This document discusses understanding oneself during middle and late adolescence. It explains that having an ideal self, which is the person one aspires to be, and an actual self, who one truly is based on their characteristics and self-knowledge, is important for self-acceptance and relationships. It says the actual self is built from self-awareness and insights from social interactions, while the ideal self is an idealized image developed over time from learning and experiences that can include influences from parents, admired people, and societal values.
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This document discusses understanding oneself during middle and late adolescence. It explains that having an ideal self, which is the person one aspires to be, and an actual self, who one truly is based on their characteristics and self-knowledge, is important for self-acceptance and relationships. It says the actual self is built from self-awareness and insights from social interactions, while the ideal self is an idealized image developed over time from learning and experiences that can include influences from parents, admired people, and societal values.
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UNIT 1 :
SELF- DEVELOPMENT MODULE 1: KNOWING AND UNDERSTANDING ONESELF DURING MIDDLE AND LATE ADOLESCENCE BIG QUESTION:
How can understanding
yourself pave the way to self-acceptance and better relationship with others? Imagine yourself looking into the mirror. What do you see? Do you see your ideal self... or your actual self? IDEAL SELF it is the self that you aspire to be. IDEAL SELF It is the one that you hope will possess characteristics similar to that of a mentor of some other worldly figure. ACTUAL SELF It is the one that you actually see. ACTUAL SELF It is the self that has characteristics that you were nurtured or, in some cases, born to have. refers to your awareness of yourself. The actual self is built on self-knowledge. is derived from social interactions that provide insight into how others react to you. The actual self is who we actually are. It is how we think, how we feel, look , and act. The actual self can be seen by others, but because we have no way of truly knowing how others view us, the actual self is our self-image. The ideal self, on the other hand, is how we want to be. It is an idealized image that we have developed over time, based on what we have learned and experienced. The ideal self could include components of what our parents taught us, what we admire in others, what our society promotes, and what we think is our best interest.