PHIL Short Essay #3
PHIL Short Essay #3
April 5, 2019
As we evolve with technology so does the practice of cyberbullying which has become
the new way of enabling aggressive forms of abuse through the use of technology, especially by
our youth. This systemic epidemic has not only become widespread, but it is also very
dangerous. In order to propose a theoretical explanation to this problem which continues to grow
and has become the topic of scientific study which is focusing on what is the cause of
(Tanrikulu, 2014), people who are showing the behaviors of cyberbullying or those attempting to
stop cyberbullying are in great need of studies that will help to diminish such behaviors.
The changes in culture and society as a whole contributes to the impact that cyberbullying has
had on people, not only on the victims, but also on teachers, counselors, parents, etc. who are
doing everything that they can since this has become the responsibility of everyone. There are
many questions being asked such as “What are the motives behind cyberbullying?”, “Are
cyberbullies lacking attention?”, Does social status play a role in cyberbullying? What type of
Cyberbully are we dealing with? a pure bully or a bully-victim? According to Dr. William
Glasser. M.D. Choice Theory suggest that people are responsible for their own individual
choices that they make and that all behavior is purposeful (Tanrikulu, 2014).
Dr. Glasser states that we all have human needs that eventually evolve over time and
becomes a part of our genetic structure (Tanrikulu, 2014). Those needs are Survival which is
having access to food, shelter and safety, Love & Belonging, which is the need for relationship,
social connection and to be a part of a group, Power which is to achieve, be competent and
skilled, Freedom is independence and autonomy, and Fun is to play and laugh and find pleasure.
According to the Choice Theory people have behaviors that relate because their goal is to
appease some of the basic needs. For instance, anyone who shows some sign of aggression also
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display signs of cyberbullying. Glasser is showing how children who cyberbully are looking to
satisfy any one of the basic needs. Rather it be the urge for power in order to feel a sense of self-
worth and achievement or the need for fun in order to experience pleasure and laugh (Tanrikulu,
2014). In reality it appears that the person who is doing the bullying is struggling with identity
problems that they feel within themselves and instead of having the correct knowledge on how to
deal with such issues they make the choice to display abnormal and aggressive behaviors.
According to Jeremy Bentham, hedonism the thing that is good is what is producing pleasure and
as Glasser states one of the basic needs is fun which provides pleasure. To a bully this would
appear to be acceptable to them because it is satisfying one of their basic needs according to
Choice Theory. But what about the victim who is being bullied? Is it okay for the victim to begin
to bully in order to feel the need of Love & Belonging in order to be part of a group? I would
apply Rule Utilitarianism because the bully or the victim should not participate in such actions.
We all have a moral right to do the right thing and follow the rules, because in the end it will
produce the greatest good or happiness. In other words, two wrongs don’t make a right.
In conclusion, people who are participating in cyberbullying are displaying behaviors that
show they are in need of help dealing with their own independent needs such as power. These
people suffer from low self-esteem and self-assurance and never take responsibility for their own
actions. We have to continue to educate ourselves and our children, especially when unethical
behaviors are being exhibited and it is causing hurt and pain. We will always continue to
progress and use technology for what seems for the greater good, but with that being said as a
society we must stand up and work hard to protect people, especially children from the dangers
References
Cook, C., Williams, K., Guerra, N., Kim, T. and Sadek, S. (2010). Predictors of bullying and
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Gordon, S. (2019). 8 Reasons Why Cyberbullies Lash Out at Others. [online] Verywell Family.
Available at: https://www.verywellfamily.com/reasons-why-kids-cyberbully-others-460553
[Accessed 5 Apr. 2019].