Happiness - Notes PDF
Happiness - Notes PDF
Happiness
Meaning of Happiness
From this definition, we can glean a few important points about happiness:
1 Happiness is a state, not a trait; in other words, it isn’t a long-lasting, permanent
feature or personality trait, but a more fleeting, changeable state.
2 Happiness is equated with feeling pleasure or contentment, meaning that happiness is
not to be confused with joy, ecstasy, bliss, or other more intense feelings.
3 Happiness can be either feeling or showing, meaning that happiness is not necessarily
an internal or external experience, but can be both.
Although the term is not used very often, “self-happiness” refers to a sense of happiness or
satisfaction with one’s self. It is often associated with self-confidence, self-esteem, and
other concepts that marry “the self” with feeling content and happy.
In general, it means that you are pleased with yourself and your choices, and with the person
that you are.
Happiness and meaning have an even more distinct line between the two. Rarely are
happiness and meaning confused or used interchangeably, and for good reason—they
describe two very different experiences.
“Humans may resemble many other creatures in their striving for happiness, but the quest
for meaning is a key part of what makes us human, and uniquely so.”
-Roy Baumeister et al. (2013)
Unlike happiness, meaning is not a fleeting state that drifts throughout the day; it’s a more
comprehensive sense of purpose and feeling of contributing to something greater than
yourself.
As the quote from Baumeister and colleagues (2013) suggests, there are important
distinctions between the methods of searching for and the benefits of experiencing
happiness and meaning. Scott Barry Kaufman at Scientific American (2016) outlines these
distinctions that Baumeister and his fellow researchers found between the two:
• Finding one’s life easy or difficult was related to happiness, but not meaning;
• Feeling healthy was related to happiness, but not meaning;
• Feeling good was related to happiness, not meaning;
• Scarcity of money reduced happiness more than meaning;
• People with more meaningful lives agreed that “relationships are more important
than achievements;”
• Helping people in need was linked to meaning but not happiness;
• Expecting to do a lot of deep thinking was positively related to meaningfulness, but
negatively with happiness;
• Happiness was related more to being a taker rather than a giver, whereas meaning
was related more to being a giver than a taker;
• The more people felt their activities were consistent with the core themes and values
of their self, the greater meaning they reported in their activities;
• Seeing oneself as wise, creative, and even anxious were all linked to meaning but had
no relationship (and in some cases, even showed a negative relationship) to happiness
(Kaufman, 2016).
Types of Happiness
Happiness is a complex concept that cannot be pinned down to one simple dimension.
Daniel Nettle describes three levels / types of happiness in psychology each representing
different aspects of the positive emotions we strive for as human beings.
This level of happiness is pleasurable but the good feelings do not last for very long and we
will return to our “baseline” mental state quite quickly.
Level 2 happiness is also relative in the sense that you compare your situation with other
people as well as how you have felt in the past.
Many studies of happiness in psychology works at this level. If you read about research
saying for example that people in country A are happier than people in country B then most
likely it refers to level 2 happiness measured through various surveys.
Level 3 happiness: Represents a higher meaning of life, flourishing and fulfilling one’s
potential
The third level of happiness represents fulfilment at a higher level - achieving one's full
potential. It can be seen as accomplishments with a higher meaning and has to do with self-
realization.
Level 3 happiness is more difficult to measure than the other two levels. People high in level
3 happiness live more in harmony with their deeper values and therefore have fewer inner
conflicts because they often feel that what they do has meaning and is contributing to a
greater cause.
According to Daniel Nettle you could say that one is optimally happy at this level.
To summarise: Towards the lower level, happiness is more immediate, sensual, and
measurable. Towards the higher level, happiness is more rational, reflective, and relative.
Two Traditions
Hedonic wellbeing
Hedonic wellbeing is based on the notion that increased pleasure and decreased pain leads
to happiness. Hedonic concepts are based on the notion of subjective wellbeing. Subjective
well-being is a scientific term that is commonly used to denote the ‘happy or good life’. It
comprises of an affective component (high positive affect and low negative affect) and a
cognitive component (satisfaction with life). It is proposed that an individual experiences
happiness when positive affect and satisfaction with life are both high (Carruthers & Hood,
2004).
Eudaimonic wellbeing
Eudaimonic wellbeing, on the other hand, is strongly reliant on Maslow’s ideas of self
actualisation and Roger’s concept of the fully functioning person and their subjective well
being. Eudaimonic happiness is therefore based on the premise that people feel happy if
they experience life purpose, challenges and growth. This approach adopts Self-
Determination Theory to conceptualise happiness (Keyes et al., 2002; Deci & Ryan, 2000).
Self determination theory suggests that happiness is related to fulfilment in the areas of
autonomy and competence.
Positive psychologists view happiness from both the hedonistic and eudaimonic view in
which they define happiness in terms of the pleasant life, the good life and the meaningful
life (Norrish & Vella-Brodrick, 2008). Peterson et al., identified three pathways to happiness
from the positive psychological view:
• Pleasure is the process of maximising positive emotion and minimising negative emotion
and is referred to as the pleasant life which involves enjoyable and positive
experiences.Engagement is the process of being immersed and absorbed in the task at
hand and is referred to as the good life which involves being actively involved in life and
all that it requires and demands. Thus the good life is considered to result from the
individual cultivating and investing their signature strengths and virtues into their
relationships, work and leisure (Seligman, 2002) thus applying the best of self during
challenging activities that results in growth and a feeling of competence and satisfaction
that brings about happiness.
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• Meaning is the process of having a higher purpose in life than our selves and is referred to
as the meaningful life which involves using our strengths and personal qualities to serve
this higher purpose. The meaningful life, like the good life, involves the individual
applying their signature strengths in activities, but the difference is that these activities are
perceived to contribute to the greater good in the meaningful life.
Positive psychologists view happiness from both the hedonistic and eudaimonic view in
which they define happiness in terms of the pleasant life, the good life and the meaningful
life (Norrish & Vella-Brodrick, 2008). Peterson et al., identified three pathways to happiness
from the positive psychological view:
1.Create your own happiness (don’t sit back and wait for it). Every second you waste
waiting for happiness is a second you could have been using to create it. The happiest
people aren’t the luckiest, wealthiest, or best-looking; the happiest people are those who
make an effort to be happy.
3. Get enough sleep When you sleep, your brain literally recharges.This ensures that you
wake up alert and clear-headed. Your energy, attention, and memory are all reduced when
you don’t get enough quality sleep.
4. Live in the moment. You can’t reach your full potential until you learn to live your life in
the present.
5. Learn to love yourself. Studies have shown that practicing self-compassion increases the
number of healthy choices you make, improves mental health, and decreases your tendency
to procrastinate.
6. Appreciate what you have. Taking time to contemplate what you’re grateful for isn’t
merely the “right” thing to do. It also improves your mood .
7. Exercise. Getting your body moving for as little as 10 minutes releases GABA, a
neurotransmitter that makes your brain feel soothed and keeps you in control of your
impulses
8. Forgive, but don’t forget. Happy people live by the motto “Fool me once, shame on
you; fool me twice, shame on me.” They forgive in order to prevent a grudge, but they never
forget.
9. Get in touch with your feelings. Attempting to repress your emotions doesn’t just feel
bad; it’s bad for you. Learning to be open about your feelings decreases stress levels and
improves your mood
10. Concentrate on what you can control. Rather than dwelling on the things you can’t
control, try putting your effort into the things that you can.
4) THEY ARE BUSY, BUT NOT RUSHED- feeling "rushed" can lead to stress and
unhappiness. At the same time, people struggle with finding that happy medium of
being just busy enough. Some studies suggest that a healthy work-life balance is key,
since boredom can be burdensome.
7) OPTIMISTIC- Bad things happen to all of us even the happiest and most upbeat
people on the planet. The thing is, they don't complain, whine or let pessimism
become a self-fulling prophecy. They remain optimistic by focusing on solutions to
the problem and reflecting on what they are grateful for.
When happy people are healthier, have better relationships, make friends more easily, and
find more success in life, it’s easy to see why happiness and mental health are related.
The sources that contribute to happiness are the same as those that provide people with a
buffer or protection against mental illness, which explains the close relationship between the
two.
A recent study explored the association between happiness and mental health in college
students and found that a relatively strong, positive correlation connects the two factors
(Shafiq, Nas, Ansar, Nasrulla, Bushra, & Imam, 2015). This correlation held, even when
gender and socio-demographic variables were added to the mix.
The close tie between mental health and happiness is reason enough to make happiness an
important priority for parents, educators, researchers, and medical professionals alike, along
with the simple fact that we all like to feel happy.