ourselves, agree and disagree
with each other, and show consideration and appreciation for friends and
strangers. Virtually everything that we do by way of conversation is a
reflection of our cultural norms and values. At the same time, conversation
is also a primary means of transmitting cultural norms and values. Learning
how to carry on a conversation is an important part of fitting into a culture.
Despite the seemingly endless variation, Goffman (1981 in Rost, 1994, p. 80),
has noted a few universal elements in conversational style. See Figure 3.10.
(i) Openings
All societies have developed routines for beginning conversations.
(ii) Turn-taking
All societies have subtle systems for deciding speaking turns.
(iii) Closings
All societies have developed routines for closing conversations.
THINK
SELF-CHECK 3.2
(A man entering a police station, asking for help to find his parked
car)
Police officer: What do you think this is ă a childcare centre?
Examples
Reasoning
Indirect Statement Direct Statement
Extra message I know itÊs difficult for you to I want you to finish this by
of support finish this by Friday, but hope Friday.
youÊll try.
Minimise I wish youÊd rung me to tell me IÊm annoyed at you for not
conflict youÊd be late. rigging me.
(i) Back-channelling
In a face-to-face conversation, the listener is expected to provide
appropriate back-channelling signals to the speaker to indicate that
she/he is actively listening. In most face-to-face exchanges, listener
back-channelling is almost continuous. These signals are usually a
subtle combination of verbal signals (e.g. Right or I see), semi-verbal
signals (e.g. Mmm, Tsk, Whew) and non-verbal signals (e.g. head nods,
furrowed eyebrow, arched eyebrows, widened eyes, etc.).
ACTIVITY 3.4
(ii) Reframing
Reframing means that the listener repeats what the speaker says,
using different words or expressions. This way, the listener can
actively alter the content of the conversation. Reframing could be
(Rost, 1991, pp. 88ă89):
Option A
Option B
In the same way, our participation depends on the power relations that exist
between us and the speaker. If we feel that the speaker is relatively more
powerful than us, by reason of role status (our father), social status (our
principal) or situational status (a robber), we will tend to participate in a
powerless manner. Powerless participation is characterised by behaviours
that show deference to the speaker, allowing him/her to continue talking
without interruption or reformulation or ultra polite back-channelling. The
listener may use a lot of hesitations, hedges and empty expressions. These
features are common in studies on women-men interactions (Lakoff, 1975)
and courtroom interrogations.
In a world fast developing into a global village, cross-cultural encounters like the
above are becoming increasingly common for many of us. These encounters are
interesting in terms of listening, as many of the misunderstandings between
people can be traced to listening problems. In addition, as listeners, we have an
excellent opportunity to show empathy and sensitivity to cultural differences.
A British Speaker
A Japanese Speaker
I was visiting New York and was in a supermarket shopping. I was standing
looking at a shelf, when I was bumped into by another shopperÊs cart. I turned
to look and said „Oh, sorry‰, even though it wasnÊt my fault. The man who
bumped into me said, „Sorry lady, I guess you were in the way‰. I was stunned
at how rude this man was.
In the first excerpt, asking full names and being sure they understand the name
may be a way of showing friendship to many Americans. Many Britons, however,
may find this behaviour manipulative. In the second excerpt, the Japanese are
well known for their gracious apologies, even when the fault is not theirs. On the
other hand, New Yorkers, perhaps more so than other Americans, are well known
for not apologising. On the contrary, they are well known for blaming others.
C: (Dials number)
A: (Picking up the receiver) Allo?
In the United States, steps 1, 2 and 3 may be considered optional for social
telephone calls. The caller normally goes directly to step 4.
C: (Dials number)
A: (Picking up the receiver) Hello?
Godard points out that in France, the listener (i.e. the person answering the phone)
may feel offended if the speaker does not give immediate identification and offer
token apology for disturbing the household. Effective participation involves
learning the expected steps in numerous similar rituals.
SELF-CHECK 3.3
Excerpt A
Situation: Interview at a language school.
Excerpt B
Situation: Job interview.
Excerpt C
Situation: Job interview.
Interviewee: Nothing.
What we have discussed so far and what the exercise highlights is that when we
hear someone speak, we are not only hearing the words they say. We are also
activating our expectations and evaluating the speaker in terms of these
expectations. It is therefore important that we know how to listen with empathy
i.e. listening for the purpose of conversation from the speakerÊs perspective.
This listening skill is particularly vital in cross-cultural communication.
ACTIVITY 3.5
– Topic shifting is an attempt by the listener to move into the role of speaker.
Back-channelling Reframing
Empathy Topic shifting
Interactional communication Transactional communication
State the various types of listening and elaborate on each of the types.
Pretend that you are in a conversation with a long-lost friend whom you have
not met for the past twenty years. When you listen to him speak to you at that
moment, what do you think would be the content of the message and when you
listen, how would you interpret them?
INTRODUCTION
After our rather general overview of listening and what it entails in Topic 1 and
the types of listening and listening contexts in Topic 3, we continue with a more
focused study in this topic. Specifically, we will start with an examination of
listening in L1 and compare it to listening in L2, which follows right after. Lastly,
we will analyse five models of listening, two of which are passive views while
three consider listening as an active process. These models are important as they
act as the frameworks upon which our listening activities and pedagogical
approaches will be based. Now that you have the map of the terrain, so to speak,
let us continue.
4.1 LISTENING IN L1
Do you remember how you learned your first language? Or when words suddenly
made sense? For many of us, the answer is „No.‰ In the previous modules,
you have been exposed to various schools of thought regarding first language
acquisition i.e. the behaviourists, innatists, cognitivists and social interactionists.
We have also looked at the dimensions involved in the process of acquisition,
such as the nature-nurture controversy, universal competence and individual
variation. We now know that all the dimensions are necessary for language
acquisition. For example, the special language capacity that seems to be innate
in humans is of not much use if it is not exposed to a rich linguistic environment.
The same is true for the development of our listening ability.
We know that children are equipped with a mental capacity to acquire language
efficiently. However, this capacity is dependent on the acquisition of knowledge
of the situations and people around them. In terms of listening, they develop the
skills only when they can match new linguistic input to what they know of the
world around them.
The most notable fact about a childÊs first language development is its close link
to his/her cognitive development. As the child experiences new objects and
situations, he/she develops language to deal with them. Jean Piaget was among
the first social scientists to note this close link and went on to describe the
stages of cognitive development in children. What is important is that these stages
occur through repeated, guided social interactions, which are primarily oral.
So, all of the childÊs early language development is aural-oral in nature, with the
aural (i.e. listening) aspect preceding the oral.
As the linguistic development of the child has been quite thoroughly covered in
your earlier modules, suffice that we highlight several important features here.
Figure 4.1 explains three stages in listening.
Firstly, children tend to focus on the stressed and repeated parts of words and
phrases they hear, suggesting that prominence (as we have looked at in the first
topic) and repetition play a major role in early acquisition. This means that
children tend to recognise content words and stressed syllables first.
Secondly, children can only deal with concrete things i.e. objects or situations
that they can perceive with their five senses. In order for children to understand
the language and respond, it must refer to the here and now. The development
in listening ability also follows this move from concrete objects/events to abstract
ones.
Although young children may not be fully proficient in the content of the listening
material, they seem to be quite adept in the social aspects of listening. It seems
that in spontaneous conversation in a familiar context with someone they know
well, young children show a considerable range of communicative competence.
It should be noted that many of the studies conducted into the development of
listening in children involved listening materials with non-demanding
information content i.e. familiar and interactional topics now (Steffenson, 1978;
Horgan, 1978). However, other studies using listening input that are novel and
informative have highlighted the importance of listener contribution to
communicative success and the problems that young listeners faced. Specifically,
there are three main types (Anderson & Lynch, 1988, p. 27):
(a) Children (up to the age of seven) do not realise the importance of message
quality. They blame themselves rather than the message quality, even if
it is highly ambiguous. Furthermore, if they guess the message correctly,
they think that an ambiguous message is adequate. Most children overcome
these difficulties by the age of eight.
(b) Children have problems assessing message quality. This means they have
problems recognising when input is ambiguous or uninformative. Even
eleven-year-olds find it difficult to make such judgments.
(c) Unlike adults, children rarely provide feedback for speakers. Children
usually do not confirm that they have understood messages that are clear
and simple. More seriously, they fail to comment, query or ask for more
information when listening to messages that are highly ambiguous or
unclear.
SELF-CHECK 4.1
Why do you think children tend to not provide any feedback to the
speaker when communication is progressing smoothly and/or when a
problem arises?
To sum up, studies of how children perform as an effective listener show that
in familiar and supportive conversational contexts, even very young listeners
are competent in the social skills involved in listening. There is a gradual
developmental progression towards becoming competent listeners. The difficulty
of a listening task seems to determine the age at which competence is achieved.
See example in Figure 4.2.
Let us look at specific examples of these receptive disorders, which are adapted
from Rost (1994, pp. 116ă117) and shown in Figure 4.3.
(a) Echolalia
As in the conversation below, echolalia is a disorder where the child repeats
or echoes utterances seemingly without attention to the transactional
direction of the discourse.
Adult: Uh-hmm.
Child: Play with him.
Adult: Uh-hmm.
Child: I play with him after school.
Adult: Uh-hmm.
Child: HeÊs going to school.
Adult: Uh-hmm.
Child: It could be nine oÊclock.
Adult: Humhhh⁄mmmm⁄.
Child: Or it could be nine-thirty.
Adult: Ok.
Child: He could be out of the bus.
Adult: Uh-hmm.
Child: His school bag ... thatÊs his blue trousers, I think thatÊs muck
in it.
4.2 LISTENING IN L2
In the previous subtopic, we have considered listening in L1. Before we go on to
look at listening in L2, it is perhaps cogent that we consider the relationship
between the two. We could essentially relate L1 and L2 listening in three ways
(Anderson & Lynch, 1988):
ACTIVITY 4.1
(a) Children are typically allowed a „silent period‰ during which they are not
expected to attempt to produce language in response to the primarily
auditory input they received.
(b) After they begin to produce language, children clearly understand more than
what they can produce.
Firstly, they give rise to a variety of teaching methods known collectively as the
Comprehension Approach (of which the most popular is Total Physical Response
or TPR). The Comprehension Approach focuses on developing comprehension at
the beginner phase of a language course without requiring L2 learners to produce.
Practitioners of this approach claim that not forcing L2 learners to speak before
they are ready leads to increased confidence, motivation and competence.
(i) According to Rost (1994), the main problem for L2 listeners is motive,
or the lack of one. We learn our native language primarily for
self-expression i.e. to learn basic objects and concepts and associate
these to words. L2 learning, whether in adults or children, always
occurs at a later stage, when there is no longer an immediate need
or motive to express through language.
That what they are doing is learning a language and nothing more;
and
The ability to recognise and signal when he/she has not understood
enough of the input to make a prediction or a response. These
explicit signals are crucial, as they usually elicit a repetition or
reformulation by the native speaker, and so give the listener
another chance to make a relevant response.
ACTIVITY 4.2
(i) According to Underwood (1989), the most common problem, and the
most difficult for L2 learners, is the lack of control over the speed at
which a speaker speaks (see example in Figure 4.8). In simple terms,
the L2 listener has no control over how quickly a speaker speaks.
Unlike the written word, which is permanent and could be pored over
again to an L2 readerÊs hearts content, the spoken word is lost once
uttered and the slow L2 listener cannot keep up. He/she is often too
busy working out one part of the spoken message that she/he misses
the next part. This usually results in the L2 listener simply ignoring
whole chunks because he/she cannot process the incoming input
fast enough. The L2 listener, therefore, fails to listen.
(ii) Another problem is not being able to get the speaker to repeat an
utterance. This happens in and outside the classroom. In the classroom,
the power of whether the listening input gets repeated lies with the
teacher. When it is repeated, the tape will normally be stopped at a
point when no stop is necessary and not stopped when it might be
useful to do so! Either way, the L2 listener is at the mercy of the
teacher. Here, perhaps, lies the advantage of doing listening work
in a language laboratory, where the L2 listener has control over how
much and which repetition he/she needs. Outside of the classroom,
an „eavesdropper‰ must go with the flow of the conversation and
you cannot rewind when listening to the radio or watching television.
(vii) Lastly, the L2 listener may face problems due to established learning
habits. As stated earlier, L2 learners who have been taught to focus on
accuracy (true for many of our Malaysian students!) will face a lot of
difficulties in handling the normally vague and incomplete auditory
input. This is especially true for situations outside the classroom.
Our job, then, is to encourage our L2 listeners/learners to take chances
and be comfortable with partial understanding of what they hear.
In the classroom, L2 learners also face considerable difficulties (Byrne, 1991). Their
experience with the target language is limited; as beginners, they may still be
mastering basic phonological and grammatical patterns as well as vocabulary,
all of which is understood effortlessly by the native speakers. As a result,
L2 learners must concentrate much more and will probably have difficulty in
selecting and retaining key items. In addition, unless they talk to other students
or to the teacher, they cannot interact. Instead, they have to listen for longer
than is natural, and they must react, often in response to a task that has been
determined for them. Finally, in most typical listening activities in the classroom,
L2 learners listen without the benefit and help of the context. Unless the listening
input is given on video, these learners cannot see the speakers, they have to
remember who is speaking and to whom.
SELF-CHECK 4.2
Both points of view are now accepted as legitimate to describe successful listening.
In other words, it is believed that the effective listener will utilise both bottom-up
and top-down strategies to understand what they hear. The listening
comprehension models that we will look at in the next subtopic reflect this
dichotomy in how listening is viewed. The first two models are essentially
bottom-up in nature while the latter three espouse the top-down view. Let us
read on!
ACTIVITY 4.3
(b) Due to the above, it follows that there is no allowance for doubt or repetition.
(c) There will also be no variety i.e. no different ways of looking at what is heard.
Based on our earlier discussion on listening, we know that viewing the listener as
a tape recorder does not give an accurate picture of the skill as the listener is
considered a passive receiver of auditory stimuli instead of an active selector and
interpreter. Some of the more specific problems with this view are:
(a) Listeners can often remember input that they do not understand (a good
example would of course be yourselves!). If we use the ability to remember
as a measure of comprehension, how can we explain this?
(b) Listeners often can understand more than what they can remember (again,
you are all excellent examples!).
(c) We have already proven that listeners tend to be selective i.e. they select,
interpret and summarise input. So, what is encoded cannot be perfectly
decoded. Communication is not a perfect encoding-decoding exchange.
(a) Listening is purely reception. The listener is a mere receiver who does not
act on the auditory input;
(c) The denotative function of language (i.e. the surface meaning of words)
is overstated. In other words, what is stated is what is meant.
As with the earlier view, this theory also considers the listener as a passive receiver
of input. Some of the problems with this theory are that:
Factor Comparison
Coherent The auditory input agrees with what was previously said, with the
context and with the background knowledge.
Interpretation The listenerÊs decoding of input may not be accurate and is based
on systemic/linguistic knowledge and schematic/non-linguistic
knowledge.
As stated earlier, the following three views give a more accurate picture of the
listening skill. All three look at listening as an active process, with the listener
being very much involved in attending to and processing the incoming auditory
stimuli.
SELF-CHECK 4.3
You have read about the three views, (The listener as tape recorder,
information processing theory, and the listener as an active model
builder).
Factor Description
Inference Understanding the ostensive act, i.e. the signals produced, which
means finding a relevant link between the two layers of
information.
A friend from Canada is here, visiting you in Malaysia. In one of the countless
conversations between the two of you, the subject of „snow‰ came up and
your Canadian friend ended up having to describe snow to you, who have
never been out of Malaysia, much less experience snow! No matter how
accurate your friendÊs description is, how you actually understand the concept
of snow is entirely dependent on your own knowledge domain (i.e. schemata)
and not through the language she/he uses. We can draw a few implications
here:
The listener restricts the inferences that can be drawn from the speakerÊs
message.
The various roles played by the listener place a constraint on how a listener
can interpret what he/she hears.
(a) Receiving
Listening begins with receiving the messages the speaker sends. These
messages are both verbal and non-verbal; they consist of words, gestures,
facial expressions as well as variations in volume and rate. At this stage,
you not only note what is said (verbally and non-verbally) but also what
is omitted.
Focus your attention on the speaker rather than on what you will
say next.
(b) Understanding
The message is decoded to its idea/proposition level at this stage. This
includes the thoughts that are expressed and the emotional tone that
accompanies these thoughts. At this stage, the purpose is to make as
accurate an interpretation as possible of what has been decoded.
Relate the new information from the speaker to what you already
know.
See the speakerÊs messages from the speakerÊs point of view; avoid
judging the message until you fully understand it as the speaker
intended it.
(c) Remembering
Messages that you receive and understand need to be retained for at least
some period. What you remember is actually not what was said but what
you think (i.e. remember) was said. Memory for speech is not reproductive;
rather, it is reconstructive (i.e. you reconstruct what has been understood in
terms of your background knowledge/schemata). Generally, messages are
reconstructed into a meaningful whole (to you as the listener), and in the
process, you remember a distorted version of what was said.
(d) Evaluating
The fourth stage is evaluating. It involves judging the messages in some way.
You may try to evaluate the speakerÊs underlying intentions or motives.
Often, this type of evaluation goes on without much conscious awareness.
For example, a friend tells you that she is up for promotion and is really
excited about it. You may then try to judge her intention: Is she looking
for a compliment? Is she trying to make you jealous? In other situations,
your evaluation is more in the nature of a critical analysis. For example,
in listening to business proposals, you might think: Are they practical?
Will they increase productivity?
Assume that the speaker is a good person and give him/her the
benefit of the doubt.
(e) Responding
The last stage is responding, which occurs in two phases. The first phase
is responses made while the speaker is talking. These responses are feedback
ă information you send back to the speaker; this information tells the
speaker how you feel and what you think about his/her message. Responses
mad while the speaker is talking should be supportive and acknowledge
that you are listening; these responses include cues, such as „I see‰, „yes‰,
„uh huh‰ and similar signals that let the speaker know that the message
is being attended to.
The second phase is responses made after the speaker has stopped talking.
These are generally more elaborate and might include expressing empathy,
asking for clarification, challenging and agreeing.
Own your responses; state your thoughts and feelings as your own,
and use I-messages. For example, say, „I think your idea is not
practical‰ instead of „Everyone will not agree to your idea‰.
ACTIVITY 4.4
This was followed by a look at listening in the L2, with an emphasis on the
problems that L2 listeners may face.
State the four steps children use when they listen to the sounds of their first
language.
According to Anderson and Lynch (1988), young listeners face three problems
when they listen to sounds. State the problems and cite examples.
INTRODUCTION
Speaking is, in many ways, an undervalued skill. Perhaps, like listening, this is
because we can almost all speak, and so, take the skill too much for granted.
Speaking, however, is a skill which deserves attention every bit as much as literary
skills, in both first and second languages. Our students often need to be able to
speak with confidence in order to carry out many of their most basic transactions.
It is the skill by which they are most frequently judged, and through which they
make and lose friends. It is the vehicle of social solidarity, social ranking,
professional advancement and business. It is also the primary medium through
which much of language is learnt, and which for many is particularly conducive
for learning.
To start our examination of this important skill, we will look at some basic ideas
about speaking and its requirements and the communication context in which
speaking occurs.
ACTIVITY 5.1
5.2.1 Source-receiver
Communication involves at least two persons. Each person will formulate and
send messages (source functions) and also perceive and comprehend messages
(receiver functions). The hyphenated term emphasises that both functions are
performed by each participant. Who you are, what you know, what you value,
what you want, what you have been told, etc. all influence what you say, how you
say it, what messages you receive, and how you receive them. Each person
is unique; each personÊs communications are unique. See an example of
source-receiver communication in Figure 5.2.
5.2.2 Encoding-decoding
Encoding refers to the act of producing messages, i.e. speaking and writing,
while decoding refers to the act of understanding messages. Speakers and writers
are known as encoders, and listeners and readers, decoders. The hyphenated
term emphasises that these two activities are performed in combination by
each participant in a communication. Figure 5.3 show an example of the
encoding-decoding process.
5.2.3 Competence
This is the knowledge of the language and world used to compose and interpret
messages. You gain communicative competence by observing others, explicit
instruction, and trial and error. Keep in mind that to a certain extent, competence
is specific to a given culture. The principles of effective communication vary from
culture to culture: what proves to be effective in one culture may prove to be a
terrible faux pas in another. See an example of communicative competence in
Figure 5.4.
ACTIVITY 5.2
(a) https://www.teachingenglish.org.uk/article/communicative-
competence
(b) https://www.thoughtco.com/what-is-communicative-
competence-1689768
(c) https://open.lib.umn.edu/communication/chapter/1-4-
communication-competence/
5.2.4 Messages
These are signals that serve as stimuli for a receiver and must be sent and received.
They may be auditory (hearing), visual (seeing), tactile (touching), olfactory
(smelling), gustatory (tasting) or any combination. Figure 5.5 shows examples
of visual message.
You can create messages to talk about the world, people and events as well as
to talk about other messages. These are called metamessages, and they represent
a large number of our everyday utterances, such as „Do you understand? ‰,
„What did you say? ‰ and „I want to be honest ‰. Two particularly important
types of metamessages are feedback and feedforward.
(a) Feedback
These are messages sent back to the speaker as reactions to what is said.
They tell the speaker what effect he/she is having on the listener. Based on
feedback, the speaker may adjust, modify, strengthen or change the content
or form of the message (see example in the conversation in Figure 5.6).
Figure 5.6: Lily teases Susan but she takes it seriously and frowns.
Based on this facial reaction or feedback, Lily changes the content of the
message by saying she was only joking
Feedback may come from yourself (as the speaker) or from others. When you
talk to someone, you also hear yourself. In other words, you get feedback
from your own message: you hear what you say, you feel the way you
move, and you see what you write. In addition to this self-feedback, you get
feedback from others.
(i) Positive-negative
Positive feedback, e.g. a compliment or a pat on the back, tells the
speaker that he/she is on the right track and should continue
communicating in the same way. Negative feedback, e.g. a criticism
or a negative gesture, tells the speaker that something is wrong and
that some adjustment should be made.
(ii) Immediate-delayed
In communication, feedback is most often sent immediately after the
message is received. This is the most effective, as feedback, like
reinforcement, loses its effectiveness with time. However, there are
many communication events where feedback is delayed.
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(iv) Critical/Supportive
Critical feedback is evaluative; it is judgmental. Supportive feedback
is the opposite; you give encouragement.
SELF-CHECK 5.1
How does positive and negative feedback benefit the speaker? Explain.
(b) Feedforward
This is the information you provide before sending your primary messages.
Examples of feedforward include the preface or table of contents of a book,
the opening paragraph of a chapter, movie previews, magazine covers,
and introductions in public speeches. See Figure 5.7 for an example of
feedforward.
(iii) To Disclaim
Disclaimers are statements that aim to ensure that your message will
be understood and will not reflect negatively on you.
(iv) To Altercast
Feedforward is often used to place the receiver/listener in a specific
role and to request that the receiver/listener respond to you in terms of
this assumed role. This process, known as altercasting, asks the
receiver/listener to approach your message from a particular role or
even as someone else. For example, you may ask a friend, „As an
advertising executive, what would you think of corrective advertising?
or „If money were no object, what car would you buy? ‰.
5.2.5 Channel
Channel is the medium through which messages pass. It acts as a bridge
connecting the speaker and listener. Communication rarely takes place over
one channel; more than one channel is normally used simultaneously. For
example, in face-to-face interaction, you speak and listen (vocal-auditory channel)
but you also gesture and receive signals visually (gestural-visual channel)
as shown in Figure 5.9, and you emit odours and smell those of others
(chemical-olfactory channel). Often, you touch one another, and this touching
also communicates (cutaneous-tactile channel).
ACTIVITY 5.3
5.2.6 Noise
Noise enters into all communication systems, regardless of how well designed
or technically sophisticated they are (see example in Figure 5.10). It is anything
that distorts or interferes with message reception. It is present in a communication
system to the extent that the message received differs from the message sent.
5.2.7 Context
This is the environment in which communication takes place and which exerts
influence on the form and content of the communication. At times, the context is
not obvious or intrusive; it seems so natural that it is ignored. For example,
background music. At other times, the context dominates, and the way it restricts
or stimulates our communication is obvious. Compare the differences in how
we communicate at a funeral as shown in Figure 5.11, a rock concert, a candlelight
dinner and in class.
ACTIVITY 5.4
Describe the role played by context in the communication process. In order for
communication to proceed, what should the speaker do to ensure continuity?
State briefly the three types of noise and cite some examples.
INTRODUCTION
For all its „secrecy‰, speaking is an all too common skill. Almost all of us can
speak, and we do so expertly and seemingly effortlessly. Knowing how to speak,
in both first and second languages, is a necessity in order to carry out many of
our basic transactions. Most importantly, it is the skill by which we are most
frequently judged. It is also the medium through which language is learnt, and
which for many, is particularly conducive for learning. With its „flip side skill‰,
listening, speaking is our main vehicle for communication and the transmission
of information.
The aim of this topic is to throw some light on what constitute speaking. Firstly,
we will consider the origin of speech by reviewing the organs involved. Then we
will look at the place of speaking in the communication context and its relevance
to the other elements. Next, we will delineate the skills that constitute speaking.
We will end the topic by looking at how different spoken language is from written
language and the factors that contribute to that difference.
It should be noted that speaking is said to be an overlaid function, that every organ
used in speech has another primary function. Lungs, larynx, tongue, teeth and
lips are all found in other animals, which do not have speech. While it may be
accurate to say that speech is overlaid on the vocal organs, this claim overlooks
the high degree of cerebral specialisation unique to humans. This specialisation of
the higher brain centres is awesome in its complexity, permitting the retention
of grammar rules and the vocabulary of language. However, beyond this, it
permits the fine control and minute synchronisation of the various muscles and
organs brought into play in speaking.
ACTIVITY 6.1
(a) http://www.theisticscience.org/books/worcester/speech.html
(b) https://essentialsoflinguistics.pressbooks.com/chapter/2-2-how-
humans-produce-speech/
(c) http://www.theisticscience.org/books/worcester/speech.html
(d) http://www.ling.lancs.ac.uk/chimp/langac/LECTURE5/
5diagram.htm
It should be noted that receptive here does not mean passive; in both listening
and reading, language users are actively involved in the process of interpreting
and negotiating meanings.
Speaking is very much like driving, in that there are two requirements. A speaker
needs to have knowledge of the language used and the communication situation.
However, more importantly, a speaker needs to have the skill to use this
knowledge. This is what we will look at next.
THINK
What are the knowledge and skills required for a speaker to make a good
presentation, or rather, an interesting conversation? Explain.
SELF-CHECK 6.1
Read the following statements and decide whether they are true or false.
(a) It is possible to know the rules of football but not be much good
at playing.
(c) If you explain to someone just how to ride a bicycle, then he/she
should be able to get on one and ride away.
(d) You can be sure that if a learner omits the third person -s on the
verb, it is because he/she does not know it.
(e) All you need to be a good teacher is to know your subject well.
From the earlier exercise, we can see that even for activities other than using
language, knowledge itself is not sufficient. Knowledge must be used in action.
So, what is the difference between knowledge and skill? The answer is that while
both can be understood and memorised, only a skill can be imitated and practised.
This is shown in the following exercise.
SELF-CHECK 6.2
(a) Which strategy would you use if you thought that the learner:
(b) Which strategy would you use to help in the following situations?
(ii) A child learning to break an egg smashes the shell into little
bits and misses the bowl.
(v) Your new boss says that he is very bad at remembering names
at parties, and that it is getting embarrassing.
However, it became obvious pretty fast that teaching speaking skills using the
activities listed before did not ensure a satisfactory transition to real-life use of
the skills. In simple terms, the motor-perceptive skills cannot be used directly in
real-life conversations. In order to speak and be understood in real life, a language
learner needs to be able to choose and control what he/she wants to say.
This requires a different set of skills, in which knowledge of the language and
motor-perceptive skills are used to communicate. This set of skills is known as
interaction skills.
THINK
How good are your interaction skills? Have you always succeeded in meeting
the objective of a communication? If no, think why.
The ability to master the processing conditions of speech makes it possible for
speakers to deal with a given topic while being listened to. This ability covers the
basic communicative skill of producing speech at a normal speed under pressure
of time. This is generally not a problem in L1 learning. It could, however, prove a
problem for learners who have used the language only in written form, or with
heavy emphasis on accuracy.
We will come back to these topics later and take a closer look at interaction
skills in the next topic. As for now, suffice that you understand that the skill of
speaking encompasses both motor-perceptive skills and interaction skills.
SELF-CHECK 6.3
(b) Form the perfect tense correctly with have followed by the past
participle of the lexical verb.
(d) Have the ability to introduce yourself to someone you have never
met before.
(g) Be able to use the three finite forms of lexical verbs correctly.
(h) Be able to use the telephone to get information about flight times.
THINK
Imagine that you are studying or travelling overseas. How would you
communicate with your loved ones back home? Would you rather speak to
them through the phone, send e-mails or write letters?
Most people find writing quite difficult, even a short assignment or letter. Few of
us, though, are at a loss for words. That letter that did not get beyond the first
paragraph turns easily into an hour-long telephone conversation. Speaking comes
naturally to us, and our thoughts are expressed more easily and clearly in speech
than in writing.
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Speaking and writing are receptive skills; we have already established this fact
earlier. However, there is a significant difference in the way language is organised
in both skills.
Brown and Yule (1983) make the distinction between spoken and written
language. Written language is characterised by well-formed sentences which are
integrated into highly structured paragraphs. Spoken language, on the other hand,
consists of short, fragmentary utterances, in a range of pronunciations (i.e. loosely
organised syntax, the use of non-specific words and phrases, the use of fillers).
This makes spoken language feel less conceptually dense than other types of
prose such as expository prose.
Specifically, the features of spoken language are as listed next (Bygate, 1987,
pp. 12ă13):
(c) The vocabulary is usually much less specific than that of written discourse,
with speakers using words such as „it ‰, „somebody ‰, „they ‰, „you ‰
(meaning people in general) or „thing ‰, which can only be understood
by relating them to the immediate context in which they are used;
ACTIVITY 6.2
According to White (in Long & Richards, 1987), writing is not a natural activity.
All physically and mentally normal people learn to speak a language.
Yet all people have to be taught how to write. This is a crucial difference between
the spoken and written forms of the language. There are other important
differences as well.
Writing, unlike speech, is displaced in time. Indeed, this must be one reason why
writing originally evolved since it makes possible the transmission of a message
from one place to another and from one point of time to another. A written
message can be received, stored and referred back to at any time. It is permanent
in comparison with the ephemeral „here one minute and gone the next‰ character
of spoken language ă even of spoken language that is recorded on tape or disc.
One consequence of the displacement of writing in space and time is that the
writer and reader will be physically separated. If both are simultaneously present
when the message is being sent, there is no reason to write, unless of course the
message is to act as a reminder or an instruction which the receiver can carry away
with him/her. The physical separation of writer and reader puts the writer in a
very different position from that of face-to-face communication.
ACTIVITY 6.3
In spoken interaction, we can normally judge how our message is being received
and comprehended by looking at how our audience is responding. In writing,
this is impossible, except at a remove. Feedback from the reader will always be
delayed, and it will be too late to change or improve the written message by then,
anyway.
Fortunately, the writer has an advantage which the speaker does not normally
enjoy. As writers write, they are able to monitor their own performance and to
make corrections and improvements without the reader being aware of this
process of self-correction. In speech, hesitations and corrections are obvious to
the hearer, whereas in writing, such features need never be revealed to the reader.
So, the writer can spend a lot of time and effort producing a „perfect‰ message,
and it is possible to be far more fluent and accurate in writing than in speaking.
You might have heard of this Malay saying. In simple terms, it is a warning to
watch what we say. Why is this so? The reason lies in the first main difference
between speech and writing ă processing time. Words are normally spoken as
they are being decided and understood.
As speakers, time is our greatest nemesis. Since words are being spoken as they
are being decided, speakers have no time to plan and organise their message, or
control the language they use. Unlike the writer who could, and is expected to,
take his/her time to find the right words and put them together in the right way,
speakers make countless mistakes in grammar and word choice, and end up
repeating themselves. While speaking, we lose our train of thought and forget
what we want to say. While the writer could, and is expected to, produce complex
and compound sentences, the speaker can only generate simple sentences.
As words are being understood as they are uttered, speech is transient. Unlike the
permanence of the written word, allowing for the reader to read and reread, the
listener must pay close attention to the spoken message. Noise, both internal
and external, or a momentÊs distraction may result in the listener missing a part
of the message.
Speech, therefore, is affected and shaped by time constraints and the associated
problems of planning, remembering and producing under pressure.
ACTIVITY 6.4
How can time be more beneficial to the speaker than to the writer?
Discuss in the myINSPIRE forum.
THINK
What do you think is the major difference between speech and writing?
Have you ever begun reading a book and found that you could not even finish the
first page because there were too many unfamiliar words that made you question
your English proficiency? Or have you ever picked up a magazine and found
yourself flipping through the pages for something exciting to read and finding
only the same old stuff? In either case, you probably quit reading and tossed the
book or magazine aside. This is a writerÊs nightmare, but why?
The answer lies in the second main difference between speeches and writing i.e.
speaking is a reciprocal activity. This significantly affects the kinds of decisions
that are likely to be made.
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Similarly, the reader has no way of indicating to the writer that he/she does not
understand something or he/she knows everything that is written and therefore
finds it boring. The reader, therefore, has to either skip the boring section or
read it very carefully for extra information in order to make the whole reading
process successful. In short, both writer and reader need a lot of patience and
imagination to make written communication work.
Speakers, on the other hand, face a different scenario altogether. Most of the time,
our oral communication is face to face. We could see every nod of the head, twitch
of the nose, and tensing of the jaw, just to name a few. We could hear every
„Oh...‰, „But then...‰, „I see...‰ And for many of us, we look out for these verbal
and non-verbal signals to indicate to us that we have just said the wrong word and
we had better change the subject or that we seem to be saying all the right things!
Speakers have the luxury of immediate feedback; they can adjust their messages
according to their listenersÊ reactions to improve understanding. In this way,
the speakerÊs task is facilitated.
SELF-CHECK 6.4
You are talking about yourself in the following situations. With regard
to reciprocity, answer the following questions for each situation.
(b) Are some situations usually easier than others? In what ways?
East ... she is exquisite...‰ We often repeat the same simple structure to
add more adjectives. In this way, spoken language seems more
„loosely‰ packed.
(ii) Ellipsis
Ellipsis or the omission of parts of a sentence is another common
facilitation device. When we speak, we normally do not repeat parts
of the sentence that are already known to our listeners and us. In short,
we do not always speak in complete sentences. However, ellipsis
will only work if the listener has a good idea about what the speaker
is talking about i.e. the background knowledge assumed by the
speaker.
(b) Reformulation
Reformulation is also necessary because memory is limited, but speakers
need to retain the gist of what they have said for future use. As the speech
signal is transient, speakers often rephrase or reformulate what they say.
For this reason, the structure of speech involves short bursts of language,
with focus on the immediate present.
ACTIVITY 6.5
(a) http://www.cal.org/ucle/digests/Speak.htm
(b) https://english.binus.ac.id/2018/10/11/the-four-speaking-
skills/
(c) https://www.englishclub.com/speaking/
We also know there are two types of skill ă motor-perceptive skills and
interaction skills.
Ellipsis Parataxis
Formulaic expressions Processing conditions
Hypotaxis Reciprocity conditions
Interaction processing Reformulation
Interaction skills
Describe the two types of skills necessary to develop listening skills. How do you
create activities to promote these two skills?
State the process of speaking. What are receptive and productive skills? How are
they related to language skills?
INTRODUCTION
Consider what is involved in producing a conversational utterance. Apart from
being grammatical, the utterance must also be appropriate on many levels at
the same time; it must conform to the speakerÊs aim, role relationships between
the interactants, setting, topic, linguistic context, etc. The speaker must also
produce his utterance within severe constraints; he does not know in advance
what will be said to him (and hence what his utterance will be a response to) yet,
if the conversation is not to flag, he must respond extremely quickly. The rapid
formulation of utterances which are simultaneously „right‰ on several levels is
central to the (spoken) communicative skill (Johnson, 1981, p. 11 in Bygate, 1987,
p. 49).
This observation, in a nutshell, is what speaking skills are all about. As you can
see, speaking is not a unitary skill. In fact, it is a lot like learning how to drive a
car.
Like driving, speaking requires the amalgamation of knowledge and skills that
must be coordinated to ensure its successful execution. So, in this topic, we will
look at speaking skills. Specifically, we will look at interaction skills, which are
made up of routines and negotiation skills. These are skills that are utilised by
L1 speakers and must be acquired by or taught to L2 learners so that they can
function in L2. In addition, we will also look at L2 learner oral strategies. These are
skills that L2 learners have and apply to compensate for their lack of proficiency.
These strategies are divided into achievement and reduction strategies. We will
learn all this in this topic. Figure 7.1 gives an overview of the speaking skills.
ACTIVITY 7.1
One of the topics that we have looked at in Topic 6 is the skills involved in
speaking, which include interaction skills. In this topic, we will continue with a
closer examination of interaction skills, which can be divided into routines and
negotiation skills.
In addition to using routines, we have also developed skills to deal with all sorts
of communication problems. These are called negotiation skills and include the
ability to check on specific meanings, to change wording, to correct mistaken
interpretations and to find words for uncommon ideas. Negotiation skills are
common to all kinds of communication. Let us turn to routines first.
7.1.1 Routines
According to Bygate (1987, p. 23), routines can be defined as conventional ways
of presenting information. Because routines are regular, they are predictable
and help ensure clarity in speech. There are two main kinds of routines:
information routines and interaction routines (refer to Figure 7.2).
How can information routines affect a speakerÊs ability? Brown and Yule
(1983) use the narrative as an example. A narrative has a number of essential
features: setting, plot, participants and theme. In order to tell a narrative
successfully, a speaker must be able to give a succinct but accurate account
of each feature. So, the more features a narrative has, the more difficult
it will be to tell the story. Simply put, the more complex the information,
the more difficult it would be to handle, regardless of which structure is used.
Speakers can get the sequence wrong and thus appear brusque, rude or
disorganised. For example, a speaker may start talking without giving an
initial greeting or checking who is on the other end of the line. Proficient
speakers are those that can meet the expectations of their interlocutors
within the bounds of acceptable convention. This does not mean proficient
speakers memorise what needs to be said and when; it just means they
know what expectations and possibilities can be realised in a given situation.
SELF-CHECK 7.1
ACTIVITY 7.2
From your past experiences, can you identify the information and
interaction routines you were involved in?
In dialogue, there is two-way interaction. Each person is both speaker and listener.
In „dialogic communication‰ or „communication as dialogue‰, there is deep
concern for the other person and relationship between the two people. The
objective of dialogue is mutual understanding and empathy. There is respect for
the other person, not because of what this person can do or give, but simply
because this person is a human being and therefore deserves to be treated honestly
and sincerely.
In monologic interaction, you communicate what will advance your own goals,
prove most persuasive, and benefit you. In a dialogic interaction, you respect
the other person enough to allow that person the right to make his/her own
choices without coercion, threat of punishment, fear or social pressure. A dialogic
communicator respects other people enough to believe they can make decisions
that are right for them and implicitly or explicitly lets them know that whatever
choices they make, they will be respected as people. In Carl RogerÊs terms,
the dialogic communicator gives unconditional positive regard to others, whether
one agrees with their choices or not. When we feel that the choices other people
make are illogical or unproductive, we may try to persuade them to do otherwise.
However, we do not withdraw or threaten to withdraw our positive regard for
them as human beings who have the right to make their own choices ă and
mistakes.
Frequently uses negative criticism (e.g. Avoids negative criticism and negative
„I didnÊt like his way of arguing‰) and personal judgments; practices using
negative personal judgments (e.g. „YouÊre positive criticism (e.g. „I liked your
not a good listener, are you?‰). introduction best; it really caught my
attention).
Although our personal experience with our native language belies it,
we continue to believe that understanding between native speakers is
always perfect and that misunderstandings arise only because we are
not native speakers. When we are in a foreign language environment,
we normally assume that our proficiency is low and that native
speakers always produce complete and comprehensible messages.
What is the couple talking about? We definitely have no idea but can
probably make a guess, based on the word „risotto‰, that it has
something to do with food. We would guess that they are talking
about a dinner date or something like that. Should the couple be
more explicit? The answer is „no‰ as the level of explicitness is
sufficient for them. They seemed to understand what they were talking
about. Let us consider another example.
What is not right here? You would probably say that Abu seemed
intentionally vague, which was „funny‰ as he was talking to his friend.
However, unlike the couple earlier, more explicitness is needed in this
exchange.
In order to find the right level, we have to predict, and often guess,
what our listeners know. As speakers, we generally have to assume a
lot of all kinds of knowledge. We only add more if our listeners indicate
that this is necessary. In conclusion, we start by saying something
and work towards sufficiency from there. However, we should bear
in mind that even native speakers can have difficulty in doing this
successfully.
SELF-CHECK 7.2
You have invited some friends to your place for dinner. At one point,
you need a bottle opener but, because many of your guests happen to be
chatting in the kitchen, you cannot get to the drawer where it is kept.
In the following requests, decide which you would direct to your
spouse, a close friend, a friend who has never been to your house and
a foreign visitor.
(a) Could you get me a bottle opener out of the drawer in the table
please?
(b) Do you think you could get me a bottle opener? YouÊll find one
in a drawer which is situated at the other end of the table.
(d) I need something to open this bottle with. Could you get something
for me? If you go to the other end of the table, you will find a
drawer. If you open the drawer, you should find a bottle opener.
Would you mind?
What linguistic features can you use as evidence to support your choice?
When we try to express our thoughts, often the first words that
come to mind are general in nature. Specific words are more
concrete and precise, thus clearing up ambiguity. However, what
can we do to speak more specifically? Specific language is achieved
by:
Speaking Appropriately
Speaking appropriately means choosing language and symbols that
are adapted to the needs, interests, knowledge and attitudes of
listeners in order to avoid language that alienates them. Through
appropriate language, we communicate our respect and acceptance
of those who are different from us. We can develop appropriacy by:
Demonstrating Sensitivity
Language is appropriate when we avoid usages that others
perceive as offensive. Some of the mistakes in language that
we make result from using expressions that are perceived
by others as sexist, racist or otherwise biased; in short, any
language that is perceived as belittling any person or group of
people. Two of the most prevalent linguistic usages that are
insensitive are generic and non-parallel language.
Generic language uses words that apply only to one sex, race or
other group as though they represent everyone. Examples are
the masculine pronoun he and the word part man (as in
chairman) which are used to represent all humans.
Non-parallel language is language in which terms are
changed because of sex, race or other characteristics of the
individual. Since it treats groups of people differently,
non-parallel language is also belittling. Two common forms
of non-parallelism are marking („Jones, a woman doctor, ...‰
as opposed to „Jones, a doctor, ⁄‰) and unnecessary
association (i.e. putting emphasis on one personÊs association
with another when not talking about the other person).
THINK
Ć Indicating friendliness;
Indicating incomprehension;
The ability to handle these skills may be common in our first language,
but in a second language, it requires practice.
For example, when people meet for the first time at parties or on
the bus, one person will introduce a topic for comment by the other
person, responds to the other person if his topic is successful, and if it
is not, proffers another topic of conversation. This process is then
repeated. Such social talk is characterised by constantly changing
topics and a great deal of agreement among the participants. Consider
the following example.
Three friends are talking about a recent trip made by one of them.
SELF-CHECK 7.3
(ii) Turn-taking
This is another way a speaker can control a conversation. He/she needs
to be efficient at getting a turn and good at letting another speaker
have a turn. How can this skill be achieved?
The five skills mentioned earlier may seem very obvious, but all of
us would surely have experienced meeting people who cannot
seem to stop talking, at one extreme, and who cannot say anything
even when given the turn, at another. Either way, the problem
may be quite serious; it might make it very difficult for us to get a
job. It might also cause us to lose friends.
SELF-CHECK 7.4
Maintaining Conversations
One of the essential skills in maintaining conversations is the exchange of
speaker and listener roles or conversational turns.
Conversational Turns
Conversation is defined by the exchange of speaker and listener roles throughout
the interaction. We accomplish this through a wide variety of verbal and
non-verbal cues that signal conversational turn ă the changing/maintaining of
the speaker or listener role during the conversation. Conversational turns can be
viewed in terms of speaker cues and listener cues.
(i) Audibly inhaling to show that the speaker has more to say;
(ii) Continuing a gesture or gestures to show that the thought is not yet
complete;
(iii) Avoiding eye contact with the listener so there is no indication that
the speaking turn is being passed;
(iv) Sustaining the intonation pattern to indicate that more will be said;
and
(v) Vocalising pauses (e.g. „er...‰ „umm...‰). To prevent the listener from
speaking and to show that the speaker is still talking.
Turn-yielding cues tell the listener that the speaker is finished and wishes
to exchange the role of speaker for that of listener. These cues tell the listener
to take over the role of speaker. The types of turn-yielding cues include:
(i) Adding some paralinguistic cue, such as „Eh?‰ at the end of a statement
which asks one of the listeners to assume the role of speaker;
Just as we expect a speaker to yield the role of the speaker, we also expect
the listener to willingly assume the speaking role. Those who do not do
this may be regarded as reticent or unwilling to involve themselves and
take equal responsibility for the conversation. The following is a very
interesting example.
You can indicate your reluctance to assume the role of speaker by using
turn-denying cues. These include:
(i) Saying „I donÊt know‰ in a slur or a brief grunt (signals that you have
nothing to say).
Another way that you could regulate the conversation without assuming
the role of the speaker is through back-channelling cues. These have been
termed as acknowledgement tokens i.e. brief utterances such as „mm-hm‰,
„uh-huh‰ and „yeah‰ (the three most often used tokens), to tell the speaker
you are listening. You can communicate at least four types of information
with back-channelling cues.
(i) You can indicate agreement with the speaker through smiles, nods
or approval; brief comments such as „Right‰, „Exactly‰, and
„Of course‰; or a vocalisation like „hu-hah‰. In a similar manner,
you can indicate your disagreement with the speaker by frowning,
shaking your head or making comments such as, „No‰, „Not true‰ or
„Never‰.
(ii) You can indicate your degree of involvement or boredom with the
speaker. Attentive posture, forward leaning and focused eye contact
tell the speaker that you are involved in the conversation. In attentive
posture, backward leaning and avoidance of eye contact communicate
your lack of involvement.
(iii) You can give the speaker pacing cues. You can, for example, ask the
speaker to slow down by raising your hand near your ear and leaning
forward. Otherwise, you can ask the speaker to speed up by nodding
your head continuously. You can also cue the speaker verbally by
simply asking, „Slow down please. I want to make sure IÊm getting
all this‰. Similarly, you can tell the speaker to speed up by saying
something like „and ...‰ or „Go on, go on ...‰.
(iv) You can ask for clarification. A puzzled expression, perhaps coupled
with a forward lean, will probably indicate to most speakers that
you want some clarification. Similarly, you can ask for clarification
by interjecting an interrogative: Who? When? Where?
Change the topic (e.g. „I must give you this message before I
forget!‰).
Correct the speaker (e.g. „You mean four months, not years,
donÊt you?‰).
ACTIVITY 7.3
Using achievement strategy, the L2 learner will compensate for the language
gap by finding a substitute/alternative, i.e. finding a way to convey his/her
message by guess work, intuition, remembered expression or various kinds of
analogy. Let us consider the following dialogue (Bygate, 1987, p. 43):
Noteworthy here is that the learner uses the two expressions in italics instead of
plus twenty/minus twenty or twenty above/twenty below zero. The learner is
able to think up expressions to convey his message quite successfully, even though
they are not the normal native speaker choice. The learner has improvised a
substitute/alternative i.e. he has used an achievement strategy. In a nutshell,
speakers do not lose or alter any of theirs words when using achievement strategy.
However, speakers may not be able to use achievement strategy all the time.
They may be able to come up with only a partial solution and so fail to
communicate all that they wanted to say. More seriously, they may find no
solution at all. In either case, the result is either the speakers alter their
message to within the scope of their proficiency, or they abandon the original
message and talk about something they can manage. For example, consider the
following extract (Bygate 1987, p. 43):
In the example above, the speaker was supposed to be describing his job in a
laundry. However, he did not have the language to describe what he had to do
with the machine. So, he abandoned his attempt and talked about the controls
instead, something he could do. The speaker reduced his message to something
he was able to say.
These actions are known as reduction strategies. Reduction strategies are popular,
especially with beginners, as they do not have mastery of the whole repertoire
of L2 expressions. In the coming sections, we will take a closer look at both
achievement and reduction strategies.
However, here in this topic, we will only discuss guessing, paraphrasing and
cooperative strategies.
(a) Guessing
Guessing is just as often used in speaking as it is in reading. It means that
a speaker will search for a word which he/she does not know or is not sure
of, using his/her knowledge of the morphology of the language. He/she
hopes to hit on a word or expression that the listener will recognise and
understand. The speaker can do this in a number of ways:
(ii) Borrow an L1 word, without changing it at all and hoping the listener
will recognise the word in the context it is spoken.
(b) Paraphrasing
Apart from guessing, speakers can use the paraphrasing strategy. This
involves the speaker searching his knowledge of the L2 vocabulary for an
alternative to the word or expression he/she needs. He/she can do this in
two ways:
However, the word may be too general. For example, it would sound
odd to compliment your friendÊs Persian cat with „I like your animal‰.
In addition, sometimes the word may not be precise enough. For
example, saying, „ItÊs on the furniture‰ is not much help for someone
looking for his/her car keys. To compensate for this, we may use
another strategy.
(ii) Through circumlocution, where the speaker simply expresses his or her
meaning using more words instead of just the one intended. So, in the
example above, the speaker may add, „TheyÊre on the furniture by the
window‰.
The stairs are also with rugs ă with brown rugs ă and there is also
a telephone ă tÊcolor of this telephone is black.
ACTIVITY 7.4
The non-native speaker avoided the lexical item entirely, not being able to
come up with the word way at that point.
For example, he/she may just say how much he/she enjoyed the delicious
meal rather than try to say how much he/she appreciated the specific dish
whose name and contents he/she cannot pronounce. This is an example of
compensatory strategies.
(i) Circumlocution
Describing or exemplifying the target object of action (e.g. „the thing
you open bottles with ‰ for „corkscrew ‰).
(ii) Approximation
Using an alternative term which expresses the meaning of the target
lexical item as closely as possible (e.g. „ship ‰ for „sailboat ‰).
(viii) Foreignising
Using a L1 word by adjusting it to L2 phonology (i.e. with a L2
pronunciation) and/or morphology (e.g. adding to it a L2 suffix).
(ix) Code-switching
Using a L1 word with L1 pronunciation or a L3 word with L3
pronunciation while speaking in the L2.
Figure 7.10 illustrates how a person deals with what he wants to say about a meal.
L2 learners may also find it difficult to carry on a conversation over a long stretch
(i.e. long turns) at a time. So, they may need to develop a way of showing their
interest and good intentions, without speaking as much as they would like.
Although we know that L1 speakers tend to help L2 learners to speak by asking a
lot of questions, it would be prudent, at some point, for the L2 learners to start
asking the questions themselves in order to get the clarification they need. We will
deal with these issues in the next topic.
We end this topic by looking at what we have covered so far. In the first topic,
among other things, we noted that speaking is a skill and made the distinction
between language knowledge and language skill.
Two things need to be pointed out about the diagram. Firstly, the skills are
dependent on knowledge of the forms or conventions for communicating
specific meanings. However, the use of the skills will increase this knowledge
e.g. new ways of saying things will be stored as routines.
Speaking requires the amalgamation of knowledge and skills. Students need the
knowledge and skills for communication. In your opinion, what are such skills
and how are these acquired?
There are two types of negotiation skills: negotiation of meaning and management
of interaction. Elaborate on the two types and cite examples.
INTRODUCTION
„Hey Mei Ling, IÊm glad youÊre back. Where have you been?‰ „Nowhere.‰
What do you mean nowhere? You must have been somewhere!‰ Well, no Mom,
not really. I mean we all went over to SheilaÊs and just sat around.‰
„No I donÊt know. What happened while you were sitting around?‰ „We just
sat around and talked.‰
„About what?‰
„Mei Ling, youÊve been gone more than four hours! What did you guys talk
about?‰
„I really canÊt remember much. Sheila told us about the new movie she saw
and Anna talked about her cousinÊs wedding that she went to. And, oh yeah,
Cecilia told us that the Wongs are getting a divorce and that Mandy,
who should have been there with us, is going to have to live with her Dad.
So, we discussed about how well she would be able to deal with that and ⁄.‰
„Whoa! That doesnÊt sound like Âthis and that.Ê It sounds like you were talking
about some serious things!‰
When conversations go well, they are interesting, informative, stimulating and just
plain good fun. Yet, many conversations, like the one between Mei Ling and
her mother, are like pulling teeth. By understanding how a conversation works,
and how its effectiveness and value depend on the willingness of participants to
share and use conversational skills, we can increase the informative value and
enjoyment of participating in one.
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178 TOPIC 8 SPEAKING IN DIFFERENT CONTEXTS
When people find conversation satisfying, they tend to seek out each other for
additional conversations. For example, if we meet someone at a party or seminar
and have a stimulating conversation about politics or English as a second
language, we are likely to look forward to having more conversations with this
particular individual.
ACTIVITY 8.1
Recall a conversation that you had that was especially stimulating and
list the reasons you feel it was so.
THINK
All conversations have identifiable openings, bodies and conclusions. The degree
of formality for each part will vary depending on the following factors:
Sheila: (IÊm so bad at this kind of thing. I never know what to say.
I hope I donÊt say something stupid.) Hi. Umm, uh, itÊs
really raining cats and dogs outside, isnÊt it? (Oh my God!
I canÊt believe I said „cats and dogs‰. HeÊll think IÊm a
complete idiot.)
Bob (smiles): Yes. It never rains like this where I come from. (She seems
nice. I wonder if sheÊs new here too.)
Sheila: Well, yes, it rains a lot here, especially in the rainy season.
(I have no idea what to say next! All I want is to get out of
here! ) Umm⁄ (long pause), I have to go. Bye.
Bob: Bye. (What happened? )
(i) Self-references
These say something about you. They may be of the name rank and
serial number type, such as „My name is Sheila. IÊm from Kuala
Lumpur.‰ Other types include comments, such as „IÊm worried about
this class‰ or „I took Ms YongÊs class last semester; she was excellent.‰
(ii) Innocuous openers are highly ambiguous as to whether they are simple
comments that might be made to just anyone or whether they are in fact
openers designed to initiate an extended encounter. Examples include
„What do you think of the band?‰, „I havenÊt been here before‰
and „Could you show me how to work this photocopy machine?‰
(iii) Direct openers clearly demonstrate the speakerÊs interest in meeting the
other person. Examples include: „IÊm a little embarrassed about this but
IÊd like to meet you.‰and „Would you like to join me for dinner?‰
Here are some interesting pointers about opening lines that the singles
among you may find helpful. According to Kleinke (1986), the opening lines
most preferred by men and women are direct or innocuous. The least
preferred lines are cute-flippant; women dislike these openers even more
than men do.
Women prefer men to use openers that are relatively modest and to avoid
coming on too strong. Women generally underestimate how much men like
direct openers.
All questions are not equal. The perfect conversational question is one that
is interesting and involving to the other participant without seeming
intrusive. In general, open-ended rather than close-ended questions are
preferred. This is because close-ended questions ask the participant to
choose a specific response.
They usually ask for a one-word or two-word answer, for example, „Where
are you from?‰ „Do you like it here?‰ „How many miles do you jog?‰
(i) It signals inaccessibility by letting the other person know that the
conversation is nearing an end;
(ii) Directly state the desire to end the conversation and get on with other
things e.g. „IÊd like to continue this interesting discussion, but I really
have to run. IÊll see you around.‰
(iii) Refer to future interaction e.g. „Why donÊt we get together sometime
next week and continue this discussion?‰
(iv) State that you enjoyed the interaction e.g. „I really enjoyed talking to
you.‰
With any of the above closings, it should be clear to your listener that you are
attempting to end the conversation. You will have to resort to more direct methods
if your listener does not take these subtle hints or does not seem to realise that
both the speaker and listener are responsible for the interaction and for bringing
it to a satisfactory close. Finally, whether or not the relationship continues in
the future, a good closing allows both parties to leave feeling good about
themselves and their communication.
SELF-CHECK 8.1
ACTIVITY 8.2
SELF-CHECK 8.2
Sheila: IÊm glad I ran into you. I need to check something with you.
Azman: Can we do this quickly? IÊve really got to get cracking on the
speech IÊm doing for class.
Sheila: Oh, this will just take a minute. If I remember right, you said
that youÊd been to the Steakhouse for dinner with Tony. IÊd
like to take Bob there to celebrate his birthday, but I wanted
to know whether weÊd really feel comfortable there.
Azman: Sure. ItÊs pretty elegant, but the prices arenÊt bad and the
atmosphere is really cosy.
Sheila: Thanks, Azman. I wanted to ask you Âcause I know you like
to eat out when you can.
Azman: No problem. Gotta run. Talk to you later ⁄ and let me know
how Bob liked it.
ACTIVITY 8.3
Think of the instances that you have made a call outside your home
using your handphone. How do your conversations differ from those
you have using your house phone? Are they longer or shorter? More
focused on pragmatic problem considerations than on casual social
exchanges? Why do you think this is true? Share your experience in
the myINSPIRE forum.
ACTIVITY 8.4
Divide the class into few groups (three to four persons in each group).
You are discussing with your family about where to go for the next
school holidays. Act out this scenario. Make the discussion follow the
structure of a problem-consideration conversation.
For example, answering „fine‰ to a question about how you liked your
holiday would hardly keep the conversation going. On the other hand,
giving a 20-minute explanation to the same question would also be highly
inappropriate.
For example, your friends are in the midst of a lively discussion about the
tsunami that struck Aceh when you suddenly ask whether they are going to
Juara Muzik final. You are violating the relevancy maxim.
In addition to the four maxims identified by Grice, Bach and Harnish (1979)
proposed two additional maxims. These are also shown in Figure 8.4.
You can refer to Figure 8.4 for all the maxims of the cooperative principle.
ACTIVITY 8.5
Do you follow the maxims when you teach in class? Why? Does teaching
automatically embrace these maxims? Share your experiences and
opinions with your coursemates in myINSPIRE.
(i) Keep up to date on current events and issues by reading the daily
newspaper or listening to the news on the television and radio; and
(ii) Increase your cultural IQ by attending the theatre and concerts, as well
as going to movies, attending cultural festivals of different ethnic
backgrounds, visiting museums and historical sites, and reading a
variety of novels, including the classics.
Crediting is easy as you just include the name of the person or other
source from where you got the idea.
Positive face needs are the desire to be appreciated and approved, liked
and honoured. Negative face needs are the desire to be free from imposition
or intrusion. In order to meet peopleÊs positive face needs, we make
statements that show concern, compliment or use respectful forms of
address. Whereas, to meet peopleÊs negative face needs, we make statements
that acknowledge when we are imposing or intruding upon another.
(i) How well people know each other and their relative status;
(ii) The power that the hearer has over the speaker; and
(i) Authenticity
Demonstrated by the direct, honest, straightforward communication of
all information and feelings that are relevant and legitimate to the
subject at hand. To sit in a discussion, disagreeing with what is being
said but saying nothing, is inauthentic.
(ii) Empathy
Demonstrated by comments that show you understand another
personÊs point of view. We will take a closer look at this later.
(iii) Confirmation
Demonstrated through non-possessive expressions of warmth for
others that affirm them as unique persons, without necessarily
approving of their behaviours or views.
(iv) Presentness
Demonstrated by becoming fully involved with the other person
through taking time, avoiding distractions, and being responsive.
The most obvious way of showing this is through active listening.
(v) Equality
Demonstrated by treating conversational partners as peers, regardless
of status differences.
(vi) Supportiveness
Demonstrated by encouraging other participants to communicate by
praising their worthwhile efforts.
ACTIVITY 8.6
Apparently, we are a global village. What has this to do with speaking? Nothing
much except for the fact that teachers are finding themselves increasingly faced
with the task of teaching students from various ethnic backgrounds. It is therefore
cogent that we take a look at intercultural communication.
Note that intercultural communication does not always occur when people from
different cultures interact. The cultural backgrounds, perceptions and symbol
systems of the participants must have a significant impact on the exchange before
we can say that culture has made a difference.
For our purposes, we will not be looking at the numerous aspects of intercultural
communication. We will focus on just two areas which are central to the link
between language and culture:
Low-context High-context
Table 8.2 state the differences between the two according to Verderber and
Verderber (2004):
Low-context High-context
Low-context culture conversations are High-context culture conversations are
likely to include greater use of likely to see greater use of qualifiers
categorical words such as certainly, such as maybe, perhaps and probably.
absolutely and positively.
Low-context cultures strictly adhere to In high-context cultures, however,
the relevancy maxim by valuing responses are likely to be more
relevant comments that are perceived indirect, ambiguous and less relevant
by listeners to be directly to the point. because listeners rely more on non-
verbal cues to help them understand
the speakerÊs intentions.
In low-context cultures, the quality Effective conversationalists in high-
maxim is exemplified in truth telling; context cultures, however, define
people are expected to verbally quality as maintaining harmony and
communicate their actual feelings so will send messages that mask their
about things regardless of how this true feelings.
affects others.
In low-context cultures, periods of In high-context cultures, silences in
silence are perceived as uncomfortable conversation are often meaningful.
since when no one is speaking little When three or four people sit together
information is being shared. and no one talks, the silence may
indicate truthfulness, disapproval,
embarrassment or disagreement.
For example, anxiety about speaking out in public is significantly higher among
Chinese, Japanese and Koreans than among Americans and Australians. However,
shyness is not an issue here. In fact, just the opposite is true. In these societies,
reticence or being reserved is valued. When you stick out, it is understandable
that you feel apprehensive. A self-concept that includes assertiveness might
make a Westerner feel proud, but in much of Asia, it would more likely be cause
for shame.
ACTIVITY 8.7
Although there are similarities between the worldÊs many languages, they also
differ in important aspects that affect the way their speakers communicate with
one another and with speakers of other tongues. These factors include:
This sounds a lot like the situation we face in Malaysia with English! In either
case, the impact of language on the self-concept is powerful.
Even the names a culture uses to identify its members reflect its values and
shape the way its members relate to one another. When asked to identify
themselves, those of the individualist culture (Americans, Canadians,
Australians and Brits) would probably respond by giving their first name,
surname, street, town and country. As for many Asians, it is the other way
around. If you ask Hindus for their identity, they will give you their caste
and village and then their name. This is because the Sanskrit formula for
identifying oneself begins with lineage and goes on to state family and house
and ends with oneÊs personal name. This is a collectivist orientation.
ACTIVITY 8.8
There are three important types of cultural differences in verbal style. These
are illustrated in Table 8.4.
Type Description
ACTIVITY 8.9
These contexts were chosen because they represent, for the most part, the
environments within which we communicate every day.
Abrupt Maxims
Authenticity Norms
Casual Pragmatic
Cooperative Worldview
Empathy
What exactly is a conversation? What key features distinguish it from other forms
of communication? Do conversations have basic patterns? Elaborate.
What is the Cooperative Principle as defined by Grice (1975)? What did Holtgraves
(2002) say about this principle?
INTRODUCTION
Who are you? Your answer may include any number of descriptions: I am
Malaysian. I am old. I am a student. I am male/female. I am a son/daughter.
I am also a father/mother. And so on.
As you think of the different ways you have defined yourself, you will realise that
the self is not something that is fixed at one point in life and then remains stable.
Thus, your definition about yourself will not stop at one point. Instead, it is a
process that evolves throughout our lives. One of the most important influences
that shape the self is communication with others. The development of the self
is a cyclical process of one aspect feeding into another, that is, communication
brings about the birth of the self, which in turn is changed by it, and this feeds
into the creation of a new self and so on repeatedly.
Why are we are focusing on the self? For the simple reason that how we
communicate, i.e. listen and speak, is dictated by who we think we are. This is
reflected most clearly in our productive skill ă speaking ă more so than in listening.
For example, when we are confident, we speak clearly and fluently. Discovering
and understanding oneself is therefore fundamental in developing and improving
our speaking skills.
To that end, we will look at important aspects of the topic such as how we establish
personal identities, the notion of self-concept and how self-disclosure can help
foster the self-concept. Since most of us are teachers, with a lot of influence on
our students, we will look at how interpersonal influence is established. Lastly,
also due to our jobs that require us to persuade our students most of the time,
we will focus on strategies of persuasion and requests that we can employ.
These words are powerful indeed. Now, consider the following exchange: „DonÊt
call me that! My name is Azman‰, screams an irritated child, responding to his
brotherÊs attempts to dub him with a nickname.
The act of naming carries great social significance for us. As we learn to categorise
the world around us, we also learn our place within it. Our name usually sets us
apart from other people and is one of the most significant ways that we remind
ourselves of our uniqueness ă of our individuality.
(a) Conform to social expectations and present ourselves as one of the group; or
(b) Deviate and be seen as an individual who stands apart from the crowd.
To be fully human means to develop and express the self in terms of both social
and personal self-identities. In this topic, we will explore the factors that foster
independence and individuality, or personal identity.
ACTIVITY 9.1
9.1.1 Self-concepts
The following is a personal comment made by a student named Sheila.
I now see that I labelled myself because of other peopleÊs perspectives. Since I
was in primary school, my grandmother said I was fat and that I would never
lose weight. Well, you can imagine what this did to my self- esteem. I felt there
was nothing I could do about being fat. At one point I weighed 181 pounds,
pretty heavy for a girl whoÊs five feet five inches tall. Then I got to know some
other people who were overweight and we convinced ourselves to shape up.
I lost 50 pounds but I still thought of myself as fat. That only started to change
lately as friends and my family comment on how slim I am. Guess IÊm still
seeing myself through other peopleÊs eyes.
As SheilaÊs comment shows, how others define us affects how we see ourselves.
Yet not all others affect us equally. Our self-concept is shaped through
communication with three kinds of people, as shown in Figure 9.1.
Family members also offer direct definitions of our racial and ethnic
identities. In cultures with a majority race, members of minority races
often make special effort to impart racial identity to children. For
example, the ethnic training in many African American familiesÊ
stresses both positive identification with black heritage and awareness
of prejudice from non-blacks.
ACTIVITY 9.2
Most psychologists believe that the basic identity scripts of our lives are
formed very early, probably by age five. This means fundamental
understanding of who we are and how we are supposed to live are set
when we have almost no control. Adults hold the power, and children
unconsciously internalise the scripts that others write. As adults,
however, we have the capacity to review the identity scripts that
were given to us and to challenge and change those that do not fit
the selves we now choose to be.
ACTIVITY 9.3
A final note: The attachment style we learned in our first close relationship
tends to persist. However, studies show that they can change through
the influence of romantic partners later in life.
ACTIVITY 9.4
One girl says: „This new hair style makes you look younger‰.
Another girl with short hair, says: „Really?⁄⁄thank you!‰ (in her head:
I look young!)
(i) Reflected appraisal is the way we reflect the appraisals that others
make of us. This concept is known as the „looking glass self‰. This
means that if others communicate that they think we are smart, we are
likely to reflect that appraisal in how we act and think about ourselves.
Peers also use reflected appraisals to let us know when our behaviours
are not acceptable. This is one of the primary ways we learn social
norms.
(i) Firstly, they surface in interactions with others who have internalised
cultural values and pass them to us. In the course of conversation,
we learn how society regards our sex, race, and class and what society
values in personal identity.
(i) Self-estimation based on obsolete facts (i.e. you used to be good but not
any more); and
It is all right to proclaim that you are miserable if you have failed to do well
on a project but it is boastful to express your pride in a job well done. It is
fine to remark that you feel unattractive but it is conceited to say that you
think you look good. Do these statements sound very familiar?
Self-esteem has a powerful effect on the way we relate to others. Table 9.1
summarises some important differences between communicators with
positive and negative self-esteem. You could easily see these characteristics
in your students.
Evaluate their own performance more Evaluate their own performance less
favourably. favourably.
Perform well when being watched; are Perform poorly when being watched;
not afraid of othersÊ reactions. are sensitive to possible negative
reactions.
Work harder for people who demand Work harder for undemanding, less
high standards of performance. critical people.
Are inclined to feel comfortable with Feel threatened by people they view as
others they view as superior in some superior in some way.
way.
Once the self-concept is firmly rooted, only a powerful force can change it.
We will only change our self-concepts when at least these four requirements
are met:
(ii) The appraisal must be seen as highly personal. The more the other
person seems to know about us and adapts what is being said to fit us,
the more likely we are to accept judgments from this person;
(iv) Appraisals that are consistent and numerous are more persuasive than
those that contradict usual appraisal or those that occur only once.
ACTIVITY 9.5
How have you changed in the last 12 months? Why did you change?
Do you see yourself as a better communicator now? Share your answers
in the myINSPIRE forum.
9.1.3 Self-disclosure
Almost all effective communication requires some degree of self-disclosure. In the
broadest sense, self-disclosure means divulging biographical data, personal ideas
and feelings. Statements such as „I was born in Muar‰ reveal biographical
information ă facts about you as an individual. Usually, biographical disclosures
are the easiest to make, for they are, in a manner of speaking, a matter of public
information. By contrast, statements such as „I donÊt think the National Service
programme is beneficial for our youth‰ disclose personal ideas and reveal what
and how you think. Whereas, statements such as „I get scared whenever I have to
make a speech‰ disclose feelings. In terms of accuracy in understanding of self and
others, it is this last sense in which most people think of self-disclosure ă that is
revealing personal information that the other person does not know.
As a teacher, you are constantly in contact with your students and engage in
interpersonal relationships with them. This necessitates a certain amount of
self-disclosure, especially if you are to gain their trust and cooperation. If you are
able to self-disclose in the right way, you can be a model for your students.
Through such an exercise, a more open and conducive classroom atmosphere can
be established, one in which your studentsÊ affective filter is lowered and actual
learning can be achieved.
We need to bear in mind that self-disclosure is a special kind of sharing that is not
appropriate for every situation. Let us take a look at some guidelines that can
help you recognise how to express yourself in a way that is rewarding for you
and others involved.
Revealing personal thoughts and feelings can be especially risky on the job.
The politics of the workplace sometimes require communicators to keep
feelings to themselves in order to accomplish both personal and
organisational goals. For example, you might find the attitude of the
other teachers towards English offensive but decide to bite your tongue
rather than risk your job or lose goodwill for the school.
For example, you may need to disclose more information about yourself
during the first few weeks of school so that your students will know what
you expect out of your classes.
ACTIVITY 9.6
THINK
Stop for a minute and think of a time you tried to get someone to do something
for you. Were you successful? Did you pay any attention to thinking about
how you would proceed? Did you think about how the person you were talking
to might react?
As Azman and Sheila were sitting at the table eating their breakfast, Azman
looked at Sheila and said, „Gimme the sports section‰.
„Man, ÂGimme the sports sectionÊ doesnÊt sound like a loving brother‰.
„Come on, you know youÊre my sister and I love you. But I want the sports
section‰.
„ThatÊs the point. You want something but youÊre not sounding very
considerate in the way youÊre trying to get it. Why donÊt you try this, ÂLovely
sister, would you please pass me the sports section?ʉ
Azman paused for a second, and then said, „My lovely sister, would you please
pass me the sports section?‰
A few minutes later, Azman looked up from his paper and said, „Gimme the
bread‰.
This exchange may be all too familiar to you, portraying a style that is all too
common, even among people who say they care about each other. Thus, what is
interpersonal influence?
Nowhere is this more apt than in the teacher-student relationship you participate
in daily. Therefore, understanding influence processes and learning how to use
influence ethically are fundamental to effectiveness in your teaching.
Historically, the formal study of influence was called persuasion. Thinkers and
scholars across human history, including the Greek philosopher Socrates, Plato
and Aristotle and the Roman orator Cicero, studied and wrote about persuasion.
Over the years, their ideas have been elaborated upon and refined. Today, the
study of influence includes not only general strategies for persuasion, but also
compliance gaining and assertiveness.
Interpersonal power is a potential that one person has for changing the
attitudes, beliefs and behaviours of another person. Research has continued
to support the claim that people who are perceived as more expert, attractive,
trustworthy and credible are likely to be persuasive.
French and Raven (1968) proposed that people who have strong power bases
will be effective in influencing others, for example, parents and teachers. They
identified five major sources of power in relationships as shown in Figure 9.4.
Whether you actually try to coerce another person is not important. What is
important is the other personÊs awareness that the potential is there. Thus,
when we recognise that a person can harm us, we may accept their influence.
So, when the rewards you control are of great value to others, if they believe
that you will not bestow the rewards unless they comply with your influence
attempt, and if they do not have other sources for this reward, then there is
a high probability that if you try to influence them, they will comply because
of the reward power you have, and vice-versa.
We believe people who appear to know more than we do. In class, you can
influence the way your students think because you usually have more
subject specific knowledge and expertise than they do. Similarly, when our
car mechanic tells us that we need new brakes, we are persuaded because
not many of us know much about auto mechanics.
If your best friend raves about a movie, you are likely to go and see it.
The concept of peer pressure acknowledges the potency of referent power
for adolescents. Corporations hire celebrities to endorse products, knowing
that they can draw on the referent power of the star in selling their products.
Thus, we Âactivate ourselves with Coway because Siti Nurhaliza very nicely
prompts us to do so. Toyota hired Britney Spears to „want‰ its new VIOS
not because she has reward, coercive, legitimate or expert power, but because
of her referent power.
We are also attracted to those whom we find agreeable. Since we tend to like
those who pay attention to us and treat us well, improving your
interpersonal communication skills, especially your listening, supporting
and conversational skills, is likely to increase your referent power.
SELF-CHECK 9.1
Statements such as the above suggest that a person should behave a certain
way because of ties based on expertise, trustworthiness or personality. Other
examples are based on showing similarity of values: „Since weÊre in this
together, why donÊt we join forces?‰, „You and I have always looked at
things the same way, so itÊs only logical that we do this together‰. Empathy-
based strategies are primarily grounded in credibility and may use emotional
appeal.
So, which strategy should you choose? Your choice should depend on how
effective a particular strategy will be in a given situation. The better you are at
assessing a situation, the more likely you are to choose the most effective strategy.
Not all attempts to influence will be successful. Sometimes, even when we have
stated well-reasoned, credible positions that should have appealed to the other
personÊs emotions, he/she still resists our influence. Too often when someone
resists, our tendency is to continue to use the techniques we used in the first place.
This only adds to a personÊs resistance. Instead of redoubling our persuasive
efforts, one of the easiest ways of dealing with resistance is to ask people to
elaborate on their views. By using effective listening skills, you will hear their
objections. Then, you will be able to answer the objections with additional
information or appeals.
ACTIVITY 9.7
9.2.3 Assertiveness
Many people who understand both persuasion and compliance gaining remain
ineffective in exerting influence in their interactions because they are not assertive.
We see many such cases with teacher trainees or newly graduated teachers.
What is assertiveness?
For example, when Sheila unloads the new colour TV set she purchased at a
local department store, she notices a deep scratch on the left side. Sheila is
upset about the scratch but keeps the TV set without trying to get the store
to replace it. Sheila is behaving passively.
For example, suppose after discovering the scratch on her new TV set, Sheila
storms back to the store, confronts the first clerk she finds, and in a loud voice
demands her money back while accusing the clerk of being a racist for
intentionally selling her damaged merchandise. Such aggressive behaviour
may or may not be successful in getting the damaged TV set replaced, but it
would certainly damage her relationship with the clerk. Most receivers of
aggressive messages, regardless of the relationship, are likely to feel hurt
by them. While Sheila may not care about her relationship with the store
clerk, her continual aggressive behaviour will likely damage other more
intimate relationships.
For example, Sheila feels angry about the damaged TV set. However, instead
of either doing nothing and living with it or verbally assaulting the clerk,
Sheila might choose to call the clerk from whom she purchased the set so
she can describe the condition of the TV set, her feelings on discovering
the scratch and what she would like to see happen now ă she might ask how
to return the damaged set and get a new one or that the store send out a
replacement.
ItÊs important to recognise that you will not always achieve your goals by being
assertive. Remember, our behaviour teaches people how to treat us. When we are
passive ă when we have taught people that they can ignore our feelings ă they will.
When we are aggressive, we teach people to respond in kind. By contrast, when
we are assertive, we can influence others to treat us as we prefer to be treated.
ACTIVITY 9.8
Due to circumstances and pressure, there are times when we are forced
into being aggressive. Can you share your experience of such nature?
Do you have any regrets in behaving so? Why?
ACTIVITY 9.9
Indicate the degree to which each item is true or false for you.
Scoring:
Add items 10, 11 and 12 : This is your social self-esteem score. Scores
in any category between 12 and 15 indicate
relatively high self-esteem; scores between
3 and 6 indicate relatively low self-esteem;
and scores from 7 through 11 indicate
moderate self-esteem. Is your self-esteem
higher than in some areas than others? How
are differences in your score reflected in
how you interact with others?
In this topic, we have looked at two important features of the self that
contribute towards effective communication:
Self-concept, our self-identity, is the idea or mental image that we have about
our skills, abilities, knowledge, competencies and personality.
It has been said that good communicators arise out of oneÊs interaction with
family members, peers and society as a whole. State the criteria that we need to
have in order to produce positive self-esteem.
Are you a changed person now compared to ten years ago? Why did you change?
Do you see yourself as a better communicator now?
INTRODUCTION
We have been given two ears but a single mouth in order that we may hear
more and talk less.
(Zeno of Citium)
Students listen to the equivalent of a book a day; talk the equivalent of a book
a week; read the equivalent of a book a month; and write the equivalent of
a book a year.
(Buckley, 1992, p. 622)
We have already established the primacy of listening among the other language
skills in Topic 1. Earlier transcripts reflect on the importance of listening skill in
our daily life. In this last topic, we come back to the listening skill. However, unlike
in Topic 1 where we focused on micro skills, in this topic, we will look at the macro
skills of listening. In short, we will look at listening in the wider context of
communication. As teachers, we engage both micro and macro listening skills in
our daily routines of teaching and learning.
To give a better explication of the macro skills, we will specifically look at what
listening entails from the perspective of communication; identify the myths or
misconceptions of listening and describe poor listening habits. Then, we will focus
on a type of listening that is most relevant and felt to be most beneficial to
teachers ă listening to support others ă and delineate its types.
Before you go on, complete the questionnaire below which will give you an idea
about your listening behaviour.
EXERCISE 10.1
10. When people use words that I find offensive, I stop listening and start
preparing responses.
However, this is not so with listening. Many times, we hear but do not listen.
Sometimes, we deliberately do not listen. There are also cases when we honestly
believe we are listening although we are merely hearing. For example, recall times
when you think, „youÊve heard it all before.‰ ItÊs likely that in these situations, you
might claim you were listening when in fact you had closed your mind. You may
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also remember instances when you were able to answer questions such as,
„Are you listening? What did I just say?‰ Of course, the ability to repeat a
statement does not guarantee understanding. It only means that you have heard
the message and could repeat it from short-term storage.
Another misconception is that all listeners receive and understand the same
message. We know this is not true. Physiological factors, social roles, cultural
background, personal interests and needs all shape and distort the raw data we
hear into very different messages. We bring our personal perspective and
experience with us into every interaction, and they affect the way we make sense
of othersÊ words and actions. Our listening is always coloured and limited by our
unique view of the world. Therefore, perhaps we have to accept the fact that
we can never completely understand another person. Nevertheless, we could
enhance understanding with effective listening.
(e) Noise
Our physical and mental worlds often present distractions that make it
hard for us to pay attention to others. The sounds in the environment
surrounding us as well as those in our heads interfere with our ability to hear
well. For example, research has supported the common sense suspicion that
background noise from a TV set reduces the ability of a person to understand
messages. Fatigue or other forms of discomfort can also distract us from
paying attention to a speaker.
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Before we move to the next subtopic, note that intensive listening is not always
desirable, even when circumstances permit. Given the number of messages we are
exposed to, it is impractical to expect yourself to listen well 100 percent of the time.
Many of the messages we received are not even worthwhile: long-winded stories,
radio chatter or remarks we have heard countless time before. Consequently,
non-listening behaviours are often reasonable. Our main concern is that we have
the ability to be an accurate receiver when it really does matter, such as when
we are teaching.
Now, let us look at some of our bad habits that get in the way of effective listening.
ACTIVITY 10.1
(a) Pseudo-listening
Pseudo-listening is pretending to listen; when we pseudo-listen, we appear
to be attentive, but our minds are really elsewhere. Good pseudo-listeners
give the appearance of being attentive. They look you in the eye, nod and
smile at the right times, and even answer you occasionally. Pseudo-listeners
use a polite façade to mask thoughts that have nothing to do with what the
speaker is saying.
ACTIVITY 10.2
THINK
Monopolisers regularly employ two tactics to take the stage and hold it:
Monopolising is costly not only to those who are neglected but also to the
monopolisers. A person who dominates communication has much less
opportunity to learn from others than a person who listens to what others
think and feel. We already know what we think and feel, so there is little
we can learn from hearing ourselves!
ACTIVITY 10.3
ACTIVITY 10.4
Have you ever listened defensively? Recall your actions and explain
how you felt in the myINSPIRE forum.
(e) Ambushing
Ambushing is listening very carefully for the purpose of attacking a speaker.
An ambusher will listen carefully to you, but only because he/she is
collecting information that will be used to attack what you have to say.
A common example of ambushing is public debates between political
candidates. There is no effort to understand the otherÊs meaning and no
interest in genuine dialogue. Needless to say, this type of listening will
only foster defensiveness from the speaker.
Listening responses to support others may range from reflective feedback that
invites the speaker to talk without concern of evaluation to more directive
responses that evaluate the speakerÊs messages. These responses are illustrated
in Figure 10.3.
We will discuss these types of listening responses in greater detail in the next
subtopics.
Case 1
Ask yourself: When was the last time you talked, uninterrupted, to an attentive
partner for more than a few minutes? How would you like the chance to
develop your ideas without pausing for another personÊs comments?
Case 2
What do you do when you donÊt want to encourage a speaker to keep talking?
For example, recall times when a boss or lecturer droned on and on when you
needed to leave for an appointment or instances when a friend retold the story
of a love affair gone badly for what seemed like the tenth time. In situations
like these, a verbal response would only encourage the speaker to continue ă
precisely the opposite reaction you would be seeking.
Case 3
Imagine that one of your friends just had something bad happen ă perhaps a
relationship break-up or a low exam grade. The only reason you know about
the bad news is because someone else told you. Would you bring up the subject
to your friend and express regret? Would you offer support or advice?
The best response in these cases may be silent listening ă staying attentive and
non-verbally responsive without offering any verbal feedback.
Silent listening is not just an avoidance strategy. It can be the right approach when
you are open to the other personÊs ideas but your interjections would not be
appropriate. If you are part of a large audience listening to a lecture, asking
questions and offering comments would probably be disruptive. Also, butting in
to ask for clarification when a friend tells you a joke would probably spoil
his/her rhythm.
According to research, expressing regret and offering help might not be what your
troubled friend really wants or needs (Clark & Delia, 1997). Although some
respondents said they would want and expect their friend to bring up the subject,
the majority reported they would rather their friend not mention the troubling
situation.
The conclusions suggest there is value in being a silent listener around a troubled
friend, or at most asking non-committal questions such as, „HowÊs it going?‰.
If and when your friend feels like talking is the best ă and perhaps the only ă time
to use the other listening responses discussed in this subtopic.
10.2.2 Questioning
In this subtopic, we will look into the reasons for questioning and counterfeit
questions.
Adding a tag such as „did you?‰ or „isnÊt that right?‰ to the end of a
question can be a tip-off that the asker is looking for agreement, not
information. While some listeners use these tags to confirm and
facilitate understanding, others may use them to coerce agreement.
Questions such as, „You said youÊd call at 8, but you forgot, didnÊt
you?‰and „DonÊt you think heÊs just marvellous?‰ lead or direct
others towards a desired response.
Since they are strategic rather than spontaneous, these questions are
likely to provoke defensiveness. The best answer to questions with
hidden agendas is a cautious „It depends‰ or „Let me hear what you
have in mind before I answer‰.
ACTIVITY 10.5
10.2.3 Paraphrasing
Consider the following simple exchange.
Z: So, you want to chat next week to make plans for Saturday?
A: No, what I meant is that we should check our calendars now to see if
weÊre free to go to the concert on Sunday.
Paraphrasing is feedback that restates, in your own words, the message you
thought the speaker sent. In effective paraphrasing, you restate what you think
the speaker has said in your own words as a way of checking the meaning you
have assigned to the message.
In the earlier exchange, Z learned that A wanted to make plans now, not later,
and that „weekend‰ meant Sunday, not Saturday. Note that Z rephrased rather
than repeated the message.
Paraphrasing can sometimes be a difficult skill to master. Among the ways that
you can do so are shown in Figure 10.6.
Paraphrase: „Let me see if IÊve got this right. YouÊre mad because you
think bilingual education sounds good, but it doesnÊt work?‰
(b) Offer an Example of What You Think the Speaker is Talking About
When the speaker makes an abstract statement, you may suggest a specific
example to see if your understanding is accurate.
Speaker: „Lee is such a jerk. I canÊt believe the way he acted last night‰.
(a) Paraphrasing allows you to find out if the message received is the message
the sender intended.
(b) Paraphrasing, much like questioning, often draws out further information
from the speaker. In fact, a good paraphrase often ends with a question, such
as „Is that what you meant?‰
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(c) Paraphrasing is an ideal way to take the heat out of intense discussions.
When conversations begin to „boil‰, it is because the participants involved
believe they are not being heard. Rather than escalating the conflict, try
paraphrasing what the other person says, „Ok, let me be sure I understand
you. It sounds like youÊre concerned about...‰
„WeÊve agreed that weÊll take a few more days to think about our choices
and make our decision by Thursday ă right?‰ might be an effective way to
conclude a business lunch. A questioning tone should be used because a
listener wants to be sure that meaning has been shared.
On the personal level, separating facts from personal reaction may help
clarify matters. For example, „So your main problem is that my friends take
up all the parking spaces in front of your apartment. Is that it?‰. However,
this may be difficult to accomplish, especially when you are under attack.
SELF-CHECK 10.1
„Azman has hardly been home all week ă heÊs been so busy with work.
He rushes in just long enough to eat dinner, and then he buries himself
at his desk until bedtime. Then he tells me today that heÊs going fishing
Saturday with his buddies. I guess men are just like that ă job first,
play second, family third.‰
There are two things to take note of. Firstly, you do not need to paraphrase
the entire message, which may make it too long. In many cases, we may just
want to reflect on one or two think-feel-want components. The key is giving
feedback that is appropriate for the situation and offering it in a way that
assists the listening process. Secondly, the act of paraphrasing may feel awkward
because we are not familiar with responding this way. However, frequent use of
the technique will show its benefits.
ACTIVITY 10.6
10.2.4 Empathising
„I know how important that was to you.‰ „ItÊs no fun to feel unappreciated‰.
„I can tell youÊre really excited about that.‰ „Wow, that must be rough‰.
„Looks like that really made your day‰. „This means a lot to you, doesnÊt it?‰
Sound familiar? Without a doubt, we have all heard and used the emphatic
responses stated at one time or another.
Empathising is a response style which listeners use when they want to show that
they identify with a speaker. Empathy involves perspective taking, emotional
contagion (i.e. feeling what others feel) and genuine concern. Even the above
statements may not fully capture the feeling of effective empathising, which
cannot be defined a technique or skill. Genuine empathising requires genuine
identification with another person.
Empathising falls near the middle of the listening responses continuum illustrated
earlier in Figure 10.3. It is different from the more reflective responses to the upper
end of the continuum, which attempt to gather information neutrally. It is also
different from the more evaluative styles towards the lower end of the continuum,
which offer more direction than reflection. Consider the following examples.
„So, your principal isnÊt happy with your performance and youÊre thinking
of moving to a new school‰. (Paraphrasing)
„Ouch ă I bet it hurt when your principal said you werenÊt doing a good job
in front of the other teachers‰. (Empathising)
„Hey, youÊll find a better school ă your principal doesnÊt appreciate what a
winner you are‰. (Supporting)
Notice that empathising identifies with the speakerÊs emotions and perceptions
more than paraphrasing does, yet offers less evaluation and agreement than
supporting responses (read Subtopic 10.2.5).
To someone who has been the victim of verbal abuse or the butt of a joke,
the hurtful message wasnÊt just a game or joke. When you minimise the
significance of someone elseÊs experience, you are not empathising. Instead,
you are interpreting the situation from your perspective and passing
judgment ă hardly a helpful response, especially when you are a teacher.
(b) Self-defending
Responses such as, „DonÊt blame me; IÊve done my part,‰ show that you are
more concerned with yourself than with other people. This is a common
defence mechanism against criticism.
One point to note is that it is possible to empathise with others while disagreeing
with them. For example, the response, „I can tell that this issue is important to
you‰, legitimises the speakerÊs feelings without assenting to his/her point of view
(i.e. it could be said to either a friend or a foe). Empathising, therefore, is an
important skill to acquire, especially when dealing with adolescent students
who normally see the world in a most peculiar way.
ACTIVITY 10.7
Recall instances when you were the butt of such non-empathic responses
as those listed earlier. How did you deal with them?
10.2.5 Supporting
So far, we have discussed listening responses that emphasise being reflective and
non-evaluative. However, there are times when people want to hear more than a
reflection of how they feel. They would like to know how you feel about them.
(a) Agreement
(c) Praise
(i) „I donÊt care what the school said. I think you did a great job!‰
(ii) YouÊre a great guy. If she doesnÊt see that, itÊs her problem.‰
(d) Reassurance
(i) „The worst part seems to be over. Things will probably get easier from
here.‰
(e) Diversion
(i) „LetÊs catch a movie and get your mind off things.‰
„Comforting ability‰ and social support have been shown to be among the most
important communication skills a teacher, friend or parent can have. Supporting
can be beneficial, but only under certain conditions. These conditions are:
(c) Focus on the „Here and Now‰ Rather than „Then and There‰
Even if the prediction that, „Ten years from now, you wonÊt even remember
his name‰, proves correct, it gives little comfort to someone experiencing
heartbreak today. „Everything is going to turn out fine‰ and „There are
other fish in the sea. YouÊll land one soon‰ are variation of the same theme ă
they are promises that may not come true but that tell the person to stop
feeling the way he/she feels. More importantly, focusing on the future
avoids supporting in the present. The intentions of people who offer these
sentiments may be good, but they usually donÊt offer the support thatÊs
needed.
Burleson (2003, pp. 565ă568) lists effective and ineffective supportive message
types from his recent studies. We start with effective and helpful supportive
messages; they are those that:
Clearly state that the speakerÊs aim is to help the other person („IÊd like to
help you, what can I do?‰ or „You know that IÊm going to be here for you
for as long as it takes‰).
Express acceptance, love and affection for the other person („I love you and
understand how upset this makes you‰ or „I understand that you just
canÊt seem to accept this‰).
Indicate that you are available to listen and support the other person
(„If you need to talk more, please call‰ or „Sometimes, it helps to have
someone to listen, and IÊd like to do that for you‰).
State that you are an ally („IÊm with you on this‰ or „Well, IÊm on your side.
This isnÊt right‰).
Assure the other person that what she/he is feeling is legitimate („With
what has happened to you, you deserve to be angry‰ or „IÊd feel exactly the
same way if I were in your shoes‰).
Encourage the other person to elaborate on his/her story („Uh huh, yeah,‰
or „I see. How did you feel about that?‰ or „Well, what happened before
that? Can you elaborate?‰).
Condemn and criticise the other personÊs feelings and behaviour („I think
youÊre wrong to be angry with Azman‰ or „ThatÊs dumb. Why do you feel
like that?‰).
Imply that the other personÊs feelings are not warranted („You have no right
to feel that way. After all, youÊve dumped men before‰ or „DonÊt you think
youÊre being a bit over-dramatic?‰).
Tell the other person how to feel about the situation or that they should
ignore how they feel about the situation. („You should be really happy
about this‰ or „Hey, you should just act as if you donÊt care‰).
ACTIVITY 10.8
Recall the last time you received emotional support from a friend.
Describe the situation. Did you feel better because of this conversation?
Which of the characteristics of effective support and ineffective support
were used by your friend? Does this explain how comforted you felt?
Share your experiences with your coursemates in the myINSPIRE forum.
10.2.6 Analysing
In analysing a situation, the listener offers an interpretation of a speakerÊs
message. For example, „I think whatÊs really bothering you is . . .‰. Interpretations
are often effective in helping people who have problems to consider alternative
meanings of a situation, meanings they would never have thought of without
your assistance.
How can you know when it is helpful to offer an analysis? There are several
guidelines to follow:
(a) Offer Your Interpretation in a Tentative Way Rather than as Absolute Fact
ThereÊs a big difference between saying „Maybe the reason is . . .‰ and
insisting „This is the truth‰.
(c) Make Sure that the Other Person Will be Receptive to Your Analysis
Even if you are completely accurate, your ideas will not help if the person
with the problem is not ready to consider them. A good way to see how
your analysis is being received is to pay attention to the other personÊs
verbal and non-verbal cues.
(d) Be Sure that Your Motive for Offering an Analysis is Truly to Help the Other
Person
It can be tempting to offer an analysis to show just how brilliant you are
or to make the other person feel foolish for not having thought of the
right answer in the first place. Needless to say, an analysis offered under
such conditions can hardly be helpful.
ACTIVITY 10.9
10.2.7 Advising
Advising is the most common reaction when approached with another personÊs
problem. Advice can be offered under at least three conditions:
(c) Even when advice is not asked for. For example, „You look awful. You ought
to get more sleep‰.
Research suggests that unsolicited advice threatens the „presenting self‰ of the
recipient; the message is that something is wrong with the other person. So, before
offering advice, be sure that the following four conditions are present.
(a) Be Sure the Other Person Really Wants to Hear Your Suggestions
The best indicator is a clear request for advice. If you are not sure whether
the other person is seeking your opinion, it may be best to ask.
(b) Consider Whether the Person Seeking Your Advice is Truly Ready to
Accept It
This way, you can avoid the frustration of making good suggestions, only
to find that the person with the problem had another solution in mind all
the time.
(d) Be Certain that the Receiver Would Not Blame You if the Advice Does Not
Work Out
The choice and responsibility for accepting your suggestions depend on
the person who receives the advice.
ACTIVITY 10.10
Have you heard of the saying, „Never give advice unless asked‰?
How is your reaction to this saying based on your experience? Post your
comments in the myINSPIRE forum.
Listening is both more frequent and less employed than speaking. Despite this
fact, research shows that good listening is vital for both personal and
professional success.
The most effective listeners use several styles, depending on the situation, the
other person and their own personal skills and motivation.
Advising Paraphrasing
Ambushing Pseudo-listening
Analysing Questioning
Counterfeit questions Silent listening
Defensive listening Supporting
Empathising
Many a time we hear but do not listen. Why does this happen? State the features
that shape or distort the raw data we receive in the course of communication.
State the obstacles to listening and give reasons why effective listening is so
tough to achieve.
Answers
Self-Check 1.1
(a) We (S) went (V) to Kuala Lumpur (O ă PP).
(c) One tree (S) does not (V) a forest (O) make (V).
(d) Only a few (S) admired (V) his work of art (O).
Self-Check 1.2
(a) (A) Verb (P/B) (G) (T)
| Johan and Ida | took | us | to dinner | last night. |
(T/M)
| in less then three hours. |
Self-Check 2.1
Excerpt A ă native English speaker
The intermediate L2 learners (who listened to Excerpt B) may feel that they are
being talked down to because the expression „he scratches his head‰ is defined.
Self-Check 2.2
The advantages and disadvantages are:
Advantages
Students would have more confidence (especially our Malaysian students) and
would perform better as more people would be able to cover up for lapses in
attention while listening.
Disadvantages
Especially for the Malaysian classroom, it would be more difficult for the teacher
to exert and maintain control. There could also be the problem of insufficient
equipment/material, too much time to set up the listening activity, and so on.
Self-Check 2.3
Answers are provided in the text itself.
Self-Check 2.4
You could recall certain things because you were attending to them, and vice versa.
This supports the contention that listening is selective and intentional.
We are simply not equipped to attend to all the stimuli that bombard us every
instant.
Self-Check 3.1
(a) Line 1 ă getting the listenerÊs attention
Self-Check 3.2
1. Promising
2. Requesting
4. Inquiring
5. Disagreeing
Self-Check 3.3
Excerpt A
The listener feels insulted by the greeting Mr. Toshiyuki. In Japan, family names
come first, so the appropriate English greeting would be Mr. Saito.
Toshiyuki Saito must feel a bit awkward and angry in realizing that the director
understands so little about his cultural background and norms.
Excerpt B
The interviewee is confused by the open question. She does not understand
the function of the question and may have been expecting more specific and
direct questions about her background and experience.
Excerpt C
The interviewee also appears not to understand the function of the question,
and at a deeper level, misunderstands a basic function of the entire interview.
He does not understand why the interviewer asks the question to which the
answer is obvious ă he has done nothing since he is unemployed.
Self-Check 4.1
This is an application question which requires you to answer from experience.
There are therefore no right or wrong answers.
Children may want to provide a feedback but they do not know how to express
what they think;
Children may not realise that providing feedback (i.e. clarifying instruction,
nodding head to indicate that they understand what is told or asking question)
is something normal and reasonable to do.
Self-Check 4.2
This is an application question which requires you to answer from experience.
There are therefore no right or wrong answers.
Self-Check 4.3
(a) The implications for all the three views are:
(b) The common characteristic of the three views is the importance of schemata
or background knowledge in successful listening. Furthermore, all three
views look at listening as the active linking of new input to knowledge (both
linguistic and non-linguistic) that we have already acquired.
Self-Check 5.1
Positive feedback enables us to focus on and work on our strengths thus making
us better an increasingly better speaker with each feedback loop.
Self-Check 6.1
(a) True
(b) True
(c) False
(d) False
(e) False
Self-Check 6.2
(a) (i) Explanation/demonstration
(ii) Memorisation/practice
(iii) Explanation/demonstration
(iv) Practice
(v) Practice
(ii) Demonstration/practice
(iii) Practice
(iv) Demonstration/practice
(v) Memorisation/practice
Self-Check 6.3
Motor-perceptive Skills
Statements (a), (b), (e) and (g)
Self-Check 6.4
(a) Yes, it does make a difference who the listener is.
(b) It is easier if the listener is right in front of us. It is easiest to talk about
ourselves to people we know and trust, such as in situations (iii) and (vi).
It is less easy to do so with people we are not familiar with, such as in
situations (i), (ii), (vii) and (ix). It is most difficult when the audience is
not there, such as in situations (iv), (v) and (viii). In these situations,
the reciprocity conditions are not met.
Self-Check 7.1
1. The description could be made easier by limiting the number of things or
features in the room. It could be made harder by increasing the number of
features.
2. Consideration is as follows:
(b) The waiter is expected to ask for and take the customerÊs order.
The whole scenario could be divided into when the customer is greeted
by the waiter, when the customer places his/her order, when the waiter
takes the order, when the customer confirms the order, etc.
Self-Check 7.2
(a) A close friend.
(c) Spouse.
The request directed to the foreign visitor is the longest and contains a lot of details
and definitions; it is more explicit. This is because of the assumption that the
foreign visitor will need this high level of explicitness. The least explicit request is
to the spouse as a lot is already shared.
Self-Check 7.3
This is probably because the topic is not decided before hand in social talk.
On the other hand, the topic is almost always decided before hand in formal or
professional talk. A good example is meetings, where the agenda is passed out
before the meeting began. Formal functions also follow a certain agenda and
speeches are prepared in advance.
Self-Check 7.4
(a) & (b) Problems may arise when talking on the telephone because the
interlocutors canÊt see each other. So turn taking may be difficult to accomplish as
the interlocutors may interrupt each other. In meetings, the chairperson may not
let the other members have a turn as he or she will oversee the process. So the
members of the meeting may not get a chance to say what they wanted to say or
the turn allotted to them is limited.
Self-Check 8.1
A classroom can be like an ongoing conversation between the teacher and the
students, and between the students. Each lesson can build on the lesson before
and, in turn, provide something that the next lesson can build on.
Self-Check 8.2
Problem-consideration conversations usually open with a greeting to build
rapport between the conversants. The next part is where the problem is
introduced. Further exchanges builds on this.
Self-Check 9.1
The sources of power most commonly available to teachers are reward power,
expert power and referent power.
Self-Check 10.1
There are two things to take note of. First, you do not need to paraphrase
the entire message, which may make it too long. In many cases, we may just
want to reflect on one or two think-feel-want components. The key is giving
feedback that is appropriate for the situation and offering it in a way that
assists the listening process. Second, the act of paraphrasing may feel awkward
because we are not familiar with responding this way. However, frequent use
of the technique will show its benefits.
„Sounds like youÊre unhappy (feeling) because you think AzmanÊs ignoring
you (thought) and you want him to spend more time at home (want/behaviour).‰
„So youÊre frustrated (feeling) because youÊd like Azman to change (want/
behaviour), but you think itÊs hopeless because men have different priorities
(thought).‰
OR
Thank you.