Verbal Communication - Fundamentals
Verbal Communication - Fundamentals
Verbal Communication - Fundamentals
Overview
This chapter introduces the fundamentals of verbal communication—understanding the
conveyed messages as it was intended. Emphasize the importance to all students; you
might consider playing a game of “telephone” to illustrate breakdowns in communication.
Lecture Notes
A. Oral Communications as a Process
Communication is an ongoing process involving an exchange of information and
meanings between senders and receivers, both knowingly and unknowingly; you are
simultaneously sending and receiving messages and also communicating internally.
1. The Importance of Verbal Communication cannot be overstated; it is critical for
success in any organization. Important communication outcomes include:
a. Influencing task performance is important because it encourages employees
to complete tasks that lead to meeting organizational goals.
b. Linking plans and actions is done by connecting the “talking about” and
“doing” stages within the organization.
c. Making effective decisions is much more likely when relevant information is
communicated clearly to all involved.
d. Enhancing effective working relationships is done by helping people relate
with others; communication enables them to resolve conflicts productively.
e. Sharing emotions is done through verbal (and nonverbal) communication.
f. Fulfilling social need for belonging is inherent in people; communication
allows them to share their likes and dislikes with one another.
g. Providing training aids to what employees are to do requires clear and
complete communication.
h. Assisting in problem-solving for work groups is accomplished through
effective group communication.
2. Sharing and Transmitting Information in a manner that you feel the receiver will
understand is critical; transmission without understanding is not communication.
a. The Intended meaning of the message should be the same as the perceived
meaning. Culture and previous experience play a role in the way we attach
meaning to words.
b. Transmission of information is done knowingly and unknowingly; how
something is said is as important as what is said. The receiver can become
confused if the two don’t send the same message.
c. Response of the receiver is called feedback; tells the sender a lot about the
receipt of the message.
3. The Communication Process includes a number of factors that interact with one
another. There are many places within the process where problems can occur; being
aware of such obstacles makes a big difference. Review figure 4-1 on p. 91 and the
complete process on pp. 90-96.
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a. The speaker is the source of the message; avoid communication problems as
the message is planned, encoded, and spoken along with the nonverbals.
b. The message is developed through the encoding process; avoid sources of
misinterpretation, including multiple word meanings, semantics, and
vagueness.
c. The channel connects the speaker and the listener(s); different channels are
available and the number of channels will vary.
d. The listener is where the message is directed (the decoder), although others
may also receive; effective listening is a practiced skill.
e. Feedback can come in the form of a nod, return message, email, or memo.
Misunderstandings can occur if there is a delay in the feedback or the
feedback received is not specific.
f. Distractions in communication serve as barriers, blocks, and create problems
in communication. Distractions can be relative to time, external factors,
internal factors, or semantics.
g. The communication environment may be relaxing or stressful; the context of
the situation or personal moods can impact the environment.
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h. Techniques for Internet phones exist with computers and appropriate
software. Long-distance may be accomplished at a lower rate, but some
people block calls coming from computers.
2. Using Directories and the Internet to locate information has become very
popular.
a. White and Yellow Pages provide information about listed telephone numbers.
White pages provide an alphabetic listing; yellow pages classify sections of
the phone book.
b. Telephoning procedures and emergency numbers are accessible in
directories.
c. Government listings include federal, state, county, and local offices.
d. Locating information on the Internet is easy with sites like
www.planetpages.com or www.yellowbook.com.
3. Other Telephoning Techniques allow usage tracking and permit special kinds of
calls.
a. A computer long-distance log is used to analyze long-distance calls for
accuracy and accountability of costs.
b. Conference calls allow three or more people to talk from different locations;
they can also be referred to as audio conferences.
c. Transferred calls within the organization avoid the caller repeating a call to a
new number. It is important that all employees know the transfer procedure
on the telephone system.
d. Use of cellular phones to conduct business has increased greatly in recent
years. Review the guidelines set forth on p. 104.
C. Giving and Receiving Praise or Criticism
While the two are very different, they can both be positive motivators.
1. Communicating Praise is acknowledging the effective work of others.
a. Giving praise in a sincere manner publicly is important. Tell the person what
was done to deserve it.
b. Receive praise with a thank you to show your appreciation.
2. Communicating Criticism has a negative image associated with it; but, if it is
done right, it can enhance a person’s knowledge and skills.
a. Giving constructive criticism starts with respect; sandwich the news between
positive comments. Maintain self-esteem and motivation.
b. Receiving criticism without becoming defensive is important. Try to
understand the person’s perspective and try to understand it. Seeking advice
from others may help you understand the criticism and make changes. Make
changes in your behavior as needed.
D. The Effective Listener
Review a few statistics regarding listening: 40% of the work day is spent listening; the
average person listens at a 25% efficiency level.
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1. The Listening Process involves sensing, seeing, and interpreting what is being
communicated.
a. The listening sequence allows the listener to become more involved in the
process.
Receive the message
Perceive the message
Interpret the message
Remember the message
Evaluate the message
React to the message
b. Types of listening include content listening, critical listening, and empathetic
listening. The ultimate goal of effective listing is to apply all three types.
2. Problems in the Process can be costly for an organization; the first step to
correcting communication problems is to recognize them.
a. Paying attention is a big problem; the problems may be related to an attention
span, attention wandering, and concentration on the speaker’s message.
b. Understanding the information is key to effective communication. Problems
may be in understanding the meaning or the difference between speaking
and listening speeds.
c. Remembering the information after the conversation is over is often difficult.
Difficulties can be related to attention and understanding, short-term memory,
and information recall.
3. Behaviors That Inhibit Listening are habits that need to be changed.
a. Calling the subject uninteresting makes paying attention very difficult.
b. Judging delivery instead of content makes it difficult to pay attention.
c. Jumping to conclusions makes the listener miss key points and possibly the
main idea of the message.
d. Listening for details, not the “big picture” is a backwards approach to
listening.
e. Taking excessive notes takes a lot of extra time and energy during the
listening process.
f. Attentive listening shows respect. Review the tips on pp. 110-111.
g. Creating or tolerating distractions make concentration almost impossible.
h. Failing to listen to difficult material makes it even more difficult to understand.
4. Techniques for Improving Listening come from practice.
a. Deciding to listen before a meeting clears your mind of outside thoughts.
b. Getting rest and food allows for better concentration because you are not
tired or hungry.
c. Finding comfortable seating close to the speaker keeps your focus on the
speaker and the message.
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E. Nonverbal Communication—Listening Between the Words
It is more than choosing the right words to convey a message; the nonverbal factors
affect the message and its reception.
1. Nonverbal Cues in Communication have as much as 90% of the impact of the
message. The old saying holds true: “It’s not what you say, but how you say it and
what you are doing when you say it!”
a. Body language refers to posture and facial expressions. The study of
nonverbal body movements and communication is known as kinesics.
b. Paralanguage includes vocal attributes like speed, intensity, volume, accent,
and silence.
c. Space and distance affects personal comfort. Proxemics refers to the way
people structure their space or territory.
d. Touch is taboo in most office with increased concern over sexual
harassment; you will find occasional “high-fives.”
e. Clothing and accessories send a message, hence the term “Dress for
Success.”
f. Use of time communicates responsibility; you have to balance your own time
but also be aware of time in other places (time zones).
2. Interpreting the Nonverbal by considering the 4 Cs.
a. Clusters are formed with nonverbal signs; examine them together.
b. Consistency refers to examining the signals with personality and with other
cues.
c. Culture influences communication styles; this is a challenge with increased
global workplace.
d. Communication (asking) is the key to finding out if you question the
message’s meaning.
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Wolf, P. and S. Kuiper. Effective Communication in Business.
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