6 Villalon V Villalon
6 Villalon V Villalon
6 Villalon V Villalon
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G.R. No. 167206. November 18, 2005.
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* FIRST DIVISION.
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YNARES-SANTIAGO, J.:
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between the parties. The report submitted4 to the trial
court stated that there was no such collusion.
The Office of the Solicitor General (OSG) subsequently
entered its5 appearance in behalf of the6 Republic of the
Philippines and submitted an opposition to the petition on
September 23, 1997. Thereafter, trial on the merits ensued.
Petitioner testified that he met respondent sometime in
the early seventies when he applied for a job at Metrobank,
where respondent was employed as a foreign exchange
trader. They began dating 7in 1975 and had a romantic
relationship soon thereafter. After going steady for about
two years, petitioner and respondent were married at the
San Pancracio Chapel in Paco, Manila on April 22, 1978.
Petitioner claimed that he married respondent because he
believed that it was the right time to raise a 8family and
that she would be a good mother to his children.
In the middle of 1993, petitioner decided to separate
from respondent. According to him, their marriage reached
a point where there was no longer any communication
between them and their relationship became devoid of love,
affection, support9 and respect due to his constant urge to
see other women. Moreover, their relationship tended to be
“one-sided” since respondent was unresponsive and10
hardly
ever showed her love, needs, wants and emotions.
Petitioner admitted that on certain occasions before his
marriage, he had two girlfriends at the same time. He also
saw other women even when he became engaged to and,
later
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3 Id., at p. 27.
4 Id., at p. 28.
5 Id., at p. 73.
6 Id., at pp. 69-72.
7 TSN, October 22, 1997, pp. 9-10.
8 Id., at p. 34.
9 Id., at pp. 13, 14 & 16.
10 Id., at pp. 19, 20 & 24.
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on, married respondent. Respondent12 learned of his affairs
but reacted in a subdued manner. Petitioner surmised
that it was 13
respondent’s nature to be silent and
withdrawn.
In January 1994, petitioner left the conjugal abode and
moved into an apartment located five to ten minutes away.
Before he left, he and his wife spoke to their three children
who, at that 14
time, were 14, 8, and 6 years old,
respectively. Petitioner consulted
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a child psychologist
before talking to his children. He considered himself as a
good and loving father 16and described his relationship with
the children as “great.”
Despite the separation, petitioner would regularly visit
his children who stayed with him on alternate weekends.
He voluntarily gave monthly support to the children and
paid for their tuition fees. He also shouldered the children’s
medical expenses as well as the maintenance 17
and
miscellaneous fees for the conjugal abode.
Petitioner presented Dr. Natividad Dayan, a clinical
psychologist, to testify on his alleged psychological disorder
of “Narcissistic Histrionic Personality Disorder” with
“Casanova Complex.” Dr. Dayan described the said
disorder as “a pervasive maladaptation in terms of
interpersonal and occupational functioning” with main
symptoms of “grand ideation about oneself, self-
centeredness, thinking he is unique and wanting to always
be the one followed, the I personality.” A person afflicted
with this disorder believes that he is entitled to gratify his
emotional and sexual feelings and thus engages in serial
infidelities. Likewise, a person with “Casanova Com-
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34 Hernandez v. Court of Appeals, 377 Phil. 919, 931-932; 320 SCRA 76,
87-88 (1999).
35 Supra.
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