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CONTENTS

HOW TO USE DATING APP CHEAT 1

OPENERS 2
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CONVERSATION 18
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MISCELLANEOUS 18

PERSONAL DETAILS 21
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COMPLIMENTS 22
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ACQUIRE HER NUMBER 23

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DATE TALK 27
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RECOVERY AND NEGATIVITY 30

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Welcome to Dating App Cheat :)
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Years ago when Tinder first came out I really struggled to talk to girls. I was
using boring openers that wouldn’t get a response, I’d become stuck for
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things to say and conversations would fizzle out before I even had a chance
at a girl’s phone number, let alone a date… It was just so damned hard, and
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to make things worse my friends seemed to be enjoying a lot of effortless

Tinder success.
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Sound familiar? It probably does, because it happens to most guys at one

point or another.
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After a while I realized that guys who were successful on Tinder all had
something in common – they used a small number of systematic routines
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and go-to lines. Their conversations would take a similar path, so they used
the same lines over and over to support their routines, with consistent
success. They found something that worked, then repeated it again and
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again.
I began taking notes of all successful Tinder conversations and jotted
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down a whole heap of lines - openers that girls loved, little miscellaneous
comments, how to get out of a tough situation and how to get a girls
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number. I then used those exact lines, for my own repeated Tinder success.
As I improved on Tinder I added my own lines and continued building this
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incredible cheat-sheet resource that had been tried and tested, proven to
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work on girls time and time again. Along with a close circle of friends, we
referred to my cheat-sheet as “Dating App Cheat” because we really felt like
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we were cheating. I kept Dating App Cheat a secret… until now, as I share it
with you.
I have no hesitation in saying that Dating App Cheat (especially when used
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with TINSANITY) will help you significantly when chatting on Tinder or

online dating sites.
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Enjoy :)
Marcus
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[email protected]

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Dating App Cheat is really simple to use – here’s how each message is laid out:

This left-section will have the line that This right-section will give you suggestions, advice
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you use in Tinder or other dating apps. and other items to help you with your messaging.
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The lines in Dating App Cheat are split into two major categories:

‹ Openers
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‹ Mid-conversation items, including miscellaneous comments, acquiring her

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number, date talk and recovery lines.

We’ve included a broad range of lines for all personality types. After a while you’ll
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get a feel for what works and doesn’t work for you – that depends on many things,
including your personality, your texting style and the type of girls that you want to
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attract. It’s different for everybody.

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We suggest (encourage!) you modify the lines before you send them to your Tinder
match. You will get the best responses when you send openers that are personalized
to the profile you’re sending it to.
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One more thing…

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Simply copying these lines will give you instant success on Tinder – by all means enjoy
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this and take advantage of how easy it is, although I recommend that after a while you
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get a feel for and develop your own text persona. Use the techniques from TINSANITY
and your experience with Dating App Cheat lines, then start crafting your own lines.
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The immediate (and easy) success from Dating App Cheat is great, but using this
resource as a tool for developing your own seduction skills is priceless.
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That’s it! Don’t forget to check out TinderSeduction.com for the latest Tinder tips.
And remember: be bold, be brave and have fun!
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Your parents will not like me. I will This is great for breaking the ice. Girls will be a lot more
fall short of all your expectations. responsive and open when you use this opener.
I will ruin your credit score. But if
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you let me have sex with you I’ll
make you the happiest woman in
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the world for an entire night. Or 15

minutes. Actually probably more
like 5
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Wow, you’ve really done a lot of Great to use on girls who say they love travel in their
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travel. You must be relieved to profile, or who have profile pics of them travelling… and
have finally found me ;) a lot of girls do!
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I don’t have a puppy in my pictures, Because girls love puppy’s.

so there’s another reason why you
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swiped right….?

Well tinder says we would make Well tinder says we would make beautiful kids but I think
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beautiful kids but I think maybe we maybe we should do dinner before we start working on
should do dinner before we start the future models of America
working on the future models of
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America
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As cute as that smile of yours is POWER MESSAGE. One of the most flexible openers
[Her name], I’m afraid that I’m that can be used in any situation, yet can still be
going to have to find out more personalised. It is very simple, but don’t let that fool you,
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about you before I take you on an it works amazingly well, especially when girls message
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amazing first date ;) you first.

Here’s the very simple (and successful) template which
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can be tailored for any girl that you talk to:

As cute as _____, I’m afraid _______ ;)
Examples:
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As cute as those dimples of yours are [Her name], I’m

afraid that selfie of you in the public bathroom is still a little
weird ;)
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As cute as those long legs of yours are [Her name], I’m

afraid that they might only be good for show, and won’t be
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able to keep up with me on the dancefloor ;)

Simply pick out something unique from her profile and
add it after “As cute as”, then add a flirty little comment
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after “I’m afraid”. Easy!

Cheat tip: Use this as an Opener (i.e. on Tinder), then
once you get her number use the “Hey this is…, seen her ;)”
transition to text message as a first text message (to her
phone) – as a combination they work unbelievable well.

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We’re both obviously playing hard POWER MESSAGE One sentence that can be your go-to
to get, so how about we agree to message in two different scenarios:
put our egos aside in the name of Use it as a recovery message to revive old conversations
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lust and skip to the part where we that have gone stale – it has an exceptional response
flirt outrageously with each other rate that is always positive.
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Or you can also use it as an opener – it slices through

tension and breaks the ice in a way that’s witty, poetic
and humorous. Conversation has a very smooth and
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open flow after this is used. It is perfectly suited for

times when you match with a girl but neither of you
comment for a few days.
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I would do fifty shades of bad A reference to the book Fifty Shades of Grey
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things to you
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I have bad news for you… This opener will get her curious. You can say almost
anything after she replies. An example is:
You: I have bad news for you…
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Her: ohh no… what is it?! haha

You: My puppy is busy for the weekend, so can’t make it…
Her: Make what?
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You: Well I was going to take you out on an amazing date

and introduce you to my puppy. Now we’ll just have to
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settle for an amazing date

Cheat tip: The key with the “settle for an amazing date” line
is to use something that she can relate to as the added date
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item. For example, if her profile shows her wearing the local
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football team’s jersey, say:

You: It’s a shame the [local football team] are playing an
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away game this weekend

Her: I know!
You: We could have had an amazing first date and then
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watch the game. Now we’ll just have to settle for an

amazing first date
Her: Ha.. I can deal with that:)
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I got pulled over by a cop while We would love to hear your feedback!
writing my initial message. He gave
If any of these lines have helped you in any way we
me the whole texting is dangerous
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would appreciate it greatly if you could take one minute
speech and was about to give me
and leave us a review on the app store – we read every
a ticket. I showed him your picture
single review.
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and explained what Tinder was. He

let me off with a warning and said I How to leave a review:
better get your number Tap the App Store icon to launch the App Store.
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Search for “Dating App Cheat” and then navigate to the

detail screen for the app
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Select the Reviews item and tap it.

From the Reviews screen, tap the Write a Review or New
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Document icon.
Thank you, we really do appreciate it :)
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If you have any other comments, suggestions or

questions, feel free to email us at marcus@
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tinderseduction.com and we will do our best to get back

to you within 24 hours.
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If you were a skittle you’d be a red Example:

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You: If you were a skittle you’d be a red one
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Her: Haha why would I be a red one?

You: I like the red ones
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So exhausted. Been playing with So exhausted. Been playing with my nephew and his
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my nephew and his new puppy in new puppy in a flower patch all day while helping to feed
a flower patch all day while helping the homeless.
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to feed the homeless.

Jamal, why do you insist on taking Damn Jamal…

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pictures of brunette models you

find online and making these fake
tinder accounts? Seriously bro, I’m
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“Good morning, sweetheart”… Just POWER MESSAGE. This opener has one of the highest
imagine, one day you could be response rates that you’ll see. The method in which
waking up and hearing me whisper you use this message will eliminate almost all of the
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that in your ear, rather than having competition that you’re up against on Tinder.
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During the morning the only messages girls read are
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Tinder ;)
those which have been sitting on her phone unread
from the night before – by that time they are stale and
ineffective. Unlike all other message that she’ll ever read,
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this message is tailored to be used early in the morning.

Send this to the girl at 6.30am – she’ll wake up, read
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your message and send you a reply. You’ll then have

her full attention on Tinder for the rest of the morning,
giving you enough time to get her number, long before
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any other guy has even thought of messaging her. Cool

huh?!
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Cheat tip: Although it can be used any day of the week,

sending this message on Saturday mornings will give you
the best result because people generally have more free
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time to reply.

“Apart from being sexy, what do you You: “Apart from being sexy, what do you do for a living?” 
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do for a living?” You: Rate my pick up line

This method pokes fun at all the cheesy pick up lines
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and is great for breaking the ice. Make sure you put
your cheesy pick up line in quotation marks, then send
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“Rate my pick up line” (without quotations) in a second

message immediately after.
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You’re everything I thought I never General Opener.

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wanted in a girl.

Love at first swipe Tinder special.

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I just liked 4 or 5 girls and prayed I just liked 4 or 5 girls and prayed you would be the one
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you would be the one to like back to like back first. Todays a good day
first. Todays a good day
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Here’s your first wish, what are Is this message confident and funny or just arrogant?
your other two? Send it and find out!
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Are you going to be ok with people Use this if you have similar features as the girl.
thinking that your boyfriend could
You can then follow up later with something like:
pass as your brother?
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Its ok, just because we look like we’re related doesn’t
mean our kids are going to be defects… In fact they will
probably be gorgeous high achievers
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You remind me of medusa… You: You remind me of medusa.

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Her: hah why’s that?

You: Because every time I look into your eyes I get rock hard
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Is that your family in that pic? Use when:

That’s a lot of people for me to
They have a lot of family members in their pictures. Girls
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impress… I hope you’re worth it

love talking about their families.
[Her name]
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You seem like the kind of girl who’s You seem like the kind of girl who’s last words will be
last words will be ‘hold my beer, ‘hold my beer, watch this’
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watch this’

Gee [Her name], I don’t know. I This one is for Tinder when it says she is x miles
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was all swept up in that cute smile away. Don’t forget to change both [Her name] and
of yours but I don’t think I can [Number of miles away]
do a long distance relationship..
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[Number of miles away] miles

might just be too difficult
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I hope that those lips of yours A common response to this opener will be something
do more than just look good ;) …. like:
and by that I mean are capable of
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Her: Haha why yes they are! In fact they’re even mighty

producing interesting conversation.
good at kissing too
You can then follow up a comment like that with:
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You: I’ve always been sceptical of self-promotion. I’m

afraid I’m not going to believe you until I perform some
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vigorous testing

You see the bod, I know what you Long shot, but worth a try.
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want and you know what I want. So

send me them digits and we will
turn this fantasy into reality
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What’s your Granddad’s number? Can use this type of opener when she has a photo of
He seems worth getting to know someone who is obviously a member of her family. Can
be her mother, her father, grandparents… even her dog.
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Can then follow up with something like:

To be honest I was about to start sweeping you off your
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feet, but he has jumped the queue. Would he appreciate

an intimate dinner where we lose track of time, waxing
poetic on the meaning of life, with lots of sexual
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chemistry?
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By far the prettiest girl I’ve seen on By far the prettiest girl I’ve seen on Tinder
Tinder
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 So do you want me to hit you with One of the best opener’s for cutting through the crap
a corny tinder pickup line or can we and breaking the ice. Conversation usually flows very
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just skip all that weird shit? smoothly after this opener.
You can continue with normal conversation, making her
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feel comfortable as you prepare to get her number. Or

you can use this opener to be playful and do the opposite
of what she says and spike her curiosity, such as:
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You: So do you want me to hit you with a corny tinder

pickup line or can we just skip all that weird shit
Her: Ha, yes let’s skip it for sure!
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You: Too bad…
You: So apart from being sexy, what do you do for a
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living ;)
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If you were a potato, you’d be a If you were a potato, you’d be a sweet one
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sweet one

Sit on my face and I’ll eat my way to Sit on my face and I’ll eat my way to your heart.
your heart.
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Are you afraid of heights? Use this at Christmas time… if you don’t mind a lot of
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cheesyness!
You: Are you afraid of heights?
Her: No, why?
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You: Because I just put up my Christmas tree but it’s

missing an angel for the top
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Please forgive me for not Great opener for when you match with someone, but
messaging you for 3 days. I was neither of you message each other for a few days.
texting all my friends a photo Change the “3 days” to whatever period of time it has
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of you and asking them how I been since you matched.
should start a conversation with a
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complete smokeshow.

If you could put up a profile pic of Possible follow ups for boring or negative responses:
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your personality, do you think I

Her: haha… I don’t know, you tell me!
would have matched with you
You: The fact that you don’t know your personality may
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have just answered my question

Or
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Her: No :(
You: Cheer up [Her name], I’ll help you work on your
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personality 

Do you like porn? You: Do you like porn?

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You: Would you be interested in watching some on my

flat screen mirror?
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This is pretty bad line and doesn’t work too often, but
some girls love it. You can test the waters by using the
“Rate my pick up line” approach:
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You: “Do you like porn?…. Would you be interested in

watching some on my flat screen mirror?”
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You: Rate my pick up line

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Make sure you put the pick up line in quotation marks

so she knows you’re joking and send “Rate my pick up
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line” (without quotation marks) immediately after in a

new message.

I’ve never been with an older I’ve never been with an older woman before. But if I play
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woman before. But if I play my my cards right, I’m pretty sure I wont have to be with
cards right, I’m pretty sure I wont more than one
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have to be with more than one

Are you busy tonight at 2am? Intrigues her… you can say anything you like after this,
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but it works best if your response is witty or makes

absolutely no sense.
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Do you know how many times I’ve Do you know how many times I’ve had to swipe left to
had to swipe left to find a cute girl find a cute girl like you
like you

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Prettiest smile I’ve seen on Tinder Prettiest smile I’ve seen on Tinder

Do you have pet insurance? You: Do you have pet insurance? 

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Her: Why 
You: Because your pussy is about to get smashed
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Good for girls who ask for pick up lines in their profile.
If you think the girl might not like it, test the waters by
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using the “Rate my pick up line” approach which will

soften it up:
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You: “Do you have pet insurance?…. Because your pussy is

about to get smashed”
You: Rate my pick up line
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Make sure you put the pick up line in quotation marks

so she knows you’re joking and send “Rate my pick up
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line” (without quotation marks) immediately after in a

new message.
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[Her name], you remind me of a You: [Her name], you remind me of a hot cross bun
hot cross bun Her: Lol why’s that?
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You: Because you look kind of sweet and would be nice to

wake up to on Easter morning ;)
Use this at Easter time and you can’t go wrong
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I was hesitant to message you Silliness works occasionally.

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because of how pointy your elbows

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are. I caved in and messaged you

because I’m trying to better myself
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and become less discriminating. So

I’m willing to give you a shot, pointy
elbows and all.
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I spent all summer wrestling grizzly I spent all summer wrestling grizzly bears in the
bears in the mountains of Canada mountains of Canada specifically so I could handle you
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specifically so I could handle you [Her name]

[Her name]
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I see that you like horses… that’s This is a perfect opener to use when girls have profile
lucky, because you’ve just found pics with horses… and lots do!
yourself a stallion ;)
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Quite honestly you’re pretty much You: Quite honestly your pretty much my exactly my type
my exactly my type of girl. I don’t of girl. I don’t wanna waste time chit chatting.
wanna waste time chit chatting. You: Give me your number
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If you’re feeling confident and don’t want to waste time,

use this hit and miss method. A lot of girls will reply
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to this message with something like “tell me why you

deserve it first”. To continue the all or nothing approach,
reply with:
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I don’t feel like putting in effort to play this game so I

probably don’t.
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But you should just do it anyways

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If you say “squawks” backwards it You: If you say “squawks” backwards it sounds the same
sounds the same even though it’s even though it’s not a linguistic palindrome
not a linguistic palindrome Her: haha.. Umm ok cool
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You: It’s called an acoustic palindrome. I’m a professor of

linguistic studies. 
You: I can get you speaking my language girl;) 
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I know this profile’s fake but can Common response and reply:
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I get the name of the model you

Her: Haha it’s not a fake, it’s me.
used for your pics
You: That’s exactly what a fake would say… I know you’re
a 43 year old bald man Tindering from his basement
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Need help with a big decision – Need help with a big decision – should my new yacht
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should my new yacht have a have a helipad OR a tennis court sized hot tub OR an
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helipad OR a tennis court sized hot aboveground wine cellar filled with gold?
tub OR an aboveground wine cellar
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filled with gold?

Wow you’re freakin cute Use this if she has a cat or a dog in her profile pictures.
Don’t forget the second part of the message:
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You: Wow you’re freakin cute

You: ..and your human is alright too
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I see that you like taking selfies… #Selfie

that’s cool, but for our wedding
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photographer, or at least use the
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self-timer function on your phone.

I think we deserve it

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So it says you’re less than a mile So it says you’re less than a mile away… I think destiny’s
away… I think destiny’s trying to say trying to say something.
something.
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You don’t know how many times You don’t know how many times I’ve had to swipe left to
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I’ve had to swipe left to find you find you

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Sometimes I question why God Sometimes I question why God allows bad things to
allows bad things to happen to happen to good people. For example, how have we
good people. For example, how never gone on a date?
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have we never gone on a date?

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How do you spell love? You: How do you spell love?

Her: What? You just spelt it.. LOVE
You: Trick question – you don’t spell it, you feel it
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You: Who knows… one day we might feel each other ; )

Or if she guesses or replies with something similar to
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your answer:
You: That was a trick question – I was going to say “You
don’t spell love, you feel it”
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You: But you already knew my answer… looks like we’re

feeling each other already ; )
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I hope you’re down for an Copypastas are hit and miss, but worth a try.
adventure. I found an old canoe in
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my parents garage last weekend

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that we can use to sail around the

world. It’s got a couple holes in it
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but if we take turns bucketing the

water out we should make it to the
horn of Africa by the end of the
month. What do you say
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Are you from Japan? You: Are you from Japan?

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Her: haha no, why?

You: Oh that’s too bad, cause I would have been all up in
japanties;)
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After all these years searching For girls that you think would appreciate some Super
dangerous castles and outwitting Nintendo nostalgia.
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formidable bosses, I think I’ve

finally found my princess peach…

5’4? Perfect for being the little Some girls enter their height in their profile – use this as
spoon a conversation starter.

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Didn’t we go to different Didn’t we go to different highschools together?

highschools together?
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If you live to be a hundred, I want If her reply to this opener is neutral or negative, you can
to live to be a hundred minus one follow it up with something like:
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day so I never have to live without

Actually based on your response I’ve reconsidered… I
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want to be a hundred plus one day, so then when you’re
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gone I can bang all the interesting 100 year old ladies

I’ve had a crush on you for years Common response and possible reply:
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Her: Do I know you?

You: Yes, I believe you’ve been waiting for me… I’m here
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to sweep you off your feet ;)

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We could go out on an amazing This is great for breaking the ice. Girls will be a lot more
first date, have great conversation, responsive and open when you use this opener.
lots of laughs, enjoy the absurd
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amounts of flirting before I say

goodbye and charmingly end the
night with a soft kiss on your cheek.
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After that we’d both get too busy

and never see each other again.
Interested?
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So I just got off the phone speaking This will catch her curiosity. You can say almost anything
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to my mother… after she replies with “what did your mom say?”. An
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example is:
She’s excited for us, but says planning our wedding will be
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tough
Or
She said that I need to be careful talking with girls like
you… She said you’re trouble
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Or
She said she’s looking forward to the gorgeous
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grandchildren you and I will have. So I said, hold up mom,

I’m not even sure if she’s interesting enough for a first
date yet
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You’re too cute for tinder. So how Common response and reply:
about you tell me that models
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Her: Haha it’s not a fake, it’s me.

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You: That’s exactly what a fake would say… I know you’re
a 43 year old bald man Tindering from his basement

You look like trouble ; ) You look like trouble ; )

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I would get in the ring blindfolded These types of copy pasta’s are hit and miss… but worth
with Mike Tyson in his prime right a try occasionally.
after he snorted a bunch of coke
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and go fifteen bare-knuckle rounds
just for the chance to thank your
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parents personally for delivering

such a heavenly blessed beauty
into this world
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Listen this profile seems fake… Common response and reply:

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lemme at least get the name of the

Her: Haha it’s not a fake, it’s me.
model you used for the pics so I
You: That’s exactly what a fake would say… I know you’re
can ask her out
a 43 year old bald man Tindering from his basement
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Are you a koala? You: Are you a koala? 

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Her: haha no why? 
You: cause you’ve got all the koalafications 
Her: lol koalifications for what? 
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You: to be my FWB [or girlfriend, summer time fling etc.]

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My mom warned me about girls You can say almost anything after she replies. An
like you example is:
You: My mom warned me about girls like you
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Her: haha oh really now, what did she say?

You: She said that you’ll probably break my heart
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You: So I told her I’m a grown man who can make his
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own decisions. Then she went back to the kitchen and

made me some meatloaf
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[Her name], I’m afraid. I’m afraid Great to use on girls who say they love travel in their
that once we meet up, we’ll travel profile, or who have profile pics of them travelling.
the world together having amazing
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adventures and never know what

it’s like to live a normal life again
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Hey do you like pancakes? You: Hey do you like pancakes? 

Her: Of course!…
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You: how about ihop on that ass

You remind me of my big toe You: You remind me of my big toe

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Her: Ha!… why
You: because one day soon I’m going to bang you on my
couch ; )

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Do you ever think about how 100 This was originally sent by a 26 year old guy to a 38 year
years ago we never existed and old woman – true to the message, they ended up having
in 100 years, 500 years and 1,000 a memorable summertime fling. It has worked wonders
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years we once more will not exist, with many girls since.
as what we know existence as
Edit the text after “doing great things you’ll remember,” to
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today anyway… It makes you just

fit your situation.
want to spend your little time
doing great things you’ll remember,
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like having an amazing night with a

26 year old, doesn’t it
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Ok, what are the names of the Use when:

unlucky guys in your pic… The ones A girl has a pic with guys in her profile pic.
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I’m going to have to fight to the

death to win you over
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I may have watched one too many Use when:

queer eye for the straight guy A girl has a profile pic of her with a silly outfit on. Change
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episodes when I was younger, but the last line of text to point out something specific about
I feel compelled to let you know her outfit.
that those shoes don’t match your
If she enjoys that opener, you can follow up with
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outfit
something like:
“I hope you pick something a little more consistent to wear
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to our first date ;)”

Be careful using this if she is genuinely trying to be
fashionable!
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That fashion sense of yours is This line hints that you think she has a great fashion
sophisticated for sure, but I’m sense (she’ll love this big compliment) and also gives an
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thinking for our relaxed first date opportunity to begin a playful first date conversation.
dinner it may be a bit too much
Great line to use with girls who have a lot of fashionable
profile pics, indicating that she’s very fashion conscious.
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Hey there Miss [Her Name]. What If you’re sending the message on Sunday, Monday or
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kind of trouble did you get into this Tuesday, send:

weekend? :) Hey there Miss [Her Name]. What kind of trouble did you
get into this weekend? :)
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If sending on Wednesday:
Hey there Miss [Her Name]. What sort of trouble are you
on

getting into this week? :)

For Thursday or Friday messages:
Hey there Miss [Her Name]. What kind of trouble are you
getting into this weekend? :)
For a Saturday, send:
Hey there Miss [Her Name]. What kind of trouble have
you been getting into? :)

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Do you know the difference You: What’s the difference between jam and jelly?
between jelly and jam? Her: Umm..Jam has seeds and fruit in it?
You: No, I can’t jelly my cock down your throat ;)
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Just don’t make it awkward and you’re golden.

Responses you’ll get from this line:
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OMG…that’s the funniest thing I’ve heard all day

Ewww!
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Huh?
You’re a creep
Let’s do it ;)
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*Blocked*
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[Her Name], you seem like the type Typical response:

of girl that should get to know me Her: haha oh yeah… and why’s that
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…So have an answer ready to go!

The police are looking for a suspect The police are looking for a suspect described as sexy,
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described as sexy, funny, and funny, and phenomenal in bed. You’re safe [Her Name],
phenomenal in bed. You’re safe [Her but where should I hide?
Name], but where should I hide?
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You know what winks and fucks like You: You know what winks and fucks like a tiger?
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a tiger? Her: Haha what?

You: ;)
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In any sort of mood to make some This opener is a shortcut to starting interesting
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bad decisions? ;) conversations.

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If practice makes perfect, then your If practice makes perfect, then your parent’s names
parent’s names must be Practice must be Practice and Practice
and Practice
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If your left leg is Thanksgiving, and Cheesy holiday pick up line for your entertainment :)
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your right leg is Christmas, can I

visit you between the holidays? ;)
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If I were you, I’d keep an eye out for Definitely a winning Christmas opener that girls will love.
elves with ropes and blindfolds…
You: If I were you, I’d keep an eye out for elves with ropes
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and blindfolds
Her: Haha why?
You: Because I asked Santa for you this Christmas ;)
Her: Haha so sweet :)
If you go to TinderSeduction.com and check out the
Christmas-Special post you can see screenshots for how
well this line has worked.

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[Her Name], if I were to unwrap After sending the main line, send her something a little
one thing this Christmas, it would self-deprecating in brackets. It helps to break the ice
be you ;) even more. Example:
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You: [Her Name], if I were to unwrap one thing this

Christmas, it would be you ;)
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You: (hoping it’s not too early to seduce you with a cheesy

christmas line)
Her: Aww that was soo sweet :) And no, never too early!
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[Her Name], if your heart was a Merry Christmas :)

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chimney, I’d grow a big belly and a

white beard just so I could get in ;)
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Just finished hanging up a [Her Her: Hey what’s up :)

Name]-sized stocking next to my You: Just finished hanging up a [Her Name]-sized stocking
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Christmas tree… Santa knows what next to my Christmas tree… Santa knows what I want this
I want this year ;) year ;)
Her: Aww! :)
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[Her Name] I haven’t figured out if Let us know how you go with these Christmas lines!
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you’re going to be the nicest girl on Send your screenshots to marcus@tinderseduction.

my naughty list, or the naughtiest com and we’ll put them up on TinderSeduction.com for
girl on my nice list ;) everyone to see.
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What does One Direction and a You: What does One Direction and a Christmas tree have
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Christmas tree have in common? in common?

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Her: Ha, what?
You: Their balls are just for decoration
Her: Haha that’s pretty bad, but good :)
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Feel free to give her the heads up that a bad joke

is coming her way – this often makes it work better!
Example:
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You: What does One Direction and a Christmas tree have

in common?
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You: (hoping it’s not too early to seduce you with a

terrible christmas line)
Her: Ha, never to early! What do they have in common?
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You: Their balls are just for decoration

Her: Ohhh! lol
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[Her Name], if you’re winter, then Let [Her Name], if you’re winter, then Let it Snow, Let it
it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow ;) Snow, Let it Snow ;)

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[Her Name], I hope you’ve left the You: [Her Name], I hope you’ve left the milk and the
milk and the cookies out for me… cookies out for me…
Her: Haha of course :)
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You: Great, because all this present delivery stuff is
tiring… plus, I need to keep up my energy for our date this
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weekend ;)
Or if you want to try a different (high risk) approach:
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You: [Her Name], I hope you’ve left the milk and the

cookies out for me…
Her: Haha of course :)
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You: Great, because it won’t be long until I’m cumming

down your chimney ;)
Her: Ohh… you’re definitely on the naughty list ;)
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[Her Name] if a fat guy grabs you This is one of the better Christmas lines – it works
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and puts you in a bag… don’t freak amazingly well sometimes!

out, I told Santa I wanted you for
You: [Her Name], if a fat guy grabs you and puts you
Christmas ;)
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in a bag… don’t freak out, I told Santa I wanted you for

Christmas ;)
Her: Hahaha… that’s the cutest thing I’ve ever heard
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You: :)
Also here’s another frequent reply you’ll probably get
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and suggested follow ups:

Her: Haha… how many girls have you sent that to?
You: Just the cute ones
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or
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You: Just the ones with a cute smile

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Favorite childhood Christmas This is guaranteed to start a fun conversation.

present. Ready….Go!
If you use it around Christmas time the results are even
better!
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CONVERSATION

MISCELLANEOUS
Tinder conversations generally follow very similar paths, so it’s good to have go-to
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responses at hand. The miscellaneous category is your assorted toolbox for these
responses.
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You’ll find good responses to common questions and comments girls say, one-off
lines that provide conversation fodder if you get a little stuck and random comments,
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which come in handy.

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I’m taking all those y’s as an Use when:

indication as to how much fun we’re She sends you a message like: Heyyyyyyy :)
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going to have on our first date ;)

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Great, just started chatting to this Use when:

cute [blonde, brunette, redhead] She asks “how are you?”
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I’ll let you know in a little while. I’m Use when:

talking to my Tinder crush at the She asks “how are you?”
moment and my day can go from
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good to fantastic depending on if she

gives me her number or not
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You have a cute smile so if we were Use when:

speaking in person I’d probably She says something that you can’t read or doesn’t
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ignore the fact that last question make sense. It shows you’re authoritative in a way that
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doesn’t make sense compliments her – these mixed messages make you
seem more intriguing.
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Who wants to be liked? Like is for Use when:

plebeians. Love [Her name], love is
She talks about liking or not liking something. Example:
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what us two deserve

Her: Tell me!! You know women don’t actually like
mysterious men
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You: Who wants to be liked? Like is for plebeians. Love

[Her name], love is what us two deserve
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Coming out of the gates firing with Use when:

smilie faces. Don’t hold back girl She sends you the first message with a smilie face.
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Two nights ago I had a dream that Use when:

I’d meet a girl named [Her name] on She asks why you’re on Tinder
Tinder
This comment will intrigue her, and she will ask what
your dream was about.

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Damn I thought that would be a hit Use when:

You try a line, joke or to get her number and she says
something like:
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Her: haha.. Nice try!

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Pretty good, got a message from this Use when:

cute girl. I think she likes me She asks “how are you?”
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I knew when we matched an I knew when we matched an adventure was going to

adventure was going to happen happen
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Knock Knock Girls absolutely love this cute knock knock joke. It
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is perfect for when you were texting a girl the night

before and want to restart the conversation, but can
be used anytime during a conversation to impress.
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You: Knock knock 
Her: Who’s there: 
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You: Lion 
Her: Lion who 
You: Lion in bed thinking of you;) 
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We’re not strangers, we’re just good We’re not strangers, we’re just good friends who
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friends who haven’t met yet haven’t met yet

If everything happens for a reason, If everything happens for a reason, then I guess we
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then I guess we better explore our better explore our reason for meeting
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reason for meeting

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We’ll be friends until forever, just you We’ll be friends until forever, just you wait and see
wait and see
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Weeds are flowers too, once you get Use when:

to know them She’s making fun of you
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You get to go out on a date with me, You get to go out on a date with me, so we’re both
so we’re both lucky today I guess lucky today I guess
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I’m gonna love you Tinderly I’m gonna love you Tinderly
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MISCELLANEOUS DATING APP CHEAT

Despite all evidence to the contrary Use when:

I’m not here looking for an easy lay,
She think’s you’re just looking to hookup. Then can
nor am I looking for the love of my
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follow up with:
life on an app. As I’m sure you aren’t
either What I am looking for is someone I have a bit of
chemistry with who’s confident enough to take some
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sexual banter
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Only with girls who have cute smiles Use when:

A girl asks you a question – it is a witty and flirty
response that they will love. Example:
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Her: haha are you always such a big flirt?

You: only with girls who have cute smiles
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Her: :)
Be as specific/tailored as you can be about the
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compliment you give her. Examples:

“Only with fit girls who have cute smiles”
“Only with cute girls who can pull off a panda onesie”
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“Only with cute girls who wear glasses ;)”

Other examples of questions where this response is
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perfect:
Her: haha I bet you use that line on all your matches
or
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Her: are you always this funny?

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Yes, copied it from my brain and Use when:

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pasted it within your heart ;) A girl asks you something like “LOL! Did you copy and
paste that?”
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Well I showed up at the restaurant Use when:

Saturday night, but you weren’t there. She asks “How was your weekend?”– it’s a good lead in
Then I realized I had my dates wrong… to organizing a date.
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Our romantic date is this Saturday ;)

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Only if you promise not to laugh too Use when: 

often… I’m a sucker for a contagious You’ve been making her laugh a lot. Then he asks you
smile like yours and let me tell you, for, or to do something
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giggling fits are no laughing matter

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PERSONAL DETAILS

Girls will always ask about your personal details, which is fine, but it generally leads
to boring conversation. So in the Personal Details section, we’ve given you a few
alternative responses you can use.
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We’ve given you responses that divert attention away from the boring stuff and keep
your identity under wraps (if that’s your thing). The “criminal background check” line is
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gold – make sure this is in your repertoire.

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I’m from Heaven technically, and so are Use when:

you. I know angels when I see them She asks you where are you from
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Is this for a criminal background check?… Use when:

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Because FYI, I’ve already had a few of my She asks for any personal details, such as your last/
buddies over at the CIA clear my dark full name
past off the records
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I don’t have one – I’m afraid that you’re Use when:

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going to have to stalk me the old She asks for your Facebook and you don’t want to
fashioned way… peeping through my give it to her, or just don’t have one
bedroom window after dark
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I’m kinda mysterious… and mystery Use when:

doesn’t promote itself [Her name] She asks why you don’t have any profile
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information
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I’ve already started our new wanderlust Use when:

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life, making footprints in the dew covered She asks why you’re so far away. Some girls love
country fields. The warm fire is crackling this type of message, others not so much – no risk
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and the marshmallow’s are begging to be no return!

toasted… Are you coming? ;)
And in case you were wondering, “wanderlust”
means you have a strong desire to travel. Use that
vocabulary!
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COMPLIMENTS

Compliments are great, but sometimes they can be hard to respond to.

Rather than shying away from the compliment, the idea is to give a response that’s
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confident, fun and flirty. This is a short list of responses you can use to achieve that,
when she compliments you or you compliment her.
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I’m so clever that sometimes I don’t Use when:

understand a single word of what I’m She compliments you about being witty, smart or
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saying clever
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I can overlook the fact that you Use when:

don’t take compliments well. Minor You compliment her and she says something other
character flaw in my book than “thanks” or doesn’t accept the compliment.
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Some may say that you’re lucky to Use when:

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have found me then. I just say it’s fate She compliments you
taking it’s course
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You’re too nice, stop! I’m gonna feel Use when:

bad being handsy on our first date She compliments you
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now

Be careful [Her name], all that Use when:

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shameless flattery might end up She compliments you

getting you a date
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Be careful [Her name], laughing at Use when:

my silly jokes is the quickest way to She responds well to your jokes and funny comments.
getting a date
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Laughing at my stupid jokes is the first Use when:

step to being swept off your feet… I She laughs at your stupid jokes… obviously ;)
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hope you’re ready [Her Name]

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We’re a good match, lets do this thing Use when:

She compliments you
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ACQUIRE HER NUMBER

If you’re talking with a girl on a dating app for days on end, it increases the chances
that either of you will become disinterested. Strike while the iron is hot and get her
number so you can progress your developing relationship. That’s easier said than
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done, but the lines in this section will give you the best chance to get her number.

In this category you’ll get lines to acquire her digits that will flow with the conversation,
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in a manner that’s confident rather than desperate. Once you’ve got her number,
you can use the transition-to-text lines that we’ve included (first texts can be a deal
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breaker).
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There are also lines to help you ease and overcome any hesitation.

Godspeed, good fellow :)

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What’s your number so we can get this Her: this date sounds like it’s going to be fun :)
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organized You: What’s your number so we can get this fun

date organized
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Let’s take this to text so we can continue Casually transition the conversation to text.
small talk without killing my battery
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I need to ask you one question before I get You: I need to ask you one question before I get
your number your number
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Her: ok sure 
You: What’s your phone number?
Her: Lol you’re so silly! It’s xxx-xxx-xxx
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All good things are a risk, and I promise this Use this when she hesitates in giving her number
one will pay off. Tinder kills my battery over. Example:
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You: Ok cool, what’s your number and we’ll get

this organized
Her: I’m not sure if I know you well enough yet…
You: All good things are a risk, and I promise this
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one will pay off. Tinder kills my battery

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Let me get your phone number. It’s quite the Use when:
leap of faith on your part but most things
You think she’ll hesitate when you ask for her
worth it are
number.
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Match made in Tinder heaven. Now give me Use when:

your number and we can work out first date
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She’s just said something positive about the two

details.
of you. Example:
Her: Haha I secretly love Miley as well!! :)
You: Match made in Tinder heaven. Now give
me your number and we can work out first date
details. 

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I think you forgot your phone number in that You: Cool, what’s your number so we organize the
last message details of your best ever first date
Her: Haha that’s a big call
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You: You forgot your phone number in that last
message
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I’m pretty sure a phone number is made up You: Cool, what’s your number so we organize the
of numbers, not letters details of your best ever first date
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Her: Haha that’s a big call

You: I’m pretty sure a phone number is made up
of numbers, not letters
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Her: Smartie :P haha it’s xxx-xxx-xxx

Well the first step to me sweeping you off Well the first step to me sweeping you off your
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your feet is getting your number feet is getting your number

Let me get your number so we can make Let me get your number so we can make small
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small talk while I plan that historical date talk while I plan that historical date
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It’s quite the leap of faith on your part, but Use this when she hesitates in giving her number
most things worth it are over. Example:
You: Ok cool, what’s your number and we’ll get
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this organized
Her: I’m not sure if I know you well enough yet…
You: I realize it’s quite the leap of faith on your
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part, but most things worth it are

Her: You’re right :) It’s xxx-xxx-xxx
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Let me get your number so I can muster up Let me get your number so I can muster up the
the courage to ask you out on a date. courage to ask you out on a date.
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I’m going to send you something naughty so This is a playful way to transition to text once she
you know it’s me give you her number. Example:
Her: My number is xxx-xxx-xxx
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You: I’ll send you something naughty so you know

it’s me ;)
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Then you literally text her “Something naughty”,

like this:
You: Something naughty ;)
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Her: haha smarty :)

I decided you’re gonna be the first (and Make her feel like she’s special when you text
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probably only) girl I actually meet up with her for the first time after getting her number.
here Example:
You: I decided you’re gonna be the first (and
probably only) girl I actually meet up with here
You: Congrats

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Sometimes you gotta risk it to get the biscuit Use this when she hesitates in giving her number
over. Example:
You: Ok cool, what’s your number and we’ll get
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this organized
Her: I’m not sure if I know you well enough yet…
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You: Sometimes you gotta risk it to get the biscuit

Of course it’s sudden, all amazing things are Use this when she hesitates in giving her number
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over. Example:
You: Ok cool, what’s your number and we’ll get
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this organized
Her: I’m not sure, this is too quick lol
You: Of course it’s sudden, all amazing things are
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Her: Cute :) It’s xxx-xxx-xxx

Ok enough with the witty banter and flirting Ok enough with the witty banter and flirting over
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over Tinder. What’s your number so we can Tinder. What’s your number so we can take this
take this flirting to our dinner date flirting to our dinner date
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Hey it’s [Your Name], I’m looking for my POWER MESSAGE. The flirtiest transition to text
[Tinder/Zoosk/OKCupid] crush with the cute message that a girl will ever receive.
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smile, seen her? ;)

Use when:
You get a girls number and need to carry the
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conversation over to text.

The first text message you send after getting
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a girls number can be difficult, you have to

introduce yourself which can be awkward. This
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is a flexible template that can be modified to use

in almost any situation – plus it playfully removes
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any first-text-tension.
Cheat tip: Add something to the message that
you’ve already commented on. For example, if
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you have spoken about going on a fun date

together, your first message would be:
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Hey, this is [Your Name], I’m looking for the girl

who’s about to go on the best first date of her life,
seen her? ;)
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Cheat tip: Use the As cute as___ I’m afraid that___

line as your initial Opener (i.e. on Tinder), it will
set you up perfectly for this transition to text
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once you get her number.

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I’ll let you know over text, what’s your Use when:
number You feel it’s right to take the conversation to text,
and then she asks you a question. Example:
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Her: So when are we going to go on this amazing

date? :)
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You: I’ll let you know over text, what’s your

number
Her: xxx-xx-xxx :)
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or:
Her: what type of girls do you usually go for?
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You: I’ll let you know over text, what’s your

number
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Her: haha smooth. It’s xxx-xx-xxx :)

or
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Her: I hope that I fit those criteria :)

You: I’ll let you know over text, what’s your
number
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Her: xxx-xxx-xxx

Do you think you could take me in a fight? ;) You: Do you think you could take me in a fight ;)
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Her: haha maybe ;)
You: Well there’s only one way we’re gonna settle
this… name a time and place, what’s your number
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and we’ll organize it

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DATE TALK

Just like getting her digits, you should organize (or at least agree on) a date, while the
conversation is running hot.
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This section gives you a few lines that will bring up the topic of your date. The idea is
to get it out in the open and let it flow from there.
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If you’re a little unsure and want detailed tips and tricks on your first date, go to www.
TinderSeduction.com and check out the articles on How to Have an Amazing Tinder
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Date (Parts 1 and 2). You can find them in the “Blog+Tips” menu. You’ll get an easy
step-by-step process you can follow. Additional secret tips on having an amazing first
on

date (like the first-date goodbye trick that every girl loves) are in TINSANITY.
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Well I was going to take you out on an The key with the “settle for an amazing date” line is to
amazing first date and introduce you use something that she can relate to as the added date
to my puppy… But I’m afraid he’s busy item. For example, if her profile shows her wearing the
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for the weekend. Now we’ll just have to local football team’s jersey, say:
settle for an amazing first date
You: It’s a shame the [local football team] are playing
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an away game this weekend

Her: Why’s that
You: We could have had an amazing first date and then
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watch the game. Now we’ll just have to settle for an

amazing first date
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Lets bang out sometime You: Lets bang out sometime

You: *hang ;)
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Were you just trying to ask me out on a Use when:

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date [Her name] She mentions anything remotely close to being a date.
It is a great way to bring up the subject of your first
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date in a playful way.

Not so fast, I expect to be taken out Not so fast, I expect to be taken out to dinner before
to dinner before my FB relationship my FB relationship status changes
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status changes
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DATE TALK DATING APP CHEAT

They all sound great, but let’s Use when:

be honest… us two spending an You’re in a new place as a tourist or visitor and match
evening together will be much more with a local. Ask for recommendations on what you
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memorable for the both of us should do while you’re in town. Example:
Her: What are you doing all the way over here?
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You: Just cruising through LA. Can you recommend any

activities for me during my short stay
Her: Definitely go to Santa Monica to stroll the pier
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near the ocean. Hiking to the Hollywood sign off of

Beachwood Canyon is always nice.
You: They all sound great, but let’s be honest… us
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two spending an evening together will be much more

memorable for the both of us
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Her: Oh my. That can be arranged. How long are you

here? :)
You: Fly out Monday. What’s your number so we can get
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this amazing evening organized

Her: xxx-xx-xxx call me after 5 :)
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Would it be too forward to tell you Whatever her reply is to this, you can follow up with:
our date plans or should we small talk
You: That was rhetoric
some more
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(Then immediately reply with the next line)

You: drinks, fun and lots of flirting
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Great conversation, lots of laughs and Use when:

absurd amounts of flirting You’ve brought up the topic of a date and she asks
what have in mind for the date. This line almost always
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gets a great reaction.

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After this line you can tell her your plans, which is the
perfect opportunity to get her number.
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Example:
Her: I’d love to meet up :) What do you have in mind?
You: Great conversation, lots of laughs and absurd
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amounts of flirting
Her: Haha sounds good to me!
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You: Perfect. What’s your number so we can organize

the details
If your date will be a once off (one-nighter) and you’re
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feeling confident, you can use this version:

Her: Would love to meet up… what do you have in
mind?
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You: Great conversation, lots of laughs and absurd

amounts of flirting followed by some bedroom
acrobatics
Her: I’m down ;)

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Is our obvious chemistry going to be Once the conversation is going well (especially after
limited to Tinder, or are we going to you make her laugh) throw this in for a playful way to
experience it in person? start your date talk:
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Example:
Her: Haha of course!
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You: So is our obvious chemistry going to be limited to

Tinder, or are we going to experience it in person?
Her: Ha! Would love to meet up… what do you have in
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Sometimes things just don’t go to plan. Use these Recovery and Negativity lines when
things get tough.
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There are lines that deal with her petty little tests. Lines that attempt to improve her
mood. Lines that will reboot conversations that have gone cold. And if needed, lines
that let her know that she’s not worth it.
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You’re really not hot enough to get away Use when:

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with being this boring The girl is being genuinely boring, rude or abrupt.
Sometimes it shocks them into a better mood,
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sometimes it fuels the flames.

You’re obviously too strong for my advances, Use when:

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goodbye sweet [Her name]

You can’t be bothered trying for her number
anymore. Girls will either respond well and
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say “haha wait!”, or will just say “ok bye”. Don’t

forget, no risk, no return!
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I don’t feel like putting in effort to play this Use when:

game so I probably don’t. You ask for her number, and she says you need to
do more to earn it, as if she’s god’s gift. Example:
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Her: There’s the first three digits of my number.

Tell me why I should give you more 
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You: I don’t feel like putting in effort to play this

game so I probably don’t. 
You: But you should just do it anyways 
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*Note: if she’s being genuinely flirty (not conceited

as above) when she says you need to earn it, then
this line will backfire. In that case ignore this line
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and play along.

We’re both obviously playing hard to get, so POWER MESSAGE One sentence that can be your
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how about we agree to put our egos aside go-to message in two different scenarios:
in the name of lust and skip to the part Use it as a recovery message to revive old
where we flirt outrageously with each other conversations that have gone stale – it has an
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exceptional response rate that is always positive.

Or you can also use it as an opener – it slices
through tension and breaks the ice in a way that’s
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witty, poetic and humorous. Conversation has a

very smooth and open flow after this is used. It is
perfectly suited for times when you match with a
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Please respond Use when:

The conversation stops. Sounds weak, but often
it’s all you need to get back to the top of a girls
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messages and get her attention again.
If a girl is messaging other guys and matching with
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more, then if your conversation stops you will be

pushed down to the bottom of her messages.
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Can’t drag me in with a body like that then If you recover the conversation, you can use this
leave me hanging, that’s cruel as a follow up. Example:
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You: Please respond
Her: haha sorry here I am!
You: Can’t drag me in with a body like that then
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leave me hanging, that’s cruel

Damn, I better stop knitting our matching Use this to play off any of her negative responses.
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sweaters then
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[Her name] you can be such an Eeyore… Use when:

Sometimes you gotta be like Pooh and A girl is being dull, boring, difficult or negative…
show some optimism, or like Tigger and be which is the most unfavorable mood for getting
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reckless with excitement her number.

This subtly powerful message quickly addresses
any negativity that a girl is showing in a way
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that’s authoritative yet playful. If you notice

any girl showing such signs, send this message
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immediately and it will keep the conversation

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heading in the right direction.

If you couldn’t tell, it’s a reference to the children’s
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series Winnie the Pooh. Girls love talking about

nostalgic memories so this also creates more
conversation.
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[Her name], we’ve lived, we’ve laughed, we Use when:

loved… But it seems like you want that to She’s giving you little “tests” or playing games with
end. So I shall oblige, my sweet you, such as:
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Her: You’ll have to do better than that to get my

number
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You: [Her name], we’ve lived, we’ve laughed, we

loved… But it seems like you want that to end. So
I shall oblige, my sweet hot cross bun [or other
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ridiculous pet name – avocado, teddy bear etc.]

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That was quite the awe inspiring response, You: What’s my tinderella up to

I’m completely intrigued please tell me Her: not much
more You: That was quite the awe inspiring response, I’m
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completely intrigued please tell me more
Her: Haha as I sent that I thought wow that was
terrible but I just saw it from last night and I’m at
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work 
Her: I’m actually much more intriguing lol 
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Look here you beautiful broad I taped my Use when:

phone to my face like four days ago and They don’t reply for a few days – you can send
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have been sitting in my parking lot where them something hilarious and ridiculous like this
the reception is strongest waiting for you to to restart the conversation.
message me back ever since, why are you
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playing games with my heart

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Can’t drag me in with a body like that then If you recover the conversation, you can use this
leave me hanging, that’s cruel as a follow up. Example:
You: Please respond
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Her: haha sorry here I am!

You: Can’t drag me in with a body like that then
leave me hanging, that’s cruel
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I see that your good fashion sense also Use when:

converts well into fashionably late replies. She sends you a late response. It’s a compliment
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and taunt in one (aka neg).

Example:
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Her: (late response). I’m in the city this weekend.

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We should meet up :) Where are you?

You: I see that your good fashion sense also
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converts well into fashionably late replies. 

You: I’m out of town until Monday. When are you
free next week?
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Get in touch!
I’d love to hear what you think about Dating App Cheat! Leave a
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comment at www.tinderseduction.com/dating-app-cheat and tell me

about your successes (and failures!) or just say hi!
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Looking forward to hearing from you,

Marcus
[email protected]

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