The Great Indian Wedding

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The Great Indian Wedding

Indian weddings are described to be “the most visible site of conspicuous


consumption and conspicuous waste” by Sociologist Patricia Uberoi. But, more than
just conspicuous consumption, the super-rich of India have glamorised the Indian
wedding scene and use it as a show of strength and obliviously a celebration of
conservatism. This ‘tying the knot’ business is estimated to be worth USD 40-50
billion per annum, as per the KPMG report of 2017, making India the second country
after the USA as the biggest spender on weddings.
Today, the great Indian wedding is a marriage between western and traditional
sensibilities where the westernism is reflected through gastronomical choices that
includes Chinese, Italian, and other cuisines to western events such as bachelor
parties and cocktail parties. But the underlying tradition or the more appropriate term
‘conservatism’ is reflected through endogamous marriages and modified dowry
practices that are shrouded as generous gift-giving. This kind of ostentatious show of
wealth has become more prominent with the social media documenting the whole
gig from start to finish.
The Indian weddings have grown from a 3-days event to a 10-days long
extravaganza that starts with invitation cards that are made to be ‘objets d’art’ to be
cherished by the guests and selection of destinations for destination weddings, the
most famous being palaces of Udaipur. Then comes designer lehengas – the
traditional Indian outfit which has become a huge rage by shows such as Band Baja
Bride – The Indian ‘Say Yes To The Dress’. To top it off, wedding planners are a
huge hit that not only plan the wedding but are involved in everything just like the
family is. All of this incurs a huge expenditure which is promoted by social media to a
great extent.
Moreover, the extensive coverage of celebrity weddings romanticizes the
extravaganza making it the dream of many. When this kind of content is consumed
by the rest of the population, the phenomenon of Big Fat Indian Wedding drips down
from the not-so-rich to the middle class and becomes a rather burdening event.
But just a handful of super-rich does not represent the whole country. Many are more
socially conscious and have adopted a sustainable approach to the whole thing by
using eco-friendly baskets, plants, sustainable fabrics, etc. as wedding giveaways.
They choose small-towns as their wedding locations and use local services for flower
arrangements, catering, decorations, etc. The practice of donating leftover food and
using eco-friendly goods such as wooden cutlery and handmade clothing bought
directly from the weavers are becoming more acceptable. This gives space for
socially responsible artisans to not only survive but thrive.
The great thing about social media is that it is not partial in the sense that what you
put up will be consumed. The millennials are not only rejecting the big fat wedding
syndrome but are championing greener approaches to it by documenting everything
on social media. Millennials have also been advocating intimate ceremonies and
close-to-nature settings which just might become the new norm in the context of
Indian weddings. Moreover, big companies are trying to tap into the market of
sustainable weddings that would streamline the whole process and make this
business socially, economically, and environmentally friendly.

Sources
https://www.thehindu.com/life-and-style/gettingmarried-in-2019/article26069516.ece

https://theconversation.com/inside-the-big-fat-indian-wedding-conservatism-competition-and-
networks70678#:~:text=Sociologist%20Patricia%20Uberoi%20writes%20that,conspicuous
%20consumption%20and%20conspicuous%20waste%E2%80%9D.

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