Attachment Theory and Loss Work: Skilled Helper Course 2012

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Attachment Theory and Loss Work

Skilled Helper Course


2012
What is attachment theory?
What is attachment theory?

 It is about the relationships we form with primary


care-givers in childhood that come to represent the
‘model for adult relationships’

 It describes how these early relationships develop


our initial understandings of ‘how relationships work’
and ‘what we can expect from relationships’

 It describes how a child first learns about the world


and the effects that this learning has into adulthood
Attachment: Individual Differences

 Attachment is not an ‘all or nothing’ process

 There may be variations between children in


the attachments they form

 Later relationships can begin to ‘heal’ difficult


childhood attachment experiences
Ainsworth & Bell (1971)

 3 patterns of attachment:

 Secure

 Insecure – avoidant

 Insecure – anxious ambivalent

 [Insecure – disorganised (this was a later classification)]

 Ainsworth suggested that attachment type was


determined by primary carer’s (mother’s) behaviour
Primary Carer’s Behaviour
Towards Child

Child’s ‘Working Model’


of Itself

Positive & Loved Unloved & Angry &


Rejected Confused

Secure Avoidant Anxious/ambiv


Ainsworth & Bell (1971)
 Secure attachment
Associated with sensitive & responsive primary care
Ainsworth & Bell (1971)
 Insecure –avoidant
Associated with unresponsive primary care
Ainsworth & Bell (1971)
 Insecure - anxious / ambivalent
Associated with inconsistent primary care
Main (1984)

 Insecure - disorganized / disoriented


 Associated with helpless and frightened parenting.
Lack of confidence in primary carers.
ATTACHMENT THEORY
(Parkes And Utrecht Group)

 These patterns of attachment can influence:

 subsequent attachments

 the reaction when these attachments are


interrupted by death.
Attachment in Grief and Loss (Parkes,
2006)

Secure:

 Secure in attachments in adult life.

 Less distressed by bereavement than those


who were insecurely attached.
Attachment in Grief and Loss (Parkes,
2006)
Anxious/ ambivalent:

 Predisposed to cling and react with severe


and lasting grief to loss in adult life.

 Lack confidence in their ability to cope

 Relationships tend to be conflicted


Attachment in Grief and Loss (Parkes,
2006)

Avoidant:

 Attachments that are too close can be dangerous

 Distrust of others

 Compulsive self-reliance

 Inhibited expression of love and grief


Attachment in Grief and Loss (Parkes,
2006)

Disorganised:

 Lack trust in themselves and others

 Turn in on themselves

 Highly anxious

 May resort to substance misuse

 At danger of self harm


Links with other Theories

Range of Overwhelmed Resilient Controlled


Response to by loss response to response to loss
loss
Loss
Machin (2001)
Attachment style Anxious/ Secure Avoidant
et al ambivalent attachment attachment
attachment
(1978)

Dual Process Loss orientation Oscillation Restoration


Model
Stroebe & Schut
(1999)
Ainsworth: The Strange Situation
Ainsworth & Bell (1971)

 Controlled observation of children’s


attachment behaviour using the ‘Strange
Situation Classification’ (SSC):
 Mother leaves child in unfamiliar environment
 Child is approached by stranger
 Mother returns
 Looks at separation protest, stranger anxiety and
reunion behaviour

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