Contoh DBT Emotion Regulation Skills
Contoh DBT Emotion Regulation Skills
Contoh DBT Emotion Regulation Skills
Opposite Action
When you experience an emotion, a behavior usually comes with it. If you are
angry, you might fight or argue. If you are sad, you might withdraw from your
friends. Your body causes you to react to emotions in a specific way.
Doing the opposite action will help you change your emotion. If you typically
start to yell when you are angry, try talking quietly and politely. If you withdraw
when you are sad, make a point to visit a friend next time you feel this way.
Maybe you can look back at your life and think of a few situations where
you overreacted. Or you might notice that something once felt like a big
deal when it was really pretty unimportant. You can check the facts in the
moment to help reduce the intensity of these extreme emotions.
Does my emotion and its intensity match the facts of the situation? Or
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does it just match my assumptions of the situation?
Your body and mind are closely linked, and the health of one directly
affects the other. An unhealthy body will make it difficult to manage your
emotions. The acronym “P.L.E.A.S.E.” can be used to help you remember
important aspects of this connection.
It’s only human—most people give more attention to the bad things than
the good. If you hear ten compliments, and a single criticism, you’ll
probably focus on the criticism.
Adding one or two positive activities won’t change your life, but over time
the happiness they create will start to add up. Here are a few ideas for
quick positive activities to get you started: