AIM OF THIS MODULE:

For the values coaches:

1. To set specific guidelines for the values coach.
2. To implement the MBK program to be launched to the specific station.

For the MBK squad leader and members:

1. To be used as initial guide in the weekly quality time meeting of each
squad.
2. To be able to input values-based topics that can be shared during each
quality time session and possibly be applied practically.

Theme: “God-Centered, Community-Based, Family-

Oriented”

I – MBK STEP SQUAD CONCEPT

The average ratio of each group team will be:
1 squad = 1 Squad Leader + members
1 squad = 1 or more values coaches
II- MECHANICS
1. Values coaches Attire/Grooming – For men: Long or short sleeves
barong/ or long sleeves in formal pants. For women: Long skirt and closed
neck blouses are required. Observe proper haircut.
2. Lesson Materials – An Instruction Manual (Bible) and prepared lesson
materials shall be used during the quality time meeting.
2-1 The Lesson to be discussed shall be standardized from the region, to the
model station, and throughout the stations. Lesson topics will solely be
based on the MBK core values:
SESSION MANUAL “God-centered, community-based, family-oriented life”
3. Group Discussion Sequence
3-1 The Values coach together with the squad leader shall recommend a
comfortable place to discuss together that is free from severe noise
disturbance; whenever available, seats are encouraged to be arranged in
circle for each team.
3-2 Start the meeting with opening prayer (by the then by the next meetings 6. MBK Program Prevalence
upon discretion of the values coach together with the squad leader, assign a In case there are urgent guidelines approved by the RHQ which were
team member to do the prayers) not included in the details mentioned in this guide, the squad leader shall
3-3 During the first session, the Squad Leader and values coach will discuss receive instruction from the COP or CESPO/PESPO for dissemination and
the purpose of the MBK quality time meeting. During the 2 nd session and implementation.
onwards, the values coach with the squad leader shall review previous topic
Allow the team members to recall the previously discussed topic at the start 7. LESSON OUTCOME
of each quality time meeting. The result or practical application of the “GOD-CENTERED, SERVICE-
3-4 The values coach together with the squad leader shall follow the ORIENTED, FAMILY-BASED LIFE” concept is essential.
standard lesson sequence provided in the manual. After each session, weekly sharing of experiences will be shared by
Discussion shall proceed to build a stronger relationship between each the squad members for life application. For example, the lesson for the week
member of the squad with the values coach together with the squad leader. emphasized, family bonding or family prayer, each squad members shall be
Doctrinal concerns which might lead to further argument should be stopped asked if the said expected outcomes have transpired. The squad leader
immediately by the values coach together with the squad leader. monitors all the compliances. The expected outcome shall be reported in
3-5 During the quality time meeting period, values coach together with the the form of picture or honest sharing of each squad member during the
squad leader might opt to allow their team to recite/read verses, sing weekly quality time meeting.
hymnals (from bible verses), and special prayers.
As part of team building approaches the values coach together with the POST SESSION ACTIVITIES
squad leader might consider to recognize birthday celebrants, anniversaries, After the 10 sessions are completed, squad leaders shall continue
and other important events celebrated by the squad members. the methodology of discussion as presented in this manual during their next
3-6 The session shall end in a closing prayer. weekly quality time meeting. The values coach may remain as guide to
4. Schedule and DURATION counsel and pray for the team. Once the weekly quality time is already in
Timeline: 10 Sessions (10 weeks) placed, the squad leader or assigned in charge shall continue the discussion
Ideal Squad Day/ Time: Tuesdays 11:30- 12:30 (1 Hour per week) and ask for specific values to be discussed and applied by the team for the
CESPO/PESPO Confirmation for Schedules that might not be possible week.
with other team. IMPORTANT REMIMDERS TO THE VALUES COACH
Session Duration: 1. Practice Punctuality. Always be on time. Be at the venue at least 10
1. Opening Prayer/ Session Discussion (25 minutes) minutes before the session to prevent you from cramming.
2. Open Forum/Sharing (15 minutes) 2. Always wear that sincere and approachable smile. Remember, we are
3. Prayer Requests and Prayer (15 minutes) God’s tools to build lives, not to make it miserable.
5. Monitoring Record 3. Be a spiritual Guide. Reflect the biblical truth in you before, during, and
Monitoring record for every quality time meeting session shall be after the quality time meeting.
kept. CESPO/PESPO determines compliance of each squad quality time 4. Remember the Theme: “God-Centered, Community-Based, Family-
meeting. Oriented” – Always challenge every member to make it as a way of life.
The Lord be with us. To God be the glory!
 MBK LESSON MANUAL

I- INTRODUCTION
II- LESSON DETAILS
1. GOD-CENTERED LIFE – 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change
1-1 Believe You Can Change by God’s Help
1-2 Repent of your sin
1-3 Seek Help from the Right people
1-4 Change Your Life’s Purpose
1-5 Pursue your purpose with Action
1-6 Diligently practice what is right
1-7 Avoid Temptation
1-8 Face Struggles One Day at A Time
1-9 Remember Always Eternity

2. SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE – Mentoring and Modelling

Principles
2-1 Edify by Example
2-2 Communicate Consistency
2-3 Leadership with Love
2-4 Progress by Perseverance
2-5 Enlarging through Envisioning
2-6 Use Trials as Trainings
2-7 Strenghten Service

3. FAMILY-BASED LIFE – Impacting Your home and children

3-1 God’s Purpose for Marriage
3-2 God’s Plan for Marriage
3-3 Obligation of Marriage
3-4 Obligation of Husband
3-5 Obligation of Wife
 3-6 Obligations as Parents drive to immediately promote internal change shall be bordered by the
III- CONCLUSION concept, “GOD-CENTERED, SERVICE-ORIENTED, FAMILY-BASED LIFE”. The
cascading of this concept shall be brought to the attention of the individuals
by allowing them to listen, conceptualize, internalize, and apply the
I- Introduction important values and principles to be discussed in every session.
THE SITUATION
Today, our country is faced with tough challenges economically, BASIC CONCEPTS ABOUT MAN’S CHARACTER
politically, socially, etc. Our government has tried several programs that At first, let us look at the concept of the Law of Sowing and Reaping:
would try to change the perspective of our countrymen. These are SOW A THOUGHT, REAP AN ACT
campaigns that call for a change in perspective that would ideally promote SOW AN ACT, REAP A HABIT
peace and order in our country. In 1989, the REPUBLIC ACTS 6713 CODE OF SOW A HABIT, REAP A CHARACTER
CONDUCT AND ETHICAL STANDARDS FOR PUBLIC OFFICIALS was formulated. SOW YOUR CHARACTER, REAP YOUR ETERNITY
It was followed by PRESIDENTIAL PROCLAMATION NO. 62 otherwise known
as MORAL RECOVERY PROGRAM. In 1997, the DECS Values Enhancement Character is an internal value. Internal change in man’s perspective
Program formulated the UNESCO National Commission of the Philippines, require a change in character. One must understand that character is an
Education Committee Project. The ultimate goal of that government through integral part of the inner man called soul. The one we see on a man is his
these initiatives was to attract change in the people’s way of life and make external being. The one who thinks, decides, and feels is the inner man. The
an impact to their family, community, and country.The question is: “How can characteristics of man’s soul are:
each citizen realize the meaning of change?” A change in the way of life Intellect – that aspect which tells me whether the issue is right or wrong
where God will be the center, a change of life where every public servant Sensibility – that aspect which tell me what I would like to do about the
shall become service-oriented, and a change of life wherein the family being issue.
the core institution established by God shall be the ultimate base of core Conscience - that aspect that tells me what I should do about the issue.
values. Will - that aspect which tells me what shall I do about the issue.
There was a surgeon in the United States who studied that once he
THE NEED touch a part of a stroke patient’s brain, a part of the body can
As the world system evolves together with the emerging problems simultaneously move, and even the affected body part could be
in the society, there is a need for a direct solution to the immediate repositoned. However, according to the same surgeon, he can never make
problem. The problem might not be the environment to where the people the same person feel in love with a specific woman when a part of the brain
exist; the ultimate problem that we need to address is the people itself. is touched. He simply mean that even medical doctors can not make any
There is need for a change in our lives; not external but internal. There is a man intellectual, sinsible, conciencious, and willful by the use of any surgical
quote that says, “The heart of the problem is the problem of the heart”. means.

THE ULTIMATE SOLUTION SOUL TO SIN

There are more than enough ways to change a man internally. We
might call it internal cleansing; not physical but values-based cleansing. Our
 The soul to where man’s character is assimilated was the ultimate Psalms 119:11 says,
target for destruction. The ultimate assailant has been the devil. As Lucifer “Thy Word have I hid in my heart that I might not sin against thee.”
was condemed by God because of arrogance, he has been very eager to It is therefore the God in accordance to His Word that can help us
draw more allies to him by deceiving many. He first decided to cheat the get out from the bondage of sin. So that like Adam and Eve instructed by
first couple, Adam and Eve. God forbad the couple to eat the fruit of the God with His Voice, it is God’s written voice now that we can use to learn a
tree of knowledge of good and evil because God said if they will eat it, they lesson from that first greatest human sin. When we read God’s Word’s we
shall surely die. But the devil lied to them by making them believe that they can be guided to combat the temptations of the devil. Remember this
will live. The question is, “ After they violated God’s command, did they died quote, “ A Bible verse a day, keeps the devil away.”
physically? God said, “You shall die”. So, what must have died? The truth is,
It was not the physical death. It was the “RELATIONSHIP” of God to man II- LESSON DETAILS
that has died. DEATH here simply means “SEPARATION” of man from God.
The fact that Adam and Eve realized their nakedness in the sight of God was
then the first manifestation of their “GUILT” which was felt by their inner
being. Guilt from then became the product of “SIN”.

SIN TO DESTRUCTION
God cursed man to get out of the garden of Eden and that from then
they shall eat out of their tillage of the ground. God cursed the ground with
their physical body saying,” From dust thou art, and to dust thou shalt
return.” Then the soul that sinned shall be turned into everlasting
punishment in hell. The soul was cursed because of man’s first sin – the sin
of DISOBEDIENCE.

THE CURSED SOUL NEEDS A REMEDY AND THE CURING PROCESS NEEDS AN
INSTRUCTION MANUAL
Anything bought from any store has manual enclosed with its
packaging. Cellphones, appliances, gadgets require manual instructions.
When the unit breaksdown, there is a “REPAIR MANUAL” as guide to fix it.
Relatively, the cursed soul can still be pardoned or fixed. And we
need a manual for it. In time past, thousands of secular and religious books
and literatures were published to reveal insights about status of God’s
relationship to man. However, the closest instruction annual so far that can
drive a soul back to God for pardon is no other than His word itself. To serve
as our reference, this book shall now become our guide manual in this
module.
 “In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works:
in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity...”
As role models and mentors, we have to show the best:
1. Example of character
2. Example of courage
3. Example of commitment
III- FAMILY-CENTERED LIFE
SESSION 1 TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: BIBLE TEXT: Genesis 1:26-27
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP “And God said, let us make man in
BIBLE TEXT: Psalms 51:10 our image, after our likeness…”
“Create in me a clean heart, O God; and As role models and mentors in our family, we can :
renew a right spirit within me.” 1. Mirror God’s Image
Let us recall the principle of Sowing and Reaping: 2. Practice Completion and companionship
Sow a Thought, reap an act. 3. Apply God’s view on procreation and godly legacy
Sow an Act, reap a habit. Remember: God can create a clean heart and give a right spirit in us.
Sow a Habit, reap a character. Believe in God.
Sow your Character, reap your eternity.
There are several ways to exhibit a changed life by God’s help. Here VALUES COACH TOGETHER WITH THE SQUAD LEADER’S GUIDE:
are some of them: 1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
1. By Leading a family that honors God principles discussed in this session:
a. A family that shares time together GOD-CENTERED VALUES
b. A family that prays together a. Realizing the importance of clean heart and right spirit
2. By Standing for God in the midst of temptations. Sometimes, we are b. Realizing that a change in character provides a long term benefit
tempted to give in to different situations where our FAITH in God and our b. Believing that we can change by God’s help.
STAND FOR TRUTH is at stake. BUT GOD WANTS US TO BE AT THE WINNING SERVICE-ORIENTED VALUES
SIDE. a. Being an example of value-based character
b. Being an example of courage and commitment to duty
FAMILY-BASED VALUES
II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE
a. Spending precious time with their family
TOPIC: Mentoring and Modelling Principles
b. Praying with their family
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
c. Going to church together with their family
POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE
2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
BIBLE TEXT: Titus 2:7
3. Experiences will be shared by each member during their weekly quality
time meeting.
4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”

WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY
 Remember: A service oriented life is:
1. Consistently Honest
2. Consistently Humble
3. Consistently Honorable
III-FAMILY-BASED LIFE
SESSION 2 TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
REVIEW:
I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE
POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage (Genesis 1:26-27)
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
REVIEW:
POINT#2 : God’s plan for Marriage
Before starting the lecture, ask somebody from the team to share
BIBLE TEXT: Heb 13:4 ; 1 Tim 3:12 ; Mark 10:9
the realization or the previous values learned. Cite acual axperiences. After
Let us consider the design of God for man and woman’s partnership. The
the sharing, proceed with the topic lecture.
bond of marriage must be:
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP (Psalms 51:10)
1. HOLY AND UNDEFILED – “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.”-
STEP#2 : REPENT OF YOUR SINS
Hebrews 13:4
BIBLE TEXT: Isaiah 66:2 2. ABSOLUTELY MONOGAMOUS – “Let the deacons be the husbands
“For all these things hath my hand made, and all those things have been, of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.”-
saith the LORD: but to this man will I look, even to him that is poor and of a 1 Timothy 3:12
contrite spirit, and trembleth at my word.” 3. LASTING AND STRONG - “What therefore God hath joined together,
God is holy. He hates sin. Man’s sin separates him from God. True let not man put asunder.” - Mark 10:9
repentance brings man closer to God. Remember: The Lord has a wonderful design for every marriage. A happy
Remember: “ True repentance is 180 degrees change” marriage starts with careful realization of God’s plan.
II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE VALUES COACH’S GUIDE:
TOPIC: Mentoring and Modelling 1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
REVIEW: POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE principles discussed in this session:
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: GOD-CENTERED VALUES
POINT#2 : COMMUNICATE CONSISTENCY a. Recognizing that sin or fault separates us from God. That’s why, when
BIBLE TEXT: Matthew 2:2-3 were closer to sin, were farther form God and His will for us.
“… Saying, Where is he that is born King of the Jews? For we have seen his b. Realize that the besy way to get rid of sin is to turn from sin to God by
star in the east, and are come to worship him. When Herod the king had 180 degrees.
heard these things, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him.” SERVICE-ORIENTED VALUES
Behind King Herod’s statement was a character of dishonesty, pride, a. Consistency in honesty, humility, and honor.
and disrespect to a prophesied king, His action was not consistent with his FAMILY-BASED VALUES
words. a. Marriage to be undefiled, absolutely monogamous, strong and lasting.
2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
3. Experiences will be shared by each member during their weekly .
4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”

WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY

WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY

SESSION 3
I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE III- FAMILY-BASED LIFE
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
REVIEW: REVIEW:
Before starting the lecture, ask somebody from the team to share POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage
the realization or the previous values learned. Cite actual experiences. After POINT#2 : God’s plan for Marriage
the sharing, proceed with the topic lecture. THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP POINT#3 : Obligation for Marriage
STEP#2 : REPENT OF YOUR SINS BIBLE TEXT: Gen 2:24 ; Mark 10:9; Pro 5:18-19
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: 1. LEAVE PARENTS AND ESTABLISH OWN HOME
STEP#3 : SEEK HELP FROM THE RIGHT PEOPLE “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto
BIBLE TEXT: Proverbs 13:20 his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall 2. TO LIVE TOGETHER
be destroyed.” “What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder.”
Remember: Rightly people can share good experiences . Their right advises 3. ENJOY EACH OTHER
will lead to right choice of solution “Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.”
II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE Remember: Realizing and fulfilling the role of man and wife in the bond of
TOPIC: Mentoring and Modelling marriage is the easiest way to live a contented married life.
REVIEW: VALUES COACH TOGETHER WITH THE SQUAD LEADER’S GUIDE:
POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE
POINT#2 : COMMUNICATE CONSISTENCY 1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: principles discussed in this session:
POINT#3 : LEADERSHIP THROUGH LOVE GOD-CENTERED VALUES
BIBLE TEXT: Jude 22 a. Seeking value-based help that will lead to right solution
“And on some have compassion, making a difference.” SERVICE-ORIENTED
1. SENSITIVE LOVE a. Apply concept of sacrificial and selfless love and dedication to work
When love is felt the message or truth is always heard. FAMILY-BASED
2. SACRIFICIAL LOVE a. Principle of responsible Marriage, live together, and enjoy companionship
Greater love hath no man than this, together. Find time to set a date with spouse of family.
that a man lay down his life for his friends. 2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
3. SELFLESS LOVE 3. Experiences will be shared by each member during their weekly .
4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
Public service has nothing to do with “getting”,
Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”
but it has everything to do with “giving”.
WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY
SESSION 4 “Therefore my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast,
I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE unmovable, always abounding
in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change
labor is not in vain in the Lord.”
REVIEW:
1. INSPITE OF FEAR
Before starting the lecture, ask somebody from the team to share
Don’t run from you fears – let them drive you to the
the realization or the previous values learned. Cite acual axperiences. After
source of strength and power.
the sharing, proceed with the topic lecture.
2. EVEN WITH FAILURES
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP
It took Thomas Alva Edison more than a thousand
STEP#2 : REPENT OF YOUR SINS
failures to come up with the first incandescent light bulb..
STEP#3 : SEEK HELP FROM THE RIGHT PEOPLE
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
STEP#4 : CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE III- FAMILY-BASED LIFE
BIBLE TEXT: Colossians 3:1 TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
“If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where REVIEW:
Christ siteth on the right hand of God.” POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage
Consider the following motivations for change: POINT#2 : God’s plan for Marriage
1. LOVE AND DEDICATION TO GOD POINT#3 : Obligation for Marriage
If you are having difficulty changing yourself, you need to consider THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
talking to God and appreciate His blessings and mercy. Our internal being POINT#3 : Obligation of Husbands
can be changed by the renewing of our mind. Romans 12:1-2 BIBLE TEXT: Ephesians 5:25 ; 5:28-29

2. BENCHMARKING 1. LOVE AND LEAD YOUR WIFE

Reading success stories and following step of godly Bible characters “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the Church,
like Abraham, Noah and Joseph can inspire us to change our purpose in life. and gave himself for it.”
2. PROTECT HER
II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE “Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving
TOPIC: Mentoring and Modelling honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together
of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.”
REVIEW:
3. NOURISH CHERISH HER
POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE
“So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.
POINT#2 : COMMUNICATE CONSISTENCY
He that loveth his wife loveth himself.”
POINT#3 : LEADERSHIP THROUGH LOVE
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
POINT#4 : PROGRESS BY PERSEVERANCE
BIBLE TEXT: 1 Corinthians 15:58
VALUES COACH TOGETHER WITH THE SQUAD LEADER’S GUIDE:

1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
principles discussed in this session:
GOD-CENTERED VALUES
a. Intimate communication with God. Talk to Him as if He is right in front of
you as a father to a child. Give your burdens to Him and ask Hiim to carry
your burdens.
SERVICE-ORIENTED VALUES
a. Serving with godly fear.
FAMILY-BASED VALUES
a. Loving and leading your wife. How about calling or talking to her and say”
“I love you.” Then tell her that you really mean it.
b. Protect her. Ask her of her worries and insecurities and assure that you
are there to protect her.
c. Cherish her. Spending quality time over a cup of tea or coffee together
maybe a fine way to start a conversation.
2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
3. Experiences will be shared by each member during their weekly quality
time meeting.
4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”
WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY
WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY
SESSION 5 THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE POINT#5 : ENLARGE YOUR VISION
BIBLE TEXT: Proverbs 29:27
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change
“For where there is no vision, the people perish.”
REVIEW:
1. AIM TO EXHORT
Before starting the lecture, ask somebody from the team to share
William Barclay, “One of the highest of human dignities is the duty of
the realization or the previous values learned. Cite acual axperiences. After
encouragement.”
the sharing, proceed with the topic lecture.
2. AFFIRM AND EVALUATE
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP
Successful mentoring requires both toughness and tenderness. We
STEP#2 : REPENT OF YOUR SINS
must learn to confront through affirmation.
STEP#3 : SEEK HELP FROM THE RIGHT PEOPLE
STEP#4 : CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: III- FAMILY-BASED LIFE
STEP#5 : PURSUE YOUR PURPOSE WITH ACTION TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
BIBLE TEXT: 2 Peter 3:18 REVIEW:
“But grow in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage
To him be glory both now and forever. Amen.” POINT#2 : God’s plan for Marriage
1. ACTION TO DO GOOD AND NOT EVIL POINT#3 : Obligation for Marriage
Changing requires specific, real checklist steps to plan and live a POINT#4 : Obligation of Husbands
righteous life. Sometimes, bad things happened to us not because we did THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
not plan to fail , but we failed to plan. POINT#5 : Obligation of Wives
2. ACTION TO PLAN, DO, AND CHECK BIBLE TEXT: Ephesians 5:22; 5:24; 5:21
After careful planning, we have to analyze causes that will lead us 1. SUBMIT TO HIM
to fail to do right and then avoid it. Write down best practices and modify “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. ”
action plans as needed. Most important of all, ask God’s guidance from the 2. RESPECT HIM
very start. “Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their
own husbands in every thing ”
II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE 3. ENCOURAGE HIM
TOPIC: Mentoring and Modelling “Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.”
REVIEW:
POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE
POINT#2 : COMMUNICATE CONSISTENCY
POINT#3 : LEADERSHIP THROUGH LOVE
POINT#4 : PROGRESS BY PERSEVERANCE
VALUES COACH TOGETHER WITH THE SQUAD LEADER’S GUIDE:

1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
principles discussed in this session:
GOD-CENTERED VALUES
a. Drafting a checklist for change. After careful realization of the changes
you want in life, ask God’s guidance to help you materialize it. It maybe a:
 Change in the way you talk to God. How about adding more minutes
of your time to consult Him, ask Him to protect you daily on your
way to work.
 Change in the way you want to know God’s will in you.
SERVICE-ORIENTED VALUES
a. Encouraging a colleague who is undersgoing some struggles.
b. Encouraging and sharing God’s salvation, love, mercy, and provision to a
nearby friend.
FAMILY-BASED VALUES
a. Submision. You may ask your husband about his plans for you and your
family. Show him your support.
b. Respect. If he says some plans and ideals especially for the good of your
family, show him your affirmation.
c. Encouragement. Discouragement happens to all at any given anytime. Yet
if your husband is discouraged, the best person that could boost his morale
is you.
2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
3. Experiences will be shared by each member during theirweekly quality
time meeting.
4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”
WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY
 THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
SESSION 6
POINT#6 : USE TRIALS AS TRAINING (PART 1)
I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE
BIBLE TEXT: Job 23:10
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change “But he knoweth the way that I take: when he hath tried me,
REVIEW: I shall come forth as gold.”
Before starting the lecture, ask somebody from the team to share 1. EXPECT IN TRIALS
the realization or the previous values learned. Cite acual axperiences. After God has no use for tools that have not been tempered in the furnace of fire
the sharing, proceed with the topic lecture. 2. BE EXCITED IN TRIALS
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP Your problems are a compliment, tailored and just your size. It may will be a
STEP#2 : REPENT OF YOUR SINS heaven sent, opportunity in disguise.
STEP#3 : SEEK HELP FROM THE RIGHT PEOPLE
STEP#4 : CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE
III- FAMILY-BASED LIFE
STEP#5 : PURSUE YOUR PURPOSE WITH ACTION
TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
REVIEW:
STEP#6 DILIGENTLY PRACTICE WHAT IS RIGHT
POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage
BIBLE TEXT: 1 Timothy 4:7 ; 1 Corinthians 15:58
POINT#2 : God’s plan for Marriage
“But refuse profane and old wives' fables, and
POINT#3 : Obligation for Marriage
exercise thyself rather unto godliness.”
POINT#4 : Obligation of Husbands
1. CHANGE HAS A PROCESS
POINT#5 : Obligation of Wives
God does not promise change will be easy. But He promised that it is
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
possible if we work diligently according to his Word. “Be ye steadfast.”
POINT#6 : Obligation as Parents (Part 1)
2. CHANGE HAS A PRODUCT (RESULT)
BIBLE TEXT: Proverbs 22:6
Habits are formed by repeated actions. We change to serve God only when
“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old,
we compel to do right and repeat it until it becomes our way of life.“Be ye
he will not depart from it.”
doers of the word and not hearers only .”- James 1:22-25
1. TEACH YOUR CHILDREN (Deutoronomy 6:7)
“And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of
II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE
them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way,
TOPIC: Mentoring and Modelling
and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.”
REVIEW:
One of the parent’s highest purpose is to teach their children the best
POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE
values of life to grow their character and find their calling in serving God.
POINT#2 : COMMUNICATE CONSISTENCY
2. TRAIN YOUR CHILDREN (Proverbs 22:6)
POINT#3 : LEADERSHIP THROUGH LOVE
POINT#4 : PROGRESS BY PERSEVERANCE
POINT#5 : ENLARGE YOUR VISION
“ God’s command is to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:28). This does not
only mean produce children. God wants to see children who are holy and
obedient to His will..”

VALUES COACH TOGETHER WITH THE SQUAD LEADER’S GUIDE:

1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
principles discussed in this session:
GOD-CENTERED VALUES
a. Exercise patience in the process of change. Don’t give up to stand for right
and practice what is right.
SERVICE-ORIENTED VALUES
a. Get ready when trials come, being adressed rightly and are repeated.
Just stick to God’s plan in molding you with godly principles.
FAMILY-BASED VALUES
a. Quality time to teach values to children about God’s care and plan for
them. Spend an hour or two with them to talk about interesting value-based
stories . There are lots of them in the bookstores and even the internet.
b. Teach them the consequences of too much time spent in internet games
and on line chatting.
c. Training. Balanced learning and application on self-development and
proper housekeeping like proper grooming, washing dishes, and own clothes
are necessary to be trained to our children and not only about the
importance of accomplishing shool assignments, wellness, and secular tasks.
2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
3. Experiences will be shared by each member during theirweekly quality
time meeting.
4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”
WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY
WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY
 Remember: You can not change a habit while running with the crowd that
caused the habit.

SESSION 7 II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE

I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE TOPIC: Impacting Your People & Community
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change REVIEW:
REVIEW: POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE
Before starting the lecture, ask somebody from the team to share POINT#2 : COMMUNICATE CONSISTENCY
the realization or the previous values learned. Cite acual axperiences. After POINT#3 : LEADERSHIP THROUGH LOVE
the sharing, proceed with the topic lecture. POINT#4 : PROGRESS BY PERSEVERANCE
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP POINT#5 : ENLARGE YOUR VISION
STEP#2 : REPENT OF YOUR SINS POINT#6 : USE TRIALS AS TRAINING (PART 1)
STEP#3 : SEEK HELP FROM THE RIGHT PEOPLE THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
STEP#4 : CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE POINT#7 : USE TRIALS AS TRAINING (PART 2)
STEP#5 : PURSUE YOUR PURPOSE WITH ACTION BIBLE TEXT: Job 23:10
STEP#6 DILIGENTLY PRACTICE WHAT IS RIGHT “But he knoweth the way that I take: when he hath tried me,
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: I shall come forth as gold.”
STEP#7 AVOID TEMPTATION 1. EXALT GOD WHEN IN TRIALS
BIBLE TEXT: 1 Corinthians 10:13 Complete victory entails not just accepting trials but also
“There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but thanking God for them.
God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are 2. BE EARNEST EVEN IN TRIALS
able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may No person is exempted from trials. Faith and dedication
be able to bear it.” is needed to overcome it.

Q- What do we need to do when trials and temptations come? III- FAMILY-BASED LIFE
A- Pray, “ Lead us not into temptation” TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
REVIEW:
When we pray like this, we obligate ourselves to avoid people, POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage
places, and situations that tempt us. POINT#2 : God’s plan for Marriage
Evil company corrupts good habits. The best way to get rid of bad POINT#3 : Obligation for Marriage
habits is to get rid of people that urge us to do it. POINT#4 : Obligation of Husbands
POINT#5 : Obligation of Wives
 POINT#6 : Obligation as Parents (Part 1) 4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”
POINT#7 : Obligation as Parents (Part 2)
BIBLE TEXT: Proverbs 22:6
“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old,
he will not depart from it.”
1. PROVIDE FOR THEM (2 Corinthians 12:14)
“…for the children ought not to lay up for the parents,
but the parents for the children .
2. CONTROL AND DISCIPLINE THEM (1 Timothy 3:4)
“…one that ruleth well his own house,
having his children in subjection with all gravity.”
3. NURTURE THEM (Ephesians 6:4)
The best way to nurture a child is through the admonition of the Lord .

VALUES COACH TOGETHER WITH THE SQUAD LEADER’S GUIDE:

1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
principles discussed in this session:
GOD-CENTERED VALUES
a. Asking God to lead us not to temptation.
b. Getting rid of influences that leads us to a bad habit
SERVICE-ORIENTED VALUES
a. Being thankful and dependent upon God in trails
FAMILY-BASED VALUES
a. Provision. Family provision does not only cover the basic needs: food,
shelter, and clothing. It also speaks of quality time and effort to be spent
with them.
b. Discipline. Children who needs guidance need the right kind of discipline.
When children are to be chastised physically, the rod or belt must hit the
proper area of the body (the child’s buttock) which God designed for it.
2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
3. Experiences will be shared by each member during theirweekly quality
time meeting.
WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY
 TOPIC: Mentoring and Modelling
REVIEW:
POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE
POINT#2 : COMMUNICATE CONSISTENCY
POINT#3 : LEADERSHIP THROUGH LOVE
SESSION 8 POINT#4 : PROGRESS BY PERSEVERANCE
I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE POINT#5 : ENLARGE YOUR VISION
POINT#6 : USE TRIALS AS TRAINING (PART 1)
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change
POINT#7 : USE TRIALS AS TRAINING (PART 2)
REVIEW:
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
Before starting the lecture, ask somebody from the team to share
POINT#8 : STRENGHTEN SERVICE
the realization or the previous values learned. Cite acual axperiences. After
BIBLE TEXT: John 13:17
the sharing, proceed with the topic lecture.
“If ye know these things, happy are ye if ye do them. .”
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP
1. EXERCISE IS VITAL
STEP#2 : REPENT OF YOUR SINS
Knowing without doing is what most people do.
STEP#3 : SEEK HELP FROM THE RIGHT PEOPLE
Learning to live is far better than just living to learn.
STEP#4 : CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE
2. EXAMPLE IS VALUABLE
STEP#5 : PURSUE YOUR PURPOSE WITH ACTION
Let us not just “talk” the talk but rather let us “walk” the talk
STEP#6 DILIGENTLY PRACTICE WHAT IS RIGHT
3. EXCUSES ARE VAIN
STEP#7 AVOID TEMPTATION
Monroe Parker quoted, “An excuse is nothing more than
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
a lie wrapped in the skin of reason.”
STEP#8 FACE ONE DAY AT A TIME
BIBLE TEXT: Lamentations 3:22, 23
III- FAMILY-BASED LIFE
“ It is of the LORD'S mercies that we are not consumed, because his
compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.”
TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
REVIEW:
POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage
CHANGE THE WAY WE TREAT PROBLEMS
POINT#2 : God’s plan for Marriage
Story: Two men were climbing a steep path up a tall mountain. One looked
POINT#3 : Obligation for Marriage
to the top and asked, “How will we ever make it?” The other replied, “One
POINT#4 : Obligation of Husbands
step at a time.” And that is the only way for you to change yourself.
POINT#5 : Obligation of Wives
POINT#6 : Obligation as Parents (Part 1)
Remember: Do not worry about handling tomorrow. If it comes, you can
POINT#7 : Obligation as Parents (Part 2)
handle it the same way you will handle it today.
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
POINT#8 : Obligation as Children (Part 1)
II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE
BIBLE TEXT: Ephesians 6:1
“Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.”

OBEY YOUR PARENTS

. The phrase, “in the Lord” , means that in obeying our parents , we must
walk after godly virtues. Our conscience must dictate us to follow God’s will
if our parents are not leading us to the path of righteousness.

VALUES COACH TOGETHER WITH THE SQUAD LEADER’S GUIDE:

1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
principles discussed in this session:
GOD-CENTERED VALUES
a. Patience to face struggles one day at a time.
SERVICE-ORIENTED VALUES
a. Self- Discipline. Physical exercise is important. How about seting aside a
time for physical work out once a week? It will keep your body healthy and
strong.
b. Being consistent in words and walk.
FAMILY-BASED VALUES
a. Obedience. Seeing advises from our parents and consellors are beneficial
for us to look at a difference perspective.
2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
3. Experiences will be shared by each member during theirweekly quality
time meeting.
4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”
 WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY
WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY
 II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE
TOPIC: Mentoring and Modelling
REVIEW:
POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE
POINT#2 : COMMUNICATE CONSISTENCY
SESSION 9 POINT#3 : LEADERSHIP THROUGH LOVE
I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE POINT#4 : PROGRESS BY PERSEVERANCE
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change POINT#5 : ENLARGE YOUR VISION
POINT#6 : USE TRIALS AS TRAINING (PART 1)
REVIEW:
POINT#7 : USE TRIALS AS TRAINING (PART 2)
Before starting the lecture, ask somebody from the team to share
POINT#8 : STRENGHTEN SERVICE
the realization or the previous values learned. Cite acual axperiences. After
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
the sharing, proceed with the topic lecture.
POINT#9 : SERVE REASONABLY
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP
BIBLE TEXT: Rom12:1; John 15:13; Hebrews 12:28
STEP#2 : REPENT OF YOUR SINS
“I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present
STEP#3 : SEEK HELP FROM THE RIGHT PEOPLE
your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your
STEP#4 : CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE
reasonable service.”
STEP#5 : PURSUE YOUR PURPOSE WITH ACTION
1. SERVE WITH SACRIFICE
STEP#6 DILIGENTLY PRACTICE WHAT IS RIGHT
“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his
STEP#7 AVOID TEMPTATION
friends.”
STEP#8 FACE ONE DAY AT A TIME
2. SERVE WITH SACREDNESS
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
“Wherefore we receiving a kingdom which cannot be moved, let us have
STEP#9 BE PATIENT
grace, whereby we may serve God acceptably with reverence and godly
BIBLE TEXT: Isaiah 40:1 ; Galatians 6:9
fear:”
1. WAIT ON GOD’S WILL
“But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall
mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they III- FAMILY-BASED LIFE
shall walk, and not faint.” TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
2. DO NOT WORRY REVIEW:
‘”And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage
we faint not.” POINT#2 : God’s plan for Marriage
Remember: Changing to good habits did not develop and likely disappear POINT#3 : Obligation for Marriage
overnight. It will take time. If you fall, repent and ask God’s forgiveness. But POINT#4 : Obligation of Husbands
get up and go. Do not give up.. POINT#5 : Obligation of Wives
POINT#6 : Obligation as Parents (Part 1)
 POINT#7 : Obligation as Parents (Part 2) 3. Experiences will be shared by each member during theirweekly quality
POINT#8 : Obligation as Children (Part 1) time meeting.
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: 4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
POINT#9 : Obligation as Children (Part 2) Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”
BIBLE TEXT: Ephesians 6:2-3
“Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with
promise;) That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the
earth.”
HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER
The secret of long life is revealed: God promised to give us long life when we
learn to render reverence or respect to the ones who made our life on earth
meaningful.

VALUES COACH TOGETHER WITH THE SQUAD LEADER’S GUIDE:

1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
principles discussed in this session:
GOD-CENTERED VALUES
a. Patience to wait on God’s will. There are 3 answers of God to our fervent
prayers: Yes, No, and Wait. Think of your plans and and aspirations which are
not yet being materialized. Why it is not yet happening ? Perhaps God still
has the best answer.
b. Peace. Think of struggles, circumstances that bothers you. Pray. Bring it to
God and allow Him to carry the burden for you.
SERVICE-ORIENTED VALUES
a. Sacrifice. Think of a situation wherein you have alloted a time, effort, or
even resources for the benefit of the people in need of our service. It’s
worth-remembering .
b. Sacredness in service. Godly fear is rewarded with the grace of God.
He will protect and guide you inperforming your duty. Have you experience
God’s protection, blessings, and grace recently?
FAMILY-BASED VALUES
a. Honoring the parents. Consider a time calling them and thanking them of
the life God gave to you through them. They will truly appreciate it.
2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY
 Remember: We can not bring anything to heaven even our own body but
our memories of worship for God shall last for eternity.

SESSION 10
I- GOD-CENTERED LIFE II- SERVICE-ORIENTED LIFE
TOPIC: 10 Steps To A Lasting Life Change TOPIC: Mentoring and Modelling
REVIEW: REVIEW:
Before starting the lecture, ask somebody from the team to share POINT#1 : EDIFY BY EXAMPLE
the realization or the previous values learned. Cite acual axperiences. After POINT#2 : COMMUNICATE CONSISTENCY
the sharing, proceed with the topic lecture. POINT#3 : LEADERSHIP THROUGH LOVE
STEP#1 : BELIEVE YOU CAN CHANGE BY GOD’S HELP POINT#4 : PROGRESS BY PERSEVERANCE
STEP#2 : REPENT OF YOUR SINS POINT#5 : ENLARGE YOUR VISION
STEP#3 : SEEK HELP FROM THE RIGHT PEOPLE POINT#6 : USE TRIALS AS TRAINING (PART 1)
STEP#4 : CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE POINT#7 : USE TRIALS AS TRAINING (PART 2)
STEP#5 : PURSUE YOUR PURPOSE WITH ACTION POINT#8 : STRENGHTEN SERVICE
STEP#6 DILIGENTLY PRACTICE WHAT IS RIGHT POINT#9 : SERVE REASONABLY
STEP#7 AVOID TEMPTATION THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE:
STEP#8 FACE ONE DAY AT A TIME POINT# 10 : LEAVE A LEGACY
STEP#9 BE PATIENT BIBLE TEXT: 1 Timothy 4:12; Luke 6:45
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: “Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in
STEP#10 ALWAYS REMEMBER ETERNITY word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.”
BIBLE TEXT: Luke 12:19-20 1, LEGACY ABOUT WHAT WE SAID
1. PREPARE FOR ETERNAL. NOT TEMPORAL “…for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh.”
Story: A rich man said to himself, 2. LEGACY ABOUT WHAT WE SHOWED
“And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many God justified us with our FAITH,
years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry. But God said unto him, Thou people will justify us with our ACTIONS.
fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those Remember: Every person can influence one or more person in his entire life.
things be, which thou hast provided?” If that only one is your subordinate, how would you like to be remembered
2. VIEW LIFE FROM WORLD TO GOD’S WORD by him?
For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world,
and lose his own soul? III- FAMILY-BASED LIFE
TOPIC: Impacting Your Home and Children
REVIEW: a. God legacy. What we teach and live about are leagacies which our next
POINT#1 : God’s Purpose for Marriage generation could remember in us. Think of some values and deeds which we
POINT#2 : God’s plan for Marriage can say or do this week that we think would impact the lives of a person or
POINT#3 : Obligation for Marriage persons.
POINT#4 : Obligation of Husbands
POINT#5 : Obligation of Wives
POINT#6 : Obligation as Parents (Part 1) FAMILY-BASED VALUES
POINT#7 : Obligation as Parents (Part 2) a. Sincere Love. Love is a common word. Many people are get used to say it.
POINT#8 : Obligation as Children (Part 1) Here, we speak of a deeper sense of love. Try to look exercise it within your
POINT#9 : Obligation as Children (Part 2) immediate family:
THIS SESSION’S TOPIC LECTURE: Is someone getting discouraged ? Understand his feling and comfort him.
POINT#10 : Obligation of Children to one Another Has somebody wronged you? Forgive.
BIBLE TEXT: 1 John 4:11 Is somebody grieving? Symphatize.
“Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.” Does someone from your family keeps on provoking you to anger? Admit his
limitations and learn to accept him.
SINCERELY LOVE ONE ANOTHER 2. Challenge them to apply these values this week.
Loving our brother(s) and sister(s) in this passage has a broader sense. 3. Experiences will be shared by each member during theirweekly quality
It means: time meeting.
1. Understanding their weakness 4. Before the meeting ends, encourage the team to recite the MBK Core
2. Forgiving their faults Values: “God-Centered, Service-oriented, Family-based.”
3. Sympathizing with their feelings, and
4. Accepting as they were

VALUES COACH TOGETHER WITH THE SQUAD LEADER’S GUIDE:

1. After the topic lecture, allow the squad members to recall the practical
principles discussed in this session:
GOD-CENTERED VALUES
a. Hope and Assurance. The best gift God has for man is eternal life. At first,
our Faith in God and repentance from our sins, and recognizing God’s
salvation for us are vital decisions we need to refocus our persepective to
God.
b. Trust in God and his Power.
SERVICE-ORIENTED VALUES
WITH ANSWER : SQUAD LEADER/ VALUES COACH’S COPY
WITH BLANKS : SQUAD MEMBER’S COPY
 Carpenters House Baptist Church
“ Buiding Faith, Family, and Friends”

III-Conclusion

THE MBK’S IMPACT IN OUR LIVES

The topics discussed in this manual was drafted to guide our squad
leaders and their squad members on how the weekly quality time will be
facilitated. The method of discussion allows every member of the squad to
share their ideas and thoughts. With the presence of the values coaches,
spiritual guidance can be possible during the discussion.
However, this manual, the methodology, the presence of the values
coaches can not guarantee the effectiveness unless the real essence of
“internal cleansing” concept becomes realistic in the life of every
participating individual. These are intruments that will be used by God to
impact lives.
This manual can not change us, the concept can not change us, the
values coaches can not change us, and even the people around us can not
change us. But the all powerful, all knowing, and omnipresent can change
us. He has the power to cleanse our thoughts and hearts . Sincerely ask
forgiveness for our sins. Then turn to God from sin, 180 degrees. Start living
a life under God’s will. Then seek God’s will through His Word daily.
Regradless of any struggles and battles every one have faced in this
life, we can assure a great victory with God!

ThIs session guide drafted for the glory of God by: