Chapter 5 Communication Styles
Chapter 5 Communication Styles
Chapter 5 Communication Styles
Communication-style bias – a state of mind we often experience when we have contact with
another person whose communication style is different from our own
Makes building rapport difficult
Communication-style principles
1) Individual differences exist and are important
2) A communication style is a way of thinking and behaving
3) Individual style differences tend to be stable
4) There are a finite number of styles
To create the most productive relationships, it is necessary to get in sync with the communication
styles of the people you work with
Ability to “speak the other person’s language” is an important relationship management skill
Communication-Style Model
Four basic communication styles are based on two important dimensions of human behaviour:
Dominance – reflects the tendency to influence or exert one’s will over others in a relationship
Sociability – reflects the amount of control one exerts over emotional expressiveness
Self-ratings can be misleading
Dominance Continuum
Sociability Continuum’
Word of Caution
Be careful not to use labels that make people feel boxed in, typecast, or judged
Do not classify the person
Classify the person’s strengths and preferences
Summary
Ineffective communication will lose the sale
Style-flexing can minimise the effects
Four basic communication styles are based on two important dimensions of human behaviour:
dominance and sociability
Know your style of communication and those you are attempting to communication with
Versatility, a third dimension of human behaviour, can help you deal with people whose
communication style is different than yours