Top 10 Routines
Top 10 Routines
Top 10 Routines
These routines have helped me more than I can tell you and now I’m going
to be passing them on to you.
Jon Sinn
Hey Easy does it there girl… I am just a shy California boy, you might be
too much for me. I just got back from Vegas and man, that just made me too
out of control. You know what I mean, like I bet when you meet someone
you really like, you can be totally shy, but there is that feeling that you have
when you find out they like you too. That is when you loosen up and can go
crazy. Most guys don’t know how to get there with you though.
So with me, I was always the kid that would push things too far. But the
funny thing is that my ex girlfriend had this theory about pushing things
over the line. You can be either someone who does it and feels like an
outsider or you can be someone who does it and feels like you’re
empowered.
That is one of those things that really made me look back at my life and see
how so much of my mistakes were really for my benefit and how my wrong
turns were only wrong because of my perspective on things.
My brother is older than me and I always looked up to him. He was kind of
like someone who was really mechanical and hands on and I was more
driven by my goals and dreams (although you may think this does not make
sense it does in girl language.).
I used to feel out of place with all of this, but it actually ended up helping
me. One thing that I have always noticed since my ex brought it up to me is
how much perspective with women makes a difference. Like most guys will
say that women don’t like sex as much as men but that is completely wrong.
They like it just as much if not more. I think when I was like 25 or 26 I
asked my brother what he thought about this and it was funny cause he
actually disagreed with me. It is almost like I can never be wrong with my
brother cause he is older. I mean we can argue about things but when it
comes to real life issues it is hard for me to argue with him.
I guess it is kind of like when a girl lets the guys that are in her life be right
just to be right. Sometimes it is easier to allow that to happen. I bet that you
don’t let a lot get by you. It can be hard to let go of things. One of the
things I can tell about you is that you like the chase with things. Just know I
am competitive and I always win.
One thing that I got form my mother was her intuition. She always knew
what I was thinking without me saying and I got to know how to be intuitive
with women.
Like with you I can tell that you can give up on yourself way too easily.
Actually forget it. I probably shouldn’t say this…
(bait for the cold read)
But you are actually really sexually insecure, even when you are in a
relationship you can be.
I mean I can tell that you are actually someone who has to be really
comfortable in order to let yourself really let loose. But once you do, you’re
out of control.
Maybe you just intimidate guys or something, but nobody knows how to
bring that out of you.
But whatever…I am not meaning to freak you out here. (I think that it is an
interesting thing to see how people can say so much without words and with
how they act and react.
We ended up breaking up, you could say for a lot of reasons. You could say
that we were gong in different directions, you could say that we out grew
each other.
What are some of your one liner ‘we broke up for healthy reasons’ excuses?
But the real reason in looking at how we broke up, was that she was just too
insecure about herself sexually.
What do you do to keep things creative? (she probably won’t answer this
right away, if she does that is great, but I will assume she won’t)
I can see you as being way too hesitant about things that you like to do and
more aggressive over things like…wait you totally have to have all the lights
off when you are with a guy.
The difference is a couple that has public displays of affection and a couple
that will be normal in pubic but sneak off somewhere and have sex in a
bathroom, you need that excitement.
You don’t have fantasies about things like sex at work or in public, cause if
you do I have to stop talking to you.
The main thing is that we never lose the part that drives us. It can change all
around, but the root of it always has to be there for use to remember, or else
we end up in the wrong place.
Something that people never talk about is sex. It is almost like they are
always afraid of it. I know that for me I was always a late bloomer with it.
When did you first have sex? (probably an early age)
The funny thing is that I bet you didn’t really have good sex until you were
older. You may have not really had it yet. (most girls haven’t and if they are
26 and below they probably haven’t had it)
What I always have thought is that sex with 20 people can be a learning
experience but sex with 1 person 20 times- you actually learn more about
things with yourself and them.
Now once you have sex with 20 different people 20 different times you
actually are probably someone I wouldn’t want to talk to, hahahahaha…
But seriously I think that it is one of those things that people need to be more
open to talking about, because when people don’t bring up sex as a natural
thing, it builds up all this false insecurity that people react on rather than
feel.
Actually come here for a second. I am not so sure about something with
you.
But actually I don’t mean to single you out here; But when I was growing
up, I was really outgoing, but at the same time being from the family I was
in, they were very particular about how they religiously expressed
themselves, it made me really internalize everything much more. What it
did was give me a completely different perspective on things. It used to
make me upset about how different I was, but then I got over it. But one
thing I always noticed at an early age was that there are a few different types
of people.
So here, give me your hands. (take both of her hands and place her palms in
yours, the main thing with the touching is that it is there to hold frame over
her more than anything, also keep eye contact)
So I need to you relax, just keep your hands really loose and not tense at all.
Now you need to keep eye contact with me.
Ok so make sure you are relaxed and I am going to ask you just a simple
question.
(Here you can implement bait to engage her more so she is more invested
with the statement below)
You know, I don’t know if I can ask you this…well, maybe. Ok so you
ready?
So just say the first thing off the top of your head, don’t think about it…
What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
(at this point you will get one of 3 reactions. But the most common is that
she will laugh. She may answer it, she may even get a little standoffish with
it too. The main thing is that you immediately diffuse the situation, because
you are going to frame off of it. So let go of her hands and say this…)
Alright, it actually had nothing to do with the question. Just relax, no big
deal, but like I said there are usually 3 different types of people. There are
people that laugh when you ask them something personal like that, there are
people that will answer it right away and there are people that get a little bit
standoffish when you ask.
But it is good, because you (look below and insert the applicable cold
read/frame)…
Laughs- You actually got embarrassed and started to laugh. And some
people will get a little upset, and they are usually people that will react to
confrontation in anger, so that is no good. And then there are people that
actually answer it right away, and they are usually people who will feel they
need to please people and often times they will lie just to always have
something to say.
But you started to laugh and that is good because it means you have a sense
of humor when things can come your way. But also your environment can
determine so much of that.
But the funny thing is that I noticed that when I asked you that, your face
kind of reacted for a moment and I could tell that you do have this total wild
side to you, (here you need to say the proceeding with some humor) and I
actually don’t really want to know the answer to that question…my mother
always warned me about girls like you. If all the lights went off in the club
right now, I wouldn’t want to know what kind of crazy stuff you would do.
Answers right away- You actually were able to answer it right away so that’s
good. Most people get a little standoffish or they get embarrassed. And
those people are people I don’t really like to be around cause, they actually
react towards pressure in either being upset or they are embarrassed to be
themselves. But the fact that you answered right away means that you
actually are someone who will take risks when they are in the right direction.
And to me that is important because that is how everything in my life that
manifested in success came about.
But the funny thing is that I noticed that when I asked you that, your face
kind of reacted for a moment and I could tell that you do have this total wild
side to you, (here you need to say the proceeding with some humor) and I
actually don’t really want to know the answer to that question…my mother
always warned me about girls like you. If all the lights when off in the club
right now, I wouldn’t want to know what kind of crazy stuff you would do.
Standoffish- Actually how you reacted is good because like I said there are
3 different types of people that I would run into and some people will
answer without thinking and just react and other people might get
embarrassed, and I usually don’t like associating with people like that,
because their insecurities normally override their passions. And someone
who acts a bit defensive is someone who has their passions lead them a bit
more than what their fears are. You are your best self when you actually
allow yourself to feel that way. But one of the things I bet you run into is
when you can totally step over the edge with things.
But the funny thing that I noticed when I asked you that, your face kind of
reacted for a moment and I could tell that you do have this total wild side to
you, (here you need to say the proceeding with some humor) and I actually
don’t really want to know the answer to that question…my mother always
warned me about girls like you. If all the lights when off in the club right
now, I wouldn’t want to know what kind of crazy stuff you would do.
Ok, I hope all of you have as much success with these routines as I have.
Best,
Jon Sinn