Article Prof Simple Techniques Prevent Client
Article Prof Simple Techniques Prevent Client
Article Prof Simple Techniques Prevent Client
Many clients drop out of therapy prematurely. Swift (et al., 2012) outlines some of
the reasons why clients drop out:
They find it difficult to continue due to external factors i.e., child care,
transportation, or cost
They feel highly anxious about openly discussing their feelings, impulses,
and experiences
While some reasons for client drop out are beyond your control, there are things
you can do to reduce the frequency of premature termination in your work with
clients. The most important factor for retaining clients is building and maintaining
a positive therapeutic rapport. In addition to a strong therapeutic relationship, the
techniques described below can help prevent the problem of the “vanishing
client.”
2. What is the role of the therapist and of the client during treatment?
The handout should be easy to read and understand. Avoid clinical jargon.
I work predominantly with children and their families, so I first meet with parents
without the child to engage them, collect background information, and to prepare
them for bringing their child to therapy. In this initial parent session, I give them a
handout that outlines how they can prepare their child for the first session. This
handout also includes tips on how they can support their child’s therapy. (You
can get this handout on my website. Go to www.lianalowenstein.com click on the
tab: “Articles for Professionals” then scroll down and click on “Bringing Your Child
to Therapy: Tips for Parents.)
I have also developed numerous tip sheets for parents on a variety of topics such
as anxiety, divorce, bereavement, and sexual abuse (for further info see
Lowenstein, 2006a; 2006b; 2013; 2016).
S: Specific
M: Measurable
A: Attainable
R: Relevant
T: Time bound
For instance, if the client states: “I hope therapy can help me handle my anger
better so I don’t blow up at everyone” then an appropriately worded goal would
be: I will learn, practice, and implement a deep breathing technique to self-calm
when I feel angry. You can then discuss with the client roughly how many
sessions it might take for this goal to be achieved. Discussing goals at the outset
of therapy will help to motivate the client to return.
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Explore the reasons underlying the client’s resistance
If the client is anxious to talk about difficult issues, it is important to assess the
underlying cause. For instance, the client may not feel safe enough with you, or
the resistance may be reflective of the client’s need to avoid painful emotions. To
assess the cause of the client’s resistance, ask exploratory questions such as:
Some clients find it easier to communicate through writing rather than through
direct discussion. Therefore, creating a form for the client to complete with the
above questions may make it easier for the client to reveal the source of his/her
resistance.
Empowering: You get to choose when you feel ready to talk about it
Postulating the worst: What’s the worst that could happen if you talk to me
about it?
Asking these questions and responding in an appropriate way will not only
normalize the client’s feelings, but will help keep the client engaged in therapy.
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Regularly highlight the client’s therapeutic gains through labelled praise. This
means making statements that target the specific improvements that the client
has made i.e., “When you first came to see me it was hard for you to express
your sadness about your mom’s death. Today you were able to cry and to begin
talking about how much you miss her. That’s great progress!” It can also be
helpful to facilitate self-praise by asking, “What’s a change you have made that
you feel especially proud of?”
References
Lowenstein, L. (2006a). Creative interventions for bereaved children. Toronto,
ON: Champion Press.
Lowenstein, L. (2014). Cory helps kids cope with sexual abuse: Playful activities
for traumatized children. Toronto, ON: Champion Press.