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Premarital Sex

Premarital Sex - Positives and Negatives

On the positive side of the scale, there is acceptance from your peers, hope for pleasure, and the fulfillment of sexual desires.

The negative side of the scale carries the weights of morals, fear of pregnancy or disease, and guilt.

Premarital Sex - Is it Safe Physically and Emotionally?

Did you know that 50% of the people who currently have HIV are between the ages of 15 and 24? 1 Using a condom only reduces the
risk of contracting HIV by 85%.

After engaging in premarital sex, many people express feelings of guilt, embarrassment, distrust, resentment, lack of respect, tension,
and so much more.

Source: https://www.allaboutworldview.org/premarital-sex.htm

Premarital Sex: Advantages and Disadvantages

Whereas, the men always have a different opinion where some may real want to share the intimacy and there are few guys who just
do to satisfy their lust. Once when you start to have intercourse, then it becomes a natural habit which may become unavoidable
and end up in having it at least two to three times a week. Some couples also say the reason by blaming the environment and
circumstances arousing them to have intercourse and also to make their level of relationship in a comfort manner.

Advantages
-Still, it might be advisable only to have intercourse occasionally as making it a regular practice before marriage will surely lower
your interest.
-Some people prefer to have intercourse within the same gender before marriage and this is a denial scenario since it may make the
person to lose interest of having the intimacy with the opposite gender.
- The ultimate advantage is you can clearly get to know each and every proceedings of bed step by step and you actually start to enjoy
and co-operate with your partner which always makes you feel so excited and anticipated.
- You can clearly note your partner inch by inch physically and may be tempted to explore more and more about your partner.
- Once if you find either you or your partner is not able to fulfill each other , you can follow practicing some remedies to get fit
enough and give the libido your partner wants.

Disadvantages
- Based on the recent study, it has been revealed that man y women have lost their interest in having sexual intercourse with their
partner after marriage as they have got fed up and tired of having intercourse with the same partner even before marriage.
- The reason being that men always think that this just a part of relationship whereas the women think that they have given their entire
life to the guy and become more close to him.
- Also many women lose interest of having sexual intercourse after marriage with her partner just because of the myth that was created
in her mind that intercourse will only lead to the fulfillment of individual on their own rather than the love and intimacy which is to be
shared in the bed with each other.
- The reason being the libido and the intimacy that was shown at the initial phases of first few weeks of intercourse will totally get
changed into a entirely different one which has the desire to get fulfilled by the individual's on their and get their due disrespect and
opinion towards the sexual intercourse even after the marriage.
- There may be problems during the period of life after marriage such as loss in erection, getting fulfilled quicker than usual and
several other similar issues that are related to intercourse which occurs either before or after marriage affecting your future marriage
life.

Source: https://healthyfuturesva.com/sex-before-marriage-advantages-and-disadvantages/

Sex Education

Sex education is a broad term used to describe education about human sexual anatomy, sexual reproduction, sexual intercourse, and
other aspects of human sexual behavior.

Quality sex education taught by trained educators covers a wide range of topics, including relationships, decision making, condom
negotiation, gender identity, body image, birth control, and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Most Americans think young
people should receive quality sex education that covers a wide range of important topics, including birth control and sexual
orientation.

Pros of Sex Education in Schools


 Sex education in schools can help children understand the impact of sex in their lives. It dispels myths related to sex and
broadens their horizon.
 It can also answer all the questions that they have regarding their changing body and hormonal surges.
 Children are often inquisitive about the other gender. Sex education in school can help them understand the differences and
keep the desire to explore things for themselves in check.
 Child sexual abuse is a social malice that is afflicting thousands worldwide. Sex education in schools can play an active role
in curbing the incidence of abuse as through this medium children can be made aware of the difference between good and bad touch.
 It is much better to teach children about sexual health in school rather letting them use other resources, such as pornographic
material and the internet. This is important because avenues, such as the internet have a huge store of information that might be
misleading.
 With problems, such as teenage pregnancies and transmission of STDs on the rise, it is only appropriate that sex education is
made accessible in school so that the most number of children can be made aware.
 It transforms children into responsible adults. It is a known fact that teenagers today turn sexually active, therefore, sex
education can help them understand the benefit of abstinence in the early years or it can at least teach them how to be responsible
sexually active people.

Cons of Sex Education in Schools


 Mostly teachers who are given the task of teaching sex education to students are not experts and have vague ideas about
sexual health themselves. This is even more harmful as incorrect information is extremely lethal as it can actually leave a wrong
impression on the students. Children have an impressionable mind and incorrect information imparted at an early age can actually
transform them into ignorant adults.
 Students may still be subject to embarrassment or excitable by subject matter. If not taught properly, sex education in school
can become a matter of ridicule and students may not take any interest in it.
 The fact that in most schools sex education is treated like an extracurricular course and not a primary one. If the authorising
body is not serious about it then they cannot expect that students and teachers will be interested in it.
 Sex education at school may be at odds with the religious ideologies. Unless these disparities are sorted out by someone, who
is aware of the two ideologies, sex education at school can actually confuse the students more.

Sources: https://www.plannedparenthoodaction.org/issues/sex-education
https://www.sciencedaily.com/terms/sex_education.htm

http://www.onlymyhealth.com/sex-education-in-schools-pros-cons-1310535352

Abortion

Abortion is the ending of pregnancy by removing a fetus or embryo before it can survive outside the uterus. An abortion that occurs
spontaneously is also known as a miscarriage. An abortion may be caused purposely and is then called an induced abortion, or less
frequently, "induced miscarriage". The word abortion is often used to mean only induced abortions. A similar procedure after the fetus
could potentially survive outside the womb is known as a "late termination of pregnancy".

When allowed by law, abortion in the developed world is one of the safest procedures in medicine. Modern methods
use medication or surgery for abortions. The drug mifepristone in combination with prostaglandin appears to be as safe and effective
as surgery during the first and second trimester of pregnancy. Birth control, such as the pill or intrauterine devices, can be used
immediately following abortion. When performed legally and safely, induced abortions do not increase the risk of long-term mental or
physical problems. In contrast, unsafe abortions (those performed by unskilled individuals, with hazardous equipment, or in unsanitary
facilities) cause 47,000 deaths and 5 million hospital admissions each year. The World Health Organization recommends safe and
legal abortions be available to all women

Advantages and Disadvantages of Abortion


Advantages Disadvantages
 Woman can make their own decisions with out the  The baby is a separate biological being
legal barriers
 The mother only has to look after it for 9 months and
 Each year 20 million unsafe abortions take place can then give the baby up for adoption
leading to an estimated 80,000 women dying
 Abortion is not a form of contraception
 Carrying a pregnancy to term is more risky than
abortion  The baby does not have a voice

 10% of GPs refuse to grant abortionall women have the  There are many alternatives to abortion meaning the
right to choose abortion for whatever reason baby would not have to be killed

 No women should be persuaded to either terminate or  No child should be unwanted- there are alternatives to
carry a pregnancy to term abortion

 The baby will be inside her for 9 months  Life begins at conception

 70% of the people who voted against abortion in  something new comes into being
parliament were men. 100% of them will never be
pregnant  A young girl shouldn't have to deal with guilt after
abortion
 No child should be unwanted - so if woman doesn't
want the child and has it anyway it will be unwanted  Shouldn't punish the child for what their father has
done
 The embryo/ foetus is just a clump of cells
 woman's emotional state may cloud her judgement
 a young girl is not ready for the responsibilities of
womanhood  If abortions are accepted and easy to obtain, people
will use them as a form of birth control
 It's cruel for ***** women to go through with
pregnancy  if the baby was a 'mistake' then the woman should deal
with the consequences for being irresponsible
 It is better for everyone to abort a disabled foetus
 Disabled children can live a happy fulfilled life
 The mother has the right to choose for herself - it is her
body not anyone elses  no one should have the right to take away another life

 adoption and fostering is really difficult for some as it  each person is unique and has something to offer in
is not actually your own blood who you are looking their life
after, so they may not be treated the same as their own
biological child  disabled people can enjoy a happy, fulfilled life and
would choose life over termination
 mother's health is more important  abortion can be used selfishlessly to avoid
responsibilities
 legal abortions prevent dangerous backstreet ones
 unwanted children can easily be adopted
 woman's circumstances should be considered e.g. ****
victims should not be constantly reminded of their  some medical evidence proves that the unborn child is
ordeal a separate human being with feelings and intelligence
from conception
 the world already has too many people to cope with the
resources  depression and guilt may follow abortion

 life does not really start until baby is born, woman is  the united nations declaration of the rights of the child
already a person with greater rights states that children need protection both before and
after birth

Sources: https://www.bpas.org/abortion-care/considering-abortion/what-is-abortion/

https://getrevising.co.uk/grids/for_and_against_abortion

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