Approximate Age Virtues Psychosocial Crisis Significant Relationship Existential Examples
Approximate Age Virtues Psychosocial Crisis Significant Relationship Existential Examples
Can I make it in
School age Industry vs. Neighbors, the world of
Competence School, sports
6–12 years inferiority school people and
things?
Early
adulthood Intimacy vs. Friends, Romantic
Love Can I love?
isolation partners relationships
20–39 years
However, mastery of a stage is not required to advance to the next stage. The outcome of one stage is
not permanent and can be modified by later experiences. Erikson's stage theory characterizes an
individual advancing through the eight life stages as a function of negotiating his or her biological forces
and sociocultural forces. Each stage is characterized by a psychosocial crisis of these two conflicting
forces (as shown in the table below). If an individual does indeed successfully reconcile these forces
(favoring the first mentioned attribute in the crisis), he or she emerges from the stage with the
corresponding virtue. For example, if an infant enters into the toddler stage (autonomy vs. shame and
doubt) with more trust than mistrust, he or she carries the virtue of hope into the remaining life
stages.[2]
During the first or second year of life, the major emphasis is on the mother and father’s nurturing ability
and care for a child, especially in terms of visual contact and touch. The child will develop optimism,
trust, confidence, and security if properly cared for and handled. If a child does not experience trust, he
or she may develop insecurity, worthlessness, and general mistrust to the world.
2. Toddler / Early Childhood Years: 18 Months to 3 Years
During this period we experience a desire to copy the adults around us and take initiative in creating
play situations. We make up stories with Barbie’s and Ken’s, toy phones and miniature cars, playing out
roles in a trial universe, experimenting with the blueprint for what we believe it means to be an adult.
We also begin to use that wonderful word for exploring the world—”WHY?”
While Erikson was influenced by Freud, he downplays biological sexuality in favor of the psychosocial
features of conflict between child and parents. Nevertheless, he said that at this stage we usually
become involved in the classic “Oedipal struggle” and resolve this struggle through “social role
identification.” If we’re frustrated over natural desires and goals, we may easily experience guilt.
The most significant relationship is with the basic family.
4. School Age Child: 6 to 12 Years
During this stage, often called the Latency, we are capable of learning, creating and accomplishing
numerous new skills and knowledge, thus developing a sense of industry. This is also a very social stage
of development and if we experience unresolved feelings of inadequacy and inferiority among our
peers, we can have serious problems in terms of competence and self-esteem.
As the world expands a bit, our most significant relationship is with the school and neighborhood.
Parents are no longer the complete authorities they once were, although they are still important.
5. Adolescent: 12 to 18 Years
Up until this fifth stage, development depends on what is done to a person. At this point, development
now depends primarily upon what a person does. An adolescent must struggle to discover and find his
or her own identity, while negotiating and struggling with social interactions and “fitting in”, and
developing a sense of morality and right from wrong.
Some attempt to delay entrance to adulthood and withdraw from responsibilities (moratorium). Those
unsuccessful with this stage tend to experience role confusion and upheaval. Adolescents begin to
develop a strong affiliation and devotion to ideals, causes, and friends.
6. Young adult: 18 to 35
Intimacy and Solidarity vs. Isolation – Love
At the young adult stage, people tend to seek companions hip and love. Some also begin to “settle
down” and start families, although seems to have been pushed back farther in recent years.
Young adults seek deep intimacy and satisfying relationships, but if unsuccessful, isolation may
occur. Significant relationships at this stage are with marital partners and friends.
7. Middle-aged Adult: 35 to 55 or 65
Career and work are the most important things at this stage, along with family. Middle adulthood is also
the time when people can take on greater responsibilities and control.
For this stage, working to establish stability and Erikson’s idea ofgenerativity – attempting to produce
something that makes a difference to society. Inactivity and meaninglessness are common fears during
this stage.
Major life shifts can occur during this stage. For example, children leave the household, careers can
change, and so on. Some may struggle with finding purpose. Significant relationships are those within
the family, workplace, local church and other communities.
8. Late Adult: 55 or 65 to Death
Erikson believed that much of life is preparing for the middle adulthood stage and the last stage involves
much reflection. As older adults, some can look back with a feeling of integrity — that is, contentment
and fulfillment, having led a meaningful life and valuable contribution to society. Others may have a
sense of despair during this stage, reflecting upon their experiences and failures. They may fear death as
they struggle to find a purpose to their lives, wondering “What was the point of life? Was it worth it?”