Not in The Mood
Not in The Mood
Not in The Mood
Sara Ahmed
Abstract This essay explores the sociality of moods as a sociality that does not simply
bring us together. Reflecting specifically on how attunement creates strangers (as those
who are only dimly perceived) the essay explores how some have to work to become
attuned to others. The essay concludes by reflecting on how national moods are measured
and made, taking up the political potential of affect aliens, those who are alienated
from the nation by virtue of how they are affected.
I might say ‘I am not in the mood’. Or ‘I am not in the right mood’. These
sayings relate mood to conduct: they imply that one has to be in a mood for
a course of action to be agreeable or possible. Indeed the phrase ‘not in the
mood’ (one does not even need ‘right’ as an addition or qualification) can
imply that one is not willing to do something: you might have to be in the
mood for to be willing to. I could also say ‘I do not feel like’ but this expression
sounds less forceful. Is this because a mood can feel or sound less volitional
than a feeling? A mood can be what assails from the outside; deciding for
us what we can and cannot do. A mood can imply something that hangs
around, despite our best intentions, despite even our own selves. Moods are
often hangers on.
We might have a feeling, but be in a mood. In thinking of these sayings as
implying different relations, we do not have to assume that these differences
are intrinsic, that moods and feelings have different logics or belong to
different orders. We would become attuned instead to what sayings are
doing; or how sayings are doings. If we take moods as our starting point,
we would be thinking of the languages around mood, and how they imply a
relation to mood such that moods can even become those relations. In their
introduction to a special issue of New Literary History on mood, Rita Felski and
Susan Fraiman note: ‘Recent work on affect in literary and cultural studies,
for example, often pivots on a language of intensities and flows that seems
ill suited to the phenomenology of mood. Moods are usually described as
ambient, vague, diffuse, hazy, and intangible, rather than intense, and they
are often contrasted to emotions in having a longer duration. Instead of
flowing, a mood lingers, tarries, settles in, accumulates, and sticks around. It 1. Rita Felski and
is frequently characterized by inertia’.1 If we are describing how moods feel, Susan Fraiman,
‘Introduction’, New
or how it feels to be in a mood, then we might come up with different kinds Literary History, 43
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of descriptions. When what we are describing comes with its own languages org/vzm ; http://doi.
then those languages need to become part of the description. org/vzn
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manifest “how one is and coming along”’.5 Mood is being in relation to others. 5. Martin Heidegger,
The Fundamental
In his analysis of boredom, Heidegger considers mood as fundamental but Concepts of
also qualitatively differentiated. A mood is treated as something there; or Metaphysics: World,
Finitude, Solitude,
perhaps around, such that we come to be around mood. He further specifies: William McNeill
and Nicholas
Walker (trans),
A human being who - as we say - is in good humour brings a lively Bloomington,
Indiana University
atmosphere with them. Do they, in so doing, bring about an emotional Press, 1995, p127.
experience which is then transmitted to others, in the manner in which Hereafter cited in
text as Fundamental
infectious germs wander back and forth from one organism to another? We Concepts.
do indeed say that attunement or mood is infectious. Or another human
being is with us, someone who through their manner of being makes
everything depressing and puts a damper on everything; no-body steps
out of their shell. What does this tell us? Attunements are not side-effects, but
are something which in advance determine our being with one another.
It seems as though attunement is in each case already there, so to speak,
like an atmosphere in which we first immerse ourselves in each case and
which then attunes us through and through (Fundamental Concepts, pp66-7).
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both experience a feeling in relation to an object that is shared: we might
both be sad because we lost someone we loved (The Nature of Sympathy, p12).
He also introduces a class of social emotions called ‘fellow feeling’ in which
one person shares the feeling of another person, but not the object of their
feeling (p13): in the case of when we are both sad because you lost someone
I did not know, my sadness refers to your sadness; I am sad because you
are sad. In The Promise of Happiness (2010) I explore how fellow feeling can
be experienced as crisis: you might be made happy by another person’s
happiness, but not made happy by what makes them happy.
What difference does it make when we think about these different
mechanisms in relation to mood? As I have already noted moods are often
understood as more general or worldly orientations rather than being
oriented toward specific objects or situations. Moods seem to have less
distinct intentional objects. However, when we think of mood as a social
phenomenon it is clear that the situation matters. When you enter into the
mood of a situation (for example by being picked up by the good cheer of
others) the situation can become the shared object. Perhaps this is how the
object can still become a crisis. For example, I might enter a situation that is
cheerful, and be picked up by that good cheer, only to realise that this is not
a situation I find cheerful. Say people are laughing at a joke I do not find
funny, or even a joke that I find offensive; I start laughing too before I hear
the joke. When I hear it, and I find it offensive not only would I lose my good
cheer, but I would become affectively ‘out of tune’ with others. My whole body
might experience the loss of attunement as rage or shame, a feeling that can
become directed towards myself (how did I let myself get caught up in this?).
Partly what this analysis suggests is the need to reflect on the career of
moods as not unrelated to objects despite or even given that these objects
are vague and indistinct. After all, sharing a mood can still involve an
affective valuation (what causes good cheer as being good) and thus a way
of orientating the body. To be attuned to each other is not only to share in
moods (good or bad, lively or unlively) but also a certain rhythm. When we
‘pick up’ a feeling we can pick each other up. We are laughing together, we
might face each other; our bodies shaking; we are shaken together, mirroring
each other. When I stop laughing, I withdraw from this bodily intimacy. I can
even break that intimacy; an intimacy can shatter like a broken jug. I might
be left having to pick up the pieces. Sometimes we might keep laughing in
fear that otherwise we would cause a breakage.
If attunement is openness to what is around us, it does not follow that we
are open to anything. Medard Boss describes, drawing on Heidegger, how
‘the prevailing attunement is at any given time the condition of our openness 8. Medard Boss,
for perceiving and dealing with what we encounter; the pitch at which our Existential Foundations
of Medicine and
existence, as a set of relationships to objects, ourselves and other people, Psychology, Oakland,
University of
is vibrating’.8 A vibration can be the sound of bodies in tune. What I am
California Press,
suggesting is that attunement is not exhaustive: one might enter the room 1979, p110.
MOOD WORK
How is that we can enter a room and pick up on some feelings and not
others? I have implied that one enters not only in a mood, but with a history,
which is how you come to lean this way or that. Attunement might itself be an
affective history, of how subjects become attuned to others over and in time.
It is worth noting that attunement is often affectively registered as a good
thing (as a happy or positive state of affairs). In some forms of psychotherapy,
attunement is understood as an attachment to life, as a technique that enables
flow, empathy and connection. For example, Mitchell S. Kossak describes
how ‘attunement and connection overcomes the isolation and alienation of
9. Mitchell A. being disconnected from being’.9 The therapeutic relation becomes defined
Kossak, Attunement:
Embodied musically: the therapist uses the piano, and mistunes a note, as a way of
Transcendent performing and discussing what it means to be out of tune with clients.
Experience Explored
Through Sound Attunement becomes a way of being for, as well as being with others in a
and Rhythmic relation of harmony.
Improvisition,
Cincinnati, Ohio, Attunement as an attachment to life can also become a technique for
Union Institute and
University, 2007,
modifying behavior. One of the texts often cited in studies of attunement
p109. is Daniel Stern’s The Interpersonal World of the Infant, which as a study of
developmental psychology, focuses on the ‘affective attunement’ between
10. Daniel N. Stern,
The Interpersonal
mother and child.10 As a model of inter-affectivity, Stern’s work is enormously
World of the Infant, valuable and compelling: he focuses on how the inter-affectivity is not about
New York, Basic
Books, 2000, pp138- the repetition of gestures, or imitation, but the ‘performance of behaviours
169. Hereafter that express the quality of feeling of a shared affective state without
cited in text as
Interpersonal World. imitating the exact behavioral expression of the inner state’ (Interpersonal
World, p142). I think some curious consequences follow if we reflect on how
affective description can become prescription. Social experience (being with
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others) would be referred back to an idea of the mother/infant relation as
‘first relation’ to that extent that that relation is defined in positive terms.
Stern writes that attunement is an expression of ‘the quality of feeling of a
shared affective state’. Perhaps affective training is training in expression: by
expressing the quality of shared feeling, we share a feeling of quality. Shared
feeling might be what we create when we ‘express’ things in the right way.
It is worth noting here that Daniel Stern refers to a class of experience he
calls misattunement. As with Heidegger, when he speaks of misattunement
as phenomena, he speaks of a certain trouble: indeed he describes
misattunements as ‘troublesome’ (Interpersonal World, p211). Misattunements
do not simply refer to those moments when mother and child are ‘out of
synch,’ when they, as it were, bump into each other. Misattunements are
instead described as a parental technique for modifying the behaviour of
the child: they are ‘the covert attempt to change the infant’s behaviour and
experience’ (ibid, p213). In one example, a mother watches her infant chew
a doll. The mother does not want him to chew the doll. The mother then
‘slips inside the infant’s experience by ways of attunement and then steals the
affective experience away from the child’. She matches the affect (‘she makes
a number of attunements to his expression of pleasure’) so she can take the
doll from the child. The mother then hugs the doll. The process is relatively
straightforward. First, an affect is matched to snatch the object. Second, the
object is given back by miss-matching not the affect (which is sustained) but
the action. Misattunement is how the mother modifies the action, or at least,
how she aims for this modification. The object is returned to the child in the
hope that the child will act differently toward the object. Here expression of
shared feeling can be a technique to modify how feelings are expressed.
Stern’s model of attunement has been used to describe the sociality of
becoming responsive to others through sharing rhythms and tendencies, such
that feelings become shared independently of their objects. But we can see
from this discussion of misattunement, how the sharing of feeling becomes
a technique for modifying behaviour by attaching feelings not to objects
but to the behaviours themselves, which are directions taken toward objects,
ways of handling things. This is how sharing mood (the murmurs that seem
to express pleasure, become louder through being reciprocated by others)
becomes direction and directive. Stern thus shows how affective training
works by re-signalling affect states, or by re-directing how we are affected
by this. For example, the mother might use ‘yuck’ in relation to mouthing,
to get the child to learn the association between mouthing and what is bad
(Interpersonal World, p222). Misattunement is used to ‘re-attune’ the child
such that they come to re-match an affect with the right action. Mood work
- re-tuning through attunement - is how feelings become matched to the
appropriate actions. What is implied, of course, is that we become attuned
to some with specific ends in sight (the capacity of some to modify a relation
as part of what is achieved in a relation), even if attunement does not have
it had begun with Christmas and the gift of dolls. The big, the special,
the loving gift was always a big, blue-eyed Baby Doll. From the clucking
sounds of adults I knew that the doll represented what they thought was
my fondest wish … which were supposed to bring me great pleasure,
succeeded in doing quite the opposite … Traced the turned-up nose,
poked the glassy-blue eyes, twisted the yellow hair. I could not love it. But
I could examine it to see what it was that all the world said was lovable …
11. Toni Morrison, I destroyed white baby dolls.11
The Bluest Eye,
London, Picador,
1979, pp13-15. For Claudia encounters the doll she is supposed to wish for, that she is supposed
a fuller discussion
of this passage from to love, as an unlovable thing. Her misattunement is expressed in how she
Toni Morrison see handles the thing (she pokes and twists the doll rather than clucks), a handling
Sara Ahmed, The
Promise of Happiness, that would, no doubt, be registered by others as violence and aggression, or as
op. cit., pp80-82 disaffection. You can be alienated by virtue of how you are affected by things.
More than this: if a misattunement is expressed as a mishandling of things,
then misattunements are also worldly. In Claudia’s case, she is alienated from
the world of whiteness that elevates some things as loveable things.
Objects bring worlds with them. To be misattuned can thus mean being
out of synch with a world. The problem with attunement is not that it does
not happen (it most certainly does) but that it can easily become not just a
description of an experience but also an ideal, as if the aim is to be in harmony,
to be in tune with others. When attunement becomes an aim, those who are not
in tune or who are out of tune become the obstacles; they become what gets
in the way not only of attunement, but all that it promises: life, connection,
empathy, and so on.
Take the case of attunement as an intercorporeal experience. Say we are
walking along a street together. We are in unison, becoming as if one body.
When we are out of time with each other, we might notice each other’s timing
and pace; the other might appear as awkward or clumsy. Or we might turn
toward each other in frustration, as we bump into each other yet again.
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Clumsiness can also be an experience you have of yourself: as being in the
way of yourself as well as others. A body can be what trips you up, catches
you out. Indeed the feeling of clumsiness can be catchy: once you feel clumsy,
you can feel even clumsier; you seem to lack the coordination to coordinate
yourself with yourself let alone yourself with others. Some bodies become the
‘non’ attuned whose clumsiness registers as the loss of a possibility. So what
Heidegger stumbles over, the question of the lack of attunement might be how
some bodies stumble, become those that get in the way, even of themselves.
For those deemed to lack attunement, attunement might become a form of
affective labour. In order not to cause non-attunement they have to become
attuned.One of Hochschild’s examples is the bride on her wedding day, the
‘happiest day of her life’, who does not feel right, in other words, who does
not feel happy.12 The bride tries to convince herself that she is happy although 12. Arlie Russell
Hochschild The
there can be nothing more unconvincing than the effort to be convinced. Managed Heart:
Perhaps we are convinced when the effort to be convinced disappears: willing Commercialization
of Human Feeling,
comes to be experienced ‘happily’ as spontaneous. Berkeley, University
If emotional work involves closing the gap between how one does feel and of California Press,
2003, p59. Hereafter
how one should feel, it does not follow that emotional work is simply working cited in text as The
Managed Heart. For
on oneself. The affective register of ‘should’ again reminds us that there is a a more detailed
right way to feel in a certain situation. So one might try and convince oneself discussion see,
Ahmed, The Promise
to be happy to feel the way we are supposed to feel in that situation. It is of Happiness, op. cit.,
the happiness of the situation (and not just one’s own happiness) that one p41.
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simply created as a figure by becoming the object of feeling, or the cause
of tension.16 Rather as I explored in the previous section, the stranger is an 16. For a discussion
of how some bodies
effect of how some become attuned with others (and not with other others). are recognised as
The stranger becomes the body we are not with: ‘a not’ that can be all the strangers and as the
cause of danger see
more encompassing given that it is blurred. Sara Ahmed, Strange
Encounters: Embodied
Others in Post-
NATIONAL MOODS Coloniality, London,
Routledge, 2000.
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when a white person holds objectionable views, racist views for instance, we
rightly condemn them. But when equally unacceptable views or practices come
from someone who isn’t white, we’ve been too cautious frankly - frankly, even
fearful - to stand up to them’. Racism becomes understood as something that
is ‘rightly’ condemned. But the immediate implication is that the tendency to
condemn racism in white people is the same tendency as the one that does
not object to what is unacceptable in ‘someone who isn’t white’.
The speech carefully creates the impression that racism in white culture is
not acceptable (it is this very idea that participates in obscuring the very ordinary
nature of acceptable racism) whilst implying again that ‘our tolerance’ of others
has stopped those others from being more tolerable, more acceptable in terms
of their beliefs. This nervous white subject who is unable to stand up to the
non-white others then becomes a national subject: ‘A passively tolerant society
says to its citizens, as long as you obey the law we will just leave you alone.
It stands neutral between different values. But I believe a genuinely liberal
country does much more; it believes in certain values and actively promotes
them. Freedom of speech, freedom of worship, democracy, the rule of law,
equal rights regardless of race, sex or sexuality. It says to its citizens, this
is what defines us as a society: to belong here is to believe in these things.
Now, each of us in our own countries, I believe, must be unambiguous and
hard-nosed about this defence of our liberty’. A muscular liberalism is one
that is hard about belief and demands that others believe as we do. And we
note the nervous slide between the individual and collective subject: it is the
nervousness that creates a bond, implying that the national subject is the white
subject, the one who must regains its nerves, becoming more ‘hard-nosed’
about others (The Cultural Politics of Emotion began with the image of the ‘soft
touch’ nation, as the nation that is easily bruised by incoming others).
At the time of the speech the security minister Baroness Neville-Jones
said to the Today radio programme on BBC 1: ‘There’s a widespread feeling
in the country that we’re less united behind values than we need to be’.
Speeches like Cameron’s are affective because they pick up on feelings, and
give them form. In giving them form, they direct those feelings in specific
ways. Feelings of nervousness or anxiety might be prevalent, they might even
be widespread (we are living in times which make such feelings make sense).
Political discourse transforms feeling by giving that feeling an object or target.
We could call this projection: negative feelings are projected onto outsiders,
who then appear to threaten from without, what is felt as precariously within.
But projection is not the right word insofar as it implies an inside going out.
I think these feelings are in some way out and about. They circulate at least in
part through being understood as in circulation (the speech act which says
the nation feels this or that way does something, it becomes an injunction to
feel that way in order to participate in the thing being named, such that to
participate in feeling or with feeling becomes a confirmation of feeling).
Let’s return to the question of atmosphere. In naming or describing
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resting quite explicitly on self-consciousness about how we appear to those
deemed ‘foreigners’. To love the couple is to want their appearance. The
same writer concludes his article with a flourish:
But the monarchy is also about magic. It sets Britain apart. It reminds
us that this is a very antique nation, with a history and an identity which
goes back for thousands of years. Just as a royal funeral is a moment of
collective national sadness and mourning, a royal wedding is a moment
of overwhelming joy and renewal. We all share in it. When the marriage
itself takes place on an as-yet-unspecified date next year, the nation will
take to the streets, rejoicing.26 26. http://blogs.
telegraph.co.uk/
news/peteroborne/
An institution that has been reproduced over time becomes magic: cut off 100064013/
prince-william-and-
from the labour of its own reproduction. And note, as well, how description kate-middleton-
(this is a happy occasion) becomes evaluation (this is good for the nation) and to-marry-we-all-
have-a-stake-in-this-
command (be happy, rejoice!). To share in the body of the nation requires couple%E2%80%99s-
future/
that you place your happiness in the right things.
The wedding in 2011 was followed in 2012 by the Royal Jubilee: and the
flags came out again. Many of the pictures of the jubilee appear jubilant in
part as the effect of so many flags waving, creating its own kind of blanket.
Flags are moody signs, though we shouldn’t assume they do what they seem
to say. In both national events, the cause for celebration took us back to
history, to class as heritage, to class as continuity, to class as solidarity rather
than antagonism. Commentators again claimed in advance that the event
would be a day of national happiness: ‘It will be marked by great national
happiness - and hopefully by good weather’.27 If good weather can only be 27. http://www.
guardian.co.uk/
hoped for (in the UK, much good cheer is gained by moaning about weather), commentisfree/2012/
great national happiness is given the safety and wisdom of prediction. And jun/01/editorial-
queen-jubilee-
this happiness is tied directly to the singularity of a Royal body, a body who diamond
has survived the comings and goings, the ups and downs, of hard national
democratic time:
The singular body becomes an object of shared feeling, a way that the national
body can cohere in recognition of the longevity of a history it can call its own.
A bond of belief still turns upon a body, one that can concretize or ‘hold’ that
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