Danger of A Single Story Transcript and Link
Danger of A Single Story Transcript and Link
Danger of A Single Story Transcript and Link
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By Chimamanda Adichie
Transcript:
I'm a storyteller. And I would like to tell you a few personal stories about what I like to call
"the danger of the single story." I grew up on a university campus in eastern Nigeria. My
mother says that I started reading at the age of two, although I think four is probably close
to the truth. So I was an early reader. And what I read were British and American children's
books.
I was also an early writer. And when I began to write, at about the age of seven, stories in
pencil with crayon illustrations that my poor mother was obligated to read, I wrote exactly
the kinds of stories I was reading. All my characters were white and blue-eyed. They played
in the snow. They ate apples. (Laughter) And they talked a lot about the weather, how
lovely it was that the sun had come out. (Laughter) Now, this despite the fact that I lived in
Nigeria. I had never been outside Nigeria. We didn't have snow. We ate mangoes. And we
never talked about the weather, because there was no need to.
My characters also drank a lot of ginger beer because the characters in the British books I
read drank ginger beer. Never mind that I had no idea what ginger beer was. (Laughter) And
for many years afterwards, I would have a desperate desire to taste ginger beer. But that is
another story.
What this demonstrates, I think, is how impressionable and vulnerable we are in the face of
a story, particularly as children. Because all I had read were books in which characters were
foreign, I had become convinced that books, by their very nature, had to have foreigners in
them, and had to be about things with which I could not personally identify. Now, things
changed when I discovered African books. There weren't many of them available. And they
weren't quite as easy to find as the foreign books.
But because of writers like Chinua Achebe and Camara Laye I went through a mental shift
in my perception of literature. I realized that people like me, girls with skin the color of
chocolate, whose kinky hair could not form ponytails, could also exist in literature. I started
to write about things I recognized.
Now, I loved those American and British books I read. They stirred my imagination. They
opened up new worlds for me. But the unintended consequence was that I did not know that
people like me could exist in literature. So what the discovery of African writers did for me
was this: It saved me from having a single story of what books are.
Then one Saturday we went to his village to visit. And his mother showed us a beautifully
patterned basket, made of dyed raffia, that his brother had made. I was startled. It had not
occurred to me that anybody in his family could actually make something. All I had heard
about them is how poor they were, so that it had become impossible for me to see them as
anything else but poor. Their poverty was my single story of them.
Years later, I thought about this when I left Nigeria to go to university in the United States. I
was 19. My American roommate was shocked by me. She asked where I had learned to
speak English so well, and was confused when I said that Nigeria happened to have English
as its official language. She asked if she could listed to what she called my "tribal music,"
and was consequently very dissapointed when I produced my tape of Mariah Carey.
(Laughter) She assumed that I did not know how to use a stove.
What struck me was this: She had felt sorry for me even before she saw me. Her default
position toward me, as an African, was a kind of patronizing, well-meaning, pity. My
roommate had a single story of Africa. A single story of catastrophe. In this single story
there was no possibility of Africans being similar to her, in any way. No possibility of
feelings more complex than pity. No possibility of a connection as human equals.
I must say that before I went to the U.S. I didn't consciously identify as African. But in the
U.S. whenever Africa came up people turned to me. Never mind that I knew nothing about
places like Namibia. But I did come to embrace this new identity. And in many ways I think
of myself now as African. Although I still get quite irritable when Africa is referred to as a
country. The most recent example being my otherwise wonderful flight from Lagos two
days ago, in which there was an announcement on the Virgin flight about the charity work
in "India, Africa and other countries." (Laughter)
So after I had spent some years in the U.S. as an African, I began to understand my
roommate's response to me. If I had not grown up in Nigeria, and if all I knew about Africa
were from popular images, I too would think that Africa was a place of beautiful
landscapes, beautiful animals, and incomprehensible people, fighting senseless wars, dying
of poverty and AIDS, unable to speak for themselves, and waiting to be saved, by a kind,
white foreigner. I would see Africans in the same way that I, as a child, had seen Fide's
family.
This single story of Africa ultimately comes, I think, from Western literature. Now, here is a
quote from the writing of a London merchant called John Locke, who sailed to west Africa
in 1561, and kept a fascinating account of his voyage. After referring to the black Africans
as "beasts who have no houses," he writes, "They are also people without heads, having
their mouth and eyes in their breasts."
Now, I've laughed every time I've read this. And one must admire the imagination of John
Locke. But what is important about his writing is that it represents the beginning of a
tradition of telling African stories in the West. A tradition of Sub-Saharan Africa as a place
of negatives, of difference, of darkness, of people who, in the words of the wonderful poet,
Rudyard Kipling, are "half devil, half child."
And so I began to realize that my American roommate must have, throughout her life, seen
and heard different versions of this single story, as had a professor, who once told me that
my novel was not "authentically African." Now, I was quite willing to contend that there
were a number of things wrong with the novel, that it had failed in a number of places. But I
had not quite imagined that it had failed at achieving something called African authenticity.
In fact I did not know what African authenticity was. The professor told me that my
characters were too much like him, an educated and middle-class man. My characters drove
cars. They were not starving. Therefore they were not authentically African.
But I must quickly add that I too am just as guilty in the question of the single story. A few
years ago, I visited Mexico from the U.S. The political climate in the U.S. at the time, was
tense. And there were debates going on about immigration. And, as often happens in
America, immigration became synonymous with Mexicans. There were endless stories of
Mexicans as people who were fleecing the healthcare system, sneaking across the border,
being arrested at the border, that sort of thing.
I remember walking around on my first day in Guadalajara, watching the people going to
work, rolling up tortillas in the marketplace, smoking, laughing. I remember first feeling
slight surprise. And then I was overwhelmed with shame. I realized that I had been so
immersed in the media coverage of Mexicans that they had become one thing in my mind,
the abject immigrant. I had bought into the single story of Mexicans and I could not have
been more ashamed of myself. So that is how to create a single story, show a people as one
thing, as only one thing, over and over again, and that is what they become.
It is impossible to talk about the single story without talking about power. There is a word,
an Igbo word, that I think about whenever I think about the power structures of the world,
and it is "nkali." It's a noun that loosely translates to "to be greater than another." Like our
economic and political worlds, stories too are defined by the principle of nkali. How they
are told, who tells them, when they're told, how many stories are told, are really dependent
on power.
Power is the ability not just to tell the story of another person, but to make it the definitive
story of that person. The Palestinian poet Mourid Barghouti writes that if you want to
dispossess a people, the simplest way to do it is to tell their story, and to start with,
"secondly." Start the story with the arrows of the Native Americans, and not with the arrival
of the British, and you have and entirely different story. Start the story with the failure of
the African state, and not with the colonial creation of the African state, and you have an
entirely different story.
I recently spoke at a university where a student told me that it was such a shame that
Nigerian men were physical abusers like the father character in my novel. I told him that I
had just read a novel called "American Psycho" -- (Laughter) -- and that it was such a
shame that young Americans were serial murderers. (Laughter) (Applause) Now, obviously
I said this in a fit of mild irritation. (Laughter)
I would never have occurred to me to think that just because I had read a novel in which a
character was a serial killer that he was somehow representative of all Americans. And now,
this is not because I am a better person than that student, but, because of America's cultural
and economic power, I had many stories of America. I had read Tyler and Updike and
Steinbeck and Gaitskill. I did not have a single story of America.
When I learned, some years ago, that writers were expected to have had really unhappy
childhoods to be successful, I began to think about how I could invent horrible things my
parents had done to me. (Laughter) But the truth is that I had a very happy childhood, full of
laughter and love, in a very close-knit family.
But I also had grandfathers who died in refugee camps. My cousin Polle died because he
could not get adequate healthcare. One of my closest friends, Okoloma, died in a plane
crash because our firetrucks did not have water. I grew up under repressive military
governments that devalued education, so that sometimes my parents were not paid their
salaries. And so, as a child, I saw jam disappear from the breakfast table, then margarine
disappeared, then bread became too expensive, then milk became rationed. And most of all,
a kind of normalized political fear invaded our lives.
All of these stories make me who I am. But to insist on only these negative stories is to
flatten my experience, and to overlook the many other stories that formed me. The single
story creates stereotypes. And the problem with stereotypes is not that they are untrue, but
that they are incomplete. They make one story become the only story.
Of course, Africa is a continent full of catastrophes. There are immense ones, such as the
horrific rapes in Congo. And depressing ones, such as the fact that 5,000 people apply for
one job vacancy in Nigeria. But there are other stories that are not about catastrophe. And it
is very important, it is just as important, to talk about them.
I've always felt that it is impossible to engage properly with a place or a person without
engaging with all of the stories of that place and that person. The consequence of the single
story is this: It robs people of dignity. It makes our recognition of our equal humanity
difficult. It emphasizes how we are different rather than how we are similar.
So what if before my Mexican trip I had followed the immigration debate from both sides,
the U.S. and the Mexican? What if my mother had told us that Fide's family was poor and
hardworking? What if we had an African television network that broadcast diverse African
stories all over the world? What the Nigerian writer Chinua Achebe calls "a balance of
stories."
Now, what if my roommate knew about my friend Fumi Onda, a fearless woman who hosts
a TV show in Lagos, and is determined to tell the stories that we prefer to forget? What if
my roommate knew about the heart procedure that was performed in the Lagos hospital last
week? What if my roommate knew about contemporary Nigerian music? Talented people
singing in English and Pidgin, and Igbo and Yoruba and Ijo, mixing influences from Jay-Z
to Fela to Bob Marley to their grandfathers. What if my roommate knew about the female
lawyer who recently went to court in Nigeria to challenge a ridiculous law that required
women to get their husband's consent before renewing their passports? What if my
roommate knew about Nollywood, full of innovative people making films despite great
technical odds? Films so popular that they really are the best example of Nigerians
consuming what they produce. What if my roommate knew about my wonderfully
ambitious hair braider, who has just started her own business selling hair extensions? Or
about the millions of other Nigerians who start businesses and sometimes fail, but continue
to nurse ambition?
Every time I am home I am confronted with the usual sources of irritation for most
Nigerians: our failed infrastructure, our failed government. But also by the incredible
resilience of people who thrive despite the government, rather than because of it. I teach
writing workshops in Lagos every summer. And it is amazing to me how many people
apply, how many people are eager to write, to tell stories.
My Nigerian publisher and I have just started a non-profit called Farafina Trust. And we
have big dreams of building libraries and refurbishing libraries that already exist, and
providing books for state schools that don't have anything in their libraries, and also of
organizing lots and lots of workshops, in reading and writing, for all the people who are
eager to tell our many stories. Stories matter. Many stories matter. Stories have been used to
dispossess and to malign. But stories can also be used to empower, and to humanize. Stories
can break the dignity of a people. But stories can also repair that broken dignity.
The American writer Alice Walker wrote this about her southern relatives who had moved
to the north. She introduced them to a book about the southern life that they had left behind.
"They sat around, reading the book themselves, listening to me read the book, and a kind of
paradise was regained." I would like to end with this thought: That when we reject the
single story, when we realize that there is never a single story about any place, we regain a
kind of paradise. Thank you. (Applause)
Transcription of the 2005 Kenyon Commencement Address -
May 21, 2005
(If anybody feels like perspiring [cough], I'd advise you to go ahead,
because I'm sure going to. In fact I'm gonna [mumbles while pulling up
his gown and taking out a handkerchief from his pocket].) Greetings
["parents"?] and congratulations to Kenyon's graduating class of 2005.
There are these two young fish swimming along and they happen to meet
an older fish swimming the other way, who nods at them and says
"Morning, boys. How's the water?" And the two young fish swim on for a
bit, and then eventually one of them looks over at the other and goes
"What the hell is water?"
Of course the main requirement of speeches like this is that I'm supposed
to talk about your liberal arts education's meaning, to try to explain why
the degree you are about to receive has actual human value instead of just
a material payoff. So let's talk about the single most pervasive cliché in the
commencement speech genre, which is that a liberal arts education is not
so much about filling you up with knowledge as it is about quote teaching
you how to think. If you're like me as a student, you've never liked hearing
this, and you tend to feel a bit insulted by the claim that you needed
anybody to teach you how to think, since the fact that you even got
admitted to a college this good seems like proof that you already know
how to think. But I'm going to posit to you that the liberal arts cliché
turns out not to be insulting at all, because the really significant education
in thinking that we're supposed to get in a place like this isn't really about
the capacity to think, but rather about the choice of what to think about.
If your total freedom of choice regarding what to think about seems too
obvious to waste time discussing, I'd ask you to think about fish and
water, and to bracket for just a few minutes your skepticism about the
value of the totally obvious.
Here's another didactic little story. There are these two guys sitting
together in a bar in the remote Alaskan wilderness. One of the guys is
religious, the other is an atheist, and the two are arguing about the
existence of God with that special intensity that comes after about the
fourth beer. And the atheist says: "Look, it's not like I don't have actual
reasons for not believing in God. It's not like I haven't ever experimented
with the whole God and prayer thing. Just last month I got caught away
from the camp in that terrible blizzard, and I was totally lost and I
couldn't see a thing, and it was fifty below, and so I tried it: I fell to my
knees in the snow and cried out 'Oh, God, if there is a God, I'm lost in
this blizzard, and I'm gonna die if you don't help me.'" And now, in the
bar, the religious guy looks at the atheist all puzzled. "Well then you must
believe now," he says, "After all, here you are, alive." The atheist just rolls
his eyes. "No, man, all that was was a couple Eskimos happened to come
wandering by and showed me the way back to camp."
It's easy to run this story through kind of a standard liberal arts analysis:
the exact same experience can mean two totally different things to two
different people, given those people's two different belief templates and
two different ways of constructing meaning from experience. Because we
prize tolerance and diversity of belief, nowhere in our liberal arts analysis
do we want to claim that one guy's interpretation is true and the other
guy's is false or bad. Which is fine, except we also never end up talking
about just where these individual templates and beliefs come from.
Meaning, where they come from INSIDE the two guys. As if a person's
most basic orientation toward the world, and the meaning of his
experience were somehow just hard-wired, like height or shoe-size; or
automatically absorbed from the culture, like language. As if how we
construct meaning were not actually a matter of personal, intentional
choice. Plus, there's the whole matter of arrogance. The nonreligious guy
is so totally certain in his dismissal of the possibility that the passing
Eskimos had anything to do with his prayer for help. True, there are
plenty of religious people who seem arrogant and certain of their own
interpretations, too. They're probably even more repulsive than atheists, at
least to most of us. But religious dogmatists' problem is exactly the same
as the story's unbeliever: blind certainty, a close-mindedness that amounts
to an imprisonment so total that the prisoner doesn't even know he's
locked up.
The point here is that I think this is one part of what teaching me how to
think is really supposed to mean. To be just a little less arrogant. To have
just a little critical awareness about myself and my certainties. Because a
huge percentage of the stuff that I tend to be automatically certain of is, it
turns out, totally wrong and deluded. I have learned this the hard way, as I
predict you graduates will, too.
Please don't worry that I'm getting ready to lecture you about compassion
or other-directedness or all the so-called virtues. This is not a matter of
virtue. It's a matter of my choosing to do the work of somehow altering
or getting free of my natural, hard-wired default setting which is to be
deeply and literally self-centered and to see and interpret everything
through this lens of self. People who can adjust their natural default
setting this way are often described as being "well-adjusted", which I
suggest to you is not an accidental term.
Given the triumphant academic setting here, an obvious question is how
much of this work of adjusting our default setting involves actual
knowledge or intellect. This question gets very tricky. Probably the most
dangerous thing about an academic education -- least in my own case -- is
that it enables my tendency to over-intellectualize stuff, to get lost in
abstract argument inside my head, instead of simply paying attention to
what is going on right in front of me, paying attention to what is going on
inside me.
As I'm sure you guys know by now, it is extremely difficult to stay alert
and attentive, instead of getting hypnotized by the constant monologue
inside your own head (may be happening right now). Twenty years after
my own graduation, I have come gradually to understand that the liberal
arts cliché about teaching you how to think is actually shorthand for a
much deeper, more serious idea: learning how to think really means
learning how to exercise some control over how and what you think. It
means being conscious and aware enough to choose what you pay
attention to and to choose how you construct meaning from experience.
Because if you cannot exercise this kind of choice in adult life, you will be
totally hosed. Think of the old cliché about quote the mind being an
excellent servant but a terrible master.
This, like many clichés, so lame and unexciting on the surface, actually
expresses a great and terrible truth. It is not the least bit coincidental that
adults who commit suicide with firearms almost always shoot themselves
in: the head. They shoot the terrible master. And the truth is that most of
these suicides are actually dead long before they pull the trigger.
And I submit that this is what the real, no bullshit value of your liberal
arts education is supposed to be about: how to keep from going through
your comfortable, prosperous, respectable adult life dead, unconscious, a
slave to your head and to your natural default setting of being uniquely,
completely, imperially alone day in and day out. That may sound like
hyperbole, or abstract nonsense. Let's get concrete. The plain fact is that
you graduating seniors do not yet have any clue what "day in day out"
really means. There happen to be whole, large parts of adult American life
that nobody talks about in commencement speeches. One such part
involves boredom, routine, and petty frustration. The parents and older
folks here will know all too well what I'm talking about.
By way of example, let's say it's an average adult day, and you get up in the
morning, go to your challenging, white-collar, college-graduate job, and
you work hard for eight or ten hours, and at the end of the day you're
tired and somewhat stressed and all you want is to go home and have a
good supper and maybe unwind for an hour, and then hit the sack early
because, of course, you have to get up the next day and do it all again. But
then you remember there's no food at home. You haven't had time to
shop this week because of your challenging job, and so now after work
you have to get in your car and drive to the supermarket. It's the end of
the work day and the traffic is apt to be: very bad. So getting to the store
takes way longer than it should, and when you finally get there, the
supermarket is very crowded, because of course it's the time of day when
all the other people with jobs also try to squeeze in some grocery
shopping. And the store is hideously lit and infused with soul-killing
muzak or corporate pop and it's pretty much the last place you want to be
but you can't just get in and quickly out; you have to wander all over the
huge, over-lit store's confusing aisles to find the stuff you want and you
have to maneuver your junky cart through all these other tired, hurried
people with carts (et cetera, et cetera, cutting stuff out because this is a
long ceremony) and eventually you get all your supper supplies, except
now it turns out there aren't enough check-out lanes open even though
it's the end-of-the-day rush. So the checkout line is incredibly long, which
is stupid and infuriating. But you can't take your frustration out on the
frantic lady working the register, who is overworked at a job whose daily
tedium and meaninglessness surpasses the imagination of any of us here at
a prestigious college.
But anyway, you finally get to the checkout line's front, and you pay for
your food, and you get told to "Have a nice day" in a voice that is the
absolute voice of death. Then you have to take your creepy, flimsy, plastic
bags of groceries in your cart with the one crazy wheel that pulls
maddeningly to the left, all the way out through the crowded, bumpy,
littery parking lot, and then you have to drive all the way home through
slow, heavy, SUV-intensive, rush-hour traffic, et cetera et cetera.
Everyone here has done this, of course. But it hasn't yet been part of you
graduates' actual life routine, day after week after month after year.
But it will be. And many more dreary, annoying, seemingly meaningless
routines besides. But that is not the point. The point is that petty,
frustrating crap like this is exactly where the work of choosing is gonna
come in. Because the traffic jams and crowded aisles and long checkout
lines give me time to think, and if I don't make a conscious decision about
how to think and what to pay attention to, I'm gonna be pissed and
miserable every time I have to shop. Because my natural default setting is
the certainty that situations like this are really all about me. About MY
hungriness and MY fatigue and MY desire to just get home, and it's going
to seem for all the world like everybody else is just in my way. And who
are all these people in my way? And look at how repulsive most of them
are, and how stupid and cow-like and dead-eyed and nonhuman they
seem in the checkout line, or at how annoying and rude it is that people
are talking loudly on cell phones in the middle of the line. And look at
how deeply and personally unfair this is.
If I choose to think this way in a store and on the freeway, fine. Lots of us
do. Except thinking this way tends to be so easy and automatic that it
doesn't have to be a choice. It is my natural default setting. It's the
automatic way that I experience the boring, frustrating, crowded parts of
adult life when I'm operating on the automatic, unconscious belief that I
am the center of the world, and that my immediate needs and feelings are
what should determine the world's priorities.
The thing is that, of course, there are totally different ways to think about
these kinds of situations. In this traffic, all these vehicles stopped and
idling in my way, it's not impossible that some of these people in SUV's
have been in horrible auto accidents in the past, and now find driving so
terrifying that their therapist has all but ordered them to get a huge, heavy
SUV so they can feel safe enough to drive. Or that the Hummer that just
cut me off is maybe being driven by a father whose little child is hurt or
sick in the seat next to him, and he's trying to get this kid to the hospital,
and he's in a bigger, more legitimate hurry than I am: it is actually I who
am in HIS way.
Again, please don't think that I'm giving you moral advice, or that I'm
saying you are supposed to think this way, or that anyone expects you to
just automatically do it. Because it's hard. It takes will and effort, and if
you are like me, some days you won't be able to do it, or you just flat out
won't want to.
But most days, if you're aware enough to give yourself a choice, you can
choose to look differently at this fat, dead-eyed, over-made-up lady who
just screamed at her kid in the checkout line. Maybe she's not usually like
this. Maybe she's been up three straight nights holding the hand of a
husband who is dying of bone cancer. Or maybe this very lady is the low-
wage clerk at the motor vehicle department, who just yesterday helped
your spouse resolve a horrific, infuriating, red-tape problem through some
small act of bureaucratic kindness. Of course, none of this is likely, but it's
also not impossible. It just depends what you what to consider. If you're
automatically sure that you know what reality is, and you are operating on
your default setting, then you, like me, probably won't consider
possibilities that aren't annoying and miserable. But if you really learn how
to pay attention, then you will know there are other options. It will
actually be within your power to experience a crowded, hot, slow,
consumer-hell type situation as not only meaningful, but sacred, on fire
with the same force that made the stars: love, fellowship, the mystical
oneness of all things deep down.
Not that that mystical stuff is necessarily true. The only thing that's
capital-T True is that you get to decide how you're gonna try to see it.
This, I submit, is the freedom of a real education, of learning how to be
well-adjusted. You get to consciously decide what has meaning and what
doesn't. You get to decide what to worship.
Because here's something else that's weird but true: in the day-to day
trenches of adult life, there is actually no such thing as atheism. There is
no such thing as not worshipping. Everybody worships. The only choice
we get is what to worship. And the compelling reason for maybe choosing
some sort of god or spiritual-type thing to worship -- be it JC or Allah, be
it YHWH or the Wiccan Mother Goddess, or the Four Noble Truths, or
some inviolable set of ethical principles -- is that pretty much anything
else you worship will eat you alive. If you worship money and things, if
they are where you tap real meaning in life, then you will never have
enough, never feel you have enough. It's the truth. Worship your body
and beauty and sexual allure and you will always feel ugly. And when time
and age start showing, you will die a million deaths before they finally
grieve you. On one level, we all know this stuff already. It's been codified
as myths, proverbs, clichés, epigrams, parables; the skeleton of every great
story. The whole trick is keeping the truth up front in daily consciousness.
Worship power, you will end up feeling weak and afraid, and you will
need ever more power over others to numb you to your own fear.
Worship your intellect, being seen as smart, you will end up feeling stupid,
a fraud, always on the verge of being found out. But the insidious thing
about these forms of worship is not that they're evil or sinful, it's that
they're unconscious. They are default settings.
They're the kind of worship you just gradually slip into, day after day,
getting more and more selective about what you see and how you measure
value without ever being fully aware that that's what you're doing.
And the so-called real world will not discourage you from operating on
your default settings, because the so-called real world of men and money
and power hums merrily along in a pool of fear and anger and frustration
and craving and worship of self. Our own present culture has harnessed
these forces in ways that have yielded extraordinary wealth and comfort
and personal freedom. The freedom all to be lords of our tiny skull-sized
kingdoms, alone at the center of all creation. This kind of freedom has
much to recommend it. But of course there are all different kinds of
freedom, and the kind that is most precious you will not hear much talk
about much in the great outside world of wanting and achieving and
[unintelligible -- sounds like "displayal"]. The really important kind of
freedom involves attention and awareness and discipline, and being able
truly to care about other people and to sacrifice for them over and over in
myriad petty, unsexy ways every day.
I know that this stuff probably doesn't sound fun and breezy or grandly
inspirational the way a commencement speech is supposed to sound.
What it is, as far as I can see, is the capital-T Truth, with a whole lot of
rhetorical niceties stripped away. You are, of course, free to think of it
whatever you wish. But please don't just dismiss it as just some finger-
wagging Dr. Laura sermon. None of this stuff is really about morality or
religion or dogma or big fancy questions of life after death.
It is about the real value of a real education, which has almost nothing to
do with knowledge, and everything to do with simple awareness;
awareness of what is so real and essential, so hidden in plain sight all
around us, all the time, that we have to keep reminding ourselves over and
over:
"This is water."
"This is water."
It is unimaginably hard to do this, to stay conscious and alive in the adult
world day in and day out. Which means yet another grand cliché turns out
to be true: your education really IS the job of a lifetime. And it
commences: now.