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Supplement to The Jewish Standard • July 2019
 EXCEPTIONAL
CARE FOR EVERY
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The Children’s Center at Chilton Medical Center
The only fully dedicated, comprehensive children’s center of its kind in northern New Jersey, the Children’s Center at Chilton
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services and hospital care in a family-friendly environment, it puts the needs of children and their families first. With a
kids playroom, a family lounge, and sleeping accommodations for parents, our team of experienced and compassionate
pediatric physicians and nurses puts everybody, big and little, at ease. And because we’re part of Atlantic Health System,
there is ready access to more than 100 pediatric specialists with advanced expertise, all connected to your pediatrician.

Where You Go For Pediatric Care Matters

Chilton Medical Center ∙ 97 West Parkway, Pompton Plains | Goryeb Children’s Hospital ∙ 100 Madison Avenue, Morristown

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 musings from the editor
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here is a video of the kids. Let’s not forget Purim. Musclebound and
Yehuda is about 5. Shaina about 4. Yehu- masked blue-and-red costumes each year were de
da’s leg is propped on the edge of the televi- rigueur, one a size larger than one of the last year.
sion stand, and he is a foot away from the screen. Shaina even got into the mania and dressed in a cos-
At the other end of the living room, Shaina no- tume of Spider-Girl — who doesn’t exist.
tices a camera rolling and starts a conversation with One of Yehuda’s best Spider-Man encounters was
the videographer, our friend, Tina. a gift for his 12th birthday. On Broadway, the musical
“Whatcha doing?” Tina asks. “Spider-Man: Turn Off the Dark” was playing, and
Rocking back and forth and cocking her head to Jeff and I surprised him with tickets. The high-flying
one side, Shaina, looking quite cute, says, “Yehuda’s acrobatics of characters swooping into the audience
watching Spider-Man.” was a thrill, especially when Spider-Man landed feet
Yes, Spider-Man who came into our home away. The autograph from Reeve Carney, who had
when Yehuda was old enough to read — and who the title role, was pretty good, too.
hasn’t left. Shaina and Yehuda meet Reeve Carney, aka As Yehuda got older, Spider-Man mania receded.
The beloved Marvel superhero created by ge- Spider-Man Imagine my surprise with Shaina.
nius writer-editor Stan Lee and writ- Perhaps it is more about the actor than the
er-artist Steve Ditko first appeared gled with feelings of rejection, inade- character for Shaina, who recently set out to meet
to comic book lovers in August 1962. quacy, and loneliness. Tom Holland, the actor who plays Spider-Man in the
Several decades later, he came into our And, he may be Jewish, too! soon-to-be-released “Spider-Man: Far from Home.”
house. Spider-Man was the alias of Pe- So how did S-M manifest in She went to the Empire State Building, worked
ter Parker, a most relatable and sympa- our home? her way into a press conference, and then took a
thetic brainy teen. An orphan reared by Well, of course, there were the selfie with Zendaya, the actress who plays MJ, Spi-
his Aunt May and Uncle Ben in Queens comic books. Kept in protective plastic der-Man’s love interest. Guess who photobombed
after his parents were killed in a plane envelopes and stored in impeccable or- that picture? Tom Holland! Spider-Man! Needless to
crash, he also was a comic book break- der, Yehuda would gingerly read each say, Shaina was thrilled!
through. Teen characters had been one and put them back on the book- The kids may be big now, but I can still say
relegated as sidekicks of the protago- shelf in their designated space. thanks to “Spider-Man” for helping to spin their
nist, but Spider-Man was the main hero. With his Then, the ephemera, props and art: A Spi- sweet memories.
spider-like abilities after being bit by a radioactive der-Man lamp, a Spider-Man piggy bank, posters
spider, he could cling to surfaces, shoot spider webs, of said Spider-Man, and even an original oil paint- Cheers,
and detect danger with his “spider sense.” He was ing lovingly created by our babysitter and given to
awesome. And like so many teens, Spider-Man strug- Yehuda as a gift.

Drs. Howard Friedman, Christopher Weiss, Shana Kaye and Maggie Love
of Washington Avenue Pediatrics are delighted to announce that
Dr. Steven Schuss and Dr. Pnina Marciano
of Teaneck Pediatrics will be joining our practice.
As of August 26, 2019, they will be seeing patients at our office in Bergenfield.
We look forward to welcoming them and the patients of Teaneck
Pediatrics to the Washington Avenue Pediatrics family.

95 North Washington Avenue • Bergenfield, NJ

Phone – 201 384 0300 • Fax – 201 384 9518
www.washingtonavenuepediatrics.com
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And Off They Go to Sleep-Away Camp

Denise Morrison Yearian Did he or she sleep well? Was he or she able to care to be extravagant, just something to let him know you
for himself (brush teeth, take a bath, change clothes)? are thinking of him. Just be sure if you are sending food,

S
leep-away camp is a wonderful, growth-filled ex- Did he or she adjust to new or different foods? These you know the rules about food in cabins, as it could at-
perience that provides your child with invaluable and other questions will help you decide if your child is tract bugs and outdoor creatures.
life lessons on how to be independent, responsi- ready for the residential camp experience. Several weeks before camp, keep your child’s
ble, and make diverse friendships. On the first day of camp, help your child get set- schedule open and stress-free. This will allow plenty
So how do you go about choosing the right sleep- tled, then leave. Don’t stick around too long. If you of time to relax and prepare for the big event. In short,
away camp? drive your child to camp, he or she may cling to you on plan major summer events like family vacations and
First, talk it over with your child and discuss his in- the way up. Remember, this is something new, and it’s camp with a break in between.
terests. Finding a camp with activities he will enjoy is im- natural, even for a veteran camper, to be a little hes- Avoid purchasing new clothes for camp. Chances
portant, but it’s also a great place to try something dif- itant. Once there, however, many kids will shift from are, they’ll get soiled, stained, or mildewed before they
ferent. Encourage your child to try new experiences. Just clingy to embarrassed in front of their friends, and get home, if they make it home. Round up old clothes
because he or she likes soccer doesn’t mean she might parents are often slow to pick up on this. and shoes. Save the new items for after camp.
not enjoy learning a new skill, such as arts and crafts. Even before sending your child to camp, mail a let- On the last day of camp, arrive on time, and come
Next, explore the options. Find out about programs ter. This way your child has something to open when prepared with a few extra plastic bags. You may need
each camp offers and ask questions. Sometimes parents the mail arrives on the first day. It doesn’t have to be them, especially if your child has wet clothes or muddy
find out whether there is quality instruction and enough anything fancy, just a note saying that he is in your shoes that need to be transported.
time for their child to participate in the said activity, and thoughts and your wishes for a good time. If your child On the ride home, listen to your child as she shares
stop there. Take time, however, to learn about other seg- doesn’t write back, don’t take it personally. Camp is a her experiences with you. And if you look really close-
ments of the program too. What concepts or philosophy
does the camp espouse? What will my child do through
art, fashion or teen programs
full-time job for kids. Some may be inclined to share
it all with their parents, others will get so caught up
ly, you may find he or she is grown. Not just in height,
but in depth of character. Camp has a way of helping
the course of a typical day? If the camp has a brochure, in the moment that promises to write are forgotten. If Gradetheir
kids grow by boosting 2ndself-esteem,
- 9th increasing their
read it carefully, then match it to your agenda and the you don’t hear from your child, it probably means he Age sense of responsibility,
Appropriate Art &and helping them
Fashion mature
Design in their
Programs
experience you want for your child. or she is having a great time and enjoying the Available
new- relationships with others.
in Weekly sessions at Our Englewood Location
To determine if your child is developmentally ready found freedom.
Denise june 26 thru august 18th maga-
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for sleep-away camp, do a trial run. Send your child to Whether your child goes to camp for one week or Yearian is the former editor of two parenting
visit a relative for the weekend. How did the child do? the whole summer, send a care package.Impressionist
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Fun Things for Kids to Do

in Israel this Summer
Taking the kids to Israel is always a wonderful thing her family in Israel, amassed quite list of to-dos for sightseeing, experiential exploration, and more. Here’s
to do, and many families are planning to spend their her children — and for yours. In this updated edition to a safe and fun trip.
summer or part of their summer in the Holy Land. of “Take Your Kids to Israel,” published by Ben Yehuda
Aileen Kirschenbaum, a Hebrew day school teacher Press, Ms. Kirschenbaum gives toddlers, older kids, Heidi Mae Bratt
on Long Island, has, after many summers spent with and teens the right mix of modern and ancient history,

Segway tour on the Haas Promenade

Segway tours: This is run by Ir David. 1½-2 hours. Great for teens! This prom-
Ride a Segway and get an overview of enade is also a wonderful place to see a
the ancient city of Jerusalem. This is a panoramic view of the Old City. There
guided tour on the Haas Promenade. is a park here for children to play.
You should be 16 years old to drive a Haas Promenade
Segway, but sometimes they are a bit 02-561-8056
more lenient. The tour takes about www.segway-jerusalem.co.il

Israel Museum

Israel Museum and Shrine of the Book: a 19th century reconstructed German
The Dead Sea Scrolls are housed in a synagogue, and a wooden 16th centu-
white domelike structure in this muse- ry synagogue from India. There is also
um. The shape of the pavilion is similar a youth wing where hands-on exhibits
to the lids of the jars in which the Dead and workshops may interest children.
Sea Scrolls were found. Next to the Givat Ram
shrine is the Billy Rose Sculpture Gar- 11 Rupin Blvd.
den. In the main building you will find 02-670-8811, 02-670-8873
the interior of a 18th century synagogue www.imj.org.il
brought here intact from northern Italy,

Kif Tzuba: This is an indoor/outdoor visitors. Prices are greatly reduced the
amusement park for toddlers and last few hours the park is open.
school age children. There are inflat- Kibbutz Tzuba,
able castles, a train, bumper cars, a large off the Jerusalem-Tel Aviv Road
indoor play area and more. The roller 02-534-7952
coaster is great for young children. Get www.kiftzuba.co.il/
there early as they limit the number of

Aileen Kirschenbaum lives in Plainview, N.Y. with her husband, Ben. She teaches second grade
at the Hebrew Academy of Nassau County in Plainview. She spends most of her vacation time
in Israel with family and friends.

“Take Your Kids to Israel, A Guide to Family Fun in the Holy Land”
Copyright © 2019 Ben Yehuda Press. Used by permission. Kif Tzuba
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Time to Take Me Out to the Ballgame

Denise Morrison Yearian page of your day at the park.” Although the Rowes arrive early for games, they
Whatever you do, arrive early. “Most stadiums almost always leave before the final out. “Hannah loves

O
ne of America’s favorite pastimes is attending open their gates 60 to 90 minutes prior to the game the whole ballpark ambiance, but by the seventh inning,
major and minor league baseball games. Be- start so patrons can find their seats, avoid food and she’s ready to go,” said Mr. Rowe. “I know as she gets old-
fore you and your family head to the ballpark concession lines, receive limited giveaway items, and er and learns more about the game she’ll enjoy it even
this summer, consider how to make it a more memo- watch pre-game events and batting and infield prac- more. For now she just likes watching the team play,
rable experience. tice,” said Mr. Kemple. seeing the mascots and special events, and receiving the
“If your child isn’t an avid fan of any particular That’s how Hannah landed several signature balls. giveaways. It’s what keeps her coming back for more.”
team, choose one nearby that is having a good season “We always arrive early so we can watch the team
or has several star players to keep it interesting,” said practice,” said Mr. Rowe. “It’s also the best time to get Denise Morrison Yearian is the former editor of two parent-
minor league spokesperson Chris Kemple. “Next, get the players’ autographs.” ing magazines and a mother and grandmother.
on the team’s website to see which games offer spe-
cial promotions for kids — either in giveaways, pre- or
post-game events or discounted tickets.”
That’s what Deborah Rowe does. As former minor
league team booster members, she and her husband
have always enjoyed attending baseball games. “When
our daughter came along, we wanted to give her that
same opportunity,” said the mother of her now 5-year
old. “Hannah and I sit at the computer and go over
which games have special promotions so she can pick
the ones she wants to see.”
To build excitement for attending games, play
catch with your child, watch televised games together,
and discuss fundamentals of the sport. If your child
hasn’t signed up to play in an area league, encourage
participation.
Bill Mitchell has done this. By the time William
was age 3, his father was taking him to major and more
often minor league games. “When our team wasn’t
home, we’d watch the major leagues on TV,” said Mr.
Mitchell of his 11-year-old son. “He’d ask questions
about the game and we’d discuss different players and
their positions. Now he’s a newspaper and Internet
guy. He loves to read the stats and go online to see
how different teams and players are doing.”
“Nearly all major and minor league teams have
websites with pages designed specifically for chil-
dren. Some are simple, others are more detailed,” said
Meghan Essman, major league fan development and
educational programs administrator. “The elaborate

watershed
ones teach children about the team and the sport on
their level. Some even have video clips kids can watch
and word searches, coloring pages, or wallpaper

recreation program
downloads.”
Organization-affiliated kids’ clubs are a good way
to introduce children to baseball and build enthusiasm
for attending games. For a minimal cost, kids can join
and receive discounted tickets, invitations to special
events, newsletters, a membership card and team-re-
lated sundries.
The Watershed Recreation Program is now open from April 1 to November 30, 2019.
Before leaving home, encourage your child to
dress in team attire. William does this. “He has sev-
eral team jerseys, so he’ll find out which one the team Participants can fish, walk, bird watch, hike, or simply enjoy nature. Your permit provides access
is playing in and wear his; he wears his cap too,” said to four reservoirs – Old Tappan, Oradell and Woodcliff Lake in New Jersey and Lake DeForest in
Mr. Mitchell. “When he was younger, the players called Rockland County, New York.
him the bubblegum kid because he’d tote along a con-
tainer of bubblegum and offer them some as they For an online application visit: www.SUEZWatershed.com
went onto the field. This made him feel really special.”
Some children make signs for their favorite players
to cheer them on. Others do face painting, either at
home or when they get to the park. “I suggest kids
bring along a glove in the event a foul ball heads their mysuezwater.com
way,” said Ms. Essman. “Don’t forget your camera ei-
ther. Even after the game you can make a scrapbook
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Turning a ‘Bossy’ Child

into a Future Leader
Adina Soclof ways. We can teach them how to be leaders who are “Don’t worry, we will let you know when it’s your
kind to others, how to take charge while treating oth- turn to make the decision and when it is our turn to

M
any of us are dealing with a “bossy” child. ers with respect, and how to be assertive and stand make the decision.
They’re the ones who want to be in charge. their ground politely. “It is so good that children have parents to be in
They tell their friends and siblings when, To help our “bossy” children reach their full po- charge of them, it makes children feel safe.
what, and how to play. They can be disrespectful to tential, we need to help them balance their real need “Mommy’s and Daddy’s jobs are to be the boss
their teachers and their parents. for control and leadership with their ability to respect of children. That helps children learn to be their own
their parents. Not only does it teach them to respect bosses when they are adults.”
The good: others, but also all children, even the “bossy” ones, feel You can also teach them a spiritual lesson as well,
Being bossy isn’t all bad. Our goal as parents is to teach safer and more secure when they know their parents what it means to be a benevolent “boss”:
our children enough life skills so that they can manage and the other adults in their life are really the ones “God is the boss over all of us. He is the best boss.
one day on their own and be productive members of who are in control. He loves us and takes such good care of us.”
society. The “bossy” child already has a strong dose of
the independence they need to make it on their own. Teaching kids to respect authority: Praise them for accepting authority:
Part of our parenting job is already done! We can teach our kids to respect our authority and how It is extra difficult for these children to obey the adults
Instead of the word “bossy,” try using more pos- to use their “bossiness” in appropriate in their lives. Praising them for this can help motivate
itive terms. They are assertive, they show and kind ways. them to continue to do this. Try the following:
leadership qualities, or they are a “take “You like being in charge, but when I said that I
charge” kind of person. Give children choices: had to make the decision, we had to go to the super-
Changing a negative label to a This is the perfect way to market before the park, you were sad but you did it
positive one is powerful. It helps help children who need to (even if he/she were poorly behaved!).
us alter the way we handle be in charge. The parent
our child and redefines our offers the choice; they are Give them lots of opportunities
goals. Instead of expend- acting with authority and to be in control:
ing all our energy in the child needs to com- These children can be the best helpers, if they are in
preventing our child ply, but can decide how he charge. Put the laundry, cooking, or the organizing
from being bossy, we will comply. into their capable hands. Find out where their talents
can focus on help- When we say, “Would lie and let them take over. We don’t want to pass
ing our kids use you like to clean your dolls on the opportunity to teach them to be contributing
these qualities or the Lego?” we are ac- members of our household. Again, we want them to
in productive tually saying, “You need to use their character traits in positive ways. We can say,
clean up, but you can be in “I need some help with the laundry. Are you available?
charge of how you do it.” Would you be able to do some of it yourself, while I
This technique is essen- peel carrots?
tial for all kids but impera- “It’s a good thing you are home. Is there anyway
tive with “bossy” children. you can help me with the cooking for Shabbos? What
Here are some other would you like to be in charge of?”
examples: Which choice of
vegetable would you like, Put the ball in their court:
carrots or green beans? The best way to teach children to be respectful and
Do you want to use a kinder to others is to problem-solve with them how
booster seat or sit right on they can be more respectful and kinder to others. Re-
the chair? member, they like to be in charge, even over what and
Would you like to pick how they say things. When they are being disrespect-
up 5 or 10 toys? ful or unkind, try the following:
“What would be a kinder way to say that?”
Run a PR campaign: “Is there a more respectful way that you can ask
When things are quiet, for that?”
around the dinner table, in Having a “bossy” kid can be challenging. Teaching
a roundabout and indirect way, them to respect authority and kinder ways to interact
try saying the following: with others can go a long way in helping them become
“In our family we really like the leaders they are meant to be.
our children to practice making
their own decisions. So some of the Adina Soclof is a parent educator, professional development
time we let our kids make decisions instructor, and speech pathologist She is the founder of
but many times we need to make the ParentingSimply.com and available for speaking engage-
decisions for everyone! ments. Reach her at [email protected].

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Chutzpah! The Nerve!

Slovie Jungreis-Wolff
middle of doing. Maya calls the shots. stead of finding peace, the result is chutzpah and dis-

“W
e have a problem.” “This behavior can’t be allowed to continue,” I tell respect. The child learns that he can bring his parents
“Tell me,” I say to parents on Maya’s parents. “Not only is it destructive to Maya, but to bicker and quarrel. There is no sense of discipline.
the line. “Our-nine-year old daugh- her younger siblings are certainly taking this all in and There is no sense of respect.
ter…” I hear only silence. “Yes?” “Well, we want you to believing that this is permissible. Soon this will be a The first thing I advise Maya’s parents to do is to
know that she is a really special child. We don’t want family based on disrespect. come together and parent with one voice. I ask them
you to think badly of her. She’s usually so good. She’s “We know this is bad,” they say, “but what can we to decide how they would like to handle the conflicts
great in school, has lots of friends and her teachers do? She just doesn’t listen.” and which behaviors would bring consequences. I ex-
only have the best things to say about her.” “You and Maya are going to sit down and have a plain to Maya’s mother that she is contributing to her
“Okay,” I respond. “So what’s the problem?” very serious discussion. Both of you need to be there – daughter’s disrespect every time she asks her husband
There is an uncomfortable pause on the other end. no cell phones, no blackberries, no interruptions. She to look away or give in to bad behavior.
And then Maya’s mother begins to speak. needs to see that you mean business. I am going to We set four principles of discipline to be followed
“She is so disrespectful; I am sometimes reduced to guide you but I want to know one more thing. When that I would like to share with you.
tears. She erupts in anger and says mean things to us.” the chutzpah occurs, what do you do?”
Maya’s father now adds to the conversation. “Some- Maya’s father tells me that the disrespect is often 1. Remove unnecessary sources of conflict
times I can’t believe the behavior I’m watching. I totally flung toward him. He tells her it’s not right to speak Just as we remove delicate or dangerous objects from
don’t understand it! She is a doll to everyone else. She this way and then she answers back that he doesn’t our toddlers’ reach instead of saying “no” the whole
gets awards in school. Whenever she has a play date, know how to handle her. day, it is wise to eliminate any insignificant causes of
her friends’ parents cannot stop praising her. But here, “You should learn from Mommy! She knows how disagreement. Decide which situations are important
she can become nasty and turn this house upside down.” to handle me.” and which are not. This way, you do not feel as if your
It’s quite common for parents to hear glowing re- “What does she mean by that? What exactly does days and nights are spent constantly quarreling.
ports about their child and yet, feel helpless at home as Mommy do?” I ask.
they live on the receiving end of incredible disrespect. Maya’s mom explains to me that she often cajoles 2. Establish routines
What could be happening to cause such a drastic her husband to give their daughter another chance. Many conflicts occur when children do not know what
change in public versus private behavior? When Maya misbehaves or speaks disrespectfully, her to expect or what is permissible. If we sometimes al-
“Let me ask you a few questions. First, can you father will get upset and threaten her with a punish- low children to play ball indoors or nosh before din-
describe to me some of the chutzpah and then we can ment. Maya’s mother than asks her husband to look ner and other times we say “no,” we cause confusion.
figure out if there are any triggers.” away or let their daughter “just have one more cookie,” Children then test our limits and push until they hear
Maya’s parents tell me about her coming home or “five more minutes.” “yes” because they know that we will give in if they
from school each afternoon and making a big deal Maya’s mother can’t stand dealing with the emo- push hard enough.
about supper. She would rather eat junk food and tions and conflict.
so she refuses to eat dinner until she consumes the I now have my ah-ha moment. This is the info I’ve 3. Do not use the word ‘punishment’
snacks that she desires. She does her homework but been waiting for. A punishment connotes evil stepmothers in Disney
after she is done, the night becomes an evening with- The first they need to do is to come together and movies and inspires feelings of unfairness and revenge.
out boundaries. She refuses to go to sleep at her set parent with one voice. Instead we want to help children learn that they are
bedtime. She refuses to get into pajamas and brush her In many families, there is one parent who tries to responsible for their behavior — both good and bad.
teeth when told. Usually she ends up playing on the be the ‘nice guy’. When there is conflict this parent This brings us to #4.
computer or reading until she decides it’s time to call wants to restore peace quickly and be surrounded by
it a night. When told to go to sleep, Maya ignores her happy faces. Usually, it becomes two against one as the 4. Discuss privileges and natural consequences.
parents and keeps on doing whatever it is she is in the child allies with one parent against the other. But in- Explain to your child that it is a privilege to be in this
family. And it is a privilege to play on the computer,
have special time to read before bed, as well as toys to
play with, (cell phones) and nights out with the family.
If you speak disrespectfully or ignore family rules, you
obviously do not appreciate the privileges you have
been given and cause yourself natural consequences
of losing these privileges.
As the parent, you will have to think about the
natural consequences that best suit your child’s life.
This conversation should take place before any new
conflict occurs. Speak in a gentle but firm tone. Lose
the anger, which only alienates children, and speak
from your heart. Instead of giving a long rambling lec-
ture, say your points clearly and concisely. Be sure to
give your child one or two examples of the behavior
that will not be tolerated and ask him to think about a
better response that will allow you to hear his words
but without the chutzpah.

Slovie Jungreis-Wolff is a teacher and parenting coach. She is

the author of “Raising a Child with Soul,” (St. Martin’s Press),
and the daughter of the late Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis.

Aish.com
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Ravi Dhamija, a medical technician with DispatchHealth, and Erin Leonard, nurse practitioner, DNP, making a house call.

The Old-Fashioned Medical

House Call Makes a Comeback
Heidi Mae Bratt medical facility. Emergency rooms have long waits, and istration of intravenous fluids and lab tests, and
it’s still a trip to drive to the urgent care facility. therefore avoid trips to the emergency room,” said

Y
ou’re a mother of three young children home An old-fashioned house call might just be what Dr. McGreal.
alone and one child needs immediate medical the doctor ordered. With this partnership, Valley Health System
care. It’s not impossible, but not so easy to Valley Health System is partnering with a compa- hopes to provide patients three months of age and
pack them all in the car and get the child to a nearby ny called DispatchHealth to deliver on-demand urgent older with the opportunity to be treated for a variety
care to patients at home, essentially bringing back the of injuries and illnesses directly in their home, allow-
house call. ing for a more comfortable and convenient health-
Come Smile with Us “Imagine being a mother of three young children
and not having to pack them all into the car for a trip
care experience.
In turn, this will help reduce unnecessary emer-
to urgent care if one of them is ill,” said Dr. Mark F. gency room visits and hospitalizations, improve
Vogel, an emergency room physician at Valley Health clinical outcomes, and decrease costs for the overall
who co-directs the service with Dr. John J. McGreal. healthcare system.
“DispatchHealth offers our community the con- DispatchHealth and Valley are working together
venience of an urgent care visit in the comfort of their to increase accessibility to affordable care for busy
homes,” said Dr. McGreal. working parents and seniors, both of whom can bene-
The service is available in northern New Jersey fit from staying home for treatment. In fact, the med-
from 9 a.m. to 9 p.m., seven days a week, 365 days a ical cost for a DispatchHealth visit is nearly one-tenth
year, including holidays. of the medical cost for an ER visit.
In order to get either a physician’s assistant or nurse “We remain committed to excellence in clinical
Dr Ari Frohlich practitioner to visit your home, customers can go to a care, service delivery, and meeting the needs of those
Dr Richard Gertler website, or access a free mobile app to request care. The in our community,” said Robert Brenner, M.D., presi-
Dr Sami Solaimanzadeh medical team typically arrives at the patient’s home dent of Clinical Integration and Physician Enterprise,
• Almost all private insurances accepted within a few hours. Valley Health System. “Our partnership with Dispatch-
• Child friendly practice In addition to a physician assistant or nurse prac- Health is only one of the initiatives underway at Valley
• Brand new state of the art facility titioner, each medical team includes a medical tech- to ensure multiple convenient ways for our patients
• Ability to see whole family simultaneously with nician. They bring with them a medical kit that has to access care from our organization. Our goal is to
multiple hygienists available at the same time about 70 percent of the tools and technologies found provide the right care at the appropriate place, at an
in an emergency room, allowing the medical team to appropriate cost and at the right time.”
TEANECK DENTIST perform a variety of advanced tests and treatments,
ranging from blood tests, to a 12-lead EKG, IV fluids,
To ensure continuity of care, DispatchHealth pro-
vides a detailed report to each primary care physician,
We put the Care and more. living community, or home health agency, in addition to
into Dental Care! DispatchHealth can treat a wide range of com- electronically sending prescriptions to a patient’s phar-
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patient’s home. DispatchHealth.com.
Visit us on Facebook “DispatchHealth also enables seniors to conve-
niently receive care at home, including the admin- Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of About Our Children.
Convenient Morning, Evening & Sunday Hours
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It’s like the Biggest Bear Hug
Fifteen NCSY Frisch High School students flew
to Puerto Rico on a mission trip run by PR4PR.
Under the leadership of Rabbi Ethan J. Katz,
national director of relief missions, they delivered
more than 150 “brand new looking” stuffed toys
from Bears from Bergenfield. The PR4PR trips are
being organized by Henry Orlinsky of Teaneck,
founder of PR4PR.

Man or Children’s Best Friend

Heimish the loving dog, who visits nursing
homes, hospitals, and senior centers, stopped
by the Leonard and Syril Rubin Nursery School
at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades. The chil-
dren in classroom 20 were so excited to give
him the treats and doggy supplies they collect-
ed all year as part of a special mitzvah project.

Thurnauer Young People’s Chorus Wins Top Spot

The Young People’s Chorus at the Thurnauer School of Music won for best overall choir for the
third year in a row at the Music in the Parks competition, and first place superior award for a per-
formance of Gnothi Safton by Jim Papoulis and The Seal Lullaby by Eric Whitacre. The judges also
gave them a perfect score for their performance of Gnothi Safton. A younger division of the chorus
also won first place in the Excellent in the Elementary competition for their performance of Klee
Wyck by Brian Tate and Dreams of the Sleeping Birds by Amy F. Bernon.

Daughters of Miriam
residents and BCHSJS
Students from the Bergen
County High School of
Jewish Studies (BCHSJS)
are in the Jewish Volunteer
Corp class, where they learn
about the elderly. They
visited with residents of
The Daughters of Miriam
seven times this school year.
The year culminated when
BCHSJS students and their Temple Emeth Erev Shavuot Confirmation
parents joined the residents Temple Emeth in Teaneck held erev Shavuot services with participation by member
of Daughters of Miriam for a children who have completed their confirmation requirements. The five confirmands
sumptuous lunch. were blessed by Rabbi Steven Sirbu and Cantor Ellen Tilem. They were presented
with gifts, including a Chumash.

What an Accomplishment!
For the annual study competition, the students memorized
52,168 lines of text in memory of Bat Sheva Kanelsky. The
students were awarded Jewish books and other Judaic
prizes. The highlight of the event was an address by Rabbi
Mordechai Kanelsky of Bris Avrohom.

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TopChoices JULY 2019

Compiled by Heidi Mae Bratt

Up, Up and Away in My Beautiful Balloon

The QuickChek New Jersey Festival attraction features 100 sports and July 26 to July 28
of Ballooning, the annual treat — 37 special shaped hot air balloons taking 6 a.m. to 10 p.m.
years and counting — where you can off twice each day, headlining con- Solberg Airport
experience the spectacle of 100 hot certs, children’s entertainment and 39 Thor Solberg Road
air balloons taking to the skies at the amusement rides, fireworks, a 5K, a Readington
largest summertime hot air balloon nighttime hot air balloon glow, and (973) 882-5464
and music festival in North America. more. Hot air balloon rides available.
The premier family entertainment

Yes, Stay Too Long at the State Fair Meadowlands

Summer fair fun is underway at the largest Kiddie Land in New Jersey. Through July 7
MetLife Stadium with the State Fair This family-friendly event offers amaz- State Fair Meadowlands
Meadowlands. Join the nonstop free ing promotions for every budget, includ- East Rutherford
live entertainment, food, exhibits, shop- ing Discount Days, Ride All Ride Mega For bargains, discounts, fair hours, and
ping, thrilling rides for all ages, including Passes and more. more information, visit NJFair.com

STEVEN IKEGUCHI

Jack Horner’s Dino Dig at Liberty Science Center

Dig it! That’s the goal of Jack Horner’s discovered in Montana by Jack Horner, Liberty Science Center
Dino Dig, opening June 29 at Liberty the famed paleontologist who inspired 222 Jersey City Blvd.
Science Center. At this outdoor Jurassic Park. In your journey, you Jersey City
adventure, you’re invited to become a might uncover T-Rex bones and teeth, (201) 200-1000
paleontologist by digging through 35 an egg nest with a baby Maiasaura, a lsc.org
tons of sand to uncover more than 60 6-foot-long Triceratops skull, and even a
fossils — many of them replicas of those dragonfly fossil.

July Fourth Fireworks Fly

at Celebration in Paramus
July 4th might be on Thursday but Community Orchestra. Honors Sunday, July 7
the celebration continues with a given to parade contest winners, From 6 to 11 p.m.
big fireworks display in Paramus. including Mr. and Ms. 4th of July. Cliff Gennarelli Sports-Plex
The event, sponsored by Westfield Food trucks for beverages and Garden State Parkway
Garden State Plaza, will feature snacks will be available. Leave your Paramus
live entertainment by the Jumping pets, except for service dogs, glass
Dragons, Raphael Valentino from containers, litter, drones, sparklers,
iHeartRadio/KTU, and the Paramus and fireworks at home.

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published July 26, Tuesday, July 16

Monday, July 1 on the big screen No registration

required. Children age 9 and under
2020 concert season, pairing
innovative music with the muse-
Manhattan, thejewishmuseum.org.
Video Story Time: Children age
3 and up are welcome to view old
must be accompanied by a caregiver. um’s exhibitions, at 7:30 p.m. The Tuesday, July 23
From 2 to 4 p.m. Teaneck Public Young People’s Chorus of New York Shutter Club: Come join an amateur
and new favorites on the big screen. Library, 840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, City (YPC), founded and directed
10:30 to 11:30 a.m. No registra- photography club which meets 7 to 8
(201) 837-4171, teanecklibrary.org. by Francisco J. Núñez, perform a p.m. Learn a little about photography
tion required. Groups welcome. concert that will include songs and and have a lot of fun taking photos
Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck
Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171,
Thursday, July 4 poems by Leonard Cohen and others, with new friends. For ages 10-14.
Celebration in Teaneck: Fun from coinciding with the Jewish Museum’s Bring your camera or a mobile phone.
teanecklibrary.org. exhibition, Leonard Cohen: A Crack
10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Richard Rodda Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck
Musical Painting at the Jewish Community Center, 250 Colonial in Everything. Tickets (212) 423- Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171,
Museum: Summer Art Mondays, Court, Teaneck. (201) 837-1600, 3337. The Jewish Museum is located teanecklibrary.org.
drop-in art sessions from 1 to 4 p.m. teanecknj.gov/calendar. at Fifth Avenue and 92nd Street.
free for children ages 3 and up. These Wednesday, July 24
sessions provide families an opportu- Celebration in Hackensack:
Festivities will be at Foschini Park,
Friday, July 12 Tinker Camp Paddle Boats: Join us
nity to explore the Jewish Museum’s All Ages Gaming: Come in and
278 River St., Hackensack, featuring for hands on STEM learning projects
current exhibitions, Leonard Cohen: play fun games for all ages. Bring
games, kiddie rides, food vendors, and and fun this summer at our first ever
A Crack in Everything and Scenes the whole family. From 2 to 3 p.m.
flea market. In the evening, there will Tinker Camp. This session will meet
from the Collection. Experiment Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck See Friday, July 19, Friday Morning
be music by The Infernos at 7:15pm in the Children’s Reading Garden,
with a range of painting techniques Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171, Summer Film Series
with fireworks to follow at 9:15 p.m. weather-permitting. Ages 5-9. From
to create art inspired by music teanecklibrary.org. ahead for confirmation. (201) 837- 5 to 6 p.m. Teaneck Public Library,
playing in the studio. 1109 5th
Friday, July 5 4171, teanecklibrary.org. 840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, (201)
Ave. at 92nd Street, Manhattan,
All Ages Gaming: Come in and
Monday, July 15 837-4171, teanecklibrary.org.
thejewishmuseum.org.
play fun games for all ages. Bring Video Story Time: Children age Thursday, July 18
Fireworks in Fair Lawn: Fair Lawn’s
the whole family. From 2 to 3 p.m. 3 and up are welcome to view old Becoming Astrid: Pippi Thursday, July 25
Fireworks Show takes place at and new favorites on the big screen. Longstocking, the spunky young girl
Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck Teaneck Library at the Farmer’s
Memorial Park and will feature live 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. No registra- who embarks on a series of hilarious
Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171, Market: Stop in to say hello from 1
music, food vendors, and fireworks tion required. Groups welcome. escapades, was the creation of Astrid
teanecklibrary.org. to 3 p.m. and get more information
around 9 to 9:15 p.m. Admission Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck Lindgren, one of the most translated about our services or upcoming
required. Memorial Park, 12-00
1st St., Fair Lawn.
Monday, July 8 Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171, children’s book authors. “Becoming programming, do a simple craft or
teanecklibrary.org. Astrid” is a film that explores Astrid’s join us for an outdoor storytime at 2
Video Story Time: Children age
struggles as a young, unwed mother
Tuesday, July 2 3 and up are welcome to view old Line Portrait Print at The Jewish
Museum: Summer Art Mondays, and how she eventually emerged
p.m. Weather-permitting. Please call
ahead for confirmation. (201) 837-
and new favorites on the big screen.
Shutter Club: Come join an amateur drop-in art sessions from 1 to 4 with a courage that forms the basis 4171, teanecklibrary.org.
10:30 to 11:30 a.m. No registra-
photography club which meets 7 to 8 p.m. free for children ages 3 and of her enduring body of work. At
tion required. Groups welcome.
p.m. Learn a little about photography
Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck up. Explore line drawing to cre- 7:30 p.m. JCC on the Palisades, 411 Friday, July 26
and have a lot of fun taking photos ate portraits inspired by Leonard E. Clinton Ave., Tenafly. (201) 408-
Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171, Friday Morning Summer Film
with new friends. For ages 10-14. Cohen’s self-portraits, and then use 1496, jccotp.org/films
teanecklibrary.org. Series: Pick of the Litter. Five spir-
Bring your camera or a mobile phone. relief-printing techniques to make ited Labrador puppies embark on
Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck Whimsical Stringed Instrument at
The Jewish Museum: Summer Art
multiples in a variety of colors. 1109 Friday, July 19 an incredible journey to become
Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171, Fifth Ave. at 92nd Street, Manhattan, Friday Morning Summer Film
Mondays, drop-in art sessions from 1 guide dogs for the blind. 10 to 11 a.m.
teanecklibrary.org. thejewishmuseum.org. Series: Never-before-seen foot-
to 4 p.m. free for children ages 3 and Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck
Englewood July 4th Independence age and audio recordings take you Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171,
Day Celebration: 10 p.m.
up. Use a variety of unique materials
to design stringed instruments draw-
Tuesday, July 16 straight into the heart of NASA’s teanecklibrary.org.
Independence Day Fireworks at Shutter Club: Come join an amateur most celebrated mission as astro-
ing on works in Leonard Cohen: A
Dwight-Morrow High School, 274
Crack in Everything and Scenes from photography club which meets 7 to 8 nauts Neil Armstrong and Buzz Monday, July 29
Knickerbocker Road, Englewood. p.m. Learn a little about photography Aldrin embark on a historic trip with
the Collection. 1109 Fifth Ave at 92nd Music Inspired Sculpture at The
Free. and have a lot of fun taking photos Apollo 11 to the moon. 10 to 11 a.m.
Street, Manhattan, . Jewish Museum: Summer Art
with new friends. For ages 10-14. Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck
Wednesday, July 3 Wednesday, July 10 Bring your camera or a mobile phone. Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171,
Mondays, drop-in art sessions from 1
to 4 p.m. free for children ages 3 and
Family Movie: Join a family movie Teaneck Public Library, 840 Teaneck teanecklibrary.org. up. Create found object sculpture
Tinker Camp Solar S’Mores: Join us
Road, Teaneck, (201) 837-4171, inspired by musical instruments and
for hands on STEM learning projects
and fun this summer at our first ever
teanecklibrary.org. Monday, July 22 works on view in Leonard Cohen: A
Video Story Time: Children age 3 and Crack in Everything. 1109 Fifth Ave.
Tinker Camp. This session will meet
in the Children’s Reading Garden,
Wednesday, July 17 up are welcome to view old and new at 92nd Street, Manhattan, www.
weather-permitting. Ages 5-9. From Tinker Camp Lava Lamps: Join us favorites on the big screen. 10:30 to thejewishmuseum.org.
5 to 6 p.m. Teaneck Public Library, for hands on STEM learning projects 11:30 a.m. No registration required.
840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, (201) and fun this summer at our first ever Groups welcome. Teaneck Public
837-4171, teanecklibrary.org. Tinker Camp. This session will meet Library, 840 Teaneck
in the Children’s Reading Garden, Road, Teaneck, (201)
Thursday, July 11 weather-permitting. Ages 5-9. From 837-4171, teanecklibrary.
org.
5 to 6 p.m. Teaneck Public Library,
Teaneck Library at the Farmer’s
840 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, (201) Collaged Storybook at
Market: Stop in to say hello from 1
837-4171, teanecklibrary.org. The Jewish Museum:
to 3 p.m. and get more information
Summer Art Mondays,
about our services or upcoming
programming, do a simple craft or
Thursday, July 18 drop-in art sessions
join us for an outdoor storytime at 2 Teaneck Library at the Farmer’s from 1 to 4 p.m. free for
p.m. Weather-permitting. Please call Market: Stop in to say hello from 1 children ages 3 and up.
ahead for confirmation. (201) 837- to 3 p.m. and get more information Illustrate stories using
4171, teanecklibrary.org. about our services or upcoming colorful textured papers
programming, do a simple craft or within the pages of an
Young People’s Concert at The accordion book. 1109
See Friday, July 26, Friday Morning join us for an outdoor storytime at 2
Summer Film Series
Jewish Museum: Bang on a Can
and the Jewish Museum’s 2019-
p.m. Weather-permitting. Please call Fifth Ave. at 92nd Street,
973-661-9368
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Simchas
Mazal tov to all the honorees and graduates

Seventh graders who graduated of the JCC of Paramus/Congregation Beth Tikvah Hebrew
National Council of Jewish Women Bergen County Section scholarship recipients, from left, school participated in Kabbalat Shabbat services as part of their ceremony. From left, Cantor
Brianna Leopold (River Dell Regional High School), Emily Matteson (Tenafly High School), Sam Weiss and graduates Josh Rovinsky, David Sobelman, Ellis Tritter, and Sophia Lesser.
Gwenyth Gorfin (Cresskill High School), Julia Holzsager (Fair Lawn High School), Remy Marcia Kagedan, school director, and Rabbi Arthur Weiner are at right.
Goldberg (Bergen County Academies), and Camryn Monfried, Shayna Salomon, and Danielle
Mimeles, all of Northern Valley Regional High School at Old Tappan; with NCAOCBCS com-
mittee, Peggy Kabakow, Evalyn Brownstein, Elizabeth Warms, Grace Fuld, Nanette Matlick,
Phyllis Grossman-Kaplan, and Henrietta Wolfeiler. NCJW BCS

National Council of Jewish Women Emily Matteson (Cornell University)

Bergen County Section awarded eight Kabakow Family Fund scholarship;
high school seniors a $1,000 scholar- Shayna Salomon (Elon University) and
ship. They were chosen based on their Julia Holzsager (Rutgers), the Marjorie
academic records, in recognition of G. Aerenson Memorial scholarships;
their school and community leadership Remy Goldberg (Carnegie Mellon Uni-
accomplishments, and commitment to versity), Wolfeiler-Simon scholarship;
Jewish values. Danielle Mimeles (Cornell University)
Brianna Leopold (Lafayette Col- and Gwenyth Gorfin (Wake Forest Uni-
lege) received the Marilyn Taffet Me- versity), the National Council of Jewish
morial scholarship; Camryn Manfried Women scholarships.
On June 13, the Tenafly Chabad Academy graduated its second eighth-grade class. Each of
(Syracuse University), Bach scholarship; the ten graduates spoke in front of their families, friends, rabbis, teachers, administrators, and
board members. Orite Rubenstein, Judaic Studies principal, presided, and guests included
The Howard and Joshua Tenafly Mayor Peter Rustin. Rabbi Mordechai Shain, the school’s founder and executive direc-
Herman Educational tor, gave awards and books to the graduates; the parent association gave each a personalized
Center of the Fair gift. Speakers included Meital Teitelman, general studies principal, and Michael Young, TCA
Lawn Jewish Center/ president. Artwork created by the graduates under the guidance of Estyn Becker was dis-
Congregation Bnai Israel played. Graduates will be attending the Frisch School, the Idea School, Ma’ayanot, MTA, the
held its annual gradua- Ramaz School, and Teaneck High School. COURTESY TCA
tion ceremony on May
28. Graduates Abraham
Ansonoff, Sasha Gold, Kyle
Ludzki, Jonathan Murray,
Jacob Reiffe, Brooke
Snyder, and Jenna Walker
were honored. Rabbi
Keven Friedman partici-
pated. Faculty and student volunteers were recognized for their contributions to the program,
including high school senior Max Garfinkel, who received the school’s first-ever award, and will
attend the University of Maryland School of Business.

Rabbi Arthur Weiner

of the JCC of Paramus/
Congregation Beth
Tikvah and Marcia
Kagedan, its religious
school director, treated
the shul’s graduating Back row, from left, Emily Arams, Tenafly High School, attending University of Maryland
high school seniors - College Park; Dannah VanPraagh, River Dell High School, attending Lehigh University;
to dinner at Noah’s Danielle Norr, River Dell High School, attending Stockton University; Michael Brestin,
Ark restaurant in Palisades Park High School, attending Rutgers Business School; Cantor Ellen Tilem; Dylan
Teaneck. Three of their Rodriguez, Bergen Arts and Science Charter High School in Hackensack, attending Kean
Hebrew school teach- University; Thomas Wertheimer, Parsippany High School, attending College of Costal Georgia,
ers, Stu Lehrer, Ellen and Rabbi Steven Sirbu. CARLA SILVER
Azizollahoff, and Beth
Held joined the celebra- Teaneck’s Temple Emeth honored its will keep the college-bound students
tion. Students received
a candy jar — to remind graduates with special recognition in touch with shul activities. The Tem-
them that studying Torah, and living a Jewish life is sweet. Rabbi Weiner and Mrs. Kagedan during a Shabbat family service on ple Emeth Shir Chadash Teen Choir
also included cards with their contact information for the students to reach out to them in June 7. A college student committee participated.
the future.

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BCHSJS Honors Graduates, Welcomes New Class

The Bergen County High School of Fishman, Sabrina Fried Miri Goodman,
Jewish Studies recently held closing Dasi Grimaldi, Julia Holzsager, Eden
exercises where students received Kaufman, Abraham Koretski, David
awards after being recommended by Kosiborod, Jenny Kuriloff, Brianna
at least four of their six teachers. Leopold, Wil liam Milun, Aliza
Eighth-grade awardees were Novogroder, Michael Orman, Abigail
Gabrielle Brayman, Jake Cohen, Pomeranz, Andrew Shamis, Annabelle
Josh Fishman, Ethan Holden, Sienna Simhon, Zachary Sobelman, Leo
Lipke, Madel yn Sc hmidt , Dina Strizhevsky, and Joshua Unger gradu-
Shlufman, and Lillian Simhon ated. The Senior Academic Award for
Ninth graders were Ariel le five years of excellence in studies was
Fronimos, Hayley Leopold, Gabriel given to Sabrina Fried, Miri Goodman,
Lipschitz, and Emma Wiser. Tenth- and Julia Holzsager. Brianna Leopold
grade honorees were Ori Ben Yossef, and Julia Holzsager earned the
Olivia Brown, Laurence Fine, Molli Service Award.
Students at Bergen County High School of Jewish Studies.
Gordon, and Jillian Heit; and 11th-
grade awardees were Allison Kramer, Registration continues
Sam Pitchkhadze, Abby Stern, and for the fall semester ics, current events, Bible, Jewish phi- with threats to Israel and Jews or
Harry Winick. Registration is ongoing for the fall losophy, Israel, contemporary issues just hang out at the bagel break be-
Seniors received their awards at semester at the Bergen County High and many more options. Students tween classes.
graduation — this year’s ceremony School of Jewish Studies (BCHSJS), will have the opportunity to make To register, go to www.bchsjs.org
was at the JCC of Paramus/Congre- a regional Hebrew high school for Jewish friends from towns through- and click on “To register for Fall 2019”
gation Beth Tikvah. Elisabeth Bloom, eighth to 12th graders. Classes are out Bergen County, go on trips, do to download an application, or call
Eila Brown, Itai Epstein, Matthew held on Sundays. Classes include eth- volunteer work, learn how to deal (201) 488-0834.

B’nai mitzvah
ELI BRAFF ALEXANDER GOLDFARB LIEV WOLIN
Eli Braff, son of Stacey and Nelson Braff Alexander Goldfarb, son of Alyson Yashar Liev Wolin, son of Chava and Matthew
and brother of Samantha, celebrated and James Goldfarb of Saddle River, cele- Wolin and brother of Caleb and Juliet,
becoming a bar mitzvah on June 8 at brated becoming a bar mitzvah on June 1 celebrated becoming a bar mitzvah on
Congregation Beth Sholom in Teaneck. at Temple Israel & JCC in Ridgewood. June 15 at Congregation Beth Sholom
in Teaneck.

REBECCA GOMEZ
Rebecca Gomez, daughter of Tammy
Hecht of Bergenfield, sister of Joshua,
and granddaughter of Pauline and Stan
Hecht of Bergenfield, celebrated becom-
ing a bat mitzvah on June 22 at Temple REBECCA LASH
Emeth in Teaneck. Rebecca Shira Lash of Fredonia, N.Y,
daughter of Natalie Gerber and Robert
Lash, and sister of Micaela Sasah Lash,
DANIEL JAKAB celebrated becoming a bat mitzvah on
Daniel Jakab, son of Nicole and Spencer April 13 at the Glen Rock Jewish Center.
SARAH FORMAN of Closter, celebrated becoming a bar She is the granddaughter of Rochelle and
Sarah Forman, daughter of Sandra and mitzvah on June 8 at Temple Beth El of Irving Gerber of Fair Lawn. ZACHARY WOLPOV
Edward Forman of Woodcliff Lake, and Northern Valley in Closter. Zachary Wolpov, son of Dawn
sister of Jeremy, celebrated becoming a Lazarus-Wolpov and Robert Wolpov of
bat mitzvah on June 1 at Temple Emanuel ELINOR WIESELBERG Woodcliff Lake, and brother of Dylan
of the Pascack Valley in Woodcliff Lake. Elinor Wieselberg, daughter of Ziva and Carson, celebrated becoming a bar
Davidovich and Leeor Wieselberg of Fair mitzvah on June 15 at Temple Emanuel of
Lawn, celebrated becoming a bar mitzvah the Pascack Valley in Woodcliff Lake.
on June 15 at Temple Israel & JCC
in Ridgewood.

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