Femdom Training

How to train your husband?

 If Your Husband Does Not Want Femdom Relationship.

Our step by step training here, will convert even the most vanilla of males to a
femdom relationship if you follow this to the letter.
This may sound hard but I will tell you right now that it is a lot easier to switch your husband into a
submissive than it is to train a woman to become a dominant.

This comprehensive guide will explore on how to start from scratch, and what targets to set at each
step. By the end of this guide, your husband will be under your complete control, and will do
everything to please you. This is the kind of relationship that most women desire.

Regardless of your man’s sex drive, whether little, large, vanilla, or kinky, the key to getting him to
conform to a femdom relationship starts with one thing.
Husband Training Step 1: Chastity.

If you man lacks sexual interest, there is a high probability that it is easier for him to masturbate
than it is for him to invest the time and energy into you having a great sexual relationship.
Practically any essentially strong marriage or relationship will benefit from male chastity. Your
partner will be more complacent and more focused on your needs. Keeping him locked up is non-
negotiable. His orgasms are yours to give, not something that he has a right to by default. You have
full right to control his orgasms, and sooner you make him understand that, the sooner you can start
his training.

It is a common place observation that men tend to be sexually wanton. Left to their own devices,
even married men will look for other available women, wanting to spread their “seed” as widely as
possible. Sex is quick, often brutal, and focused on a single goal – ejaculation. Ejaculation leaves
men depleted and often out of sorts. They lose their focus on their partner or the image that prompted
their masturbatory fantasy. The biological and emotional signals seem to be for the male to leave
after ejaculation and begin searching for his next sex partner. No wonder women are so often
dissatisfied with their male partners.
Femdom relationships
require the male to
overcome this biological
predisposition and the
cultural conditioning that
reinforces it. Femdom
relationships require the
male to find ultimate
pleasure in his partner’s
pleasure, rather than
subordinating her
pleasure to his own. In
such relationship, a man
is letting controlling his
sexual desires in
exchange for pleasuring
his woman. This
reorientation is a
profound challenge for a
male, one that no doubt
accounts for the low (but growing)
percentage of femdom relationships.

A program of chastity is the best way for

men to reorient themselves so they are
suitable for a strong female in a femdom
relationship. By chastity, it is meant that
the male in a relationship does not have
an orgasm unless it is in the presence and
with the permission of his partner.

Some women and their partners prefer

that the man maintain chastity through
self-discipline. Others prefer the idea of
using a cage to enforce their chastity.
There is no one right way to practice
chastity, but due to societal
reconditioning of men growing up in a
patriarchal society, the best method would
be to enforce it. Tell him it’s not a
debate, and that’s something he has to do.
Ultimately most agree that a man who
practices chastity is expressing profound
respect for their partner and women
generally. Many speak of their chastity as
being a gift of their sex and their sexual
energy to their female superior and the
superior sex of which she is a part.
For a man who is used to unrestricted masturbation, chastity is a profound challenge. Yet, chastity is
a challenge well worth undertaking because it can help lead to a transformation of a man’s
relationship with his partner. Almost every account of a chastity regimen notes that the man becomes
much more attentive to the needs of his partner, serving her better both sexually and in a myriad of
other ways that are pleasing to her. The many religious traditions that use chastity/abstinence as a key
element of their spiritual practice and service orientation are definitely onto something.

Resolve to restrict his orgasms to situations where he has first given you ample pleasure in some
way, be it sexual or otherwise. If his need to masturbate is simply too overwhelming, as is often the
case, encourage/command him to practice masturbating to the edge of orgasm and then stop.

In all femdom relationships the male must be asked to provide sexual service to his partner without
his penis while missing his own orgasm, a profound mental and physical challenge. Ultimately, it is
for you to decide how to best introduce chastity into your relationship. What is important to
understand, however, is that chastity is one great way to keep your submissive man feeling and
expressing his submissiveness to you.

What you need to do is to confront him, and ask him in an open and understanding way of how many
times he masturbates in a week? Tell him that it does not matter to you, but you are curious.

He is either going to be honest with you, or he will lie. At this point it does not matter. If he says 5
times a week, or he says none, your response is going to be the same.

Here it is:
 You have been reading
on the internet and that
you wish to try an
experiment with him,
and if he participates,
you will reward him
with whatever wish he
asks for. (Doesn’t
matter at this point what
that is, if you want to
convert your
relationship, you will
have to do this)

He will likely ask what

this is before he states
what it is that he
wants. When he does,
tell him you want to see
what his behavior will
be like if you put this on
for 1 week. At this point produce the CB 6000 male chastity device. The
reason we say this one, is because it comes with 3 different ring sizes, and
spacers so that no matter what size he is, he will be locked up with no ability
to cheat. You must already have this on hand before you confront him about
his masturbation. This needs to go on one way or another at the time of your
confrontation. Do not accept no for an answer. Find a way to be determined
enough for him to do it. This is vital.

Once you have it on

him, it must stay on
for a full week, with
no chance of taking
it off. If it is
uncomfortable, then
you can take it off
supervised, and wash
him, or give him
relief, but he is to be
nowhere out of your
site without the
device on. Make
him clear on
agreeing to this when
you first put it on. Tell him you are about to make all his dreams come true if he does just this one
single thing.

During the
week that it is
on, it is very
important for
you to sexually
tease him in all
sorts of
ways. Find
reasons to play
with his cock
while it is
locked up, and
reward him in
any way that
you know he
will like. The
only thing you
have to do in
week 1, is
reward him,
and tease him
and be
completely
kind and
serving to
him. Don’t
worry, this is
just a
conditional
phase that will
change in later
phases. Once
you have him
locked up and
have done this
for the first
week proceed
to step 2.
Husband Training Step 2: More Chastity, More Teasing

Ok, so your first week of chastity on your husband is up. Now it’s time to evaluate.

If your husband masturbates more than 3 times per week, this first week will become very evident in
his behavior change to you. Regardless of anything, being locked up for a week, will be an eye
opener for the both of you. You realize now, that your sex life is directly tied to his orgasms.

It is time to reward him for his agreement. Give him whatever he asked for. Even if it is something
that you have never done, like swallow, it is important to show him at this stage of the game, that his
compliance will have huge payoffs.

Once you have given him what he wants, tell him that you really enjoyed the week together, and if he
remains a good boy and stays in the chastity for another week, you have other WONDERFUL
surprises for him.
At this point, before you lock him up, give him the best sex you have ever had in your life. Drain him
completely with 1-3 orgasms in this day depending on his age and his refractory period.

Then lock him up again.

Then let him know that you love him and

you have read online on some ideas on
how to spice things up around the house,
and make his life better and more
interesting in the bedroom. It is very
likely that you will notice some
enthusiasm from him by this
point. Especially after a week of being
locked up, and the most incredible sex of
your life together.

Tell him now that this is just the

beginning of a new relationship, where
you are going to dedicate your time and
energy into pleasing him. Let him know
though that there will need to be a few
changes in the house, and that you will
need him to start following a few orders
of yours to make sure that your needs are
being met.

At this point, it is time to slowly

introduce some household chores to
him. To make it more interesting to him,
have them perform some simple tasks
like doing dishes in the nude. Ease him
into more chores over the next few
weeks, and always try and get him to do
them in the nude. Introduce joking
punishment when he hasn’t done
something to your liking. At this point
you will be introducing corporal
punishment, but at this time, be sure to
make it hurt. Make it fun.

For instance, if he didn’t wipe the

counters up properly and there are
crumbs on the counter, show him what
he missed, and have him clean it up, and
after that, grab a wooden spoon or even
your hand will suffice, and grab him by
the neck softly, but firmly, and
push his head down over the
counter. If he resists, tell him to go
with it, that he will like it.

Then lightly spank him and tell him

that if he wants rewards for being a
good boy, he must do a better job at
cleaning than that. Spank him
enough to turn him on, but not
enough to hurt him.

If he is not wearing the chastity at

this point, which he should be, put
it back on.

If he is, tell him that this is a

warning, but the next slip up you will
tack on an extra day of chastity for
his sloppy chores.

Keep all of this fun, and just act

enough the part to make it spicy. He
doesn’t need to know that the
relationship is changing from this
point on just yet.

It is likely that his ego will raise up

during your attempt to dominate him.
It is natural, because even if he likes
it, he will feel the need to protect his
manhood.

Tease him constantly, by flaunting

the key to his chastity cage,
reminding him that you control him
and his orgasms, and only way
forward to his release is to please
you.
Handling his ego is quite simple. Just
follow these three rules:
1. Compliment him for compliance.

Few examples:

 ” It’s great to see you let me have

control. It shows you are a real man”
 “You are so sexy when you let me
have control. You are turning me on!”
 “You are such a cool husband, not
like other pathetic males who need to
show their manhood like losers, you
really have confidence in yourself”
 Only a real man would let me take
control, I love you so much. You are
a stud.

2. Know when his ego is rising up, ease and

let go of your domination until next time.

3. After the act, he may try to dominate you

back to prove his manhood. Let him be a bit
dominant.

The ego handling is just a temporary

situation. He will feel less and less the need to
show his manhood as time goes by, until it
will disappear…. at this point you know you
eliminated his ego when he is with you. And
he will let himself submit to you easily.
Husband Training Step 3: Make him Swallow

Do not advance to this step until you have completed

all previous steps. For the next few weeks, you have to
be delicate in transitioning your vanilla husband into
your obedient houseboy. His ego will be the biggest
enemy. Remember your training in the last step
on how to handle his ego.

Continue the chastity training each day, but in the

beginning it is particularly powerful if you tease his
cock daily as much as your own schedules
permit. Take him out of chastity as often as you can,
and suck, lick, and play with his cock a lot. Bring him
to close to cumming, but do not let him cum at all.

After continuous teasing for several days, it is perfect

time to train him to clean his own mess.
First of all, it is actually a lot harder than it sounds. It is the entire power shift in the relationship with
your husband. The whole point of forcing someone to swallow their own cum is making them do
something degrading and humiliating that they wouldn't normally do, but at the same time, it is very
beneficial as your husband will not make any mess.

The most common approach is by command. Make him come on his or your hand or a shot glass or
inside a condom. Then order him to lick it or swallow it clean. This is the first thing that comes to
mind for most women, but is also the hardest to make someone follow through with.

This approach can work, but only if you are very strict. Speak sternly, imply urgency, and raise your
voice. Since this is one of the hardest approaches, it can also take several tries. For example, tease
your husband to the point of desperation, and then unlock him and make him come into a shot glass
or a condom. Shot glass or condoms are essential, or too much of it will get stuck on the sides and be
wasted. So after he came inside a condom, carefully take off that condom without dropping any cum,
place it in his mouth, and tell him to suck it and swallow.
Swallowing his own cum is very important for his training. His training cannot move ahead if he
does not complete this part. Just remind him that he cannot cum at all, unless he agrees to eat his own
cum. Explain to him, how is that not only hot for you, as it turns you on, but also completely benign,
as he is basically swallowing something from his own body. Help him pass this mental block. Tease
him, seduce him, even blackmail him if necessary, but in the end you have to make him swallow his
own cum.
If he still refuses, you have to go on the offense. Stop talking to him, threaten to break up your
relationship, make him feel guilty, and remind him that he is responsible for all of it, because of a
silly little thing that he is making into such a big deal. He should be stronger than that.
Again if he refuses hold his nose and pour it into his mouth. Let him breath but repeat the process to
get him to swallow all of it.

This process takes a couple of tries before he will be able to swallow all of it without wasting a drop.
However, if your husband refuses to do that, and you are unable to hold his nose or keep his mouth
open, there is indeed a second approach that works for most women.
This second approach requires a little more
preparation. This is generally forcing your husband
to swallow his own load. The key to this approach is
lack of options on your husband's behalf. Put him in
a position where he can't say no. My favorite way to
do this is the legs over the head trick. Have him lay
on his back and lift his legs back over his head until
his cock lines right up with his mouth What helps is
having him lay such that when his feet go over his
head they land on a wall or yourself behind him so
he cannot unfold, then narrow the gap between his
mouth and cock. When he's lined up make him
come into his own mouth. This might actually take a
couple tries before you get a good amount in there.
Hold him in that awkward position by the balls,
make sure you have a good grip so he knows he
can't just lay back down. Tell him he has to swallow
it, if he hesitates hold his nose with a free hand.
He'll have to swallow to breath. Make sure he's
secure and can't move, then make him come into a
shot glass. Tell him to drink it, again if he refuses
hold his nose and pour it into his mouth Let him
breath but repeat the process to get him to swallow
if necessary, and there are alternatives to holding his
nose.
Husband Training Step 4: Breaking Balls

So if you have locked your husband, and continuously teased him for several weeks, and forced him
to swallow his cum whenever you decide to let him have an orgasm, you can move on to next step
which are ‘Ball-Torture’ and ‘Edging’. This next step not a clear defined step, but more of a gradual
process. It can be started along with the third step in parallel, but it is highly recommended that this
step is not started until your husband had swallowed his own cum a couple of times. If you still have
problem with your husband refusing to swallow his own cum, moving on to this step will not be that
productive. However, there is also a possibility that if done right, combined with Ball torture and
edging, your husband might agree on swallowing his own cum. But keep in mind, that making him
gulp his own cum is a lot more important step than ball-abuse, edging or ruined orgasm. You have to
show force and make him do step 3, and after you completed you will achieve a power over him, and
that power is crucial for step 4.
Edging is mainly a form of Orgasm denial, like Chastity. However, Chastity is a passive technique in
which your husband is completely denied to have any orgasm whatsoever, Edging is more playful.
Edging is done after unlocked the penis out of the cage, and stimulate it to the point of orgasm, and
right at that point, stopping any and all stimulation, without actually letting him cum. The real art
with edging is to learn exactly how to get him as close as possible to an explosion without actually
allowing him to erupt. If you pay close attention while you fondle and play, you’ll learn precisely the
clear warning signs of an imminent ejaculation.
There’s nothing quite like edging for subliminally building your husband’s libido and desire. Not
only will he cherish you more, thanks to neurochemistry, but within a short timeframe his vulnerable
and exploitable mind will be totally under your feminine control.

Make him always tell you exactly how close he is. Kind of obvious, but Insist that he tells you when
to slow down and when to stop. Especially in the beginning while you’re learning how to read his
body language. Keep talking to him, ask him how it feels, what is best. You’ll soon get the feel of it
and he’ll love you even more for it.
Feel for his body and muscles tensing, him holding his breath, arching his back or even tensing, all
are signs he’s getting very close. Learn to read and understand the signs and don’t worry if you go
over, you’re learning. Just be sure it’s a libido-building ruined orgasm.
 Move from strong to soft strokes,
from his vein filled shaft up to his
tip constantly. Change it up, take
your time and make sure you get
him ultra-rock hard for maximum
dopamine production in his
vulnerable brain… I personally like
lots of lube and oil and fast but not
too tight of strokes, and then as he
gets closer and closer, move to a
looser grip and then focus on his
hypersensitive head and frenulum
(the strip underneath the head at the
top where men are most sensitive).
Also take breaks frequently. It’s
better to stop one second too early
than one second too late, stroke -
edge - deny – repeat.

Make it ultimately his fault if he

erupts. So again, if he does explode
make sure you properly ruin it. Stop
all rubbing and stimulation as soon
as he starts to climax. Or if he’s tied
down, you turn it into a post orgasm
torture, after the ruined orgasm,
where you use his slippery cum as
lube to keep rubbing his
hypersensitive Joystick, scolding
him by saying: you’re so naughty, I
didn’t give you permission to cum.

When you do want to enjoy his pent up explosions, make that part of the tease too. When you’re
planning to make him climax and erupt, this is a great time to also practice your edging techniques.
Use it as an opportunity to see just how crazy you can make him, where you’re not worrying about
accidently taking him over the edge. You can also add a wonderfully sadistic element with like
promising him to not ruining his orgasm If you can hold on for just five more minutes.
Routine is critical. Edge him every day. For best results: One short session (15 minutes) every other
morning; one medium-length session (20-30 minutes) every evening before bed; and at least one long
session (40+ minutes) every weekend. If this seems like a lot of time, consider how much time you
spend alone doing things you wish he was interested in (like watching your favorite shows on
Netflix). This is one activity he will eagerly join. Edging is addictive to male neurochemistry, and it
very specifically addicts him to you, as long as you do it regularly. The more you do it, the more
deeply he bonds to you, and the more he will crave spending time with you throughout the day. This
feeds on itself, and before long, your nightly “quality time” together becomes perfectly natural for
both of you. Even if you’re already in love, married, and devoted to each other, your connection can
still go deeper - and the fire of wilder days can be rekindled. No more going to bed alone! Also, any
time spent having sex or pleasuring you can count toward his edge time. (at your discretion) Daily
orgasms for you, his heat beside you as you drift to sleep, and an eager, attentive lover totally
addicted to your touch - what’s not to love? No matter how busy or tired you are, you both have the
time for this, I promise. Do it for a week, and you will start making time for it.
Edge him more than once. For most, this is obvious. But for some new to edging, it needs to be said.
Don’t just edge him once and assume you’re done. Depending on his stamina (and how long it’s been
since his last orgasm) it can take a while to build him up to his first edge of the night. It’s important
to think of it that way: “first edge of the night.” Because once you’ve guided him to his edge - and

stopped - he is still highly aroused, and edging him again becomes easy. All that build-up was time
invested to get him to his most blissful state. Now “cash in” your investment and keep him there, by
edging him over and over again. It should be easy. A single, slow, tight pump is sometimes enough.
Watch his reaction and enjoy the show! (Women report that this is usually their favorite part -
guiding their loved one from edge to edge with subtle touches, watching him, and knowing the
exquisite gift he trusts only her to give.)
Keep him guessing. Every single time you touch his cock, he should never know if you intend to
edge him, ruin him, or give him a full orgasm. Lie to him. Tell him you’re going to stop, then don’t.
Or tell him you’re going to ruin him, then give him a full orgasm. Or congratulate him on the orgasm
you’re about to give him, then “change your mind” and stop for the night. This only works if you
also sometimes tell the truth. Once he learns you are unpredictable, his body will naturally prepare
for orgasm, (every time!) giving him the rush he craves - while his mind reels in fear of the
alternatives. You are fucking his mind, in addition to his body - in a very good way! Watch how he
reacts - from the curl of his toes to the flare in his eyes. It’s incredibly hot.

A “ruined” orgasm is when you let go and cease all stimulation, a split second before he climaxes.
His cum will sort of just leak out, and it’s not as satisfying as a full orgasm. “Ruined” is a misnomer,
though, because he still gets some small pleasure from it, so don’t be afraid to ruin him regularly. He
might thrash, beg, or try to finish it himself, so this is a good time to playfully experiment with
restraints - something as simple as tying his wrists together behind his back with a belt or necktie will
do the trick. The important difference between a ruined and regular orgasm is that the male libido
does not diminish after a ruined orgasm. He will stay horny, eager, erect, and attentive, as though he
had no orgasm at all, and you can continue playing, if you wish, after a short break. You can even
ruin him twice in one night - the second one is usually harder to achieve, though.
 One importance is abuse to the balls. Most people
will find it hard to take a couple hard swats to the
balls before or after an orgasm. Your husband will
obviously feel pain, but the point is to induce mild
to severe pain or it can be used only to cause
discomfort. It is important to note that the penis
and testicles can be easily or permanently
damaged and, therefore, caution must be observed
when practicing this activity. The secondary point
is for him to never getting used to the pain, and
hence things should be changed frequently so he
does not expect what to come.

The testicles are perhaps the most sensitive area of

man's genitals as well as the most fragile. Any
activity involving the testicles should be
undertaken carefully and with consideration given
to the individual’s welfare. Mistakes can lead to

ruptures, tears, or other disfiguring and disabling

results.

One form of ball abuse is simply squeezing them

between the palm of one hand, as if squeezing a
rubber ball. By pulling down on the testicles
before squeezing them, they rest at the bottom of
the sack and can be squeezed more effectively.
Start with a gentle pressure and work up from
there until your partner has reached his threshold.

Slapping is another painful method of ball

torture. While the sack of the testicles hangs
loose, gently but firmly slap them from side to
side. The testicles will bounce within the sack
when they are slapped causing immense pain so
it is wise not to slap them with too much force.
You can also tie up the balls with a length of rope,
tubing, or leather straps. To do this, gather the
testicles in one hand and gently pull down. With
the other hand, wrap the rope or other restraint
device just above the balls and tie off. Once this is
accomplished, tap lightly with the fingers on the
now taut sides of the testicles.

The testicles are subject to rupture easily when

they are bound so it is important that you do not
use too much force during this activity.

Another possible way is to tie a knot around his

balls, and pull them often. This will result in
showing him that you have direct control over his
balls, and you can inflict pain whenever you want.
This is a great way to do reprogramming as he
will do everything to not be subjected to pain, and
in during so, his only focus would be to please
you. Your dominance will be asserted and to him,
his balls are now your property.
 While squeezing his balls you can
manipulate them in your palm, causing them
to rub slightly against one another. This
rubbing presses on nerves that lie on the
outsides of each testicle and causes a sharp
shooting pain which travels up into the
abdomen.

The skin around the testicles is more

sensitive while bound and pinching them
with fingernails or tweezers can also prove
to be very painful. Scraping the nails or
other implements over the tightened skin of
the sack is also deemed painful.

Use a ball point pen to write or draw on the

bound testicles. This produces sensations
that vary from sensual to painful, depending
on the amount of pressure applied.

You might also try a tracing wheel (can be

purchased at sewing centers for under $2.00)
to trace over the surface of the bound
testicles. Again, the amount of pressure used
determines the reaction you will get. You
may even try placing the tracing wheel in the
freezer for a few hours before hand.

Any instrument may be used in this manner, however, you may want to avoid anything that would
cut or puncture the skin. A ball stretcher can be used to elongate the scrotum and provide a feeling of
weight pulling the testicles away from the body. Alternatively, a ball crusher can also be used that
squeezes the testicles slowly by turning a nut or screw. Both are particularly enjoyable for the wearer
as it can make an orgasm more intense, as testicles are prevented from moving.

Of course he should be locked in chastity right back again. It is important that he spend as less time
as possible without the chastity locked. Hence it is highly recommended to invest in some electronic
stimulation toy. Using electronic stimulation toys have an added benefit that it makes it easier for you
to ruin your husband’s orgasm while he is still locked in chastity.

Another is, if you have electronic stimulation toys, use them to make him come, but after orgasm
keep turning up the power until he obeys. There are a lot of options really, any sort of pain should do
the trick. When using pain, I always suggest it be something erotic in nature to make thinking about
it afterwards a more positive experience for your husband.
If you notice your husband hesitating or otherwise struggling with the command, I suggest telling his
punishment if he doesn't obey. Pick a punishment he won't like, and up that punishment with each
attempt. For example, by this time, your husband is locked in a cage, and is being teased constantly,
so internally he cannot wait to just have a release. Deny him orgasm for a week then tell them if he
doesn't follow through you will deny him orgasm for another week. If he still doesn’t budge then try
again in a week, but next time threaten two weeks punishment. While I imagine this will eventually
work with anyone, it might be hard to find the right punishment. Don't start out with the worst
punishment you can imagine though, build up to larger and more serious punishments. Someone
refusing to eat their own cum at the cost of no orgasms for a year, might actually be willing to do so
at the threat of not coming for a month after suffering through two weeks of no orgasms. If it's not
working, try not to get frustrated. Some husbands just have a hard time with this. Instead, think of it
as a game to see how much your husband will suffer through before giving in.

Your husband should know by now that you are in-charge, and he is locked in the chastity, and you
are the key-owner, hence indirectly owning him. He should be continuously reminded that his
manhood is now in your hands, and he is basically a sexual slave for your entertainment.
It is a battle of
will, and it is
very important
to not give in
during that time.
All the work
done up till now,
and hoping to be
done in future
will be undone.
A really
important thing
is to show him
that you control
his orgasms, and
wear his chastity
key around your
neck, so you
could display it
to him from time
to time.
Desperately
wanting to have
a release, and
seeing that you
are the only one
that could make
it happen, he
will eventually
agree to your
demand.
Husband Training Step 5: Discipline & Reward

Do not advance to this step until you have completed all previous steps.

Your man should be considerably better behaved by this point, and you should have stealthily found
a way for him to be permanently chastised except when you want to tease him, play with him or
occasionally give him release.

There is no set time for release, but I would recommend the beginning, no more than once per
week. As you progress, the level that you can make him wait will significantly increase. You have
to be careful though. There will be frustrating times for your man, and since you are taking him
somewhere that you want him, and this was not his idea, you must be more flexible in his training
than if all this was his idea.

So, the next step you need to do is to incorporate real punishment into your lifestyle. The
affirmations are nice and an introductory way for him to get used to you spanking him, but now I am
talking about real discipline.

Your husband needs to be disciplined in order to be corrected so that he becomes a better husband to
you.
A normal punishment is a judgment or a sentence for the violation of the law that the you have laid
down. If your husband knowingly has violated one of your commands, he should be punished to pay
her retribution for his unlawful behavior. An example would be, say the you forbid your husband to
masturbate. If he violates your known rules, he then would be punished to learn his lesson and to pay
you retribution for his infraction.

But here the dynamics are entirely different. Contrary, your husband has to be regularly disciplined,
whether he has violated any rules or not. He is discipline because you are training him. Any pain
causing activity like a whipping or a spanking can be either a discipline or a punishment. But the
purpose and the severity will vary depending if it is for training or for rebuke. A punishment would
be more severe than a discipline.

Discipline is a good thing and your

husband can be taken to subspace by
the loving yet authoritative hand of
correction from you. Discipline is
necessary for the you to properly train
your husband. A man without regular
discipline is usually a disobedient
husband who becomes self-centered
and lazy. By nature, men need to be
disciplined by a woman. The more a
man is disciplined, the less he will need
to be punished because he will be more
obedient.

Punishment is a negative and is not

intended to be submissively fulfilling.
It is intended to punish wrong doings
in a manner so that the wrong doings
do not happen again. A punishment is
also an act of love but its purpose is to
rebuke and reprimand. The terms
discipline and punishment are easily
intermingled and sometimes people
refer to a punishment as discipline and
vice versa. However, the terminology
is not as important as the purpose of
the correction. If it is to train, guide
and alter a male's behavior and attitude,
then it is Discipline. If it is to reprove,
penalize and chastise a male for
disobedience, then it is Punishment.

When your man does something that does not please you, let him know that he will be disciplined or
punished for it. If you are able to do it right away, then do it. If not, then you must still warn him
that when you have a moment that he will be disciplined for his disobedience.
He will likely think this is a game at this point, and will be looking forward to the spanking.

When the time comes, this is how you handle it.

Your tone is different. Your attitude is different. You put him over the knee and you use a belt,
slipper, or anything with a hard surface, or if you must your hand. You spank him for as long as it
takes, and it is important that when you are spanking him you are talking to him about the behavior
you are trying to correct. If he starts to resist or tries to get away, you must let him know that if he
refuses his punishment, that the chastity will stay on for an extra week.

If he still does not comply, then let him be disobedient, but live up to your commitment. No playing
with him in any sexual way for another week. If he agrees to the spanking later, you still make him
wait a week from the day he turned the spanking down. You can subtract one day for him coming
around to show that good behavior does have it rewards.
 You make sure you spank him for as long as it
takes to produce real pain. Pain that makes it
hard for him to sit down. His ass should look
like this when you are done. Your husband’s
ass should look like this when we started to
incorporate real punishment into our
relationship.

I also make him wear underwear that is sexy to

me with no regard on what he wants to wear,
but we will talk about that later on. You are not
ready for that just yet.

I completely submit to my wife and my life is

better because of it.

Now this is the most important part.

Aftercare.
After you are done, you must hold him, caress him, and love him. Tell him that you think that it is
incredibly hot how he submitted to you, and that you think is the ultimate man. It is important for
you to build his ego to support his compliance at this point. If you do this right, you have him right
now. You now can bend and mold him into anything you want.

You have broken him. But to be broken that man needs to know that you have not lost respect, but
have actually gained respect. That you love him more. That he means more to you now that he ever
has.
If you feel that you are deeper connected
from this experience, then you have
executed perfectly. If there are tensions,
and/or things seem a bit weird, that is ok
too. Just make sure in the aftercare that
you love up on him, and show him that
you think he is the manliest man ever for
submitting to you.

Wait 1 day, then invite him for a

conversation in your bedroom.

Tell him to remove his clothing. You

keep yours on. Tell him to kneel before
you at the foot of the bed while you sit
at the foot of the bed. Tell him that you
very much like the way the relationship
is going, and that you would like to
make this a more permanent
arrangement. Let him know that you
wish to lead the household and for him
to follow your lead and to comply to
your wishes. Let him know that his life
will vastly improve under your
leadership, and that you will both be
better off.

Listen to his response.

It is very important that during this discussion, somehow

remind him that he is still locked in a chastity, and you
have the keys of that lock. Simple way would be to play
with your key until he notices or check if his cage is still
locked. This will mentally give him some hope and help
him associate his chastity to agreement of your demands
because he would want to do anything for you, so you be
pleased and eventually unlock him.

If he is resistant, then offer him a trial period. The trial

period will be one month and the terms are that he must
listen to everything you say, and do what is told. If he
does not like what happens in the month then you can sit
down and discuss what you will do next.
Do not accept no as an answer here. Do whatever it takes to get him to agree. Once he agrees, you
need to commence your authority right away.

Stand up, remove your clothes, and remind him

that he is still locked up for the remainder of
the time of his punishment. However, that does
not mean that you cannot be pleased. Get him
to orally service you and bring you to orgasm
now. This is very powerful in exchanging the
power in the relationship. If he is not good at
it, then that is even better. He will feel a bit
inadequate and realize that he has been a shitty
lover. This is a good place for his mind to be at
this time, but do not humiliate him over it. Be
a good leader and teach your man how to eat
pussy properly. Put the time in now as long as
it takes for him to learn how to make you cum
with his tongue. Do not belittle his efforts, or
get frustrated when his tongue is not in the
right spot. Just keep on leading him
back. Show him with your finger, and show
him his target and keep on bringing him back
to that.

Once he has made you cum, if that has never

happened before, tell him that this is just a sign
that your relationship is going to be better than
ever. It will take several tries before he could
make you come from his tongue alone, so it
would be better to set up a face sitting routine
for him to practice. It could be any ranging from 3 to 10 times a day depending on free time, and his
current oral skills.

First thing you want to remember - Men are visual creatures. Face sitting is about using your
feminine parts to seduce and control him. It’s a good idea to stand over him and let him get an eyeful
of your crotch and butt cheeks before you sit. You might like to put your hands on your hips or touch
yourself as you tell him what you are going to do to his face before you sit, for example; it builds
anticipation. It helps to get him excited about the prospect of having his vision obscured if you give
him some visual teasing beforehand. You can’t just plop down on a face as if it’s an actual seat, no
matter what he says. The human face was not designed to withstand the pressure of an entire torso’s
weight. You have to counter balance with your legs and arms in order to exert the right amount of
weight that doesn’t cause damage.

What you can do is to sit cowgirl or reverse cowgirl on his head. Position yourself so your knees are
not touching him. Not place full weight, but enough of it to distribute your weight throughout your
legs. Only wear heels if you are physically fit and have powerful legs that you can hold yourself
upright on; you’ll injure your ankles and getting a comfortable position will be hard.
Seat yourself on his face so that the softest parts of you are in contact with the hardest parts of his
face. So for example, your ass crack and cheeks should center on the nose and upper jaw.

Lean forward or backward depending

on the position and use your hands to
balance the rest of your weight on his
chest. It’s important to lean and move
so that he can get some type of air flow
to breathe during the play session. The
bigger your booty, the more cognizant
you should be to lean forward or
backward or raise yourself up
periodically so he can breathe.

For licking, you’ll need to raise yourself

up. Using your leg strength, balance
back more onto your ankles, knees off
of his shoulders. This will allow him to
move his lower jaw and head freely
underneath you to pleasure you
properly. You can also just kneel over
him and let him reach up and earn that
pussy or ass, but know that your knees
will eventually start to hurt from being
in one position for so long. Also, his
neck will eventually give out because
it’s not designed to crane, only to pivot.

For full weight face-sitting, you can

lean back more to restrict the breath, but
make sure your softest parts are what
you’re smothering him with. The same
for a human seat.

While sitting on his face, you should not block any sensation. You must be able to have any
experience at this point, and should not think about your husband, but only about you. So if you
squirt an orgasm, or do take a piss while sitting on his face, so be it. It is for him to deal with. He
might find this disgusting for a first few times, but after continuous practice, he will be anticipating
for you to squirt or piss, and will be desperate to drink any liquids that come out of you.

Be realistic. He may want you to squish his face but good. You have to remember however that you
are the dominant and you set the tone for what is safe to do. Squish his face for him if you like, but
don’t do it with reckless abandon.
Husband Training Step 6: You get a penis, he gets a hole.

If you have completed all the prior steps, ONLY then resume reading here.

By now you should be experiencing a newly formed relationship where your man is the most
attentive and obedient man he has been since the beginning of your relationship.

In this next level of training we are going to intensify, and lay down some deep subliminal
programming to help transform him into your knight that will follow your orders happily, obediently,
faithfully, and love doing it for you.

This is where the relationship truly will start to blossom beyond anything you could ever imagine.

Make sure that you are doing your training with him every day. As another rule, during this period,
it would be very helpful to your cause to have your man naked as much as possible in the home while
you remain clothed. If you have kids, establish a date night once per week, where your kids are
taken to a babysitter, and establish a no clothes rule in the house. Or put the kids to bed if they are
young enough, and get your man naked.

Teach him things like bringing you a drink. Preparing snacks for TV shows, etc. You should also at
this time, tell him that the remote is now yours to decide what the two of you will watch. If you like
sports, or programs he likes, then by all means, but you are in charge of the remote now.
 Fondle him often, kiss him often, and learn to take
on the dominant role. Your man will want your
touch often, because he is unable to touch himself,
so you must keep the level of anticipation high for
sex, and keep him in a very aroused sexual state.

If you have done this correctly, it is now time to

take this to the next level.

The next thing you will need is a strap on harness

and dildo. I would recommend this one because
you can use the harness with different dildos and
graduate in size as you train your male.

Since you don’t usually have a cock, you’ll need

to procure one. There are a ton on the market, and
they come in a bunch of shapes and sizes. When
planning a cock purchase, there are a few
considerations to make. One is whether you want
something inside you while you’re pegging —

there are a bunch of options that include an

internal piece for you. There are also dildos that
vibrate, which isn’t all that realistic but hey, it
feels fantastic! Another consideration is visual.
How cock-like do you want your cock to be?
Are you okay with something that might feel
better but look less realistic (because it’s hot
pink, for instance)?

Another thing that’s really important to think

about is the shape of your cock. In-the-flesh
cocks attached to humans are super versatile
and can go in all sorts of directions. Not so
much with plastic. Many toys are set at angles
that are optimal for certain positions. If you feel
comfortable going to a
sex shop to talk about
your toy’s radius with a
salesperson, go for it! If
you’re of a shyer nature,
read some online forums
to figure out what sounds
most compelling to you.
And of course, there’s
always experimentation,
because everybody is
different and who knows
what is going to work
best for you and your
lover.

A perfect way would be

to try out as many dildos,
strap-on or butt plugs,
you could try, before you
could find the right ones
that you like. Even if you
aim to train your
husband to take the
biggest strap-on or dildo
you find available, you
have to start with a small
one. Also Remember,
choosing the toy s your
decision, not your
husbands. You have the
power to decide.

Something really
important to know about
butts is that they’re not
self-lubricating. This
means you need lots of
lubrication to make
pegging work.
Depending on what your
toy is made of, you can
use different types of
lube.
Water-based lube is the best lube for
toys, because it doesn’t degrade silicone
or jelly and it’s the easiest to wash off.
It’s also condom-friendly, which is
good if you’re using condoms to keep
your toy clean or if you want to use it
on multiple partners without washing in
between. Many people prefer silicone
lube for anal sex, because it’s more
slippery-feeling and lasts longer.
Silicone lube works with certain types
of toys, but it degrades silicone and
jelly, and it’s not condom-friendly. Oil-
based lube degrades most toys,
including those made with jelly, plastic,
and silicone, so don’t use it with your
new cock.

Lube gets everywhere, and butts are

butts, so sometimes it’s a good idea to
put down a towel. Because it’s really

not sexy to be worrying about your sheets (or

making your partner worry about your sheets)
when you’re getting down.

So here is how you initiate strap on sex with

your vanilla husband or boyfriend.

Tell him to strip naked if he isn’t already and

completely and securely blindfold him.

Take him to the bed, and lie him on his back on

the edge of the bed so that is feet are touching
the floor, but he is lying back. This should have
his ass in the right spot.

Proceed to make him hard with your hand,

teasing, and play a while getting him into a very
sexually aroused state. Before you put him
down in this position, you have put on your strap
on though so that you are ready to take him.

When you have him hard, put some baby oil all
over his cock, and smear it all around and let it
drop down over his anus. Start rubbing all over
while stroking his cock. Then when the time is
right, and your strap on is lubed, gently ease it in
 while you are stroking his cock. If he is hard, this
will be easier than you think. He might start to
protest as he feels the edge of your dildo pushing
against his anus, but at this time, just show him lots
of love, and encourage him and tell him that you
are about to give him the best orgasm of his life.

It won’t be so easy to induce him. He will try to

convince you that pegging is an absurd practice,
unnatural, strange and shameful to him.

He will think that the idea of being penetrated will

seem to him an atrocious act, and he will describe
the scene of you fucking him as something horrible.
Those are just excuses. Ignore them!

Sometimes the “Macho” hides away the strap-on

not to be fucked. Finally, his rejection from his fear
to be identified and catalogued as “gay”. He will

always find excuses to take your attention

away from his ass. Don’t hesitate, use
discipline and corporal punishment, if needed,
to prevail.

This will work best if he has been locked up

for a week. The protesting will be small,
because at this point, he just wants an orgasm
so bad, that you can pretty much do anything
you want to him.

Slide it in, and gently for the first time fuck his
ass, while you are stroking him.

As he is getting closer, pick up your tempo

with your thrusting, until you time it so that
you are fucking his ass pretty hard at the time
he blows his load.

You have just changed the dynamic of the

relationship. This first time he will feel very
awkward after you did that, so just tell him to
lie there while you clean up. Clean him up
nicely, and take all responsibility of cleanup
this time. Later on down the road, you will of course make this his responsibility, but for now, you
need to lead by taking charge of the whole situation, cleanup and aftercare.

When it is all over, lie with him and have a deep discussion about what just happened and let him
know that the exchange in power was the most erotic thing you have ever felt, and you feel more in
love with him than ever.

From his point, he will have experienced the most intense leg shaking orgasm he has ever felt, and
will pretty much be putty in your hands.

In a Femdom relationship, it is important that you fuck him regularly during the first months of the
strap-on training. By expert opinions, several times a week. Repeat this practice now several times
over the next 4 weeks.

From the female’s perspective, pegging can be enjoyable for the reasons of control. Being on the
giving side of sexual intercourse can be empowering and enjoyable for many women who wish to
know what it feels like to ‘give’ sex. Additionally, many advanced strap-on that are used for pegging
will have some form of stimulation platform for the female’s vagina, with the constant motion being
mutually pleasurable for both parties involved.

Lastly, Remember, In a Femdom relationship, getting the strap-on is not an option, It is a necessity.
No Femdom relationship can work without the role reversal of sexual activity.
He’ll scream like a little bitch the first few times. All of that’s very normal. But just keep at it. Your
goal is to make it a very normal part of his experience. After a while some pretty wonderful things
will start to happen.
His selfish, argumentative masculine edge will dissipate. He will become much more cooperative and
attentive to your needs. His submissive side will come out and blossom. He will become much less
concerned with his orgasms, and more focused on yours. His erogenous zone will slowly start to shift
from the head of his penis to the opening to his asshole and his prostate gland. It is therefore very
important to make sure your partner receives a good fuck session one a week. When not fucking his
ass with a strap-on, a butt plug should be inserted in his asshole, to keep it stretched at all time. This
is for his benefit as it will reduce the pain for the next time you start to peg him with a dildo or a
strap-on.

Pegging is usually best done in the doggy style position for maximum mutual pleasure and to
minimize the potential risk of injury or discomfort. However, other positions should be tried
afterwards, once a rhythm has been achieved.
Also be sure to make him orally service you and keep on your training with him during this period of
time. This is a good time to institute an orgasm rule. Something like he does not get to cum, until
you have come 3 times. This will teach him the importance of pleasing you first, and him secondly.

He mustn’t have “conventional sex,” during

this period. I recommend you not to offer him
“vanilla sex”, at least during the first months,
until he understands his dick is not necessary
anymore to give or get pleasure. Sex for him,
must be limited to serving you orally. You can
masturbate him some time in a humiliating
way, or with lack of interest. Better if you do it
with your feet. May be I don’t need to say it,
but your mouth will never touch his penis
again.

Chastity is not really important in the

beginning when you are fucking with him a
strap-on or a dildo and your husband faces a
problem in having an orgasm, Chastity can be
taken off temporarily, and should be locked
back up as soon as he is finished cumming.
Make it a rule to not let him cum unless he has
a dildo or a strap-on in his ass.

However, it is very very important that after a few

times of fucking his ass, in which he had orgasms,
Chastity training should resume. Immediately cage
his penis in a Chastity. It is important that, the fact
of not touching himself, nor seeing his useless dick,
will teach him a lot. This is because he can’t
disconnect his mind from you while wearing the
Chastity, The CB, or cage, as most call it, will keep
him in a state of perpetual excitement and obsession
for his sexual needs and pleasure.

Having his dick caged, has no real effect on him

giving you pleasure with his mouth, but while being
frustrated by the fact of not coming for weeks, his
sexual tension will arise dramatically and, of course,
his desire towards you. This produces his wish to see
you get pleasure and sexual satisfaction many more
times.
Make it a daily
routine to stretch his
asshole with a dildo or
make him wear a butt
plug, and with each
week, increase the
size of that dildo or
butt plug. Remember,
not to start with a
huge dildo right up
front, but instead start
with a small, as it
takes a longer time for
male ass hole to
stretch. Even let him
cum more than once
per week as you are
training him to be
your anal slut.

Do it in a way that he
will never know when
you will do it: before
he falls asleep, or
early in the morning,
before he gets to
work, after work, even
in the middle of the
night, and most of all,
each time you will
feel like drilling his
ass. With the pegging
practice when you
fuck his ass, but also
his mind and you
reinforce your
authority. Ignore his
complaints. Reward
will come soon.

His body must get used to the new situation. Receiving the dildos and strap-on on daily basis will
change from being painful, to being uncomfortable, and finally just a strange sensation. His asshole
will stretch and will soon be able to fit really big dildos. Make weekly goals for him to fit a bigger
size dildo in his ass than before, and

Take your time in order to stimulate his prostate when you are fucking him, it will be very pleasant
for him, even if also humiliating, and he will not recognize it easily. While you increase the size of
your dildo, his stimulation will increase
as well. He is enjoying a strange new
pleasure, humiliating, but for sure
milking will help.

The male’s prostate acts as a

rudimentary G-spot and provides
heightened levels of enjoyment when it
is stimulated.

What you will really do is milking his

prostate and, remember, keep his penis
caged. During the milking process, he
must feel relief, but something really
different from his usual pleasure with
his precious penis. Milking is necessary
to drain his prostate, that will be extra
full of his seminal liquid almost for sure,
because of the level of continuous
excitement you provoke in him.

Remember, once you start fucking his ass with

the strap-on, you won’t see him the same way.
You will not see him as a man, he will be your
whore, a slut you take by his ass, each time you
wish to.

A strap-on dildo is no doubt, an essential tool for

role reversal in a relationship. Why role reversal
is so important? The traditional sex role models
are where the male is dominant and the female is
considered submissive, however these are
reversal through femdom relationship, and
nothing is more visual (men are visual creatures)
than bending him over, and fucking his ass.
During this time, he should also be referred to as
a female, typically by changing his name into a
similar female name (Like John to Jennifer).
There is little better for reversing roles than
making your husband kneel at your feet, take a
large lifelike dildo into his mouth, and perform
oral sex on it, the deeper the better, with a hand
on the back of his head for encouragement.

The only thing better is to flip him over, put his

submissive ass high in the air, rip off his clothes,
and force him to receive anal sex from the strap-
on dildo.
 The couple relationship dynamics will
completely change once your husband will be
underneath you and you will fuck his ass with a
strap-on. From that moment, you will stop
seeing him as the “leader” of the relationship
and you will be stating a precedent for having
things done your own way, not his. And the best
thing about it is that he is going to love it too.

You will discover yourself soon making

decisions he used to make before, or for which
you needed his approval. You will feel much
more self-confident, Dominant, and at the same
time, he will start feeling and showing himself
more submissive, more sensitive to your needs,
wishes and whims.

Very important: you can add some humiliation to

the training. Take profit of any occasion to show
him you really have all the control and all the
power. You may need other dicks for your
pleasure, not his, and you may use them or not;
anyway, you decide. If you use other dicks, don’t
feel guilty; on the other hand, tell him your
intention to do it and your experiences. Refer to
his asshole as his pussy, and his penis as his clit.
The first time you will call his ass “hole to be
fucked” or “male cunt”, he will be shocked and
ashamed. Ignore him. You will see he is dripping,
excited, only because of your words. This
humiliation is somewhat necessary, and is helpful
in achieving full impact of this role reversal. He
must learn, and understand, that your pleasure is
the most important thing, NOT the source where
it comes from. He will have to make an effort
then to be the only source of pleasure. You know,
they always love to be the Alpha “Macho Man”.
Use his macho-ness against him.

Your authority will grow, while he gets used to

have something inside his ass: make him use a butt-plug, of a good size, when you are not fucking
him.
You can also enjoy making him feel always full. During a meal, surprise him ordering him to go to
the bathroom to introduce himself a butt-plug you have prepared for him.

He must get
used to other
physical things.
But mental and
psychological
changes in him
will be very
deep and
definitive.

Little by little,
his resistance to
be fucked will
start to decay, as
it will happen
with his
sphincter in the
same way.

The
combination of
forced chastity,
corporal
punishment and
pegging will
make your man
a new creature,
unselfish and
submissive. The
power dynamics
of the
relationship will
change.
Remember
always that your
authority will
grow more the
more you apply
it.

He will soon understand that he does not control anything _not even his penis_ he will not be able to
have something as private as an erection without your consent. He will realize he can’t have what he
wants, when he wants it, without your approval.
Finally, your man’s brain will end by associating the anal penetration with your pleasure and
orgasms, he will want his strap-on treatment, and will beg for it. He will be your whore, always in
disposal to please you. He will need to be fucked by you, and he will do anything to get it.

If the man receives

the strap-on regularly,
his body and mind
adjust to the new
situation, and he
experiences some
physical and
psychological
changes.

Fucking him turns

into a “normal”
experience, and he
will even need it. This
happens because you
succeeded to change
is erogenous zone, by
ignoring and caging
his penis and by
constantly stimulating
his prostate through
his anus.

His own pleasure

becomes secondary,
and he starts to enjoy
the pain, and he
prefers to make you
enjoy, gets excitement
and joy when you
ignore his penis, but
you use more his
mouth, tongue and his
asshole for you to
enjoy as you please.
he discovers a richer
and more exciting
world in which he is
not the center
anymore, he does not
even decide.

After three or four months of chastity treatment, pegging, discipline and humiliation… Being self-
confident, firm, strict… he will stop resisting and fighting. He will bend over for you, will hug and
hold you after you have fucked him with love, and will desperately need to lick your cunt to give you
pleasure and thank you for what you do for him.

After weeks of daily

drilling of his asshole by
your strap-on and dildos,
your husband has finally
accepted his place now
in the household, but
now you also must be
sure to continue with
making him do more and
more housework, and
nude at all times when
doing it. If not possible
because of kids, then still
make him do much more
housework. By now, he
should be doing laundry
and doing most of the
dishes, every time. We
will work in bathroom
cleaning and other
chores later on.

For the next 4 weeks

focus on increasing
chore load mostly
around laundry, and
dishes, and strap on
fucking him at least once
per week, and him orally
servicing you at least 3
times per week.

Even if you don’t want

orgasms as that much, it
is good to make him do
it anyways for periods of
time. You don’t even
have to cum, you just
have to get him used to
dropping and orally
servicing you when you
ask for it. You can tell him to stop too. Things are truly starting to be all your decisions now.
Husband Training Step 7: Adjusting to his role

By now, your husband should be doing most of the dishes

and laundry, leaving only the deeper clean stuff for
you. Don’t worry, when we are done, he will be doing it
all if you wish.

You also are fucking him in the ass regularly and he is

pretty much full time in chastity unless you have a need to
tease or play with his cock of have sex.

Many people that have discovered femdom leave their

relationships right here. The goal was to have a more
attentive husband that paid attention to you, respected you,
helps you around the house, and has become a better lover.
At this point you should have all that.

For some though, they can’t help but keeping to push the
boundaries. Often these types of relationships are initiated
by the man, but the woman is the one that starts to
embrace the power, and keeps pushing limits.

A word of caution. If you want to go further than where

you are at this point, be careful. Some actions cannot be
undone, and if you are thinking of doing anything that you
will lose complete respect for your man, I would caution you. It is a gift he has given you in his
submission. Especially since in your case, you were training him to do something he wasn’t really
up for in the beginning.

Fortunately, many of these sissy femdom stories you read on the internet are not far from reality, and
most woman still crave their men to be very feminine and obedient. The things you have done up to
this point only intensified your feelings towards each other, and that was the goal in the first place.

However, if you keep the next steps to fantasy, and stay monogamous in your relationship, or bring
in other people and both people are willing and excited about it, then by all means.

The exercises that are told to do here, are not for

any other reasons than to intensify control for the
woman, and increase submissiveness of the
male. These things can be an incredible turn on for
both parties if both consent fully to what they will
experience.

Now I will divide the 3 major things in an average

life, and how each should be handled at this time.

Household Chores.
You should be referring to your husband as your
house bitch. In the beginning, be careful not to say
this to other people. His ego is still there. You have
not removed it completely yet. So during that time,
in your privacy, you should let him know that he is
your house bitch, and that all chores that you want
him to do, he will do, naked, and butt plugged, and
he will thank you for the privilege.

Here are chores that he should master during the

next few weeks.

1. Dishes, and counter cleaning

2. Laundry, whites, darks, bedding.
3. Bathroom cleaning, mirrors, tubs, showers,
toilets.
4. All floors, vacuuming, and washing hard
surface flooring once per week. (preferably
by hand on his knees. This actually does a
better job, and makes him feel more
submissive)
5. Grocery Shopping, errand running.
6. Taking kids to school if necessary.
7. Anything else your household requires.
If you still want to participate in doing chores and helping out, then you should. However, if you are
getting turned on by the control, then you should not. Your man wants you turned on. It makes him
feel good, and it makes it easier for him to take on all the chores. It makes him feel wanted, loved,
and appreciated when you are horny for him. If making him your house bitch makes you horny, then
have him do all the chores.

When he is doing a big clean, and he is on his hands and knees cleaning the hard floors, it’s always a
good idea to wear your strap on fully clothed and walk around the house. This will make him go
crazy. Then take him when you want to, as often as you want too. He is your bitch now. Make it so.

All of this is completely private, However, slowly, this needs to be taken out from privacy and
introduced to friends (yours and his) and eventually out in the public.

By the end of this training, you will be able to invite people to your home, and your husband will be
doing household chores and serving the guests, completely naked, locked in a chastity, while wearing
a butt plug. He will absolutely feel humiliated and embarrassed during the first few times, but with
proper training, he will adapt into his new role, and will find it totally normal.

Similarly, your friends and other guests will be shocked to see a completely naked man doing house
chores too, especially the ones who have already seen him as your husband before. Here you can
elaborate that you are taking over the decision making in your relationship and are training him for a
new lifestyle where he will do whatever you say. Some guys will not accept this and will cause
havoc, hence it is very important to not let his past friends see him like that, at least not initially. You
need to make him comfortable, and make him think that it’s the norm, and it is much more feasible if
you only invite women for the time being. Women will understand what you are trying to do, and
will either admire or become jealous of your lifestyle.
At this point you can treat him anyway you want, and he will still be loyal to you, and will do
anything you say. You can also make your friends jealous by making him to take orders from them
and do whatever they say. You can also allow your friends to humiliate your husband, by showing
the effectiveness of the training you have put him through and now that you have such an obedient
husband in the end, who does all house chores while placing women on a pedestal.

Discipline.
By now,
the
constant
chastity
and the
daily
spankings
should get
him in the
habit of
wanting
them. He
will
actually
miss them
when he
does not
get them.
 However, it is time to take this
to a whole new level.

First part is humiliation. You

might be humiliating him
before whenever he does
something bad. Now,
humiliate him regardless of if
he has done anything wrong or
not. Make him feel
embarrassment and shame.
Also, it is time to humiliate
him front of other people.
Invite friends and guests, and
humiliate your husband in
front of them. Keep him
completely naked while
wearing a chastity and a butt
plug. Make him show these to
the guests. Also display the
key to his chastity to the
people around you, enforcing
the point that you own him.
Take pictures of him and post
them online. Strong discipline
is necessary to remove any
sorts of rebellious thoughts
that might be thought by him.

Discipline is not supposed to

be fun. It is supposed to
correct unfavorable
behavior. Therefore, at this
level, it is time for you to
correct behavior you are not
pleased with.

Teach him now that if he displeases you with his behavior, you will spank him as hard, and as long
as you feel it takes to correct the behavior. This is not when he is pleading you to stop. It is when his
ass is beaten to a pulp, and if you can get him to cry, then it is there. Some men will not cry from
physical pain, but you will certainly know when he has learned his lesson.

Then provide the aftercare that is needed with a severe beating. If you have done this right, sitting
down should hurt for a couple of days. Save these types of spankings for when he has really done
something to piss you off.
Sex.
By now, this is all about your pleasure. Your
pleasure is his pleasure. In fact, he will get as
much from your orgasms as you do. He will
feel like a man knowing that he is finally being
an extraordinary lover with his tongue, toys, or
anything else you have taught him to do to
please you.

His orgasms should be minimized. He should

never get more than once per week, and many
experts say even as little as once every 3 – 4
months. He will appreciate them more the less
he has them, and he will also remain under your
spell the more cum he is full off.

However, it is unhealthy for sperm buildup to go

unreleased for more than a month. It can
actually cause prostate cancer, so it is a good
idea to become a master at prostate milking.

For the purpose of this article, we will not go

into what that is or techniques. I will write a
different article later on and link to it on this
page.

Basically it is the process of draining the cum via prostate stimulation from anal penetration. It is
important that your husband cums without touching his penis, that should be locked in chastity.
The man does not
experience an
orgasm, but you
keep him healthy
and drained from
time to time. This
will keep in
submissive. Also,
you should
practice the art of
ruined orgasms.

You can also

choose an electric
dildo, which
sends periodical
electrical shocks/
This e-dildo can
be inserted deep
in his anus, and
will keep your
husband totally
disciplined.

The main point is that you will find the perfect blend of you getting sexual pleasure vs his sexual
pleasure, and in any femdom relationship it is clear that yours is more important, frequent, and your
husbands main priority besides his chores.
Here are some goals for you to accomplish that will make him truly your house bitch sex
slave.

1. When he cums, make him eat it, no matter where it is. If it is inside you, he cleans you up. If
it is on the floor, you make him lick it up. The first time you do this, it is best he is tied up,
and you feed it to him by scooping it off his body, and putting it in his mouth. Re-inforce
that you are very happy when he does it, and use triggers that you know that make him very
happy after he has done this. Do every time he does this until he automatically goes to clean
it up without you asking.
2. Eventually teach him how to cum when you are spanking him. Keep on edging him until he
is close while you spank him. You do this long enough, he will eventually associate the pain
with pleasure, and you will be able to spank the cum out of him.
3. Teach him to cum with anal stimulation only. This may mean a long time in chastity, and
daily fucking in the ass, but eventually if he does not have release, and you are fucking his
ass daily, he will cum when you fuck his ass. Use a feel doe, so that you can cum every time
you fuck him, and this can become your new sex way. Eventually he will crave to be fucked
in the ass as much as any sex activity. You may like it more, especially if you do not cum
from traditional vaginal intercourse.
4. Get him a hollow strap on to go over his cock to make him be able to fuck you as long as you
want without him getting any pleasure. This way you to get to have a cock of any size you
wish, as often as you wish.
 You have trained your husband. Congratulations.

There is one more OPTIONAL step, but a word of caution…. DO NOT DO THIS
UNLESS YOU ARE ABSOLUTE SURE. This step is IRREVERSIBLE.

Just understand this next step consists of some mental conditioning and some actual
blackmail. This step will completely break your husband, and you will be able to build
him into a new person that will always be loyal and loving to you, even if you are not.

This STEP is not mandatory, but highly recommended.

Husband Training Last Step – Sissification

Warning: Proceed only if you want to. This is optional and should only be done if you
understand fully the implications of these actions.

If you have completed all the prior steps, then resume reading here.

Proceed with this step with caution. Beware: If you lose respect for your man at this point, turn
away from this page, do not attempt this. If you are a mature enough woman to get turned on by
your control in turning your man into a sissy maid, then continue on. If you man has a hard limit and
will not do this, I would suggest backing off, and working on this for several months by introducing
panties first, then stockings, etc., etc.

EXTRA CAUTION: There are women that will ABUSE this power, and there are women that will
use this power. Abuse of this power could end your relationship if not done properly. Using this
power could intensify it beyond belief. It is a delicate balance, and we encourage you not to do
anything on this page without truly understanding this and by respecting hard limits of yourself and
your husband. Limits are meant to be pushed, but some lines you definitely do not want to
cross. Listen to your husband on what these limits are, and take him to the edge of them, without
crossing.
 Having said, that, if you still want to resume,
read on but the one last thing you need to make
the below information able to work, is for your
man to have not cum in 2 weeks. This will make
him more agreeable to just about anything you
say.

First off, why would any woman want to feminize their

masculine man into a sissy maid and why would any
man allow it?

There are many reasons why so many women

dream of making their husband into a sissy. A
sissy is a perfect husband that does all the things
taught in previous steps perfectly. Some of them
are discussed here.

· No more “alpha male” bullshit. He’ll be nice,

won’t cheat and won’t take advantage of you. Of
course he won’t smoke or drink if you don’t let
him.

· He’ll pay attention to you. It’s a matter of time

of him becoming more sensitive, honest and

respectful.

· You could have as many lovers as you want.

You don’t want to have sex with him. And you
know it because he’s a terrible lover and never
satisfies you because of his tiny dick.

· Doing the house chores? Never again. He’ll do

all the house work, the laundry, cooking, cleaning,
serving you and your lovers if you want.

· He’ll satisfy you with his tong. No more

penetration for him and he’ll become a great
pussy licker while other men have sex with you.

· And essentially he’ll obey you in every possible

way

This is not about being gay, or having gay

fantasies, it is merely an extension of your
control. If you love the power of your control,
and your submissive is responding well and has taken the bait on everything else, then you simply
need to experience this level of control. It will blow your mind, and obliterate his ego.

Sissification takes its time. Don’t expect to have a sissy husband the next week after reading this
step. It takes several months to transform your husband into a good sissy. However, you can enjoy
and give your husband a one off sissy experience before you decide to permanently transform your
husband into an obedient sissy.

Here is how.
If you have kids, plan a day to get them gone from early morning to the next morning on a weekend
day. Clear your calendar, and understand to experience this fully, it will be a 24 hour experience that
you will never forget.

Things you must do prior to your big day.

Shop for a dress, nylons, any makeup, wigs, nail polish,

high heels, corset, and anything else that you would like
your man to wear on sissy day. So you don’t spend a
fortune on things that you may only do once, or possibly a
once in a while thing, try Value Village or second hand
clothing stores. You should be able to find big sizes and it
should be very affordable.

Once you have that, and your kids planned to be away for
the day, then you can let your husband know that you have
a full 24 hour exciting day planned for him, and build up
the excitement, and let him know that he will love it.

When you are alone, tell him that for the next 24 hours,
you want him to be your lesbian girlfriend. (this will help
him accept it more, by you using lesbian instead of him being gay, It puts the awkwardness on you,
and makes it more acceptable for him to play along)

If he resists, thinking you have some plans of bringing in some guys to stuff his throat with cock, let
him know that this is not true. (unless you have pre-talked about this and is something you both
want). We won’t go there on this site, because this is something we definitely don’t want. Assure
him, this is just role play and that it will be fun. That is what it is, and yes it will be fun, for both of
you.

If your man’s body is not shaved, then this is the time to do it. Shave his legs, bum, armpits, chest,
and if you want leave the hair on his arms do it, so he can at least look normal at work. You don’t
want to ruin your lives over this, you simply want to take the last measure of ego from your
man. Once you completely remove his ego, the rest of your relationship and life will be bliss. It is
man’s ego that keeps relationships from being all that it can be.
Once your man is shaved, apply a nice feminine body lotion to his body to make him smell like a
girl. Then have him sit next to you naked, while you apply his makeup. Apply lots of foundation to
give him a very girly smooth skin complexion, and then the rest. Eye shadow, lipstick,
mascara. Make him the prettiest girl as you can. The humility of this will be the biggest turn on for
him, and the control will be something you would have never imagined being such a turn on.

Now apply nail polish and toenail polish. Pink is a nice touch. Then put on the wig.

Next help him put on the rest of his girl

outfit, complete with high heels. You will
get a kick out of him walking in heels. Now
it is time for your day to really begin.

Explain to him that you really like the way

he looks, but the one last thing you need
from him is to be your sissy maid, and for
you to be his employer. (more
roleplay). Spend the rest of the day being
pampered by your sissy maid, having him
prepare lunch, tea, do some cleaning up with
a duster. I would also suggest you staying
clothed and wearing a strap on for the whole
day.

If you want to completely crush a man’s ego

into nothingness, you HAVE to experience
this.

Make him your slut. Talk to him dirty, and

say things like, “now I have made you my
sissy maid slut. Go on girl, take it. Take my
big cock, and say thank you.”

“You will be my sissy bitch for the rest of

your life. I have turned you out. You are
mine, and you will listen to me from now
on. Drop down to your knees and suck
it. Suck my cock you sissy bitch.”

Force his head down hard on it. Make him

gag. Face fuck him hard like he has to you
in your previous life. Make him understand
now, that the rules have changed, and there
is a new boss of the house, and that you will
obey, listen, suck, and fuck as your told.
Make him suck your strap on.
Bend him over multiple times throughout the day, lift his skirt/dress up, and slide his panties to his
knees and make him your sissy maid slut. Truly turn the tables on him for what men have been
doing to women for years. Today is the day you take completely control. Today is the day you push
him past limits that you have not done yet. Today is the day you will let him cum, but he will eat it,
no matter where it falls. IN fact, today you should make him cum many, many times, and make him
eat it every time.

It will be very hard for him to do, especially 2-3 orgasms into it, as all desire to be wearing womens
clothing and participating will go away after the first orgasm. However, you will be taking pictures
before he loses this desire, and you will be in COMPLETELY REAL control.

Not the pretend stuff you were doing before, but the real stuff. That is why I said proceed with
caution. That is why you need to be emotionally mature enough to handle this power, and not to ruin
your partners life over it, but use it against him to control him for the benefit of both of you .

Make sure you get a picture of all the nastiest things you do that day. Of him bent over with his dress
up while you are fucking him.

Him licking his cum off the floor. Whatever there is, you get proof of it. (Be very careful of this not
to fall into the wrong hands. Immediately put this on a thumbstick and lock it away after this day is
over. Or use a brand new micro sd card, that you can take out and keep somewhere.
 There are women that will
ABUSE this power, and there
are women that will use this
power. Abuse of this power
could end your
relationship. Using this power
could intensify it beyond
belief. It is a delicate balance,
and we encourage you not to
do anything on this page
without truly understanding
this.

Spend the rest of the day, and

evening as you like, but he
wears the sissy maid outfit all
day, and the makeup and nail
polish all night. Make him
your bitch as many times as
you can, and totally drain him
of all cum, ego, and attitude.
Just randomly drill his asshole
with a dildo throughout the
day.

Now if you waited for the

above experience, performed
it, and liked it, OR
alternatively, you had made up
your mind before, and wanted
to permanently sissify your
husband, and such experience
is a turn on for you, the
following will explain better
on how to train your husband
properly to be a sissy.

Training.
The process of sissification is like a psychological battle that you have to -and you will- win as long
as you take it easy and you don’t force anything. If you have successfully completed your previous
steps, then this will be relatively easier. If everything flows everything will be fine and you’ll end up
having an obedient sissy boyfriend.

Remember that it’s essential to keep calm and not to raise suspicions on what your end goals are.

To sissify your husband, the first thing to do is to change his physical appearance.
Nowadays it is perfectly normal to
ask your husband to shave his parts,
legs, beard and even the arms. On the
other hand, it’s normal to see men
with a long hair.

Start by saying him that you would

like him to shave his legs and penis,
or any other hair of his body and
encourage him on letting his head
hair grow. Argue that you’ve come
to be not very comfortable with
hairs. Tell him to shave. Explain him
that you prefer hairless men over
hairy men but you think that men
with long hair are sexy. You can
even argue that this way is more
hygienic. To make your point explain
him that you too are doing some
sacrifices for him.

This phase will last more or less

depending on how much resistance
he opposes. Wait a few weeks until it
is a normal thing for him. Insist on the fact that he has beautiful legs, that you love him and that it
doesn’t make him any less sexy. Remove every single hair from his crotch area.

When it’s a normal thing for him to shave and not going to the hairdresser, it’s time to begin with the
next phase.
This phase is crucial and delicate. The goal is
to get him into wearing panties, no matter how
as long as it works. Find some innocent way
like playing a game or just for fun. Of course
you have to know the nature of your boyfriend
and how he’d react.

Say to him that it would be fun that he tries one

of your panties, just for fun. Then say him that
it turns you on and make him love like never.
Make him keep them during sex. He will
associate him wearing panties to the pleasure
you gave him. Try this again one time every 3
or 4 days. Every time he wants to have sex
insist on the fact that you would like him to
wear them because it please you and that you
would do the same kind of thing for him.

After this, encourage him to wear them if he

likes it. Tell him that’s not a shame to wear
panties and it won’t make him less man, and
that you love him more than ever. When you’re
sure that he likes to wear your panties, or at
least he’s not refusing it, tell him to wear them
while both of you have sex.
 Explain him that it turns you on. If he loves you, he’ll do
it. At the end of the phase, ask him to wear them every
day at home. Depending on how much he’s into wearing
panties he won’t refuse wearing them permanently. Until
he’s not wearing them permanently, do not try the next
phase. Increase the times you two have sex per week.

After getting him into wearing panties this phase should

be easy. Make him to paint your nails -hands and feet-,
and to makeup you. Teach him how it’s done. Do this for
a few days before trying to makeup him.

In principle he won’t resist. Say him that he is very good

at it and that it would be fun to try on him! If he resists
tell him that it is just a game and that it doesn’t mean
anything. When it’s done make him love. Please him.
Then ask him if he would keep them a while for you.
Like for the rest, make it more and more frequent until
he even starts to make him by himself. When you’re
there insist on the fact that he keeps his toes painted
every day.

Encourage him to wear makeup and paint his nails.

If he keeps his toes painted and wears makeup
every day, he’s ready for the next phase.

It’s time for him to wear dresses, bra’s, stockings,

skirts, tops and even heels. Use the same
techniques you have been taught on the previous
phases. At this point he won’t resist.

Remember to ensure him of his manliness and

express your love. He has to feel that you love him
more than ever.

It would be recommended to make him see the

progress, by doing that in front of a mirror, so he
can see the work you are putting into to make him
look like a sissy.

Make sure that he feels comfortable wearing

women’s clothing and makeup. Once he’s been
feminized, it’s time to move on to the bigger
things.
The real training starts. You already have control
over his orgasms, now you have to extend it to
everything. Once again, like a teacher to a
student, make him admit that you make better
choices and that having you in control of the
relationship is for the best.

You should decide everything for him and he

should always obey. Everything you do is for his
own good. Beside if he loves you, he should
only think about your happiness. If you have
followed all the previous steps, that job is
already done.

Remind him that he won’t be ever a real woman

but that he could become a fine sissy.

Make him wear woman clothes, make up, a wig

and high-heeled shoes at all time while at home.

It would be a good time, to take a lot of pictures

of him dressed as a sissy, and keep them safe.
These pictures will come in handy later.
 Explain him that being a sissy is not
only about being feminized and
chastised. He need to understand
that as a sissy his only goal is your
pleasure which mean serving you at
all times and by every possible
way.

Be firm and confident. When you

ask, even if it is said in a kind
manner, it is an order.

Being a sissy is fun. It is high

maintenance, expensive, fun but
ultimately you get to experience the
most mind blowing girly things.

Girls like men. Girls are sexually

active with men. So when your
husband is a sissy so therefore he

must and want to experience everything exactly

like a girl. This includes learning to like, even
crave only what men can give him. Girls are
fascinated with cocks and now as a sissy he will
also be fascinated by cocks. It has cum to the
point where just looking at men will make him
horny. They are rapidly becoming the object of
all his sexual satisfaction and his girly fantasies.
He would want to play with them, taste them, lick
them and feel them deep inside him.

Just like a girl he will see a good firm hard cock

as an object of lust. It represents sexual
excitement for him. He will train himself to cum
from penetration alone and it is mind blowing. He
will only cum from other cocks, as far as his
mental conditioning is concerned, he does not
have a cock anymore.

When he will have penetrated like a girl, the more

his lifestyle becomes normal and the more he will
love it. He will be happier and satisfied and feel
amazing whenever he gets penetrated. Even in
chastity, he can experience deep orgasms and leak
profusely without his penis swelling up at all.
 Once he learns
to orgasm by
penetration
alone and the
practice
continues over
time, he will
find that it
becomes far
more satisfying
than anything
he may have
tried prior.

Psychologically,
it will alter the
thoughts about
his sexuality,
bringing him
closer to the
feminine side of
the gender
spectrum. Maybe, he'll come to the conclusion that
he very much prefers being penetrated and from
then on he'll think about men and what they can do
to you in a completely different way.Because he is
no longer a man he needs to train his pussy every
day. So if he had a routine for strap-on and dildos,
that has been raised to maximum. Make sure that he
practices at least 2 hours every day with a big dildo
and wear a plug when his pussy is not in use. The
only sexual pleasure he will get will come from
there. After a week of training, take his boy-pussy
every day. Tell him that as a good girl he needs to
get used to it.

Make him sucks dildos every day because a real

girl needs to know how to pleasure. When you
decide your sissy has earned an orgasm, bound her
arms, remove her cage and make her ejaculate
directly in her mouth. It will be the only way she
will be allowed to cum. Then lock it again. His
pattern would be: “unlock, anal, let him cum in his
own mouth, lock". Once he gets used to this way of
having sex with you now it’s time to keep him in
permanent chastity, meaning without unlocking
him but don’t stop penetrating him with the strap-
on and dildos. He will cum while locked in chastity.
However, in this scenario you need a shot glass or a cup under him to collect his cum/pre-cum, or
you bend him over with his cock over his mouth and then make him swallow it (as discussed in
earlier chapter).

Now this is the only kind of sex you two will ever have. He will never penetrate you, and will serve
his life for your pleasure and amusement. He will be addicted to drinking his own cum, and will beg
you to penetrate him with your dildo/strap-on to make him orgasm from anal alone, and will swallow
all of it every time.

. Since the dynamics of the relationship has completely changed, and he is now a sissy husband. It is
time to introduce other people. Now You both can have male friends and female friends. A good
place to start would be to introduce your sissy husband to your female friends.
For once, women are a lot more acceptable and understanding of sissy men, and even though some
might not want a sissy husband of their own, they surely will admire you for training one. It is indeed
a great milestone, and after introducing your training sissy husband, most women will be envious of
you.

There is a lot of trades in sissy men that women like. A sissy husband is a lot more feminine, and
understanding of the female feelings. His machoism and ego has been demolished, and he places the
desires of women before his own. His masculine sex drive is gone, and replaced by sissy urges,
which are dependent on your mood and wishes. He rubs your feet, massage your back, even eats your
pussy without wanting anything in return. He will cook for you, clean the house, do all the household
chores for you. Even he will share the same fashion as you, and will be a perfect partner to do
shopping for skirts, shoes/heels, panties. He will also do your make up and prepare you for parties
and dates. He will never question your orders and will accept whatever punishment you give him.
You will have full authority over his body, and he will face any and all humiliation you throw at him.

A great opportunity would be to throw a party for your girlfriends, and let your sissy do all the work.
Make him prepare and serve food, and entertain all the guests. You can even let your friends have
fun with your sissy husband, and order him to follow their orders for the night. He will take all the
abuse and humiliation from your guests. He will be a perfect amusement for your friends at the party.
Introduce your sissy husband to your friends, and let
them have their reaction as weird as they seem. Most
will be shocked, especially if they knew your
husband from before. To them explain them carefully
that why you did this, and that your husband is
satisfied in this role. Others will enjoy and laugh at
your husband, and might make humiliating jokes.
You should not only let them, but encourage them to
interact with your husband. They should see the
appeal of having a sissy husband, and easier way
would be to have them involved.

Let your friends have turns sitting on his face, and

order your sissy husband to bring your friends to
orgasm would get popular quickly among the ladies.
Most girls would love the idea of a party where they
can not only receive an orgasm, but orally by
someone. You can also use this moment to get
feedback from your girlfriends on how to improve his
oral skills, and make him take notes.

Another
moment
would be to
take
pictures and
selfies with
your
friends, and
upload
them on the
internet. If
your
girlfriends
really
enjoyed
your sissy
husband,
there is a
chance that
they will
share it a lot
in their
circles, and
might help
it go viral,
and make
you famous
in the process. This might give you many advantages for later, if you willing to start some training
school, and train other men to become sissies. But for now, it would be a great confidence booster
and will help you stay motivated to continue training your husband.

Another good game

would be to ask your
friends to choose their
favorite among the
different kinds of butt
plugs / anal beads, and
use their pick on your
sissy husband.

Then take pictures and

share them on social
media to get the best
voted on.

You can also invite

your girlfriends to
come and let them try
your sissy husband for
a day. You all can
together start your day
at your home where your husband will prepare breakfast for everyone, then you can all go shopping
outside, while your sissy husband will stay at home and clean the house, and perform other
household chores. Before you return he would have an evening meal prepared, and will serve you
obediently. Or you can stay home all day, just sit and relax, and he will be there to serve you. Ge will
give you and your friends great massages and foot rubs.

Your friends obviously will have a lot of questions on how you were able to train your husband into
such an obedient sissy. At this point, you should share your husbands training with your friends. You
should show your friends how you penetrate your sissy husband, and how the power dynamics
changed completely between you two. You may even let your friends penetrate your husband for a
change.

Why is it necessary? There might be an inclination to not share your sissy with your friends, as
clearly you have put in the effort and trained him, so why would they get to use him. But remember,
a good sissy needs to be shared, and it’s not only good for you, but good for your friends, and for the
sissy. After serving several people, he will become more and more obedient, and will value you
more. This will also help your friends to get inspired to train their own husbands/boyfriends into a
sissy of their own.

When your friends start to train their own sissy, they will definitely need your help. Since the training
takes a lot of time and practice, some of your friends might have a lot of questions and answers, and
might need hands on experience of such thing. It would be recommended that you let your friends try
different things out on your sissy, and test certain techniques themselves, before they test them on
their untrained sissy. This will help their training go a lot smoother, and faster.
Sissy husbands even though totally dedicated to their wives, like to be socially active. However,
having them social interaction with anyone is not suitable for them because of their training. They
can be misguided by other people, or taken advantage of by someone you do not allow. Hence it is
better to have control over who your sissy husband meets and hangout with. A great solution to this
would be having sissies socialize with other sissies would be a great improvement, and will result in
more satisfied and content sissy husband.
This will help open new experience for you and your sissy. You can now compare notes with your
girlfriends over each other’s sissies and how to best train them. You can You can also exchange
sissies with each other for short time or a weekend. You can also take photos of your sissies in
training and share them over to each other or in the group over social media. Sharing your experience
would increase your insight, but will have an added advantage in humiliating your sissy husband.

Another good
exercise would be
to do a joint
session with your
sissies. Invite
your friend to
your place along
with her sissy,
and you both
train your sissy
husbands
together.

Joint training
sessions are not
fun, they are
highly rewarding,
as explained
earlier, Sissies are
much more likely
to comply to their
training, and are
more satisfied
when in company
of other sissies.
This sort of
brotherly /
sisterly bond
between sissies is
due to their
caring nature, and
it also helps their
mental
reconditioning as
they get to see
another husband
now adapting to
the role of sissy,
which results in
their acceptance
of such role.
However, at this point, it is not all about your sissy
husband, but it’s also about sissies of your friends.
They need some training as well, so it is expected to
be a good friend, and show up to their parties, and
help their sissies to get trained as well. There is
strength in numbers, and training a sissy with your
friends will have double the effect. It’s clear that if
multiple women together train a sissy, he will
definitely get the best training.

Remember, that having a well-trained sissy does

wonders for your life, that is why it is important that
you should enjoy his training more than he does, and
on regularly basis. Do not let your plans come in the
way, either make time for it, or if you have company,
involve them in your sissy husband’s training too.

Another game you can play is to make out with your

girlfriend while training your sissy husband. Since
watching two females kissing each other and making
will definitely turn him on, but due to locked in cage,
he won’t be able to orgasm. There you can make him
cum through anal drilling with a dildo.
It is a lot easier to do with your girlfriend than with your male friends, which is next.

Now that you have conquered the female partnership in sissy training, next step is harder. Now if you
have male friends or companions, this gets a little tricky. First Now you are entering the cuckolding
territory, which is more of a psychological training than it is physical. Your sissy husband, even
though trained to your wishes, would still have a hard time accepting other men in between your
relationship with him. This is incredible hard thing to overcome, may be the hardest we have
discussed so far. However, the good thing is that, at his point of the training, if you followed
regularly and to the letter, you have broken your husband, and he will conform easily to his new role
as a cuckolded sissy. You can go out on dates with other men, he will prepare you before that, taking
out your dress, and putting make up on you will be his obvious duties. He will even wait for you to
tell him all the juicy details of your sexual experience. At this point, you can either stop proceeding,
and be content with such dynamics, with you having sex with other guys, and your sissy husband
waiting desperately at home for you to come back and fill his holes, or you could go ahead and make
your sissy husband share the experience. However, there is a drawback. Now this is the hardest thing
to overcome, to comply your sissy husband to be with other men. Luckily the reason is obvious.

Because to your sissy husband, being used by a female friend is still the same routine as before, when
you trained him. However, to be used by a male, that will light some sparks in your sissy husband’s
mind. He will see it as being gay.

Now it is perfectly normal for men to have these thoughts, and blindly agree to the conformity of
letting another man touch them is borderline gay, but you have to remember, this is what you exactly
trained him for. As a sissy, he is not allowed to have a say in what he does. He cannot agree or
disagree with any order you gave him, instead he has to just follow him, and a well-trained sissy will
definitely do that.
Now why would you want your sissy husband to be with other men?

There can be multiple reasons, but first is a

major reason could be that since you
locked your husband in a cage, and not
letting it unlock that often, his penis would
have started to shrink. Now it is a good
thing that results in him getting less sexual
urges, but at the same time, it is not usable
anymore to do any sort of penetration.

Others are that he will share the same

experience as you, as both of you will be
with other men, and in result will get closer
to each other. You can discuss your
experiences, exchange notes and feel
closer than ever before. Another one would
be that it also plays a part in his training, as
he will not do that on his own, you will
make him do it. This ultimate act of
submissiveness, to be agreeing to the thing
he is probably disgusted by, but still going
through with it, just because you wanted it,
and ordered him to do it. There can be
nothing more powerful than that for a
woman. Hence If you are at this stage of
the training, it is highly recommended that
you go through till the end. After this, you
will find your sissy husband closer to you
than ever before, and will share a bond
unlike any other.

Now how to approach it. First if you are

already dating other men, and bringing
them home, it would be no different.
However, if you are not, you have to give
your sissy a little bit of relaxation before announcing that. He needs to feel that if you bring home a
lover, he will be treated better than before. Now you don’t necessarily have to treat him any different,
but such small things can make a huge difference. He will definitely be more accepting if you told
him in advanced, and tell him that you will make him part of your love making. He might get
confused, or discouraged, or excited on idea of possible threesome. You do not have to explain that,
instead just get his agreement to go through with it. In reality, you don’t need agreement, but it will
make your sissy husband go through with it much easier.
Before you put your plan into action, your sissy husband might need some visual therapy. As
explained earlier, since men are visual creatures, they get influenced by visual imagery much more
than any other source of information. Best way would be to train him by forcing him to watch
cuckold or gay porn.

He will probably be disgusted by it, and refuse to watch it, but you have to force him to watch it, till
to the point he starts to get pleasure. Also during that, unlock him so he could masturbate to gay
porn. This is a way of reconditioning his brain, by associating his sexual release of pleasure to gay
porn. This way, he will subconsciously find gay porn arousing and sexually pleasing. Continue that
for several weeks, before going practical.

Getting a lover is something you do as much for yourself as you do it for your partner. As a woman
you deserve hot steamy sex every once in a while and you deserve the freedom cuckolding your sissy
husband (whose penis might have shrink a lot because of being locked up most of the time) gives
you. It serves as an important outlet and opportunity for you to further explore your sexual fantasies
(as well as fulfill those of your partner) and desires, and to quench and fulfill sexual needs that your
partner cannot possibly hope to satisfy. That being said, if you don’t have one yet, you better start
searching.

After a few weeks or months training your sissy with gay porn, she’ll do anything for you. If you
want to, you’ll be able to make her participate into a trio with you and your lover. Before it, teach her
the following: “You’ll always do whatever your masters say”. Make her repeat it: “I’ll do whatever
my masters say”. Make sure that your sissy swallow and pleases your lover or lovers in any way.

Now you can always start with a blowjob. A blowjob is the best way to get your sissy husband
started with your lover, without thinking about any other thing. It is also the first mental hurdle that
your sissy husband might have in his mind. Once get over this hurdle, it’s all smooth sailing. These
can be described into 3 small steps.
 First is it’s your job
to explain to him that
it is not gay, but only
submissive, and he
doing that will be a
sign of love to you.
He is only doing that
for you, and you
alone. It’s a
connection that you
two have.

Of course, you cannot

say the same thing for
ever. So second is to
soon have to change
the shift in tone, and
make it about your
lover. Like he is
waiting, he wants to
get his cock sucked,
and as sissy of the

house, it’s his job to do that. Make him comply

to your orders, discipline him if needed.

In the end, the third and final would become all

about your sissy husband. Taunt him, make fun
of him that he is actually craving that big cock,
and wants to suck that cock, and gulp all the cum
that comes out of it. Draw him a picture, make
him hungry for the cock, and make him want to
suck it for himself.

When he is sucking on your lover’s cock, unlock

him and order him to masturbate. Once again we
are using the mental reprogramming to associate
sexual pleasure for him with him giving a
blowjob to your lover. This is very important,
that he sees sucking another man’s cock as
sexually pleasing for himself. Of course, later he
will be denied letting out of the cage.

Very Important. At this point, take a lot of

pictures of your sissy husband, sucking another
man’s cock. This is must for later.
If you have able to achieve to step 3, and have made your sissy husband suck cock all by himself,
now you are just one step away from total victory. Now he is ready to get his ass fucked by your
lover.
The first time is massively important, and you have to be not only present, but make your present
known by staying involved. You should be the one constantly touching your sissy husband.
Spreading his ass cheeks, allowing your lovers cock to penetrate him, and giving him a pep talk to
enjoy it and take it. After your sissy husband gets his ass fucked, you can join in on the fun by

wearing a strap-on. Now you

are fucking your sissy
husband’s ass and your lover is
getting a blowjob by him. This
is normally known as spit roast.
You can keep switching places
with your lover, and give your
sissy husband a good fucking.

After this milestone, you should

no longer call your sissy as a
he, but now call her as a she.
Tell your husband that he is no
longer a man, but a sissy whore,
and she is your property, for
you to use her as how you
please. You can now use her in
any way you want.
After a few other weeks of training, if it
suits you, you can offer a friend or two
to fuck your former boyfriend. Your
sissy will fully integrate her new role by
being used as a whore. Help her while
she is performing. Make her spread her
chicks. Push/Cuddle her head while she
is giving her first blowjob. Make her
show her mouth full of cum. She need
to wait until your friend say she can
swallow. Make her thanks your friend.
During the whole act, speak to your
sissy. Tell her how proud you are of
her. Don’t hesitate to speak to your
friend about how you would never have
imagined that your boyfriend would
become such a fine slut while she is
getting fucked or giving a blowjob. You
can make fun of your former boyfriend:
“After all he never was a real man.
Have you seen his little clitty ?”, “Are
you enjoying stretching her ass ?”, “Is
the blowjob fine ?”

When your sissy disobeys or protests be

strict but always explain why you have
to punish her. It is for her own good. To
make her better and happier in her new
life.

Some ways of punishing your bad sissy

- a bigger butt-plug

- a barefoot spanking,
panties down then 30
min in the corner hands
on her head.- a barefoot
spanking, panties down
then an enema with
cold water

- all the pegging during

many days without any
lubricant.

- increase more days

before release
- a barefoot spanking, panties down then an enema with cold water and bondage for few hours.

- if you have a friend whom you have said the truth about your former boyfriend/sissy invite her so
she punishes your sissy for you. it will be even more humiliating. Or lend your sissy to them for a
day or two.

- If any male guests arrive at your house, make your sissy service them, suck their dicks and swallow
their load.

- Invite your male friends to come home for ‘all you can do sissy buffet’

- Invite your local guys, and make them a queue, and have your sissy suck all of them off. Also Rent
out your sissy’s holes, and charge by the hours.
When your sissy behave good, always compliment her. It will reinforce her implication in the
process. You can pet her head/cudle her and use such expression as :

- “Good girl !”

- “I’m proud of you”

- “Very nice !”

- “Good job !”

- “You’re the best !”

- “You’re so cute !

If you are very satisfied by your sissy you can buy her small gifts as lingerie, wigs, make up…

Every day, make her say that she is a sissy and that she love it.

Never forget to say your sissy how beautiful she is, how proud you are of her and how much you
love her !

If you have followed this guide, and have correctly implemented each step, by now you have a loving
sissy husband that you can control in any way you want. Your previous husband is no more, he is
now a broken sissy, ready for your commands. He is used to getting humiliated, disciplined and
punished by you, used as a sissy by you and anyone you allow to use, and yet still in the end he will
love and cherish you, and always be by your side.

Now for the rest of your life, if your sissy husband ever gets out of line, by some coincidence breaks
his training, or think of leaving this lifestyle that you have forced him into. Remember, for this
moment, we have taken pictures at different steps of the training. Remind him that these pictures
exist, and you can always distribute those pictures to the people, your sissy husband definitely do not
want to share with. Now you have true power over him. Keep these pictures safe and keep up with
the regular discipline you have been doing, and make him do sissy chores, and drill his asshole, and
make him swallow his own cum on the daily basis.

What happens next is up to you ! :)

The End.