Verbal abuse is characterized by underlying anger and hostility and is intended to harm the target's self-concept and produce negative emotions. It involves forcefully criticizing, insulting, or denouncing another person. While anyone can display verbal abuse occasionally during times of stress, for some it is a pattern of intentionally controlling or manipulating others. Verbal abuse in relationships increases in intensity and frequency over time, and can be as detrimental to one's health as physical abuse by causing depression or stress-related illness in the target. It includes abusive anger, accusing, blaming, denying abuse, judging, minimizing concerns, name-calling, ordering others, threatening, and withholding intimacy from the partner.
Verbal abuse is characterized by underlying anger and hostility and is intended to harm the target's self-concept and produce negative emotions. It involves forcefully criticizing, insulting, or denouncing another person. While anyone can display verbal abuse occasionally during times of stress, for some it is a pattern of intentionally controlling or manipulating others. Verbal abuse in relationships increases in intensity and frequency over time, and can be as detrimental to one's health as physical abuse by causing depression or stress-related illness in the target. It includes abusive anger, accusing, blaming, denying abuse, judging, minimizing concerns, name-calling, ordering others, threatening, and withholding intimacy from the partner.
Verbal abuse is characterized by underlying anger and hostility and is intended to harm the target's self-concept and produce negative emotions. It involves forcefully criticizing, insulting, or denouncing another person. While anyone can display verbal abuse occasionally during times of stress, for some it is a pattern of intentionally controlling or manipulating others. Verbal abuse in relationships increases in intensity and frequency over time, and can be as detrimental to one's health as physical abuse by causing depression or stress-related illness in the target. It includes abusive anger, accusing, blaming, denying abuse, judging, minimizing concerns, name-calling, ordering others, threatening, and withholding intimacy from the partner.
Verbal abuse is characterized by underlying anger and hostility and is intended to harm the target's self-concept and produce negative emotions. It involves forcefully criticizing, insulting, or denouncing another person. While anyone can display verbal abuse occasionally during times of stress, for some it is a pattern of intentionally controlling or manipulating others. Verbal abuse in relationships increases in intensity and frequency over time, and can be as detrimental to one's health as physical abuse by causing depression or stress-related illness in the target. It includes abusive anger, accusing, blaming, denying abuse, judging, minimizing concerns, name-calling, ordering others, threatening, and withholding intimacy from the partner.
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Verbal abuse
From Wikipedia Verbal abuse (also verbal attack or verbal assault) is the act of forcefully criticizing, insulting, or denouncing another person.[1] Characterized by underlying anger and hostility, it is a destructive form of communication intended to harm the self-concept of the other person and produce negative emotions.[2] Verbal abuse is a maladaptive mechanism that anyone can display occasionally, such as during times of high stress or physical discomfort. For some people, it is a pattern of behaviors used intentionally to control or manipulate others or to get revenge.
Types In schools and in everyday life, a person may engage in verbal abuse—bullying (which often has a physical component)—to gain status as superior to the person targeted and to bond with others against the target. Usually, the bully knows no other way to connect emotionally with others. In romantic relationships, the verbal abuser may be responding to the partner's "separateness", i.e., independent thoughts, views, desires, feelings, expressions (even of happiness) which the abuser views as a threat, irritant or attack.[5] Some people believe the abuser has low self-esteem and then so, attempts to place their victim in a similar position, i.e., to believe negative things about themselves. Because of the abuser's need for dominance and unwillingness to accept their partner as an equal, the verbal abuser is compelled to negate the perceptions of the partner, about the abuse, which causes more psychological pain to the victim.[2] This is also known as gas-lighting or Jekyll and Hyde- like behavior, because the abuser keeps the target of abuse off-balance with their hot-and-cold unpredictable behavior. This confusion adds to the pain caused by psychological abuse and keeps the victim off-balance.[6] Anyone can experience verbal abuse. Typically, in romantic or family relationships, verbal abuse increases in intensity and frequency over time.[2] After exposure to verbal abuse, victims may develop clinical depression. The person targeted by verbal abuse over time may succumb to any stress-related illness. Verbal abuse creates emotional pain and mental anguish in its target. Despite the fact that verbal abuse does not leave bruising, verbal abuse can be as detrimental to a person's health as physical abuse
Elements Verbal abuse includes the following:
abusive anger: “aggressive outbursts”
accusing and blaming blocking and diverting countering: disputing a “...partner's thoughts, feelings, perceptions and experiences” or arguing “any point or idea”. denial of anger or abuse judging and criticizing minimisation, discounting, trivializing name calling ordering: commanding to show control undermining threatening With holding: refusing “...to share ideas, feelings, intimacy, thoughts and dreams with the partner.”
