The Golden Rules
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G OLDEN R ULE F OURTEEN :
Touch Their Hearts Before You Grab
for Their Wallets . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81
G OLDEN R ULE F IFTEEN :
Make Your Customers Chase YOU! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 87
G OLDEN R ULE S IXTEEN :
How to Develop Hot New Promotions That
Drive People Crazy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 99
G OLDEN R ULE S EVENTEEN :
Your Company’s Most Important Hidden Asset . . . . . . . . . . . 105
G OLDEN R ULE E IGHTEEN :
A Gentle Reminder . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 109
G OLDEN R ULE N INETEEN :
The #1 Thing Your Prospects Are Starving For...
and Aren’t Getting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 111
G OLDEN R ULE T WENT Y :
Why You Should NEVER Sell By Price . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 115
G OLDEN R ULE T WENT Y O NE :
How to Make Money Over and Over on the
Same Promotions. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 121
G OLDEN R ULE T WENT Y T WO :
How to Get the Best Prospects to Start Giving You
More Money Right Now . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125
G OLDEN R ULE T WENT Y T HREE :
Spot and Exploit the Hidden Gaps in Your Market . . . . . . . . . 131
G OLDEN R ULE T WENT Y F OUR :
The Alchemical Connection . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 135
G OLDEN R ULE T WENT Y F IVE :
Take Enormous Risks — and Play It Safe
at the Same Time . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 137
G OLDEN R ULE T WENT Y S IX :
Four Easy Pieces . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 143
G OLDEN R ULE T WENT Y S EVEN :
The Marketing Two-Step . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 149
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INTRODUCTION
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up, attaching Post-It notes, dog-earing the corners, and otherwise
making sure you can quickly find and reread the Golden Rules
that work best for you as you build your marketing empire.
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GOLDEN RULE ONE:
There are three, and only three, basic ways to build your
business:
1. You can get more customers to seek you out and spend
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money with you.
That’s it. It’s nice to know that there are just three ways to
build a business, since the process can be so frustrating and
confusing. Whenever you get too confused, always go back to
the basics. The place where most people go wrong is that they get
stuck on the first method, constantly chasing after new customers.
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But despite what some people seem to believe, as vital as it is, it’s
not the be-all and end-all of marketing. New customer acquisition
should never demand a majority of your time, money, and focus.
The best ratio is about 80/20—the old, familiar 80/20 rule. Spend
80% of your time developing new products, services, and
promotions designed to resell to existing customers for as long
as possible, and spend 20% acquiring new customers. If you
shift up a little, say to 70/30, you’ll leave your competition in the
dust—but don’t overdo it. Remember, the other two business
building methods are where the real profits are.
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business. Why not you? It’s your choice. Oh, you don’t have
complete control over it, but you do have a lot of power in the
relationship as long as you keep doing things to solidify that
relationship. If you do it well, they’ll almost feel guilty if they
do business with somebody else.
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already have a relationship with is like dealing with friends. In
fact, we always personalize our letters that way, greeting them
with, “Dear Friend.” That’s how we think about our customers.
It’s easy to do business with friends.
But she tries to make them fun, and most of her events are
educational in nature. For example, she might bring in a
veterinarian or dog groomer to give tips on how her customers
can keep their dogs healthier or neater. A lot of her events are just
crazy, informal things she ties into the seasons. You’re limited
only by your imagination here.
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hold such events because they’re worried about the expense—but
they’re looking at things backwards. Done right, the benefits of
small promo events far outweigh the costs, especially if you
specifically invite only your best customers—that is, those
who’ve spent the most money with you in the past. These are the
same people who are most likely to spend money with you in
the future, particularly if you go to the effort to make them
feel special.
That’s where all the profits are, and frankly, it’s both fun
and educational. The more you try to build your relationships
with your best customers, the more you’ll enjoy them—and
you’ll also gain fantastic insight into the larger marketplace
consisting of those who could end up becoming your best
customers, if only you understood their wants, needs, and
desires better. That knowledge can be useful for future
promotions.
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GOLDEN RULE TWO:
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NEW PRODUCT AND SERVICE DEVELOPMENT. I
try to spend time every day working on new products or
services. I’m always looking for ways to improve what we
already offer, too. Every day I spend time on the phone with my
Marketing Director, Chris Lakey, and/or my sales manager, Drew
Hanson, or engaged in brainstorming sessions with key staff
members doing exactly those things. We’re constantly asking
ourselves, “What’s next? What can we do to top this? What can
we do to make this better?”
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other people run the day-to-day part of my business, I’m doing
less—but we’re making more money, because those fewer
things I’m doing are the things that make the biggest impact.
Think about how you can devote more time to similar things.
Get good at delegating. Hire the very best people you can
find: smart, bright individuals who fill the gaps in all the
areas you’re weak in. That’s one sign of good leadership, and all
modesty aside, I think I’ve matured into a good leader. I’ve
surrounded myself with people who are bright and talented, very
capable and competent, many of whom have been with me for a
number of years now. They understand my business in an
intimate sense; and in fact, each is very much a part of my
business in his or her unique way. They work very hard at doing
what they do, and I do everything I can to treat them with the
respect they deserve.
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GOLDEN RULE THREE:
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more money. That was our #1 goal, and at first, we weren’t
thinking about anything else. Our perspective has changed
radically since then, because we’ve gained so much value just
from the act of getting to know our customers better. We
spend a great deal of time every year face-to-face, belly-to-belly,
eyeball-to-eyeball with them—and that’s helped us more than we
can measure.
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follow it up with other pertinent questions, like:
Ask yourself that, then start writing down all kinds of goofy,
crazy ideas. It’s a wild and crazy question to start with, so the
answers you come up with are going to be a wild and crazy, too.
Yet they’ll help you think things through, so you can then find
or develop products and services that come as close as
possible to giving people the main benefits on your list.
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Make it fun. Keep thinking this through at a deep level. This
exercise serves you well, because the more you can do to
understand your customers, the more power you’ll have to get
more people to give you more money. Those people will include
the best customers you have now, but you’ll also end up attracting
new customers similar to them—and your profits will increase
dramatically.
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GOLDEN RULE FOUR:
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two decades later, because we didn’t make that mistake. We
continued forcing ourselves to plow more money into the things
that caused the money to flow to begin with.
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So what are they insatiable for? Variations on a theme,
really. They’re looking for the same things they bought from
you the first time... only different. Now, that statement is
confusing to many people, but it’s not as contradictory as it
sounds. You see, something about your new product or service
has to be new, while underneath, it’s very similar to what they
bought from you before. In fact, it should include the same
basic benefits.
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GOLDEN RULE FIVE:
Those are the only three steps. Now: read them again
carefully. Do they seem simple? Indeed they are. But don’t
assume that they’re too simple, because these three steps have
generated a huge fortune for my own company, and for many
others. The good news is that they’re safe. When you
implement them correctly, they’re very low-risk indeed. It’s a
proven moneymaking system. Best of all, when you do this the
right way, your competitors simply can’t compete with you.
Maybe that seems like a tall order for three simple steps—so let
me show you just how simple it can be.
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utilize this three-step marketing system. First, we send a direct
mail package to the best prospects in our market, offering them
what we call a “free Discovery Package.” In Step #2, a
percentage of the people who get our direct mail package request
our free Discovery Package, and we send it to them. In Step #3,
we follow up with all kinds of additional sales material that
encourages them to call our sales representatives to get all their
questions answered.
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That’s how we ensure the best prospective buyers in the
market come to us pre-sold. You have to create the same
advantage for your own business, and you have to be willing to
spend a little money in order to do that correctly. The only thing
that matters here is ROI—return on investment, which boils
down to how much you spend vs. how much you make in the
long run. That’s the only thing that’s important.
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GOLDEN RULE SIX:
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nothing to do with ripping people off. Now, if you look at the
dictionary definition of ruthless, you’ll see that in some ways,
it’s a pretty evil word. But we don’t mean it that way; Ruthless
Marketing simply involves being extremely aggressive in all
of your marketing activities, so that you can maximize your
market share. You have to approach your marketing from the
perspective that all that money could and should be yours. You
have to realize at a gut level that your best customers really are
insatiable, and that they’ll continue to buy—if you give them
the chance.
The harsh truth is that no matter how much they like and
trust you, if you’re not trying to resell them on a regular basis,
your customers will buy what they need from someone... so
they might as well buy from you. That has to be your mindset,
your mantra. As a marketer, your job is to extract the most money
you can from your marketplace. There’s no reason to be ashamed
of that; it just means you’re doing your job well, that you’re
doing as much repeat business as possible while also doing
everything you can to attract new customers.
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repeat business as possible with them for the longest possible
period of time.
Back then, we were still making the same huge mistake that
so many other small business people make: our marketing
emphasis was on acquiring new customers. We fully realized the
importance of “replenishing the pond” by bringing in a constant
flow of new customers... but we didn’t follow through very
well. Sure, we had follow-up products and services we tried to
sell them, but we weren’t aggressive enough in pushing those
items—which cost us millions in earning potential. We didn’t
realize then the majority of our profits had to come from
repeat business.
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looking for ways to make extra money. There are millions of
people in this market. If you ask, “What do these people want?”
the superficial answers you’ll get will be, “To supplement their
incomes. To make more money by working fewer hours. To
ensure a steady cashflow.” All that makes sense... but those
answers are wrong.
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as many of those elements into your own new products and
services as you can.
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These marketing systems can be very simple, or quite complex.
Let me start by giving you an example of just how simple they
can be.
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more people to get less work.
For almost three weeks after the show, I was booked solid. I
had all the carpet and upholstery cleaning I could handle, and I
It worked out well for me, because people who were bored
with waiting in line would see my contest box, and if they were
interested in carpet or upholstery cleaning, they would register.
Every Friday afternoon I would pick up all the leads for that
week, select a winner, and then I’d call up the remaining leads
and offer them my consolation prize. The first few times I did it, I
was as shocked and amazed as I had been right after the home
show—because again, my conversion rate was the same as
before, about one in three, and most of those jobs were
immediate. The consolation prize was simple: if they purchased
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cleaning from me, I offered to add an additional room of carpet
cleaning or free Scotchgarding, Scotchgard being protective
coating for carpets or furniture. Once I discovered this
marketing system, my life was transformed. Now the only
doors I knocked on were those of my client’s immediate
neighbors, and the only phone calls I made were on Saturdays
(except for customer service issues or word-of-mouth referrals). I
was working less and making more money! Only later did I
realize the dynamics that made this marketing system so
profitable. It’s simple, really: again, the only people who
registered to win my contest were those who were ready and
wanted to have their carpets and upholstery cleaned.
Eileen fell in love with the idea of making money with mail
order too, and we started working out a way to turn it into our
primary business. In September 1988, we started our first mail-
order company with only $300. We spent that $300 on a small
ad in two national magazines I subscribed to. That ad told the
readers about a special product we had invented, and then told
them to call and listen to an amazing recorded message that
would reveal the details. The three-minute message was
recorded on our answering machine, connected to the extra
phone line at the farmhouse we were renting one mile outside
of the little town of Goessel, Kansas.
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People who listened to the ad could request more
information by leaving their name and address; then we
shipped them the relevant information. That consisted of sales
materials that sold them on our product. Once they purchased that
initial product, we made them additional offers related to that first
product. Again, without realizing it, we had created a new,
self-qualifying customer acquisition marketing system.
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GOLDEN RULE EIGHT:
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formula will empower you to write a letter that can
potentially make you hundreds of thousands or even millions
of dollars. No kidding: one sales letter can make you millions.
I’m living proof. I’ve written and co-written a number of sales
letters that have generated $1 million or more, and if I can do it,
then you can do it.
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always be something unique about you, your company, and your
products or services; you have to differentiate or die. If you can’t
think of anything unique about your business or what you sell,
then it’s up to you to create that uniqueness. So find or develop
the points of differentiation important to your prospective
buyers. The more unique your product/service is in ways that are
important to the marketplace, the more selling power you’ll
have—and the more people will be ready, willing, and able to
give their money to you.
It sounds like a lot of work, doesn’t it? It can be; yet a good
sales letter can make you tens of thousands, hundreds of
thousands, or even millions of dollars. Doesn’t that kind of ROI
make it worth the investment? Isn’t it worthwhile to spend a few
weeks or months writing the most powerful and persuasive sales
letter possible if you can make megabucks with it? Of course it is!
And don’t assume that this methodology works only with
direct mail, because this formula can also be used on a
website, or in an audio or video presentation. Don’t get hung
up on the medium.
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How do those copywriters do it? Just as I’ve already told
you: they write as much as they can and then boil it all down.
Some of my most effective sales letters started out as much as
100-200 pages long before being boiled down to as little as 12-24
pages. Yes, I have written hundreds of pages of copy and then
just taken little bits and pieces of the very best of the best and
used them in my final sales letters. Think about that. When you
study powerful sales copy, please don’t think that it didn’t take a
lot of time and work to achieve. It’s our job to make it look easy!
The very first sales letter I ever wrote that made over $1
million took me over three months to write back in 1990.
Some days I worked for 30 minutes; some days I worked for
three hours, but I worked on it every single day of that three
months. Then we mailed that sales letter to our customer base,
and generated a fortune very quickly. Was it worth three months
of my life? Absolutely! Today I can do a sales letter like that
one in three weeks, and is some cases as little as one week. So
even though it may take you a while to do your first few, you’ll
get better.
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That was my formula back then: I tried to model my copy on
the best of the best of everything I saw other people doing.
Thanks to the fact that I worked so hard on it, and to the fact that
we had the right idea at the right time, our $300 investment was
soon bringing in an average of $16,000 a month. Then we met
Russ Von Hoelscher—and within nine months, our total
revenue shot from $16,000 a month to almost $100,000 a
week. That demonstrates the power of working with a marketing
expert who knows what he’s doing. Russ had over two decades of
experience when he started working with us in the spring of 1989.
He knew exactly what to do, and how to do it. The best of his
knowledge and skills he transferred to us.
The one thing he did that made Eileen and me more money
than anything else was that he taught us how to write better ads
and sales letters.
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months. Within a year of the first time Russ came to our
home, I was able to create (with some help from Russ) our
first sales letter that generated over $1 million. I was hooked
for life, and who wouldn’t be? Think about how powerful it is to
be able to take the ideas you come up with, and then use an
advertising medium to literally turn them into money. Think how
powerful it is to be able to so inspire people that they pull out
their wallets, purses, and credit cards and give you their money in
exchange for your words. It’s the most powerful feeling in the
world. It’s addictive—and it’s a skill that you can master.
Lay out all the reasons why they must take action right now,
and why it’s in their best interest not to delay. Do all you can to
make them feel special and appreciated, as if your offer is
unique to them and, at most, only a small group of others. The
more you can do this with your filters wide open, without thinking
too critically and focusing on yourself and your needs, the better.
How can you serve the customer in the highest possible way? How
can you give them what you know they want the very most?
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earlier that some of my best sales letters started out as hundreds
of pages of copy; well, this was the exact formula I was using. I
focused tightly on these seven steps. After I wrote those hundreds
of pages, I reduced the copy to the best of the best. In some cases,
I was able to hand off some of my copy to another experienced
copywriter, who helped me with the final process.
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I’ll never forget what Russ asked me: “Why didn’t you just
let me write that ad for you?” I answered him, “Because I
wanted to learn how to do it myself.” I knew from the
beginning that that was the secret to making millions of
dollars—and it can work for you as well as it worked for me.
In the last chapter, I also told you about the privilege and the
pleasure I enjoyed of watching Russ write some of our sales
copy—and how that sold me on the concept like nothing else
could. Those simple, busy weekends were worth far more to us
than the $2,500 each we originally paid Russ, and I believe that
Russ too has since earned far more than that from our weekends
spent together back in the tail end of the 1980s. Watching the
copywriting process firsthand inspired me; and once I wrote my
first million-dollar letter, I was hooked for life.
The best part is that you can earn while you learn.
Frankly, you don’t have to be a brilliant writer to create effective
direct response sales copy for your best customers. They already
like you, trust you, and want to do more business with you. So
just write to them; that’s the best way to learn.
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GOLDEN RULE TEN:
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promotion, the prospects are asked to send for a free Discovery
Package that includes a detailed 50-page portfolio, eight-page
Q&A summary, and a two-hour audio program describing the
special products and services we have to offer. On top of all that,
they get a free gift. Our Discovery Package is our widget.
Thousands of people request it every month, and in the end we
generate millions of dollars in sales from those people.
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offers in an attempt to get them to take that all-important
big step.
Many of our clients ask us, “What’s the fastest, simplest, and
easiest way to make millions of dollars?” Or, “What products and
services can I sell to make me millions?” We always tell them,
“Don’t focus on the products and services. Focus on the
markets.” In a nutshell, a market represents any group of people
with something in common that causes them to buy certain types
of products and services.
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to make a mint.
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GOLDEN RULE TWELVE:
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9. Create marketing strategies that allow you to control the
selling process.
Write down the answers you come up with and think them
through. Study your biggest and most successful competitors
to determine what sells best for them, and ask yourself why.
What are they doing to give the people in your market what they
want? How can you do a better job?
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and continue to ask yourself over and over, “What is the attractor
factor behind those products and services that causes the sales to
spike? What are the people in my market really searching for
when they purchase them? What are they looking for that they’re
not getting? Where are the gaps?” Keep digging deeper.
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update. Document new ideas as they occur, and keep asking
yourself the kind of high-quality questions that lead to high-
quality answers.
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Speed is essential, because good direct response marketing
can be very expensive. This huge expense isn’t a problem if you’re
applying Step 5 effectively. It’s very important that you reach
and sell to the very best buyers in your market as fast as you
can to achieve the largest possible profit right away. This
creates the positive cash flow you need to build your business.
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have to separate yourself from every other choice your
prospects have; and to do that, you must seem unique. Notice
the word “seem” here. Many people get nervous when they hear
about this principle, and the first thing they say is, “But there’s
nothing unique about me or my products or my company.” That
may very well be true, in which case it’s up to you to create that
uniqueness. Again, in order to do that, you have to know
what’s most important to your prospects. Then you can
develop offers and marketing messages they find attractive.
That becomes your point of differentiation that leads the very best
prospects to you and keeps them coming back.
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for a special price, special sales, and anything else you can use
to induce them to take action and buy from you now instead
of later.
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marketer you are, not just as a consumer.
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GOLDEN RULE THIRTEEN:
Obvious, isn’t it? Just make more sales, and more profits
will follow. So why do so many businesses lose sight of this one
basic reality? Maybe they’re just so busy expecting everything to
be difficult and complex that they’ve somehow forgotten
Business 101. Don’t ever let that happen to you.
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late, great business guru Peter Drucker once said, “Everything
in your business is an expense except for two things:
innovation and marketing.” Innovation and marketing go
hand-in-hand. Marketing, of course, is all the things you do to
attract and retain the largest possible group of the best possible
customers within your marketplace, and then get them to spend
as much money as possible.
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The best marketers I know are like mad scientists, totally
obsessed with finding new means of attracting and retaining the
very best repeat buyers in their market. They see it as a
magnificent game in which you keep score with money, not
work in the way that most people think of work. It’s
challenging, yes, but it’s also creative, rewarding, stimulating,
exciting, and purposeful. It enriches their lives—and the lives of
their employees, suppliers, joint venture partners and, last but not
least, their loved ones.
Don’t let the old “love of money is the root of all evil”
attitude stop you. I agree with that, but it’s not what I’m saying
here. I’m telling you to fall in love with the game of
marketing, not the money itself. The money will follow if you
can effectively maintain and increase your sales. Just strive to
be the very best in your marketplace. How can you rise above
your competitors? How can you make them green with envy?
What can you do to be #1 one in your market? What can you do
to steal the best customers away from your competitors? How can
you build such strong bonds of trust with your customers that
they’d feel guilty if they took their business elsewhere?
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GOLDEN RULE FOURTEEN:
When you take those two factors as your basic premise, it’s
easy to see why it’s so important to win their hearts before you
can win their wallets. But for some reason, most small business
people just don’t realize how skeptical, cynical, and apathetic
even the best prospects are. The market is over-crowded and
over-hyped, folks. There are too many competitors trying to get
their money, and there’s not enough to go around. So marketers
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start hyping it up with bigger and bolder promises... and prospects
start to tune out all advertising messages. Suddenly, it takes much
more effort to win someone’s business. Once you realize that
emotion is the easiest way to reach them, you can begin to
build your case as to why they should give you their money on
a regular basis.
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most marketers face on a daily basis.
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That why we’ve developed this particular principle. We try
to touch their hearts before we grab their wallets. We try to move
them with emotional messages that convince them that what
we have for them truly does live up to its claims. We show
them they can trust us; that we’re different from and better than
all those competitors they’ve had poor experiences with in the
past, the people who stimulated their sales resistance in the first
place. We’ve succeeded in making tens of millions of dollars in
our attempts to do so.
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sales than we gain, and yet that’s perfectly fine because all we
care about is our ROI—how much money we’re making overall
vs. how much money we’re spending on our marketing. With
that in mind, we’re willing to spend a lot of money on the
follow-up marketing necessary to win the hearts and minds of
the people we’re trying to sell to. We do that to provide them
with a wide range of truthful, rock-solid reasons why our business
opportunity is the one they’ve been searching for all their lives,
and therefore the only logical choice they can make.
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resistance that causes them to distrust everything you say. When
you start with that premise, you can immediately apply
strategies designed help to break down those walls of
skepticism. Over time, you can thereby build a large customer
base of people who will keep doing business with you for years—
even decades.
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GOLDEN RULE FIFTEEN:
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more.” In Step #2, you follow up with that smaller group of
prospects who have identified themselves.
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customers and clients. It lets you do a more effective job of
building relationships with that self-qualified minority, because it
lets you spend more money on each person—which makes it
easier to convince them that your product is worth far more than
the asking price.
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provide a tangible value to your market. These can be books or
reports, audio programs, seminars, workshops, DVD programs,
consulting services, coaching programs—the ways you can
deliver information are nearly endless, and there are many subtle
variations. It’s best to use a powerful combination of all these and
more. For example, you can hold special events for your best
clients, customers and prospects, teaching them the things they
need to know the most.
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He’s got huge numbers of people chasing after him. That’s
why whenever he holds a seminar, hundreds of people pay
thousands of dollars each to attend. Is he really that much
smarter than the rest of us? Probably not. He’s smart enough
to position himself as the expert in the field, but he’s definitely
not worth that much when there are thousands of other marketing
consultants who know just as much as or more than he does, and
who will work very hard for you for a fraction of that price.
The next example comes from the late, great Gary C. Halbert,
who was infamous for showing up at his own marketing seminars
with hats and T-shirts that said “Clients Suck!” Think about how
rude and offensive that is. People were paying thousands to attend
his marketing seminars, only to be hit with that on arrival. But
Gary could get away with it. He was an obnoxious loose
cannon—and all his loyal clients were convinced that he was a
genius. Well, we all know that we let people we think of as
geniuses get away with things other people can’t.
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and had written copy for all their best clients, so he had a proven
track record and a reputation as something of a whiz kid. Well,
his program was huge—hundreds of pages thick—and included
numerous audio recordings where he freely shared the tips, tricks
and strategies he used.
Those are just a few examples of how you can reverse the
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power in the mercantile equation so that people chase you instead
of you chasing them. The very best prospective buyers in your
market love to buy things, and they’re already searching for the
benefits your products, services, and company offer—but they
still hate to be sold. They want to make the decision to seek
you out, so the more you let them do that, the better off you
are. It doesn’t matter that you made the first move; they could
have ignored it. Instead, they sought you out. You never chased
them. This lets you charge more money for your products and
make more sales faster. In the process, you’ll build a loyal
following who will continue to do business with you, and only
you, for years.
How to Develop
Hot New Promotions That
Drive People Crazy
There’s an old saying that goes, “Quantity has a quality all
its own.” Indeed, in my experience, quantity leads to quality.
The secret to coming up with the best ideas is to come up with
lots of ideas. Go wild; don’t hold back! Set a time every morning
for brainstorming as many ideas as you can. Make it enjoyable to
crank out huge quantities of ideas, and you’ll be amazed at the
little gems that emerge from this process.
1. Have fun.
2. Be creative.
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3. See the idea-generating process as a challenging game.
• What items have they gone the craziest over in the past,
and why?
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you?
RULE SIXTEEN: How to Develop Hot New Promotions That Drive People Crazy 101
becomes a labor of love. When you develop your first ideas
that make the cash register ring, you’ll be hooked for life. It’s
rewarding both emotionally and financially. Keep asking
yourself better questions, so you’ll come up with better
answers. I guarantee that 95% of your competitors will never
dig deeper than they already do; so when you do, you’ll end up
light years ahead of them.
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undertake other relationship-building activities to help them
suffer less from buyer’s remorse, and realize that we really are
different from the competitors who take their money and run.
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will go crazy over. It’s a tool that lets you do your very best
thinking, so consider using it to quickly find and develop your
very best ideas—the ones that get more people to gladly give you
more money on a regular basis.
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GOLDEN RULE SEVENTEEN:
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developing new products and services that give them more of
what they want the most—and keep building your mailing list.
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business claims they care about their customers, but what are you
doing to prove it?
If doing all this was simple and easy, then everybody would
be doing it—and you know they’re not. Most businesses aren’t
paying close enough attention to their old customers, because at
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GOLDEN RULE EIGHTEEN:
A Gentle Reminder
One of the smartest things you can do is work through other
people. Find as many capable, competent, trustworthy people
you can, integrate them into your team, delegate to them, and
train them to run the day-to-day part of your business. That
way, you can focus on the areas that make you the most profits.
Do this. You’ll work less and make more money.
Too many business people are trying to wear all the hats
at once, so they do a lousy job of delegating. They believe that
hiring the best people is something that costs them money, never
thinking that that’s not, in fact, the case. The best people
make you far more money than they cost. As long as have the
right systems and processes in place and manage them properly,
you can transform your business into a virtual ATM that cranks
out more money even as you personally work less.
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companies that make them feel special and appreciated. This
simple idea works in business-to-business marketing and
consumer marketing both, and it’s responsible for billions of
dollars worth of annual sales.
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anything else. The good news is that there are plenty of things
you can do to make your best customers feel this way.
This is something you can also do. Even if some of your best
clients or customers never attend your events, at least they’ll feel
appreciated when you repeatedly send them those invitations.
This separates you from all your competitors, because they
can “feel the love”—and they’ll reciprocate by doing more
business with you.
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feel appreciated. You can do all kinds of things that they
perceive are just for them, from limited sales to new product
development to special events—and they’ll respond by giving
you more of their money.
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GOLDEN RULE TWENTY:
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told me the truth about my concerns. He didn’t BS me, and that
really woke me up. I was used to salespeople who told me what
they thought I wanted to hear; but when I asked Steve if he
offered the lowest prices in the business back in the early 1990s,
he said, “Sometimes yes, sometimes no.” Then he explained to
me why that was.
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said, “Hey, T.J., let’s start our own carpet cleaning business!”
Even though he was dead broke, just like I was, we did it.
And because we were so poor, our equipment was in terrible
shape. The van we bought for $1,000 (by putting $100 down and
paying $100 a week until it was paid off) was a wreck. The only
way we knew to get jobs was to offer super-low prices. Over
the next few months, we knocked on thousands of doors and
practically begged people to let us come clean their carpets and
upholstery for next to nothing. Our entire marketing strategy was
built around doing the job for the lowest possible price.
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any money. Conversely, higher ticket items mean that you
require fewer responses to profit.
That’s another thing the extra profits you generate when you
charge premium prices allow you to do. They give you the
freedom and flexibility to serve your customers at a higher
level, which you just can’t do when you’re selling for low prices.
So: never aim for the low price. If you must focus on
price, utilize premium pricing instead. Use this secret well, and
you’ll end up with a smaller, more select group of customers who
will spend large amounts of money with you over long periods of
time, making you the envy of your competitors.
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They proved their interest by giving you their money in the
first place. People vote with their pocketbooks, so take a close
look at the products, services and promotions that have worked
the very best for you, and realize that somewhere within those
items are the things that your best customers (and prospects just
like them) value the most. It’s up to you to determine what those
common denominators are, and then to add those to the items you
develop in the future.
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the previous versions. All the hard work, thousands of person-
hours of time, has already been invested; now we’re reaping
the harvest with the ninth version. It required some investment
of time and effort, but not nearly as much as the previous editions.
It looks and feels different from the previous versions, but it’s
essentially the same service with a few great additions.
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The millions of people in the business opportunity market that we
serve are always looking for something new and exciting—but
again, if it’s unproven they get scared, and like bored people,
scared people don’t buy. Therefore, we have to prove to them
that although this idea is revolutionary, it still incorporates
ingredients that have already been proven profitable.
Keep giving them more of what you know they want the
most, and you’ll make more money with less work.
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GOLDEN RULE TWENTY TWO:
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people first. That’s why you have to be one of those people.
In a bit, I’ll give you a few simple strategies you can use to
immediately position yourself as the expert in your field; but first,
I’m going to let you in on the #1 reason why more small business
people don’t do this. Just as we’re conditioned from a very young
age to listen to authority, we’re conditioned not to talk too highly
of ourselves. We’re trained to never stick our necks out or pat
ourselves on the back. Otherwise, people call us vain,
egotistical, braggarts, showoffs. It’s extremely painful for most
people to even begin to declare themselves experts, because they
feel phony doing so.
However, the fact is that any time you know more about
a particular topic than your prospects (especially in regard to
the products and services you sell) then you are an expert.
That’s one of the things we’ve always told our sales
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representatives here at M.O.R.E, Inc. If you just study our sales
materials, then you’ll know much more than most of the
prospects, because they won’t take the time to study them.
It’s easier to do this than you might imagine, and it’s a lot of
fun. My favorite method is to develop information products. If
you Google “information marketing” on the ‘Net, you’ll find a
wealth of information about this powerful form of selling.
Developing information products is exciting, it’s creative, it’s
challenging, it’s rewarding, and it’s extremely profitable.
Information products can encompass a wide variety of print,
audio, video, and Internet-based products and services.
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Developing an information product is as easy as grabbing a
dirt-cheap digital recorder or even an old-fashioned audiocassette
recorder, jotting down a handful of notes about the main benefits
and features of your product or service, and then speaking freely
into the recorder. Do your very best job of explaining all the
reasons why what you’re offering gives people much more
value than the amount of money you’re asking for in
exchange, and why you have all of the qualifications to help
them—and why you and your company can help them better than
anyone else trying to get their business. Just talk.
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you’re a writer, start writing. If you’re a better speaker, start
speaking. Again, there are plenty of talented writers who can turn
your recording transcripts into readable information products.
Other specialists can take the audio you record and edit out the
bad areas so people only hear the parts where you’re speaking in
the most authoritative, powerful way. That can be done with
video, too. Finally, there’s also a tremendous energy to be found
in live events. Partly this is because you’re taking all of the focus
off yourself and putting it onto your prospects
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ultimate sales resistance breaker, even for new buyers.
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GOLDEN RULE TWENTY THREE:
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best answers to your questions will evolve over a period of time.
The more you think about them, the better your answers will be.
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you’re too involved in working in your business, you’re too
close to the forest to see through the trees. You have to let other
people run the day-to-day affairs—and then you have to grill
those people relentlessly. Because they’re involved on the front
lines, they have direct contact and communication with your best
clients and customers, and they know things that they don’t even
know they know.
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GOLDEN RULE TWENTY FOUR:
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If you remember your history lessons in school, the original
alchemists back in the Middle Ages were looking for a way to
turn lead into gold. Little did they know that the only way to do
that is in a nuclear reactor! The early alchemists were actually the
first chemists. Well, as a direct response marketing copywriter,
you’re doing something similar, except your “base materials” are
paper, ink, and imagination. Words are power—in fact, they’re
the only magic you’ll ever be able to tap into in this lifetime.
This is a skill that can make you rich, which means it’s
worth learning how to do. It may take you a lot of time and
sacrifice to truly master the skill, but it’s worth all the time and
effort—because once you’ve mastered it, it can make you a
millionaire in no time flat. I say that with the voice of authority,
because it’s done exactly that for me.
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something and proven it does work, if your marketplace is big
enough, you could potentially make millions once you roll
your promotion out in a big, bold way.
Just start with the very best plans you have, and think them
through in the deepest possible way before you begin testing. The
very best plans are those combinations of products, services,
and promotions that have made you the most money in the
past, or which have worked the best for other people. Once
you’ve made those plans, make small, aggressive tests of what
you perceive as the best variants of these plans. Use your biggest,
boldest tactics, the ones you’re the most afraid of. If something
doesn’t scare you a little, you probably shouldn’t do it. It’s got to
be revolutionary, and you have to be willing to spend money
to make money.
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months. All of a sudden, you’re not down $50,000; you’re up
$950,000. Better yet, the promotion will probably go on to make
you even more money; and even after it peters out, you can reuse
its very best elements in future tests and promotions.
Can you see how simple this is? Yet most people just don’t
understand this concept! Most marketers are afraid to test new
ideas because they’re scared of losing money. I’m telling you
to do the exact opposite of what those people do. Now, you
don’t want to spend money frivolously or break the company on a
loony idea, because that’s just stupid. But you can hedge your
bets and still make a mint if you test small but aggressively, to
a limited list of your very best customers. Those people already
like you, trust you, and want to do more business with you.
Because of that, they’ll buy products and services that nobody
else will buy. So really, you’re likely to recover your expenses
even if something is otherwise a flop. Of course, if even they
don’t buy the item, run away from the idea as fast as you can!
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handful. That’s a few small losses versus hundreds of gains,
plus a few cases where we at least broke even.
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best answers. In Step #3, we ask, “What do we have to do to
get 5% of those people to give us an average of $2,500 for the
initial combination of products and services we’re trying to
sell them?” All those questions have to be answered to the best
of our ability before we begin testing.
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$2500 as fast as possible?” Since these people don’t know or
trust us, that’s a huge challenge. Of course, the definition of a
“challenge” is some difficulty in a job that’s stimulating to the
people engaged in it. So we try to make it fun, and look at it as
something to run towards, rather than a problem to run
away from.
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GOLDEN RULE TWENTY SIX:
That’s it: just four steps, each requiring specific thoughts and
actions. All your effort is directed toward building the marketing
system, and then hiring other people to maintain it and keep it
running smoothly. When you do this the correct way, these
four steps build a marketing system that generates massive
amounts of cash. It’s the next best thing to a free ATM that
cranks out all of the money you want and need.
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another thousand people just like you?” I say it as a joke and they
laugh and I laugh—but the truth is, it’s not a joke to me at all. I
really do want to find another 1,000, 10,000, or better yet,
100,000 people just like them. And so do you! If you already
have an established customer base of people who know you,
like you, and trust you based on the business you’ve done
with them before, your first question must always be, “How
do I find more of those people?”
The first step, then, continues for as long as you serve that
particular marketplace. You’re going to keep asking the above
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questions and more: who is most likely to become your very
best customer, and what can you give them that none of your
competitors can? What can you do that will blow them away?
What can you do that will shock them? What’s bold and different
and provides extreme value to them? Take your very best
answers and use them to implement Step #2.
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and credit lines of potentially millions of people, assuming
you’ve chosen the right marketplace. Your goal must be to get
as many of those people as you can to re-buy from you often
enough for enough profit per transaction and with the
maximum amount of efficiency. That’s how you make millions:
simple but by no means easy, like so many other things in this
field. But it does eventually become easier when you get good at
building complete marketing systems that do all the selling and
reselling for you.
Think deeply about all four of these steps. Each offers its
own set of unique challenges, and that’s definitely how you
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GOLDEN RULE TWENTY SEVEN:
1. Big
2. Bold
3. Revolutionary
4. Unique
5. Exciting
6. New or new-sounding
All those things must apply. And again, it all comes down to
knowing what’s most important to your best prospects and
customers. Now, the thing is, we talk a lot about the key to
success being as simple as giving people what they want. A
“want” is simply an unfulfilled desire, still seeking fulfillment.
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products and services, you have to start by asking and
answering some very deep questions, such as: What are the five
things that are most important to the best prospects in my market,
and why? What are they searching for when they purchase and
repurchase the types of products and services you sell? What
benefits excite and interest them the most? What are their biggest
problems and challenges? What would it take to solve those
problems once and for all? Once you come up with a list of as
many answers as possible, the items on your list will lead you to
the most revolutionary products and services you can invent—
the kinds of things your best prospects will go crazy over.
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lead to them taking a bigger action. In other words, you want
them buy from you the first time and then re-buy again and again.
Because those promises must be centered around things that
are important to them, you do have to dig much deeper than
most of your competitors are willing to do. You have to ask
yourself those hard questions that they refuse to ask.
• A product or service.
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• A cutting-edge system designed to automatically sell the
product or service.
Our goal for many years has been to systematize all this,
so we can keep speeding up the process of testing ideas and
implementing the best results. Because we continue to add new
twists to the same promotions over and over again, we can
develop very elaborate and effective two-step marketing systems
that do an effective job with both steps. Reusing proven
marketing models offers you tremendous leverage; this is a
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through their eyes. At that point, I’ll stop and meditate on
what I’ve seen. I’ll think it all through, and end up
understanding them in a much deeper way. I internalized the
problems that they go through in their quest for the very best
moneymaking opportunities.
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market. Study those who seem to be doing the most effective
jobs at creating promises that persuade people to give them their
money. There are so many sharp marketers out there nowadays,
especially as the marketplace becomes overly competitive and
over-saturated. That forces the very best to rise to the top. The
more you study them, with the intention of learning everything
you can, the better off you’ll be in terms of inventing and
implementing revolutionary marketing concepts and methods—
because you’ll be able to fuse their ideas with yours to create
something altogether new.