Thinking Errors
Thinking Errors
Ignoring the Good. You pay more attention to bad things, and
ignore when something good happens.
examples:
• You get one answer wrong on a long test, and all you can think
about is the mistake.
• You score two goals in your soccer game, but all you can think
about is the shot you missed.
examples:
• “I know if I ask her to the dance she’s going to say no.”
• “I bet no one will come to my birthday party.”
examples:
• “I’m a loser so my artwork stinks.”
• “I’m so stupid. Everything I say is dumb.”
Setting the Bar Too High. Thinking that you must be perfect in
everything you do, otherwise you’re no good.
examples:
• “If I don’t get an A on every test, I’m not smart.”
• “I have to win every tennis match I play, otherwise I’m worthless.”
examples:
• When your basketball team loses a game, you think it’s entirely
your fault.
• “Alicia is sad today. I probably did something to upset her.”
examples:
• “I feel ugly, so I must be ugly.”
• “I feel like I’m a bad friend, so I must be a bad friend.”
examples:
• “People should always be nice to me.”
• “I should always be happy. I should never be sad.”