Understanding The Self G.E. 3: University of Eastern Philippines
Understanding The Self G.E. 3: University of Eastern Philippines
Understanding The Self G.E. 3: University of Eastern Philippines
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The Sexual Self
INTRODUCTION:
Puberty marks the start of sexual development in an individual. Physical changes start and as
individual continues to adolescence, these changes are highlighted as sex hormones, undergoing physical
changes, and producing feelings that are sexual in nature. Since sex is usually a taboo subject, most
adolescents are confused with these feelings; how to handle them, who to ask about these sexual feelings
and what is considered normal and inappropriate sexual responses. The best way to understand these is to
learn about human sexuality to get to know one’s own body and responses and establish her/his Sexual Self.
OBJECTIVES:
At the end of this learning module you are expected to:
a. Discuss the sexual development involving the human reproductive system, erogenous zone, sexual
behavior and human sexual response.
b. Demonstrate critical and reflective thought in understanding one’s sexuality, chemistry of lust, love
and attachment and the psychological aspect of being turned on.
c. Examine the diversity of human sexuality, sexual health, sexually transmitted diseases and methods
of contraception.
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Sexual Development
Sexual development is a lifelong process that starts at the moment of conception (Tsiaras, 2006).
People are a little different from each other, so it make sense that they don’t develop in the same way
(kidshealth.org, 2008). Sexual development can be predicted as part of the human development but not
everyone is expected to have the same pattern of changes or the same pacing.
3 Reasons Why an Individual’s Sex is Important in Lifelong Development: (Hurlock, 2001, p. 32)
1. Each children come under increasing cultural pressures from parents, teachers, peer groups and
society at large to develop attitudes and behavior patterns that are considered appropriate for
members of their sex.
2. Learning experiences are determined by the individual’s sex. In the home, at school, and in play
groups, children learn what is considered appropriate for members of their sex.
3. The attitude of parents and other significant family members towards individuals because of their
sex. Strong preferences for a child of a given sex have marked influences on parents’ attitudes
affecting relationship with the child
Sigmund Freud’s Psychosexual Stages of Development and the concept of Erogenous Zone.
Freud believed that every child goes through a sequence of developmental stages and that
the child’s experiences during these stages determine adult personality characteristics . Freud believed that
the adult personality is formed by the end of the 5 th year of life. Each stage has an erogenous zone association
with stimulation and pleasure. Freud uses the term fixation to describe what occurs when a person does not
progress normally from stage to stage but remains overly involved with a particular stage. That person will
prefer to gratify his/her needs in simpler or more childlike ways in an adult mode that would result in normal
development (Limpingco & Tria, 1990, p. 14)
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Phallic Stage Genital Area Oedipus /Elektra Heterosexualizing Boy will grow up seeking a
(3-5 yrs old) complex interactions. woman like his mother
Castration Jealousy develop Girl will grow up wanting to
Anxiety problems with have a male child
Penis Envy parent- Homosexuality will occur if
identification normal identifications are
reverse
Genital Stage Whole body Mating, dating Sexual Instincts Sublimate sexual energy into
(Puberty- and social and sexual emotional commitments to
Onwards) interaction conflicts reappear sports, cheerleading, music,
Death instincts band, academics, politics,
reappears church or other endeavors.
Sexual Instincts Hostility, rebelliousness or
are repressed juvenile delinquency. Vows of
celibacy, attractions to
mystical philosophies, gangs,
religions or cults.
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Besides the physical changes (voice, hair, size of penis, larynx), his brain also changes. Unlike women
varying monthly to create menstrual cycles, the hormones in men’s brains are constantly active (Tsiaras,
2006). This may be the reason why men are said to think about sex more than women =).
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According to William Masters and Virginia Johnson, the cycle consists of four phases:
1. Excitement (desire/arousal)
2. Plateau
3. Orgasm
4. Resolution
Desire Phase
Sexual urges occur in response
to sexual cues or fantasies
Arousal Stage
Resolution Phase A subjective sense of sexual pleasure and physiological
Decrease in arousal occurs after signs of sexual arousal. in males, penile tumescence
orgasm (increased of blood flow into the penis: In females vaso
congestion (blood pools in the pelvic area) leading to
(particularly in men) vaginal lubrication adn breast tumescence (erect
nipples)
Orgasm Phase
In males, feelings of the Plateau Phase
inevitability of ejaculation,
followed by ejaculation; in Brief period occurs before
female, contractions of the walls orgasm
of the lower third of the vagina
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Human Sexuality
Sexuality is more than sexual feelings or sexual intercourse. It is an important part of who a person
is and what s/he will become. It includes all the feelings, thoughts and behaviors associated with being male
or female, being attractive and being in love, as well as being in relationships that include sexual intimacy,
sensual and sexual activity. It also includes the enjoyment of the world as we know it through the five senses;
taste, touch, smell, hearing and sight. (advocatesforyouth.org/lessonplans/circlesofsexuality1.htm, 2008).
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Sexuality in adolescent youth (ages 13 to 19)- Once youth have reached puberty and beyond, they
experience interest in romantic and sexual relationships and in genital sex behaviors. As youth matures, they
experience strong emotional attachments to romantic partners and find it natural to express their feelings
within sexual relationships. There is no way to predict how a particular teenager will act sexually. Overall,
most adolescents explore relationships with one another, fall in and out of love, and participate in sexual
intercourse before the age of 20.
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LUST- This is the phase which is driven by the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen- in both men and
women. Estrogen and Testosterone are the two basic types of hormones present equally in men and
women’s body that excite the feeling of lust within the brain.
ATTRACTION- This phase is said to be one of the beautiful moments of life. That is the phase when a person
actually starts to feel the love. This is the amazing time when you are truly love-struck and can think of little
else. Scientists think that the three main neurotransmitters are involved in this stage; adrenaline, dopamine
and serotonin.
ATTACHMENT- is a bond helping the couple to take their relationship to advanced levels. It instigates the
feeling of bearing children and falling in love with them wholeheartedly. Scientists think there might be two
hormones involved in this feeling of attachment, oxytocin and vasopressin.
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Sexual Intercourse
Sexual intercourse is one of the most common behaviors among humans. Sexual intercourse is a
behavior that may produce sexual pleasure that often culminates in orgasm in females and in males. Sexual
intercourse may also result in pregnancy and/or STD’s.
In programs for youth, discussion of sexual intercourse is often limited to the bare mention male-
female (penile-vaginal) intercourse. However, youth needs accurate health information about sexual
intercourse-vaginal, oral and anal.
Premarital Sex
Is sexual activity practiced by people who are unmarried. It can be any sexual relations a person has
prior to marriage. The alternative terms for premarital sex have been suggested, including non-marital sex
(which overlaps with adultery), youthful adolescent sex, and young-adult sex.
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People who have premarital sex are recommended by health professionals to take precautions
to protect themselves against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) such as HIV/AIDS. There is also a risk
of unplanned pregnancy in heterosexual relationships.
HIV/AIDS
HIV is “Human Immunodeficiency Virus”. This is a retrovirus—genetic info @RNA than DNA. HIV is
the virus that causes AIDS and it is preventable and manageable but not curable. AIDS is “Acquired
Immunodeficiency Syndrome”. Since this is a syndrome, there are several manifestations of the breakdown
in body’s immune system and have developed in people who have been infected by HIV.
How do people get AIDS? AIDS developed through:
1. Bodily fluids (blood products-transfusions, semen and vaginal fluids)
2. Intravenous (IV) Drug Abuse (sharing needles and use of unsterilized
blades)
3. Sexual intercourse (unprotected vaginal, oral and anal sex.
HIV /AIDS Situationer:
In the Philippines, here is the number of HIV/AIDS cases reported:
2000 1 case in every 3 days
2009 2 cases each day
2010 5 cases each day
2012 1 in every 3 hours (8 cases each day)
2014 17 cases in each day
2015 22 cases each day
2016 26 cases each day
2018 32 cases each day
2019 36 cases each day
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Teenage Pregnancy
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Philippines World
Teenage pregnancies rise About 15 million girls aged
70% in a period of ten 15 to 19 and some
years (PNA 2012) 1million girls under 15
give birth every year-most
in low and middle income
families (WHO 2014)
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Education
The Dutch approach to preventing teenage pregnancy has often been seen as a model by
other countries. The curriculum focuses on values, attitudes, communication and negotiation skills, as well
as biological aspects of reproduction. The media has encouraged open dialogue and the healthcare system
guarantees confidentiality and a non-judgmental approach.
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A concept linked to family planning is contraception, also known as birth control and fertility
control. This is a method or device used to prevent pregnancy. It is also defined as a deliberate prevention
of conception or impregnation. Family planning methods and/or contraception methods are presented ass
follows:
1. Natural Birth Control- employs natural control methods that people do to help prevent an
unintended pregnancy are without the use of modern/artificial ways of contraception. These
require commitment when you make the decision, discipline and self-control for it to be
effective. These include abstinence, fertility awareness methods, the rhythm, calendar or
standard days method, outercourse and continued breastfeeding, all requiring discipline and
responsibility which the Catholic Church approves
2. Artificial Birth Control- employs artificial control methods to help prevent unintended
pregnancy use modern/contemporary measures such as contraceptive or birth control pills,
diaphragm , male and female condoms, spermicide , cervical cap, sponge, birth control
patch, birth control shot, birth control implant, intrauterine device (IUD), tubal ligation/
vasectomy, tubal implants and emergency contraception pill.
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2. It is the awareness and feeling about your own body and other people’s bodies, especially the body
of a sexual partner.
a. Sexuality b. Sexual Intimacy c. Sensuality d. Sex
3. It refers to an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and or sexual attractions to men, women, or
both sexes.
a. Sexual Orientation b. Gender c. Sexuality d. Sex
4. It is a behavior that may produce sexual pleasure that often culminates in orgasm in females and in
males.
a. Sexuality b. Sexual Intercourse c. Lust d. Sex
5. This is a part of yourself which involves your sexual development and how people’s sexual activity,
beliefs, misconceptions and unlimited access from the internet on sex can influence your own
sexual behaviors and responses.
a. Sexuality b. Sexual Self c. Forbidden self d. Sex
Test II Essay. From your readings/discussions, describe your sexual self. What are your beliefs in engaging
in sexual intimacy? What can you say about your sexuality, attraction, beliefs and sexual responses?
Write down your thoughts and feelings in no less than 300 words.
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References:
Villafuerte, S.L., Quillope, Al, Tunac, Rudjane, Borja, Estela(2018), Understanding the Self.
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Subrahmanyam, K. Patricia Greenfield, Brendesha Tynes. (2004). Constructing Sexuality and Identity in an
online teen chat room. Applied Developmental Psychology 25, 651-666.
Tsiaras,. 2006. The Invision Guide to Sexual Health, Firsts Edition, Harper Collins Publishers, New York, pp.
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