How To Be An Irresistible Flirt, Create Intense Sexual Tension, and Make Women Go Weak at The Knees (Dating Advice For Men - How To Flirt and Attract Women)
How To Be An Irresistible Flirt, Create Intense Sexual Tension, and Make Women Go Weak at The Knees (Dating Advice For Men - How To Flirt and Attract Women)
How To Be An Irresistible Flirt, Create Intense Sexual Tension, and Make Women Go Weak at The Knees (Dating Advice For Men - How To Flirt and Attract Women)
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Flirting Lesson #1: Flirting is subtle. If you’re too obvious or direct, it’s
not flirting, it’s creepy. You must playfully imply attraction, rather than outright
say it. Create mystery, be vague, imply rather than state, and most importantly,
be playful.
Flirting Lesson #2: Know the difference between sexual flirting and
friendly banter. Flirting is not the same as the fun, friendly banter you have
with your guy friends. Flirting is far more sexual—not directly sexual (as stated
above), but indirect. If you banter with her in a friendly way, you’ll more likely
than not end up in the friend zone. So make sure to playfully weave in sexual
undertones.
Flirting Lesson #3: Agree and amplify. When women ‘shit test’ you,
such as by making a snide comment, asking an uncomfortable question, or
poking and prodding for potential insecurities of yours, just agree and amplify
whatever she says. (For lots of examples, refer back to the appropriate section in
the book.) Flirting Lesson #4: Act like you’re the prize. This is a really fun
and playful way of flirting. Simply reframe the conversation—or any of her
actions—as if she is the one chasing after (and trying to seduce) you. (For lots of
examples, refer back to the appropriate section in the book.) Flirting Lesson #5:
Push-pull, role-play, and nonverbal flirting. Take her on an emotional
rollercoaster by playfully pushing her away (either emotionally, physically, or
both) and then pulling her back in. Push, pull, push, push, push, pull. Also
playfully set up role-play situations where you play the masculine role and her
the feminine. Finally, don’t forget the importance of nonverbals when it comes
to flirting.
Flirting Lesson #6: Have a masculine mindset. This is perhaps one of
the most important aspects of flirting, because from your mindset comes all else.
Specifically, though, take charge of situations (no, “What do you want to do?”
nonsense), cultivate a “gives zero fucks” attitude, and find (and aggressively
pursue) a mission that has nothing to do with women. These might seem to have
nothing to do with flirting, but trust me, women pick up on guys with a strong,
masculine mindset and they find it irresistible.
Flirting Lesson #7: Balance flirting with establishing an emotional
connection. While you don’t want to be the guy who gets friendzoned because
he only talked about platonic topics, you also don’t want to make the mistake of
only flirting without establishing any real connection. Build this connection by
talking about such topics as her experiences, passions, aspirations, and
motivations. Just make sure to balance it with plenty of playful, sexual flirting.
Flirting Lesson #8: Always be escalating. Don’t just be 100 percent
platonic and then think you can go for the kiss at the end of the night. It doesn’t
work that way. You need to ‘slowly boil’ her, like a frog in a pot of water. Build
up gradually by continuously escalating, both physically and verbally.
Flirting Lesson #9: Don’t ask questions, make statements. Statements
make you sound 10X more confident and dominant, both of which are super
sexy traits to women. Statements also build an instant sense of familiarity, as if
you’ve known each other longer than you really have. Finally, statements often
force you to make guesses about her, which you can either turn into jokes by
exaggerating or add fire to the conversation by having her ask you what it was
about her that made you guess what you did and/or impressing her with your
perceptiveness. All around, statements are far sexier than questions. So don’t ask
questions, make statements.
Flirting Lesson #10: Cultivate sexy body language. Do this by
cultivating masculine body language—dominant, confident body language.
Make sure to always have body language that is open and expansive. Don’t be
afraid to sit/stand tall and take up lots of space. Manspread as much as you like,
lean back confidently, rest an arm on the back of the chair next to you, and so
on. Have strong, masculine body language, not weak and effeminate body
language.
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Whenever you find yourself in need of a quick refresher on the basics of
flirting, quickly review the techniques in these summary points and get on your
way.
Now all you need to do is put this book down and get going!
Good luck!