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HRE4M – Grade 12 Religious Education
“In Search of the Good” – A Catholic Understanding of Moral Living
1. It’s a situation that requires a choice between options that are or seem equally
unfavourable
2. It’s a problem that seems to defy a satisfactory solution
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There are two major approaches that philosophers use in handling ethical dilemmas.
One is to focus on the practical consequences of what we do, and the other focuses on
the actions themselves and weighs the rightness of the action alone. The first school of
thought argues that if there is no harm, there is no foul. The second claims that some
actions are simply wrong in and of themselves.
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Unit I – Mapping the Ethical Experience
b) Kant (1724-1804)
- In his theory of ‘Practical Reason’ Kant says the “humans act not only on
impulse… but also out of conscious choice, based on principles” (p. 15) looking
towards what we “ought to do”
- Like Aristotle, he believed that the ‘good’ was the ultimate goal of a moral life
- His ethics were more focused upon the individual, and the presence of personal
“good will” as a personal duty. (deontological) “A human action is morally good
when it is done for the sake of duty.” (p.16) not because you feel like doing
something good. Kant is concerned with what we ought to do, or should do, not
what we want to do.
- He believed that ethical principles could be applied to everyone, as a ‘Universal
Law.’
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c) Levinas (1905-1995)
- he believed the central question in philosophy is ‘Where is the Good?” (God)
- Each thing or person is a unique expression of the Good, and the Good is related
to what makes us different from one another (i.e. it’s good to be different)
- All things and people carry a ‘trace’ of the infinite or God within them
- The face of another calls us to respond, especially within the eyes. (assist/help
them)
- Goodness always translates into a personal responsibility for ‘the Other.’
- True Goodness knows no limits.
The Soul
This is the centre of our relationship with God. It is the heart of the self. According to
the CCC, it is our innermost aspect, the part of us that exists “most especially in God’s
image.” (CCC #363) It is created immediately by God and gives life to our body, making
it human. Our parents did not produce it; it is immortal.
There is a link between our souls and our actions. Our actions are an expression of who
we are; they identify us. Expressions of Love represent the very best of our
actions and are eternal.
An agent is a person who acts freely, and knowingly, who chooses to do or not do
something, assuming responsibility for his or her actions or omissions. The agent
makes things happen. As an agent you have the power of intention. This intention
toward action allows you to shape your future, through action. Shaping your future
results in changes to your character and personality. They are directly linked with one
another.
Intentional actions are inherently meaningful. Ethical theory is not concerned with reflex
and automatic actions like breathing and sneezing. These just happen, without our
intending them.
Analytic philosophy examines the language we use to communicate our action, and
explores what constitutes a meaningful action.
Action theory is concerned not so much with what happened as it is with who did the
acting. Where did the action originate? Why? Etc.
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Conceptual Framework of Action (Ricoeur)
Since we are unable to directly observe our ability to act, Action theory provides us with
a framework for investigating our behaviours in light of the following:
- Who?
- What?
- Why?
- How?
- With whom or against whom?
- Under what circumstances?
- With what outcome?
Answering these allows us to understand the action indirectly.
As observers, we can only guess about the reasoning behind another person’s actions,
since their internal reality is rarely known to us.
Actions are not simply good of themselves; they must meet certain conditions to be
considered good. The morality of human acts depends on:
- the object chosen;
- the end in view, or the intention;
- the circumstances of the action.
Every action is done for a reason. A motive is a reason behind an action. It is your
understanding of why the action is worth doing. Motives invariably appear as good, in
the beginning. We see them as initially helping in some way. They may not always
appear this way in the end analysis, however. Ethics come into play when we examine
our motives and actions, judging them as being ultimately right or wrong. We can learn
a lot from this analysis.
Human actions are quite different from animal or mechanical actions. Human actions
have a specific reason behind them; we think before we act. Our actions are intentional,
the have meaning for us. Being meaningful, they are not simply automatic.
When your actions involve others, they become interactions. Each of you becomes an
active or passive element in the process, each making his or her own choices.
We must remember, “the end does not justify the means.” The process of achieving a
goal is just as important, just as ethical, as the goal itself. Truly good outcomes can only
come out of good processes.
The actions and choices that you make are formed not only by the person you are, but
also function to shape the person you are becoming. Outside forces play a part, but
only as a medium through which we make choices and act.
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Human Freedom
You are free because you have possibilities. These possibilities
are realized through your promises and commitments to others. In
keeping these promises you orient yourself towards the future.
“Freedom is the power to act or not to act, …Freedom attains perfection…when directed
towards God.”CCC. 1744
Naturalism is currently the most widely held philosophy among the world’s peoples. All
things must be proven using concrete evidence; any other type of reasoning is
considered illusory. Naturalism denies the possibility of ethics and morality.
Religious Determinism
This model speaks to the idea that God has already decided on everything for us. This
can appear fatalistic for those of us who question the purpose of human suffering in the
world.
The influence from God upon things and events in our lives is called providence. If this
is true, are we actually free? Catholics believe we are, due to the fact that we cooperate
with God through our acts and decisions. As such we are co-creators. This is how we
relate to God through love.
Social Determinism
Here, your behaviour is decided by the influences of those around you. (parents, friends,
culture, psychology, history, race, gender, religion & education) You are not free
because you are the product of what others have done to you. Your past determines
who you are. Here, a criminal might say “I’m violent because I was beaten as a child.”
Freud believed that past events affected the way we behave, through the subconscious
mind. We hide painful memories and they surface unconsciously in distorted ways,
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making our behaviour “neurotic.” In this case, we are effectively prisoners to our past.
We are not free until we resolve or heal these memories and desires. Directing this
repressed emotional energy in creative ways, through right action, is called
sublimation.
Freud also held that we are subject to the power of two basic instincts. (life-Eros, death-
Thanatos) The Life instinct is frequently associated with the sexual, as a desire to
continue life and the human race. The death instinct can appear in our aggressive-
destructive tendencies. (conflict) Freud believed that morality was built upon forcing our
natural instincts into the background, often against our will. This negates any freedom to
act.
With respect to the development of our morality, Freud believed that we gather morality
from our parents at an early age, forming the basis for what he called the Superego.
The Superego is the internal ‘taskmaster’ that imposes powerful feelings of guilt and
shame when we don’t ‘follow the rules.’
This chapter explores Catholic ethical and moral theory from the perspective of
philosophical Anthropology.
Within this area of study we find that there are six aspects of the
human person that are important for ethics.
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2-The Importance of Having a Direction in Life
My identity lies first in a commitment to certain values. (moral stance) It then, naturally
reveals itself in the direction I take in life. This direction now has greater meaning and
focus for me, as it has been built upon the foundation of my values. It’s critical that I
‘stand’ for something and that I know where I stand.
Living in a culture, and adopting its communication styles, shapes your identity. The
language we use within a Catholic community also shapes our understanding of the
world, and the position we hold within it.
We should not confuse our conscience with the Superego. Our conscience does not lay
feelings of guilt upon us. When we do good things because we feel we ‘have to’ or
‘should’, that is the Superego talking. When we do good things because we ‘want to’
and feel a need to do them out of love, it’s our conscience.
Which one would Kant believe in, as the guiding force of goodness, the ‘Superego or the
conscience? _______________
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Three Senses of Conscience
We can experience or think of our conscience in three ways:
- as the ability to recognize right from wrong (a general awareness
– it’s what makes us human)
- as an active process of moral reasoning (learning the facts and
what moral values are – informing ourselves from various reliable
sources)
- as a judgment (making a final decision and committing to do
what’s right)
One’s Conscience can be malformed through immoral acts, faulty reasoning, faulty
value structures and misinformation received from others. A well-formed conscience is
well informed.
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Unit II - “Guided by the Light of Revelation”
More specifically, these three points will guide our findings upon this encounter:
- The revelation of the Name of God reveals a God who is deeply concerned about
the well-being of people;
- The calling of individuals such as Moses, Isaiah, Jeremiah and Ezekiel reveal
God’s love;
- The covenant between God and Israel had an effect upon the behaviour of the
Israelites.
God’s concern is not so much with laws and transgressions of laws, but with
relationships and how to enrich and sustain these relationships. In this way we are
freely able to demonstrate the power of God’s love.
Moses:
was born of the priestly tribe of Levi;
had a brother name Aaron and a sister Miriam;
married Jethro’s daughter Zipporah at Midian and had two children,
Gershom and Eliezer
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*God’s covenant is a bond of love, calling us in our freedom to respond in love. His
commitment to us lasts forever.
What’s in a Name?
Our names don’t say all there is to say about us, but they’re something we can’t ignore.
They’re how we are identified in this world. They offer meaning in this way, and have
real value. Parents often choose our names with a future purpose in mind, guiding the
process of who we will become.
With respect to understanding the power of God’s name, we can see that:
The name has consequences for Moses. His life changes radically, as God calls him
to be a prophet.
YHWH is a name with power. This name is one that changes the history of God’s
chosen people.
The name results in a new way of living, especially with the gift of the Decalogue.
The name is a source of judgment. For the Egyptians, this name becomes a curse,
but for Israel it is a blessing.
Through the prophets, God was teaching Israel that the road to its freedom involved
recognizing its faults, its sinfulness and separation from God. The prophets were called
to bring meaning to the life events of the people, reminding them of God’s presence and
importance in these events. Whenever the people of Israel strayed from keeping their
part of the covenant fulfilled, God would send a prophet to gently call them back.
Sin
Sin, for Israel (and for us) means realizing, before God, that our actions don’t measure
up to the standards set out in the covenant. Breaking the Commandments affects our
relationship with God and with each other. Sinning is a deliberate choice to distance
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ourselves from God. It reveals the presence of a heart, filled with self-pride, and a
complete disregard for others.
The Triangle of Sin:
Deliberate choice
(free, sane)
SIN
Recognized by
You must know it’s a the religious
sin (awareness) community as a
sin
(In order for something to be a sin, it must fulfill all three requirements.)
Through the efforts of the prophets, Israel began to see how their actions had distanced
themselves from God. While they understood the encompassing nature of Sin as a
disposition of the heart, the prophets clarified this general concept as being evident in a
multitude of acts and gestures, within the daily lives of the people.
Matthew’s Gospel
As we study scripture, it’s important to understand the cultural,
historical, political, religious and linguistic contexts within which the
documents were written.(exegesis/analysis) We must look through
the ‘eyes’ of Matthew to really understand his gospel.
(hermeneutics/interpretation)
Matthew’s gospel was written around 80 A.D. and spoke to the Jewish people who had
chosen to accept Jesus as the Messiah. This section of the Jewish mosaic was later
forbidden to practice their faith within the synagogue, and so went on to form the early
Christian Church. Matthew gathered the stories of Jesus and wrote them down, in order
to preserve them for future generations. Before this time, the stories were passed-on
orally because the early community thought that Jesus’ return would be soon.
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He presents Jesus as the ultimate teacher, Jesus brings the teachings of Moses
to their perfection;
He links Jesus with Moses, saying that through Jesus, the Law of Moses is
brought into its fullness. Jesus is the law, and the law is love. He is the new
Torah.
Jesus embodies the New Torah. (‘way of life’) Both men escaped murder as newborns,
when the King and Pharaoh attempted to prevent them from fulfilling their life’s mission,
and each brought ‘five teachings’ to the world.
Apocalyptic Literature
This type of writing helped the people to have hope for the future, when
times were difficult for them in the present. Apocalyptic writings are
writings of crisis. They often follow a structure that includes a final
battle between the forces of Good and evil, with goodness and truth
triumphant in the end. God will ultimately deliver the people from their
suffering.
Jesus tells us not to wait for some far-off and distant event, that God’s
Love, healing and truth are already here for us, in the present times.
The gospels tell us that Jesus is someone in whom the Kingdom of
God has taken shape and substance.
The Church
The Church is the people who follow in the ways of Jesus. St. Paul refers to the
members of the Church as the “first fruits,” a sign of things to come. Through Liturgy,
the Church lives as the ‘Kingdom of Heaven’ through word and sacrament, ushering in
God’s full revelation. (parousia)
The ‘Kingdom of God’ is about God’s intense desire to be a part of our lives.
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The Ethics of Matthew, Chapters 5-7
The Kingdom appears as a world very different from the one in which we now live. The
Kingdom is a world and a life lived at the limits of human possibility. To be sons and
daughters of God (Abba) brings much responsibility. We need to love our enemies, be
generous with one another and forgive. The underlying motive in the Sermon is that we
might be “children of our father in Heaven” and “perfect…as our father is perfect.”
Matthew’s gospel, if followed, puts us all on the right track with respect to the teachings
of Jesus. When we are in the ‘right’ we are said to be righteous. To be righteous
means receiving the gift of the Father’s Love and acting in just ways that reflect this
Love, especially towards others.
Making the decision to live the life we were meant to live does not mean that we shall be
alone. The Holy Spirit is always there to guide us in our morality. If you ever wonder
“How’s my relationship with God going?” just think about your relationship with others,
and you will know.
Eschatological ethics is all about how we respond to the experience of being loved. The
tension that exists within us, as a result of our full knowledge of a ‘better world,’ draws
us toward a better life for all. We are the agents of the Kingdom’s realization.
Grace: The free, undeserved help that God gives us, as we respond to His call and
usher in ‘the Kingdom of Heaven.’
Conclusions:
1 - God is Love.
2 - We were created by Him, in truth, and made in His own image.
1 + 2 = We are the image of Love.
When the ‘Son of Man’ comes, our relationship with Jesus will be
measured by our relationship with one another.
The Church’s mission is to live, proclaim and celebrate the gospel of Jesus Christ.
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the community. The Holy Spirit was with them during this time, to guide and support the
organizational process. (Acts 2:41-47) “…breaking bread together” on the first day of
week.
Paul (Acts 9:1-22)
Before becoming a disciple and follower of Christ, Paul (as Saul, a
Shammaite Jew) used to persecute Christians for not following the
true Jewish faith. He experienced conversion around the year 40
A.D., and his ministry lasted for approximately 20 years, until his
execution in Rome.
The Magisterium
The word Magisterium comes from the Latin ‘magis’ which means ‘higher’ or ‘more.’
Magister means ‘teacher.’ As Catholics, our Church tells us that our teacher is God or
Christ, and that humans can only achieve a position of ministerium or lesser teacher.
Over time, this term has come to refer to the official teaching
office of the Church; the Bishops of the Church and the Pope, who
present us with the teaching, by way of the Holy Spirit.
A ‘Helping Hand’…
The Holy Spirit’s Mission through our history as a Church is to give the life of the
risen Christ to the community, so that it might become the ‘Body of Christ.’
The Mission of the Church is to show the world how great God’s Love is. It’s the
kind of Love that would give up his own life for the life of a friend. It’s also one
that would give up all the greatness of being God, to humble Himself into
becoming human like one of us.
The Church also guards and maintains our Christian moral tradition, through
scripture and moral deliberation.
(take out your activity sheet now and, working quietly with a partner, make your own
notes regarding the History of the Church…)
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3) Global Christianity (A.D. 1960 - present)
(…continue working with a partner, completing the remaining section on page 2 of your
organizer…)
In this unit we will examine the many different ‘goods’ that Catholic ethics
strives for, the things that make for happiness and a truly ‘good’ life. This
is a life filled with meaning and purpose. (read Matthew 19.16)
Key Points:
As Christians, we believe that we are happiest when we are most ourselves.
If I persist in my search for the meaning of life, and I demonstrate what I’ve
learned in positive ways, then satisfaction and joy will be mine.
Goodness and happiness are close companions.
Our actions are never neutral. When we act, we do so to obtain a good. (…either
for ourselves or others)
The outcome of goodness and ‘good’ actions, we believe, is happiness.
Key Thinkers:
Plato said…
We cannot find the Good in any one thing or place, because it is
in all things and places, without becoming the thing or place,
itself.
The closest we come to the good is in contemplation, allowing the
good to enter into our knowing.
Philosophers are closest to the good, because they think about it a lot and these
thoughts lead to beliefs, choices and actions of goodness & truth.
Many people are ruled by their feelings, measuring their actions based upon
enjoyment, and not of the value of these actions.
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His position was in opposition to the Sophists who believed that life was ruled by
basic needs and desires, and not by reasoning. The Sophists believed there was
no such thing as an absolute truth, only opinions. For them, the best life was a
life of sensual pleasure.
Aristotle said…
The search for happiness has more to do with acting intelligently than with
following your inclinations.
The Good is to be found in God, in all creation, as a potential or purpose.
Our humanity can be found in our ability to reason and act rationally.
A person develops good character by acting virtuously – virtues control our
passions and desires.
Experience is a great teacher, as long as we learn from it
Levinas said…
God is the infinite good.
We are ‘called’ to the good as a way of life, it doesn’t come from us.
We are called to be good without reward or self-interest.
It is ‘the other’ who awakens the highest good in us.
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What makes for a good and happy person?
b) It is always possible to set (and follow) high standards of excellence for our
own personal behaviour. We should strive to be at our best, while interacting
with others.
c) When striving in this way, we lead what is known as a ‘virtuous’ life. Some of
the virtues found within a good and happy life include:
b) Solicitude is a feeling of concern for others, for their suffering and for
their needs as people. The ‘good life’ is lived with and for others,
giving and receiving. (Levinas)
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Putnam says…
‘Over time, there has been a gradual decline in involvement within our social institutions.
They are weakening in strength and with them, the things that unite us in
purpose and community.’
Bibby says…
‘Others have seen the opposite effect; that today’s teens are increasing
in their interest and commitment to social institutions.’
Which do you personally see as being more to the truth of what’s happening? Explain.
Morality comes into play when we find ourselves in situations that require us to obey a
law or precept. But, human life is much more than simply following rules. What real
purpose do all of our rules and obligations serve?
Norms are guides for acting in the world. They appear in the form of laws, rules,
principles, commandments and maxims.
Doing what’s good, just because it is good, seems quite natural for many people. We
enjoy doing what’s good for others and ourselves. For some, this natural wanting to do
what’s good doesn’t always appear as natural. When this happens, societies set up
governments and appoint lawmakers to create and enforce laws to protect those things
we consider important for the common good. Laws define the way we ought to act.
They ‘command’ or compel us to behave in certain ways, for the good of society.
2) Reasonable
If a rule is reasonable and explained rationally, it inspires us to follow it for the sake
of the common good. The sense of obligation we feel comes from within us, and we
accept the obligation to follow the rule. No one forces us; we want to do it. (Kant)
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e) helping to unite us in striving for common goals within the community.
(e.g. living in harmony)
Laws
A law is the judgment of a lawmaker about the means necessary for the common good.
A law requires the following:
A lawmaker
A specific directive on how to act
A consideration of the common good
A specific group of people for whom the law is intended
An obligation
*There are two kinds of laws: God’s law and Human law.
1. Lawmakers
a) God’s Law (Eternal law): This is revealed to us through scripture and needs
human interpretation. The Church helps with this task. Because of its position,
the Church has also developed its own law, the Code of Canon. God’s law is
also given to us through our ability to reason, through our inclinations and
passions, and in our actions and relationships. (Natural Law)
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option for the Poor’ asks that we place the needs of those who live on the ‘edges’ of our
institutions, ahead of the desires or ‘wants’ of the rest of us.
5. Obligation
If a law contributes to the common good, then we must follow it; it must be obeyed. (e.g.
‘don’t drink & drive’) If it does not, then we must seek to abolish it, through peaceful
means. (e.g. human cloning, fetal stem cell research, etc.)
*While some laws are written to safeguard the rights of individuals and others to
safeguard the rights of society, all laws in constitutional democracies such as Canada
are written for the good of society, while protecting the rights of individuals and
minorities.
Rules
Rules tell us how we ought to behave in certain situations. There are three types:
Absolute – These apply under all circumstances. (e.g. The Golden Rule) They are
like general guides; they don’t go into any detail.
Generally binding – These also apply under all circumstances, unless there are other
rules that conflict with them. These opportunities for conflict tend to appear in
situations of war and in the practice of medicine.
Natural Law
This is the ability within us all, to tell the difference between good and evil. Through the
gift of reason, we can distinguish naturally, lies from truth. It is the light of true
understanding given to us by God. The first principle of Natural Law says: “Do good and
avoid evil.” (Aquinas)
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Prudence…
evaluates motives for acting;
makes moral decisions that follow sound reasoning;
judges how to make justice and love of God real in day-to-day life.
The prudent person is wise in all things and can be a guide to others through their words
and actions.
God is the highest Good that we can enjoy. He fulfills our desire for happiness through
our loving relationship with Him. This relationship does not start with a commitment by
us, but with a commitment from Him. He is the one who initiates this relationship,
through His eternal and unconditional Love for humankind.
Focusing on our relationship with God, allows us to find true happiness, even in the
midst of trial, or difficulty.
The Ethics of the Beatitudes follows this orientation:
We are called to…
recognize that everything is God’s gift, and the greatest of these gifts
is Jesus the Christ;
repent and believe the gospel or ‘good news.’ In repenting we let go
of our old ways of looking at the world, embracing a better way, one
that seeks the common good;
live a life praising and giving thanks to God, through Liturgy, for
example;
live generously, responding with what we can give, in the spirit of love.
Desire
Desire is the great motivator, placed within us by God. It draws us back to Him. It is the
‘fire’ that burns within us as a Holy Longing.
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Charity
Charity is God’s gift of Love in us. It is a selfless kind of love, without the desire for
anything in return. It is the same love with which God created the world. It energizes
everything we do. The spirit of this love nourishes ethics and morality.
At the centre of Christian Spirituality is the realization that God loves us. This love calls
us to live in love, which is the heart of Christian morality. If our actions are
directed by love, our lives bear witness to what we believe. We make love a
reality.
When we choose a vocation (marriage, work, volunteer service) the choice should also
be made in the spirit of love, “making room” for others, bearing each other’s burdens
and resisting selfishness which can lead to competition, distrust and jealousy.
The Priesthood
The sacrament of Holy Orders first began during the ‘Last Supper’, when
Jesus celebrated the Eucharist with his disciples. Bishops, priests and
deacons are called to serve in the name and person of Christ.
Liturgy
Along with charity, spirituality and vocation, Liturgy is central to our ability to respond
with thanks to God. Liturgy means ‘a public work’ or, more specifically, the work of God.
Our actions during Liturgy are symbolic or sacramental.
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Unit 4 – Freedom, Marriage, and the Family (Ch. 16, 17, & 10)
All cultures have sought to bring order to the sexual relations between a
man and a woman, and to regulate the care of children. As a social
institution, Marriage predates any and all discussions and debates about
who should and shouldn’t be married.
The human tendency to act against God or even our own Goodness is
called concupiscence.
With respect to the effects upon the male/female relationship, we find the
following:
They discover their nakedness and feel shame; they can no longer be
open with each other – fear enters the relationship;
The woman is forever at odds with the ‘serpent’ – we will always desire
to be something we are not;
‘Having listened to the voice of his wife’, instead of God’s voice, Adam has damaged
the original communication he shared with God.
By rejecting their initial relationship with God, they lose their place in Eden and enter
an environment in which they must fend for themselves.
Despite all this, their life together is still a blessing. Eve (hawwah) becomes the “mother
of all living.”
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Defining Marriage
1. Marriage is an “intimate partnership of life & love” – It is a communion of persons
reaching to every part of each other’s life. It’s more than a contract; it’s a
commitment for life.
2. The central focus of marriage is Love, growing from the romantic notion of ‘eros’
to a selfless ‘agape’ expression of Love.
3. Love is open to the procreation and education of any children received in a loving
marriage.
4. The marital relationship is based on the freedom of consent. A man and a
woman choose to enter into the relationship willingly.
Because of its importance, the Church recognizes that some people are
not free to consent to this important decision.
those who are unable to understand the importance of the decision
(through immaturity, deceit, fraud, etc.)
those who are unable to appreciate what marriage is (faithfulness,
parenting, the life-long commitment)
those who face psychological difficulties, underage persons, homosexuals,
sociopaths and neurotics.
5. Marriage is a Sacrament.
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Marriage in the ‘Eyes’ of Society
It’s the essential ‘building-block’ of civilization;
It strengthens society through its citizens and institutions;
It provides a stable environment for the growth & development of
children;
It establishes and maintains social order;
It is a publicly and legally binding act of commitment between two persons, and as
such, is protected and supported by our legal and social benefits programs;
It is a ‘rite of passage’ into the married/adult state – the husband and wife now hold a
respected place in society;
It is among the strongest of social bonds within society, involving witnesses, the law,
society, family and God.
Indissolubility – This means ‘permanent.’ The marriage can only be dissolved upon
the death of one of the partners. Divorce (civil) is not recognized by the Church, as a
means to dissolving the marriage.
Annulment – This is the formal recognition by the Church, that a marriage is null and
void because the marriage did not fulfill one or more of the conditions for this sacrament.
The marriage essentially never existed.
Separation & Divorce – People are free to obtain a civil separation and
divorce, for various reasons. But, the Church continues to recognize the
original marriage and the partners therefore remain unable to marry again
within the Church. At this stage, the two may still participate in the Church
and receive Holy Communion.
Divorce and Remarriage – If a legally divorced Catholic were to marry again, either
before a judge or within another Religious community, the Catholic Church would not
recognize the new marriage. The person could still be a member of the Church, but
would not be allowed to receive Holy Communion.
Marriage as a Sacrament
As an institution, marriage validates the union between a man and a woman who are
open to children and willing to accept the responsibility for educating them. As a
sacrament, marriage recognizes the couple as being or forming a community of faith
and love, a sign of Christ’s love for his Church.
The marriage relationship calls for trust and commitment; it requires a faith in
oneself and the other, a faith so deep it can endure anything. God’s grace
helps us to bring our love for our spouse to perfection, paving the way to
eternal life.
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Grace helps us look at any problems in a different light, calling us to be all that we can
be, to be our very best.
During the marriage celebration, the husband is the sacramental minister for his wife
and vice versa. The one presiding over this (the priest) represents the Church
community and is not actually performing the marriage. The newly married couple is
now a small Church, expressing God through their love.
*In the prayer known as the epiclesis, the couple receives the Holy Spirit as the bond of
their union. “The Holy Spirit is the seal of their covenant, the ever-available source of
their love and the strength to renew their fidelity.” (CCC #1624)
To be attracted to another is instinctual. But love and marriage is a free and deliberate
choice. For a marriage, more is required than following natural impulses.
Family is a place where we never stop learning how to love other people. We learn
about giving, forgiving and looking beyond ourselves.
Christian families, whatever their condition, are called to grow, mature, and bear fruit. At
its most basic level, the family is a ‘bearer of life.’
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Birth control/contraception
Abortion
Economic factors requiring both spouses to work
Family Planning
Until 1969, it was illegal (in Canada) to sell or distribute contraceptives, as well as
information about Birth Control. As a result, sexual activity has since become more
about “recreation” than procreation, and the commitment of marriage. The sacramental
nature of sexual union as a symbol of God’s love became less important.
In the Church’s view, Christian couples must remain “open to life”, while carefully
managing the responsibility of bringing children into the world. This requires careful
planning, so that any children received have the opportunity to grow in a loving and
stable home environment.
The Church accepts Natural Family Planning as the only moral choice. (not
contraception)
Strong Families
The family is the toughest evolutionary human structure and will outlast any other
organization. The family is strong enough to fulfill the responsibilities of human survival
and the continuance of our civil, cultural and social structures and institutions.
The ‘Top Six’ qualities shared by strong families are:
1. Commitment
2. Appreciation
3. Communication
4. Quality Time
5. Spiritual Wellness
6. Coping ability
The Synod Fathers of the Church recognize the following Rights of all families,
everywhere in the world:
to exist and progress as a family;
the right to suitable housing;
the protection of minors;
of a worthy life for elderly family members;
to emigrate in search of a better life, etc.
As we grow, we learn many things from our family, some good and some bad. We must
take special care in our behaviour and spoken words, because even the simplest of
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things will affect others, who look to us as role models. Let’s be a good example for
others, in our daily faith practices.
Pope John Paul II has revived this belief in the family as Church. In this
way, the family should resemble the larger Church in its commitment to caring for the
poor and acting as a symbol of the risen Christ.
Freedom is an essential capacity for all moral actions. It is a gift that brings
with it, much responsibility. It is for this reason that many fear being free; to
them freedom feels like a burden.
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It is a capacity within the human self (it can lead us to think that we can live
without others and without God)
It is the hallmark of human nature. It sets us apart from the animal kingdom, and
often appears when we struggle against our own limits.
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Limits upon our Freedom
Social limits – those limits imposed by family, school & governments;
testing these usually takes the form of protest
Moral limits – those derived from norms, rules, proverbs, laws &
commandments; these help to guide and structure our freedom
through the choices we make.
Natural Limits – our freedom needs to work with the limits set by our
bodies, nature, the genetic code, climate and the Earth.
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With our present dependence on technology and consumer goods, many would say
that the only freedom left for us exists in the smaller life-choices. Governmental and
economic controls have effectively narrowed our possibilities for real freedom.
Yet, there does exist something within us, which rises to the surface when we begin to
experience the arrival of the intolerable. We all have our limits and as a society we
speak out against intolerance, we challenge governments to enact socially and
ecologically appropriate policies, and we remember the beginnings of our goodness
through our relationships with others and with God. There is hope.
Moral living is not performed out of any obligation for the gifts of the Father.
5. Legalism or literalism – this involves following the law out of some external
imperative; it is a false kind of obedience and ultimately not a free expression of the
Good. Obedience should never be ‘blind’ in this way, because our human dignity is
rooted in our intelligence and freedom. For those who would be free, the law
emerges from within.
6. “The Truth will set you free” (John 8.32) – The first step in the
realization of freedom is to first confront the truth about oneself.
There are many around us, family and friends who can help us in this
task.
Feel free to read from the ‘Reflections on Grace’, pages 240-242 in your text.
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