Domestic Violence Against Women - A Literature Review
Domestic Violence Against Women - A Literature Review
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Domestic Violence Against Women: A Literature Review
Abstract
This literature review of research in the past 30 years on domestic violence against women focuses on the cycle
of violence within abusive relationships, why women so frequently stay in abusive relationships, ' and what is
the most helpful in allowing them to leave. Following the review of the literature is a discussion section in
which I examine the usefulness of qualitative research approaches in studying this topic; as well as areas which
need further research, such as women in rural and immigrant populations identifying resources and support in
order to leave abusive relationships and determining which community resources are most useful to women
who are coping with domestic violence situations.
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A THESIS
OF
PACIFIC UNIVERSITY
HILLSBORO, OREGON
BY
AMANDA J. GROVERT
REQUffiEMENTSFORTHEDEGREE
OF
JULY125~ 2008
APPROVED: ____~~_____________ ~
Toni, it feels like more than a coincidence that I finished this thesis on your birthday.
Knowing you has made writing this more than research to me. Thank you to your family
for allowing me to dedicate this to you to memoralize our friendship, and you. I wish I
could do more.
In loving memory of Antoinette "Toni" Clark. July 14, 1985 - February 17,2008.
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ABSTRACT
against women focuses on the cycle of violence within abusive relationships, why women
so frequently stay in abusive relationships, 'and what is the most helpful in allowing them
to leave. Following the review of the liter'ature is a discussion sectiori in which I examine
the usefulness of qualitative I~search approaches in studying this t6pic; as well as :~eas
which need further Iesearch, such as women in rural and immigrant popUlations; ?]ii~:~ .
identifying
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resources and support in order to leave abusive relationships';:and
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':...dei_l,Iihg
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which community resources are most useful to women who are coping with dornt::::;ni;;;.
violence situations.
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Introduction
Definition
Every year in America, between 1.5 and 3.6 million wonieri are raped or
adds up to approximately 4 to6 rrrillion intimate ,partner ph)isical and sexual as-saults
every year - and there are many more th~t go,unreported:(Tjad~n & Thoennes, 20gW~
! ~;!;:: ' ' ,' , ,
assault and stalking perpetuated by current and former dates, spouses 'and cOhabi~g~~r '
p'artners (Tjaden & Thoennes, 2000). This definition can include both sarlle- and
"! opPQsit~-sex couples;' however for the purposes of this review I will fOC\lJs qnly. OIl ",
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" " psych616gicaland emo~ionalabuse as,well. In tru.:~paper, Iwill focus main!~\i)fl physical
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a.nd are 'studied less frequent~y than physicai abuse(Kosset aI., 1994; MatthefNS, 2004).
,"" , 'However, nearly all physically abusive relationships include an element Qf emoti'onal and ,
• ; . v ' . • ' . ",' •• • • • .'
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psychological, abuse (Weiss, 2000), ther~fore makiIlg it difficult to separate out the
different c9~pon'ents.
800,000 men rep on being physically or sexually ·assaulted.byan intimate partner every
year (Tjaden & Thoennes, 2000; US Census Bureau, 2007). However, for the purposes of
this review; only data from domestic violence against women will be examined. While it
pertaining to men, it is beyond the scope of this paper to do so. There is much more
coming out on domestic violence against men (Turner, 2002; Tjaden and Thonnes, 2000).
Abused men also have a different experience than abused women, in that they stl,iuggle
less with being controlled and being isolated, but more with stigma and discrim!,p ation
(Matthews, 2004; McCue, 2008). Due to these differences and for simplicity's sake; iiI'
this review I will refer to perpetrators of domestic violence as male and the victims; as
female, with the understanding that both sexes commit and experience domestic violence.
against adult women - around 600,000 crimes. In 2000, about 1200 wom~~ were killed
by an intimate partner. This number made up about 33 percent of female murder victims
. (Matthews, 2004).
partner is the leading cause of premature death (US Department of Justice, 1998). Among
Native American and Alaska Native communities, 19% of female homicide victims were
increase between 1995 and 1999 in the number of individuals provided with services by
the Asian Task Force Against Domestic Violence (Matthews, 2004). In Latino culture,
34% of Latinas reported experiencing domestic violence in either their country of origin
or in the United States. Clearly, domestic violence is prevalent across subcultures in the
U.S. It is also important to note that domestic violence rates are five times higher among
families below poverty levels, and also twice as likely to be committed by unemployed
men than by men who are working full time (Matthews, 2004, US Department of Justice,
1998). However, without controlling for socio-economic status, domestic violence occurs
recently left a violent relationship are 33% less likely than those in nonviolent
expenses from domestic violence range from $3 to $5 billion annually. This does not
include the $100 million lost by businesses from sick leave, lost ~~ges, non-productivity
economic status, effect on the economy, and severity of the crimes, the intricacies of
domestic violence and violent relationships must be better understood by mental health
professionals in order to provide more helpful and relevant services, and improve access
to those services, for those who seek them. Since around 1980, more and more people are
becoming aware of domestic violence, more literature is being published, and some of the
common myths are being dispelled (McCue, 2008; Matthews, 2004). The last decade in
, Theirnplications pf"Jhis research and:'the logical next steps must be integrated and
discussed in order to provide the best possible treatments, services, assessments and
preventionsior
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victims of. domestic
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violence.
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, Literature Review
histodcal perspective: The articles utilized were found on the PsycIrifo, Psyc]3o(}M!ii; ,
I.exisN:exis, 'Criminal JJlstice :Periqdic~ls, ~nd Contemporary Women i,E! Issu~s ~18:f~!i[;1ases
using the keywords "domestic vi01ence'~ "family violence" ,and "irttintat¢ par:tner..;;<;. , '!.,
. '!; . ', . "
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,', violenc6:" rfhese tennl~ are used,interchangeably in the literature,_:fJsousedis the more ~' -*;jii.
. ., :', -',!o,
.~ -::
! ~ '. " ', .' outdated ternl of "wife beating." for the saJ<e. of simplicity, the te/:m dome§tic
, ' :':'
violence
.. ' .. ' . . . . . . . ... ", . ' .rM
,"
" . , ~. " " ~, , will be used throtlghoilt this :tevi~w . F'urfhenno:J,\@;most domestic vi()lenc~dvocates
.". ..' ' . ,. ' "..'. :' .. ', ~i~:
,"' prefer
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to ,use. the terntlifamily
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viof¢:nce.
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irl'reteren;ce to situations in which ~ldren
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or
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, . , ." 'eldel:s are:being:abused instead
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ofl)riri
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addi,tibn to romantic partners
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(RepJ:W,cci,
" . Woolard
&'Fried"i999). Ad~:Htional stati~tics',wereobtained from St~tisiicalAbstr~cts of the
United States;. 2007anothe United States Dep(,lnment of Justice;. TextbOc)KS 'andbook
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This literature review will be divided into three sub-sections. In the first sub-
section I will discuss the cycle of violence that occurs within the relationship. Violent
In the second sub-section I will discuss the tendency of many abused partners to
stay in and return to the abusive relationship, and possible reasons why that might be.
The most often cited reason is economic dependency (Matthews, 2004; Wettersten, et aI,
2004; Repucci, Woolard & Fried, 1999; Rothman et al., 2007; Bomstein, 2006) ..Other
reasons have been the presence of children, threats made upon leaving or upon bfoaching
the subject of leaving, and a lack of resources to tum to, such as shelters, couns~ling, or
In the third sub-section I will discuss what motivates or allows abused parf.ners to
1ea"e abusive relationships permanently, and what protective factors· are available to help
them remain independent. There are resources available such as shelters and non-profit
cOrnInunities, arid law enforcement. The efficacy and availability of these resources will
also be discussed.
Following this literature review will be a discussion section in which the research
will be integrated, highlighting themes and major issues, and directions for clinical
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Cycle of Violence
1979, Weiss, 2000). The changes between the various stages presented are subtle, and
In the beginning phase of the abusive relationship, some type of abuse occurs.
This can be physical, sexual, or emotional, however, most often it is subtle and in the
form of verbal insults or accusations (Walker, 1979; Weiss, 2000). Sometimes, though,
the initial incident is physical. After the first episode of physical abuse, an abuse;rmay
not have to beat his partner to gain or maintain control. The threat of violence rp.,ay.be
enough, because his partner knows he is capable of following through on his threats
Matthews, 2004). The abuse continues in this phase, and while it might be physical, it
continues to be more subtle. Weiss (2000) describes a woman who was boiling a pot of
soup when her husband walked by and knocked her forward with his elbow, causing her
to fall forward, burning her hand severely in the boiling liquid. Later on, he denied being
in the kitchen at all. In this second phase, the abused partner may feel the need to keep
the abuser calm, and she may feel as if she is constantly "walking on eggshells" (Weiss,
2000, Walker, 1979). She may also feel that she is at fault for the abuse, and begin to
believe that if she were only a "better partner" the abuse would stop. For example, the
abused woman may start to imagine ifshe dressed differently, was a better cook, or was
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more agreeable her partner would treat her better (Weiss, 2000; Salber and Taliaferro,
Building an abusive relationship takes time - if the abuse started occurring on the
first date, far fewer women would stay in the relationships as long as they do. Survivors
in empirical studies. Weiss (2000) describes interviews with women in which they say
the tension-building phase happened so gradually they almost did not realize it. They
describe abusers who picked at their self-worth by making off-hand comments about their
food intake, or their merit as a wife or a girlfriend, most being careful to temper .t,hese
remarks by saying they were only looking out for their partner's well-being. Ev~ntual1y
the women begin to believe that their partners must be right in their critiques - after all,
he was only looking out for their best interests (Weiss, 2000).
The next stage is referred to as the explosion, and after the slow progression of the
tension building stag~ it may not come as a shock (Turner, 2002; Matthews, 2004). In this
stage; the abuse reaches a crescendo. Weiss (2000) reports storiesJ;f rom women whose
partners have attempted to push them from moving cars, brutally raped them, broken
their noses, deliberately twisted their legs after painful knee surgery, or otherwise hurt
them severely. One woman noted that, as severe as the beatings were, her partner always
made sure to leave bruises on her arms, legs, and torso rather than her face, so that the
In the making-up stage, the abuser may apologize for the abuse. He may promise
that it will never happen again, or blame the abused partner for forcing him to hurt her
: (Walker, 1979). Other common themes in.this stage are the abuser claiming his victim is
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exaggerating the abuse, or everi claiming that it never happened, as in the case of the man
Often in this stage, the abusers apologize profusely and swear that they will
change (Weiss, 2000; Walker, 1979). The abused partner, whether or not she believes this
claim, may be so relieved that the abuse has stopped for the time being that she accepts
him saying he will change and stay with him. More possible reasons why abused women
Finally comes the calm, or honeymoon stage (Matthews, 2004; Weiss, 2000;
Walker, 1979). In this stage, the abused partner may begin 'to hope that her partner really
meant it when he said it would never happen again. The abuser may give gifts tp his
partner, and treat her kindly for a period ranging anywhere from a few days to severaf
months (Matthews, 2004; Weiss, 2000). Inevitably, the situation will again decline-into
The specifics of these stages are as unique as the women that live them. As such,
there are few academic studies examining what specifically these$tages look like. The
details come from the voices of the women who have lived these stories, and survived
them.
Some women report their relationships being wonderful until they got married, at
which point the tension began building, sometimes slowly, sometimes quickly (Weiss,
2000). In the early stages of the relationship, many women report this tension building
stage as their partner's efforts to gain control over their lives (Matthews, 2004; Bornstein,
2006). The abusers will attempt to isolate their partners from their family, friends, and
careers (Sullivan et al., 2004; Bowker, 1983). One womari reported that her husband did
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not tell her parents when she gave birth to their first grandchild, although he told his wife
he had and that they did not care enough to visit. He continued to create situations like
this throughout their marriage, effectively separating her from her family. Another
woman reported that her husband told her landlord and a social worker who lived nearby
that his wife was addicted to alcohol and painkillers, which meant they did not think as
much of it when they heard yelling coming from the apartment 0Neiss, 2000).
In the early stages of an abusive relationship, the escalating tension can be
implied rather than overt violence. The abusive partner may hit, kick; or break fu,miture
or other inanimate objects, while the abused partner watches. Displays of violenge such
as this are prophetic - the woman watching knows that even though the violenc.~. is
directed at a piece of furniture this time, it may be her next time (Salber & Taliaferro,
1995; Matthews, 2004; Tjaden & Thoennes, 2001). The abuser may also threaten or harm
In some relationships, the tension building stage does not appear to be present at
all. Weiss (2000) describes a woman whose husband would physiCally abuse her
seemingly out of the blue. In the course of his apologies, he would also twist the incident
around until she believed it was somehow her fault, subtly conveying that ,s he had pushed
his buttons until he had no choice but to explode. This woman described her situation as
follows:
The first time there is violence, Andrea reflects, we don't believe it. Next, we
explain it away. Then we do whatever we c;:an to cope. With no prior experience
of abuse, no way to make sense of what was happening to her, Andrea coped by
putting herself into a state of suspended animation. She still wentto work at the
hospital every day. She still wrote prescriptions and made careful notes in medical
charts .... But she felt nothing. She deliberately made herself numb. (p. 139)
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It is not uncommon for women, after leaving a violent relationship, to wonder
how they had believed they were somehow at fault for the abuse they endured. It is
important to note, however, that even if this tension building stage does not appear to be
present, it almost always is. It may come, as mentioned previously, in the form of
comments about appearance, cooking, temperament, or others, in the guise of "just trying
to help." The quotation above is an example of how one abused woman who was made to
believe the violence was her fault explained what was happening to her (Weiss , 2000).
In other situations, the tension building stage is more overt, but still subtl,e. It may
not involve the sort of physical violence mentioned earlier, directed at the woman, pets,
or inanimat~ objects (Weiss, 2000; McCue, 2008). Instead it can be more verbal; .
emotional, or covert. For example, the abuser may accuse his partner of having am affair,
which can serve as a means to later "punish" her (Matthews, 2004; Weiss, 2000) ..
Violent relationships can be broken down in this cyclical nature, but as the'
interviews from Weiss (2000) illustrate, no violent relationship is;ithe same as any other,
despite surface similarities. Each woman's relationship is unique, as are the reasons they
The reference by Weiss (2000), used frequently in this review, is pne of the only
references found that allows survivors of domesic violence to be heard in their own
words. As I stated above, it can be difficult to quantify the details of what happens in
violent relationships, particularly ilJ the stages leading up to the actual physical violence,
which is why books like Weiss' are so important. Weiss interviewed women who had
experienced domestic viplence and had escaped the relationship. After each interview she
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provided her own thoughts on what had been said in light of her own experiences as a
survivor of domestic violence and in telIDS of the research she had done, consolidating
the interviews into themes, while allowing each woman a forum to tell her story. This
source is largely a discussion of anecdotal examples, but essential for getting the feeling
of what goes on in the minds of abused women, something that will be discussed further
Reasons to Stay
The review of the research yielded a myriad of reasons why abused wOIp.en stay
in abusive relationships, or return to them. The most pressing of these reasons was safety.
A woman who has been abused may fear retaliation from her abuser if she leaves,the
abusive environment or makes efforts to improve her situation (Turner, 2002). The abuser
in the situation may have made specific threats, stating that if the abused partner leaves,
he will hurt or kill her, her children, or himself (Matthews, 2004)~i Statistically, the most
dangerous time for a woman in an abusive relationship is just prior to leaving that
relationship (Turner, 2002; Salber & Taliaferro, 1995). In fact, women who are divorced
or separated are 14 times more likely to repOlt being the victim of violence by a spouse or
ex-spouse. Separated and divorced women make up 10 percent of American women, yet
they report 75 percent of intimate partner violence (US Department of Justice, 1998;
McCue, 2008). It is possible that women who are separated or divorced are more likely to
report violence from their partner, when in fact it could have occurred while they were
married as well. Regardless, these statistics speak to the danger that comes with leaving a
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violent relationship, and why some women may choose to stay and survive day to day
Women who have limited support from friends, family, or their communities may
find it more difficult to leave abusive relationships (Sullivan et.al, 1994). Women who
have received help and support from family and friends report it as being very important
in allowing them to leave their abusers (Bowker, 1983). Support can come in both
tangible and intangible forms. Close friends and family can provide emotional support in
stressful times, which can help reduce the risk of falling ill due to great amounts pf stress
(Sullivan, et aI., 1994). These friends and family members can also provide safeplaces
for women and children to stay, store belongings, and be available to assist abu$ed
women in rebuilding their lives after leaving an abuser (Bowker, 1983). Women who 'do
not have that support face even greater obstacles than those who do.
Social isolation has been shown to be associated with domestic violence. Severely
abused women tend to be extremely socially isolated, and have no one in their limited
social network who can provide the types of support listed above.,(Levendosky, Bogat,
Theran, Trotter, von Eye, & Davidson, 2004). Additionally, women who are educated are
less likely than those who are notto return to an abusive partner. It was hypothesized that
higher education can contribute to the presence of social networks (Schutte, Malouff, &
Doyle, 1988).
In abusive relationships, the abuser will often slowly work to isolate the abused
partner socially by not allowing her to work,not allowing her to have a car, or not
allowing her to leave the home (Matthews, 2004). Abusers may also prevent their
,i, partners from maintaining relationships with friends and family, via phone, letters,
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Internet or community activities, such as church services, as a way of maintaining control
(Turner, 2002, Levendosky, et al., 2004). This may explain part of the correlation
between lack of social support and severe abuse. This also limits the woman's access to
all resources, both practical and social, which makes her less likely to eventually leave
help is the inability to speak or understand English (McCue, 2008; Matthews, 2004).
Female immigrants tend to have a poorer command of English than do their husb.ands or
children, since children can learn English in school, and the men may need to h~ye a
rudimentary command of the language in order to get a job (McCue, 2008). ThIs .
language barrier can mean that an abused immigrant woman does not know her legal
options or rights, and can also mean that if she does manage to call someone for help,
The social isolation component can also be intensified fOI;,,;women living in rural
areas. There is a belief that domestic violence occurs more often in urban areas than rural,
and the reason for this is that violence among rural women is vastly unde~Teported. There
are fewer resources, such as shelters and social service programs, availabl~. Access to
everyday resources can be limited too: there may be fewer job opportunities, quality child
care, housing opportunities and health care, and access to what resources are available
enforcement and medical services can be slow or inadequate (McCue, 2008). Most
women experiencing domestic violence deal with isolation across all areas, but for
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have neighbors for miles, which means there is no chance of a neighbor or passerby
suspecting trouble and calling for help. It may be more difficult for a rural abused woman
to reach safety, be that a shelter or the home of a friend or family member. McCue (2008)
access to any sort of transportation. For example, in many areas of the Navajo Nation,
located in the Four Comers region of the United States, there is no cell phone service. A
resources, and lack of communication with people outside her household (McCu~, 2008).
Shame or guilt about abuse may represent another reason abused wome~ ·do not
have adequate social support, and thus may indirectly influence their inability to leave
their abusers (Levendosky, et aI., 2004). This shame may come from a lack of public
awareness about the causes and effects of domestic violence (Matthews, 2004, Tumer,
2002, Sullivan, 1994). For example, around half of abused women seek help from their
. religious leader (Gordon, 1996). However, members of the clerRwmay also know the
abuser in the relationship, and may be sympathetic to him. Additionally, clergy may be
committed to maintaining a marriage, even an abusive one, and advise the' women against
leaving their abusive partners. About 15% of women who confided in their religious
Some women are raised to believe that their husbands or male partners are in
charge, and so are hesitant to report abuse (Weiss, 2000; Matthews, 2004). A woman's
abuser may also be her main source of affection when he is not being abusive, which is
particularly dangerous when she is socially isolated (Salber & Taliaferro, 1995). Many
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was not only frowned upon, it was absolutely not an option. These particular women
tended to be the ones who mentioned the belief that they were the ones at fault for their
partners' abuse, believing that if they were better wives to them, the abuse would stop.
Immigrant women face unique challenges in this realm as well. They may experience
extreme pressure to remain silent for fear of the family "losing face" in the community.
Reporting domestic violence has the potential to cut the abused woman off from her
Abusive partners may also use a woman's children to coerce her into stay,ing in
the relationship. The abusive prutner may threaten to harm the children, take the.m.away,
or physically hurt the children in front of their mother in order to maintain control of the
A 1992 study reported that half of the pruticipants in their sample of abused
women were dissatisfied with the police response to their assailants (Sullivan,Basta, Tan,
& Davidson, 1992). The criminal justice system (defined as law. enforcement officers,
lawyers, and judges) is used more often by abused women than any other community
service (Gordon, 1996). However, police officers were as frequently unhelpful as they
were helpful (Sullivan, et aI., 1992; Hamilton & Coates, 1993). Police reportedly would
frequently question the abused partner's story, criticize her for staying in the relationship,
or fail to inform her of other agencies that may help her (Hamilton & Coates, 1993). It
has also been reported that police presence has caused violence to increase (Sullivan et
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Economic reasons were the most often reported for why women stay in abusive
relationships. If a woman is cut off socially and not allowed to work, her partner may be
her only means of financial support (Matthews, 2004; Salber & Taliaferro, 1995). Rural
women were mentioned above as facing unique challenges in accessing resources and
leaving their abusers. In terms of economic reasons for staying in abusive relationships,
rural farm families are often one-income families, most or all of their income coming
from the farm. A woman whose family finances are tied up in land and equipment may
face the choice of staying in an abusive relationship or leaving with no means of income
- or leaving her partner with no means ofincome, since she may be a key part of;the
farming business. She may also have strong emotional ties to the farm animals!;md land,
and fear that the animals may be neglected or harmed in some way if she leaves them
(McCue, 2008; Salber & Taliaferro, 1995). Additionally, restraining orders against
abusers are less viable for women living on rural farms because the abusive prutners
.cannot be kept away from the family farm if it is their only source of income (McCue,
2008):
A 1981 study found that when an abused woman leaves her abuser, there is a 50%
chance her standard of living will drop below the poverty line. The women who were
most likely to return to the abusive relationship were those who had been. married the
longest or had fewer skills or less work expedence than those who were less likely to
person relies on another for financial support, and is used to describe situations in which
one member of a dyad has exclusive ... control over financial resources" (p. 598).
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Economic dependency can occur if one person is the sole provider in the family and
denies his partner access to resources, but also when one person ust\\s threat or
occupations are significantly less likely than other women to terminate abusive
relationships (Woffordt et al., 1994). Economic dependency can also be influenced by the
beyond job income (Bornste~n, 2006). Additionally, anywhere from 37% to 96% of
women in abusive relationships have reported being impacted at work as a result .of the
abuse (Wettersten et al., 2004). They have a hard time keeping ajob or getting r
promotions, may miss work due to abuse related hospital visits, or may not be aHo.w ed to
Bomstein (2006) points out that it is important to realize that links between
economic dependency and abuse are bi-directional. High economic dependency may lead
some women to tolerate physical abuse, but repeated abuse may lead to economic'
concentrating, be harassed at work by an abusive partner, and have low self-efficacy due
to abuse. The abuse can affect work performance to the point where they may lose their
2004).
some researchers feel it takes a stance of "blaming the victim," (Walker, 1989, McCue,
2008), and implying she .should be abk to somehow control what is happening to her.
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Walker points out, though, that learned helplessness is not Pfissivity, but rather a
sophisticated set of coping skills (Walker, 1989; McCue, 2008). Abused women may use
Every woman who stays in a violent relationship will have her own reasons to do
so. Her abuser could have made threats to her or her children, she could be facing poverty
if she left, she may have been out of the workforce for years and lack skills and
experience necessary to obtain employment, she may be a rural woman with few
resources, or a recent immigrant dealing with a language barrier. She may have ~~eached
out to police or clergy in the past and found them to not be helpful. She may beJocused
on surviving day to day instead of focusing on escape. She may feel ashamed of;wnat she
has endured, or guilty for leaving her partner. Whatever the specific reasons, ther.e is no
universal answer for why women stay in abusive relationships, it may well be fo:p"
The specific reasons individual women give for why they eventually leave their
abusive prutners are as diverse and numerous as the women who give them. Everyone of
them can be summed up in one quotation: " There was no other choice." .
Since the early 1990's, research on preventive interventions for domestic violence
has increased (Repucci, et aI., 1999). As has been demonstrated thus far in this review,
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domestic violence is extremely complex, and no single strategy or intervention is going to
eradicate it.
Some of the more effective strategies are interventions for children who have
witnessed abuse. Although this review has focused on female, adult victims of domestic
violence, children experience this violence as well, through actually witnessing the abuse,
hearing but not seeing it, being injured in the "cross-fire" of violence, and being
manipulated by the abuser (Faller, 2003). Around half of children who are exposed in
some way to domestic violence display emotional and behavioral problems, such as
cognitive deficits, post-traumatic stress disorder, and depression (Kot & TyndalbLind,
2005; Faller, 2003). In addition to these; children who have witnessed domestic 'Violence
are more likely to either be the victim or perpetrator of violence in adult relationsfiips
(Faller, 2003; Osofsky, 2003). There are certain protective factors that help lower'these
risks, such as a stable relationship with an adult. This can be a complicated process for
children exposed to violent relationships between one or both of their parents, but
children may have opportunities to receive support from relativesj friends, or even a
sensitive police officer (Osofsky, 2003). Further education of mental health professionals,
educators, law enforcement officers, and others who may come into contact with children
affected by domestic violence will be helpful in recognizing and stopping the ripple .
/ .
effect that so often occurs, and providing support to children when they need it the most
(Faller, 2003; Osofsky, 2003). Kot and Tyndall-Lind (2005) outline an empirically
supported play therapy for child witnesses of domestic violence that emphasizes a
corrective therapeutic relationship based on trust, safety and mutual respect. There is at
it.
this point little research on preventative measures outside of childhood.
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At that point, then, it is necessary for reactive resources, which are the resources
most commonly used in response to abuse. The resources abused women most often tum
to are the legal system, mental health professionals, support groups, and shelters.
assigned half of the 141 participants to receive the free services of an advocate for the
first 10 weeks following their shelter stay. Sullivan's study was the first to examine the
effects of providing women access to an advocate - prior to this study, most research on
domestic violence had focused on prevalence and factors keeping women in abusive
resources that would make escaping abusive relationships possible, such as affordable
housing, employment, child care, legal assistance, and social support. The purpose.of the
advocate is to assist victims with accessing these resources. Advocates are a part of most
domestic violence shelter staffs. Sullivan found that a 6-months post-shelter stay, two
thirds of the women were no longer involved with their abusive p;mners, and there were
no differences between the experimental and control groups on this factor. Women who
had worked with advocates reported greater effectiveness in obtaining desired resources,
increased social support, and higher quality of life compared to women in the control
group, although both groups tended to regress toward the mean by the 6 month follow up,
Sullivan had a good retention rate for his study - 95% of his original sample was
follow up. Sullivan's study also showed a wide range of diversity within the sample. Of
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the participants, 45% were Caucasian, 43% were African-American, 8% were Latina, anci
1% were Asian American. At least 78% had one child living with them. At least 60%
lived below the federal poverty line, 82% were unemployed, and 81 % were receiving
(Gordon, 1996; Levendosky et aI., 2004). They tend to be unemployed, many rely on
their partners for financial support, many live below the poverty line. Women who stay at
least one night in a domestic violence shelter, on average, seek help six times from other
community resources, such as the police, mental health professionals, or the cleJ;gy,
before enteting the shelter (Gordon, 1996). These women who come to the shelter after
several unsuccessful attempts to get help elsewhere are likely the ones who are,socially
isolated, who do not have easy access to family, friends, or co-workers, or who may have
a language barrier preventing them from seeking help. For example, women who are
employed outside the home are more likely to contact the police or other social services
than women who do not (Gordon, 1996; McCue, ,2008; Turner, 2(02).
At the beginning of this section I said women who were able to permanently leave
their abusive partners did so because there was no other choice. Weiss (2000), a domestic
violence survivor herself, interviewed women who had been victims of domestic violence
who were able to escape. Her book allowed women to explain their experiences in their
Many times, Weiss said, the actual thing that pushes a woman to leave her
abusive partner is a last straw, that may seem minor. One woman, while out with her
husband, reported that a passerby heard an exchange between the couple and called the
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abusive partner a rude name. The woman left her husband later that week. Some do not
leave so quickly. They spend months or years planning their escape until that last straw,
the one that leads them to say they have no other choice.
Many women report that it was when they became pregnant that they found the
courage to leave. They realized that their partners were not just hurting them anymore,
they were hurting a child too. Some women leave once their baby is born, when the child
becomes a player in the abuse. One woman reported leaving after her partner calmly
Another woman decided to leave her husband during a Passover Seder, w,-hen her
family was recounting their people's escape from slavery. Making the connectiollto her
own situation, she resolved that night she would no longer be controlled by anyone:. Yet
another resolved to leave after waking up from a coma that her paltner had put berino
Abuse, Weiss states, is not about anger, but about power and control. This is why
statistically, the most danger to an abused woman comes in the 6 months after leaving her
abuser, because by doing so she sends a clear message saying be uo longer controls her
Discussion
literature review into coherent main points. As I have discussed above, no two woman
experience the same pattern of domestic violence, meaning that research using qualitative
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Second, much of the research in domestic violence has examined women who live in
urban areas, who are employed. However, domestic violence occurs equally among urban
and rural women, many of whom are not employed outside the home (McCue, 2008).
immigrated are another group that has been neglected in the research. Third, preliminary
researchers have begun to look at the types of resources that are useful in helping women
leave abusive relationships (Sullivan et al., 1992). The time has come to expand upon this
research so that the legal system, mental health professionals, medical professionals, and
advocacy services are prepared to offer assistance and support to allow woman to leave
abusive relationships. Finally I will discuss the importance of examining which ofthese
Only one book dealing exclusively with qualitative interviews (Weiss, 2000) was
found in the course of the literature review. Facts, figures, percentages, and ratios are
important in understanding the scope of the problem. Scholarly articles are essential in
examining the broader patterns of domestic violence, such as the general cycle of
relationships, resources that the majority of women find helpful, and so on. In order to
have the greatest chance of understanding what a woman in a violent relationship is going
through, though, the voices of those women must be heard. For example, Weiss presents
information from her interviews about the tension building phase of a relationship. This
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information is difficult to quantify, as the tension building phase can be anything from
Many of the women interviewed in Weiss' book described a "brainwashing" that occurs
numbers. These individual stories are the details that are lost in quantitative research,
It is easy to become desensitized to numbers so big they seem unreal, such as the
4 to 6 million assaults by intimate partners every year (Tjaden & Thoennes, 2000). It is
not so easy to ignore the compelling voices of the women themselves, and know\that for
everyone who escaped and is able to tell her story, countless others are not. One) third of
female murder victims are killed by an intimate partner (Matthews, 2004). This amounts
There were a few articles like the one by Rothman, Hathaway, Stidsen and.de
Vries (2007), which dealt in structured qualitative interviews. The focus in these articles
was on women's employment and dependency. This research allows for some of the
detail provided in Weiss' (2000) book, but also draws more decisive conclusions than
Weiss is able to, which is a positive step. Rothman and colleagues studied how
employment helps victims of domestic violence. The study was qualitative, and
conducted among employees at an urban hospital over a period of several months. The
sample size was small, 21 women who had recently been physically abused by their
cunent or most recent partner, but yielded some interesting results. Rothman et al. found
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providing mental respite, and providing motivation. These results are fairly typical of
what one would expect from reviewing the literature, Social isolation is often a huge
component of what causes women to stay so long in violent relationships (Sullivan et al.,
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1994; Bowker, 1983; Levendosky et al., 2004). Working would relieve that isolation,
and also provide a safe place, particularly in a large workplace setting like the hospital
from which Rothman et al. drew their sample. Most of the women in the Rothman et aI.
sample also had at least some higher education, which has been shown to make women
less likely to return to an' abusive partner (Schutte, Malouff & Doyle, 1988). The benefits
of employment for victims of domestic violence are almost common sense, although
studies like that of Rothman et al. and others are helpful in concretely showing,the link.
The Rothman et al. (2007) article is one of many that examine the way '
employment helps victims of domestic violence. Bomstein (2006) did a literature review
review is useful in that it takes a relatively small area of the complex issue of domestic
violence, that of dependency, and looks in depth at different facets of it. Bomstein uses
studies with three general assessment strategies: self-report scales, structured interviews,
for abusers or use of emergency medical services. These three assessment strategies are
primarily what are used throughout the literature on domestic violence, with the
potential abuse, and that emotional dependency, while a risk factor, is less significant.
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Bomstein found that Depressive Personality Disorder symptoms playa role in abused
currently residing in a domestic violence shelter. Like Rothman et al. (2007), Wettersten
et al. used a structured qualitative interview. Wettersten et al. found similar benefits as
Rothman et al. to being employed, but also noted the impact of violent relationships on
women's work performance, discussing how frequent domestic violence related absences
led to lost work oppOltunities and how the women interviewed tended to have difficulty
statistically significant results like this, but the results again are somewhat cOlIll;Ilon
sense. It makes sense that a women living in a violent household would have trouble
concentrating on her work, or that she would frequently miss work. The qualitative
al., Rothman et al., Bomstein (2006) and others is certainly important groundwork. The
time has now come to "examine different domains of domestic violence, which may be
One author, and only one author, reviewed in this research talked at length
regarding the unique challenges faced by women attempting to leave violent relationships
who are recent immigrants or who live in a rural setting, although others mentioned this
topic briefly or cited statistics. The research in this book (McCue, 2008) is presented in
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this review. A closer look, however, at rural and immigrant populations is certainly
needed before any broader conclusions can be drawn regarding these women. For
example, much research has focused on links between employment and domestic
violence. McCue points out that women in rural farming communities will most often
work on the family farm, meaning that although they may get the sense of purpose or
mental respite gained by women employed outside the home (Rothman et aI., 2007), they
will not have the additional benefits of increased social support, increased safety, and
financial gain, since any earnings would be put back into the family farm.
their partners to work outside the home at all (Matthews, 2004; Turner, 2002;
Levendosky et aI., 2004). If this is the case, and it frequently is, it will not matt~r how
many benefits there are to employment. Add to this the lack of employment opportunities
in rural areas, and the social isolation that comes from geography alone, and it seems
. clear that women in rural areas have unique challenges that deserve further study in order .
to begin to provide more effective treatments. These population £\re harder to study,
though, which is likely a reason why research has been conducted so much on employed
16,000 employees, as Rothman et aI. (2007) did than it is in a small farming community
similar concern, and one that is also difficult to research. In many recent immigrant
populations, adult women have a poorer command of English than their husbands or
children (McCue, 2008). They may also face more shame or guilt in talking about abuse
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to someone outside their culture, and may not understand their legal rights (McCue,
2008). However, recent immigrant women face challenges like those of rural women, and
are equally, if not more, overlooked. Rural and immigrant women are in need of services
to help escape domestic violence, as much as urban, English-speaking women, but with
the lack of research concerning their experiences and distinct needs, those services are
Few questions are asked more often of abused women than, "why didn't you just
leave?" (Weiss, 2000). There is a great deal of research to answer this question, as I have
partners find the resources and support to actually leave. Most of the research on
prevention in this area focuses around interventions with children, which are certainly a
worthwhile area of study, considering the ties between witnessing violence as children
interventions for adults. Researchers have demonstrated some success using rape
The same sort of changes may be possible for domestic violence. This is a worthwhile
direction for future research. Many colleges already educate incoming students on rape
myths and safe behavior (Repucci et al., 1999). Education surrounding domestic violence
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Sullivan (1994), as stated earlier, was the first to examine the effects' of providing
women access to an advocate after staying at a shelter. While it's true that the staff at
most shelters provide advocacy services during the shelter stay, few researchers since.
1994 have examined the efficacy of services either during or after shelter stay. Also,
although Sullivan's sample was representative of women who stay in shelters (Gordon,
1996; Levendosky et aI., 2004), he did not examine, at least overtly, immigrant
irrrrnigrants, even working with an advocate, may not experience the same gains as the
other women in the study due to language and cultural banlers (McCue, 2008) . .
domestic violence. Sullivan, after examining various social and community supports for
domestic violence survivors, concluded that advocacy services, shelter services, or police
interventions on their own will not significantly reduce the amount of domestic violence
a woman may experience. In fact, women already rate police interventions as particularly
ineffective in comparison with the other resources mentioned (Gordon, 1996). Instead, all
of these services must be part of a larger package designed to work with abused women
(Sullivan, 1994).
like the links between employment and domestic violence (Rothman, et aI., 1997;
Bomstein, 2006; Levendosky, et aI., 2004; Wettersten, et al., 2004). There are books like
Weiss' (2000) collection of interviews, which are invaluable. Research like Sullivan's
1994 study on advocacy intervention is a step in the right direction in terms of providing
more detailed insight to help prevent and treat domestic violence. Gordon (1996)
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conducted a meta-analysis of 12 studies examining perceived usefulness of services most
frequently utilized by abused women. The studies making up the meta-analysis consisted
mostly questionnaires and structured interviews, allowing for a certain level of detail in
responses. Gordon's findings, that some of the most utilized resources, like the criminal
justice system or the clergy, were some of the lowest rated by abused women, are
startling. Gordon also points out that women in the 12 studies were ones who were not
under such strict control that they do not have the opportunity to respond to surveys,
which lends support to the point that there is an important population of women out there
The next step, then, in the domestic violence research is an obvious one. More
research should be done on which community resources are effective or not, and why.
Salber and Taliaferro (1995) provide a reference guide for physicians on how to
recognize signs of domestic violence and what to do about it. This reference is useful,
first of all, in that it shows that the medical community is working to dispel myths
surrounding domestic violence, such as misconceptions about who it happens to and why
a woman who has been abused may not readily admit it to a physician. The Salber and
Taliaferro article is also useful for educating providers about broad concepts, and in fact
cites many of the same articles I have used here. Yet women seek help from community
providers an average of six times before coming to a shelter (Gordon, 1996). Why are
these resources not helping? Providers' lack of education in the intricacies of domestic
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violence is an obvious answer, but examination cannot stop there. Women surveyed
are helpful for all types of abuse (Gordon, 1996). This is a start, but it is not enough yet.
What will help people in the legal system, the education system, the mental health field,
gain the expertise needed to help women escape violent relationships without having to
seek services six times before going to a shelter? Finally, what can shelters do to further
assist the women that stay there? These are the questions facing the next group of
researchers, who have information about prevalence and what happens in violent
relationships, but not what helps end them. It is this research yet to come that wiUprovide
the treatments, services, assessments, and methods of prevention for the societal problem
of domestic violence.
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