T A K E H E R

B R E A T H A W A Y

Make Her Beg for Your Attention

BY BRIAN BURKE
INSIDE  | TAKE HER BREATH AWAY

3   | Introduction 

9     | Theory

1 6     | Skills

2 7     | The Group Approach

3 4     | Why It Went Wrong

3 8     | Your Plan of Action 

By Brian Burke
 INTRODUCTION

This book will teach you how to approach women in

just about any situation. There are many books out
there claiming to teach these skills, but they all miss
the mark.

The advice those supposed gurus offer is either over-

simplified or over-complicated and is designed to get
you to buy their expensive products and make you
their latest cash cow.

The truth is, approaching women is simple and easy. I

want you to view approaching women as another skill
you will learn, and with some practice, will refine.

How many times have you felt instantly turned on

when a hot woman walks by? Or wish you had a clever
line to deliver to the cute girl at the coffee shop?

As men, we face these temptations daily, and it can

be frustrating when you don’t have the tools to act on
these impulses. 

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This book will teach you how to approach women in
just about any situation. There are many books out
there claiming to teach these skills, but they all miss
the mark.

The advice those supposed gurus offer is either over-

simplified or over-complicated and is designed to get
you to buy their expensive products and make you
their latest cash cow.

The truth is, approaching women is simple and easy. I

want you to view approaching women as another skill
you will learn, and with some practice, will refine.

How many times have you felt instantly turned on

when a hot woman walks by? Or wish you had a clever
line to deliver to the cute girl at the coffee shop?

As men, we face these temptations daily, and it can

be frustrating when you don’t have the tools to act on
these impulses. 

Rejection stings, but the slow death of a conversation

going stale comes in as a close second; no one wants
to be the loser who can’t even score with the ugly girl
at the bar.

Getting rejected in public is embarrassing; it’s

downright humiliating. Yet, there’s an unspoken rule
that as the man, you’re the one expected to approach
a woman.

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IF SOMEONE WERE TO WALK IN THE
ROOM RIGHT NOW, WHAT
PRECONCEPTIONS MIGHT THEY MAKE
ABOUT YOU SIMPLY BASED ON YOUR
BODY LANGUAGE...

In the real world, life isn’t fair. You have to put

yourself out there, be open to rejection, and be
willing to hone your craft.

Women are encouraged to be attractive, but passively

wait for men to open, go for the digits, ask her out,
make the first move for the kiss, and initiate sex.

This is where the Pickup Artists get it wrong. They will

give you complicated lines and routines to spout in
the hopes of impressing her based on the assumption
that you must win the “game.” 

But here are a few insights they won’t teach you:

Women want men.

Women want sex.
Women want you. 
WATCH AMY CUDDY'S TED TALK ON
BODY LANGUAGE.

You're a man, and you're built to make women feel

good, emotionally and physically. You complete her;
you make her feel like the most beautiful woman in
the world.

A woman who opens up to her man is a precious and

wonderful thing. When she gives herself to you in this
way, you’ll reveal her full beauty and potential.

If a woman rejects you, it doesn't mean every woman

will reject you. Heck, it doesn’t even mean she rejects
you. Women are fighting their own battles and
societal expectations.  It doesn't mean you're
defective. It could mean:

She doesn't want to have sex right now

She has a boyfriend or husband
She has a low sex drive
She's depressed
She doesn’t have time for dating
She’s testing you 

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We assume a woman's lack of interest is based on
your value as a man when this couldn’t be further
from the truth.

I've been perfecting the art of meeting, connecting,

and sleeping with women for over a decade. What I
will tell you right now, is if you bang one out of every
three women you meet, you're absolutely killing it!

At the end of the day, the more women you meet, the
more women you'll have to choose from, and the
more times they will say yes.

That's what this is all about – giving you a choice. If

you can approach women, engage them, and follow
up to get a date, you're golden.

Despite society's expectations, most men take what

they can get. They meet women through friends or
work and rely on her making the deciding moves.

Now it's time for you to return as the hunter.

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 THEORY

Let's get into some theory about meeting women. This

won't be complicated like a physics course, but it's
important to understand the big picture, and how the
practical techniques fit into the framework.
 
After teaching men to succeed with women for so
many years, I know that this is the best process for
you to learn. If you learn a technique and understand
why it doesn't work, you can look at the concept and
figure out how your execution missed the mark before
being publicly rejected.  

The trick with approaching women is to turn them on.

You want to distinguish yourself from the crowd and
trigger her body to respond to you. This is surprisingly
simple to do.

You'll use confidence through self-talk and a simple

sequence that optimizes your odds with women, to
approach her in a way that makes you irresistible to
her.
It doesn't much matter how you look, or how old you
are. I'm 47, and I date women in their 20's. I coach
guys over 50, even 60, to do the same.

However, you do need to handle a couple things:

1. Exude a Positive Emotional State.

This is important because women can pick up on how

happy and stable you are, and this relates to how
happy they are around you. Approaching women is
easier when you already feel good!

2. Get Your “Look” Together.

Find a style that suits you, and treat yourself to some

new clothes, or get a haircut that makes you feel
confident. It sounds simple, but many men still wear
the same clothes as they did before their divorce.
Switch it up, and tell me you don’t feel a million
bucks! `

3. Start Socializing.

If you’re not going out regularly, it’s time to review

your social calendar. You must be confident going to
different venues and events before you can approach
women. Then, it will become second nature. 

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BY MANAGING YOUR BODY LANGUAGE
YOU LEARN TO SEND APPROPRIATE
SIGNALS IN SPECIFIC SITUATIONS,
YOU RECEIVE POSITIVE FEEDBACK.

Now, here's a quick rundown of what does not work:

Complicated scripts or routines

Bragging or trying to impress
Doing all the talking (you want her to steer the
conversation)
Trying to be funny; this never works, and only puts
pressure on you
Spending money (if you’re trying to impress her)
Asking for her phone number  

This last one is important because when you ask for

her phone number, you are taking a gamble. She can
say yes or no. Instead, the objective is for her to give
you her phone number, so you know without a doubt
that she wants to engage with you further. 
When you learn how to approach a woman correctly,
you make her feel your warm and authentic self, and
that is something she is extremely receptive to and
something most men don’t show her.

To do this, you're going to use an “opener” or “ice

breaker,” and then quickly transition into asking her
questions and relating to her answers.

Your timing is important. You want to create a pattern

where the woman is making an effort, asking you
questions, and feels like your interest is a reward she
earns with her personality. She will learn that while
looks opened the door, her attention is what will win
you over.

Women love a challenge; this is why they date so

many ‘fixer-uppers.’ When you reward her with your
attention, you completely change the dynamics of
dating. 

Until now, all men have bent over backward to

appease her. When you make her do the chasing, she
will accept the challenge on principle (avoiding
hurdles such as how old or attractive you are). She
only wants to win your attention to prove to herself
that she can, which is a powerful incentive.  

First, you want to exude a warm and relaxed energy.

I’ll show you some ways in a moment of how to do
that, but for now,want to feel confident. 

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Next, keep in mind these two rules:

1. If you approach her without thinking, you'll get rid

of the dreaded “approach anxiety.”

The longer you think about it, the more nervous you
are likely to get, and the higher the chances you won’t
step forward.

2. Practice makes perfect.

The reason why some guys are better at talking to

women than others is that they do it a lot.

If you don’t put miles on the conversational highway,

you won’t learn what women want to talk about or
how to have great conversations.

If you’re committed to learning my techniques, and

approach her with the understanding you will need to
practice, I promise you will see incredible results.

Soon, I’ll reveal the openers to say to make women

stop, smile, and want to get to know you. This is just a
matter of using some basic lines or templates.

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SMILING SLOWS THE HEART AND
RELAXES THE BODY, AND IT RELEASES
ENDORPHINS THAT COUNTERACT AND
DIMINISH STRESS HORMONES.

Some of these openers are funny, but most are direct,

respectfully sexual, and let the woman know that you
are a man who goes for what he wants.

After all, this the most important trait you can

communicate to her. Men who fail to present
themselves in this manner usually end up in the
friend zone.

Once you start working through these steps, I know

you’ll see where I’m coming from and will gain the
confidence to start testing out your own openers and
conversational cues.

The rest, as they say, will be history! 

 SKILLS

It might seem strange to think of habits and energy as

'skills' – but that's all they are. They are things you do,
over and over, until you got it down pat.

The good news is, you will learn all this very quickly
because these steps are designed to make you feel
amazing while you are doing them.

Unlike rejection, which relies on you taking a gamble;

the payoff is always 100% when you practice these
skills. So, start using them today, and acknowledge
that this amazing leap of faith you are taking is the
first step towards landing your first date.  

Energy

Nothing improves your energy like exercise. You

should work out at least 3 times a week, even if it's
just a 20-minute run. I recommend lifting weights, as
boosts testosterone, which is like an energy drink for
the mind.  
To really put yourself in a great place, and improve
your energy flow, meditate by sitting upright for 10-15
minutes a day, and pay close attention to your breath,
as you inhale and exhale. If you get distracted, bring
your attention back to your breath.

Play around with holding your breath for longer

inhales or exhales, and vice versa, to see what gives
you the most energy. Doing this daily can be life-
changing.

I also recommend bringing more laughter into your

life. Podcasts, YouTube, movies, and friends are all
great sources of humor. It pays to laugh. You'll find
you’re in a better mood and think faster on your feet,
and you might even get some great conversation
content from it.

Self-Acceptance
 
Deep self-acceptance is extremely attractive. In fact, I
think that someone's “cool” factor comes from self-
acceptance.

Learn to love yourself, so that she knows how to do it

by your example. 

Allow yourself to have fun, laugh, even make fun of

yourself with self-deprecating humor. This shows that
despite your flaws and quirks, you are OK. 

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If you feel good about yourself, you'll find that you get
rejected a lot less. Women won't reject you if you
exude a quiet confidence.

That may sound like some spacey New Age, mumbo-

jumbo, but it's true. The more you accept yourself, the
more others will too.

Playfulness

I've mentioned how important it is to laugh and feel

good, but you'll need to transfer that energy over to
the actual interaction.

Don't take women and dating too seriously; even if

you get rejected, it might make a funny story to tell or
a way to learn something new about yourself.  

A good conversation can't be planned; a conversation

is the exchange of two people vibing off one another. 

It may sound counter-intuitive, but if you allow the

conversation to be messy and clumsy, with hiccups
and funny mistakes, you'll find that it goes much
better than planned. Trust me.

Focus on learning about her, and looking for things

you like about her personality. Beyond that, don't try
to get it right. Make space for happy accidents. 

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WHEN YOU'RE IN YOUR CAR OR ALONE
AT YOUR DESK, PRACTICE SMILING.
BE AWARE OF THE IMPACT SMILING
HAS ON OTHER PEOPLE.

Self-talk

Self-talk starts before you approach a woman, and is

something you can do right now to improve your
chances with her. Talk to yourself like an encouraging,
playful, but motivating coach.

Look at how you talk to yourself and make a

conscious effort to create a positive outlook. Instead
of looking in the mirror and saying, “My hair is
receding,” tell yourself, “I bet I’d look really badass
with a crew cut!”

This will crossover when you see a pretty girl, think,

“You got this man. Get in there and tell her that she’s
got your attention.” 
The mindset to have is to always think of the best
outcome. When presented with a chance to chat with
a gorgeous woman, ask, “What makes her unique?
What's fun and sexy about her?”

This will give you a warm, playful vibe, and keep the
focus off impressing her, and instead on learning
about her.

Body Language

When you approach a woman, try to make eye contact

first. This makes a huge difference. If you are a
disembodied voice, she won't notice.

This means you may want to think about the angle

you approach from. On the street or in a bar, try to
come from a diagonal angle in front of her. If she's
sitting down, you may want to bend down lower to
catch her eye.

Make sure you’re engaging and open at this point. She

will size you up quickly based on the warm energy you
exude through your facial expression and body
language.

Speaking of body language, be sure to keep your

hands low, respect her space, but fully commit to
chatting with her. Imagine how you approach
someone you already know. That's about the same
body language you want to use. 

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It's OK if you're a little stiff and awkward at first. It's
normal, but understand that you don't need to be
suave to get girls.  

Also, be sure to speak loud enough, but don't shout.

When I first started, this was my big sticking point. I
wasn't loud enough, and girls would look around to
see who was talking to them.

I was trying to talk to them, but they hadn't heard me.

So, here's this random guy mumbling something to
her, and it came off creepy. Speak from your
diaphragm, and expect her to look at you. Command
her attention.

After the opener, I like to ask the woman's name. Then

when she tells me, I smile and tell her mine while
shaking her hand (if she is someone I don’t know).
Initiating contact immediately is a great ice-breaker
and will put her at ease.   

Below is a list of openers I've used to great effect.

Some are based on templates that you can customize
to your personality. Others can be used word-for-word.

Remember, a good opener is short, and should make

her feel comfortable with you. Bonus points if you can
use the opener to make her try to impress you. 

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WHEN YOU SIT, YOUR BACK IS
STRAIGHT, YOUR REAR IS AGAINST
THE BACK OF THE CHAIR, YOUR FEET
ARE FLAT ON THE FLOOR, AND BEND
YOUR KNEES AT A RIGHT ANGLE.

Direct Openers

Use these at a bar or in a situation where she's

walking past, and you must open fast and show your
intention. 

1. Hi, I think your friend forgot to introduce us. What’s

your name?

2. Wow, you're gorgeous. Has anyone told you that

today?

3. Excuse me, I know this is random, but I like your

bag. Where can I buy my sister one?

4. I don't mean to interrupt, but are you dating James

Senlac? You look familiar!  

5. You have an amazing smile. That’s all I wanted to

say! 
Situational Openers

Grocery store

As she picks something off the shelf: No, not that one.
When she looks puzzled, say. “I'm just kidding, go on
and take it. I’ll get the next one.”

Cafe

“Are you a famous writer? Do you want to be?”

Class

Class is the same as the gym. Strike up a conversation

about an assignment, or a book, or crack a joke about
the teacher. If your school had a big game, you could
simply ask if she saw it.

She's Working (Bartender, Barista, Etc.)

Stop in a few times and make small talk. Focus on

asking questions. Start with her name, and ask her
about her day. 

Question Her Intentions

This is where the magic happens. Most guys focus on

the first interactions as if that's what will make her
want you. All your opener does is get her attention
and to show her that you're a confident guy with a
great outlook on life.

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The next step is to ask her some questions that make
her engage with you and want to respond to get your
attention.

Open ended questions about her opinions, memories,

desires, and ideas will get her thinking, and this will
get her to express her mind to you. 

Easy Questions

1. What are you up to today? Any fun plans for the

week?

2. Where are you from? What do you miss the most?

3. What do you do? Do you enjoy it?

4. What did you study? Why did you choose that

course?

Deeper Questions

Follow those up with some deeper questions. These

probe further than conversations she might have with
other people on any given day.

The purpose of these questions is to make her think

back on a positive time in her life and associate that
memory with how you make her feel.

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1. What's your favorite childhood memory?

2. Where was the best vacation you have ever taken?

3. What advice did your mom give that has always

stuck with you?  

4. When you were a kid, did you have any

embarrassing habits?

5. Who were you in the school play or what role did

you have backstage? 

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 THE GROUP
APPROACH

By now, you've figured out that it's not useful to think

about meeting a woman as "picking her up," but
rather, as an opportunity to get her attention and
make her invest her interest in you.

This mindset will separate the men from the boys and
can improve your odds dramatically when you start to
approach women.

For this section, I’ll be giving you examples of how to

approach a woman who is in a mixed group, as I feel
this is the hardest approach of all. If you master this,
you can approach any woman at any time.

Most guys feel the need to present themselves as the

Alpha of a group and will see other guys as their
competition.

Instead, you want to stop competing with other men,

and keep your attention and eyes locked on her so
that your body language summons her intrigue.

Remember, you'll never get any girl, anytime. Michael

Jordan missed more shots than he made. 
The good news is, connecting with women is much
easier than playing basketball. It's about as hard as
learning to drive a car.

In social groups, people break up into sub-groups of

two or three.

For practical purposes, you never have to address

more than three people at a time. In cases where she
is with a large group, you can use the direct openers
in the previous section as you walk by to lure her away
from the group.

She is more likely to leave a larger group of people

than a few intimate friends; which is why you are
usually going to penetrate the group and weaken her
defenses.

If you are super extroverted or have something fun to

ask or say, address the group, but it's best to engage
the woman you want within a couple seconds by
making direct eye contact. 

Dealing with Other Guys

Sometimes a guy will get jealous, even if he's not her

boyfriend. Usually, these guys will watch with a
jealous look, or do something to show their hand like
touch her arm or make a defensive joke. 

Just introduce yourself to the guy - be sure to give a

firm handshake, smile, but look him directly in the
eye.

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Then proceed to ask her how they know each other,
and continue learning about her.

It's really that simple because most importantly, men

want to feel respected, even if it means they lose the
girl. It always comes down to respect.

Another thing to remember is that she wants to feel

desired, but she can't agree to sex in front of her
friends.

So, don't say anything overly sexual or ask for her

number (remember – that makes it look like you only
want her for her body), and instead, work on making
her chase you. 

Other guys can do handstands, but if you learn to

make her feel special and like she doesn’t have to be
defensive around you, she will open up to you on her
own.

Trust me on this – if you allow yourself to be

imperfect, but respectful of her friends while focusing
on who she is as a person, you can't lose.

What I've noticed is that when other men see a guy

penetrate the defensive barriers of a hot woman,
there's an instant respect for him.

They have probably never approached a woman so

boldly, so there's the temptation to criticize, to
protect their own egos.

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WHEN STANDING YOU SHOULD BE
ABLE TO DRAW AN IMAGINARY
STRAIGHT LINE FROM YOUR EARLOBE
THROUGH YOUR SHOULDER, HIP, KNEE
AND THE MIDDLE OF YOUR ANKLE.

But what is there to ridicule? You're a heterosexual

man, going for what he wants, without faking your
personality. And when a guy does try to flex, women
can see the insecurity behind it. What she is now
looking at is how you respond.  

So, keep your attention on her, and use cool, neutral

body language with other competitive men. Now is
not the time to be the Alpha dog, it’s time to be the
guy who takes her home. 
Group Dynamics

When you first open to the woman, the others in the

group look at you, then they watch her reaction. If she
likes you, they will relax and talk amongst themselves.
If the friends are still looking at you, introduce
yourself.  

I will shake hands with those near me, but I won't go

out of my way to shake hands with someone who is
more than two steps away. You don’t want to come
across as someone who tries too hard.  

A great question to ask right away is “So how do you

guys know each other?”

This gives you crucial information and allows the

friends to talk to you a bit if they want.

That's a good thing because once the friends approve

of you, you're all set.

If one of her friends is close to me, I talk to them long

enough, so they don't feel left out. This is crucial if
your woman is talking to one other woman. You will
need to give the other woman about 30-40 percent of
your attention.  

Often when I approach a woman in the middle of a

conversation, I'll say, "Excuse me, I don't mean to
interrupt," or "Am I interrupting?" 

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Nine times out of ten they say, "Oh no, it's OK." Next, I
simply lock eyes with her to show her my desire and
warmth.

Simplicity works well for me because there’s a sexual

intensity and social boldness behind it. With the
direct approach, I've found less is more.

If I happen to approach at a bad time, and the group

seems annoyed, I say, "Oh sorry, bad timing. Did I
interrupt something important?"

If they are at a bar, it's not important, so asking this

brings attention to their previous conversation.

Remember, men and women respect courage. It

seems egotistical, but take pride in the fact that you
go for what you want, while most men are too scared. 

Nine times out of ten they say, "Oh no, it's OK." Next, I
simply lock eyes with her to show her my desire and
warmth.

Simplicity works well for me because there’s a sexual

intensity and social boldness behind it. With the
direct approach, I've found less is more.

If I happen to approach at a bad time, and the group

seems annoyed, I say, "Oh sorry, bad timing. Did I
interrupt something important?" If they are at a bar,
it's not important, so asking this brings attention to
their previous conversation.

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 WHY IT WENT
WRONG

Use this checklist to solve the most common

challenges men face.

1. She Won't Focus on You

You didn’t make an impactful entrance. Correct this

by making eye contact, and starting with a simple
conversation to regain her trust. You can also leave
and come back again if you are at a bar; nothing is off
limits.

2. You Draw Blanks

Take a breath, focus on learning about her, and ask

her a question. It might help to memorize one good
opener that you can use in any situation as an ace up
your sleeve.

3. She Won't Talk

She might be shy. Use simpler questions, and allow

her the time to answer. Questions will lower her
defenses and make her feel more comfortable. Just go
slow.  
This book will teach you how to approach women in
just about any situation. There are many books out
there claiming to teach these skills, but they all miss
the mark.

The advice those supposed gurus offer is either over-

simplified or over-complicated and is designed to get
you to buy their expensive products and make you
their latest cash cow.

The truth is, approaching women is simple and easy. I

want you to view approaching women as another skill
you will learn, and with some practice, will refine.

How many times have you felt instantly turned on

when a hot woman walks by? Or wish you had a clever
line to deliver to the cute girl at the coffee shop?

As men, we face these temptations daily, and it can

be frustrating when you don’t have the tools to act on
these impulses. 

Rejection stings, but the slow death of a conversation

going stale comes in as a close second; no one wants
to be the loser who can’t even score with the ugly girl
at the bar.

Getting rejected in public is embarrassing; it’s

downright humiliating. Yet, there’s an unspoken rule
that as the man, you’re the one expected to approach
a woman.

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5. She Says, “I Have a Boyfriend”

The more confident you are, the less you hear this. If
you get it a lot, you are probably not being warm and
playful enough.

But sometimes it's true. If she says this, say, “Well, I

don't want to be disrespectful. Would you like to take
my number in case anything changes?” Accept her
answer and move on.

6. She Gets Angry

You have invaded her space. Simply apologize, and

say, “I didn't mean to upset you. I can back off. I just
thought you were cute.” Then see what she says. She
could be testing you.

8. She Tests You

Sometimes a woman will tease you or try to “call you

out.”

This could mean she likes you or is at least curious to

see if you’re as confident as you seem.

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 YOUR PLAN OF
ACTION

Follow this game plan to get comfortable talking to

women in just one week.

Once you've finished this book, and gone through

these seven steps, you'll be much more confident and
comfortable approaching the women you want.

Day 1. Sunday

Go somewhere crowded and simply smile at three

women. The goal is to make a brief smile and to carry
on doing what you do. You’ll be amazed when they all
smile back at you.

Day 2. Monday

Smile and say “Hi” to three women you don't know.

This could be at the coffee shop or at a bar, and it
should not be an introduction to a conversation.

You just want to be polite, and see how she will say hi
in return to you.  
Day 3. Tuesday

Smile at three women and then say, “Excuse me, can I

ask you a question” and ask something that they can
help you with; for example, “Do you know where the
nearest pharmacy is?”

She will gladly offer you her assistance, at which

point, thank her for her time and move on.

Day 4. Wednesday

Smile at three women and say, “I just wanted to let

you know you look really beautiful!”

Do not stop and chat. She will usually smile and blush
at you and maybe say thank you.

You can follow up with “Anytime!” and keep going

about your business. You will feel great too, knowing
you had a sexual influence on this beautiful stranger.

Day 5. Thursday

Go to a mall and approach three women using a

direct opener. Maintain eye contact, and after she
replies to your direct opener, give her a compliment
and make your exit.

This is not the time to pick her up, you just want to
execute the moves.

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Day 7. Saturday

This is a big day. Write down your experiences in a

journal.

List three things you are doing well, and three things
you need to improve on.

Identify which openers you like, and which questions

got you the best replies. Also, keep track of which
venues you had the most success.

By taking note of your experiences, you will be able to

gauge your approach and discover where you can
improve, to hone your skills.

Once you get laser focused, the phone numbers will

start pouring in! Here are some final things to
remember as you begin to learn your new skill. 

You’re Offering Your Time

When you approach a woman, you are offering her a

chance to get to know you, and have a good time with
you. Never forget this.

You are not chasing her, and she is not on a pedestal.

If she acts like she's doing you a favor, just move on.
You want to date quality women who appreciate and
respect you. 

TAKE HER BREATH AWAY | 40

HANDS CLASPED AND CROSSED OVER
THE GENITALS IS A SELF COMFORT
GESTURE THAT REVEALS
VULNERABILITY OR SHYNESS.

Think of It as Networking

Don't get hung-up on any one specific woman. You’re

not in the dating phase. Now is the time to test the
waters and discover all the incredible women you
could be dating.

It’s OK to Make Mistakes

The road to success is paved with mistakes. If you are

learning and putting yourself out there in an honest
way, you have nothing to feel ashamed of or
embarrassed about; and it is not a reflection on your
value as a man. 
Finally, I want you to go back and read the openers
and questions, and start the game plan as soon as
possible.

It's important that you get out there and start doing
what I'm teaching you. Only then will you see and feel
the magic for yourself. 

Brian Burke