Physical Touch in Psychotherapy, Why Are We Not Touching More
Physical Touch in Psychotherapy, Why Are We Not Touching More
Physical Touch in Psychotherapy, Why Are We Not Touching More
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Body, Movement and Dance in Psychotherapy
Vol. 6, No. 1, April 2011, 17–29
Introduction
Much has been written on touch in psychotherapy and it comes around as a
theme for conferences every few years. It is a popular subject for student
dissertations within the humanistic and integrative psychotherapy field (see for
example, Ball, 2002), but touch remains an uncomfortable issue to delve into,
and the professional debate moves relatively slowly given the evidence for its
benefits. I was trained to touch and how to discuss it in psychotherapy. Touch
was an integral part of my first individual psychotherapy, but not my second.
I am comfortable with touch in the therapeutic endeavour, and include it
fluidly as part of communication with clients. This article considers the reasons
why the discussion of touch is so difficult and confusing and why the debate
about whether to touch or not develops comparatively slowly. It discusses
anxieties about touch in psychotherapy and society, why touch is so difficult,
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and the benefits of touch. Using vignettes from clients to illustrate how touch is
essential for some clients, the author explains how she understands touch and
offers guidelines on touching in psychotherapy
lysts. Often it is not clear whether we are thinking about touch as a symbol,
perhaps of the mother and nurture, or something to be included for clients with
developmental deficits, or as a tool for physiological calming with a goal like
reducing anxiety or lifting depression, or a way of gratifying impulses, or as a
tool to provoke catharsis. All of these are possibilities, but depend on different
ways of viewing touch in the therapeutic endeavour. Often the discussion is
adversarial with discussants defending their positions. These are often
polarised as ‘to touch or not’ to add interest, but this does nothing to
engender a safe dialogue, where it could be truly possible to find some new
insights about a difficult topic.
One way to cut through some of the muddle would be to map out the
territory and the different ways that touch is used in each domain. Weber
(1990) proposes one such model and identifies three perspectives from which
to discuss touch. These are the physical-sensory, the psychological-humanistic,
and the field. The physical-sensory view is reductive, mechanistic, and
medical. Discussion is dualistic, tends to look at the physiology and anatomy
of touch, and techniques. The source of the touch is irrelevant, i.e. who or
what is touching. The psychological-humanistic perspective is closest to
phenomenology and existentialism. It is concerned with subjectivity, and
human feelings such as love and empathy. Interaction between individuals is
purposive and self conscious. ‘I-Thou’ relating is whole person relating and
communing with another (Buber, 2002/1947). ‘I-Thou’ touch involves one’s
whole being touching another whole being. Touch is reciprocal. The field
perspective fits with Eastern philosophy and incorporates the other two
perspectives. Individuals are regarded as ‘localised expressions’ of the
energetic field. Intentionality is fundamental to relating, and the intention
of the giver makes a difference to the touch, and how it is received. Intention
is energy, which impacts on the other, and may be experienced before the
actual physical touch occurs. This is because organisms resonate and attune
with each other via non-sensory means. This is both literal and metaphorical.
Touch as ‘reaching’ the other meets the other at deeper levels than
the observable. In field theory everything is connected and meaning comes
from the context. Structure and function are not separate and in therapeutic
work the client and therapist co-create the field together. The contact between
them organises the field and the relationship takes its particular shape
(Parlett, 1991).
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hysterical females, of shifting the focus to frustrating impulses and work with
transference. Braatöy collaborated with the renown Norwegian physiothera-
pist, Aadel Bülow-Hansen, and studied with Reich, and also observed:
. . . persistent withdrawal, the absolute and holy rule, ‘never touch’ may be
reacted to as if it expressed a fear in the therapist similar to the patient’s own fear.
In such cases, the absolute rule may paralyze the treatment. The patient will not
let herself go because the therapist seems to be just as frightened of the essential
thing, the body and its impulses, as she is herself (Braatöy, 1954, p. 224, original
italics).
He recalls defensively placing a table between himself and a female patient, and
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Touch in psychotherapy
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dark fetid hollow. Here I am excluded, and separate – solitude. I am touching the
dark void, the abyss I am falling into the darkness alone. I touch this well of dead
grief - I am dead grief, and I howl and long to be contacted and held. As I curl up,
my therapist is there, and carefully, gently he places his hand on my back, he is a
witness to my grief, he is there with me, in my grief he makes contact – he holds
my grief without taking it from me, without fear he holds it alongside me, there
are no words, there is the contact. I feel the warmth of his hand on my skin, but it
does not interrupt my grief, it lets me know he is with me, it lets me know he can
take this pain, that he recognizes the aloneness and without wanting to fix, cure or
interrupt he sits there with it and me . . . I am alone but with someone, a benign
someone, and it all feels a little more bearable.
If I generalise about these client examples with their unique differences, they
might be considered in terms of development trauma and/or deficit, possibly
alexithymia. When the client’s system becomes overwhelmed with arising
sensations and feelings, there is no language capacity to articulate what is
occurring. At a certain point, ‘there are no words’ and the client no longer feels/
does not feel the presence of the psychotherapist. For clients who can accept
touch it can be a rapid way of bringing them back into relationship (Eiden,
1998). This is skilled work and not to be undertaken lightly. Clients who are
more traumatised have less capacity to differentiate the touch communications
of others (Fagan, Silverton, & Smith, 1998). Ford (1993) has developed a
structured protocol for therapists to employ to explore touch, when the client
has been sexually abused: one of the major areas of trauma.
Contactful touch
When I worked at the Chiron Centre (1983–1995), we adopted the term
‘contactful touch’ for the way we related to clients through touch. We
acknowledged touch as a language in its own right that does not always easily
translate into words. Touch contact can be much deeper than any verbal
communication, and is informed by presence, intentionality, and congruence
between other forms of communication (Westland, 2009). Touch is relational
and part of a range of ways of communicating. Contactful touch always
happens in the here and now, moment by moment. In the moment of touching,
I am also touched and out of that communications occur. When I touch I do
not have a predetermined goal. This form of touch is more a bottom-up, than
top-down approach.1 Technical knowledge about different types of touch may
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give some idea of how the touch might be received, but I can never really know.
Contactful touch is underpinned by Weber’s (1990) field perspective. Touch is
not a technique or an intervention. Touch becomes technique when the client
becomes object and I am subject as in ‘I do bodywork’. When touch is
exploratory, awareness is placed in the hands and there is movement into the
unknown with curiosity. I cannot explore what I already know. So whatever
form the touch takes, contact is fundamental to it. Carroll sums this up as
‘Touch is a multiplicity of possibilities each with context in the specific
relationship at a specific moment’ (Orbach & Carroll, 2006, p. 66).
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Conclusion
Touch is intrinsic to communication, and without it a relationship is partial.
Whilst there is some slow progress towards the acceptance of touch for clients
26 G. Westland
who are emotionally deprived, more has to be done to further its more
widespread inclusion. For this to happen, dialogue about touch in relationships
has to move from an adversarial debate to a discussion that can hold both the
universal (or general) and the particular (or specific) and not confuse them. The
problem with touch is that it is not easy to pin down and make safe. Any touch
in psychotherapy will be multi-layered with meanings and experiences that
cannot be pre-determined. It is not possible to be prescriptive about touch
without losing some of the richness of its possibilities. Touch reminds us that
we are human and are embodied. Touch can lead us into the deepest realms of
intimacy and mystery. It is not surprising that we are frightened of it.
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Notes on contributors
Gill Westland is Director of Cambridge Body Psychotherapy Centre (CBPC) and a
UKCP registered body psychotherapist, trainer, supervisor, consultant, and writer. She
has worked as a body psychotherapist for many years and has been training body
psychotherapists for the past 20 years. She worked originally as an Occupational
Therapist in the National Health Service in Mental Health at the Maudsley Hospital,
London, and then at Fulbourn Hospital, Cambridge, as a clinician and then as a
manager, clinical supervisor, and teacher. She is a full member of the European
Association for Body Psychotherapy (EABP) and an External Examiner for the Karuna
International Institute in the UK. She is co-editor of the journal Body, Movement and
Dance in Psychotherapy (Taylor and Francis). The body psychotherapy training offered
at CBPC is rooted in a psychospiritual perspective.
Note
1. Processing of information can be seen as ‘top-down’ i.e. relatively more cognitive or
‘bottom up’ i.e. relatively more sensorimotor and emotional. These three levels of
processing must be balanced and integrated in psychotherapy. See for example,
Ogden, Minton, and Pain (2006).
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