Learning Activity 6 Template
Learning Activity 6 Template
Abigail Neri
I want to clarify why my output only consists of three members, for my father is an Overseas Filipino
Worker. He only goes home once a year and stays for a maximum of one month; thus, I opted not to
include him in this 24-hour family profile.
My family’s situation fits the classic story where the father is the family provider while the mother is the
homemaker. My mom's usual routine at home is managing the household expenses and cooking for our
meals while my brother and I share the household chores. Both of us are guilty of not exerting efforts on
learning how to cook, except for the basic cooking of rice, and we still heavily rely on our mom regarding
this. Indeed, the bulk of household work is done mainly by mothers, totally executing reproductive
activities from childbirth to daily upkeep and household maintenance and depicts how the stay-at-home-
mom situation is true among low-income households.
I sometimes wonder why my mom chose to be a plain housewife, although she graduated with a degree in
Arts and I assumed or either romanticized how she truly cared for our family. Learning this “gender
division of labor” topic opened my eyes to the difference between having to choose and have nothing to
choose – that she chose it because she has no other options, especially how social control defines what are
men or women’s occupations and not from their preferences.
I feel bad for her as she willingly conformed to these stereotypical reproductive activities and could not
follow her dreams, although I did not have the guts to ask her what her dreams were before and settle for
something like this. As a struggling yet passionate college student, reflecting on how my mom sacrificed
a lot to take care of us motivated me more to pursue my dreams and be successful soon.
As for the question, if there’s a need to redistribute the productive and reproductive tasks within our
household, I think I do not have the choice but to accept how these tasks work within our family, given
that my brother and I shares the same load of chores, as well as for my mom managing the home and my
father providing us financially. Both of my parents are nearing their elderly stage, and a few years from
now, there will have a shift to how things work here – I, the elder child, will be the next breadwinner of
the family, but not for so long since my brother will also be pursuing his career. I will be someone who
will look back and take care of them, thankful for the sacrifices and enabling us to experience some
privileges in life.
What I am looking for in the future is how I will be able to surpass these millennial-aged productive and
reproductive role stereotypes and not settle for what society offers me.