Worksheets
Worksheets
Worksheets
Worksheets
In conjunction with the information above, the attached worksheets provide a platform for awareness and action planning in relation to building resilience.
By completing and acting on the worksheets below, you can build new conditioning in the brain.
The worksheets are presented sequentially and may be used to assist in developing and implementing a resilience action plan. They can be
incorporated into an individual or in a peer relationship resilience action plan. Exclude steps 8 and 10 (marked with *) for individual plans.
Alternatively, use may use the worksheets in other contexts (see p17 above for suggestions).
1. Complete the Resilience Questionnaire, your Time Diary, and your Window of Tolerance.
2. Review your Resilience Questionnaire, your Time Diary, and your Window of Tolerance.
3. Identify the areas for which you are at wish to address.
4. List ALL areas where you want to make changes.
5. Rank the items, with 1 being the highest priority.
6. Prepare a Resilience Activities Plan
7. Identify on any barriers or resistances to your plan
8. *Discuss your plan with a close colleague, friend or your partner. If you wish, ‘buddy-up’ with someone who is also doing their
own Resilience Plan and arrange to check in and support each other with making the changes happen.
9. Act on your plan (check-in regularly with your ‘buddy’)
10. *Meet and formally evaluate your progress with your support person regarding your plan (e.g., in a month)
11. Reflect and learn from what helped and hindered your progress
12. Start again from the top of these instructions!
PERSONAL RESILIENCE QUESTIONNAIRE
Read the left hand column after reading the document above. Tick Yes or No in each domain, and note a goal that comes to mind
Yes No Goal
SLEEP
Do I spend time doing things I enjoy, that are new, or just for
‘fun’? (like learning an instrument, playing with children,
playing with pets)
MINDFULNESS
The "window of tolerance" (Siegel 1999) is a mud-map for our level of stress and activation in relation to our comfort or flow zone. When we are within our
window we function well. When we find ourselves too far outside our window, we can go beyond our capacity in that moment to stay present and function
optimally. We may flip into a fight/flight or freeze mode. When we are outside our window, our survival brain has switched on, and the basic question is
“How can I be safe?” We may find ourselves being defensive (fight), withdrawing (fleeing), or closing down (freezing). When we find ourselves outside our
window, our conditioned tendencies have been triggered. All the resilience-building practices that we undertake are – in effect – expanding our window of
tolerance.
Instructions: Think of the last month. Record any incidents or activities where you were stressed to the degree you felt overwhelmed (hyper-aroused) or
disengaged (hypo-aroused) for a period of time. Record these on the sheet below. Look for any patterns.
SELF-REFLECTION Diary. Fill out the Time diary using the colour codes for a week. Reflect on the patterns. What is missing and needs attention?
6 to 7
7 to 8
8 to 9
9 to 10
10 to 11
11 to 12
pm 12 to 1
1 to 2
2 to 3
3 to 4
4 to 5
5 to 6
6 to 7
7 to 8
8 to 9
9 to 10
10 to 11
11 to 12
am 12 to 1
1 to 2
2 to 3
3 to 4
4 to 5
Focus = Red; Exercise = Brown; Idle- = Black; Relating (quality) = Green; Play = Yellow;
Yellow Mindfulness = Orange; Sleep = Grey
RESILIENCE GOALS
FOCUS AREA
GOALS (RANK IN PRIORITY FROM 1…)
From:
Questionnaire
Diary
Window of Tolerance
RESILIENCE PLAN
Resilience Factors (see left hand column of questionnaire)
Social: Partner/Peer:
Partner/Peer
Social:
Social: Partner/Peer
4/ Structural: Self assessment:
Social: Partner/Peer
Social: Partner/Peer
Social: Partner/Peer
IDENTIFY BARRIERS TO YOUR PLAN
IDENTIFY:
Yes No (circle one)
Are there barriers to the
acting on or not completing
If yes, what are they?
my plan?
Time Money Motivation Fear “I’m bullet proof and immortal”
STRATEGISE:
Yes No (circle one)
Are the any supports I can
draw on to assist me?
If Yes, which ones?
If no, how will you overcome your obstacles to resilience plan (discuss this with a support person)?
Note: If barriers cannot be overcome, then it may be appropriate to seek the assistance of a professional who
specialises in resilience, self-care, or professional supervision.
Notes: