Connecting With Your Values
Connecting With Your Values
Importance of Values
Values are at the core of all decision making. Without teaching the simple value that hurting
others is wrong, you cannot expect anything you do to make a long-term difference. There is
no way to ever stop someone from hurting another person if that is what s/he really wants.
This is true in the workplace, on the street, on public transportation, or in schools and
colleges. The first and most significant step in ending violence is to stop people from
wanting to hurt others, and values are the way to achieve this. At their home as well as
schools/colleges they must be taught to honour the idea that humans are precious and
never should be hurt.
Values lay the foundation for understanding attitudes. The importance of values is discussed
as follows:
i) Personal value system influences one’s perception of individuals
ii) Personal value system influences one’s perception of situations
iii) Personal value system influences one’s decision-making process
A Core of Values
There is no such thing as a fully comprehensive list of desirable values which parents,
schools, colleges and corporates should address. Nevertheless, all these institutions are
expected to promote the following attitudes and behaviors which reflect a core of values
that are generally supported by the society.
Values relating to education
- Accepting the importance of learning and knowledge
- Encouraging curiosity and the questioning mind
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- Encouraging and rewarding effort and achievement
- Promoting logical and critical thinking based on evidence
- Demonstrating a commitment to truth
- Recognising the partnership between school, home and community in education
- Seeing education as a life-long process
These are the educational and academic values upon which schools/colleges as learning
institutions are based.
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Power of Values
Each one of you is motivated to move your lives in certain directions. That motivation is
determined by the values you subscribe to.
Without values or beliefs, you would be mechanical-like beings, driven here and there by
the events of life. Without values, you would be creature-like, compelled to action solely by
your urges and passions.
Tolerance, openness, respect for individual and teamwork are several great human values.
While oneness, love, beauty and truth are some of the higher spiritual values that they
derive from. At certain points, the human and spiritual values come together and blend into
one another, expressing through spiritualized human values, such as selflessness, self-giving
and gratitude.
Values are expressions of emotionalized truths that when implemented energize whatever
they come in contact with, enabling the greatest positive results with the least efforts in the
shortest period of time – whether it is for the individual, a collective or society as a whole.
Thus, values are the nexus to our future progress.