Non Verbal Communication

NON VERBAL COMMUNICATION
Your nonverbal communication cues—the way you listen, look, move, and react—tell the person you’re communicating
with whether or not you care, if you’re being truthful, and how well you’re listening. When your nonverbal signals match
up with the words you’re saying, they increase trust, clarity, and rapport. When they don’t, they can generate tension,
mistrust, and confusion.
If you want to become a better communicator, it’s important to become more sensitive not only to the body language
and nonverbal cues of others, but also to your own.
Nonverbal communication is the process of sending and receiving messages without using words, either spoken or
written. Also called manual language. Similar to the way that italicizing emphasizes written language, nonverbal
behavior may emphasize parts of a verbal message.
Nonverbal communication plays an important role in how we convey meaning and information to others, as well as how
we interpret the actions of those around us. The important thing to remember when looking at such nonverbal
behaviors is to consider the actions in groups. What a person actually says along with his or her expressions,
appearance, and tone of voice might tell you a great deal about what that person is really trying to say.
Nonverbal communication can play five roles:
Repetition: It repeats and often strengthens the message you’re making verbally.
Contradiction: It can contradict the message you’re trying to convey, thus indicating to your listener that you may not be
telling the truth.
Substitution: It can substitute for a verbal message. For example, your facial expression often conveys a far more vivid
message than words ever can.
Complementing: It may add to or complement your verbal message. As a boss, if you pat an employee on the back in
addition to giving praise, it can increase the impact of your message.
Accenting: It may accent or underline a verbal message. Pounding the table, for example, can underline the importance
of your message.
Types of Nonverbal Communication
1. Facial Expressions
Facial expressions are responsible for a huge proportion of nonverbal communication.1 Consider how much information
can be conveyed with a smile or a frown. The look on a person's face is often the first thing we see, even before we hear
what they have to say.
While nonverbal communication and behavior can vary dramatically between cultures, the facial expressions for
happiness, sadness, anger, and fear are similar throughout the world.
2. Gestures
Deliberate movements and signals are an important way to communicate meaning without words.2 Common gestures
include waving, pointing, and using fingers to indicate numeric amounts. Other gestures are arbitrary and related to
culture.In courtroom settings, lawyers have been known to utilize different nonverbal signals to attempt to sway juror
opinions. An attorney might glance at his watch to suggest that the opposing lawyer's argument is tedious or might even
roll his eyes at the testimony offered by a witness in an attempt to undermine his or her credibility. These nonverbal
signals are seen as being so powerful and influential that some judges even place limits on what type of nonverbal
behaviors are allowed in the courtroom.
3. Paralinguistics
Paralinguistics refers to vocal communication that is separate from actual language.3 This includes factors such as tone
of voice, loudness, inflection, and pitch. Consider the powerful effect that tone of voice can have on the meaning of a
sentence. When said in a strong tone of voice, listeners might interpret approval and enthusiasm. The same words said
in a hesitant tone of voice might convey disapproval and a lack of interest.
Consider all the different ways that simply changing your tone of voice might change the meaning of a sentence. A friend
might ask you how you are doing, and you might respond with the standard "I'm fine," but how you actually say those
words might reveal a tremendous amount of how you are really feeling. A cold tone of voice might suggest that you are
actually not fine, but you don't wish to discuss it. A bright, happy tone of voice will reveal that you are actually doing
quite well. A somber, downcast tone would indicate that you are the opposite of fine and that perhaps your friend
should inquire further.
4. Body Language and Posture
Posture and movement can also convey a great deal of information.4 Research on body language has grown significantly
since the 1970's, but popular media have focused on the over-interpretation of defensive postures, arm-crossing, and
leg-crossing, especially after publishing Julius Fast's book Body Language.
While these nonverbal behaviors can indicate feelings and attitudes, research suggests that body language is far more
subtle and less definitive than previously believed.
5. Proxemics
People often refer to their need for "personal space," which is also an important type of nonverbal
communication.5 The amount of distance we need and the amount of space we perceive as belonging to us is influenced
by a number of factors including social norms, cultural expectations, situational factors, personality characteristics, and
level of familiarity. For example, the amount of personal space needed when having a casual conversation with another
person usually varies between 18 inches to four feet. On the other hand, the personal distance needed when speaking
to a crowd of people is around 10 to 12 feet.
6. Eye Gaze
The eyes play an important role in nonverbal communication and such things as looking, staring and blinking are
important nonverbal behaviors. When people encounter people or things that they like, the rate of blinking increases
and pupils dilate. Looking at another person can indicate a range of emotions including hostility, interest, and attraction.
People also utilize eye gaze as a means to determine if someone is being honest.6 Normal, steady eye contact is often
taken as a sign that a person is telling the truth and is trustworthy. Shifty eyes and an inability to maintain eye contact,
on the other hand, is frequently seen as an indicator that someone is lying or being deceptive.
7. Haptics
Communicating through touch is another important nonverbal behavior. There has been a substantial amount of
research on the importance of touch in infancy and early childhood. Harry Harlow's classic monkey study demonstrated
how deprived touch and contact impedes development. Baby monkeys raised by wire mothers experienced permanent
deficits in behavior and social interaction. Touch can be used to communicate affection, familiarity, sympathy, and other
emotions.
In her book Interpersonal Communication: Everyday Encounters, author Julia Wood writes that touch is also often used
as a way to communicate both status and power.7 Researchers have found that high-status individuals tend to invade
other people's personal space with greater frequency and intensity than lower-status individuals. Sex differences also
play a role in how people utilize touch to communicate meaning.
Women tend to use touch to convey care, concern, and nurturance. Men, on the other hand, are more likely to use
touch to assert power or control over others.
8. Appearance
Our choice of color, clothing, hairstyles, and other factors affecting appearance are also considered a means of
nonverbal communication.8 Research on color psychology has demonstrated that different colors can evoke different
moods. Appearance can also alter physiological reactions, judgments, and interpretations. Just think of all the subtle
judgments you quickly make about someone based on his or her appearance. These first impressions are important,
which is why experts suggest that job seekers dress appropriately for interviews with potential employers.
Researchers have found that appearance can play a role in how people are perceived and even how much they earn.
One 1996 study found that attorneys who were rated as more attractive than their peers earned nearly 15 percent more
than those ranked as less attractive. Culture is an important influence on how appearances are judged. While thinness
tends to be valued in Western cultures, some African cultures relate full-figured bodies to better health, wealth, and
social status.
9. Artifacts
Objects and images are also tools that can be used to communicate nonverbally. On an online forum, for example, you
might select an avatar to represent your identity online and to communicate information about who you are and the
things you like. People often spend a great deal of time developing a particular image and surrounding themselves with
objects designed to convey information about the things that are important to them. Uniforms, for example, can be
used to transmit a tremendous amount of information about a person. A soldier will don fatigues, a police offers will
wear a uniform, and a doctor will wear a white lab coat. At a mere glance, these outfits tell people what a person does
for a living.

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