Your ​One Shot​​ at Getting Back with your

Ex

If you had something beautiful going with

…your ex

And you know you could be great together

…
Then it’s worth taking ​one more shot​ at
rekindling the romance with him. Because
an emotional connection like that doesn’t
.happen every day. It’s worth fighting for

If you want to skip ahead to see what

some people are calling the “one last shot
formula,” crafted by relationship expert,
James Bauer, then ​click here​. Otherwise,
.hang tight and I’ll explain how this works

Pause for just a minute to answer this

question. What’s the one obstacle to
getting back together with your ex?
?What’s the one thing getting in the way
If you’re like most women James has
consulted with, your answer would go
something like this: “The biggest obstacle
”.is getting past his emotional walls

You see, the problem isn’t making him

love you again. Your history together
proves there’s already enough chemistry.
.Nope. That’s not the problem

Here’s the real problem. He won’t

consider it in the first place. He closed his
mind to the possibility. And in many
.cases, he won’t even contact you
I guess what it boils down to is this. He
has already decided not to give you a
.chance

That’s the barrier. That’s the emotional

.wall you’re up against

But what if I told you it’s not so much of a

wall as it is the​ illusion​ of a wall? What if
it’s a barrier you can move past whenever
?you want once you know the secret

?That would change things, wouldn’t it

Earlier, we said the biggest problem is
that he’s already decided not to give you a
”.chance. The key word there is “decided

But here’s the weird thing about the way

humans make decisions. We don’t start
with a decision. Decisions are just the ​end
.result

Decisions are just the output of a different

kind of mental calculation. Decisions
.come ​aftert​ he equals sign

That’s why you can almost never change

someone’s mind by going after the
.decision directly
Think back to the last time you saw a
person trying to change someone else’s
mind. If they focused on attacking the
decision itself, they almost certainly failed
.to change the other person’s mind

Now let me show you the solution to that

.problem

Decisions can change in the blink of an

eye. They are not static. They are
dynamic, changing continuously as new
input updates his mental simulation of the
.future
Scientists have recently discovered
something interesting about us humans.
When relaxed, our minds drift to the
future. We sometimes contemplate the
past. We sometimes focus on the present.
But 80% of the time our mind is imagining
.the future

Predicting the future is something we do

on autopilot. And that’s where you’ll find
an opening to take one last shot at
rekindling the romance with the guy who
.has shut you out
We make complex mental simulations of
the future. And we do it almost
.continuously

If you’re not consciously focusing on

something, there’s a good chance your
mind is picturing your future to predict
which paths will lead you to happiness
.and fulfillment

Here’s why this is good news for getting

your ex back. You can change what a guy
feels when he pictures you in his life again
.
James Bauer calls it the movie trailer
.method

Basically, it’s a step-by-step set of

instructions for tinkering with the “movie
trailer” that plays in his head anytime he
sees your name pop up on his phone, or
your picture in his Facebook feed, or your
.car in the parking lot

If you start small, you can change the

dominant emotions he associates with
you. You can become someone he
.imagines himself with

In his imagination, he’s no longer

resolving old arguments with you, but
exploring a whole new relationship with
.you instead

?So how do you do it

How do you tinker with the movie trailer

playing in someone else’s head? That’s
the topic James explores in detail, starting
with the very first text message, and
ending with advanced techniques. But for
the purposes of this article, we’ll zero in
.on just one cool idea

...Ready? Okay, here it is

Taking your one last shot comes down to

.choosing the right target

Don’t set your sights on fixing the

relationship, or changing his mind, or
”.“giving things another try

Instead, notice the opportunities to

change the primary ​emotions​​ that color
his imagination whenever he thinks of you
.
You’d be amazed at the difference this
can make it. Because the truth is,
.emotions run the show

The biggest mistake people make is

spending their energy on things that
reawaken his reasons for pulling away.
Little reminders of things that went wrong
.when you were together

.Don’t make that mistake

Instead, put every ounce of your attention

on just one thing. The primary emotion he
feels each time gets a text message from
you, sees you on the street, or hears your
.voice on the phone

Because if you can change the emotions

he associates with you, the mental
pictures playing in his head will start to
.change all on their own

Do that, and you will amaze yourself.

You’ll move mountains. His little emotional
.walls won’t stand a chance

P.S. Another thing about human nature is

that we’re better at following through when
.we have a step-by-step guide
If you’d like to get your hands on a
step-by-step method for changing the way
your ex feels about you, ​click here to see
.the full explanation​ from James

The secret is to learn how to trigger

.his feelings
You see... feelings will always trump
.logic. Every time

?Why

Because emotions run the show for

.us

We humans are not as rational as

.we’d like to believe

That’s true of all forms of

decision-making, but especially
when it comes to matters of the
.heart

I’ll show you what I mean. Let’s try

.something

Take a quick look at this list of

:don’ts
:Don’t Do This
Don’t argue that he owes you an ●
explanation since you know he
.still has feelings for you
Don’t tell him the relationship was ●
going just fine and then try to get
him to own his share of the blame
.for why things began to fall apart
Don’t imply he owes you ●
something after all you’ve been
.through together
Don’t tell him real relationships ●
take work and he needs to grow
.up
Don’t try to prove you shared ●
something special by forcing him
to acknowledge specific examples
.from your past
.Notice how you felt as you read that
It’s probably clear that all that
telling, convincing, and arguing will
.get you nowhere

In fact, it will simply reinforce the

painful emotions that are driving him
.away from you in the first place

?Why

Because his brain will automatically

.come up with counter-arguments

For example, if you tell him things

were great in the past, he will
immediately test if that’s truth by
scanning his memories for
.contradictory evidence
He’ll start thinking of all the fights,
the frustrations, and other low points
.

He’ll mention those problems. And

this will reinforce your efforts to
.convince

You’ll end up showing him your

.worst side

.Angry

.Desperate

And if that goes on too long, you’ll

become bitter, resentful, and maybe
.even sarcastic

.It’s a death spiral any relationship

.You know it’s true

This is how we all react when

something matters to us deeply but
the other person refuses to be
.convinced

This is not what I want for you to

.show him

.Don’t try to convince

Instead, let HIS emotions do the

.work for you

When you trigger certain powerful

emotions within him, you will draw
.him irresistibly back into your arms

The kind of emotions I’m talking

about will make him dream of a
future together and dread the
.thought of losing you

These are the kind of deep emotions

that lifelong partnerships are built
.upon

There are many ways to trigger

these kinds of emotions in your man,
and it’s not always easy to know
.exactly what to do

If you’d like laser targeted advice

about getting your ex, or distant
man back into your life for good,
then my friend and relationship
expert James Bauer has an
.eye-opening presentation for you

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