Anger Management Worksheets
Anger Management Worksheets
Identifying what causes anger and being able to recognize early warning signs that
you are becoming angry can help you to plan healthy ways to cope with anger.
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workbook as needed.
For relaxation to help with anger, try this Relaxation to Deal with Angerscript.
What is Anger?
Anger is an emotion. It is a signal that we think we are being treated unfairly.
1) Recognize anger - know when you are angry and what makes you angry.
2) Practice positive responses - practice, practice, practice until your new positive
responses become good habits
Exercise
Distract yourself
Count 10 breaths
Come back and deal with it later when you feel calm
Symptoms of Anger
How do you know when you are angry? All of us have symptoms of anger –
physical and mental signs that tell us we are angry.
Physical Signs
Fast heart beat
Sweating
Shaking
Clenched jaws
Clenched fists
Fast breathing
Headaches
Stomach aches
Upset feeling in the stomach
Tight chest
Tense muscles
Frowning, scowling
Red face
Mental Signs
Problems concentrating
Confusion
Memory problems
Thoughts of doing harm
Angry thoughts
Irritability
Short tempered
Other signs
Yelling
Swearing
Withdrawing from others
Throwing things
Pacing
2. Where in your body do you feel anger? List your physical signs of being angry.
3. What is the first sign of anger you notice? List your early warning signs that tell
you when you are starting to become angry.
4. What makes you angry? List all the things you can think of... all the way from
small annoyances to big problems.
2. Think about the last time you reacted in an unhealthy or negative way to anger.
What happened right before you got angry?
2. Choose a situation near the top of your anger scale (see anger management
worksheets PDF document). Describe how you would like to react to a situation like
this.
3. What negative behavior do you most want to avoid when you experience anger?
5. What will you do when you experience your early warning signs of anger?
6. How will you handle situations when you feel very angry?
Exercise. This helps get rid of the physical energy that is built up by anger.
Talk to someone who you are not feeling angry with. Phone a friend, relative, or
professional. Tell them about what happened and how you are feeling.
Distract yourself. Do something you enjoy, like reading, TV, music, games, going to
the store, cooking a meal.... and take your mind off the anger. Come back and deal
with it when you are feeling calmer.
Count 10 breaths. The reasons for counting your breaths are: 1) to calm and relax you
by breathing more deeply and 2) to pause for a few moments instead of reacting
automatically.
Write about it. Get your feelings and thoughts out on paper instead of confronting
the source of your anger right away.
Deal with it when you feel calm. Get away from the situation, and come back later.
You will react more positively.
The more practice you get at reacting in positive ways, waiting until the anger goes
down a little before responding, and learning new habits, the more easily you will be
able to manage anger.