Title: Road To Healing: I - The Courage To Come Out Into The Open
Title: Road To Healing: I - The Courage To Come Out Into The Open
1. GREETINGS
2. GOOD NEWS:
3. LIFT UP SOME PEOPLE
BODY:
1. Kinsay walay giatubang na problema sa ilang kinabuhi diri karon?
2. All people in different walks of life has problems. No one in this group can escape problems.
3. Even the person you love and even the person you hate has problems.
4. The bottomline is that…. Everybody has problems!
5. If you’ll just be honest tonight, kumusta man imong heart? How are you?
6. Are you guilty of something? Trapped in sin? Carrying a burden sa imo heart for so long? Hard to forgive
someone? Are you in an endless cycle of defeat? Ganahan ky ka mushagit para mahuwasan?
7. I don’t know about you but I know for sure, there’s something in your heart.
8. All of us have problems… All of us need help. We need solution. We need HEALING.
5. What happens if people knew that he was leper? Do you know what they do to lepers?
a. They send them into leper colonies to live in dens with other diseased people.
b. They excommunicate them not only from the army but from the socialization of their society.
c. If they ever found out that their Commander was a leper, he would lose his status, his power, his
pidegree, his finances, his economic perspectives and the adoration from his community. He had
destroyed the power of Israel over Aram. His sword alone was very famous.
d. That’s how the Arameans adored him? he has liberated them. He was so famous. Naaman was the
Duterte in his generation. He was the Michael Jordan of the Chicago bulls, he was the Manny Pacquiao
of the Philippines. If naa pa siyay Facebook og instagram, millions iyang followers. Naaman was a
mighty man of valor.. but.... he was out there hiding his leprosy…
e. Despite all the fame and the success, he was so afflicted.
f. Can you imagine his pressure? And he wasn’t really out in the open. But he needs to be cured.
What was the next thing Naaman did? he was humble to go low enough.
3. Both of them had a test of character and both of them went low? How?
a. Naaman and the woman were in a similar position. They were both in place where they are having a
hard time getting out of. They were both held captive by something.
b. She had every right to be bitter. she was snatched away from her family, culture, friends and demoted to
be a slave. And when she saw his leprosy, he had the right to let him rot.
c. But you see the real test of character is what you do with power… It is not what you do with
weakness because weakness has no options… but the real test of who you are is what you do when
you have the advantage. How’s your heart on that area?
d. Who would have thought that the life of the Commander of the army of Aram will be at the mercy of a
girl? a little maid. She wasn't even the head of the maid. She was away from her country... she was
little... oh she was on the outside but she was big on the inside.
e. God allowed Naaman to take captive of the very cure of his crisis. The answer to the crisis of our life
is somewhere in our arms reach.
f. She did not struggle to break free from her captivity because she knew her problem served a purpose.
They thought they snatched her against her will but not against God. She made God as God even when
she was captive of her situation.
g. Is God just the God in your good times? or is He your God when you are captive in a situation that
you cannot correct?
h. As she sees him undress, she needs to make a decision. “Will I help the man that holds me captive?”
that is a decision that we all have to make in sometime or sooner. “Will I help the one who holds me
captive or will I simply sit back and keep quiet and let him die?”
i. If the wrong maid had been held captive, Naaman would have died. If an angry, vengeful, evil woman
had been captive, she would have withheld on what she could do.
j. But the problem on withholding back on what you could do is that when you hold back on what
you could do, God holds back on what He can do. because you are no more deserving of the
blessing you seek than the blessing you withhold from the person you hate. and until you learn to
humble yourself, you'll never be mighty. You’ll never be blessed!
k. The greatest test might be how you handle the person you hate. I really appreciate her that despite all the
reason to hate Naaman, she was humble to go low enough and offered the help... "I have something to
help you Naaman! There is a prophet in Israel.”
l. What would Naaman feel when he heard that from her? Dakong sagpa sa nawng!
And the last thing we can learn here is this… after Naaman humbled himself, we realize that humility is not
enough to heal if we don’t have this last step…
CLOSING:
1. Story of Ranjit John, our brother in India:
a. He was a fulltime minister in Mumbai Church. He was an alcoholic. It was like his leprosy. There was a
time when his friends started inviting him to hang out with them occasionally and grab some drinks. He
thought he was “I’m okay, I’m not getting drunk, I’m just relieving old memories with his old peers.”
But there he started drinking again.
b. When the leadership found out about it, he denied it... but he got reprimanded. And later on, same thing
happened, his wife found out about it again that time and reported it to the leadership group. Eventually,
he was asked to quit the staff so he resigned in 2005 and went to NAVI Mumbai.
c. He was full bitterness at the consequence for justification for his actions. He distanced himself from the
church and cut-off some relations from people. Then after almost a year, he got counted out from the
membership. Now he found himself in a new situation where he was not a member of the church and
he's in a new place. He can do all the things he wanted to... but he didn't realize he was drifting away
from God more.
d. He found a new job, but his drinking habit got worse. He's got a bad a reputation at work and eventually
quit the job. All his money was going towards drinking and towards his friends. He was not even
contributing to their home expenses. He always had quarrels with his wife. There were few occasions
that his wife would be shocked when she opens their door seeing him with blood on his clothes. He's
either beaten up people or he was the one who got beaten up.
e. When he had no money to drink, He extort money from other people and luckily, he did not end up in
jail. Together with his 3 friends, they would regularly meet to drink at a bar but in a span of four years,
three of them passed away and only him survived. His life got worse. Despite his efforts to control
himself from drinking for a while, a week or maximum of a month, he could not hold on. His drinking
habits got even worse, and would even take twice as much alcohol than he normally do. He totally lost
it.
f. in 2011, his friends at church started reaching out to him for they realized he was helpess before his
addiction. There he started going back to church and studied the bible again. but his disease persisted to
the point that he started asking for professional help.
g. As he looked for his healing, he had to go through some challenges... he was unable to stand, balance
himself, mouth dry and he had that funny uncomfortable feeling. He would became desperate for his
drink. But each time he take his first gulp, there he feel some painful spasms. He was wobbling and
looked into the mirror with watery red eyes... at that point... he realized he hit rock bottom.
h. He asked God, "Help me, I just want to live a normal life like them." He saw people drink to enjoy and
now he found himself in a situation where he just drink to be normal. He had a hard time walking,
writing, driving, and even driving. He kept praying and praying... and then God answered his prayer...
but God answered him in a strange way.
i. In 2015, a clot in his brain caused him a stroke and he got admitted in the ICU. From there, he was
admitted to rehab. He was paralyzed from the right side down. his speech had become impaired. But his
experience in rehab became a time where he had spiritual breakthrough. It was where he came closer to
God. People prayed for him.
j. Instead of yoga, he went to the gym there, and miraculously in 3 weeks of gym, his right hand started
functioning. the staff called him "miracle man. For it was really unusual” And in some time, he could
also start speaking normally. He had a great progress in rehab. By the sixth month, he was appointed as
dorm-in-charge and by the seventh month, he was appointed as the training staff... he had the authority
to implement rules to inmates.
k. And later on he was discharged, the professional group was there to welcome him and the people on
staff were shocked to see it because it never happens. Because when an inmate is discharged, only a
family member comes to take him but it was different for Ranjit. He had a hero’s welcome as if he won
something or returned from a big event.
l. That was Ranjit’s life. Isn’t that amazing on how God healed him? And help him get back on track?
m. And one thing I was so impacted is when he shared this to the people, he said…
n. "I was a full time minister when I fell. I needn't have reached a point where along with spiritual help, I
now required professional help. Please don't make the same mistake I did... Just talk about it. Back then I
did not open it up just to save my image in front of people. I was moving into misery without realizing. I
preferred to be a loner, hated to fellowship in church for the fear of what people might say or what
people might sense about me."
2. On that note, I know how hard it was for Ranjit. But one thing is for sure… there is always hope. There is
always a cure no matter how difficult it can be… God will always offer the cure.
3. But we gotta heed his advice… talk about it… ask help… don’t make the same mistake I did.
4. Brothers, I don’t know about you. The solution to your problem is right here in this 3 steps of what Naaman
did…
5. Just have the courage to come out in the open. Think about the stress if you keep hiding it. Open it up…
6. Then be humble to go low enough. Stop going up because God wants you to go down so that he can bring
you up…
7. And lastly, just obey even if it doesn’t make sense… because at the end of the day, he’s the doctor and
we’re just the patient. It’s never our call… the healing is always his way…
8. Let’s grab the cure… If we do, I believe great things will happen. Thank you. TGBTG!
Road to Healing:
1. Humility
a. Vulnerability
b. Be willing to go to an unfamiliar territory
c. Go lower and lower
2. Obey even if doesn’t make sense.
a. No human logic found just pure obedience