Psychological Perspective of The Self
Psychological Perspective of The Self
Psychological Perspective of The Self
“Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves” – Carl
Jung
In the previous topics, you have uncovered the different conceptualizations about the “self” from
the viewpoints of philosophers, anthropologists and sociologists.
Indubitably, the self has been one of the prominent subjects of
investigations across time and discipline, including psychology.
As a science, psychology is particularly concerned with how the
self evolves as it interacts with various forces. It acknowledges
the self being stable and enduring through time but is also
susceptible to change depending on our encounters. It offered
ways of thinking about and viewing the self and these you will be
examining on the succeeding discourse for 4 hours.
As you responded on the activity, you were able to contemplate on all the possible characteristics
and attributes you have, taking into account your different selves. You had the chance too to have
a grasp and figure out how you are perceived by others. More importantly, you were able to
validate your own self-concept with that of your identity based on how others view you. Then
perhaps you can say, “this is the real me” or you may claim, “I am who I am”. If so, what is it
that makes you “you”?
The ontology of the self has been one of the most immensely researched foci of psychology.
Established as a scientific discipline in 1879, psychology in its attempt to broaden theoretical
explanations on the self has been so fascinated in looking unto indispensable phenomena like
social interactions and individual difference variables which include personality, behavior and
mental processes. Postmodern psychologists also expounded on the multiplicity of the self by
exploring its subselves. These will all be tackled as we discuss each of the psychological
perspectives about the self.
1. William James’s Me-Self and I-Self
It embraces all his physical and corporeal possessions and extends even to the non-physical or
intangible aspects. As such, our sense of self pertains to all entities which we consider ours and
which we value as they are deemed extensions of us.
James proposed that the self has two facets: the I-Self and the Me-Self. The I-Self is said to be
the self in action or as subject; it is that aspect of the self that does the acting, thinking, and
feeling. It is also known as the self as the knower or perceiver. The Me-Self on the other hand
refers to the self as an object; it is that facet of the self which is the known or the perceived. Also
termed by James as the Empirical Self, the me is one’s accumulated understanding of one’s self.
Further, James suggests that the Me-Self or the Empirical Self has three components: the
Material Self which encompasses all of our important possessions as well as the people we
treasure; the. Social Self involved how we think we are viewed and
regarded by others and also our instinctive desire to be recognized; and the Spiritual Self
contains our subjective dispositions like our self-appraised abilities, beliefs, attitudes, emotions,
etc. For William James, these facets of the Me-Self help people define us; and aid us too in
defining and understanding ourselves. These may further bring about positive or negative self-
feelings that will motivate and direct our efforts to maintain, change, or improve ourselves.
On a more personal level, differentiation involves the ability to make clear boundaries between
our thoughts and feelings, and to choose which of the two will guide our behavior. Highly
differentiated individuals are able to balance autonomy and intimacy in their relationship. This
means that one is able to establish connection with others without losing one’s self in the
process. For instance, a highly differentiated person may be able to assert one’s self despite the
influence of peers.
Poorly differentiated individuals, on the other hand, may engage in fusion in their relationships.
This means that they become much attached to the roles they play in a relationship, they have
few firmly held beliefs, they are more likely to be compliant, and seek approval from others
before making major decision. Moreover, highly differentiated individuals are flexible and are
better able to adapt to stressful situations. Since they can set clear boundaries between their
thoughts and feelings, they can shift of being emotional to being rational (or vice versa)
depending on what the situation and may make impulsive decisions based on their current
emotional states. Thus differentiation of self is the capacity to achieve a clear, coherent sense of
self along with emotional relationships with important others. According to Bowen,
differentiation is a salient trait foe attaining mature development and psychological well-being
(Skowron & Friedlander, 1998).
The false self may start to surface as early as infancy, when we are put under the control of our
parents or early caregivers. As we grow old, we are taught different rules imposed by our
families, the school, or the society.
At times, we may have to put our true selves aside, just to abide by the demands of other people.
We do this to maintain harmony in social relationship. There are instances when it is necessary
for the false self to take over a certain situation. For instance, we need to follow norms of
conduct in various social setting and if we show the false self because of forced compliance to
others, then this may be unhealthy.
Continually suppressing our true selves may inhibit us from truly expressing who we are, which
may negatively impact our wellbeing.
Guide Questions:
II. Do you think we only have one self or a multiplicity of selves? Why do you say so?