the seven deadly sins

the seven holies

gifts of the spirit

scenarios for discovery
 TABLE OF CONTENTS

Seven Deadly Sins: Introduction ...........................................1

Envy ........................................................................................................... 2
Greed ........................................................................................................ 3
Lust ............................................................................................................ 4
Sloth ........................................................................................................ 5
Gluttony............................................................................................... 6
Pride .......................................................................................................... 7
Anger ........................................................................................................ 8

The Holy Seven &

Fruits of the Spirit Introduction ....................................... 9
The Seven Holies: Introduction .......................................... 10
Humility................................................................................................11
Love .......................................................................................................... 12
Contentment .................................................................................. 13
Generosity ......................................................................................... 14
Temperance........................................................................................ 15
Diligence & Perseverance ..................................................... 16
Purity ..................................................................................................... 17

Gifts of the Spirit: Scenarios for Discovery .............. 18

Scenario 1 ........................................................................................... 19
Scenario 2 ...........................................................................................20
Scenario 3 ...........................................................................................22
Scenario 4 ..........................................................................................23
Scenario 5 ...........................................................................................25
Scenario 6........................................................................................... 27
Scenario 7 ...........................................................................................29

Gifts of the spirit: scoring your responses ............... 31

the Gifts of the spirit ....................................................................32
 seven deadly sins reflecting on the questions raised on page
31 of the Life Change Tool. Select one sin
introduction
as your predominant sin.

Pope Gregory the Great, at the end of the sixth

century, divided all sins under seven heads. He
FAQ’s
There are several predominant sins in my life
said that every sin that a man commits can be
at present. Which is my predominant sin?
classified by seven words. He named the sins: Often times sin comes in clusters. For example, sloth
pride, anger, envy, impurity (lust), gluttony, and lust have been referred to as “sister” sins because
sloth, and greed. They have been called down they feed off of each other. The reason for identifying a
through the centuries, “the Seven Deadly Sins.” predominant sin is primarily to help you develop a sen-
sitivity to sin’s movement in your life. For this exercise
These sins are nowhere collectively mentioned in go with the sin that receives the most highlight marks.
a single passage in the Bible, and yet they are all
condemned separately in many places. Thomas Some of the manifestations of a particular
Aquinas and most of the great theologians have sin describe me to a “T” while other mani-
agreed with Pope Gregory, and these seven deadly festations (under the same sin)
sins have become a recognized part do not. Why?
of moral theology. A particular Deadly Sin can manifest it-
--Billy Graham, Freedom from the 7 Deadly Sins self in different ways in different people
for a variety of complex reasons.

Then, after desire has conceived, If pride is at the root of all the
it gives birth to sin... Deadly Sins why is it listed as
James 1:15 one of them?
All the Deadlies are expressions of pride
under different guises. Pride, when it is
The purpose of this section is unadorned, however, can express itself
directly through our behavior and at-
to help you isolate and iden- titudes simply as itself.
tify a symptomatic fruit-level
sin in your life; i.e., a predomi- Isn’t it dangerous to be thinking
nant sin. about what our sins are?
Yes, but it’s more dangerous to be ignorant of them.
It is the wicked man who is unable to detect his sin
What follows are seven graphic descrip- (Psa. 36:1-2) Also, check out David’s prayer in Psalm
tions of the Seven Deadly Sins. Each sin 139:23, 24.
is first defined and then a list of detailed
manifestations are given. Read carefully
over each “sin” and make note of the Be sure to saturate your time in this exercise
with prayer.
manifestations that you feel describe a
consistent, reoccurring pattern or habit
in your life. The following descriptions and manifestations of the Seven
Deadlies were written by Kaye Briscoe King
After going over each “sin” in this man- and are used by permission.

ner, go back over those specific mani-

festations that you highlighted while
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 envy emotional, intellectual and spiritual
Envy is the consuming desire to have every- selves.
body else as unsuccessful as you are.
Frederick Buechner, Wishful Thinking
Being unwilling to be content with
our station or lot in life.
definition
UU U Envy is being dissat- A person can become our flash point
isfied with our lives, for an obsession.
U UU
talents and fits and fo-
cusing on the circum- We encourage criticism and antago-
stances of another ’s nism against the person through
life. Jealousy. Envy begrudges some- sarcasm, teasing or cutting him/her
one their status, material possessions down.
or the relationships and good will
that they have earned from others in Envy can be masked as contempt
the community. for a person’s culture, position and
talents or for someone who is in au-
Manifestations thority over us.
Actively trying to dissuade others
from admiring or accepting anyone
who is the focus of our envy or setting
up an unfair rivalry or competition
with that person.

Being happy and satisfied when bad

fortune befalls another.

Belittling and planting seeds of doubt

about another’s character.

Gossiping.

Devising ways of destroying some-

one, sometimes with a long range
plan.

Being dissatisfied with our physical,

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 greed Letting control and power be motivating forces in
our lives
Avarice, greed, concupiscence, and so forth are all
based on the mathematical truism that the more Being too eager to give advice or possess author-
you get, the more you have. The remark of Jesus ity
that it is more blessed to give than to receive (Acts
Attempting to have others in debt to us so we can
2:35) is based on the human truth that the more
exert power
you give away in love, the more you are. It is not
just for the sake of other people that Jesus tells us Using flattery, gifts, favoritism or even covert brib-
to give rather than get, ery to win support, affection or authority
but for our own sakes too.
Frederick Buechner, Wishful Thinking
Backing down from personal standards or refus-
ing to be involved with or defend people of lesser
definition means or position
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Greed is the desire for
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Fearing being stigmatized by leaders or the
inordinate amounts of wealthy
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personal possessions or
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status. Greed uses others Being dishonest by stealing or fencing stolen goods,
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for our personal gain in cheating on exams, falsifying records or evading
spite of any harm that this taxes
manipulation may cause them.
Being narcissistic

Manifestations Believing we are entitled to something because of

Putting possessions in place of God who we are

Being ambitious and disdaining morality, the law Being wasteful of possessions, talent or natural
or the rights of others resources

Pursuing status, material possessions, reputation Living beyond our income in order to impress others
or power or sustain our present standard of living

Believing that all’s fair in competition and, thus, Embezzling

becoming ruthless and unjust
Gambling in such a way that gambling controls us
Being too possessive or protective of our children,
spouse or friends Intriguing or conspiring

Being self-centered Borrowing, sponging, weaseling, or playing on

the good will of others in order not to use our own
Refusing to set boundaries money, time, or talent

Avoiding conflict by not correcting or disciplining Being stingy or being indifferent to the homeless
children for fear they will not love us and hungry

Deliberately engaging others in illegal or unethical Failing to teamwork in our workplace or at home
activities
Manipulating others (which is control) to do our will
through threat of physical violence, withdrawal of
affection, cajoling or whining
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 lust Raping
Lust is the craving for salt of a person who is
dying of thirst. Engaging in prostitution or other pro-
Frederick Buechner, Wishful Thinking miscuous activities

definition Sodomizing

X
We lust when we seek
sex i
another god or material
satisfaction to fill the
Stimulating sexual desires in others
e e emptiness and hunger
xes for intimacy and con- Being immodest with intent to seduce
trol in our lives. Lust is
excessive, driving desire Condemning sex as evil in itself
for personal sexual gratification, disregard-
ing God’s intended purpose for sexual- Repressing sex
ity, in order to fulfill our own inordinate
needs. Refusing to seek help or adequate in-
struction for problems concerning sex
Manifestations
Misusing sex for personal gratification Prudery

Violating the Church’s marriage laws, Deliberately inflicting pain (whether

such as those concerning adultery mental, sexual, or emotional) on others

Lack of consideration for one’s partner Tormenting animals

in the marital relationship
Holding someone against their will
Indulging sexually outside of marriage
in thought, word or deed, alone or with Teasing
others
Denying that one’s own sexuality is
Acting or fantasizing that leads to sexual a gift from God
perversion or addiction

Frequenting adult movie houses or read-

Being unwilling to inform our own
ing sexual magazines children about sex

Engaging in voyeurism or indecent

exposure

Molesting children

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 sloth Spending an inordinate amount of time on
Sloth is not to be confused with laziness. Lazy
people, people who sit around and watch the grass rest recreation, television, reading, etc.
grow, may be people at peace. Their sun-drenched,
bumblebee dreaming may be the prelude to action Always looking for easy answers and short
or itself an act well worth the acting. cuts to solutions
Slothful people, on the other hand, may be very
busy people. They are people who go through Putting pleasure above all else
the motions, who fly on automatic pilot. Like
somebody with a bad head cold, they have mostly Not assuming responsibility for our work
lost their sense of taste and smell. They know by wasting time or being passive, such
something’s wrong with them, but not wrong as by producing inadequate work, not
enough to do anything about. Other people come meeting deadlines or leaving our tasks for
and go, but through glazed eyes they hardly notice others to complete
them. They are letting things run their course.
They are getting through their lives. Avoiding spiritual growth
Frederick Buechner, Wishful Thinking

definition Ignoring the needs and concerns of our

employees
M Sloth is the act of refus-
M MM
M

ing to use our natural

R Not treating people of lesser means with
MM

M zz gifts and talents for

z emotional and spiritual dignity and being unwilling to go out of
our way to accommodate those in need
z zz
growth. It is laziness or
i

an unwillingness to per-
form our duties, work and studies or pay Lacking concern for injustice done to oth-
attention to our needs and those of others. ers

Being unwilling to undergo hardships

Manifestations
without complaining
Neglecting our family, such as being
unwilling to follow through on relation-
Giving insufficient attention to the parent-
ships, courtesies and concern for family
ing and spiritual practices of our families
members, and avoiding working through
conflict
Being unwilling to face and resolve con-
flicts with family and friends
Procrastinating when we do not find im-
mediate payoffs
Failing to fulfill spiritual and religious
obligations, such as attending church
Living in a dream world
regularly
Avoid social obligations or becoming busy
with irrelevant tasks in order to avoid im-
portant commitments
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 gluttony minimize or squelch our own attachment.
A glutton is one who raids the icebox for a cure
Being a religious fanatic about sex in order
for spiritual malnutrition.
to help ourselves detach from inactive addic-
Frederick Buechner, Wishful Thinking
tion that we have just under the service
definition
Gluttony seeks hap- Denying the seriousness of our attachments
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piness, pleasure and and how the object of these affections con-
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4 sume a great deal of our time

4 security in the obsessive
use of drink, drugs, sex,
smoking, work or any Substituting addictions for reality in order
activity that is harmful to block out pain, suffering and our circum-
stances
to ourselves or others.
Allowing them to become our false gods
Manifestations while turning our back on God
Being self indulgent in any pleasure such as
food, drink, drugs or sex that may lead to an Being unwilling to accept help because of our
addiction or, at the minimum, interfere with love and loyalty to our attachment
our social or vocational abilities
Neglecting our spiritual walk
Being a perfectionist or demanding unreal-
istically high standards Having a tendency to become manic and
unrealistic
Exaggerating a sense of self importance, or
being preoccupied with fantasies involving Lacking self-discipline
power, wealth and reputation
Looking for a short cut to success in order to
Acting as if we are superior to others get something for nothing

Neglecting our health through lack or rest, Having an over-attachment to grief because
recreation, exercise, wholesome diet or bal- of past failures and feelings of unworthi-
anced life style or refusing to care for our ness
teeth, any ailments of dysfunctions of our
body Refusing to use things of the world in a bal-
anced way
Refusing to seek counseling and to face our
participation in the addictive or dependency Gluttony changes into an addiction when
processes. the attachment and any ensuing illnesses
become a means of escape from intimacy and
Manipulating in order to sustain our ad- the responsibilities of our relationships with
diction. God, self and others.

Becoming rigid, intolerant and condemning

others’ pleasures as evil in an attempt to
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 Pride Being too sensitive and refusing to see that we can grow
Self-love or pride is a sin when, instead of leading from constructive criticism
you to share with others the self you love, it leads Refusing to receive guidance from our community
you to keep your self in perpetual safe-deposit.
You not only don’t accrue any interest that way, Refusing to take responsibility for wrong doing or to take
responsibility for what we have done
but become less and less interesting every day.
Frederick Buechner, Wishful Thinking Being unwilling to make amends and restitution

definition Lying or deceiving to escape discipline

Pride occurs when I

I
Letting someone else take the blame because they are
push God aside, become dispensable and we are not (only we are important to the
the center of my own company or the cause)

u uu u universe and act as if Exaggerating; interrupting; talking too much or in hy-

u u u u
the world revolves me
and is under my control.
perbole

Taking center stage in an attempt to claim wisdom or abili-

It is a rebellion against ties that we do not possess
God’s sovereignty.
Behaving ostentatiously in order to focus attention on
ourselves
Manifestations Having inordinate shyness because we feel we are not
Depending on myself rather than on God
perfect
Expecting others to treat me as if I am a god
Being performance driven
Being self absorbed and leaving no time for God
Refusing to admit wrong or apologize in order not to lose
Refusing: to love and trust God; to accept forgiveness from face and to suffer presumed damage to our status in the
others, ourselves or God, because we judge ourselves as community
not perfect (as we should since we are taking God’s place;
to avoid temptation Unwilling to accept less than excellence in food, drink,
lodging or another’s performance
Pitying ourselves because we think our sins make us less
respectable Being aggravated by the irritating habits of others

Attempting to control or predict the future by using Being a bigot and saying our customs, race, religion, dress
spiritualism, astrology, fortune telling, black magic or and culture are superior to those of others
superstition
Overspending of time and money or how we present our-
Not practicing gratitude for others’ gifts, knowledge or selves, our home or office to others to impress them
good works
Showing superiority by thinking that I should not have to
Being territorial about our status do what others do, such as work, chores, etc.

Acting as if we were better, further advanced or possess Taking credit for my abilities and accomplishments rather
virtues that others lack than giving God or others credit for thoughts, insights,
etc.
Practicing hypocrisy (judging others harshly for faults that
we ourselves possess) Having to be the only one who has a credible idea or plan

Remaining in denial or refusing to recognize our sins by Reinforcing my superiority by being overbearing, argumen-
minimizing or rationalizing “Boys will be Boys,” or “That tative and opinionated
is just natural for a woman to do” or “That is the way teens
normally act.” Being legends in our own minds

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 anger Gossiping
Of the Seven Deadly Sins, anger is possibly the
Using profanity, grumbling or attacking
most fun. To lick your wounds, to smack your lips
someone verbally (such as quarreling, nag-
over grievances long past, to roll over you tongue
ging, rudeness or raging) or physically (such
the prospect of bitter confrontations still to come,
as hitting, torture or murder)
to savor to the last toothsome morsel both the
pain you are given and the pain your are giving
Harsh or excessive punishment of children or
back—in many ways it is a feast fit for a king. The
others over whom we have authority
chief drawback is that what you are wolfing down
is yourself. The skeleton at the feast is you.
Forcing our will on others
Frederick Buechner, Wishful Thinking

1 definition Seeking revenge and retaliation

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1 Anger becomes a sin

when it takes the form Turning our anger against ourselves, such as
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of rebellion, revenge, or through self mutilation, over eating, bulimia,

=X retaliation; causes harm
u to self or others; or sets
anorexia, or pushing ourselves to overwork
or to be perfect
an obstacle in the way of
Not taking care or our bodies, such as not
our relationship with God.
sleeping or eating properly or getting enough
exercise
Manifestations
Hating God Refusing to let anger emerge and thus cause
depression
Refusing to allow Him in our lives
Allowing anger to manifest itself in disease
Turning our backs on a personal relationship and conditions harmful to the body
with Him
Self-pity
Resenting and refusing to use our talents
and girts or pursue the mission God has Anger is out of order when we refuse to
given us forgive and are unwilling to let go of bitter-
ness or love another as God does. We refuse
Blaming others (God, parents, spouse) and to love the unlovable or our enemies. Anger
accepting responsibility for the negative con- in the form of passive aggressive behavior
ditions that we have brought on ourselves is demonstrated when we ostracize another
and the inner decisions we have made that person, spoil another’s pleasure (by snub-
have contributed to our unhappiness bing or being moody or uncooperative) or
physically or emotionally sabotage some-
Being cynical one.

Purposely trying to ruin someone’s reputa-

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 the holy seven the seven holies
fruits of the spirit introduction
introduction The Holy Seven are the Virtues that fashion us into
the likeness of Christ. Christ personifies the perfection
of each Virtue. The Virtues alleviate the strangleshold
We spend so much time in cirsis management, put- of the opposing sin. If I am angry and spend my time
ting out the daily fires that erupt that it is a tempta- figuring how I can get back at someone, I am soncumed
tion to focus only on those parts of our character that by thoughts of them. They then control my day. Love,
are defective or damaged. Our ancestors passed on or Charity, is the virtue that counteracts the effects of
many good, outstanding traits. We will find capable hatred, malice and Anger. Jesus calls me to love my
leaders, talented and creative, alongside the family enemy, not necessarily make him my best friend. I will
“black sheep.” People of outstanding virtue will dot forgive, let go and make a new inner decision that will
our family tree. Upon careful investigation, you will eliminate my antagonist’s control over me.
find patternsof the Virtues and loving stories handed
down abouttheir character and the ways they provided The Virtues, like the Seven Deadlies, have been passed
backbone for the family in the face of adversities. on to us from our past generations, by our environment,
genetics and imprinting. If you will look at your family
Each of the Virtues represent a facet of Jesus’ character. tree, you will find a pattern of Virtues emerging. There
If you will study the Scriptures, you will discover that are like gifts to you. They may cluster together to give
Christ personifies the Fruit of the Spirit: Love, Joy, you the attributes of a just and kind leader, a generous
Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, and loving parent, or a diligent, efficient and effective
Gentleness and Self Control. These Fruit are ours if we worker.
will just embrace them and be willing to give up our
destructive habits. We may all agree that is exactly what When you are at a family gathering, you hear statements
we should and want to do, but actually going through like, “Aunt Eve can always be counted on to be straight
the pain of detaching from old ways and learning new with you, ready to listen, be practical and loving. Ken
ones is another matter. It means changing our life. The takes after his uncle Sam: content, talented, full of fun
way is narrow and few go to the trouble it takes to and is real aware of who he is and who he is not!”
travel the path, but we all have the opportunity.
The Virtues are like stepping stones on the Journey. As
I want to encourage you to take the narrow way. We we uncover and begin to rid ourselves of sins, we make
are give theopportunity to live gree from anxiety, a deliberate decision to replace them with a Virtue. This
discontentment and anger. We can have a life that is a gradual process because a Virtue can only replace
is peaceful despite the crises around us. Actively as much of the sin as we are willing to remove. For
developing the Virtues gives us a helathy, strong and example, I can only love as much as I am willing to let
loving life style. go of my animosity for someone.

Use this exercise in conjunction with the one on the I have heard people say, “I only hate one person. I love
Seven Deadlies. It will not only give you a balanced everyone else.” That person has projected his anger
approach to your growth, but also it will allow the and ill will on one person whom he believes deserves
Holy Spirit to enlighten you as you progress on the it. Love is inhibited in its effect on the soul and anger
Journey. still has the upper hand. As we travel along the Journey,
we detach from our desire to own “things” and control
people. Detachment nourishes the growth of the Virtues.
As the man lets go of his hatred toward that one person
in his life, God’s love grows in him so that he can accept
the person and not their actions.

We can make inner decisions that counter our past de-

structive ones. If I am lazy and procrastinate in getting
my work done, I can pray earnestly for the virtue of
Diligence. I then look for old inner decisions that have
caused me to embrace the vices. I may have made the

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inner decision as a youth that no matter what I do, it grace, both the Virtues and the Fruit of the Spirit bolster
will never be good enough. Why try? Counseling can each other up within the obedient believer, producing
help me with these feelings and the problems that they Christlikeness in their wake.
have caused. I can then form new inner decisions of
self worth and esteem and set reasonable objectives in Why are the Seven Deadlies more interesting than the
order to gradually eliminate the habits created by my Virtues?
procrastination. The chief power of sin is to make evil look good and
the good something to yawn about. No one chooses to
We encounter the Seven Deadlies as well as the Virtues do evil because they think it’ll make life less exciting,
at different stages in our Journey. As goal oriented less interesting, less boring, et al. And no one avoids the
people, we would like to think that once we have pro- good because they believe in doing so they’ll be missing
cessed the effect of a particular sin, we no longer have out on the time of their lives.
to think about it. As we heal in levels, we also become
purified in levels. At later stages on the Journey you
will uncover more subtle manifestations of the sin as
well as their opposing virtues. With each new level we
become more like the image of Christ and the life that
He wants us to live.

It is my hope that the Virtues and the list of their mani-

festations will help you to see what a normal life can be
like. No virtue is out of our reach. We may be plagued
by small habits that have formed around our predomi-
nant sin, be we can live free from its control. The benefit
of living with the Virtues far overcomes the time and
patience that it takes to embrace them.

This introduction and the descriptions of the Seven Holies

that follow were written by
Kaye Briscoe King and are used by permission.

FAQ’s
What is the difference between the Virtues and the Fruit
of the Spirit?
The Virtues are moral character traits that were passed
down to us by “common grace” through our parents
which , if you go back far enough, can be traced back
to that first twosome in Eden. They are part of what it
means to be human; i.e., created in the image of God.
Both Christians and non-Christians possess the Virtues
to differing degrees, and it isn’t surprising to find an
enlightened pagan here and there who exhibits humil-
ity, love, contentment, generosity, temperance, diligence
and purity at a higher level of integrity than the believer
in the Way. The Fruit of the Spirit, however, comes to
us by “special grace” through the Holy Spirit when
we become children of promise in the Son. The Fruit
is “simply the life of Christ lived out in a Christian”
(Bible Knowledge Commentary: New Testament, p.
608). In a dynamic and complex interconnected dance of

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 humility I set for others. I will not try to be a perfectionist; I
understand that everyone makes mistakes because
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain con- we are human and live in a fallen world. It is only
ceit, but in humility consider others better than God who does not make mistakes and I am not
yourselves. God. I will look at my sins realistically, take im-
Phil. 2:3 mediate responsibility for my behavior and make
proper amends and restitution. I will not rational-
ize or minimize either my sin or another’s. I will
definition listen to constructive criticism and guidance from
my community. I will treasure my spouse, children,
Humility occurs when I am in touch parents and community as they reflect, as a mirror
with who I truly am. I do not consider does, both my good qualities and those that cause
myself better or worse that I actually pain and conflict.

am. God is in His rightful place as my I will tell the truth in love and refrain from lying.
center and first priority. I understand I will not let anyone else take the blame for my
that it is by His grace and through actions. I will learn to listen, giving others respect
when they speak or just want to be quiet. I will not
no effort of my own that I even exist. exaggerate or draw attention to myself by claim-
Humility is the virtue that counteracts ing wisdom or capabilities that I do not possess. I
the sin of pride. will recognize that God can and does speak to us
through the words and actions of those around
us, whether or not they are learned or respected.
Manifestations I will understand that He may speak through me
I understand that without God I am unable to to those or greater prominence.
function in right and proper order. I realize that
He can lovingly direct and order my life. I am I will recognize that every race, religion, dress
willing to give Him my life and to agree to journey and culture are a part of God’s universe and that
with Him. I will give God respect by returning to I am not superior to others. I will not overspend
Him a share of all that He has given to me. I will on myself or others for the sake of appearing good
be teachable. I will give God a prime place in my or kind or trying to impress. I will do my share of
life every day. I will not take credit for my abilities work knowing that I am no better than anyone else.
and accomplishments, but rather give God and I will pray for the grace to accept the position that
others credit. I will refrain from having to be the God has given me in His Body of Christ.
only one with the right answer or a credible plan.
I will love and trust God. I will accept forgiveness I will consider myself as a Gift from the Lord. I
from others, myself and God because I know that will learn to love myself and celebrate the spiritual
I am not perfect. I will take positive steps to avoid gifts, skills and talents that He has give me. I will
temptation and will not knowingly do anything to encourage those around me and be non-judgmen-
hurt God, myself or my community. I will not pity tal. I will strive to have a servant’s heart and learn
myself when I sin, but rather take positive steps that to lead, one must first learn to serve. I will be
to rectify the situation. I will not become involved obedient to God and cooperate with others unless
in spiritualism, fortune telling, superstition or to do so would go against God’s will.
black magic.

I will show gratitude for others’ knowledge and

good works. I will not be territorial and will try to
share with my neighbor. I will live in the reality of
who I am and not act as if I am better or further ad-
vanced. I will live according to the same standards
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 love it with another. I will pray to be satisfied with my
looks, intelligence and skills. I will pray to love
... love one another deeply, from the heart. myself in order that I can love my neighbor as God
1Pet. 1:22 calls me to do. As I accept myself, I also accept the
members of my community.
He answered: “`Love the Lord your God with
all your heart and with all your soul and with If I see that I am hating my body by mistreating
all your strength and with all your mind’ ; and, it, I will seek counseling and guidance in order
`Love your neighbor as yourself.’ “ to receive the healing necessary to restore me to
Luke 10:27 wholeness. I will go to my pastor or another ex-
perienced person in the spiritual community for
guidance and prayer.
definition
Love becomes a Virtue when we begin I will not feed a resentment, but rather speak out
in love. I will try not to put another in an uncom-
to love God, self and others uncon- fortable position. I will try to speak to them in a
ditionally, just as God loves us. Love way that they can understand, not in the confron-
accepts a person as he is and not as we tational method that I prefer. I will forgive and
make amends when appropriate.
need him to be. Love is the virtue that
counteracts the sin of anger. I will demonstrate my love for my spouse, family
and community by not being moody or spoiling
their time with my own self-centeredness. I will
Manifestations be cooperative and conduct myself with dignity
I will love God, allow Him in my life and build a
and honesty.
personal relationship with Him. I will be thank-
ful and use the talents and gifts that He has given
I will pray for the gift of mercy and embrace the
me. I will not blame God, parents or others for my
qualities of commitment, presence, bonding and
unhappiness. I can recognize my part in a conflict,
nurturing, sensitivity, compassion and tenderness
forgive and take responsibility in order to find heal-
so that I may be appropriately intimate with my
ing and wholeness. I will use the feelings that God
spouse, family and community.
gave me. I can feel anger, sadness or grief over that
which I have no control, forgive and then work to
rectify the circumstances.

I will refrain from gossip and the temptation to

speak ill of others. I will not take part in any at-
tempt to ruin another’s reputation. If I find that I
have periods of uncontrollable anger, I will take
proper steps to seek counseling. I will not turn an-
ger against someone else, such as in hitting, exces-
sively punishing my children, physically attacking
someone, raging or using abusive language. I will
try to treat each person with respect and dignity
even though they may not act as if they want (or
deserve) it. I will not return their anger with my
own. I will pray to be able to love them.

I will not turn my anger against myself. I will care

for the body that God gave me and not compare
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 contentment I will treat each person with dignity
I am not saying this because I am in need, and will not criticize or belittle those
for I have learned to be content whatever the who have more or are in a position of
circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, authority. I will work cooperatively
and I know what it is to have plenty. I have
and avoid needless and excessive
learned the secret of being content in any and
every situation, whether well fed or hungry, competition for recognition or posi-
whether living in plenty or in want. tion. I will see the good in others and
Phil. 4:11, 12 show kindness and patience. I will
recognize that life is not better over
definition the next hill and that each of us have
Contentment is being satisfied and had misfortune. I will understand
willing to accept ourselves and to that my character has been molded
be grateful for the spiritual gifts and by the hard and sad times, that there
talents God has given us. Content- is pain in life, and that not everything
ment allows us to be grateful for will go according to my plan.
the circumstances of our lives and
not to begrudge the good fortune of
others Contentment is the virtue that
counteracts the sin of envy.

Manifestations
I will love myself as God created
me and let go of those things over
which I have no influence or control.
I will understand that the quality
of a person is not defined by what
society perceives as attractive. I am
willing to accept my physical and
intellectual shortcomings and to em-
phasize my own abilities. I will not
obsess on the looks, skills or position
of another. Serenity will be my goal. I
will regard each member of the Body
of Christ as important, and I will be
satisfied with my station. I will at-
tempt to make “lemonade out of the
lemons” that life hands me.

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 generosity
I will give only sincere compliments.
You will be made rich in every way so that you I will guard others’ good name and
can be generous on every occasion, and through reputation.
us your generosity will result in thanksgiving
to God. This service that you perform is not
only supplying the needs of God’s people but is I will share with my community and
also overflowing in many expressions of thanks not want the best or to be the first. I
to God. Because of the service by which you will allow others to go in front of me,
have proved yourselves, men will praise God for to have the largest or best of what is
the obedience that accompanies your confession
presented with a glad heart and not
of the gospel of Christ, and for your generosity
in sharing with them and with everyone else. for personal gain. I will listen to what
2 Corinthians 9:11-13 others say even thought I believe
that I have the right answer. I will
definition allow others their own viewpoints
Generosity is the ability to be satisfied and not be discouraged when others
with who we are, what we have and agree with them instead of me. I will
thus share ourselves and possessions set aside my work or other preoc-
with others. It is an attitude of unself- cupations to be present to anyone
ishness. Generosity is the virtue that in my community. I will practice
counteracts the sin of greed. sensitivity by listening, discerning
when they are in need and having a
Manifestations heart that is open to them. I will cry
I will put God in the most prominent when they cry and laugh when they
place in my heart and mind. I will laugh. I will develop compassion for
keep my position, material posses- those who are less fortunate; I will be
sions and friendships in their proper sad and concerned when misfortune
priority. I will choose God’s law over strikes others.
my own desires. I will regard people
as God’s children and protect the I will live within my means so that
rights of those who are defenseless. I may share what the Lord has blest
I will give others the benefit of the me with. I will pray for others. I
doubt. I will expect my friends and will be supportive of the strengths
associates to do what is moral and of those in my community. I will
ethical. I will accept another’s deci- endeavor to become the hands and
sion about their life even when it does feet of Christ so that He may reach
not agree with my own. through me and touch those who are

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 temperance will accept help from my community
in order to remain in reality.
For the grace of God that brings salvation has
appeared to all men. It teaches us to say “No” I will take care of myself by getting
to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to
live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in an appropriate amount of rest, recre-
this present age... ation, exercise, a wholesome diet and
Titus 2:11-12 caring for my hygiene, teeth and any
ailments. I will have regular check
definition
ups with my doctor. I will treat my
Temperance seeks moderation in all
body as a temple of the Holy Spirit.
actions, material goods and appe-
tites. It is self-control and restraint.
I will pursue my spiritual and emo-
Temperance is the virtue that coun-
tional growth in a balanced manner,
teracts the sin of gluttony.
being careful not to become obsessed
with my progress or preoccupied
Manifestations
with comparing myself with others.
I will seek a balanced life style and
I will be content with the spiritual
strive for self-control so that no one
mission that God has prepared for
thing will become more important
me. I will not work harder in order
than God. I will abstain from food,
to hasten union with God, but I will
drink, drugs and specific person or
accept His timing.
sexual activities that may interfere
with my social or vocational abilities.
I will view material possessions,
I will set realistic goals for myself
people and life situations as a gift
and have realistic expectations of
from God and will not become overly
my spouse, family and community.
attached to any one person or thing
I will try not consider myself more
and thus avoid other intimacies and
important that others. I will refrain
responsibilities.
from obsessing about the accumula-
tion of power, status and wealth.

I will face pain, suffering and the

things that go wrong instead of seek-
ing attachments that will camouflage
my hardships. I will live in the reality
of this day and not fantasize about
what might happen tomorrow “if.” I

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 diligence & goal even when I am discouraged or tired
of the walk. I will “keep on keeping on” in
perseverance order to reach a balance in my life.

Perseverance must finish its work so that you I will be aware of events that impact the wel-
may be mature and complete, fare of my community. I will follow through
not lacking anything. on relationships, courtesies and concern for
James 1:4
family and community members by being
attentive to those who have less, caring for
Be diligent in these matters; give yourself the sick of body, mind and spirit and help-
wholly to them, so that everyone may see your ing the youth and the senior members. I will
progress. meet my social obligations. I will assume my
1Tim. 4:15 responsibility for being a loving mirror of my
family and friends and not avoid working
definition through conflicts.
Perseverance develops when we
diligently move toward a goal. It is I understand that the answer to life’s pro-
using our spiritual gifts and talents plems may not always be the easiest or
obtainable without pain. I will meet my
for emotional and spiritual growth
obligations even when i do not receive im-
and the good of ourselves and oth- mediate personal or financial gain. I will
ers and the community. The virtue fulfill my employment responsibilities by
of diligence, or perseverance, is the producing adequate work, being on time,
opposite of the sin of sloth. meeting deadlines and completing the tasks
that I am asked to do. I will treat those in my
employ with dignity and concern, careful
Manifestations to deal with each person equally. I will be
I will choose to attend church and read and concerned for any injustice done to others
study Scriptures and other books in order and do my part in rectifying the situation
to progress on the Journey. I will not choose when possible.
a dream world over reality. I will undergo
hardships without complaining. If there is I will regard my body as a temple of the Holy
something that needs to be changed, I will Spirit and take care of it on a regular basis.
proceed in an orderly way, not waiting for I will care for my teeth, personal hygiene,
others to do it for me. I will ask the Holy dress neatly, and attend to any medical
Spirit to give me courage to become the problems when they arise. I will care for my
person whom God created me to be. material possessions, pets and my home with
consistency. I will keep trash cleaned up and
I will choose to grow up and assume respon- my surroundings clean and in order.
sibilities and to problem solve so that I can
make well thought out decisions. I will set
life goals and methodically move toward
them. I will be organized and make efficient
use of my time. I will prioritize my relation-
ships and goals. I will continue toward my
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 purity
I will dress with modesty and never
Everyone who has this hope in him purifies intentionally attract any comments
himself, just as he is pure. or advances from another that would
1John 3:3
be out of order. I will strive to be
definition a role model to those around me,
We grow in purity of spirit when we knowing that I have more influence
love God and do not give ourselves on my community than I realize. I
to false gods and whe we treat our will be responsible for my actions.
own and others’ sexuality with re- If I have problems with my sexuality,
spect and dignity. We confine sexual I will seek professional help. I will
activities to thoes sanctioned by legal, develop a healthy attitude about
moral and church standards of ethics. sex.
Purity, or chastity, is the opposite of
the sin of lust. I will convey my healthy attitude to
my children and properly instruct
Manifestations them in sexual matters. This is not
I will have no relationships with only for their own protection, but
false gods, and I will remain pure in also for the development of their
my love for God. I will turn from the
temptations of allowing some one
or some thing to take God’s place or
importance in my life.

I will regard my God-given sexual-

ity with respect and dignity and I
will provide the same guidelines for
those in my family and community. I
will foster the attitude that the sexual
act is a gift of God. I will honor my
spouse and remain faithful in body,
mind and spirit. I will consider any
literature I read, music I listen to, or
films I view an extension of whom I
profess to be. I will nurture myself
with positive, clean and moral at-
titudes.
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 gifts of the spirit
scenarios for discovery

On the following pages you will be reading a variety of different scenarios

and then asked to respond. There are no right or wrong answers, so please
be as honest as possible. The more honest you are, the more accurate will be
your discovery of the gift(s) that God has placed within your life. One more
point: even if you’ve never been in the scenarios to follow, don’t sweat it.
Just put down what you think you would do.

Do not neglect your gift, which was given you through a prophetic message when the body of
elders laid their hands on you.
1Tim. 4:14

For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying
on of my hands
2Tim. 1:6

Each one should use whatever

gift he has received to serve others,
faithfully administering God’s grace
in its various forms.
1Pet. 4:10

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 Scenario 1
You are on a cruise ship that’s bound for the Caribbean. Half way to your destination, dur-
ing a storm, the ship strikes something and begins to sink. All around you see injured people
lying here and there; you hear the screams of frightened people, young and old. The air is
tangible with fear. In the midst of the chaos you notice that the captain and his crew have
boarded a life boat and have left the passengers to fend for themselves. It’s obvious that there
are not enough life boats for the amount of passengers on board. The situation is desperate.
What would you do?

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1 assess the situation and come up with several
options to deal with the crisis.

2 tell as many people as possible to keep up their

spirits and not to give up hope.

3 share the gospel with as many people as pos-

sible.

4 not freak out because I’d believe that God would

work all things together for the good for those
who love Him.

5 get on my knees and begin praying for God’s

help in this time of crisis.

6 rally as many people together as possible to help

me implement an action plan to address this
crisis.

7 walk around the ship and attend to the sick,

injured, elderly, and anyone else in need.

8 move about the ship to see where my skills could

best be used.

9 gather the believers together to offer prayer and

comfort.

10 quickly move about the ship to look for materials

that could be used to create makeshift life boats

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11 allow others to get on the life boats before
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12 visit with people and, while they were waiting

to get on a life boat or to be rescued, I would try
to make their waiting as comfortable as possible
by showing gestures of kindness (e.g., If I had
candy, I might hand them out).

13 notice those who are truly helpful and those

who are trying to save only themselves.

14 declare to people that in this time of crisis the

wise thing to do would be to work together and
not let fear rule their decisions.

15 (if I already knew about something about the

ship and it’s safety features) instruct those
around me on the most appropriate behavior
that would increase their chances of survival.

Scenario 2
A start up Christian band is coming to town. You get a letter from their manager saying
that they want to perform “live” at your church with all the proceeds going to provide relief
for victims of natural disasters. What would you do?

I would...

16 ask them if there was any way that I could

“jam” or perform with them.

17 give them a “love” offering to help offset their

expenses and support their ministry.

18 offer my home if they needed a place to stay.

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19 be involved in making sure that all details of their
“concert” would be covered (e.g., ticket distribu-
tion, PR, AV needs, concert location, housing
arrangements, lighting needs, communication
needs, transportation needs, etc.)

20 volunteer to help in anyway I can.

21 know without a doubt that God would use the

concert to strengthen the church and draw un-
believers to himself

22 make sure that a “scholarship” would be set

up for those who couldn’t afford to attend the
concert.

23 be very concerned with the “spirituality” of the

group, not just their popularity and musical tal-
ent.

24 want the group to be sure to present the gospel

in clear and concise manner.

25 gather people together to pray for the concert and

its impact on the church and the community.

26 (if I were a youth leader) use the lyrics of the

band’s music to teach Biblical truth to my youth
group.

27 very encouraged if I knew that the band was

known for its concern for social injustice and the
moral decay of our culture.

28 make certain that direction and the overall goals

for the concert would be given and accom-
plished.

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29 be excited about the potential I see for the concert
to spur the believers in the community on “to
love and good deeds”

30 want to ensure that the concert would be a “spiri-

tually” uplifting experience for the church.

Scenario 3
Someone in church was discovered to have committed adultery. What would you do?
I would...

31 want to know what the “real” heart issues were,

not just the behavioral wrongs, so that the person
would be treated lovingly and rightly.

32 confront the person and share what the Bible says

about such behavior with the intention of leading
the person to repentance.

33 approach the person and gently instruct him/her

in the Word of God, knowing that the Word is
good for reproof and correction.

34 visit the person or invite them out for a cup of

coffee to let him/her know that God forgives
him/her and still loves him/her.

35 be confident that in His time, God will draw the

person back to himself.

36 lift up the person to the Lord in daily prayer.

37 call the leaders of the church together to decide

how to deal with the “fallen” person.

38 weep for the person, taking on their pain as if it

were my own.

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39 be concerned with how this person’s sin affects
not only his/her own life but the life of the
church.
40 meet with the person (if possible) to share the
gospel with him/her if I discover he/she isn’t
a believer.

41 come up with a course of action to best deal

with this situation.

42 try to find out how I might be able to practically

help this person out.

43 send him/her a poem or inspirational story

(i.e., something from Max Lucado) that would
stimulate reflection.

44 invite him/her over for tea or a meal to see how

he/she is doing.

45 help out monetarily if the consequences of

his/her actions bring on extreme financial dif-
ficulty.

Scenario 4
Your church is growing and needs a bigger building to worship and minister in. The church has
decided to go ahead and build a larger facility. What would you do?

I would...

46 want to be on the committee that overseas the

organizational aspects of the building pro-
gram.

47 make sure that the plans for the new building

won’t move ahead unless thought is given to
using the facility for reaching the community
with the gospel.

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48 volunteer to help in anyway I can (e.g., ham-
mering nails, carrying bricks, buying supplies at
Home Depot, etc.) to make the building program
a success.

49 be on the committee that’s in charge of how the

building looks. God is a God of beauty, and so
I would want to be sure that the building is not
only functional but beautiful as well. A place that
would inspire people to worship freely.

50 want to be on the budget committee and contrib-

ute as much as possible to the financial undertak-
ing of the building program.

51 want to be certain that the church wasn’t going

to build a bigger building just to build a bigger
building.

52 be part of a prayer initiative to ensure that the

building project was being founded upon God
and not man. I would also want a prayer room
to be included in the buildings floor plans.

53 believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that God

would use the building to build up His body and
the community.

54 suggest that a place for people in the community

to just “hang out” and relax be part of the build-
ing design.

55 make sure that the overall vision for the building

program was clear and that the right people with
the right gifts were involved in making sure those
goals were accomplished.

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56 be sure to teach the underlying reasons for the
building program so that all members of the
church were on the same page. I would want
ample classroom space to be a part of the build-
ings overall design.
57 express my concern that the meeting of the
spiritual needs of the body would not be ne-
glected during the building program, and that
the body’s spiritual growth must be enhanced
in order for the program to be called a suc-
cess.
58 speak my mind if I was convinced that the
reasons given for the building program were
less than satisfactory.
59 be a “cheer leader” for the cause, motivating
people to trust in God to do this work and to
believe in Him to do “great and marvelous
things” through the building program.
60 want the building to be constructed in such a
way as to meet the “whole” needs (e.g., educa-
tional, emotional, spiritual, psychological, and
physical) of the community.

Scenario 5
A single woman in church has become very ill and cannot work any longer. She cannot take care of
herself and her household. She has a little savings to make ends meet but will soon run out of financial
resources. She has no relatives to take care of her. What would do?

I would...

61 offer up prayers on her behalf before the Lord

of mercy and grace.

62 mow her lawn (if she has one), vacuum her

floors, take out the rubbish...basically anything
I can do to help her out.

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63 visit her to listen and offer support. I might
display “little acts of kindness” like buying
flowers and send “hallmark” cards to lift her
spirits.

64 drop by regularly to pray and offer spiritual

direction and support and to let her know
that others in the church are praying for her as
well.

65 write a poem or song or draw or paint a picture

that would taker her eyes off of her pain and
onto the beauty of the Lord.

66 organize a committee to consider how the

church might be able to meet her needs.

67 challenge the church to take on the care of this

person, citing scripture that shows how the
Lord honors those who care for the needy.

68 make sure that her true needs were being met,

not just her “physical” needs. I would also be
concerned with how her heart towards the Lord
is in this time of trial.

69 send her a book or maybe an article that would

give the biblical perspective on suffering.

70 visit her to make sure that she truly knows the

Lord and is assured of her salvation in Christ.

71 rally others in the church take on meeting her

needs on a consistent and deliberate manner.

72 be at peace in my heart over her situation, being

assured that nothing happens in life apart from
God’s will.

73 be more than willing to help meet her financial

needs out of my own pocket.

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74 drop by from time to time just to be with her
and let her know that I “feel” for her pain and
loneliness. I might not say anything and just of-
fer a hug or I might quietly weep by her side.

75 make sure that she is as comfortable and at ease

as possible. If she couldn’t leave her home, I
would bring little things to her house to make
her life brighter and more cheerful.

Scenario 6
The church as a whole senses a deep need to reach out to its community. What would you do?
I would...
76 want to be sure that whatever the church does,
that it address the needs of the oppressed and
socially “left out” peoples.

77 see that every member of the “flock” be em-

powered to see his/her contribution to the
community outreach.

78 make sure that as people began to participate in

the community outreach that no one would fall
through the cracks and become bitter. I would
send little notes of “inspiration” here and there
and offer words of motivation to this person
and that person.
79 encourage that whatever forms the outreach
takes that it include inviting people from the
community into the homes of the believers for
meals and fellowship.

80 want to educate each member of the church re-

garding his/her spiritual gifting so that he/she
would know what unique thing he/she could
do to reach out to the community.

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81 be concerned that the whole initiative be “bathed”
in prayer, knowing that unless God be foundation
of the outreach, all labor would be in vain.

82 see if there were any “hands on” ways that I could

help with the community outreach.

83 aware of those in the community who would seek

to take advantage of the church as it reaches out
and those who would sincerely want to be helped
by the church.

84 want the outreach to be interesting and innova-

tive. Maybe a block party or a music concert or
the development of a center that would educate
people in art, drama, dance and music.

85 consistently remind the believers about the origi-

nal vision and goals of the outreach initiative,
knowing that it’s easy to lose one’s original focus
when details and deadlines come into play.

86 be terribly disappointed if the outreach did not

revolve around the proclamation of the gospel.

87 sense a deep peace in my heart, knowing that God

is in control and as long as we keep our hearts
and minds on Him we could entrust the results
of the outreach into His care.

88 be an advocate for the poor and needy in the

community.

89 most definitely be involved in the “logistics” of

the initiative. I would want to make sure that we
had thought through all the options and details
before ever venturing out into the community.

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90 assess the financial needs of the initiative and
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A young couple in the church feels called to go to Albania as missionaries. What would you do?

I would...
91 purchase missionary biographies (e.g., William
Carey, Hudson Taylor, Adoniram Judson, Brother
Andrew, David Livingstone, etc.) for them to read
and be motivated.

92 personally approach the couple and find out how

I might be able to support them financially.

93 make sure that the church was aware of the needs

of the couple and was intentionally moving to be
an ongoing support team (both financially and
spiritually).

94 want missions and the biblical basis for it to

be taught from the pulpit and within Sunday
school—whether I did it or someone else.

95 find out what the needs (especially the helpless,

poor and sick) of the people are in Albania and
ask the couple how their mission is addressing
those needs.

96 ask the couple what are some of their strategies

to bring the Gospel to the Albanians.

97 address the believers and challenge them to

wholeheartedly dedicate their lives to Christ just
as the young couple have.
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98 want to be on the “missions committee” to ensure
that the couple’s needs and concerns would be
addressed in an orderly and timely manner.

99 meet with the couple to see if they are “spiritu-

ally” mature and ready to pursue a commitment
to missions for the Lord.

100 commit to consistently praying for the couple

before and during their missionary calling.

101 rejoice in my heart, being assured that the young

couple are in the protection and safety of God’s
good hands.

102 make sure that before the couple leaves for

Albania (and while they were on the field) they
would have “mementoes” (e.g., group pictures,
event pictures, little messages from the children
in church, etc.) to remind them of the support
and love of their church family back home.

103 gather the body of believers together to “lay

hands” on the couple and commission them
for the work of the Lord in and through them.
I would want the body as well as the couple to
know that through them the church has the op-
portunity to impact Albania.

104 make myself available to help the couple in

anyway I can—from making travel arrange-
ments to stuffing envelopes to licking stamps,
from distributing their newsletters in the states
to delivering personal messages to members of
the church.

105 put together a cassette of their favorite songs or

maybe even write a song especially for them.
Whatever I do, it would have to something that
was creative and original.
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 The Gifts of the Spirit
Gift Definition Scripture reference

Administration The ability to organize and guide And in the church God has ap-
human activities in such a way pointed... those with gifts of
that Christ’s program is carried administration...1Cor. 12:28
out.

Creative Ability The ability to forward God’s king- ...and he has filled him with the
dom through creative skills such as Spirit of God, with skill, ability
music, drama, graphic arts, writing and knowledge in all kinds of
skills, painting, sculpting crafts... Exod. 35:31

Discernment The ability to distinguish between ...to another distinguishing be-

truth and error, to know when a tween spirits...1 Cor12:10
person or act is of God

Encouragement The ability to motivate people ...if it is encouraging, let him

through encouraging words to live encourage...Rom. 12:8
practical Christian lives

Evangelism The ability to present the gos- It was he who gave some to be...
pel to unbelievers in a clear and evangelists...Eph. 4:11
meaningful way which calls for
response...

Faith The ability to envision what God ...to another faith by the same
wants to happen and to be certain Spirit...1Cor. 12:9
he is going to do it in response to
prayer, even when there is no con-
crete evidence

Giving The ability to support the Lord’s ...if it is contributing to the needs
work materially with generous, of others, let him give gener-
timely, and cheerful contributions ously...Rom. 12:8

Hospitality The ability to welcome and gra- Share with God’s people who are
ciously serve guests and strangers in need. Practice hospitality...
Rom. 12:13

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 The Gifts of the Spirit
Gift Definition Scripture reference
Intercession The ability to pray faithfully for Night and day we pray most earnestly...
others and to identify specific an- 1Ths. 3:10
swers to those prayers With this in mind, we constantly pray
for you...2Ths. 1:11

Leadership The ability to lead members of a ...if it is leadership, let him govern
group with caring concern and diligently...Rom. 12:8
foresight

Mercy The ability to empathize with ...if it is showing mercy, let him do it
hurting people and to translate cheerfully. Rom. 12:8
that into cheerful acts of service

Prophecy The ability to proclaim and ap- ...to another prophecy...1Cor. 12:28
ply God’s truth so that believers And in the church God has.. appointed
may be edified, encouraged, and ... prophets... 1Cor. 12:10
consoled, and non-believers
convinced

Service The ability to help others in their ...If it is serving, let him serve...
ministries by aiding them in prac- Rom. 12:7
tical ways

Shepherding The ability to oversee the spiritual It was he who gave some to be pas-
lives of others and care for their tors...Eph. 4:11
spiritual needs by teaching and
guiding them toward maturity.

Teaching The ability to communicate It was he who gave some to be...

knowledge to others for the pur- teachers... Eph. 4:11
pose of upbuilding

Sign gifts NOTE: Our official position on the “sign” gifts (e.g., miracles, healing, speaking in
and interpreting tongues) is that they ended with the last of the apostles.
That is not to say that God cannot/does not reveal Himself through the sign
gifts today. What is being said is that unlike the Apostolic age where the
sign gifts could be performed on command by the apostles, today they are
revealed sporadically here and there as the Lord sees fit.

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