Love Me If You Dare
Love Me If You Dare
Love Me If You Dare
Chang Liu
Film Exercise
A. Volpe
The 2003 French film, Love Me if You Dare, is a comedic romance that takes place in Belgium
narrating the relationship between Sophie Kowalsky and Julien Janvier. The French counterpart to its
title is Jeux D’enfants, which directly translates to “Games of Children.” The plot revolves around a game
that the two protagonists invent consisting of each taking turns daring the other to complete a task that
usually results in negative consequences. Once one has completed his or her mission, the other gives
him or her a special tin candy box which then gives the holder the power to dare the other player. These
dares range from yelling swear words in class to outright cruel treatment of their lovers. The
consequences of these tasks increase in significance as the relationship grows. The two become the best
of friends, and then slowly develop feelings for each other, although neither wants to admit it, which
results in both being hurt. After much emotional turmoil, the film finishes with a surreal happy ending of
Sophie and Julien confessing their love for each other and then growing old together.
Love Me if You Dare has a plot that is made intentionally unclear in certain aspects, thereby
provoking its audience to question and think for themselves. The film is told from Julien’s viewpoint and
there are some parts of the movie that are obviously the fantasies of Julien because the characters are
transformed into cartoons and puppets in an animated world. The large spectrum of realism makes the
viewer wonder at some parts of the story which could have actually happened in the plot or could have
been the product of Julien’s imagination. The ending is the best example of this. At that point, Sophie is
the wife of a professional soccer star and Julien is married with two children. At the final confrontational
scene, Sophie and Julien confess their love for each other in the pouring rain, but not before Sophie’s
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husband knocks Julien out with a punch. Julien is expected to fall over on the wet ground, but instead,
he is shown falling into a deep pool or ocean of water. The next minute is split between realistic flashes
of Sophie attempting to resurrect Julien and dreamy flashes of Julien buried unconscious in a blue-grey
expanse of water. Later on, the two participate in “The Dare of Dares,” which is when they both wait for
their death together in a pit while it is being filled with cement. This scene is tied with the opening scene
where the special candy box is found to be half buried in the cemented ground. After the two are
completely covered in cement, an alternative ending is shown where Sophie and Julien are living
together as an old couple and still playing their game of dares. The different ways that the plot can be
taken leaves the film open to interpretation. The audience can believe what they like, which makes the
The visual style of Love Me if You Dare moves the audience subconsciously. In the first half of
the film, when Sophie and Julien were young, the screen portrays their world as slightly fuzzy and
nostalgic, with warmer tones and highlighting. As the movie progresses into the two’s teenage and
eventually their adulthood years, the imagery becomes sharper, and the colors more realistic. In the
final scenes of the two living happily in their old age, their world is again fuzzy, with a strong sepia tint.
These subtle variations have the power to change how the audience perceives each scene. The warm
and fuzzy tones transform the mood into more nostalgic and sweet while the crisper lines show more
realistic adulthood life. Unless the viewer is observant or if he or she is specifically looking for the
changes in visual representation, it would be difficult for him or her to catch the differences in imagery
The imprudence and total disregard for consequences that Sophie and Julien display has the
potential to stir questions about how far romantic love should go and where moral responsibility lies in
relation to that love. With each dare, the repercussions for their actions grow more serious. Julien’s dare
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for Sophie in high school prevented her from passing her exams. Sophie’s dare for Julien at his wedding
caused him to lose his engagement with his fiancée and also for his father to break off all ties with him.
Julien’s final dare for Sophie involved tricking her to believe that he was seriously hurt in an accident
because of her, which drove her into a break down. This game seems to be ironic in that it pulls them
together with love but also pushes a substantial amount of pain into each of their lives. In some cases,
however, the indifference towards consequences is evidence that Julien and Sophie don’t have a care in
the world for anyone or anything in the world but each other. In one of the possible endings that the
film portrays, the two lovers choose to die together because they dared each other to. This scene is in
some ways the romanticist’s perfect ending because they consummate their game ultimately in their
death, which they share together. This unnecessary death can remind the audience of how irrational
Love Me if You Dare is a provocative movie about how a game causes two people to do the
unthinkable. Its imagery has the ability to change the audience’s perception of the different parts of the
film. The surrealism found in many of its scenes and the different endings give viewers freedom to
believe what they want and interpret the meanings behind the story as they choose.
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Works Cited
Love Me if You Dare. Dir. Yann Samuell. Perf. Guillaume Canet, Marion Cotillard. Paramount Classics,
2003. DVD.