Visualize Yourself As You Want To Be.: "What The Mind Can Conceive and Believe It Can Achieve." - Napoleon Hill
Visualize Yourself As You Want To Be.: "What The Mind Can Conceive and Believe It Can Achieve." - Napoleon Hill
Visualize Yourself As You Want To Be.: "What The Mind Can Conceive and Believe It Can Achieve." - Napoleon Hill
“What the mind can conceive and believe it can achieve.” -- Napoleon Hill
2. Affirm yourself.
"Affirmations are a powerful tool to deliberately install desired beliefs about
yourself." -- Nikki Carnevale
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The Power of a Positive Mindset
To get your brain to accept your positive statements more quickly, phrase
your affirmations as questions like, “Why am I so good in making deals?”
instead of “I am so good at making deals.” Our brains are biologically wired
to seek answers to questions, without analyzing whether the question is valid
or not.
The best way to overcome fear is to face it head-on. By doing something that
scares you every day and gaining confidence from every experience, you will
see your self-confidence soar. So, get out of your comfort zone and face your
fears!
Some of the harshest comments that we get come from ourselves, via the
"voice of the inner critic." If you struggle with low self-confidence, there is a
possibility that your inner critic has become overactive and inaccurate.
Strategies like cognitive behavioral therapy help you to question your inner
critic, and look for evidence to support or deny the things that your inner
critic is saying to you. For example, if you think that you are a failure, ask
yourself, “What evidence is there to support the thought that I am a failure?”
and “What evidence is there that doesn’t support the thought that I am a
failure?”
Jia Jiang has become famous for recording his experience of “busting fear”
by purposefully making crazy requests of people in order to be rejected over
100 days. His purpose was to desensitize himself to rejection, after he
became more upset than he expected over rejection from a potential
investor. Busting fear isn’t easy to do, but if you want to have fun while
building up your self-confidence, this is a powerful way to do it.
6. Set yourself up to win.
“To establish true self-confidence, we must concentrate on our successes and
forget about the failures and the negatives in our lives.” -- Denis Waitley
Too many people are discouraged about their abilities because they set
themselves goals that are too difficult to achieve. Start by setting yourself
small goals that you can win easily.
Once you have built a stream of successes that make you feel good about
yourself, you can then move on to harder goals. Make sure that you also keep
a list of all your achievements, both large and small, to remind yourself of the
times that you have done well.
Make time to cultivate great exercise, eating and sleep habits. In addition,
dress the way you want to feel. You have heard the saying that “clothes make
the man.” Build your self-confidence by making the effort to look after your
own needs.
9. Create personal boundaries.
“Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no one’s definition of your life, but define yourself.”-- Harvey
Fierstein
People with low self-confidence see others as better or more deserving than
themselves. Instead of carrying this perception, see yourself as being equal to
everyone. They are no better or more deserving than you. Make a mental
shift to an equality mentality and you will automatically see an improvement
in your self-confidence.