Energy EFT Tips by Silvia Hartmann
Energy EFT Tips by Silvia Hartmann
Energy EFT Tips by Silvia Hartmann
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Introduction
Dear Readers,
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I would also encourage you when you tap to really become aware of the touch
of your fingertips on your skin/body/hands and to tap VERY lightly yet to make
each and every contact count. Like you're closing an electric circuit each time.
I've found that with people who have done EFT for a long time and started out
not really from the energy standpoint, they often tap way too hard and too
mechanical. The energy system is exquisite and fragile, like fine antique lace,
and there's a sweet spot where you are really touching it which is magical.
Good to experiment with!
I totally believe that EFT has to be learned from the inside out, not "read
about" once we know what all of this feels like, we are in a position to have a
real personal wisdom of hindsight and we can help people then from a much
better position.
Not being the big guru healer but actually a kind of person who is *better* than
that, more than that, what I call "a real human being" instead, that's a part of
the paradigm shift we're experiencing here. It's like a key that unlocks this
other way of being, of being there with the client and partaking in their joy in a
whole new way. It's such a gift in my opinion, such a release and relief as
well!
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Stress is THE top toxin in the home. Stress is the No. 1 reason for everything
from bad sex to bad money management, bad parenting, bad housekeeping,
making bad decisions on nutrition, the whole 9 yards. It is truly incredible how
much more *intelligent* people become when they're not so stressed. And
how much this improves even further as it goes up the SUE scale. Until at +10
*everybody* talks like Krishnamurti!
Now we need to focus on evolving them MORE really getting that positive
energy flow which needs to think differently once you're past zero, away from
what you don't want and into what you do want instead. From the problem to
the solution. Like, if the problem is frustration, once you're past zero, what do
you want? Patience +3, Unlimited patience +5, The patience of a saint!!! +8 I
am a saint! +10 kind of thing. It's excellent fun once you get the hang of it and
really encourages one to get out of the doldrums and into the good stuff asap
(rather than focusing so much on what's wrong and endlessly digging around
in trauma as used to be the case for much counselling in the past).
Getting a better nights sleep by tapping at night and before going to bed has
such an impact on the next day, and how is this going to affect a person
cumulatively over say 365 days? In mind, body and spirit? Which then also
raises the question is our current +10 the best a (hu)man can get, or does that
also improve, expand as we're starting to come from a much better base line?
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Which is where praising the client all the time and being really gentle, like you
would be with a little child, is of the essence. Even if the person in question is
65, has won Nobel Prizes and earns millions more than you do.
I have to restress (!) that when you tap just for "stress" (no tuning in on some
particular part of the problem or thinking about the problem, just general
stress, which allows your energy mind to direct the effects of EFT where it is
NEEDED THE MOST) with your client, you will get more clarity on what the
problem is when we come to it.
We are working with energy and different rules apply to what we've come to
"know" in the hard. Hard injuries heal sequentially, slowly, unnoticeably and
over a long period of time; energy injuries are essentially either healed, or not
healed and there's this definite moment where the problem literally disappears
in an instance.
That's the awesome thing about working energy and that's why I love it so
much. I don't have much patience LOL
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Keep asking, what else can I see? hear? feel? sense? scent? taste? to keep
sharpening the energist's version of sensory acuity.
When you are interrupted (also with a client) or you are running out of time,
you need to tap a round for a positive, energizing statement to put the energy
system back together into functional mode. Like when you're started taking
your car engine apart in order to fix it, you can't drive away in the middle of it.
You need to at least reconnect the battery and the main cables to get it going
again.
So the next time this happens, think of a positive energy form we can evoke,
such as "sunshine" or just "energy" to make sure you're safe to operate heavy
machinery, as it were.
The important thing is to understand that people's lives are NOT and NEVER
shaped by trauma alone. You could also say that if you hadn't loved your
father, the funeral wouldn't have been such a trauma. But what survives in the
end is the love not the trauma. To really understand any problem you have to
understand trauma and Guiding Stars in context of one another.
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I showed him how to tap and he said, "OMG this is nothing like I was told,
that's like the difference of being hit in the head with a brick and being
touched by an angel!"
As an EFT practitioner, you are an energy healer, and soon enough a client
comes through the door whose own energy system is so disrupted and spikey
that their own tapping does no good at all and one has to step in to either
show them (touch them) how it's done or actually do the tapping for them. I do
also see this as a step towards real hands on healing, but that's another story
:)
There is a time and place for it; it's not for every client, to be sure; but for
those moments, when they come, it's magic.
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It is really important for EFT treatments that the practitioner "believes in"
healing events; that they hold the intention for each client to get their healing
events as quickly and as gently/lovingly as humanely possible.
It's that intention towards the healing event that drives the session and sets
the goal in the right direction.
It's quite an interesting thing to start thinking at the beginning of the session of
the kind of opposite "remedy" you need for this problem to be healed.
Ugliness is healed by beauty; hate is healed by love, weakness is healed by
power and so on and so forth.
It's like you're sensing for the healing event before it comes and searching for
the direction you need to take the client in to get them there.
All the echoes are connected, to each other and also to the genesis event
even if you don't know what that is. Which is great news as echoes are
everywhere and really easy to work with.
It's so much easier to proxy tap EFT for an aspect of a wife than a whole wife,
as they are rather a lot :)
The healing event changes the practitioner who is in rapport with someone
who has one. That's our "spiritual reward" for being proper energists :)
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"Feeling neutral" is not enough. More rounds of EFT are required to get the
energy moving, flowing fast, "Wow ... there's so much power in those storms
... they're so awesome ... I feel so alive just connecting with that amazing
power ..."
Really push past that Zero point now with everyone, yourself, your practice
partners, your paying clients now, that's where the fun really begins!
People have *natural* instincts on what's right and wrong, and when people
tell you the same thing over and over, the scientists *really* should start
listening, paying attention and at least trying to figure out what's going on,
rather than dismissing people's real life experiences as "anecdotal" now that's
arrogance for you!
All the events echoes are linked to the genesis event, and you can get into the
whole system through every single one of the echoes, each one is a doorway
into the problem system.
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When you become the EFTeam, you become like a single system for that
time, and so whatever the client feels, you feel, too. As you feel it, it *is*
YOUR feeling, your experience, and it directly adds to your own life
experiences. If you let it.
I certainly know that to directly experience high energy healing events in the
EFTeam evolves the practitioners own energy system in ways that are
impossible to do in any other way.
The more profound the healing event for the client, the more profoundly it
evolves the practitioner. There's no job quite like it on Earth :)
I hear that dreaded word "peace" and I shudder! Whenever you hear those,
"neutral," "peace," "I feel nothing," "I'm ok with that," that's when you cry,
"ALRIGHT! We have reached the turning point! Now let's find out what would
completely heal this thing, right now? What is it going to be? Love? What do
you need, what do you want, what do you yearn for with all your heart and
soul???"
Get them jumping for joy, really push it on now, don't hold back on it, go for
those kick arse healing events that change the world for the client!
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As an EFT practitioner, if you feel you want a further destressing round, make
the client do a destressing round. This is your area of expertise; it is your
responsibility to keep the client safe, and you get to say how this is done,
especially at the start and whilst the client is still stressed and stroppy!
We need to be taking charge of the client at the beginning, that's when the
EFTeam is at 90% your responsibility, 10% the client's. Later on when the
client calms down and gets into the swing of it, and rapport improves, we can
aim for that 50/50 which is the perfect EFTeam.
You can't see yourself, you love yourself and you can't be too hard on yourself
only on your aspects. Sort out your relationship with your aspects and that's
the end of even talking about "self esteem" ever again!
The more stress, the less we remember in a direct cause and effect, right up
to the so called "repression" when stress is so high nothing of the memory
remains to be accessible.
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When you tap on just "stress" your mind/body/spirit can choose what it needs
to take out first of all and that's always safe and perfect.
When you tap on "stress about x" you're ONLY working on x and x might not
be your greatest stressor. Most likely it isn't. That's why we only tap on stress
alone.
Do keep an eye on your stress levels; try and find a word that makes sense to
you, that you find empowering (such as peace, dominion, happiness, joy,
love, luck, support, tranquility, wisdom, light, sunshine etc) and tap just that
when you start feeling very stressed, also at least three times a day, morning,
noon and night, just to keep your energy system flowing and feeling better.
One other thing I often recommend is the Heart Healing meditation. That's
very stabilising and you can download it for free from www.DragonRising.com
It's excellent for stabilising the frazzled energy system especially after
something that might have caused "heart break." In severe cases, I
recommend to do this 3 x a day for 9 days to put the energy system back
together.
I do think what appears as "complex" problems only appear that way because
of stress. Most if not all problems seem very simple. When you think about it
structurally. When you start thinking in psychotherapy terms, then of course,
all is lost LOL
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It is important to understand that you are not wasting time by building rapport
and destressing, but are in fact saving yourself lots of rounds later on, plus
you don't get the client saying it was too fast.
A person at a true 10 for stress on the SUE scale is in a hospital bed, being
fed through a drip. You will not get to meet such clients unless you become a
hands on healer and the relatives call you in, so not to worry. Indeed, it is
highly unlikely you will ever get a person over 7 because they will be in
institutions because of the severity of their problems.
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Direct sensory input is the most direct route to being aware of what is
happening with a person and the more attention we pay, the finer distinctions
we start to be able to make. This means practically to stop and ask yourself,
"What can I see? What can I hear? What can I scent? What can I taste? What
can I feel? And how does all of that make me feel inside?"
All of that falls into place when you have decided on a speciality. That could
be anything at all, from business to helping bullied children regain their self
confidence; from kids with dyslexia to people who suffer from AIDs, from
business stress to helping performers unlock their X factor and quelling their
stage nerves, from holistic weight loss from the inside out to working with
people in a hospice.
Just pick something YOU would LOVE to work with, make it your own, make it
known you're the expert on it and you really will make progress with
everything, and have a clear direction what to put on your website and what to
put in your brochures and what to say in your advertisements.
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I believe that working with the EFTeam and the SUE scale unlocks the
potential of other EFT practitioners hiring each other to do work with each
other. I believe once the EFT community has gotten their mind, body and
spirit around the concept of the EFTeam properly and profoundly, more
people will take that leap and take THEIR big problems to an EFTeam for
solution, rather than sitting at home and as you said, "never being tapped on
by someone else."
I think that the EFTeam takes the shame out of being the client. We all have
our reversals and anyone who says they don't is either deluded or just a liar.
When it becomes logical to get that second person involved, I think we have
an evolution way beyond the shameful therapy of old which was reserved for
the helpless and irretrievably broken, into a new place where sorting out your
reversals is the right thing for a smart person to be doing!
Luckily, we don't have to allow, accept or release in EFT. We just tap. Which
is why it is so popular just state the problem and tap on it. Non of that old "you
have to learn to forgive" etc etc etc stuff necessary; the process itself takes
care of all of that.
Keep practising with the SUE scale by during the day, taking a moment to
assess your energy levels and to become more practised at judging where
you're at. A 10 is a serious business, a real abreaction and likewise, a +10 is
a high enlightenment experience so one of the things we need to do is to
develop sensitivity for the runs between 5 and +5 where most ordinary human
activity takes place.
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Using aspects puts us and our clients in control of our past, present and
future. Simple as.
One of the big differences with energy work is that we have to engage on a
personal level with it, learn it from the inside out, rather than from the outside
in. The more we understand our own energy bodies and our own responses
and reactions, the more "wise" we become in the ways of energy work and
the better we can help other people.
Clients feel loved when there is attention and energy flow from the
practitioner. That's not EFT, that's the practitioner DOING IT RIGHT and
giving of themselves, adding their energy to the process freely and
profoundly. EFT gives a platform where this can happen; but we have to step
up and take the opportunity to not just give energy to the client, but be willing
to receive it too so it's an exchange where both are quite literally empowered.
Like in, plugging in a battery empowered.
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Oh and remember to switch on your healing hands (fingers!) before you start
to tap :)
To replace the idea that a person is "crazy" or "insane" with "actually, you're
just extremely highly stressed, my friend!" can be a veritable life saver to
clients in and of itself, without even addressing any of their problems at all.
Now you have healing hands of energy you can do lots of things with them.
Blessing food, touching with a healing intention, all sorts :)
It's time now to push on always to the +10. There is a way of thinking towards
these +10s, it's an energy movement in its own right, to reach up and higher
than was previously expected, to allow for that surprise, to find that set up that
will create the starburst threshold shift for yourself or the client. Whatever that
is, it becomes the perfect "affirmation" or more correctly, energy evocation to
use in moments of need or stress. One of mine is "sunrise" ...
The way we do energy work puts everything back together and everything
makes sense again the way a person feels, the words they chose to speak,
the gestures that accompany this, it all fits together and it all makes sense.
That's something I find very wonderful; it gives one a totally different baseline
how to react ... to anything really. Healing the reality of the human experience
... :)
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Specificity is the key and really sets off modern energy work from the old hit
and miss woowoo stuff!
The more stressed you are, the faster time goes and conversely, the less
stressed you are, the longer time lasts. Which is why kids feel that Christmas
will be in a million years, and old people think it's coming every other day.
Stress accumulation over a lifetime.
Whenever you are "short on time" destress and reenergize. At +10, time near
enough stands still! Funny, that's like light speed ... :)
Dealing with the energy body memories is a new way of dealing with "old"
problems and can be very useful for people across the board to get a different
"perspective" on what happened to them in the past.
I recommend a little Energy EFT session before going to bed at night on "all of
my stress, I let you go ... soften and flow ..." which tends to give a better
night's sleep, which gives you a better morning, a better day ... it's an upward
lifting spiral.
We can't "heal" anyone. I don't even know what that's supposed to mean.
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If we go at it from that perspective, from that desire, "I WANT TO HELP YOU,"
and really feel that rising up inside of us, then we are in the place where we
say,
Many things we "think" are healed still exist in the energy body as problems
and blockages; it is there that the real healing has to happen. Then we don't
"think" we are healed, we *know* it because we have *felt* it.
Don't stop at +7. Take a moment to consider what you need to go for +10.
That is very much the icing on the energy EFT cake and cake without icing
just isn't the same.
It only takes a few more moments to bring in some kind of positive energy to
create something truly fantastic, it's well worth doing.
You explain the EFTeam *concept* then agree with the client on how to
phrase that for this one EFTeam right here and now. Some people think it's
corny, some people totally love it; use the word because it really explains that
you're two equals, working together when you explain the concept and then
let both of you choose something.
BTW, don't just let the client choose. If YOU are uncomfortable with the word,
say some new age momma wants to do "soul mates" LOL it is your right and
duty as an EQUAL part of the EFTeam to make this known and keep
discussing it until an acceptable solution has been reached.
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The EFTeam has tremendous power. With experience, you learn to really
raise that power when you are in the team, like a team of horses, one starts to
pick up the pace, the other will have to follow. With a bit of practice, you can
create really amazing EFTeams with most people which are seriously more
than the sum of their parts. No matter how high the individual part may count
alone already.
When you've been struggling with a problem (or a client's problem) for a long
time and it's not happening, you can try the old BSFF set up "I want to treat
the deepest root of this problem." Set up "Deepest root"
That's a nice sentence; I could see many uses of it in working with Energy
EFT.
With Energy EFT, you have a much better repeat rate with clients than classic
EFT, simply because it feels so good and is clearly so effective to raise a
person's energy, inspires them, gives them hope. This happened with classic
EFT too but with energy EFT you can get it most of the time and reliably. In
the context of "I'd like to teach the world to tap" that's very important.
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Energy EFT is a fast track to "client avidity." That's I term I had to invent
because psychology only had "client resistance" up to that moment! Client
avidity is when the client WANTS TO DO MORE and is really excited about
changing.
Being an equal partner in the EFTeam is great. But don't now go all door mat
on the clients, you are an EQUAL partner and what you
feel/want/think/observe is of EQUAL value and should be heard, absolutely.
Any cancer person is totally terrified. Totally. Terrified. ALL THE TIME. It's a
given. They have to "repress" that in order to keep going thru the days.
Tapping on "stress" is a good thing which keeps their safe guards untouched
and eventually gets them ready to address more of their deep feelings when
they're ready.
There is an advanced form of energy EFT whereby one learns to calculate the
inverse energy form which will essentially heal the injury by tapping straight
on the positive energy form. However, it does take a bit of practise doing the
standard way from bad to good up the SUE scale via Zero to know how that
works and how to do it. I thought I'll mention it as that's a feature of modern
energy work the original water phobia lady got her healing event after one tap
under the eye!
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That sort of powerful, instant healing event is what we seek and always want;
and we really want to keep the door open to that, have our intention towards
that. Doing the slow, gradual move up the SUE scale is a kind of back up plan
in case the fabulous healing event doesn't happen right away; it is easy and
gives people confidence to work with EFT, but at the heart of it really is that
miraculous instant healing with a single touch.
Working with the SUE scale and incrementally improving energy flow is a fail
safe for when the miracle doesn't happen right away :) but that doesn't mean
we don't want it, always, with every client including ourselves and as quickly
as possible. Yay to miracles :)
I really feel as an energist we have to walk our talk and keep our energy
levels under control. At least as well as our blood sugar levels :)
Emotional Freedom in three steps: the first step is to NOTICE that something
has gone wrong energetically. Without that, nothing else good can happen.
The second step is to DO something about it tap on it. The third step is to not
stop too soon and get into a really GOOD state energetically.
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You could say that the healing event is the cure for the problem. Not in your
advertising, but in your mind to make sense of how it works. There are such
things as "cures" for our ills; especially in the worlds of energy, the energy
body, and energy nutrition. Just because science/current legislation forbids us
to say the word doesn't mean the reality it describes doesn't exist, or should
be sought at all God's speed!
It's interesting about the forbidden word, cure. If we don't believe we can offer
a cure for the client's problems, in the true sense of the word, what does that
do to the intention of all these EFT pracs out there? On the SUE scale,
10false and +10true: "I can cure people." ? Interesting exercise ...
You know, the "time" thing is such a core part of a lot of my work. I think
people in general, all cultures, all societies so far, have had a hard time with
processing "time" correctly. Every time I find a system in disarray, it seems
that adding "time" to the equation resolves it. For example, in Project
Sanctuary it is the "time" factor that stabilises the autogenic habitat and
makes the magic happen "What's the time of day? The time of year?" is what
does the trick. With aspects, timelines, events and echoes, that's all just
adding time into the mix and sorting it properly. Then things become logical,
stable and they work. Time is also experienced differently under stress, the
more stressed you are, the faster it seems until there's no time at all and then
you have some sort of meltdown. In the high +10 states, time is near enough
infinite.
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The trick with the +10 is when you get close to ask, alright, what kind of
energy would now take me all the way? And tap on whatever pops into your
head. From +5 onward you can really start to trust what you're thinking and go
with that, it's gonna work.
The fact is that the more you love your (any) client, the more powerful and
transformative the whole healing experience becomes for the client. It's an
amazing thing.
We always want to tap along with the client, on the same problem, for the
same reason. So much more powerful than to sit behind a clipboard and
watch a distraught client tapping themselves! Much more *humane* too.
There is this moment you find in a good EFT session where the client literally
"lights up" and the problem is gone. That's the healing event having just
happened.
People used to be very confused as to why this would happen sometimes but
not on so many other occasions. By bringing in the SUE scale we've created a
direction, like a road sign, "This way to the healing event! Keep tapping!!!"
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For people who are used to writing papers and case "hi"stories rather than
energist's case *stories* it can be a bit of a challenge, but it's worth practising
because of that additional and invaluable information that is being transmitted
there.
An EFT student wrote and said, "My ex wife was called SUE can you change
the name of your scale please?"
Studies in hypnotherapy have shown that the clients can only manifest the
hypnotic phenomena the hypnotist believes exist.
What the EFT practitioner believes will likewise affect directly what the clients
can manifest. Raising the ceiling on the expected outcome in many cases
unblocks the entire treatment flow of EFT so it works differently in the session
with a client.
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The "You don't have to solve it, only evolve it!" rule is designed to be a
counter agent to the belief in the EFT field that "one session has to solve it all
and create an EFT miracle in under 55 minutes, every time." It places
unrealistic burdens on the EFT practitioner, causes additional stress, and also
can cause unrealistic expectations in the client. All of that gets in the way of
excellent and effective EFT treatments.
The idea with the evolution is that if you keep moving the client towards the
positive end of the SUE scale and you make progress, you're doing well and
eventually, the healing MUST happen if you improve energy flow enough. And
it's ok if that doesn't happen in a single session.
There's a clear [one problem one emotion] rule in play in EFT treatments. If
you get two, three, four, five, six different emotions firing off like a chain
reaction of explosives or mines triggered one after the other, you're dealing
correspondingly with the exact number of problems, and those are the exact
number of energy blockages.
Like with the story protocol, if you start right at the beginning, you might not
need to tap on every single one all the way through to a healing event; there's
often a chain reaction involved and if the first bomb doesn't go off, all the
others in the chain won't, either.
If you had a successful self help treatment which finished at a +8, you might
like to revisit this and get to where you finished last time, and then consider
what energy might be needed to get to a +10.
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The second purpose of this exercise is to expand your range and expectation.
This is good for you as a person to experience, but even more important as a
practitioner, to give you the confidence to push clients that last step, to do that
all important "one more round" with a high energy form such as love, Jesus,
endless healing power, euphoria :) or whatever the person feels instinctively
will lift them the rest of the way all the way to the +10.
The thing is that when a person is already at a +8 (or +7 upwards) they are
already thinking at a high level and are in a really good place to feel and know
exactly what they need to go all the way.
Although normally EFT sessions start out with tapping on negatives first and
working the way up the SUE scale towards the positives, it is not strictly
necessary. There are cases where you can cut out the negative side
altogether and ask the person right away, "What kind of energy would help
you now overcome this problem?" Tap and on the positive and boom, you get
a healing event. This can also be very useful to start a therapeutic relationship
that you already know will go well beyond a single session; teaching EFT,
getting to know the client and tapping on positives can be a good start before
getting back together and delving into major trauma.
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If you think about it, the aim is always high positive energy flow and it is really
immaterial how we go about achieving this. Thinking like this opens the door
to being very flexible and finding extraordinary solutions in the moment, in
direct response to what the client needs.
A real heartfelt desire and focus of attention on the +10 counts for a lot in
energy work. With that direction in place, our mind/body/spirit can get to work
and surprise us with what we can do to move the client and help them evolve.
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For example, I had a client recently who thought his problem was stuttering. It
wasn't. It was stress. EVERYBODY STUTTERS when they get THAT
stressed. Even I would! He was so amazed by that but it was true. His
stuttering got less and less the higher up the SUE scale he went, and from 3
onwards, wasn't there any longer. So now instead of trying to find a cure for
stuttering, which he had tried to find for 56 YEARS (!!!!) he's finally going to try
and find cures for his stress instead. Let's hope his heart holds out long
enough for him to experience this whole new life.
Always remember "friends and relatives" are 1,000% more difficult than any
paying client could ever be and thus give yourself extra credit when working
with such personages. Anything past having a metaphorical bucket of water
tipped over your head may be considered a triumph. LOL.
A tip with the "I feel NOTHING!" brigade. When they are tapping, direct them
onto the physical sensations of the touch. Ask them how far they can feel the
sensation spreading out from the area they are tapping on. Really encourage
them to pay attention. For example, when you tap under your eye, can you
feel how that spreads out into your cheek? (That is also the answer to the
question of "But what if I don't hit the points exactly right ...)
The more you can direct people onto the physical sensations of the tapping,
the less likely it is that they're going off in their heads into god knows what
else and literally, losing the plot.
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I would say that unless you factor the 6th sense information into any
(situation, memory) you cannot come to logical conclusions because you are
working with a faulty data set that is missing 16.6~ % of the data you need.
It is also worth noting that that ~17% of missing data is the exact part of the
data overall that is "the problem" and so it counts for much more than just
~17% we are dealing with emotional problems in the first place!
To me, this explains perfectly why psychology has been so useless up to now.
The data set that would have saved them and connected the dots is the data
set they *deliberately avoided* to engage with or investigate!
Remember that when clients bring these seemingly super complicated things
to you, if you can cut through all of that talk and get to the "emotion behind the
scenes" you can treat them powerfully, quickly, and nobody needs get a
headache in the process.
I don't know how your chairs are set up but go for a 90% angle so you're not
directly opposite the client. Actually sitting next to them can be good; it gets
you behind their major shields and gives the feeling you are on their side. Plus
you're not sitting bang in the middle of their energy field/internal
representations and that is always a good thing!
The ability to "be present" is of course directly linked to your energy levels.
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On the advertising front, you can play the game where you look at one of your
current advertisements and say, on a scale of 10 to +10, how exciting/inviting
is this advertisement? And then wonder what can be done to move it along :)
What did you feel? Reporting on 6th sense sensations accurately is really
important in modern energy work. We got this far by taking many, many
people's experiences and creating a Venn diagram where it's the same. In
order to do that though, experiences must be reported. Including when it
doesn't work, when nothing shifted or when no sense of being in rapport
developed for the practitioner.
Also, and this is a pretty big difference to "common" perceptions, beliefs and
filters, if the energy movement is strong enough, one should burst out into
tears and not try and hold the expression of the energy movement back. This
is super important to put back a causeandeffect relationship between state,
thought, language, perception, behaviour and energy movements. Like, if it's
funny, don't hold it in, laugh. If it's hideous, scream. If it's terribly sad, then cry.
This changes the timeline if you will and totally different unfoldments come
into being. If you don't want to cry, then you need to handle the energy
movements themselves in a different way rather than just ignoring them yet
again; and that is a skill that can't be learned unless the energy movement is
allowed to happen in the first place.
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There are so many people who think they've "dealt" with stuff but when you
look at the energy body, they've just learned to "live with it" which is a totally
different thing. That's a legacy from the old talking therapy which particularly
saddens me.
Make your clients feel really, really good and they'll come back to do some
more "work" with you. The key to a successful, thriving EFT practice.
If you have a client who has a "2 week ordeal with multiple traumas in
hospital" (or five years of torture, 19 years in the army, a marriage of 45 years,
an entire childhood of suffering etc. & et al) what you can do is to ask them for
ONE particular memory (story!) that stands out and really signifies the whole
thing, that is a perfect example of the suffering in a nutshell.
The term we use for this in Project Sanctuary is "the one who stands for them
all."
You can also use this for other topics which seem to be too vast to start
tapping. like a woman who dates the same kind of guy over and over again,
with loads of trauma in every single relationship. You can ask her to pick the
guy who will be the example, and then from inside that relationship, the one
memory that "stands for them all" and is the problem in a nutshell.
Then you have ONE memory of an occurrence that probably only lasted for a
few minutes, and you can get to work with the EFT story protocol on that. This
will cause a significant evolution and a very powerful (set of) healing event/s.
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It is generally held that the instant healing events are rare and unusual. You
know, we should tap on that. There is no reason why we shouldn't get
amazing healing events quicker and more reliably if we pay attention and tune
right. And beliefs around how difficult it is or how rare it is to get a fast healing
event must certainly influence the outcome in energy work.
An interesting point.
If you have reversals about the +10, make a list and tap through the list, but
remember to take each one of the items to a +10!
Tapping a few rounds for "I love working with rich and powerful people" (key
figures, decision makers, policy controllers!) can be very useful :)
Here's the thing. You need to switch the client into the positives once you're
out of that dead zone around the zero point of nothing. People who are totally
entrained into the old trauma only model of personal development can only
think of their problems, never of the solutions, because they don't think in that
direction. They were trained to believe that salvation lies in the pain states
which is of course, just wrong.
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So a person who says oh I have an X blockage, if you have them past 0, you
can tell them stuff like, you know when you have a blockage in your kitchen
sink, and pour lots of hot water on it, nice clean hot water with detergent, the
blockage dissolves? That's like finding the right positive energy form. Let's
think about this. What would be the antidote to your X? Love? Light? More
power? Jesus? and keep going until they finally crack and say, "Actually, I
think sunshine might do it ..." and you have a positive to tap on.
That's the huge difference between classic EFT (and TFT, and all the EFT
variants on the internet!) and Energy EFT that switch into the positives which
will create the healing event.
A student commented that switching on their healing hands for EFT feels very
different to when they channel universal energy for healing as they were
taught elsewhere. Which reminded me that the thing with the hands of energy
is that they can produce a huge variety of very specific energy forms.
Universal energy is great but very specific energy is faster and can do just
such tremendous things. it's also more personal and just totally interesting to
play around with! And the other thing which I find important is that when you
generate your own energy (rather than being a funnel as it were) that's when
you get to "give the gift which only you would have to give." I do think that's
extra special and there are systems which cry out for that more human
energy.
Energy EFT and tapping on positives, things like the colour tapping and the
heart of gold produce a real opportunity to reintroduce EFT to everyone. This
time though you have a better market, people who already know EFT and the
ones who don't, and a really improved product that is easier to use and makes
people really happy and feel good.
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Think not in terms of "words." Word don't do anything. Try and feel the energy
behind the word. That tells you that "self esteem" is sort of flat and lifeless
(what is that even?) when "confidence" is something you can feel in your body
and thereby makes a good positive energy form to tap on. I hope that makes
sense 6th sense! LOL
All the symptoms of low self esteem that goes down into actual self hatred
and suicide when the stress is high enough are just due to stress. I should
make a "self esteem" chart like the stress chart, it's a topic that comes up so
often. At +10 the word and concept just evaporate. And it has for me at some
point, and ever since then I've been on a crusade to get rid of "self esteem"
and have stress replace that. Because it's so easy to do something about
stress. The other 50 years in therapy!!!
The concept of the EFTeam is really very important and takes care of a lot of
the barriers that normally exist between counsellors and their clients. Some
clients are too subservient and think of the prac as the god in the white coat,
which doesn't work for EFT. Some clients come in with an aggressive stance
because they're scared of the prac "and what they will do to them" ("I'm
getting my head shrunk ..." type of thing). Some clients had bad experiences
with doctors and psychologists and such and just have massive reversals to
the whole counselling/healing scenario. By doing the EFTeam with them we
get to the "two normal people in the same room trying to solve a problem"
which is the optimal state for modern energy work.
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The energy work we do makes you more spiritual AND more grounded
(logical, realistic, practical!) at the same time. I reckon that's a first in human
history!
An interesting tip from an advanced level EFT DL student on a self help set
up:
"2. round EFT – set up: “All of my infinite past and future aspects and me are
EFTeam.” This round EFT meant for me a base of cooperation, a base of new
relation and new attitude to aspects of me."
Fascinating!
You can use EFT to fall in love head over heels! with something you already
"like."
Make a list of your plus ten reversals. Why clients would be better off leaving
your office with an 8,000 dollar diamond instead of a ten thousand dollar
diamond. What's in it for them, or for you. Are you not charging enough to
provide a plus ten? Don't the clients deserve it? What? Not enough time for
one more round of EFT (three minutes)? Fear of what would happen if
someone had a god honest enlightenment experience right in front of you?
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Really check through every possible scenario, make a list and tap it thru. A
plus ten client is the gift that keeps on giving, energetically speaking!
The real trick with the story protocol is to go to town on the VERY FIRST
THING they say. Whatever it is. That tends to unlock the whole thing and
makes all the rounds to come, whatever they are, so much easier, and
sometimes you get a full on healing event ON THE FIRST ROUND. Which is
kinda cool and blows the clients away, totally. :)
Oh and PS do NOT go on if you had a Healing Event in the first ten minutes to
do anything else. Chat for a bit, drink water, go for a walk round a block but
don't try and find another trauma or freel you need to do anything else just
"because the 55 minutes have been paid for." Just let the client enjoy, talk
about their learnings, book another appointment then let them go. Very
important.
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Do watch that "tiredness" at zero. It does feel to the client that they are worn
out and have nothing left to give but that's just an energy state. It can change
in a tenth of a second into jumping around the room full of the joys of spring
and it's worth it having a go to improve a client's energy before they leave the
session, even if it means saying, ok, we'll come back to that later. Now let's
finish with a round just to make you feel good. What makes you feel really
good, really alive? Really happy? And then tap on that. Works like a charm.
And if you want, you can push it on after that to the next round, and what
would make you feel EVEN HAPPIER STILL?
Might not solve the problem they came with but is a real good demonstration
of the power of modern energy work.
In moments of high crisis, just the Heart Healing is very stabilising. Good tip
for clients too.
Just hold it and breathe until you can find yourself starting to come back
online.
In the past, everything was so focused and centred on "the big problem."
That's a stress thing too, under stress, peripheral vision collapses into "tunnel
vision" and we literally lose the plot, the bigger context.
In energy work, we focus on *energy flow* instead. That's our purpose, to get
energy to move and to flow.
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That will then take care of all sorts of problems easily, lightly, and even
playfully at the high end, at the mastery level.
We know many other protocols as well but the basic story protocol is just
useful to be able to do.
As long as there's a story, we can treat it. The content of the story is
immaterial and therefore, we don't need to be afraid treating really "horrible"
stories that used to scare and stress the practitioners so much in the olden
days.
Take it one step at a time, keep the client happy and all will be well.
I so so rarely do energy work sitting down these days. Seems such a ...
restriction on the movements and energy flow, they really have to be in a
wheel chair for me to not tell them to "get up and move ..." :)
Personally, I see the moment when one explains the aspect model to people
as a piece of energy work in its own right. Very generative!
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What can we tap on that makes you feel strong, powerful and alive, right
now?
(My energy mind came back with "Lightning energy" as it doesn't know what
"theoretical" means :) but something like that you thought of can be offered to
the client as a start for them to think of something that would "do it for them."
Unless you really understand that, you can't treat people like abused women,
addicts, collectors, fetishists and serial killers successfully.
Not only that, you can listen to a person's problem story and indentify WHERE
the snafu in their energy system resides because you're no longer just sorting
by trauma, but instead, by ENERGY SYSTEM EVENTS.
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Getting people to pay attention to their 6th sense is a gift for life, way beyond
just the problem they came with.
I really highly recommend to not think in therapy terms with Energy EFT. The
anxiety and whatever may be "behind it" is JUST AN ENERGY BLOCKAGE.
And the words just labels. Just tap on what there is, straight down the line.
That's simple and immensely effective.
Listening (which is really, focusing all six senses on the person who is giving
you a way into their worlds) for the energy *sensations* behind the words is
one of those things that becomes something altogether different over time for
an energist.
This has powerful applications WAY beyond therapy. It's a life skill. We
become human lie detectors for one but there's even more to it than that.
Keep practising and refining that as we go through the course, it's truly
fascinating and transforms the way we "understand" not just other people, but
also ourselves.
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I would offer the idea that a proper energist is like a hair dresser you go and
see them to be fit, on top form, regularly. Not only when it's so bad you've
already got crows nesting on your head!
And train clients to make regular appointments, at least once a month, from
that vantage point.
With Energy EFT, it helps to keep set ups as short as possible; never more
than five words, preferably less and a one word set up is best.
You can start with a long thing like "My energy flows always more and more
freely and stronger in each parts of my energy body" (or the client can) and
then ask, well if you were to sum that up, how do you really want to feel?
Then you get kick ass set ups such as, "Totally alive!" and wow, that makes
such a difference.
I HATE it when people say "Oh we're just all energy ..." as though that was
any level of reality of human experience.
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One really important tip for all energists. Don't charge for your work (that's
priceless) but instead only for your TIME.
Figure out what your time is worth (per hour, per minute) and work with that. It
gives you a perfect handle on being able to not just get paid right and feel
good about it, but also makes the energy work unconditional removes the
performance pressure, and that always leads to much better performance :)
When you contact a client to check back on their progress, do make sure to
ask "How was it different?" so they sort for the differences.
I used to ask clients, "So how have you been?" and would get this litany of
misery which made me feel as though I had failed completely. Yet every time,
on closer inspection, there had been some kind of forward movement and
change, sometimes dramatically so, but the client didn't realise this or
recognise it, or they were just stressed about some general stuff in their life
and started wailing the moment someone would ask anything.
I even had clients who would wail and complain and then it turned out that the
problem they come to see me with wasn't even on their radar any longer. "Oh
that thing about my dead father? Oh I'm so over that, that's the not the
problem, but my boyfriend, oh my God, where do I start ..."
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Not good for the practitioner's confidence, especially for a new practitioner
who hasn't worked this out through painful self treatments every time it
happens.
Specifying the problem they came to see you with up front, such as, "You
came to see me for this bereavement problem which had caused you
insomnia. Since our treatment, how have things been different?" gets you to
the right information and is actually useful, in case anything was missed.
The real trick with energy work is to not dig around in the past but concentrate
on what you're feeling right now, and treat that if it's not to your liking. That
way, you're always treating the right thing.
"Feeling more at peace ..." is a red flag of there not having been a healing
event!
Watch out for clients talking like that. I don't mind, I feel "more peaceful," I
"think" I am over it now ... I'm OK about it now ... It's alright ...
Nope!
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We smile, we say, that's excellent progress, nearly there, and now, let's finish
this. You deserve SPECTACULAR FREEDOM, true emotional freedom (!)
and that is not peace, there's more, how would you really like to feel? What
would make you feel even stronger, even more complete?
Finish off any "tiny bits" that remain and then go for the positives to get a real
+10. That's so cool when that happens, it is what makes it all worthwhile, what
makes Energy EFT so spectacular.
For men: Take a dark conservative business suit with a white shirt and muted
tie without big patterns in silver, dark red or blue; a second standalone nice
shirt which can be worn collar open and also an informal-ish but stylish
sweater.
For women: Take three outfits which range from extremely formal through
semi formal to relaxed. Take along the right make up to match these outfits,
as well as the accessories and jewellery you need and if necessary, consider
matching hair style also. Test this out at home first until you are satisfied with
the three looks and you have all your bits when you get into the studio on the
day ready to go.
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Make the photographer take pictures with black, white and studio
(grey/brownish/bluish swirly type) backgrounds for a variety of purposes.
Also tell the photographer you want one stunning, iconic black and white
portrait as well.
This will cost money but the results are a gift that keeps on giving.
It tells people that you are a PROFESSIONAL and really helps sell clients.
Those photos are also endlessly useful to go with articles, on your website, on
your facebook page, linkedin, for press releases, flyers for talks, brochures,
magazine advertisements and and and.
One thing I might advise is watch the timing of the session and make sure
you've got a good 15 minutes to focus on positives. Just one more round with
this client, on one of the high energy positives like FREEDOM or such can
give you a full on healing event right at the end of the session, and when you
pick it up again in the next session, you're on a different level of treatment
then.
The positives are not an afterthought, they really are what changes the whole
treatment flow so to leave enough time for getting the client high. That will
also help motivate the client to practice at home, to recommend you to other
people and to return!
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A lot of people tap themselves too hard in self help. It's like trying to make up
with the physical for the absence of energy coming from the fingertips. And of
course, it is driven by the desire to make a change, get a healing event.
By backing up on the physical and focusing on the hands of energy and the
energy of the tapping points instead, you get massively more impressive
results and a lot more 6th sense practice too.
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