Anxiety
Anxiety
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You may read this book and think
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FOREWORD
Once you uncover how panic ‘works’ you simply can’t get caught up in it
to the same degree ever again. I can still get anxious like everyone else -
sometimes I even feel slight panic - but now I KNOW how to nip it in the bud
and it’s all over within minutes.
These workbooks will take you to complete recovery too if you follow them
carefully and DO THE PRACTICE.
Panic can seem like hell on earth - but it has changed me in ways I couldn’t
have imagined - for the better might I add. Someday you will feel this too.
You WILL be FREE from panic but more than that, the experience and
the recovery process will give you a strength and peace you never thought
possible.
You may think some of the explanations and advice about panic presented
here are too simple. How could something that feels so complicated be
treated so simply?
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Step 1.
Understanding
Panic
“Knowledge is the antidote to fear.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson
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DSM Criteria for Panic Attack & Panic Disorder
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) is published
by the American Psychiatric Association.
A Panic Attack
A discrete period of intense fear or discomfort, in which four (or more) of the
following symptoms developed abruptly and reached a peak within 10 minutes
• Sweating
• Derealization (feelings of unreality) or
B. The Panic Attacks are not due to the direct physiological effects of a
substance (e.g., a drug of abuse, a medication) or a general medical condition
(e.g., hyperthyroidism).
C. The Panic Attacks are not better accounted for by another mental disorder
such as Social Phobia, Specific Phobia, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Post-
traumatic Stress Disorder or Separation Anxiety Disorder.
For example:
Social Anxiety
Phobias
OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)
PTSD (Post-traumatic Stress Disorder)
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Before we begin..
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TWO WEEKS TOWARDS FREEDOM
Tens of thousands of people worldwide go to their doctors every
day with symptoms of panic disorder CONVINCED they have
some serious illness.
TRY THIS..
For two weeks, set aside ALL other ideas about what you think
MIGHT be wrong with you and STUDY and PRACTICE the
knowledge and techniques in these workbooks.
Put that understanding into PRACTICE and you will get ALL the
way home!
PREPARATION
Anxiety can give
us extra energy
and focus our
minds to deal with difficult demands and challenges
- (performers often say that they would worry if they
DIDN’T feel anxious before going on stage because
anxiety helps them remember their lines.)
At least remember that you ARE now doing something about it.
So any stress you are under WILL BE REDUCED.
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U N D E R S T A N D I N G PA N I C
Anxiety symptoms
stem from the very helpful
‘Fight or Flight Response’
Human beings evolved with a protective mechanism called the
‘fight or flight response’.
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Mind and body set on high alert Sense of danger, impending doom,
watching out for signs of danger. Agitation - uneasiness - can’t relax
Sense of Dread
Headache
Dry mouth
Choking Sensation
Sweating
Tension
Shortness of Breath
Tight feeling in chest
Numbness
Rapid heart Beat
Stomach Pains
Butterflies
Bladder Weakness
Diarrhoea
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Fight or Flight
Extreme physical or mental
anxiety SYMPTOMS
Symptoms
die down
once danger
Body returns is passed
to normal NO PANIC
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In ‘clinical’ terms -
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Meet Miss-Interpretation
and Mr CATASTROPHE
Oh dear..
what on earth is happening to me?!
there must be something seriously wrong
These strange feelings must mean I’m ill
Maybe I should call a doctor
Now my arms are tingling..
maybe I’m having a stroke
What if I pass out
everyone will think I’m crazy!
I’ll never be able to show my face again
I’ll never be able to cope with this
I’ll never ever feel better ever again!
What if....
MISS INTERPRETATION
MR CATASTROPHE
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Fight or Flight
Sensations
extreme physical
or mental
anxiety and fear
Additional fear Misinterpreting
body releases & Catastrophising
more Adrenaline the symptoms
‘PANIC’
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MY NAME IS ?
CAPTAIN ADRENALINE
I’m HERE TO HELP!
THANK GOODNESS!..
Z Z Z HE WAS REALLY
STARTING TO GET
ON MY NERVES!...
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it is MISINTERPRETING and
CATASTROPHISING
that cause us to panic
and become locked in the cycle
Fight or Flight
Symptoms
extreme physical
or mental
anxiety and fear
Misinterpreting
Additional fear & Catastrophising
body releases the symptoms
more Adrenaline
We
‘PANIC’ the main
culprits!
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How we ‘misinterpret’
and ‘CATASTROPHISE’ the symptoms
Hot flashes, or sudden chills “Everyone will see how anxious I am”
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The
ANTICIPATORY ANXIETY
Cycle
PANIC
ATTACK
Body stays
on high alert.
Low level
adrenaline
We AGAIN
MISINTERPRET
& CATASTROPHISE
the imagined consequences
of FURTHER panic attacks
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U N D E R S T A N D I N G PA N I C
I'm sure you would agree that your worst fear NOW is of the fear that
these panic attacks bring. You are living ‘in fear of the fear’.
F
• long term stress
• family / relationship problems G
I
P
• debt
• work related stress
H
T
A PANIC
• illness
• a chemical imbalance
or
F
N about
PANIC
• genetics (runs in the family)
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• A traumatic event
or maybe nothing obvious at ALL
G
H
C
etc T
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SO TELL ME..
DID YOU HAVE
A HAPPY
CHILDHOOD?
Misinterpretation, Catastrophisation
& Anticipatory Anxiety lead to cycles of fear
‘SAFETY SEEKING
BEHAVIOUR’
& ‘AVOIDANCE’
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The
SAFETY BEHAVIOURS
trap
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• If this helps calm us down we then imagine that the ONLY reason
disaster DIDN’T happen was BECAUSE of the safety behaviour.
We think..
“Who knows WHAT might have happened !..”
• We then believe that should we ever feel this bad again the
solution is to REPEAT the safety behaviour that seemed to help.
• This means we NEVER get to learn that had we stayed with the
anxiety and done NOTHING to stop it - the disaster we predicted
wouldn’t have happened (because it was just anxiety which would
have died down in time.)
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Safety Behaviours
Example ‘Safety Behaviours’ Cycle
SAFETY BEHAVIOUR
We lie down to ‘rest’
The
AVOIDANCE
trap
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You may think that certain places, people or things are the
cause of your repeated attacks - riding on the bus - driving the
car - the supermarket - the cinema.
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Commonly Avoided
Situations and Places
Below are some of the most common situations and places that
people either avoid or (very bravely) ‘endure with marked distress’
Exercising Classrooms
Bridges / Heights _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _?
Work / Meetings _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _?
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Why AVOIDANCE
makes things worse..
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PANIC ATTACK
in a Restaurant
AVOIDANCE
No opportunity to learn
that we CAN cope with
panic and that the
catastrophe we fear
doesn’t actually happen
Panic in other situations
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REAL LIFE CASE STUDY..
Chelsea had recently started a new job. She enjoyed the work and
seemed to get on well with her work colleagues.
The job was in the nearest large town which was a route that she
was unfamiliar driving. Chelsea found herself becoming very anxious
at the thought of travelling to and from work.
One night the traffic was particularly slow moving as there had been an accident and as Chelsea sat
in her car she noticed that her heart had begun to race and she had started sweating, these
symptoms appeared to come from nowhere and she immediately thought ‘Something is wrong with
me’ She then began to feel a tightness in her chest and thought ‘These are the same symptoms you
have when you are having a heart attack.
Chelsea pulled over to the side of the road, the symptoms continued and she felt awful. Chelsea knew
that a classic symptom that would confirm her worst fear was if she felt a pain in her left arm. Chelsea
focused on her arm anticipating the symptom and she noticed that her arm did indeed feel strange, it
confirmed her worst fear ‘I AM HAVING A HEART ATTACK!’ Chelsea was distraught; she rang her Dad
for help. She knew she had to get to hospital and her next thought terrified her, ‘ I am trapped in this
car! ‘The traffic is too bad, they won’t be able to get an ambulance here in time to help me’ ‘I AM
GOING TO DIE!’
Chelsea rang her Dad again, he said he would not be long, she focused on the thought that help would
be here soon, and soon she began to feel a bit better.
By the time her Dad arrived Chelsea’s symptoms had died down but she still thought it was best to
get her heart checked at the hospital, because there must have been something wrong.
Chelsea did get her heart checked and all the results were clear.
Chelsea went to work the next day, but as home time approached she started to feel unwell again
and began to worry about the drive home, ‘What if the same thing happened again?’ ‘What if the
hospital had got it wrong?’ ‘What if there was something wrong with her heart and she didn’t get help
in time?’
Chelsea decided it would be safer if she got a lift home with someone when the traffic wasn’t going
to be so busy. She began to feel a bit better after re organising her travel arrangements. Whilst
Chelsea did still feel a bit unwell on the way home, it wasn’t nearly as bad as the night before, so she
concluded that it would be better if she continued to get a lift to and from work… just in case.
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U N D E R S T A N D I N G PA N I C
It
all starts with
frightening but harmless
FIGHT OR FLIGHT
symptoms
ANTICIPATORY
PANIC Cycle ANXIETY Cycle
Leads to further attacks
MISINTERPRETATION
and
CATASTROPHISATION
are the reasons
we PANIC
SAFETY
AVOIDANCE
BEHAVIOURS
Cycle Cycle
Panic
is maintained
because we don’t learn
that the symptoms are not
actually harmful
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Summary of Step 1 - Understanding Panic