Maximize Your Potential - Grow Your Expertise, Take Bold Risks & Build An Incredible Career (PDFDrive)
Maximize Your Potential - Grow Your Expertise, Take Bold Risks & Build An Incredible Career (PDFDrive)
Maximize Your Potential - Grow Your Expertise, Take Bold Risks & Build An Incredible Career (PDFDrive)
99U
BOOK SERIES
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eISBN: 9781477850190
For those who strive
TABLE OF CONTENTS
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What is 99U?
Preface
Acknowledgments
About 99U
About Behance
About the Editor
Endnotes
Index
WHAT IS 99U?
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For too long, the creative world has focused on idea generation at the expense of
idea execution. As the legendary inventor Thomas Edison famously said,
“Genius is 1 percent inspiration, and 99 percent perspiration.” To make great
ideas a reality, we must act, experiment, fail, adapt, and learn on a daily basis.
99U is Behance’s effort to provide this “missing curriculum” for making ideas
happen. Through our Webby Award–winning website, popular events, and
bestselling books, we share pragmatic, action-oriented insights from leading
researchers and visionary creatives.
At 99U, we don’t want to give you more ideas—we want to empower you to
make good on the ones you’ve got.
PREFACE
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Comedian Milton Berle used to say, “If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.”
If we want to realize our full potential as creatives and individuals, being
proactive isn’t just an option, it’s a requirement. Fortunately, we have more
power than ever to share our ideas with the world, to connect with others, and to
define our career paths. The era of self-invention is upon us.
Where we used to associate a career with a slow rise within a single company,
we are now switching jobs eleven times on average in our lifetime. Where we
used to rely on dealers to share our artwork with the world, we can now simply
build an online gallery to share new work as we produce it. Where we used to
turn to a small cadre of investors to approve our ideas for creation, we can now
pitch our projects to the masses and crowd-source funding online.
The possibilities are infinite. But so, too, are the responsibilities. Having the
ability to chart your own course shifts the onus of leadership back onto you. This
means that we cannot expect our managers to take charge of our career
development and groom us for greatness. We cannot wait quietly for the perfect
mentor to arrive and guide us in the development of our craft. And we cannot
count on a future filled with signposts and certainty.
To help guide you through this brave new world, 99U’s Maximize Your Potential
assembles insights around four key areas that we believe are essential to long-
term career success: identifying and creating new opportunities, cultivating your
expertise over time, building collaborative relationships, and learning how to
take risks.
Dedicating a chapter to each of these focus areas, we’ve assembled an incredible
group of creative minds—Bob Safian, Ben Casnocha, Joshua Foer, Teresa
Amabile, Tony Schwartz, Tina Seelig, and many more—to share their wisdom
with you. Drawing on intensive research and deep personal experience, the
essays in Maximize Your Potential provide a powerhouse of perspectives on how
to build a career filled with excitement, achievement, and meaning.
Let this volume be your guide as you craft—and re-craft—your own creative
career over time, constantly striving to up the ante on just who you can become.
We are an ambitious and impatient cohort, and rightly so. Why? Because we’ve
entered a new era that empowers us to unleash our full potential. But opportunity
and achievement do not flow from a sense of entitlement. Your ability to realize
your potential will depend upon your willingness to hone your skills, to take
bold risks, and to put your ego on the line in pursuit of something greater.
Chalk it up to new technology, social media, or the once out-of-reach
business tools now at your fingertips. The fact is, we’re empowered to work on
our own terms and do more with less. As a result, we expect more from those
that employ us and we expect more from ourselves. When we get the resources
and opportunities we deserve, we create the future. If you’re reading this book, I
suspect you identify.
Here’s a name for us: Free Radicals.
Free Radicals want to take their careers into their own hands and put the
world to work for them. Free Radicals are resilient, self-reliant, and extremely
potent. You’ll find them working solo, in small teams, or within large
companies. As the world changes, Free Radicals have re-imagined “work” as we
know it. No doubt, we have lofty expectations.
We do work that is, first and foremost, intrinsically rewarding. But, we don’t
create solely for ourselves, we want to make a real and lasting impact in the
world around us.
We thrive on flexibility and are most productive when we feel fully engaged.
We demand freedom, whether we work within companies or on our own, to run
experiments, participate in multiple projects at once, and move our ideas
forward.
We make stuff often, and therefore, we fail often. Ultimately, we strive for
little failures that help us course-correct along the way, and we view every
failure as a learning opportunity, part of our experiential education.
99U was founded with the Free Radical in mind, to provide education and
insights that we didn’t get in school but sorely need as we mine opportunities in
this new era of work. The book ahead is all about maximizing your potential and
taking the reins on your career. I encourage you to absorb these insights,
remembering that you’re in charge now. With the wind at your back, the
responsibility is now yours: challenge and improve yourself—and the world—in
every way you can.
Traditional career advice suggests a passive approach to
finding your calling: Pick a job listing, apply, wait for a
response. Get the job, perform your duties, wait for a
promotion. Rinse, repeat, stagnate. But a wait-and-see
attitude is hardly the path to greatness.
With the access and resources of the twenty-first century at our fingertips, we
can and should be active participants in shaping our future. We must seek out
opportunity by strategizing with the resourcefulness and adaptability of a start-
up entrepreneur, and we must draw opportunity to us by relentlessly developing
our raw skills—excelling at our craft in a way that cannot go unnoticed.
We must look at the market and align our interests and abilities with something
that people actually want. And we must keep an ear to the ground for the
unexpected—never holding so tightly to our plans that we let luck pass us by.
Greatness doesn’t come from taking a “lean back” approach to career planning.
Get out in front of opportunity—and it will come to you.
CULTIVATING YOUR CRAFT BEFORE YOUR PASSION
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Cal Newport
Second, even when people do feel strongly about a particular topic, decades of
research on career satisfaction teaches us that you need much more than a pre-
existing interest to transform your work into something you love. Many a
passionate baker, for example, crumbled under the stress of trying to run a retail
bakery, just as many a passionate amateur photographer has lost interest in the
art when forced to document yet another interminable wedding.
If you want to end up passionate about your working life, therefore, you
need a strategy that’s more sophisticated than simply trying to discover some
innate calling hardwired in your DNA. In this piece, I want to explore one such
strategy—one that turned up often when I studied the lives of people who have
built compelling careers. Let’s take a well-known literary personality as our case
study.
Bill McKibben is an environmental journalist. He became famous for his 1989
book, The End of Nature, which was one of the first popular accounts of climate
change. He has since written more than a dozen books and become a prominent
environmental activist. If you attend a McKibben talk or read a McKibben
interview, you’ll encounter someone who is obviously passionate about his
work. But how did he get to where he is today?
We can pick up McKibben’s story when he arrives at Harvard as an
undergraduate and signs up to write for the student newspaper, The Harvard
Crimson. By the time he graduates, he is the paper’s editor. This puts him on the
radar of New Yorker editor William Shawn, who taps the recent grad to write for
Talk of the Town, a column that runs at the front of the magazine.
In 1987, five years after arriving at the New Yorker, McKibben makes his
move. He quits the magazine and moves to a cabin in the Adirondacks.
Sequestered in the wilderness, McKibben pens The End of Nature, which
becomes an instant classic in environmental journalism, laying the foundation
for the passionate life that he enjoys today.
McKibben’s story highlights two lessons that my research has shown to be
crucial for understanding how people build working lives they love.
LESSON 1: WHAT YOU DO FOR A LIVING MATTERS LESS THAN YOU THINK
McKibben built a career he loved as a writer. Having studied him, however, I
would argue that there are many different career paths he could have followed
with an equal degree of passion. The two things that seem to really matter to
McKibben are autonomy (e.g., control over what he works on, when he works
on it, where he lives, etc.) and having an impact on the world. Therefore, any job
that could provide him autonomy and impact would generate passion. One could
imagine, for example, an alternative universe in which we find an equally happy
McKibben at the head of, say, an important education non-profit or as a
respected sociology professor.
This pattern is common in people who love what they do. Their
satisfaction doesn’t come from the details of their work but instead from a set of
important lifestyle traits they’ve gained in their career. These desirable traits
differ for different people—some might crave respect and importance, for
example, while others crave flexibility in their schedule and simplicity—but the
key point here is that these traits are more general than any specific position. To
build a career, the right question is not “What job am I passionate about doing?”
but instead “What way of working and living will nurture my passion?”
→ calnewport.com/blog
REDISCOVERING YOUR ENTREPRENEURIAL INSTINCT
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Ben Casnocha
All humans are entrepreneurs not because all people should start companies, but
because the will to create and forage and adapt is part of our DNA. As Yunus
says, these qualities are the essence of entrepreneurship. To adapt to the
challenges of the world today, you need to rediscover these entrepreneurial
instincts.
One of the best ways to do this is to think of yourself as an entrepreneur at
the helm of a living, growing start-up venture: your career. When you start a
company, you make decisions in an information-poor, time-compressed,
resource-constrained environment. There are no guarantees or safety nets;
dealing with risk is inevitable. The competition is changing and the market is
changing. These realities—the ones entrepreneurs face when starting and
growing companies—are ones we all now face when fashioning a career in any
industry. Information is limited. Resources are tight. Competition is fierce.
Becoming the CEO of your career isn’t easy; it requires a particular mind-
set and a specific set of skills.
4. Take intelligent risks. Risk tends to get a bad rap. But it’s not the enemy.
Entrepreneurs proactively yet prudently take on intelligent risk. Because the flip
side of every opportunity is risk, if you’re not taking risks, you’re not finding the
breakout opportunities you’re looking for. In your career, good entrepreneurial
risks include taking on side projects on nights and weekends, embarking on
international travel, asking your boss for extra work, and applying for jobs that
you don’t think you’re fully qualified for.
You change, the competition changes, and the world changes. What cannot
change is your determination to continue investing in yourself. Steve Jobs once
called Apple the “biggest start-up on the planet.” In the same way, you need to
stay young, agile, and adaptive. You need to forever be a start-up.
The start-up is you.
→ www.casnocha.com
Q&A:
RE-IMAGINING YOUR CAREER, CONSTANTLY
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with Robert Safian
I think careers have always been mythic. There’s this idea that you would get a
job somewhere, work your way up the ladder for forty years, and retire with a
gold watch. If that myth were ever true, it’s certainly not true anymore. The
average amount of time that an American worker stays in his or her current job
is 4.4 years. That means we’re changing jobs all the time, and yet we’re still
seeking careers that are more steady than that.
I think the most important skill in the age of flux is the ability to get new skills.
To constantly be open to new areas of learning and new areas of growth. That is
what will make you most valuable to the employer, partner, start-up of the
future. And it is also what gives you the most options moving forward. That
doesn’t mean that you should be a dilettante. You have to develop a certain level
of expertise in whatever area you choose. But you need to have very little
tolerance for stagnation, and if something you’re working on doesn’t go the way
you wanted, you need to have a high capacity for discarding it and moving on to
something else.
It means that when you have an opportunity to learn and interact with something
new, you should be running toward it instead of running away from it. If you
have a strong passion and you want to go deep in that one place, go deep. But
don’t be surprised if you end up going deep in the wrong place. And know that,
at some point, you’ll pull back and start again somewhere else. That’s just the
way it’s going to be in the time of flux.
If you don’t have one place where you really have a passion to go deep,
then dig into all the areas in which you’re interested. For me, in the world of
flux, I think there’s no single model that’s going to work. There’s no single
model that’s going to work for a company, and there’s no single model that’s
going to work for a career. The time we’re coming out of, we’re trained to be
looking for one answer, one way. Here’s how I get from here to there. Here is the
career track. Here is the ladder. But that one way doesn’t exist anymore.
Do you think it’s more about having a personal mission that
becomes a compass for making decisions in your career?
I think that the guiding principle is your own passion and your own search for
meaning. What mission are you on? What is the mission that you are trying to
fulfill in your life that gives your business meaning, that gives your work
meaning? And the answer to that may change over time. You may have various
missions during the course of your life. But that’s what will dictate how you
should be spending your energy.
In my experience, people who love what they do are much better at it.
They’re more successful, are constantly adding new skills, and continue to drive
themselves forward. The more passion you can find around what you’re doing,
the more voracious you’ll be in adding and building the skills that will be useful
for you in the long run.
There’s this saying, “The moment you move to protecting the status quo
instead of disrupting the status quo, you put yourself at risk.” That’s the
challenge for businesses, and that’s the challenge for individuals: understanding
the point at which you are protecting what you know and defending what you
know, instead of looking at what else you can learn and how you can grow.
ROBERT SAFIAN oversees the editorial operations of Fast Company and its
digital affiliates. He was previously executive editor at Time and Fortune, and
led Money magazine for six years.
→ www.fastcompany.com
MAKING YOUR OWN LUCK
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Jocelyn K. Glei
The lightning-fast evolution of technology means that jobs can now become
indispensable or outmoded in a matter of years, even months. Who knew what a
“community manager” was ten years ago? What about an “iPad app designer” or
a “JavaScript ninja”?
A substantial portion of the working population now earns its livelihood
doing jobs that didn’t exist ten or twenty years ago. And even if the nature of
your job hasn’t changed, chances are you’re using new and unanticipated
technology and skills to perform that job. Think of the designer who blogs, the
comedian who tweets, or the filmmaker who raises a budget on Kickstarter.
Ten years from now, we’ll probably all be doing some new type of work
that we couldn’t possibly imagine today. That thought is both exhilarating and
frightening. How do we prepare for a future filled with uncertainty?
1. Look beyond the job title, and focus on your mission. It’s easy to get
sucked into chasing after a specific job title—whether it’s becoming a creative
director, a chief marketing officer, or a product manager. But titles are a trap.
The job you want today may not exist tomorrow. Thus, by tailoring your goals
and your skill development to attaining a specific position, you limit your
options.
Rather than setting your sights on a specific role, focus instead on what
you want to accomplish. Ask yourself: “What problem am I solving? What do I
want to create? What do I want to change?” Your mission will spring from the
answers. It could look like: “I want to invent a new business model for online
publishing,” or “I want to use technology to bring education to underserved
communities,” or “I want to be part of the conversation about clean energy.”
By adopting a mission, you reframe your ambitions in a way that allows
other people to get excited and connect with you (e.g., “I’m passionate about
clean energy, too. Do you know Mosaic, the clean energy investment
marketplace?”). It also gives you a better baseline for aligning your values with
potential companies and collaborators. Sure, the company you’re interviewing
with may need a product manager, but do they share your passion for bringing
education to underserved communities?
The more clarity you have in your stated mission, the better equipped
you’ll be to adapt in a changing marketplace and to attract and assess new
opportunities.
2. Explore new technologies with enthusiasm. The tools you use today will not
be the tools you use in the future. You may have heard the term “life sport”
before. It refers to sports—like golf, tennis, or swimming—that you can play
from ages seven to seventy. Wired co-founder Kevin Kelly recently expanded
this concept to include technology as life sport, outlining a list of “techno life
skills” that we should all cultivate.
As Kelly puts it: “If you are in school today the technologies you will use
as an adult tomorrow have not been invented yet. Therefore, the life skill you
need most is not the mastery of specific technologies, but mastery of… how
technology in general works.”1
Whether it’s interviewing someone over Skype, developing an affable
Twitter persona, learning how to publish an e-book, or experimenting with a new
task management app, we must become adept at testing out new technologies
that can benefit us in our personal and professional lives. Sometimes, we will
choose not to integrate a new technology into our lives, and that’s okay. It’s the
experimentation, and the awareness we gain through it, that’s key.
3. Make a habit of helping people whenever you can. We can all be pretty sure
we’re going to need help at some point in the future. As leadership expert and
ethnographer Simon Sinek articulated in a rousing talk at our 99U Conference,
“We’re not good at everything; we’re not good by ourselves.” Sinek went on to
describe how the ability to build relationships is the key to our survival as a race
and to thriving as idea-makers. The number one way to build relationships is, of
course, by helping each other.
But in an age of complex connections and contingencies, there isn’t always
a simple one-to-one correlation among acts of generosity. (As in, “I’ll scratch
your back, you scratch mine.”) And there shouldn’t be. Helping our peers,
colleagues, and allies should be a regular habit and its own reward. We usually
can’t foresee how, but the goodness always comes back around.
Lucky people take advantage of chance occurrences that come their way.
Instead of going through life on cruise control, they pay attention to
what’s happening around them and, therefore, are able to extract greater
value from each situation… Lucky people are also open to novel
opportunities and willing to try things outside of their usual experiences.
They’re more inclined to pick up a book on an unfamiliar subject, to travel
to less familiar destinations, and to interact with people who are different
than themselves.3
In short, lucky people are open-minded, upbeat, proactive, and always willing to
try something new. While it’s good to be directed in your career, you’ll want to
stay open and alert to unexpected possibilities. And when they show up, act on
them. You never know what the outcome might be.
6. Always be asking “What’s next?” If you’re not asking questions, you’re not
going to find answers. We often wait to ask those hard career questions right up
until the moment when we need the answer desperately. We wait until we get
laid off to think about what’s next. Or we wait until we’re completely miserable
and burned-out at our current job before we even begin to contemplate the next
one.
But if you’re going to switch jobs every four years or so, you should be
asking yourself “What’s next?” all the time. Not in a way that disengages you
from your current position, of course, but rather in a way that helps you push
yourself and hone in on your passion. What new skills do you want to develop?
To whom should you reach out to be your mentor? Should you take on that big
new project at work—the one that kind of scares you?
If you don’t ask, you’ll never find out.
JOCELYN K. GLEI leads the 99U in its mission to provide the “missing
curriculum” on making ideas happen. She oversees the Webby Award–winning
99u.com website and curates the popular 99U Conference. Jocelyn is also the
editor of the 99U book series, which includes the titles Manage Your Day-to-Day
and this book, Maximize Your Potential.
→ www.jkglei.com
FINDING YOUR WORK SWEET SPOT
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Scott Belsky
There are two types of work in this world. The first is the
obligatory kind, the work we do because of a job or a contract,
often with an eye on the clock. The second—very different—type
of work we do is “work with intention.”
When we are working with intention, we toil away endlessly—often through the
wee hours of the morning—on projects we care about deeply. Whether it’s
building an intricate model of an ancient ship, writing a song, or mapping out an
idea for your first business, you do it out of genuine interest and love.
If you can make “work with intention” the center of your efforts, you’re
more likely to make an impact on what matters most to you. But how do you
actually do that?
Over the years, I’ve met many creative leaders and entrepreneurs who have
made an impact in their respective industries. It should come as no surprise that
they love what they do. But when I’ve asked probing questions about their career
paths, I always find that their good fortune was anything but predestined. Aside
from lots of hard work, great creative careers are powered by an intersection of
three factors: interest, skill, and opportunity.
The same thinking applies to successful creative projects. The magic
happens when you find the sweet spot where these three factors intersect.
1. YOUR (GENUINE) INTERESTS
What fascinates you? What topic do you like to discuss and read about the most?
Many legendary creative careers are sparked by a genuine interest in a particular
field. Perhaps it’s film, coffee, or airplane travel. This is not about what promises
the most economic gain. On the contrary, this is a topic that trumps economic
concerns because you love it so much.
While money is important, the drive that powers the most remarkable
achievements comes from a deeper place. To understand the symptoms of work
performed without genuine interest, look no further than the nearest abandoned
project or malnourished career. Look to the middle managers who count down to
five o’clock. It’s not pretty.
Reaching for greatness without a genuine interest in the field is like
running a marathon after fasting. Remarkable achievements are fueled by
genuine interest.
→ www.scottbelsky.com
KEY TAKEAWAYS
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Creating Opportunities
We must adopt a mind-set that fosters constant growth, dedicate ourselves to the
regular and rigorous practice of our craft, and track our setbacks and successes
over time. We must set the bar high, raise it, and raise it again.
If you want to stand out in this world, stepping out of your comfort zone—and
cultivating new skills—is the place to start.
FOCUSING ON GETTING BETTER, RATHER THAN BEING
GOOD
–
Heidi Grant Halvorson
Understanding why this happens is the first step in realizing your potential and
avoiding the pitfalls that have derailed you in the past. The second step is to
learn how you can change your own mind-set—the one you didn’t even realize
you had—and learn to see your work and your world through a new, more
inspiring, and more accurate lens.
2. Ask for help when you run into trouble. Needing help doesn’t mean you
aren’t capable—in fact, the opposite is true. Only the very foolish believe they
can do everything on their own. And studies show that asking for help when you
need it actually makes people think you are more capable, not less.
→ www.heidigranthalvorson.com
DEVELOPING MASTERY THROUGH DELIBERATE
PRACTICE
–
Tony Schwartz
→ www.theenergyproject.com
Q&A:
LEARNING TO LIVE OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE
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with Joshua Foer
The OK Plateau is that point when we reach the autonomous stage and
consciously or unconsciously say to ourselves, “I am OK at how good I have
gotten at this task,” and stop paying conscious attention to our improvement. We
all reach OK Plateaus in almost everything we do. We learn to drive when we’re
teenagers, and at first we improve rapidly, but eventually we are no longer a
threat to old ladies crossing the street, and we stop getting appreciably better.
There are some generalizable principles that all experts use to push
beyond the OK Plateau. Can you describe them?
Psychologists have studied experts in just about every possible field you can
imagine, from athletics to the arts to business. They’ve found a surprisingly
generalizable set of principles that tend to be used by experts in field after field.
Those principles help explain why their practice results in their achieving the
degree of expertise that others don’t necessarily achieve. One of the essential
things they have found is that, if you want to get better at something, you cannot
do it in that autonomous stage. You can’t get better on autopilot. One thing that
experts in field after field tend to do is use strategies to keep themselves out of
that autonomous stage and under their conscious direction. That’s how you
conquer those OK Plateaus.
So experts make sure they’re staying in that early learning phase all
the time?
There’s no way to get good at anything without putting in the hours. But just as
important as the quantity of time is the quality of time. If you’re not being
rigorous with your practice and focusing on the hard parts, you will improve
very slowly.
How have you focused on the “hard stuff” as a writer over the
course of your career?
I try to take on stories that really force me to push myself. For example, my
current book project has required me to spend large amounts of time living in the
Congolese rain forest with Babenjele pygmies. Every day out there is a
challenge. But if you’re not pushing yourself, how do you expect to grow?
It’s hard to be your own coach, but not impossible. The key thing is to set up
structures that provide you with objective feedback—and to not be so blind that
you can’t take that feedback and use it.
It helps to have a strong, clear vision of where you’re going. When things get
hard, you need to be able to see the reward that awaits at the end of all the
struggle.
→ www.joshuafoer.com
REPROGRAMMING YOUR DAILY HABITS
–
Scott H. Young
But how did you decide what to eat for breakfast yesterday? Or which route to
take to work? Chances are, there wasn’t much of a decision at all. You ate the
breakfast you normally eat. You commuted to work the way you always do.
If you think hard about it, you’ll notice just how many “automatic”
decisions you make each day. But these habits aren’t always as trivial as what
you eat for breakfast. Your health, your productivity, and the growth of your
career are all shaped by the things you do each day—most by habit, not by
choice.
Even the choices you do make consciously are heavily influenced by
automatic patterns. Researchers have found that our conscious mind is better
understood as an explainer of our actions, not the cause of them. Instead of
triggering the action itself, our consciousness tries to explain why we took the
action after the fact, with varying degrees of success. This means that even the
choices we do appear to make intentionally are at least somewhat influenced by
unconscious patterns.
Given this, what you do every day is best seen as an iceberg, with a small
fraction of conscious decision sitting atop a much larger foundation of habits and
behaviors. But this view doesn’t need to be pessimistic. Recognizing that most
of our actions are controlled by habits can be powerful. Once you know that
patterns run much of your life, you can start figuring out how to change them.
PROGRAMMING EFFECTIVENESS
About ten years ago, I noticed a problem in my life. I kept failing to keep the
goals that I had set for myself. I would want to work hard on a project that was
necessary for my business, but I’d fail to execute. Like most people, I blamed
laziness or a lack of motivation for these failings.
But then I learned about habits. It turns out willpower is a finite resource—
something that gets depleted with use. Roy Baumeister did the first experiments
on this phenomenon, known as “ego depletion,” showing that the exertion of
willpower in one area makes it harder to exert it on another task later.5
This corresponded with what I had observed in myself. Each time I would
put more effort into doing better at one task, I would fail with another. I felt like
I was juggling all my activities and constantly dropping the balls.
Creating habits held a powerful allure. If I could take the willpower-
draining activities I was failing to execute and gradually turn them into
unconscious habits, I could then use the “tugboat” of my conscious willpower to
work on something else.
Wake up earlier
Exercise regularly
Eat properly
Set up a productivity system
Establish deliberate practice time for your craft
Become more organized
Read a book per month
Cut out wasteful Internet surfing
Keep your e-mail inbox empty
Cut down on television
Learn a new skill
Maintain a journal or diary
Even if you only accomplished a quarter of this list, my guess is you could make
significant gains in your life. The focus principle for habit change isn’t actually
slow. In fact, it’s much faster than the alternative.
With focus and consistency you can change your habits. By changing your
habits, you reprogram the behaviors that control most of your life and ultimately
determine your success.
SCOTT H. YOUNG has been studying the science of learning, habit change,
and meaningful productivity since he was seventeen. He has written numerous e-
books, including Holistic Learning, which is available on his website.
→ www.scotthyoung.com/blog
KEEPING A DIARY TO CATALYZE CREATIVITY
–
Teresa Amabile, Steven Kramer & Ela Ben-Ur
Of course, Weston could have used a simple calendar or to-do list to plan next
steps. But notice his remark that his luck seems to be changing. What a calendar
cannot do, and a journal can, is help you reflect on the big picture of your life
and your creative work—where it is, what it means, and what direction you want
it to take.
Diaries can be particularly helpful tools for accurately capturing positive
events. In his book, Thinking, Fast and Slow, the psychologist Daniel Kahneman
distinguishes between experience and memory, noting that human memory of an
experience can easily be altered. Kahneman describes a man who was enjoying a
concert immensely until the very end, when there was an obnoxious sound in the
concert hall. The man said that the noise ruined the entire concert for him. But it
didn’t really, of course; he had enjoyed the concert up until that moment. What it
did ruin was his memory of the concert.
By keeping a daily diary, you will reduce the chance that some later event
will transform your memory of the day’s experiences. So when you feel you
have accomplished something, write it down soon, before a client or critic has
the opportunity to say something that diminishes that sense of progress.
This is one of the most important reasons to keep a diary: it can make you
more aware of your own progress, thus becoming a wellspring of joy in your
workday. In the following entry, Weston remarks on how his photographic
technique is improving, allowing him to create his art more effectively and
satisfyingly.
I believe I am not merely enthused in writing that these negatives are the
most important I have ever done.… My technique matched my vision—two
or three slightly overtimed, but printable without alteration.…
—Edward Weston, May 23, 1928
In our research into the diaries of more than two hundred professionals working
on creative projects inside organizations, we found that the single most
important motivator is making progress in meaningful work. On the days when
these professionals saw themselves moving forward on something they cared
about—even if the progress was a seemingly incremental “small win”—they
were more likely to be happy and deeply engaged in their work. And, being
happier and more deeply engaged, they were more likely to come up with new
ideas and solve problems creatively. That’s why Weston was so elated to note
that “my technique matched my vision.”
To hatch ideas big and small, and to make them happen, you need a mind
clear of worry over “small stuff,” a sense of progress and direction, and a broad
perspective on your life as it unfolds. In the Journaling Cycle figure on the next
page, we have summarized these functions (and others) that a diary can serve—
if you really engage with it.
Having omitted to carry on my diary for two or three days, I lost heart to
make it up, and left it unfilled for many a month and day.…
—Sir Walter Scott, January 1, 1829
Establishing a simple journaling habit is the key; it gets easier and more self-
motivating as you go. We recommend that you start small. Rather than vowing to
do it for the rest of your life, make a commitment to write in your diary every
single day for just one month. Skipping a day will make it easier to skip the next
day, as Scott learned to his dismay.
Pick a time when you are likely to have ten minutes to yourself. Ideally,
this will be the same time and place each day, to help build the habit. And create
a memory trigger, so you won’t forget. Some online journaling programs will
send you a daily reminder. Or you might leave a diary notebook and pen on your
bedside table. The medium is unimportant, as long as it’s something you’ll enjoy
using.
Another obstacle is thinking of something to say. Sir Walter Scott
continued the above diary entry:
During this period nothing has happened worth particular notice. The
same occupations, the same amusements… I half grieve to take up my pen,
and doubt if it is worth while to record such an infinite quantity of
nothing. But hang it! I hate to be beat so here goes for better behavior!
—Sir Walter Scott, January 1, 1829
What should you write about, especially on those days that feel like “an infinite
quantity of nothing” has happened? Write about anything that stands out as you
reflect back on the day; unless you were unconscious the entire day, something
happened.
There’s no magic formula, as evidenced by the staggering variety of what
renowned diarists focused on. But our research suggests that it can be
particularly useful to reflect and write on any of the following:
Although the act of reflecting and writing, in itself, can be beneficial, you’ll
multiply the power of your diary if you review it regularly—if you listen to what
your life has been telling you. Periodically, maybe once a month, set aside time
to get comfortable and read back through your entries. And, on New Year’s Day,
make an annual ritual of reading through the previous year. We think you’ll be
impressed by the insights you’ll get, particularly if you look for certain clues.
Be alert to emerging patterns, and jot them down as you see them. Was
there a type of project on which you seemed to make particularly steady progress
or feel particularly engaged? Specifically, try to identify the greatest sources of
meaning in your work—the types of projects in which you felt you were really
making a difference. Those are clues about what motivates you most strongly
and where you should concentrate your energies going forward.
Was there an idea that looks promising—perhaps an idea that you had
completely forgotten? This could signal that what you’ve learned since having
that idea, or what’s changed in the world around you, now makes it more viable
and valuable.
Track improvements in your personal or professional self, improvements
that may have been impossible to see from day to day. Seeing that progress can
be powerfully motivating.
Look for recurring problems and hindrances, and plan to attack them.
Focus on one short-term action—something you can do the next day—and one
longer-term action—something you can do in the next month.
Finally, allow yourself a few moments to feel grateful for the skills you’ve
developed and the people who have helped you. Bask in the glow of your
accomplishments. This is your life; savor it. Hold on to the threads across days
that, when woven together, reveal the rich tapestry of what you are achieving
and who you are becoming. The best part is that, seeing the story line appearing,
you can actively create what it—and you—will become.
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KEY TAKEAWAYS
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Building Expertise
To achieve all that we’re capable of, we must enlist a group of allies to
accompany us on our journey, empower our coworkers and clients to give us
honest feedback, build collaborative teams with an eye toward fresh
perspectives, and tend to our network of acquaintances with generosity and
authenticity.
As Albert Einstein wrote, “Everything that is really great and inspiring is created
by the individual who can labor in freedom.” Many creatives follow this edict in
pursuing their own projects. But if this approach is followed too closely, we can
miss out on valuable help that can advance our work.
Some years ago I signed up for a storytelling workshop led by Jay
O’Callahan, a well-known storyteller. I had recently completed several extended
trips through Africa, Asia, and Patagonia and was looking for help in how to
shape these experiences into stories. A dozen people who didn’t know one
another showed up and spent a weekend working together on various small
exercises or “sparks”—two minutes spent describing a certain type of experience
you’ve had—and also telling stories we had prepared for the workshop. These
stories ranged from personal narratives, such as my travel experiences, to
traditional stories from all over the world. There was a great chemistry in the
workshop and we decided to plan a reunion six months later. Another reunion
followed and then another, and to the amazement of everyone in this chance
group, we have just marked our twentieth anniversary with our fortieth meeting.
I am a rather unlikely member, as I have always felt leery of organized
groups; I prefer interacting with individuals, and I enjoy spending time on my
own. In fact, the stories I was trying to shape were based on three years of solo
travel around the world. Reflecting on these twenty years of the storytelling
group, however, I am struck by how helpful the group has been to me and to the
other members.
This help has taken several different forms. On individual projects, usually
stories, we have gotten invaluable guidance—help in an area where we have
been blocked, or simply encouragement to continue where we have been
struggling with something. Sometimes, however, the guidance is more direct and
specific. I still remember how I was struggling to shape a story about my travels
in Patagonia, and someone suggested that I was avoiding the most interesting
aspect of my story, my own sense of fear and insignificance amid the vast and
barren landscape.
I left our most recent gathering, as I leave most of our meetings, energized
by the workshop and surprised by how much we are able to do for one another.
Then I started wondering why more of this does not happen through the normal
course of life, particularly among people who have projects they are passionate
to pursue. Is it that we are simply not that interested in helping others in their
work? That we are not capable of help? Or that we are simply afraid to ask?
My own day-to-day work is in the corporate world, with responsibility for
maximizing learning for a large global company. In most ways the work is quite
different from a storytelling workshop, yet I have found a surprising number of
parallels. In particular, there is one common question of central importance:
How can we best realize the value that others can add to the development of our
projects and ourselves?
In the corporate sphere, there is increasing appreciation for the role that
others can play. One sign of this is the proliferation of executive coaching, the
basic premise of which is that others have a critical role to play in helping us
reach our potential. These others can either be professional coaches, peer
coaches, or simply anybody who can offer you useful feedback. The prevalence
of 360-degree feedback is one example, in which the company solicits those who
work most closely with you to offer advice in how you can reach your potential.
Many of those in the creative world, however, spend much of their time
working on their own and will never be assigned a coach or given regular
feedback. For these individuals, here are a few actions worth considering in
order to enlist the help of others:
1. Seek fellow travelers. There was a strong hand of serendipity in how our
storytelling group came together, but there is no need to rely on chance in
finding those who can help you. It may be that you need to get over an obstacle
on a particular project, in which case you will need to get as specific as you can
about the help you are looking for and who would be best positioned to offer it.
It may also be that you are looking for broader advice about exploring a new
creative direction. Regardless of your needs, there is one quality that is
especially important in choosing fellow travelers: Will they tell you the truth?
There are many reasons why people may fail this test—the quality of your
relationship, their position in the organization, their personality traits—but many
perfectly nice individuals, with whom you could enjoy a drink or a dinner, may
not be ideal helpers. Get very concrete about the help you are seeking and learn
to “audition” people until you find what you need.
2. Ask for help. This can be very difficult for people who see creative work as a
solitary pursuit and any request for assistance as some combination of laziness or
cowardice. If you think along these lines, and are able to overcome it, you are
likely to encounter two surprises: first, people in general will be willing to help
and, second, that help will be far more useful than you might have imagined. In
any case, the first step is to ask. The worst that can happen is that someone will
say no or will offer suggestions that are not especially helpful and can be
ignored.
3. Build a structure for collaboration. This can take care of itself if a single
meeting serves your needs. However, a broader engagement is often helpful. Our
storytelling group developed a regular twice-a-year meeting structure, which has
worked well for us. Beyond that, several substructures were also developed
within the group. Two group members meet on a biweekly basis for ninety-
minute coaching sessions, split evenly so each individual can be coached by the
other. This format has survived for many years because each found it so helpful.
For professional executive coaches, the structure is often a regular monthly
schedule of meetings. The point is that some regular structure for the
collaboration is often helpful, unless of course you are the type who simply
cannot bear structure, in which case a basic arrangement to “call when one of us
could use a view or an ear” can also work well.
5. Highlight and discuss strengths. Often the most helpful thing that can be
expressed, as specifically as possible, is what is strong and working well within
a project. In our storytelling group, the first feedback round is always framed as
an “appreciation” and targeted only at what listeners liked best about the piece.
This format is designed to counter our tendency to focus initially on what needs
to be fixed or what could be better. Often the path toward optimization for a
story, or a project, or—notably—an individual is toward greater awareness and
expansion of strengths.
One of the most powerful learnings I’ve had from twenty years of storytelling
meetings spent shaping and helping others shape their stories is the realization of
one’s own power as a creator—not of a story, or of any project, but of the
narrative of one’s own creative life. The narratives of many creative people
position their work as exclusively an individual pursuit. To ensure that you are
optimizing your potential, consider recasting this narrative: Are you taking best
advantage of the help that others can offer, and, more important, are you offering
to others all the help you are capable of providing?
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BUILDING RESILIENT RELATIONSHIPS
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Michael Bungay Stanier
It’s not “if.” It’s only ever “when.” There’s never been a relationship that didn’t
start off strongly and that didn’t then run off the rails at some stage.
This is actually not the problem. This is just life. Success for you lies in
managing these dips when they occur. It’s not about having perfect relationships.
That’s a fantasy. It’s about laying foundations for resilient relationships from the
very start.
What do you want? (Here’s what I want.) This is a question that almost
always stops people in their tracks. It’s deceptively difficult to answer and
incredibly powerful when you can define clearly what exactly it is you want
from this relationship.
Of course you’ll want to articulate the transactional nature of things: I want
you to get this done and get that completed. But see if you can go beyond that.
What else do you want? (“I want this to position me for my next promotion.”)
What else would make this relationship one to truly value? (“I want this to lay
the foundations of future work together.”)
Where might you need help? (Here’s where I’ll need help.) This turns the
“What do you want?” question over and comes at it from a different angle. You
might want to specify where you’ll trip yourself up (bold), how you might fall
short in the relationship (bolder), or even how you might get in the way of
success (boldest).
I’m forever telling people I’m going to need their help defining a better
brief, not being a bottleneck on decisions, and staying interested in the minutiae
of a project.
When you had a really good working relationship in the past, what
happened? (Here’s what happened for me.) Tell a story of a time when you
were in a working relationship similar to this one, and it was good, really good.
What did they do? What did you do? What else happened? What were the key
moments when the path divided and you took one road and not the other? What
else contributed to its success?
To take this to an even more courageous place, you can ask, “How do you
feel about the amount of control you have over what we’re trying to do here?”
It’s a question that shines a light into what is often a very dark corner: how
control and power is working in the relationship.
When things go wrong, what does that look like on your end? How do you
behave? (Here’s how I behave.) Tell another story, this time of when a working
relationship like this one failed to soar. It might be when it all went hellishly
wrong or it might be when it disintegrated into mediocrity. What did you do and
what did they do? Where were the missed opportunities? Where were the
moments when things got broken?
Articulate, if you can, the unilateral actions you take when things start
going wrong. Do you retreat into silence? Rage on? Try to take control and start
to micromanage? Dump and run?
See also if you can summarize your own “hot buttons.” What are the little
things that can wind you up? Is it not getting replies to your e-mails? When
others are late to meetings? Not having a regular check-in? Being given advice
before you’ve got to the heart of the question? Spelling mistakes and random
apostrophes? We’ve all got our pet peeves. If they know yours and you know
theirs, things might be a little less frustrating.
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Q&A:
NETWORKING IN A CONNECTION ECONOMY
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with Sunny Bates
Asking. Nobody ever wants to ask—at every level, with every kind of person,
from the CEO all the way down. I think people get very narrow-minded,
thinking that they can only reach out to people who are already doing a similar
type of job. But the underlying network science says that it’s all about weak
links. Those people who are the friend of a friend of a friend. That’s a much
more likely place for something important to happen to you than your inner
circle of close friends and colleagues.
If you don’t ask, you’ll never get. Sure, you may only get a little bit at a time.
But if you don’t ask, 100 percent of the time you won’t get. You’ve just got to
get over yourself. We live in a connection economy. If you can’t connect with
people for them to understand what you have to offer, you’re working in a
vacuum and you’re going to lose out. You end up getting bitter in that situation,
because you see your peers are moving up and doing things, and you say, “I
could be doing those things. Why not me?”
It’s very easy to think that somebody knows you. And that if they know
you, they will think about calling you, or asking you, or wanting you for
something. But people forget. I was a headhunter for many years, and I was
always amazed because easily 20 percent of the time, the final person who was
hired was well-known to the client. (They just hadn’t thought about them.) That
means that, for every five people you know, one is likely to have an impact on
you or hire you—that should make you want to expand your circle.
Look at the people whom you admire most in your field. And literally map it
out. Here are the four people that are doing great work at the organizations I
respect. And just reach out. If you decided to contact one person a week, that
would be fifty-two new people in a year. And it starts with that, just reaching out
to someone because you admire their work, or are inspired by it. I’ve never met
a person, no matter how well-known, who hasn’t been flattered by an authentic
compliment. Professional love letters work.
You always want to be specific about what you’re asking for. Are you asking for
a relationship? Are you asking for advice? Are you asking to follow up with
them along the way, and occasionally reach out with a question? I think the best
gauge for what’s fair to ask is flipping the tables: How would you feel if
somebody approached you and asked this exact same thing? If you feel okay
with it, then go ahead and do it. If you feel a little uncomfortable, then try to
tweak it in a way that makes you feel okay about it.
Particularly when you’re thinking about creatives, there are a lot of people who
have a day job at, say, an advertising agency, but their side projects are really
what they care about most. If you can identify what that thing is, you have a
chance to connect at the heart of what they care about.
Often, people try to connect in a more LinkedIn-type of scenario: “Oh, we
have the same job” or “We do the same thing, so we should know each other.”
And the response that comes back is often: “No, actually we don’t do the same
thing and I hate my job.” [Laughs.]
What about giving back to the people who have helped you?
People have this notion that they should always ask, “Is there anything I can do
to help you?” to demonstrate a sort of reciprocity when they’re asking for a favor
or a connection. And it’s very nice for someone to ask that—it’s important—but
you want to do it in an authentic way. I always appreciate when people ask in a
way that’s somehow embedded in the conversation rather than as an add-on at
the very end. Like, “Oh, you gave me this, and so I have to ask you.” It’s always
good to try to steer the exchange away from debt and obligation and more into
the spirit of generosity.
In the creative world, there is a lot of love for the shiny penny. People are
attracted to what’s new and are quick to leave behind what’s tried-and-true in
favor of what’s getting attention. I think that’s interesting fodder for how you
think about intentionally building your network for the long term. You want to
focus on pulling in people whom you respect, people who you believe will have
your interests in mind for the long haul, and also people across a wide enough
range—so that you won’t have to go back to the well over and over again with
just a few people. If you build your network in a smart way, you can build your
entire career on the back of it.
Dunbar’s surprising discovery was that most insights didn’t actually occur when
the researchers were alone in the lab. In fact, the majority actually occurred
during regularly scheduled lab meetings where individual researchers revealed
their latest findings and shared their most difficult setbacks with the rest of the
team.
In any research laboratory, most experiments are failures or at best yield
unexpected results. During these regular meetings, Dunbar observed that the
researchers shared their results and also developed analogies trying to describe
what might be causing their problem. (Analogies are actually quite common in
scientific insight. Consider how Watson and Crick used the twisted ladder
analogy to describe the double-helix structure of DNA molecules.)
Dunbar noted that as the researchers developed analogies, and as other
researchers built on the ideas around those analogies, the solutions to their
problems seemed to simply emerge. Sometimes, a researcher would spend a
week vexed by a problem, and the solution would seem to present itself in just
ten minutes of discussion with peers. Dunbar also found that the labs with more
diverse teams of individuals—people with different areas of expertise who were
working on very different types of projects—generated more creative insights
and produced more significant research.
But just how diverse did a team need to be for optimal creativity? Dunbar’s
research didn’t answer this question. For that we have to move from the
microbiology lab to the Broadway stage.
No Broadway production is created alone. Even so-called “one-man
shows” require a crew of people to help with writing, staging, lighting, and
everything that goes into taking a production, from the initial idea to opening
night. This need for collaboration is what drew the attention of two management
professors, Brian Uzzi and Jarrett Spiro. Uzzi and Spiro wanted to know how the
creativity and success of a Broadway musical was affected by the level of
diversity among collaborators. Many of the artists on Broadway work on more
than one musical at a time; as such, they develop relationships between members
of their various teams. The two researchers designed a study to examine if the
strength or diversity of those relationships affected the success of their work.9
Together, Uzzi and Spiro analyzed almost every musical produced on
Broadway from 1945 to 1989. The end result was a database of 474 musicals
and 2,092 artists, including Broadway legends from Cole Porter to Andrew
Lloyd Webber. Once the database was built, the duo analyzed each show to
calculate the complex network of collaborations and working relationships
between producers, writers, actors, and choreographers. The researchers found
that the world of Broadway musicals was indeed a dense and interconnected
web, with many individuals working together on a production, then going their
separate ways only to find themselves working with some of the same people
years later on a new production. This dynamic produced what is now called a
“small world network,” a fertile ground for teams to connect, collaborate, and
disband as needed.
The researchers even found a way to measure the level of repeat
collaboration in any given production year, a value they called “small world
quotient” or simply Q. The Q score was a measurement of how diverse or
homogenous the Broadway production teams from that year were. When Q is
high, the teams are densely interconnected; more artists know each other and are
working together on multiple projects. When Q is low, there isn’t as much
familiarity and multiple collaborations are seldom. Uzzi and Spiro then
compared each year’s Q score to the level of financial success and critical
acclaim achieved by the shows that year.
Given what we know about teams, it would be logical to assume that those
production crews with a higher Q—those teams that had lots of experience
working together in the past—would perform better and would produce shows
that were more creative and successful. Uzzi and Spiro’s research found that this
assumption held true, but only until a certain point. Instead of a straight line
rising in success as it rose in diversity, the trend line looked more like an
inverted U. As the Q of a production year went up, representing the diversity of
the network structure, so did the year’s financial and artistic successes until a
certain optimal point, when higher Q actually led to a decrease in the success
measurements.
So why did the success start dropping off after a certain point? It turns out
that the closeness of a given team affects its performance: Total strangers forced
to work together can have problems exchanging ideas, but best friends aren’t that
good for creativity, either. In the latter case, the collaborators are often so close,
and share such a common background, that they end up with the same ideas—a
kind of creative groupthink. Ultimately, Uzzi and Spiro found collaborations
built from a combination of close connections and fresh perspectives enhance
the creative potential of everyone involved. In this scenario, individuals can
quickly establish norms for communicating and exchanging ideas, but also
benefit from the differing experiences and knowledge brought in by new team
members.
Uzzi and Spiro’s research also helps to explain the phenomenon in
Dunbar’s laboratories, where the more diverse teams yielded more creative
insights and breakthroughs. If all the scientists had been working on the same
experiment and had the same professional backgrounds, they would all think of
the same potential explanations. However, in Dunbar’s study, the laboratories
were running a variety of experiments organized by people from different fields,
which meant that everyone benefited from the diverse knowledge of everyone
else’s past experiences. (It’s worth noting that in Dunbar’s case, the fact that
these were all microbiology labs in particular kept the groups from becoming too
diverse).
Taken together, Dunbar’s and Uzzi and Spiro’s findings imply that the
most successful creative projects are generated by teams that include a healthy
mix of pre-existing connections, shared experiences, and totally new
perspectives. If you’re looking to enhance your creative potential, then being on
a team helps. But it’s not enough to be on any old team. You have to be on a
team with the right blend of old and new collaborators.
Do you have a go-to roster of colleagues whom you collaborate with on every
project? If so, you might benefit from building a broader network and rotating in
collaborators with different perspectives and work experience. Conversely, if
you regularly work alone or with a constantly rotating cast of new faces, see if
you can introduce an element of stability. Are there one or two colleagues with
whom you already have a kind of “creative shorthand”? If so, you might explore
integrating them into your projects more regularly to introduce a level of
consistency that might be beneficial.
As with anything, finding the right balance is key. Too much familiarity in
your creative team can lead to stagnation, while too little can mean you’re
constantly out of sync and spinning your wheels. The most important takeaway
for you as an individual might well lie in understanding the paramount
importance of collaboration. If you really want your creative projects to take off,
don’t go it alone.
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LEADING IN A WORLD OF CO-CREATION
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Mark McGuinness
We don’t see Frank Gehry feeding the cement mixer or winching girders into
place with a crane. Neither do we see builders designing facades, nor initiating
major alterations to a building halfway through a project. But in the Middle
Ages, sights like this would have been commonplace.
In his books The Contractors of Chartres and The Master Masons of
Chartres, architect John James argues convincingly that the cathedral was not
designed by an architect and then delegated to the builders.10 In fact, there was
no such profession as architect in the modern sense. Instead, the role of architect
and chief builder were combined in the person of the Master Builder, who was a
skilled craftsman as well as draughtsman.
And just as the Master got his hands dirty with construction, so the other
workers on the ground (or up on the scaffold) took responsibility for shaping the
big vision. Authority was clearly defined, but the Master’s role was not to plan
and micromanage everything down to the last pane of glass; instead, he was
responsible for shaping the overall vision and coordinating his team’s efforts
while allowing them freedom to improvise within the overall structure:
IMPROVISE TOGETHER
Unlike modern architects, the cathedral builders did not start with a miniature
drawing of the entire building. Instead, they meticulously staked out the
dimensions of the building, at full size, on the actual construction site. The
details of specific elements—such as the shape of columns, arches, and windows
—were worked out as the building progressed by specialist builders who took
the lead in different areas.
The basic structure was ordained and measured out by the Master. But at
every stage of the work, gaps were left to be filled in by the expertise and
ingenuity of individual craftsmen. They paid a lot of attention to detail, because
the detail was left to them.
If it sounds incredible that so many interlocking elements of a complex
structure could be improvised by workers on the ground, think of Wikipedia. The
Wikimedia Foundation is responsible for the overall vision and structure of the
site. But within this framework, thousands of writers are free to improvise, by
writing, editing, and discussing one another’s work.
The result is a sprawling yet coherent structure, where articles on the most
obscure topics are crafted to the same level of obsessive detail as the gargoyles
up on the roof of Chartres, where no one but God and the sculptor’s peers would
see them.
When you take charge of a project, start by inspiring people with your
vision. And make sure all those involved are crystal clear about their
responsibilities and non-negotiable deliverables. But don’t micromanage or insist
they do everything your way. If you really want to get the best out of them, leave
plenty of gaps for them to fill with their creativity and initiative.
“Co-creation” sounds like a touchy-feely expression, but the reality is that it can
be downright scary. Co-creation involves letting go of control, listening—really
listening—to people around you, and delegating responsibility to them. Most of
all, it means building trust: earning the trust of others, trusting them in return,
and trusting that together you can build something bigger and more inspiring
than any of you could achieve on your own.
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KEY TAKEAWAYS
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Cultivating Relationships
DON’T GO IT ALONE
Seek out fellow travelers—trusted colleagues and collaborators whom you
can ask for help, who will tell you the truth, and who will hold you
accountable.
TRUST IN GENEROSITY
Focus on how you can help others, and lasting connections will come. The
true spirit of networking should be generosity, not obligation.
So how can we overcome our natural tendency to run away from risk? We’ll
look at the science behind why we fear failure, explore how persistence can
create positive outcomes in the face of massive setbacks, and learn how to view
our mistakes as valuable data rather than an opportunity to beat ourselves up.
The upside of risk is that—no matter what the outcome—we act, we learn, and
we grow. And when tomorrow comes, we’re better equipped to face it.
DEMYSTIFYING THE FEAR FACTOR IN FAILURE
–
Michael Schwalbe
Jerry Seinfeld took a few months to recover from his initial debacle. He got back
up onstage a second time late in the summer of 1976 at the Golden Lion Pub, a
seedy bar in Times Square. Again, he was visibly nervous and forgot to segue
between jokes, but he barreled through and finished his routine. Jerry continued
to perform wherever he could throughout the city, getting increasingly
comfortable onstage until he finally landed a paid emcee gig at the newly opened
Comic Strip club and became a regular back at Catch a Rising Star.
Five years later, after painstakingly honing his material and reputation, on
May 7, 1981, Jerry debuted on The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson, followed
by years of touring on the road, an eventual HBO special, and finally, in 1989,
the pilot for Seinfeld, which would go on to earn $2.7 billion from reruns alone
and become one of America’s all-time favorite television sitcoms.
If Seinfeld hadn’t been brave enough to face the audience again after he
bombed his first performance, none of that would have happened. Caving to our
fears of short-term regret is shortsighted. Ultimately, we serve ourselves better
by fearing a failure to act more than fearing failure itself.
This decision was hard.… I had to pick one [team]. I wanted to go to all
of ’em at one point. But, like the other decisions I made in the past, I
decided to make it and not look back. To go from now and make it the
right decision. I have to go to work to make it the right decision.
Rather than see his fate as linked to forces outside his control, Manning
demonstrates a different view—through hard work, he can make the decision a
success. This sense of agency gives him a powerful asset to drive the outcome he
wants. If he fails, it will be in spite of his absolute best efforts to succeed.
BE PERSISTENT
“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to
success when they gave up.” So said Thomas Edison. This can be hard to put
into practice, however; just ask the producers of the musical Spider-Man: Turn
Off the Dark.
On February 7, 2011, reviewer Ben Brantley of the New York Times wrote
this after seeing a preview of the show: “Spider-Man is not only the most
expensive musical ever to hit Broadway; it may also rank among the worst.…
[It] is so grievously broken in every respect that it is beyond repair.” The
scathing review was only one of many calamities to befall the show, including
the injuries of several cast members in falls, and a preview in which Spider-Man
himself was left hanging helplessly above the audience when his flying harness
malfunctioned.
The producers, Jeremiah Harris and Michael Cohl, could have closed the
show immediately—standard procedure when a show is universally panned. By
contrast, Harris and Cohl showed agency, understanding of opportunity, and
persistence in their response to the disasters plaguing the show.
Harris and Cohl shut down Spider-Man temporarily. They sought out
feedback from audience members and put that feedback to use. They revised the
script. The composers, Bono and the Edge of U2, wrote new lyrics. The
producers raised more money (on top of the record $60 million already spent) to
revamp the show. Spider-Man: Turn Off the Dark re-opened on June 14, 2011.
As the show re-opened, Cohl said this: “The bad news is that it was very
expensive, and the good news is that we will not quit and we will make this a
success and that’s that.”
Within a few months, Spider-Man was among the highest grossing shows
on Broadway and had retained that status a year later. First Lady Michelle
Obama and her two daughters had seen the show, as had tens of thousands of
others. A long Broadway run, and lucrative touring productions, were assured.
The worst-case scenario in many of the risks we now face is not serious
injury or death; it is a financial setback, a blow to the reputation, a ding to the
ego. Moreover, the increasing pace and uncertainty of our economic lives
increases the cost and risk of, paradoxically, avoiding risk in the first place.
Rather than trying to protect ourselves by avoiding decisions, then, wouldn’t it
be better to embrace the risks we take—and drive the outcome we desire?
JOHN CADDELL curates The Mistake Bank, which collects stories of business
mistakes and failures. He is an executive with more than twenty-five years’
experience in information technology product development and sales. John is the
author of The Mistake Bank: How to Succeed by Forgiving Your Mistakes and
Embracing Your Failures, available at Amazon.com.
→ www.mistakebank.com
Q&A:
RE-ENGINEERING THE WAY WE THINK ABOUT
MISTAKES
–
with Tina Seelig
People who spend their time on creative endeavors know that failure is a natural
part of the creative process and are ready when it happens. As an example, Jeff
Hawkins, founder of Palm Computing, Handspring, and Numenta, gets worried
when things go too smoothly, knowing that failure must be lurking around the
corner. When he was running Handspring, everything was going swimmingly for
the release of the original Visor, a new personal digital assistant. But Jeff kept
warning his team that something would happen. And it did. Within the first few
days of the release of their first product, they shipped about one hundred
thousand units. It was remarkable. But the entire billing and shipping system
broke down. Some customers didn’t receive products they paid for, and others
received three or four times as many units as they ordered. This was a disaster,
especially for a new business that was trying to build its reputation.
The entire team, including Jeff, buckled down and called each and every
customer. They asked each person what he or she had ordered, if they had
received it, and whether they had been billed correctly. If anything wasn’t
perfect, the company corrected it on the spot. The key point is that Jeff knew
something would go wrong. He wasn’t sure what it would be, but he was
prepared to deal with anything that came their way. His experience had taught
him that failure is inevitable, and that the key to success is not dodging every
bullet but being able to recover quickly.
All of our paths are riddled with small and enormous failures. The key is being
able to see these experiences as experiments that yield valuable data and to learn
what to do differently next time. For most successful people, the bottom is lined
with rubber as opposed to concrete. When they face a failure, they hit bottom,
sink in, and then bounce back, tapping into the energy of the impact to propel
them into another opportunity.
A great example is David Neeleman, the founder of JetBlue. David initially
started an airline called Morris Air, which grew and prospered up until he sold it
to Southwest Airlines for $130 million. He then became an employee of
Southwest. After only five months, David was fired. He was miserable working
for them and, as he says, he was driving them crazy. As part of his contract, he
had a five-year non-compete agreement that prevented him from starting another
airline. That seemed like a lifetime to wait.
After taking time to recover from this blow, David decided to spend that
time planning for his next airline venture. He thought through all the details of
the company, including the corporate values, the complete customer experience,
the type of people they would hire, as well as the details of how they would train
and compensate their employees. David says that getting fired and having to
wait to start another airline turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to
him. When the non-compete period was over, he was ready to hit the ground
running. He was able to turn what seemed like a terrible situation into a period of
extreme productivity and creativity.
Do you think that certain types of people are better at taking risks
than others?
There isn’t a need to change your risk profile; however, it is useful to understand
it and to pursue the types of risks you feel comfortable taking and to avoid those
that make you squirm. This insight allows you to fill out your team with people
with complementary risk profiles so that each person plays to his or her
strengths, taking on the types of challenges that match their profile. Additionally,
asking others to describe their risk profile is a valuable way to get to know what
makes them tick and how they can contribute to your organization.
I require all my students to write a failure résumé. That is, to craft a résumé that
summarizes all their biggest screw-ups—personal, professional, and academic.
For every failure, each student must describe what he or she learned from that
experience. Just imagine the looks of surprise this assignment inspires in
students who are so used to showcasing their successes. However, after they
finish their résumé, they realize that viewing experiences through the lens of
failure forced them to come to terms with their mistakes and to view them as a
great source of data about what works and what does not.
Over time, the creators or teams begin to act. They spin all the crazy ideas in
their heads onto the page, the digital landscape, the canvas, the business. With
each trial, they begin to see what’s working and what’s not. Data and experience
begin to replace intuition and leaps of faith. Freedom begins to yield to
constraint, the variables and possibilities that created great uncertainty begin to
become fact, creating more certainty about what the process will yield and
whether it will succeed. The venture and its outcome begin to take form.
Bumps along the way inevitably happen. Ideas that seemed to have great
potential bomb, sending the creative team back to the drawing board and
ramping them back into higher states of freedom, but also uncertainty.
Finally, through much experimentation, the deed is done. The book is
written. The brand is designed. The company is launched. The move made.
Freedom, at least with regard to this phase of the endeavor, is gone, consumed
by structure and form. Uncertainty has given way to certainty. You now know
exactly what it looks and feels like, and whether you were capable of pulling it
off.
The image on the facing page illustrates this move along the Uncertainty Curve.
But, what may not be so apparent is that the speed at which you move along the
curve can either kill your ability to create genius or fuel it.
Move too slowly and there’s no output. The process becomes consumed by
inertia and either suffers from paralysis or moves at a pace that’s so slow it all
but ensures the endeavor is killed before it ever yields meaningful output. We’ve
all experienced that.
What may be less apparent, though, is that moving too quickly can get you
faster to output, but end up yielding something that’s far below what you’d have
been capable of creating had you stayed in the process longer.
Richard Wiseman actually conducted a fun experiment around this. He
assembled two groups of people who identified as either being very lucky or
very unlucky. Each was given a newspaper and told to count the number of
pictures. The unlucky group took about two minutes. The lucky group took
about two seconds. Both came up with the right number. What gives?
Turns out, these were specially printed newspapers. On the inside front
cover, above the fold in two-inch block letters, was a message that read: “Stop
counting. There are forty-three photographs in this newspaper.” The people who
identified themselves as unlucky were so focused on the task that they
completely ignored the much bigger prize. The people who identified themselves
as lucky remained open to the possibility that something outside the rigid
instructions might come their way to make the task better or easier.
→ www.goodlifeproject.com
MAKING PURPOSEFUL BETS IN A RANDOM WORLD
–
Frans Johansson
On December 10, 2009, Rovio released the iPhone version of its game Angry
Birds. After topping the charts in a few European countries it quickly hit the
United States with full force and changed the world of casual games. Within two
years it had been downloaded almost a billion times, and it is now one of the
most played games in history.
In March 2008, a young woman named Bethenny Frankel joined the cast
of a new reality show called The Real Housewives of New York City. The
exposure allowed her to highlight a new product of hers, Skinnygirl Margarita. It
soon took off and became a sensation among women looking for a low-calorie
night out. She later sold the brand for $64 million.
Now, what do Picasso, Rovio, and Frankel all have in common? On the
face of it, seemingly nothing. But dig a little bit deeper and you will find one of
the most fundamental truths about success in design, business, and innovation
generally. It comes down to this: none of these people or organizations really had
much of a clue as to exactly which one of their ideas was going to work. In fact,
the success garnered in each of these examples is the result of harnessing
unexpected insights and placing bets all with an unknown outcome. In other
words, success is more serendipitous and random than we think.
This may seem quite surprising. We are used to thinking that successful
people and companies have cracked some secret code, and when we retell the
stories of how they did it we do so in order to understand how we can do the
same. Take Rovio, for instance. The Finnish company behind Angry Birds was
able to not only design an amazing game, but also to develop a killer marketing
strategy for it. Instead of focusing on the massive US market first, they focused
on smaller European markets such as Greece and the Czech Republic. Those
markets had relatively few downloads, and Rovio figured it would be pretty easy
to reach the top spot on those lists, which they were able to do. With those wins
in hand they turned to the United Kingdom, where the game hit the number one
spot virtually overnight. After that, they decided they finally had enough
momentum to go for the US market.
Everything about this story suggests that Rovio has not only a firm grasp
on winning game design, but also on how to market games successfully. But if
they had all that, why did they wait eight years to use it? Because that was how
long they had been around before releasing Angry Birds. It was their fifty-
second game. None of the games that came before it had even a fraction of
Angry Bird’s success. Instead, this one game brought the company back from the
brink and has allowed it to build a franchise that may last years. Soon after
Angry Bird’s success, Rovio was valued at $1 billion.
Success, it turns out, has far less to do with figuring out exactly what the
right next move is and far more to do with serendipity and randomness. A rare
few of us operate in a world where the rules never or rarely change, such as
chess or tennis or golf, and in such a world you can practice your way to
domination. Hard, consistent work brings you glory, since you know exactly
what you have to do—you just have to do it better than everyone else, often after
having put more than ten thousand hours or so of hard work behind it. This so-
called ten-thousand-hour rule, popularized by Malcolm Gladwell, does not apply
in any other endeavor, however. Neither Reed Hastings nor Richard Branson had
ten thousand hours of practice when they became leaders in their various fields.
Not only that, we frequently see people and organizations we consider
brilliant follow up great success with mediocre or uninspiring fare. Phenomenal
CEOs disappoint, kick-ass movie directors leave us frustrated, and successful
entrepreneurs fail to live up to their investors’ expectations. And sometimes they
can go from a success to a failure without any real rhyme or reason. Filmmaker
Woody Allen is a prime example of this throughout his career. But so is virtually
every single innovator. Evan Williams, one of the co-founders of Twitter, first
created Blogger, which was a great success. He then created Odeo, a podcasting
company that did not really work out all that well. But he followed that up with
Twitter. This all suggests that success is far more random and serendipitous than
most of us would like to acknowledge. So a question immediately follows:
Given that, what should you do about it?
FRANS JOHANSSON lives in Brooklyn and is the author of The Click Moment
and the international bestseller The Medici Effect. He is the founder of the
global innovation strategy firm the Medici Group, which works with
corporations, NGOs, and governments around the world to break new ground in
an uncertain world.
→ www.themedicigroup.com
KEY TAKEAWAYS
–
Taking Risks
DON’T GO ALL IN
Try to make small bets for the initial test-runs of your project or idea. It’s
hard to predict what will take off, and this limits your exposure to risk.
The Better You knows the same things you know. They’ve had the same
successes you’ve had, and they’ve made the same mistakes. They strive for the
same virtues and falter to the same vices. The Better You procrastinates, too. The
Better You is not perfect. But the difference between you and the Better You is
that the latter reacts a little faster, with a little more willpower. They practice
their virtues a little more often and succumb to their vices a little less often. They
rein in their procrastination a little quicker. They start their work a little earlier.
They know when to take a break a little sooner.
The Better You knows, just as you know, that doing what you love is
difficult but worthwhile. They know, just as you know, that the difficulty is what
makes it worthwhile in the first place. They know, as you know, that if
everything was easy, nothing would have significance, and you wouldn’t need to
adopt new metaphors or read new books about how to do the work you should
be doing.
The Better You is your believable possible. Your believable possible is
your potential in any given moment, the person you know at your very core that
you are capable of being at this instant. Your believable possible exists at the
edge of your perceived ability. Your believable possible is frightening and
uncomfortable, but not to the point of paralysis. Your believable possible is just
uncomfortable enough. We all have different believable possibles. Bruce Lee’s
believable possible was being the most dangerous man in the world. Muhammad
Ali’s was being the greatest boxer of all time. Your own believable possible may
be slightly less ambitious. But only you know what your own believable possible
is.
The Better You is not a fixed, singular being. The Better You springs new
from each moment, is born and dies with each action you take. Each action
creates a new set of possibilities. The Better You is an alternate dynamic present,
rather than a fixed, static past. Measuring yourself against the Better You is no
mere matter of racing to beat the person you were the day before. Instead, you’re
racing to keep up with the person you could be right now.
The Better You wants you to meet them where they are. The Better You is
the ant that has strayed from the colony and discovered a source of food. The
Better You knows the way. It says: follow me. And even when there is no food in
sight, you know where the trail will take you in the end. The Better You will
never lead you astray. So you follow the trail. You sit at the desk and place your
hands on your tools—on your keyboard and mouse, your notebook and pen, your
palette and brush—and you start on your way.
There are the rare moments of alignment, moments when you reunite with
the Better You, when you match the Better You move for move. They are sitting
at the desk and working and writing and sketching, and you are sitting at the
same desk and working and writing and sketching. You and the Better You are
occupying the same physical space and the same mental space. You are
completely engaged in the work before you. And when you are doing the work
you should be doing, the work the Better You is doing, you become whole, fully
there.
The joy of alignment makes alignment more frequent, and as alignment
becomes more frequent, something interesting happens: you begin to see a
different person, a better Better You. The new Better You is slightly out of reach,
just as the old one was, because there is no limit to Better. Better is the
mechanized rabbit on the rail at a greyhound race. Better is propelled by motors
and microprocessors and magic and things our dog-brains cannot comprehend,
our dog-bodies cannot outrun.
But the Better You knows, just as you know, that the thrill is in the chase,
that happiness is motion, and that fulfillment is the constant striving for that
which is just beyond our reach. The Better You knows this is the way it has
always been, and the way it always will be. And you know it, too.
→ www.jackcheng.com
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
–
I owe many thanks for the beautiful cover design and interior layout of this book
to the vision of Behance co-founder and chief of design Matias Corea—one of
my absolute favorite creative collaborators—and to the excellent eye of our
talented designer Raewyn Brandon.
I am also indebted to Katie Salisbury for her enthusiasm and editorial guidance,
to Courtney Dodson for shepherding this book gracefully through production, to
99U managing editor Sean Blanda for great feedback on drafts, and to the entire
Behance and Amazon teams for their incredible support, talent, and tenacity.
Last, I must extend much, much appreciation to Scott Belsky for his invaluable
input on shaping this book series, and—more important—for believing in me.
Having the chance to lead 99U as part of Behance’s mission to empower the
creative world has been—and will continue to be—an incredible and
invigorating opportunity for which I am deeply grateful.
— JOCELYN K. GLEI, editor-in-chief, 99U
ABOUT 99U
– 99U is Behance’s effort to deliver the “missing curriculum” that you didn’t get
in school, highlighting best practices for making ideas happen. We do this
through interviews, articles, and videos on our Webby Award–winning website
at 99u.com, our annual 99U Conference in New York City, our bestselling book
Making Ideas Happen, and our ongoing 99U book series, which includes
Manage Your Day-to-Day and this book, Maximize Your Potential.
→ www.99u.com
ABOUT BEHANCE
–
Behance, the leading online platform to showcase and discover creative work, is
on a mission to empower the creative world. Creatives from across industries use
Behance to gain exposure, attribution, and opportunity. Behance also powers
portfolio display for thousands of other websites around the web, including
AdWeek, RISD, and the National Design Awards. Companies and enthusiasts
around the globe use Behance to track and engage top talent.
→ www.behance.com
ABOUT THE EDITOR
– As editor-in-chief and director, Jocelyn K. Glei leads the 99U in its mission to
provide the “missing curriculum” on making ideas happen. She oversees the
99u.com website—which has won two Webby Awards for Best Cultural Blog—
and leads the curation and execution of the popular 99U Conference, which has
presented talks from visionary creatives including Jack Dorsey, Beth Comstock,
John Maeda, Jonathan Adler, Stefan Sagmeister, Jad Abumrad, and many more.
She is also the editor of the 99U book series, which includes Manage Your Day-
to-Day and this book, Maximize Your Potential.
Prior to joining Behance and 99U, Jocelyn was the global managing editor at the
online media company Flavorpill, leading development of new editorial
products. She has also consulted with dozens of brands and agencies, from
Herman Miller to PSFK to Huge Inc, on content strategy and web launches. She
is passionate about creating content-driven products that people love.
→ www.jkglei.com
ENDNOTES
–
1. Kevin Kelly, “Techno Life Skills,” The Technium, April 28, 2009.
http://www.kk.org/thetechnium/archives/2011/04/techno_life_ski.php.
2. Thomas Friedman, “The Start-Up of You,” New York Times, July 12, 2011.
3. Tina Seelig, What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20 (New York: HarperOne,
2009) 122.
9. Brian Uzzi and Jarrett Spiro, “Collaboration and Creativity: The Small World
Problem,” American Journal of Sociology 111, no. 2 (2005): 447–504.
11. Roger Coleman, The Art of Work (London: Pluto Press, 1988) 15.
12. Jerry Oppenheimer, Seinfeld: The Making of American Icon (New York:
HarperCollins Publishers, 2002), 116–120; Kathleen Tracy, Jerry Seinfeld:
The Entire Domain (Toronto: Carol Publishing, 1998) 19–20.
16. Jonathan Haidt, The Happiness Hypothesis (New York: Basic Books, 2006)
82–86.
17. H. R. Kaplan, Lottery Winners: How They Won and How Winning Changed
Their Lives (New York: Harper and Row, 1978).
18. T. D. Wilson and D. T. Gilbert, “Affective Forecasting,” Advances in
Experimental Social Psychology 35 (2003): 345–411.
A
accountability partners, 135
adaptability, 39–40, 46–47
making your own luck and, 53–59
adaptation principle, 188–189
Adler, Alfred, 203
agency, 199–200
Ali, Muhammad, 238
alignment, 239
Allen, Woody, 228
Amabile, Teresa, 115–123
Amazon, 38
Angry Birds, 225–227
anxiety, 79
Apple, 41, 230
The Apprentice, 229
The Apprentice: Martha Stewart, 229
authority, 173–174
B
Basic Rest Activity cycle, 86–87
Bates, Sunny, 151–156
Baumeister, Roy, 106–107
beliefs, examining, 81
believable possible, 238
Belsky, Scott, 17–20, 63–67
Ben-Ur, Ela, 115–123
Bergqvist, Yngve, 230–231
Berle, Milton, 10
beta phase, permanent, 38–39
bets, little, 229–230
The Better You, 237–240
Bezos, Jeff, 38
Block, Peter, 142
Blogger, 228
Bono, 201
Branson, Richard, 227
Brantley, Ben, 200
Broadway musicals
collaboration in, 162–165
risk in, 200–201
bureaucracy, 19
Burkus, David, 161–166
C
Caddell, John, 197–201
career paths, 10–11
continuous re-imagination of, 45–48
craft before passion in, 27–32
entrepreneurship in, 37–41
finding your sweet spot and, 63–67
making your own luck and, 53–59
myths about, 46
proactivity in, 24–25
Casnocha, Ben, 37–41
change
building skills and, 72–73
making your own luck and, 53–59
Chartres Cathedral, 171–177
Cheng, Jack, 237–240
classical conditioning, 109–110
coaching, 99–100
Coca-Cola, 198–199
Cohl, Michael, 200–201
collaboration, 128
building structure for, 135
creating teams for, 161–166
collaborative relationships, 11
comfort zone, living outside your, 95–100
communication skills, 174
competition, as motivator, 20
competitive advantage, 39
conditioning, classical, 109–110
Confessions of an Advertising Man (Ogilvy), 173
consistency, 109–110
The Contractors of Chartres (James), 172
contracts, social, 142
Cooke, Ed, 95, 99
Cosby, Bill, 243
creativity
collaborative teams and, 161–166
diaries for, 115–123
leading and co-creation in, 171–178
networking and, 155–156
solitude and, 131–135
uncertainty and, 218
criticism, self-, 75–81
D
The Daybooks of Edward Weston, 116–118
decision making
habits in, 105–111
risk averse, 197–201
Les Demoiselles d’Avignon (Picasso), 225, 228–229
diaries, 115–123
discipline, 87
diversity, 163–166
Donne, John, 128
Drucker, Peter, 43
Dunbar, Kevin, 161–162
Dweck, Carol, 76–77
E
Eames, Charles, 158–159
Edge of U2, 201
Edison, Thomas, 9, 200
Einstein, Albert, 50-51
effectiveness, programming, 106–111
effort, 76–77
ego, 176–177
ego depletion, 106–107
Einstein, Albert, 131
empowerment, 17–18
The End of Nature (McKibben), 28–29, 30
engagement, 17–18, 118
focusing on mission and, 47–48, 54–55
working with intention and, 63–67
entrepreneurial instinct, 37–41
Erickson, Milton, 113
Ericsson, K. Anders, 85–87
example, leading by, 173–174
experience, 117
expertise, 11, 72–73. See also skills
comfort zone vs., 95–100
through deliberate practice, 85–91
F
failure
changing how you think about, 205–210
fear of, 79, 185, 187–192
as learning opportunity, 18–19, 207–208, 209–210
permission for, 79
preparation for, 206
universality of, 207–208
Fast Company, 45
fear, 79, 185, 187–192
feedback, 76–77, 98–100, 133
praise for effort vs. intelligence, 76–77, 78
in resilient relationships, 145–146
fellow travelers, 134
Fields, Jonathan, 215–220
flexibility, 39–40
focalism, 190
focus, 87, 88, 89. See also practice
in changing habits, 107–109
diaries and, 116–117
on mission, 54–55
Foer, Joshua, 95–100
Frankel, Bethenny, 226, 229
Free Radicals, 17–20
Friedman, Thomas, 56
Fuller, Buckminster, 115
G
Generation Flux, 45–48
generosity, 56, 151–156
Gilbert, Daniel, 189–190
Gilovich, Tom, 190–191
Gladwell, Malcolm, 86, 227
Glei, Jocelyn K., 53–59
Gmail, 38
Guevara, Che, 115
H
habits
diaries and, 119–121
reprogramming, 105–111
Haidt, Jonathan, 188–189
Halvorson, Heidi Grant, 75–81
Handspring, 206–207
Harris, Jeremiah, 200–201
Hastings, Reed, 227
Hawkins, Jeff, 206–207
help, asking for, 80, 131–137
Hoffer, Eric, 102–103
hot buttons, 145
Hubbard, Elbert, 82-83
I
Ice Hotel, 230–231
ideas. See also creativity
building on others’, 175–176
generating vs. executing, 9
impact bias, 189–190
improvisation, 174–175
intention, working with, 63–67
interests. See also passion
discovering your, 64–65
intersection of with skills and opportunity, 66–67
ISO intersection, 66–67
J
James, John, 172, 176
JetBlue, 207–208
Jobs, Steve, 41
job satisfaction, 17–20
craft before passion and, 27–32
finding your sweet spot and, 63–67
lifestyle traits and, 29–30
Johansson, Frans, 225–231
Johnson, Steven, 194–195
Journaling Cycle, 118–120. See also diaries
judgment of others, 190–191
Jung, Carl, 149
K
Kahneman, Daniel, 117
Kelley, David, 212–213
Kelly, Kevin, 55
Keough, Don, 198–199
Kramer, Steven, 115–123
L
Landauer, Steffen, 131–137
leading, 171–178
Lee, Bruce, 238
lifestyle, job satisfaction and, 29–30
lottery winners, 188–189
luck, making your own, 53–59, 226–227
M
Manning, Peyton, 199–200
markets and marketing, 25
The Master Masons of Chartres (James), 172
McGuinness, Mark, 171–178
McKibben, Bill, 28–32
meaning, 47–48, 122
memorization, 95
memory, 117
mentors, 99–100
meritocracy, 20
mind-set
about change, 47
be good vs. get better, 72–73, 75–81
of constant growth, 73
for embracing risk, 198
permanent beta, 38–39
mission, 47–48, 54–55
mistakes, how to think about, 205–210
Morris Air, 207
motivation, 90, 100, 118
Mueller, Claudia, 76–77
N
Neeleman, David, 207–208
networking, 19–20, 127–179
in a connection economy, 151–156
entrepreneurial, 40
generosity and, 56, 151, 153
opportunity stream and, 65–66
reciprocity in, 155
Newport, Cal, 27–32
99U, 9
O
Obama, Michelle, 201
obstacles, 122
O’Callahan, Jay, 132
Odeo, 228
Ogilvy, David, 173
OK Plateau, 95–100
openness, 57–58
open source technology, 19
opportunities, 10–11
craft before passion in, 27–32
creating, 23–69
entrepreneurial instinct for, 37–41
finding your stream of, 65–66
finding your sweet spot and, 63–67
intersection of with interest and skills, 64–65
for learning, 46–47
making your own luck and, 53–59
in risk, 198–199
takeaways on, 68–69
Outliers (Gladwell), 86
P
Palm Computing, 230
PalmPilot, 230
passion, 20
as compass, 47–48
cultivating craft before, 27–32
finding your, 64–65
patterns. See also habits
noting in diaries, 122
reprogramming, 105–111
Patton, George, 115
Pavlov, Ivan, 109–110
paying it forward, 19
performance
being good vs. getting better mind-set and, 75–81
deliberate practice and, 85–91
fear and, 187–188
feedback and, 98–100
OK Plateau in, 95–100
tracking, 100
persistence, 200–201
Picasso, Pablo, 225, 228–229
Pitard, Monsieur, 173
pitches, 56–57
planning, 39–40
diaries in, 121–122
what’s next, 58
Plato, 135
Porter, Cole, 163
potential, 237–240
practice
beyond your comfort zone, 97–99
deliberate, 85–91
praise, for effort vs. intelligence, 76–77, 78
proactivity, 10, 56–57
progress, 80, 118, 122, 189
Q
Q scores, 163–165
R
randomness, 226–227
The Real Housewives of New York, 226, 229
relationships, 127–181
asking for help, 131–137
building resilient, 141–146
collaborative, 11
collaborative teams, 161–166
connections in, 151–156
leading, co-creation and, 171–178
opportunity stream from, 65–66, 128–127
takeaways on, 180–181
The Republic (Plato), 135
resilience, 141–146
rest, importance of, 88, 90
risk, 11, 183–229
fear of failure and, 79, 185, 187–192
how we think about mistakes and, 205–210
intelligent, 40–41
leaning into uncertainty and, 215–220
permission to fail and, 79
purposeful, 225–231
takeaways on, 232–233
understanding your role in, 197–201
value of, 184–185
willingness to take, 208
risk profile, 205, 208–209
ritual, 87, 88–90
Rovio, 225–227
S
Safian, Robert, 45–48
Savitsky, Kenneth, 190–191
Schumacher, E. F., 93
Schwalbe, Michael, 187–192
Schwartz, Tony, 85–91
Scott, Sir Walter, 119–121
Seelig, Tina, 57–58, 205–210
Seinfeld, Jerry, 187, 191–192
Seneca, 61
serendipity, 226–227
Shawn, William, 28
Sims, Peter, 230
Sinek, Simon, 56
skills
being good at vs. getting better at, 75–81
building, 71–127
communication, 174
creativity, 115–123
daily habits and, 105–111
deliberate practice of, 85–91
entrepreneurial, 37–41
finding your key, 65
gaining new, 46–47
intersection of with interests and opportunity, 64–65
outside your comfort zone, 95–100
passion before, 30–31
stages of acquisition of, 96
takeaways on, 124–125
technology and, 55
Skinnygirl Margarita, 226, 229
sleep, 88, 90
small wins, 118
small world quotient, 163–165
social contracting, 142–145
Spider-Man: Turn Off the Dark, 200–201
Spiro, Jarrett, 162–165
spotlight effect, 190–191
Stanier, Michael Bungay, 141–146
status quo, 19, 184
Stewart, Martha, 229
strengths, highlighting, 136
T
teams, collaborative, 161–166
technology, 19, 53, 55
ten-thousand-hour rule, 227
Thinking, Fast and Slow (Kahneman), 117
Trump, Donald, 229
trust, 177
truthfulness, 134
Twitter, 228
U
uncertainty, 215–220, 222–223
making your own luck and, 53–59
Uncertainty Curve, 215–220
Uzzi, Brian, 162–165
V
Voltaire, 222–223
W
Warhol, Andy, 115
Webber, Andrew Lloyd, 163
Weston, Edward, 115, 116–118
What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20 (Seelig), 57–58
Wikipedia, 175
Williams, Evan, 228
willpower, 87, 106–107
Wilson, Timothy, 189–190
wins, small, 118
Wiseman, Richard, 217
Woolf, Virginia, 115
Y
Young, Scott H., 105–111
Yunus, Muhammad, 37
Z
Zola, Émile, 34–35
Zoomer, 230