Top 10 Conversation Topics

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The article recommends 10 conversation topics that generally engage most people including human psychology, travel, books, movies, careers, hobbies, food, bars/clubs, and local events.

Some of the recommended conversation topics include human psychology, travel, books, movies, hobbies, careers, food, bars/clubs, and local events.

The author advises that knowing conversation topics alone is not enough and that having conversation confidence is also important.

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Recommending people conversation topics is tricky.


Personally, tuning my people skills, I have learned to talk about
anything and everything. I can do this now, not because I know
a lot of stuff (which I don’t), but because I can relate with
people on any subject.

Simultaneously, I am aware that particularly when you’re


talking with a person you’ve just met it’s good to understand
what the interesting conversation topics that go well with most
people are. Thus, you can start a conversation on a common
ground and build rapport fast.

With this in mind, I am giving you ten fine researched


conversation topics I believe work fabulously in most
conversations. So you can confidently pick from them in your
social interactions and then adapt the conversation topics as
you learn more about the other person.

Before I list these topics though, I want to add one thing:


knowing the right topics doesn’t do much for you if you lack
conversation confidence. Knowledge without attitude is
useless. This is why I have created for you a free presentation
in which I reveal the secrets to conversation confidence. Go
here to watch it.

1. Human Psychology

We love the subject of human nature and nurture. We want to


understand ourselves better and to understand others better.
To some people, this is almost like having a superpower.

Talking about how we are, how our mind works, why we do


what we do and anchoring this in real life is always interesting.
Furthermore, if you know some fascinating psychological
theories, you’re sure to woo anybody.

2. Traveling
Nowadays, traveling is highly accessible and it is the favorite
pastime of many people. Almost every person out there with a
decent income does some long distance traveling every year
and has a lot of stories to tell.

For this reason, I find that it’s very easy to get other people
talking about their traveling experiences and to relate with
them. Plus, I have filled most of my traveling agenda based on
recommendations from others. So I killed two birds with one
stone.

3. Books

From what I can tell, almost everybody with a level of


education above high-school reads books, at least once in a
while. Sure, people may have different tastes in what they read,
but the subject of books in itself is very big and juicy.

Also, keep in mind the alternative sources for reading material


such as newspapers, magazines, journals, websites and the
increasingly popular… blogs.

4. Movies

Books may have their limits as an interest, but I’m positive that
everybody who doesn’t live in a monastery watches movies. In
my perspective, this is one of the richest conversation topics
out there.

The caveat is that a discussion about movies can quickly get


boring, so you want to be careful and elegant with it. You most
certainty don’t want to abuse this topic.

5. Women/ Men

I often say that men’s favorite conversation topic is women,


and women’s favorite topic is men. You might as well exploit
this. I have rarely seen two men connect as easy as when they
are having a discussion about the ‘prey’ (and I’m not talking
about wild deer).

Even if you’re talking with a person of the opposite sex, talking


about either men or women (pick one at a time) can be very
engaging. We generally love to get the perspective of the
opposite sex on this subject.

6. Hobbies

There is a wide range of hobbies people may have, from polo,


to yoga, to pottery. I frequently like to ask others about their
hobbies. Even if we may not have a lot of hobbies in common,
they present a good opportunity to get to know the other
person and perhaps discover a new, exciting hobby for myself.
Preferably, avoid talking with a workaholic about their hobbies,
as they will politely (or not) explain you how they work 70
hours each week. Speaking of workaholics…

7. Career

There is a huge difference between a job and a career. A job is


what you do at one point or another for money. A career is a
journey of learning, adding value and receiving value that
stretches over most of your lifetime.

You don’t want to narrowly focus a conversation on “What do


you do for a living?” You want to also explore career plans,
career challenges or the journey so far.

8. Bars, clubs, pubs and coffee shops

One of my favorite conversation questions is: “Where do you


go out?” Some people prefer places where they can dance,
some where they can eat and others where they can just
hangout or use their people skills to socialize.

Nevertheless, most persons do like to go out of their cave and


explore their immediate surroundings. Conversation topics
involving their experiences in this area are definitely a good
idea.

9. Food

There is this subtle attraction most of us humans have


towards food: making it, seeing it, acquiring it and eating it. It’s
not just a subject for housewives and chefs.

Subtle conversations on the art of cooking or the art of eating,


sharing small details about the kinds of foods you like and
how you eat them, these create a bond between people.

10. Events

If you live in a relatively big city (and chances are that you do),
there’s a lot going on in it every day of the week: conferences,
celebrations, marches, strikes, accidents, alien invasions and
so on.

Such events create one of the best conversation topics for


some quality small talk at the beginning of a conversation:
they’re easy to bring into discussion, somewhat interesting
and they’re happening somewhere near you.

These are ten conversation topics I use quite a lot and I find
well suited for almost any conversation. They’re a good tool to
engage people, make interactions enjoyable, build
relationships and reveal your charismatic personality.

However, they are only the second layer in making


conversation. Check out my instructional presentation on
conversation confidence to learn how to put a solid
foundation.

What are the conversation topics that work best for you?

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