Jewish Standard, May 11, 2018
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Jewish Standard, May 11, 2018
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or the past 37 years, people from
all over the country — and, it
seems, from beyond our borders
as well — have been participating
in the Rubin Run, a fundraiser for special
needs programming at the Kaplen JCC on
the Palisades in Tenafly that draws more
than 1,500 runners.
While its many participants all have their
own reasons to run — whether for exercise,
a commitment to special needs program-
ming, or just the need to do something dif-
ferent — runner Kimmy Chedel, who lives in Team Frank in front of the Kaplen JCC.
Montreal, has perhaps the most compelling
reason of all. has just been accepted there. It was a tough
Ms. Kimmy Chedel met Frank Doyle on time, she said, although partially eased by
an evening cruise of New York Harbor for the help of close friends. “We were a young
college alumni from both his school, Bow- couple with babies,” she said. “He was 39.”
doin College in Maine, and hers, Middle- The run, she said, is a way to honor
bury College in Vermont. His name tag fell Frank “and gather everyone who loved him
off and stuck to her shoe. around his children. They’re surrounded by
“I said, ‘Who is Frank Doyle?’ He came people who cared about their dad.”
over when he heard his name. It was love Ms. Chedel has come back to Tenafly to
at first sight.” participate in 18 runs. Last year, she gath-
The couple married and moved to Engle- ered a crew of 45 friends and family mem-
wood in January 2000. “My best friend bers, all wearing their distinctive “Team
Anna Stein (now Merker) lived in Engle- Frank” tee-shirts. This year, there will be
wood and belonged to the JCC,” Ms. Chedel 20. “My daughter is flying up,” she said. Garrett Doyle, left, and Canadian Anna Stein, left, and Kimmy Chedel at
said. “Frank and I decided we wanted to “Friends from Maine and Boston are com- world triathlete Matt Posh at the Start the start of the 5k last year. They are
raise children here.” The couple joined the ing. People are coming from across Canada of the Rubin Run last year. childhood friends.
JCC, and with several friends, they took part and New England.”
in the 2001 Rubin Run. Other friends from around the New York recently hiked up our biggest mountain,” year, has a three-pronged significance. The
Now most of that group is gone. Frank metropolitan area come out the day of the this year she and several from her group will first is the fact that it is held on Mother’s Day
and his friends were killed on September 11, race to cheer the runners on. She is espe- walk, rather than run, in Tenafly. as a celebration of family togetherness, where
2001, at the World Trade Center. cially pleased that this year the race will Several years ago, Ms. Chedel, who said the parents and other adult role models can set
“He worked at Keefe, Bruyette & Woods, include an 8K trail run, “which will make it family gets together to do other activities as an example for healthy lifestyles for children.
KBW, a bank boutique at 2 World Trade Cen- more interesting for people like my son. It’s well — some have climbed Kilimanjaro and All participating moms receive a rose as they
ter,” Ms. Chedel, who also worked in finance, a good event to add.” done several Iron Man events — took her chil- cross the finish line and there are all kinds
said. “He worked there for 16 years as head of Frank, she said, “was a tremendous ath- dren to Africa. “I worked in emerging banks of outdoor activities for kids, as well as light
the equity desk. It’s funny. We were both in lete. He and Neal Merker” — a close friend for Chase so I traveled there frequently,” she bites and beverages, and free babysitting and
the 1993 bombing of the World Trade Center.” and active member of the JCC — “would run said. “I decided to bring the kids to see the DJ entertainment.
Ms. Chedel, left with two children — a at night on the hills of Englewood. A lawyer animals.” On that trip, she decided to create “Second, it allows people to set personal
daughter, Zoe, then 2, and a son, Garrett, and a guy from Wall Street. the non-profit Team Frank Africa, which will fitness goals for themselves and their fami-
1 — moved back to Canada, where she was “After he died, I decided we had to do build schools there, she hopes at the rate of lies. To prepare people for the race, the
born. Today, Zoe, 19, is a student at Elon events to honor him. He would have wanted one a year. She already has held a fundraiser fitness staff at the JCC provides extensive
University in North Carolina, and Garrett, 18 us to be together and stay active and healthy.” for her first project, a school in South Africa. training options. And last, it allows people
The weekend, she said, has become “It’s so nice when we come” to the JCC, to make a difference in their community,
Who: The Kaplen JCC on the Palisades somewhat ritualized. “Every Thursday of she said. “They hug all of us and thank us for as proceeds from the event support social
What: Will sponsor its annual Rubin race week, people fly in and stop at Lake coming. They take pictures. Now the children services, life skills classes, and vocational
Run, featuring an 8K run, 10K run, and George, at the same diner. Then we shop at are bringing all their friends. Last year there training for people with special needs. The
5K run/walk Woodbury Commons. We stay in the Clin- were 12 teens from Canada.” goal each year is to help this special popula-
When: On May 13, from 7:30 a.m. to ton Inn, and then we all go to New York. We Participating in the Rubin Run, Ms. Che- tion live more productive, meaningful lives
12 p.m. always spend several hours at the World del said, is one way to remember Frank and this is a great community motivator.
Where: Kaplen JCC on the Palisades, Trade Center Museum. each year. In a perfect trifecta, it unites fam- Many people commit to this run in particu-
411 East Clinton Ave., Tenafly “Then we go to Carmines on the upper ily, it encourages the people he loved to be lar because it fulfills an important personal
For information: Go to west side for a carb dinner and then to Ben active, and it marks Mother’s Day. “The kids and JCC mission at the same time.”
http://www.jccotp.org/rubinrun. and Jerry’s. When we wake up at the Clinton are grown, the cousins are grown, but we Ms. Lazarus pointed out that the run is
How much: Fees range from $30 to $45; Inn, we order a big picnic lunch for after the use this as a kind of annual family reunion,” named for the late Leonard Rubin, a past
register at the JCC early that day. There race.” Ms. Chedel said. president and founder of the JCC, who estab-
is more detailed information online. Ms. Chedel said while she has participated Rochelle Lazarus, the JCC’s public relations lished this community-wide athletic event to
in a local triathlon for the past 16 years “and director, said “The Rubin Run, now in its 37th encourage and promote healthy living.
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JOANNE PALMER Shaer, and Naftali Frenkel, were kidnapped; about three
weeks later, their bodies were found. They had been
oseph Lieberman of Connecticut retired from the murdered. “Rabbi Rimon is a rav in Eretz Yisrael” — he is
United States Senate in 2013. an Israeli rabbi and scholar — “and he was one of the pos-
Since then, he’s been in and out of the news, kim” — the halachic decisors — “involved in finding their
both locally and nationally. Locally, Mr. Lieber- bodies,” he said. “The question was whether you are
man, a Democrat-turned-Independent (who caucused allowed to search for them on Shabbat, and the answer
with the Democrats) who ran for vice president on was yes.” If the search had not been allowed, he said, it
the Democratic ticket in 2000 and has endorsed both is likely that their bodies would not have been found.
Republican and Democratic presidential candidates He also talked about listening to Sivan Rahav-Meir, a
( John McCain in 2008, Hillary Clinton in 2012,) and popular anchor on Israel’s Channel 2 who is a baalat tes-
endorsed Josh Gottheimer, the freshman Democrat who huva, someone who had been just Jewish but returned
represents the state’s Fifth Congressional district. — or just simply turned — to rigorous Orthodox practice.
Like Mr. Gottheimer, Mr. Lieberman feels strongly that Ms. Rahav-Meir talked about interviewing Natan and
compromise is necessary; he’s a founder of the group Avital Sharansky, about how inspirational that is, and
called No Labels, which advocates bridge-building about how Mr. Sharansky said that in many ways “what
rather than burning. people have to do now is more difficult than what he
Nationally, Mr. Lieberman was on the New York had to do then.” That, Rabbi Genack said, is because for
Times’ and the Washington Post’s front pages last week- him, “everything was black and white; he was fighting
end. That’s when his good friend Senator John McCain to leave a totalitarian regime, to be free.” Today, he said,
of Arizona, the Republican who is dying of brain cancer often choices are not quite as stark, which makes them
and looking back at his life with the freedom impend- that much more difficult to make.
ing death gives him, said that he wishes he’d listened to In his own session, Rabbi Genack and Mr. Lieberman
his own heart and chosen Mr. Lieberman as his running talked about “With Liberty and Justice,” a book of 50
mate in 2008. short chapters tracing the Israelites’ 50-day journey
Rabbi Menachem Genack of Englewood, who heads from Pesach to Sinai. It followed Mr. Lieberman’s “The
the Orthodox Union’s kashrut division, is another good Gift of Rest: Rediscovering the Beauty of the Sabbath.”
friend of Mr. Lieberman’s; in fact, the two men study Joseph Lieberman, left, with Rabbi Menachem Genack. “That book was very well received,” Rabbi Genack said.
together every week, usually but not always by phone, “I asked him why he didn’t write about Passover next,
and have done so for the last 25 years. Rabbi Genack interviewed Mr. Lieberman about his new given that about 85 percent of American Jews make
In fact, Rabbi Genack said, he has been in Mr. Lieber- book, “With Liberty and Justice.” some kind of seder.
man’s office when Mr. McCain has called; although Torah in the City, now two years old, is a full-day pro- “He said no, he wanted to write about Shavuot, the
much of their conversations are serious, they also joke gram of plenaries and (slightly, but still very big) con- most obscure, least observed of the holidays. He wanted
with each other, the way friends do. He remembers Mr. current shiurim, taught by Orthodox luminaries for the to write about the links between the freedom of Pesach
McCain joking with Mr. Lieberman about a ride in a Orthodox Union, starting with daf yomi at 8:45 in the and the law at Shavuot, and about the journey from one
Shabbes elevator they took together. They were going to morning and concluding at 6. Citi Field is an easy place to the other.” (Pesach is when the Israelites were liber-
a penthouse. It was a tall building, and a very long ride. to get to — it’s the center of a tangle of subways, trains, ated, and Shavuot is when God gave them the 10 Com-
Mr. McCain “said that it was an expletive-deleted funny and highways — and there’s enough parking for a sta- mandments and the rest of the law.) “He said he wanted
experience,” Rabbi Genack reported. He also remem- dium full of fans (or students). to write about how the journey from Pesach to Shavuot,
bers an autographed picture that Mr. McCain sent Mr. The program is all indoors, Rabbi Genack said; but from freedom to law, has inspired the basic foundation
Lieberman; on it, he’d scrawled “Joe, I miss you in the “you are looking out over the field.” of our democracy.
Senate — but I don’t miss the salmon!” (That’s what Mr. The day is a project of OU’s president, Mark Bane, “The principles behind our Declaration of Indepen-
Lieberman would eat.) “who is very focused on getting people to study Torah,” dence are biblical principles,” Rabbi Genack said.
On Sunday, April 29, Rabbi Genack and Mr. Lieber- Rabbi Genack said. To that end, “many of the issues dis- “We also talked about the corrosive environment nowa-
man were among the 2,000 or so Orthodox Jews who cussed were contemporary issues. days, and what can be done about it,” he continued. “Joe
went to Citi Field, the Mets’ home stadium in Flushing “I went to hear Rabbi Yosef Tzvi Rimon talk about represented bridge-building across the aisle, and in his last
Meadows, Queens, to listen to speakers and learn Torah. “The responsa that led to finding the three kidnapped years in the Senate he was criticized for doing that.”
Rabbi Genack and Mr. Lieberman were learners, but boys from Gush Etzion,” Rabbi Genack said. Still, both he and Mr. Lieberman have hope that the
they also were teachers; they shared a session where In 2014, three Israeli teenagers, Eyal Yifrah, Gilad situation will change.
T
ime seems to move in
a logical way; one year
follows the next in neat
chronological order;
2016 is followed by 2017 is followed
by 2018.
History doesn’t work that
neatly. It moves in fits and starts.
Everything seems placid, turmoil
remains under the surface — and
then boom! Everything explodes,
or at least so it seems to people liv-
ing through it.
We could make the case that we
are living through such a period
right now, although we lack the dis-
tance to be sure. But certainly we
can look back 50 years — to 1968
— and absolutely know that it was
such a year. A year of explosions,
turmoil, hope, and bitter despair. Robert F. Kennedy Martin Luther King Jr.
L awyer and historian Jess
Velona will talk about that year Velona said. “He wrote his own speeches. I want to ask what would have happened if Martin Luther King had
in a two-part talk for the JCC U at be clear — I had many duties there, and occasion- lived? If Bobby Kennedy had lived? Would things have
the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in ally I wrote a speech for him, and occasionally he’d been different?
Tenafly; the first part will be this use part of what I wrote in a speech. “A change in a very few inches, in the course of a bullet,
Thursday. (See box.) “Remember,” Mr. Velona continued. “Someone could have changed history in the years to come,” he said.
Mr. Velona’s interest in 1968 said about him” — according to Google, that some- In the course of making these four points, Mr. Velona
was piqued in 1968; he was 7, liv- one was Mr. Moynihan’s close friend, the columnist will touch on such issues as the Columbia uprising in
ing in Manhattan with his mother, George F. Will — “that he wrote more books than April, as well as the movements of students and workers
who was very politically attuned most senators read.” in France that year; he might talk as well about the Prague
in a year when politics was on the Mr. Velona is fascinated by good American politi- spring.
radar of even the most apolitical, cal oratory, and 1968 was a peak year for it. He Why did all this happen in one year? “I can’t say,” he
and the excitement and rage in the teaches a course called “Great Modern Speeches,” said. “But clearly social tensions were building within
air was impossible to miss. In par- Jess Velona he said, and it relies heavily on 1968. “There were various countries. And then there was the generation
ticular, “my mother loved the Ken- so many incredible speeches that year,” he said. gap” — a term coined by Grayson Kirk, Columbia’s presi-
nedys,” he said. “Bobby Kennedy was like a member of “Martin Luther King Jr.’s last speech, Bobby Kennedy’s dent, just before it proved his prescience as students took
our family. So when he died, it was like a member of the eulogy for Dr. King, Teddy Kennedy’s eulogy for Bobby.” over the campus.
family died.” Mr. Velona went on to clerk for Ruth Bader Ginsberg, to “The problem, I think, was that the political systems
Mr. Velona went to Harvard as an undergraduate, and practice law for 25 years, and now to teach. were not open enough to handle the protests and the ten-
then to Columbia Law School, where he teaches today; he His JCC course “is fast-paced, and has four goals,” sion that were building.”
also has a master’s in history from NYU. But between col- he said. “The first is to recreate what it was like to live In the United States, Mr. Velona said, that led to reforms
lege and law school — still practically a baby — he became a through the incredible ups and downs of that year. I use that have made a difference. “The political system was
speechwriter for the legendary writer, public intellectual, video and audio and power points to bring it to life.” changed in the wake of 1968 to make sure that the del-
U.S. senator, sociologist, and all-around Democratic icon The second goal is “to bring in a lot of the behind-the- egates to the convention are elected by the people. That
Daniel Patrick Moynihan. “I drafted some speeches for scenes stories, things that we didn’t know about at the means that it is very hard to get a situation like in the Dem-
Senator Moynihan, but the key word there is drafted,” Mr. time we were living through them.” Examples? “There was ocratic party in 1968, where you got a pro-war candidate
a meeting between Gene McCarthy and Bobby Kennedy, in an anti-war party.
Who: Jess Velona to discuss possibly working out a way to coordinate their “Today, I think that we get the candidates we want,”
What: Will talk about “1968: The Year That Shook Our campaigns against Lyndon Johnson,” he said. “I also talk he said.
History” about the meetings that were perpetuations of the feud And yes, of course Vietnam was central to everything
between Bobby Kennedy and Lyndon Johnson. We now that happened in 1968, Mr. Velona said. The Tet offensive
Where: At the JCC U at the Kaplen JCC on the
Palisades, 411 East Clinton Ave., Tenafly can fill in what we didn’t know then. happened during 1968 too; “we don’t always remem-
“Third, we talk about perspective. A lot of the drama ber this, but it was during Tet that we heard the phrase
When: On Thursday, May 17, at 10:30 a.m.
that year was on the political left, but in 1968 there was ‘We had to destroy the village in order to save it.,’” Mr.
And also: For the second JCC U session that day, after a quiet reaction building on the political right, among Velona said. “Tet exposed the illusion that the war effort
a break, a Whitney Museum teaching fellow, Janine
the people who Nixon later would call the ‘silent major- was going well, and that we could win it. That’s true even
DeFeo, will talk about “Grant Wood: American Gothic
ity.’ Throughout the course, I show how different people though Tet was a technical victory; it leads to McCarthy’s
and Other Fables.” The painter is the subject of the
Whitney’s current exhibit. — on the left and on the right — interpreted the same victory in Vermont, and Johnson’s defeat.”
events differently. His two classes are generally chronological, Mr. Velona
How much: $35 for JCC members, $42 for everyone else
“And of course, for all the drama on the left, the right said; the first one “ends on a moment of hope in late May
For more information: Call Kathy Graff at (201) ends up winning the presidential election.” 1968.” After that, it’s all downhill.
408-1454, email her at [email protected], or go to
The last point, Mr. Velona said, “is to assess what But it’s also revealing and fascinating, and if we’re lucky
www.jccotp.org/adult-JCC-university.
impact the events of 1968 had on the years thereafter. I we can learn from it too.
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90s and I took it over.”
All of the above, reasoned the Gordons’ friends and
family, was more than enough reason to pay tribute to
the couple in a tangible and appropriate way.
Ms. Gordon will not soon forget the grand entrance
arranged for her by event chairwomen Barbara
Frohlich and Joanne Zayat of Teaneck at the dedica-
tion ceremony on May 3. That was the Jewish holiday
of Lag B’Omer, when day schools traditionally offer
outdoor games and activities.
“They put me in a convertible so I could wave to
people,” she said. “We had a police escort from the
Yavneh parking lot to the field. It was like I was Yogi
Berra at Old-Timers’ Day! It was really nice.”
That afternoon, the entire school body took part in
the ceremony and a celebratory parade — complete
with a choral performance and little cheerleaders — at
the Rebecca and Herb Gordon Field of Dreams.
Out on the field, which measures 125 by 150 feet,
Joyce Heller of Fair Lawn made a formal presentation
to the Gordon family. Then the piece de resistance, the
lighted scoreboard, was unveiled by Richard Baum of
Montvale, Meyer Berkowitz of Fair Lawn, and David
Jackson of Franklin Lakes. Bonnie Silfen of Teaneck also
worked tirelessly on the project.
And there was a surprise in store. “They announced
at the dedication that they also will expand the effort
to incorporate a running track around the field and an Now, the finest Italian suits, sport jackets, pants, shirts, polos,
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in Romania after the war. The family emi-
n the day that should have grated in 1959 after getting governmental
been Aharon Steinberg’s bar permission, leaving on very short notice,
mitzvah, he was in a bomb carrying only one small suitcase.
shelter in the Tel Aviv suburb “We spent three months on the road
of Ramat Gan. from Bucharest,” Mr. Steinberg said. “In
He turned 13 in 1967, during the Six-Day Naples, we waited for the Theodor Herzl
War. All the men in town had been called vessel to take us to Israel. When we arrived
up for reserve duty. Young Aharon never with other new immigrants, we were put
got to chant his bar mitzvah portion, in Upper Nazareth and lived there for two
Baha’alotecha. The party that had been years.
planned was cancelled. “During that time I was lucky enough to
Nearly 61 years later, Mr. Steinberg, a be in the filming of ‘Exodus’ along with the
long-time resident of Ringwood, unexpect- other kids in my kindergarten. It’s easy to
edly had his long-overdue bar mitzvah cer- spot me in the movie; I’m the boy on the
SHAHAR AZRAN
emony aboard an El Al plane. The plane shoulders of Paul Newman!”
was en route from Poland to Israel, carry- The family moved several times before
ing 150 members of the Friends of the Israel settling in Ramat Gan in 1964. After high
Defense Forces’ “From Holocaust to Inde- school and service in the air force, Mr.
pendence” mission, as well as 50 IDF sol- Aharon Steinberg of Ridgewood, at left, and Holocaust survivor Leon Shear cel- Steinberg worked for Israel Aircraft Indus-
diers and officers. ebrate their bar mitzvah on the FIDF flight from Poland to Israel on April 16. tries; he was on the team that designed the
As they boarded the plane in Poland first Israeli drone in 1974. In 1977, he took
on April 16, the participants’ mood was Rabbi Weintraub, who then tried to make a two-year leave of absence and came to
somber. They had toured tragic land- an announcement on the loudspeaker, New York to earn an engineering degree
marks, including Krakow, once home to a “but nobody listened because they were at Brooklyn Polytechnic.
flourishing Jewish community of 60,000 Think about it: still singing and dancing,” Mr. Steinberg Just before he was to go back to Israel, he
souls; the Buczyna forest, where the recalled. met his future wife, Orly, and they decided
Nazis executed more than 800 children; 30,000 feet Finally Rabbi Weintraub got everyone’s to remain in the United States. They have
and the Auschwitz-Birkenau concentra- above ground is attention and invited them to the back of lived in Ringwood since 1982 and have three
tion and extermination camps. the plane, where an IDF soldier was pre- daughters — Monica, Tara, and Jaymee —
Polish-born Leon Shear, 91, of Beach- the closest you paring to chant the day’s Torah portion. and two grandchildren. Monica Steinberg
wood, Ohio, was one of three Holocaust sur- can be to God For the fourth and final aliyah — the call- is the FIDF development associate for New
vivors on the trip. He was accompanied by ing up of a member of the minyan to say Jersey.
his son, Howard, and his grandson, Jeremy. unless you’re a blessing over the scroll at set points in The Steinbergs have been active in the
“Listening to Leon’s stories when we aboard Gemini or the reading — both Mr. Steinberg and Mr. Solomon Schechter School of Oakland and
visited Auschwitz, it dawned on the mem- Shear were summoned. other Jewish and Israeli organizations, and
bers of our mission that he never had a bar Apollo. What’s the “As soon as we were done, everyone belong to Chabad Jewish Center of Upper
mitzvah,” Mr. Steinberg said. “He was lib- probability that started throwing the candies at us,” Mr. Passaic County.
erated at age 14.” Steinberg said. “We all sang again, and it For the last 33 years, Mr. Steinberg has
Rabbi Peter Weintraub, FIDF’s national an opportunity was a joyous moment. been in the travel business. It is therefore
president, wanted to do something special like this would “Think about it: 30,000 feet above quite fitting that his belated bar mitzvah
for Mr. Shear, Mr. Steinberg said, but the ground is the closest you can be to God was a spontaneous in-flight ceremony as
schedule was too tight to allow for it. “The come along? unless you’re aboard Gemini or Apollo. part of a mission symbolizing the journey
only time we had would be on the four-and- You couldn’t What’s the probability that an opportunity of the Jewish people from Holocaust to
a-half-hour flight to Israel,” he said. like this would come along? You couldn’t independence.
Before the flight Mr. Steinberg went with duplicate it. duplicate it. After landing in Israel, the delegation vis-
Rabbi Weintraub’s wife, Ellen, to browse AHARON STEINBERG “I will send a letter to Guinness World ited military bases, commemorated Yom
in the Katowice Airport duty-free shop. He Records to see if anyone has ever had a bar Hazikaron — Israel’s Memorial Day for fallen
soon sensed that she was trying to get rid After takeoff, FIDF National Direc- mitzvah at that altitude.” soldiers and victims of terror — and cele-
of him. “Later I understood she was buy- tor Major General (Res.) Meir Klifi-Amir More than six decades after the Six-Day brated Israel’s 70th Independence Day. They
ing the candies to throw at Leon and she came to Mr. Steinberg’s row to share the War, Mr. Steinberg doesn’t recall how he met with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin
wanted to keep it a secret.” news that they had decided to make an felt about his “real” bar mitzvah being can- Netanyahu and President Reuven Rivlin.
Little did either of them know that those impromptu bar mitzvah for Mr. Shear. celled. The trauma of the sirens and the “This mission comes at a crucial time,
candies would shower him too. Everything they needed already was shelter, the blackouts and the existential and is one of the last opportunities for
But first the mission members experi- onboard: rabbi and cantor, prayer shawl worry during that tense time overpowered survivors to return to Auschwitz and tell
enced another highly emotional scene. and Torah scroll. It was a Monday, one his emotions, he explained. of its horrors,” Rabbi Weintraub said. “We
Before takeoff, El Al Captain Ofer Aloni of the three days of the week when the He still has the recording of the Torah passed through the gates of hell, ignoring
announced that he had requested to pilot Torah is read publicly, so all the condi- portion that his bar mitzvah teacher the false promise that ‘work will set you
this mission because all four of his grand- tions were perfect. made for him. As to why the ceremony free,’ where countless Jews suffered from
parents had perished at Auschwitz. The “My wife said to General Klifi, ‘You didn’t take place once the war was over unimaginable cold, hunger, and despair.
captain then took out a guitar and led the know, Aharon didn’t have a bar mitzvah and miraculously won, he only can guess We were surrounded by those who sur-
passengers in singing classic Jewish songs. because the Six-Day War broke out that it had something to do with his parents’ vived within the camps’ walls, and also by
A flight attendant caught the moment on a day,’” Mr. Steinberg said. “So he said, earlier trauma of surviving the Holo- those who make sure their stories are not
video that soon went viral in Israel. (To find ‘Okay, we’ll do two bar mitzvahs.’” caust, a period of their lives they never forgotten — the brave soldiers who protect
it, google “Facebook FIDF pilot singing.”) The general cleared the idea with talked about. their legacy.”
T
in Montvale. At 52, she not only doesn’t remember Ben
o celebrate Israel’s 70th birthday, the Jewish Gurion declaring the State of Israel’s independence, she
Federation of Northern New Jersey is throwing doesn’t even remember the Six Day War.
a house party. “I have no memory of Jerusalem not being whole,”
Actually, it’s a yard party — the entire cul-de- she said. “It’s like the George Washington Bridge hav-
sac in Paramus where the federation has its offices will ing only one level” — something she heard stories about,
be closed off from 2 to 5 p.m. on Sunday, June 10, for the that happened before she was old enough to notice.
celebrations. There will be a bouncy house and arts and She was 13 when she first visited Israel. “It was a UJA
crafts for children, as well as the opportunity to write let- mission,” she said. “A friend of mine was
ters to lone soldiers in the Israel Defense Forces. (Federa- having his bar mitzvah in Israel. They had
tion leaders plan on sending at least 500 of them.) The two buses: one for the adults, and one for
Maccabeats will sing, there will be Israeli dancing and the kids. The Maccabeats
food, and Silvio Berlfein, the popular and charismatic “It was such a perfect time to experience
program director of the New Jersey Y Camps, will oversee Israel. We had Passover at an army base. to be there. To me that’s what becom-
the afternoon. We went up to the top of Masada in the ing a bat mitzvah was about.”
“We want to celebrate in our community, with our com- morning.” And that’s why Ms. Abrams, who
munity,” Roberta Abrams said. Ms. Abrams is the incoming Ms. Abrams was offered the chance went to Israel three times last year, is so
president of the federation (she takes office on July 1) and to celebrate her bat mitzvah there on excited about celebrating Israel’s mile-
has been involved in the planning of the Israel at 70 event. Masada. Her best friend chose to do so, but stone anniversary outdoors, on a closed-
That’s why it’s a community event, not just a federa- she made the opposite choice. “I felt that Silvio Berlfein off Paramus street.
tion event. The federation has reached out to its agencies as meaningful as it is to have your bat mitz- “That’s what so beautiful about cel-
and the community’s synagogues and day schools to par- vah and read from the Torah on Masada, I wanted to cel- ebrating Israel at 70 in New Jersey,” she said. “We can cel-
ticipate “and make this really special,” Ms. Abrams said. ebrate my bat mitzvah at home,” she said. “I wanted my ebrate it in the streets. We can literally shout our pride and
“We’re not doing this alone.” grandmothers and my friends and my extended family love for Israel. I’m so grateful that we can do it.”
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PIerre Dulaine, surrounded by Jewish and Arab Israeli kids in Jaffa, shows his joy. 6:30PM
both Arab and Jewish Israelis.” okay for them to allow their children screened. That’s because longtime
It couldn’t happen right away —
both Miri and Pierre had other obli-
gations — “but in February 2011, I
to dance with a boy or a girl who is
the enemy, but what do you say to
your family? To your neighbors? And
congregants Drs. Kenny and Sharon
Fried of Demarest stumbled across
Dancing Classrooms and fell in love
Honorees
stepped in the first school in Jaffa.” then, even more, it was being made with it, just as Miri Shahaf-Levi had.
They worked with five schools there, into a film, for the whole world to The Frieds are sponsoring the eve-
in the city where he was born — two know. What do you say?” ning because of Sharon’s Uncle Wil-
Jewish, two Arab, “and the Weiz- That film is called “Dancing in lie, her father’s brother, a Holocaust
mann School, which had both Jewish Jaffa.” “It has a wonderful ending,” survivor who recently died, at 97.
and Palestinian children under the Pierre said. “You see Jewish par- Uncle Willie — more formally,
same roof, learning together. ents and Palestinian parents sitting Vilem Zelovic — “had a passion for
“I have to say that this was one together. dancing,” Kenny said. “He was in the C H A I L I F E AWA R D
of the hardest — if not actually THE “When you see the film, you see a jewelry business on 47th Street, and Bernice &
hardest — projects I have ever done. Jewish woman with her arms com- worked till he died. He left money, Bernie Gola
“You are teaching children to pletely bare, and sitting next to he didn’t say what to do with it, and
dance with the enemy. In the her you see a completely covered we wanted to honor him.
streets, it’s Jews on one side, Pales- woman in black, wearing a hijab. “He was on the cover of Lincoln
tinians on the other.” Both are smiling. Both are cheering Center’s brochure, he taught three
There were other objections to their children on. It is very powerful. generations to dance — this is how
overcome as well. “It was hard for “I am so proud of the film! But he faced life.
us to convince the Muslim commu- what I am most proud of is how “Uncle Willie loved Israel, but he
nity that it was okay for their kids Miri has developed the program in never went there. But we thought
to dance,” Pierre said. “But because Israel. She’s become the site direc- that his heart always was there.” S H E M TO V YO U N G L E A D E R S H I P
I speak Arabic with a Palestinian tor of Dancing Classrooms Israel.” So — dance and Israel, and how to AWA R D AWA R D
accent, I could overcome that. “I have taken on this wonderful honor Uncle Willie? Esther & Elana &
“And then there was a father in one program as my life’s work,” Miri Sharon is a dermatologist; one
of the Arab schools who did not want said. “I now have a wonderful team of her patients told her about “Red
Warren Feldman Lawrence Bibi
his daughter to dance with a boy.” of 15 teaching artists, who are work- Hot Ballroom,” Kenny said. “So we
(Pierre would have encountered a ing from the north of Israel, from the looked into it. It is amazing.
similar problem had he worked in border of Lebanon, until Dimona, in “We just got back from Ma’alot, TEENS
an Israeli religious school, but so the south. We have 100 schools, Jew- where there is a program that we
far all the Israeli schools have been ish and Arab and mixed.” funded there and in a neighboring
secular, although Miri now is begin- The program teaches dance, but Arab town. We thought it was a great
ning to talk to religious ones.) “I told — and? — it goes deeply into chil- opportunity, because in this town,
the father that it would be good for dren’s souls. that tried fostering respect between
her to learn discipline, that it would “You know, step by step, the kids the communities, we thought that it Maddy Gold Mitchell Bloom
be good for her education, that her become friends,” Miri said. “They might work.
TEEN VOLUNTEER “OUR FUTURE” AWARD
grades would be that much better. come for breakfast with each other “So we saw it in action. We had an
“I convinced him, and later he and look each other in the eye. amazing experience. We saw the kids
became one of my best spokesmen. Something happens between them. performing; they are planning an
“With the Jewish schools, they Dancing Classrooms has run pro- end-of-semester joint program where
wanted it — they liked that it was grams in Israel for five years now, they all will dance hand in hand.”
free — and they didn’t mind letting and it has reached about 7,000 It’s not as if a bunch of fifth-grad- ROCKLEIGH COUNTRY CLUB
their children dance, but they didn’t students. ers rumba-ing together, boys and
want them to dance with Arabs. It Temple Emanu-El of Closter girls, Jews and Arabs, will bring 2 0 1. 4 7 6. 0 1 5 7
was awkward. But they liked me a showed “Dancing in Jaffa” last peace, or even civility, to the world C E L E B R AT I O N 1 8 . C 0 M
lot. We were convincing to them. Wednesday; Pierre and Miri were — but you have to start somewhere.
“It was hard for both sides. It was there to answer questions after it was So why not start with magic?
Sandi M. Malkin, LL C
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rying out King Henry VIII’s illegal requests.
“The point is that we must defend the rule of law at
all times, even when it is difficult, so it will be there for
us when we need it,” he said.
Rosenstein praised the ADL for its work in educating
law enforcement about the Holocaust.
CHEF MICHAEL SOLOMONOV is the Executive He repeatedly credited Trump for the Justice
Chef/Co-owner at Zahav, a modern Israeli Department’s focus on bias crimes. Rosenstein noted
restaurant that brings the authentic flavors of the recent U.S. indictment of a 19-year-old American-
Israeli's culture to Philadelphia. He is known for his Israeli citizen believed to be responsible for a spate
extraordinary skill at transforming simple foods of bomb threats on Jewish institutions in 2017, and
into artful culinary masterpieces and is widely the prosecution of bias crimes against Muslims and
regarded as one of the country's top chefs and LGBTQ people.
entrepreneurs. He is the recipient of the 2017 The ADL, a leading advocate of encouraging police
Outstanding Chef award by the James Beard departments to identify and prosecute hate crimes,
Foundation. has had its run-ins with the Trump administration
and has been particularly active in opposing the presi-
dent’s efforts to ban travel from a number of Muslim
majority countries.
The group’s CEO, Jonathan Greenblatt, appeared
after Rosenstein and talked about the price exacted
on the ADL for its confrontations with the left and
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and said he would “fit right in with this [presidential] admin-
istration,” according to the San Francisco Examiner. “The
names of places should reflect the city as it is now,” he
added, according to the paper.
Reached at his San Ramon home, 86-year-old Julius Kahn
III was unaware of the developments surrounding the play-
ground, but he was not surprised by them.
“I figured they were going to do something like that,” he
said. “If they want to raise that issue, there’s not a hell of a
lot I can do about it. It’s the height of stupidity. I think it’s a
damn crime to hang something on him for one instance in
a career that I know he regretted doing but went along with
the party at that time.”
Whether Kahn felt remorse for championing the Chi-
nese Exclusion Act, a federal law signed in 1882 by Presi-
dent Chester A. Arthur, is difficult to know. That’s the fam-
ily’s claim, and Kahn III says it’s true, but he never knew
his grandfather — he was born seven years after the older
Kahn died.
What certainly is true is that the anti-Chinese immigration
stand was the party line of the day. And, Bay Area Jewish his-
torians say, virulently anti-Chinese sentiment also was par
for the course among Kahn’s fellow San Francisco German
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newspaper that became J.), who described In fact, the name of the Julius Kahn
the Chinese as a “non-assimilative race” Playground — which presents breathtak-
who were “unable to mix with cauca- ing views of the Golden Gate Bridge, Pre-
sians” in the pages of J.’s predecessor, the sidio, and Marin Headlands — already has
Emanu-El. been changed. The actual playground
Levi Strauss summarily dismissed 180 portion of the facility was renamed for
Chinese workers from his famous blue the late Jewish philanthropist Helen Diller
jeans factory after thugs targeted the Chi- after her foundation paid for its extensive
nese in riots in 1877. Adolph Sutro, a social and innovative renovation in 2003. The
liberal and one of the city’s greatest indus- basketball and tennis courts, the green
trialists and philanthropists, who became space, and the baseball/softball diamond,
the first Jew to be elected mayor of a major however, still are named for Julius Kahn.
U.S. city in 1894, boasted about having What name will be used next is not
never hired “a chinaman.” He wrote that known. But both Julius Kahn III and his
“the very worst emigrants from Europe son, Steve, are pushing for Julius’ wife,
are a hundred times more desirable than Florence Prag Kahn, who took his seat in
these Asiatics.” Congress after he died and served for six
Rosenbaum’s research has revealed that terms, from 1925 to 1937.
Jewish communities on the East Coast and Her grandson rattles off the accom-
in the Midwest, where there were few Chi- plishments of the woman he used to
nese, were confused and horrified at San ride streetcars with on the way to the
Francisco Jews’ peculiar animus — which, movies: “She got the enabling legislation
to be fair, they shared with much of the for the Golden Gate Bridge; she was the
city’s white establishment. Many worried first woman on the Military Affairs Com-
that the fanatical drive to limit Asian immi- mittee; she got the legislation and fund-
gration eventually would boomerang on ing for Moffett [Federal Airfield] and the
Jews — and, with the Immigration Act of Alameda Naval Station; she got the fund-
1924, it did: Jews from much of Europe ing for Alcatraz as a federal prison,” he
were barred from entry, intensifying the said. “In a sense, my grandmother did
magnitude of the Holocaust. more for the city than my grandfather.”
When asked if the names Sutro, Strauss, In fact, when todays’ Kahns talk about
and others should be stripped off San their family history, they spend a lot more
Francisco’s map, Allan Low said that’s a time on Florence than they do on Julius,
discussion for later. said Steve, 60.
“Racism and dark history surrounds He, too, played in Julius Kahn Play-
us,” said Low, pro bono attorney for the ground as a kid growing up in San Fran-
groups looking to change the name of the cisco. “It was serene,” he recalled.
playground and one of seven commis- Unlike his father, grandfather and great-
sioners appointed by the mayor to govern grandfather, Steve Kahn is not a lawyer.
the San Francisco Recreation and Parks He’s a mechanic in El Cerrito.
Department. “But in my view, we can only He specializes in Asian imports.
take name changes one at a time.” J. THE JEWISH NEWS OF
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ine expert sour cream that showcase
Gabriel Geller fresh tropical fruit aromas.
says Shavuot is • Domaine Les Marronniers
the ideal time Chablis 2016 is also a Chardon-
to explore the lighter family of nay, but in the style of wines
wines — whites and rosés. “Just from Burgundy ’s Chabli s
because you’re not tucking appellation in France - much
into a hearty steak or burger, leaner and more mineral than
it doesn’t mean you have to its rich, buttery California
leave out the wine. To the con- counterparts. Gellar character-
trary, dairy- or fish-forward izes it as “a light yet complex
dishes showcase many wines wine with notes of lemon pith,
beautifully.” fresh almonds, and pears” that
As director of public rela-
tions for Royal Wine Corp., the
largest producer and distribu-
tor of kosher wines and spirits
in the United States, Geller’s Just because
expertise is kosher wines. And
the upcoming Jewish festival of you’re not
Shavuot (May 19-21) — the “hol- tucking into
iday of the first fruits” —means
spring and summer wines are a hearty
on his mind. steak or
So, in the runup to Shavuot,
the conversation on Geller’s burger, it
blog – which has loyal follow- doesn’t
ers not just in the Jewish com-
munity but among wine-lov- mean you
ers everywhere – has been all have to
about fruity, refreshing new
white and rosé wines that can leave out
accompany a wide array of the wine.
dairy and fish delicacies. Here GABRIEL GELLER
are his picks.
• Elvi Vina Encina Rosado
2017 is a Spanish rosé with a would marry well with pasta
beautiful, cherry pink color dishes or flounder almondine.
and a mouthful of fruits such as • G e l l e r ’s l i s t o f wa r m
strawberries, raspberries, and weather go-withs also includes
cantaloupe. (“It sounds like a a spicy, earthy red wine: Chi-
fruit salad!” Geller quips.) In anti Classico Riserva 2012 from
fact, it’s great with fresh fruit Terra di Seta, which recently
or a fruit salad as well as soft earned impressive 93 and 92
cheeses; think goat cheese and scores from the prestigious
mozzarella. Wine Spectator and Decanter
• Of the three different types magazines. “This amazing
of Reisling made by Hagafen wine boasts aromas and fla-
winery in Napa Valley – dry, vors of ripe cherries, baking
semi-sweet, and off-dry – spices, and Mediterranean
Geller’s current favorite is the herbs, plus a juicy texture”
Dry Riesling 2016. “I love its that would beautifully comple-
versatility. With core acidity ment a Caprese salad or pizza
and green apple and lime aro- topped with mozzarella, sun-
mas, it is sublime with either dried tomatoes, and basil.
savory flavors like smoked • Last but not least, des-
trout or with a full-flavored sert: the Herzog Late Harvest
cheese such as aged, sharp Chenin Blanc 2016 is delicious
cheddar.” on its own but would be even
• The new Chardonnay 2016 more delicious with a piece of
from Herzog’s Lineage series classic New York cheesecake.
is similarly versatile. “While Says Geller, “The pleasant
its compatibility with chicken sweetness, together with the
is undeniable, it will take a classic aromas of peach, apri-
simple toast topped with Brie cot, table grapes, and orange
cheese to the next level.” It zest, will upgrade your Sha-
has a medium body with light, vuot dessert more than you
creamy notes of butter and could ever imagine!”
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project. Mayor Steven Fulop has prom- even where they are not directly Holo-
ised that the monument will be re- caust-related, such as Katyn, are critical
erected in a fitting location. But the for that educational process, especially
people of Poland are concerned that the as the last survivors pass away and Holo-
redevelopment is being used as an excuse caust deniers try to convince today’s
to remove a monument that some con- social media generation that stories
sider gory, and that the monument lacks about the crimes of the Nazis and Soviets
defenders because the Polish-American are fake news. Yes, the Soviets liberated
- community in Jersey City has diminished. Auschwitz and fought the Germans tooth
t I believe the Jewish community should and nail, losing millions of soldiers in the
. do its utmost to respectfully prevail on process. But before Hitler’s sudden inva-
- Jersey City to re-erect the statue as soon sion of the USSR in Operation Barbarossa
. as humanly possible. on June 22, 1941, Stalin had agreed with
The Polish people are the guardians of Hitler to carve up Poland.
memory for millions of Jews who were Polish Jewish leaders agree that
murdered in the Holocaust. Those who the Katyn monument should be pre-
have had the privilege of participating in served. My friend, Chief Rabbi Michael
, March of the Living, or visited the exter- Schudrich, who has led the community
mination camps in a private capacity, can of Poland for 30 years, Anna Chipczyn-
bear witness to the admirable job the gov- ska, president of the Jewish Community
ernment of Poland is doing to preserve the of Warsaw, and Leslaw Piszewski, presi- Sharon Kaplan learns that yes, you can go home again.
- camps and tell the story of the genocide of dent of the Union of Jewish Communi-
- the Jewish people. We have come a long ties, said they “don’t understand, and I’VE BEEN THINKING
- way from the Carmelite nunnery days of
the late 1980s. Let us not forget that it was
disagree with, the plans to remove the
monument dedicated to Katyn victims.” You can go home again
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- a son of Poland, Pope John Paul II, a great In their statement, they added, they
f lover of the Jewish people, who ordered “consider it a moral obligation to com- om Wolfe clearly never ate at from Chabad World Headquarters until
r the Carmelite nuns out of Auschwitz in memorate all the victims of this crime in Izzy’s Brooklyn Smokehouse. her family moved to Washington Heights.
w 1993. Auschwitz-Birkenau today empha- Poland and around the world, including OK, let me back up a bit and She remembered the building number, so
sizes constantly that of the 1.1 million peo- Jersey City.” Jonny Daniels of From the explain. we decided to take the service road. That
ple murdered at Auschwitz, approximately Depths, who brought a majority of the Brooklyn is very far from Teaneck. Very. would allow us to slow down as we passed
one million were Jews. The Poles have done Knesset to Auschwitz in 2014 and contin- Far. But when wedding chores demand it, the old homestead.
- a similarly admirable job at Treblinka, Maj- ues to do admirable work on Holocaust to Brooklyn one must go. About a block away she said: “There
y danek, and throughout Warsaw, where the memory in Poland, has written publicly So, one bridge, one tunnel, a few tolls, it is! I’m sure that’s it.” We had planned
- Jewish ghetto is prominently remembered. of the need to preserve the monument. many highways and streets, lots of traffic, just to slow down when we reached it, but
y It behooves us Jews to reciprocate and It is especially important to demon- and countless construction projects later, instead we saw that rarity in Brooklyn — a
y always remember the suffering of the strate our commitment to remember- my wife, Sharon, and I found ourselves large, legal parking spot, directly in front
- Polish people where it is in our power, ing Polish victims in the war as many on Coney Island Avenue of the apartment building.
especially mass murder like the Katyn of us protest the Polish government’s one recent Monday morn- Some things are simply
y forest massacre. If Jews living in New Jer- “Holocaust Law,” which threatens pun- ing. After a mother-of-the- bashert, so we parked and
sey can make a different, then we must. ishment for anyone who suggests that bride gown fitting, picking decided to explore.
f Remembering the horrors of the Sec- Poles played any role in the crimes up our future son-in-law’s We took pictures of the
- ond World War is vital amid shocking committed by the Nazis. When I met tallit, and too many stops building, the front awning,
and growing levels of ignorance about with Polish Prime Minister Mateusz at bencher vendors (includ- the gilded ceiling, the beau-
r the world’s most deadly conflict. A recent Morawiecki, I urged him to repeal this ing one whose name and tiful lighting fixtures in the
study by the Claims Conference, for regrettable law, which undermines address we didn’t know — lobby, and all sorts of other
. example, showed some disturbing find- Poland’s commitment to fully educating thank you Google and the odds and ends. We then
- ings regarding Americans’ knowledge of people about the Holocaust. I thanked man in the flower shop), we Joseph C. decided we needed a picture
the Holocaust: the prime minister publicly for listening discovered it was already Kaplan of Sharon in front of the door
• 70 percent of Americans say fewer to me and my colleagues over a kosher 4 p.m. So although we had to her former apartment. But
people seem to care about the Holocaust dinner in Warsaw. ended up in Boro Park, we what was its number? Sha-
than they used to. It is important that we show equal decided to treat ourselves to an early din- ron was only 3 when she moved. Luckily,
t • 31 percent of all Americans and 41 per- determination to ensure that our own ner in Crown Heights at Izzy’s, which had she was able to text and then call her sis-
t cent of millennials believe that substan- government officials understand the come with rave reviews from my daughter ter Andrea, who is eight years older and
tially fewer than six million Jews were importance of symbols, such as monu- and her fiancé. has a much sharper memory of living in
killed (two million or fewer) during the ments to victims of wartime atrocities, It was a great choice. Crown Heights.
Holocaust. and preserve them for future generations. Re-energized, we girded ourselves for She told us the apartment number, and
• 45 percent of all Americans and 49 I trust that Mayor Fulop of Jersey City the long drive back (same bridge, tunnel, into the elevator we went.
percent of millennials cannot name a is in full agreement about the need to tolls, and highways, and even more traf- We shared the elevator with a Chabad-
single one of the 40,000 concentration remember the victims of the Katyn For- fic and some new streets and construction nik, who asked who we were going to see
camps and ghettos. est massacre. I have every confidence projects), and asked Google Maps for the before he got off. When we told him our
• 80 percent of Americans have not vis- that he and his city council will do the best route home. (How did we ever live mission and destination, he said, “Can’t
ited a Holocaust museum. right thing and protect the memorial, before Google?) be. There’s no such apartment, though
• 58 percent believe something like the using this controversy as a teachable When we looked at the route we noticed there are two with that letter on that floor;
Holocaust could happen again. moment to educate New Jersey resi- that it took us down Eastern Parkway, a number 1 and a 2.”
In the above cited survey, 80 percent of dents about the war crimes committed where Sharon had lived directly across SEE HOME PAGE 38
Americans say that it is important to keep by the Soviets against the Polish people
teaching about the Holocaust so it does and the unspeakable horrors visited by The opinions expressed in this section are those of the authors, not necessarily those of the newspaper’s editors,
not happen again. Memorials to victims the Nazis on the Jewish nation in Poland publishers, or other staffers. We welcome letters to the editor. Send them to [email protected].
of massacres in the Second World War, and beyond.
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t used to be so easy to be a Zionist…. recorded in the Torah at this time of the year. offering is brought not for a sin that has
Years ago, things were clear. Those were the At the beginning of parashat Tazria, occurred in the past but for one that is
heady days of Israel’s miraculous birth in the the Torah mandates that two offerings be bound to occur in the future.
shadow of the Holocaust, of decisive victories in brought to the Temple by a woman upon the The moment of childbirth is a moment
its battles for survival, of the draining of the swamps birth of a child. One is an olah, a burnt offer- of rarefied personal perspective. In that
and the planting of the Negev. Those were the days of ing, and the other is a hatat, a sin offering. instant, you recognize with unerring clarity
our pride in a citizen army that could do no wrong, of The troubling question is obvious imme- that nothing in the world is more important
the Jewish David battling the Arab Goliath, of the kibbut- diately. Why must a yoledet, a childbearing to you than this child, this precious gift that
zim, and of each farmer in his or her kova tembel — an woman, offer a sin offering? Wherein lies God has bestowed upon you.
Israeli hat. the sin in childbirth? The creation of a new Rabbi But then — three months later, at two
The moral lines were clear. Heroic figures abounded. life marks the greatest act of partnership Shmuel o’clock in the morning, when you are more
Right was on our side without equivocation. between man and God. It is a fulfillment of Goldin tired than you have ever been in your life,
For the first time in thousands of years, God had God’s first blessing and directive to mankind, you are changing the diaper of a screaming
granted us the miraculous gift of our Jewish home, and to be “fruitful and multiply.” The suggestion infant; when, three years later, you are run-
nothing seemed more important than that. that a yoledet should offer a hatat on the birth of her child ning in circles after a recalcitrant toddler; when, 15 years
But now things have become more complicated. seems not only puzzling, but offensive. later, your teenage son or daughter rolls his or her eyes at
Israel, a mature state, reflects the imperfections of all Perhaps the Torah itself hints at an explanation. you in that frustrating way, as only a teenager can…
mature states. Not all of its leaders always behave ethi- Whenever the Torah mandates the sacrificial combi- At those moments, somehow, that child doesn’t seem
cally, its society wrestles with moral dilemmas, its lead- nation of an olah and a hatat, the order is clear and con- quite so precious. You lose sight of the clear instant
ership makes religious and social decisions that antag- stant. The hatat, the sin offering, is listed first, and the when you held a new life in your hands, when nothing
onize elements of world Jewry. Sometimes it stumbles olah is second. was more important than the life and welfare of that
as it balances newfound power over others with the This sequence stands to reason. A burnt offering, sym- newborn child.
responsibility of keeping its own citizenry safe. bolic of a renewed relationship with God, can be offered The sin offering of the yoledet, we are suggesting, pro-
In some quarters, diaspora Jews have begun to ask: only after past misdeeds first are cleared through the sin actively addresses all of the inevitable moments when the
How can our support for Israel continue to be unwavering offering ritual. crystal perspective accompanying childbirth will be lost,
if we find ourselves questioning its policies, practices, or There is only one exception to this rule. all the times when this precious life will not be as dearly
politicians? What happens when we and Israel disagree, In the case of the yoledet, the order of these sacrifices is appreciated as it was at the moment of its arrival. And if
whether about the peace process, immigration, egali- reversed in the text. The Torah lists the burnt offering first the hatat does its job, the memory of this sacrifice will
tarian prayer at the Western Wall, or a plethora of other and the sin offering second. Why invert the listing of these resurface during those difficult future moments, remind-
issues? Do we even have a voice from the diaspora? What offerings only in the case of the childbearing mother, espe- ing each parent that the apparent distance developing
are the boundaries of our partnership from afar? cially if this reversal exists, as the Talmud later explains, between them and their growing child may not be so
An answer to these questions might emerge from a solely in the text and not in practice? great, after all.
totally unexpected source — from a mysterious ritual Perhaps because in the case of the yoledet, the sin The parallel is clear. The hatat of the yoledet reminds us
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he State of Israel and I both turned 70 on 2. Write your own letter to Secretary Department of State that currently are vacant.
April 19 this year. Pompeo. The Special Envoy to Combat and Monitor
Israel’s birth 70 years ago was due in part 3. Post this call to action on social media. Anti-Semitism is of utmost importance among
to the unified voice of American Jewry being 4. Reach out to your congressional repre- them, particularly today given the precipitous
heard in the halls of Congress and the White House. After sentatives and ask them to join in this effort rise in anti-Semitism during the past year.
the Nazis heard the sounds of silence a decade earlier as to lobby Secretary Pompeo to fill the State The responsibilities of the Special Envoy are
permission to commit genocide against Jews, America led Department position. defined by the U.S. Department of State Global
the world in a campaign to combat the societal cancer You can address the hardcopy letter to Sec- Anti-Semitism Review Act of 2004. This act
of anti-Semitism. Like biological cancers, if they are left retary of State Michael Pompeo, Department passed by an overwhelming bi-partisan vote in
untreated and unmonitored, the diseases of anti-Semitism of State, 2201 C Street NW, Washington DC Rabbi Neal I. Congress, has served in both Republican and
and racism often reoccur in even more virulent modes. 20521, or you can send email through the offi- Borovitz Democratic Administrations as a deterrent to
The lesson of the Holocaust and the birth of the State of cial website, www.state.gov/secretary/2018 over anti-Semitism around the world. Since its
Israel is that there are no innocent bystanders to acts of Here is the text of the letter I sent to Secre- creation in 2004, individuals holding ambas-
hatred and bigotry. tary of State Pompeo: sador status have headed the Office of the Special Envoy.
The confirmation of Michael Pompeo as our new secre- Under their direction during both Democratic and Republi-
tary of state gives you and me both an opportunity and a Dear Secretary Pompeo, can administrations, the Office to Combat and Monitor Anti-
responsibility to have an impact upon American response Congratulations on your confirmation as the 70th Secre- Semitism worked tirelessly to both (a) monitor and address
to the growing threats posed by the rise in anti-Semitism tary of State of the United States of America. You are assum- anti-Semitism around the world and (b) hold other nations
worldwide as well as across America. I am therefore using ing your office at a time of great danger for our nation and responsible for doing the same. Data collected by the United
this monthly column to share with you a letter that I the world. Among these dangers is the dramatic rise in anti- States government and outside organizations demonstrate
recently sent to Secretary of State Pompeo. I ask each of Semitism. I am therefore writing to you today, Secretary that anti-Semitic activity and incidents actually declined
you to take action in one of the following ways: Pompeo, to ask you to speedily fill the now vacant position of from 2004 through 2016.
1. Sign on to the American Jewish Committee statement Special Envoy to Combat and Monitor Anti-Semitism. The post of Special Envoy to Combat and Monitor Anti-
calling for filling the position of special envoy to combat Two weeks ago, during your hearing before the Senate For- Semitism has remained vacant since July 2017, leaving the
and monitor anti-Semitism by going to www.global.ajc.org eign Relations Committee, you said that one of your priori- vital task of monitoring and fighting against the scourge of
and adding your name to their petition effort. ties will be to fill the large number of diplomatic posts in the aggressive and non-aggressive anti-Semitic activity solely to
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over centuries; still the one place in the world where Jew-
ish destiny is in Jewish hands; still a home to which we n article in the Hebrew weekly guarantees citizenship to Jews. It reduces
can move voluntarily to be with our family; still a refuge Makor Rishon, written by two the status of Arabic from official language
to which any Jew can return from across the globe; still eminent scholars of Israeli law to some sort of special status.
a country built by Jews. It is still the most precious gift and democracy, opened with a And where does the proposed law leave
granted to us by God in millennia. quote by the founder of Revisionist Zionism, the non-Jewish citizens of Israel? The bill
Just as our enduring love for our children must tran- Ze’ev Jabotinsky: affirms personal rights to all citizens but
scend the frustrations they may bring, so too our enduring “I do not believe that the constitution communal rights only to Jews. As a result,
Zionism must transcend specific politicians, policies, and of any state should contain special clauses Israeli Arabs will be marginalized further.
problems. Transient issues will pass, but our cherished, explicitly guaranteeing its ‘national’ charac- But the founding document of Israeli inde-
essential relationship with Israel will remain. ter. I believe it is a good sign if a constitution Rabbi Aryeh pendence, the megilat ha’atzmaut, says that
At this time of the year, as Israeli citizens mark their contains few such clauses. The natural and Meir “Israel is to be a nation that grants equality
annual series of national commemorations, culminat- best way is for the ‘national’ character of a on all of its citizens without regard to ethnic-
ing with Yom Yerushalayim — Jerusalem Day — on May state to be ensured by the very fact that it ity, religion, or gender.”
13, true Zionists across the globe should celebrate with has a particular majority.” The proposed law seems to establish a system in
them. There will be time enough to return to the discus- Remember that Jabotinsky is considered the intellec- which not all citizens have equal rights. The law also
sions and debates. Now is the time for the perspective tual and spiritual antecedent to Menachem Begin, Ben- would allow Jewish tradition and religious law to influ-
and clarity of childbirth. Now is the time to simply rec- jamin Netanyahu, and today’s Likud Party. It is the Likud ence Israel’s legal structure, raising grave concerns
ognize, appreciate, and cherish the wondrous, greatest and Naftali Bennet’s National Home party that have been about the influence of the Orthodox and charedi author-
miracle of our times. promoting various versions of the nation-state bill, which, ities over Israel’s civil life.
in the words of an editorial in Haaretz “is an attempt to It should be remembered that the Knesset passed the
Rabbi Shmuel Goldin and his wife, Barbara, made Basic Law of Human Dignity in 1994. For the first time,
aliyah this year after he spent more than 40 years in the Israel guaranteed the protection of life, body, dignity,
American rabbinate (33 of them as rabbi of Congregation property, privacy, and intimacy to all citizens. According
Ahavath Torah in Englewood). They now live in Jerusalem to Bernard Avishai, the proposed basic law defining the
where Rabbi Goldin continues to serve as rabbi emeritus The proposal would nation-state of the Jewish people “will be seen to expand
of CAT, is senior scholar at Nefesh B’Nefesh, and on the meaning of Jewish and democratic in a way that
continues to write and teach in various settings. reduce Israeli democracy justifies the tyranny of the majority: discrimination as
to a ‘democratic regime’ a national right, the imposition of archaic Jewish law
entrenching rabbinic courts, and religious command-
and thus sap its ments as state institutions.
essence as a way of Bottom line: the purpose of this law is to change
Israel’s self-understanding as a Jewish and democratic
life, as a culture, and as state radically by diminishing the democratic character
a moral system based of the state in favor of its Jewish-national character. To
quote Professor Mordechai Kremnitzer and attorney
on equality among all Amir Fuchs of the Israel Democracy Institute, “The pro-
residents with regard to posal would reduce Israeli democracy to a ‘democratic
outside agencies during a year of virulent anti-Semitic activ- regime’ and thus sap its essence as a way of life, as a cul-
ity in the United States and abroad. The urgent need to fill their rights to life, liberty, ture, and as a moral system based on equality among all
the position of Special Envoy is underscored by the recent and human dignity. residents with regard to their rights to life, liberty, and
laws passed in Poland and Lithuania, denying their involve- human dignity.”
ment in the Holocaust. These policies both seek to rewrite Israel’s Arab minority is left out of the proposed
history and evoke malice toward the Jewish people. This is enshrine in a Basic Law the preeminence of the Jewish ele- law, except that the law further marginalizes them by
but one example. Secretary of State Pompeo, by speedily fill- ment of the state over the democratic element.” enshrining the Jewish character and symbols of the state
ing the position of the Special Envoy to Combat and Monitor Why this law, and what is a basic law? and reducing the status of Arabic.
Anti-Semitism, you will be making it clear to the world that Because Israel lacks a constitution, there is a category Israel’s founders wanted a state that would grant full
America stands firm against all forms of racial and religious of law called hok yesod — foundational or basic laws that equality to all its citizens. (Again, read the Declaration
bigotry, including anti-Semitism. deal with the principal institutions of the state and protect of Independence.) This law makes it almost impos-
Again, I congratulate you on your appointment and I civil rights and similar core values upon which Israel was sible for non-Jewish citizens of Israel to identify with
thank you for taking on the awesome responsibilities of Secre- founded. Those basic laws act as a de facto constitution in the state. Perhaps that is its purpose — to further mar-
tary of State in these difficult days. I look forward to hearing the absence of a formal, written one. ginalize and discriminate against Arab Israelis, thus
soon of your nomination for Special Envoy to Combat and This proposed new basic law from the Likud Party strengthening nationalistic and xenophobic trends
Monitor Anti-Semitism. gives primacy to the Jewish aspect of Israel’s existence within Israeli society.
Sincerely yours, over the idea that Israel is a democracy, so that when- Israel must not become a state that has citizens with
Rabbi Neal I Borovitz ever there is tension between the Jewish character of the different levels of rights: first-class citizens ( Jews, as
Rabbi Emeritus, Temple Avodat Shalom River Edge NJ state and its democratic character, Jewishness wins out. defined by the Orthodox rabbinate), and second-class
National Vice Chair, Jewish Council for Public Affairs The law defines Israel as “the nation-state of the Jew- citizens (all others). This will create an Israel that would
ish people,” not of its citizens, 20 percent of whom are be less Jewish, in my understanding of Jewish values,
Neal Borovitz, rabbi emeritus of Temple Avodat Shalom Arabs. It enshrines as “constitutional” aspects of Isra- and less democratic.
in River Edge, is a past chair of the Jewish Community el’s Jewishness that we have all taken for granted: the
Relations Council of the Jewish Federation of Northern Star of David on the flag; the anthem “Hatikvah,” with Rabbi Aryeh Meir of Teaneck is on the faculty of the
New Jersey and the national vice chair of the Jewish its Jewish-centered lyrics; the Jewish Sabbath and holi- Academy for Jewish Religion and he is the chairperson of
Council for Public Affairs. days as national holidays, and the Law of Return, which the Teaneck Environmental Commission.
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s welcome as the for a foreign people with no historical connection to the
remarkably diverse land. This precisely is the “original sin,” as Abbas sees it,
condemnations of that eventually resulted in the naqba, or “catastrophe,” of
Mahmoud Abbas’s Israel’s creation in 1948.
latest anti-Semitic speech have This also is the image of Israel that informs Abbas in his
been over the last few days — periodic negotiations with Israeli officials and American
with UNESCO’s new director- envoys. This same conviction that Israel is the product of
general, the New York Times, a grand deceit purveyed by Jewish impostors who manipu-
J Street, and the German-Pal- lated and exaggerated the Holocaust pretty much explains
estinian Association all joining Ben Cohen why those negotiations invariably fail. From Abbas’s point
FLASH90
the list — there’s a deeper point of view, it’s impossible to negotiate in good faith with people
about the Palestinian Authority who exhibit the same traits of deceit and dishonesty in their
leader’s remarks to the Palestinian National Council that is dealings with the Palestinians that they employed in Europe Palestinian Authority leader Mahmoud Abbas
still to be grasped. — and got them chased out of there. speaks with members of the Central Committee in
Abbas, the world finally has begun to realize, has an abid- The newfound international consensus that these opin- Ramallah on January 14, 2018.
ing attachment to conspiracy theories about the Jews, their ions are outlandish and offensive will be on firmer ground
origins, and their unnatural powers. He has demonstrated once it looks beyond the open anti-Semitism expressed by The main assumption concerns far more than Abbas him-
these proclivities time and again during his 13 years in power Abbas. His insistence that Israel bears sole responsibility for self, or indeed his eventual successor. If the peace negotia-
(nine of which, by the current count, are the result of his the Palestinian refugees of the 1948 War of Independence is tions that the Trump administration clearly desire are to
term as president being extended indefinitely in 2009). no less outlandish and offensive than his view that Zionist bear fruit, then what is required is a new vision for Palestin-
Abbas’s mealy-mouthed apology last Friday for his PNC leaders bear greater responsibility for the Holocaust than ian politics in a post-Abbas era that could yet dawn before
speech made no mention of that attachment, because doing the Nazis themselves do. President Donald Trump’s first term expires.
so would fatally undermine his claim that he “didn’t mean” And yet, when Abbas speaks about the “right of return” The United States has signaled that profound changes —
to offend anyone with his remarks, and that he respects for the five million descendants of the 1948 refugees — at for example, ending the policy of spending foreign aid on
Judaism as he does all monotheistic religions. the price of Israel’s sovereign existence — all of a sudden he welfare payments to convicted terrorists — are expected. But
Of course, the fact that a gerontocrat like Abbas actually becomes a statesman again. that can only happen if the Palestinian leadership learns to
apologized for his nasty little speech — now there’s a break When he accuses Israel of seeking the elimination of the see Israel differently, chiefly by abandoning the “original
with tradition — is of huge significance. But that shouldn’t Muslim holy sites in Jerusalem, his comments are reported sin” theory.
obscure something more fundamental — that it is simply faithfully and without comment by the vast majority of That doesn’t mean the Palestinians have to stop regarding
not possible to separate Abbas’s grotesque views about sup- media outlets. Israel as an adversary. It might even mean that Palestinian
posed Jewish culpability for the Holocaust from his equally All that feeds the impression that whenever Abbas says demands on such tangible matters as territory and state-
grotesque views about the origins of the State of Israel. The something outrageous about the Holocaust, he merely is hood will be viewed with greater sympathy once they are
demonology that is painfully visible in his views about the expressing political exasperation — the sort of unfortunate finally stripped of their doctrinaire, anti-Semitic baggage.
Holocaust is the same demonology that grounds his visceral outburst, in other words, that can be fixed with the appro- The sooner the world ends its indulgence of the “original
objection to Zionism. priate apology. As for the rest of his statements, we carry on sin” theory, the sooner they will get there. JNS.ORG
Abbas perhaps is the best-known exponent of the origi- taking them seriously.
nal sin theory of how Israel came into being. As expressed This transparent inconsistency has troubled many sup- Ben Cohen writes a weekly column for JNS on Jewish affairs
in the PLO’s founding covenant, this holds that Zionist set- porters of Israel for a very long time; in the wake of Abbas’s and Middle Eastern politics. His work has been published in
tlers “invaded” Palestine a century ago. Their purpose was PNC speech, perhaps that’s finally starting to unravel. If so, Commentary, the New York Post, Haaretz, the Wall Street
to extinguish its Arab national character so as to make way then perhaps the right lessons will be drawn as well. Journal, and many other publications.
experience in Far Rockaway a number of years ago, visiting adjustment to a new land, new language, new schools, new
Home the house I grew up in). But more important than the nostal- friends. I’d love to know how my mother’s (and grandmoth-
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gia we felt was the fact that we shared the entire experience er’s) hometown of Seilush looked. Was it a shtetl or modern
We had come so far that we decided to look for ourselves. via email and pictures with Sharon’s siblings in Manhattan city? Who were her friends? What was school like? What
(Before we continued up we also played a little Jewish geog- and Jerusalem, who likewise shared Crown Heights experi- modern conveniences, if any, did they have? And there are
raphy, and discovered that his cousin married my cousin. ences they remembered. And then we shared all this with so much more questions.
Of course.) our children. I had many opportunities to ask, but I guess at the time I
When we got off, we understood that both Andrea and the This was more than nostalgia; it was sharing and passing didn’t think it was important. I was busy being young and
Chabadnik were correct. As was clear from the door mold- down family lore that otherwise would be lost. active. Now I know how so very important it was — but the
ings, the old single apartment had been divided in two. After It also reminded me of something that happened at our opportunities are gone.
taking some pictures at the front door, Sharon, game and seder this year that I did not mention in my recent column So for those of you still blessed with similar opportunities,
curious woman that she is, rang the bell. A lovely Chabad (“The only constant in life,” 4/19/18). At our first small, inti- don’t let them pass unused. Ask questions, find out facts and
girl, about 14 or 15 years old, opened the door, and when mate seder, our kids asked us to tell them about our sedarim family lore about your parents, grandparents, and larger
we explained why we were there she graciously invited us when we were children. And we did, trying to pluck from family before you discover there’s no one left to ask. You
in to look around. our memories who was present, what songs we sang, and can’t pass down family history you don’t know.
As we strolled around the apartment, she told us that she whether we too came prepared with reams of divrei Torah You can’t go home again if you don’t know where — and
was one of 10 children (living in half of an apartment that from school. Nostalgic for sure, but also the sharing of family what — home was.
had housed four children once upon a time). As we chatted, memories and traditions with another generation.
she continued to express amazement at the number of years Unfortunately, I learned the lesson of the importance Joseph C. Kaplan, a regular columnist, is a longtime
that had passed since Sharon moved from that apartment. of doing this too late. I often and deeply regret not asking resident of Teaneck. His work also has appeared in various
We were pretty amazed too. my parents, both of whom were born and lived in Europe, publications including Sh’ma magazine, the New York Jewish
And so we had a warm nostalgic experience, Sha- about their lives there, their daily routines, what Shabbat Week, the Baltimore Jewish Times, and, as letters to the editor,
ron directly and me vicariously (although I had a similar and chaggim were like, the family they left behind, their the New York Times.
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abbi Andrea Weiss, an associate professor
of Bible at the New York campus of Hebrew
Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion and
its incoming provost, remembered the joy that
Rabbi Aaron Panken brought to his work.
Weiss recalled how Panken would pop into his col-
leagues’ offices asking if they were having fun. “He had
this very serious position as president of a very large insti-
tution, and he approached it with such joy and with kind
of a boyish enthusiasm. He really loved his work,” she said.
Panken, the president of HUC, died in a plane crash last
Saturday. His friends and colleagues remembered him as
a strong leader who was passionate about Israel, and who
loved what he did as the leader of the Reform movement’s
flagship seminary and its campuses in New York, Jerusa-
lem, Cincinnati, and Los Angeles.
Jean Bloch Rosensaft, the school’s assistant vice presi-
dent for communications and public affairs, said Pan-
ken embodied “the best of the Reform movement.” “The
college was his whole life. He was a real product of the
Reform movement, and he was proud of it,” she said.
Panken, who had led HUC since 2014, was killed as he
piloted a small aircraft near Wawayanda, New York, close
to the New Jersey border. A passenger, flight instructor
Frank Reiss, was injured in the crash. The cause of the
crash is not yet known; the Federal Aviation Administra-
tion and the National Transportation Safety Board are Rabbi Aaron Panken teaches a Talmud class to Hebrew Union College students. Courtesy of HUC
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lthough the be fully complemented. Torah was not given in Iyar. We have the opportunity on Shavuot to
date for the He suggested instead that The Torah was given, as we know, in Sivan. recall how our forebears accepted the gift
holiday is never she ride on a horse, well Gemini, the twins, which is Sivan’s astrologi- of all gifts, the Torah. They accepted it as a
explicitly stated groomed, muscular, and cal sign, represents the people carrying the unified nation. They accorded it the honur,
in the Torah, Shavuot dignified. A third adviser princess in the analogy. The twins, as peo- respect and dignity due to such an exalted
occurs on the 6th (and in chimed in. He observed ple, have the ability to praise, show respect gift. The offer and acceptance of this gift
the diaspora on the 7th) that while an elephant and give honor. The ultimate respect for the firmly cemented the special relationship,
day of the month of Sivan. may be tall, and a horse Torah comes from us. We, creatures of flesh the unity of heart and soul, so to speak,
Rabbi Zvi Elimelech Spira may be majestic, neither and blood, were endowed with the ability to that existed and continues to exist between
(1783-1841) explains in his Rabbi Ilan of these beasts has the comprehend and respond. It is with these Hashem and the Nation of Israel. Let the
work Bnai Yisascher that Acoca ability to expound on the powers that Hashem wanted the praise of lessons of Gemini not be lost on us.
the astrological sign of the Sephardic beauty of the princess, nor the Torah to be expressed. It is from people
Congregation of
month of Sivan is Gemini, Fort Lee, Orthodox
the ability to demonstrate who can see the Torah, appreciate the Torah Rabbi Ilan Acoca leads the Sephardic
the twins. This sign relates their respect for her, nor for what it is and express that appreciation. Congregation of Fort Lee, and is rabbi-in-
to dual aspects of the holi- to bring her the joy befit- Therefore, Sivan was the month chosen for resident at Ben Porat Yosef Yeshiva Day
day of Shavuot. We all know that when ting a bride with antics and entertain- the giving of the Torah. School in Paramus.
Israel left its enslavement in Egypt, it ment. He therefore suggested that she
emerged as a nation that would now be be carried upon the shoulders of men.
free to serve the only master, the Master In that way her beauty would be seen,
of the World. and she would be properly honored.
When Hashem gave Israel the Torah The month of Nissan is the first in the
shortly thereafter, unity of purpose, Jewish calendar. Accordingly, the astro- Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey
holiness and love were evident between logical sign of that month, Aries, the
Hashem and the nation. Those siblings ram, is the highest ranking, so to speak, is pleased to launch the
who are developed and born together — of the astrological signs. Each astrologi-
twins — symbolize this kind of unity. Just cal sign brings with it certain attributes Lion of Judah Memorial Fund
as a special bond exists between twins, and characteristics that are imparted,
so too is there a unique feeling between perhaps in a metaphysical sense, dur-
Hashem and the nation of Israel. ing that month. The Nation of Israel This Mother’s Day,
The special unity experienced and evi- left the land of Egypt in Nissan. How-
denced by the giving of the Torah was
not only between God and His people. It
ever, Hashem did not choose to give the
Torah in Nissan. Just as the elephant sig-
honor the memory of a
existed amongst the people in the nation nifies an elevation above, so too does
of Israel as well. There was harmony Aries. Hashem did not want to give the loved one by making a
and unanimity of purpose. The feelings mistaken impression that the respect or
of camaraderie were so great that the
Torah refers to the encampment of the
honor for Torah had to be bolstered or
enhanced, which could occur by hav-
LION OF JUDAH
nation of Israel at Mt. Sinai in the singu- ing it associated with the “highest” of
lar, “And he (Israel) camped there.” This astrological signs. The Torah was to be gift in her name.
unity is also alluded to by the sign of the respected in and of itself, and therefore
month of Sivan, the twins. Nissan was not the month chosen for Through a one time gift of $5,000,
There is additional significance to presentation of this gift.
the sign of the month as it relates to the The sign for the next month, Iyar, is
you can perpetuate tzedakah in her name.
giving of the Torah. The Bnai Yisaschar Taurus, the bull. The bull, like the horse
quotes a parable. A king was preparing in the parable, signifies a powerful physi-
for the wedding of his daughter and
wanted to display her beauty and splen-
cal presence and beauty. We know that
during the month of Iyar the trees begin
Her memory will be
dor in a manner befitting a princess. to blossom and plants begin to grow after for a blessing, forever.
One of the king’s advisers suggested their long wintry slumber. The beauty of
that she rides on an elephant. She spring is truly one of G-d’s wonders. Yet
would be elevated above the throngs Hashem did not want to convey the mis-
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noted that although the elephant may by beautiful manifestations. He did not
be tall, it is lacking the dignity and maj- want people to think that the Torah
esty of other animals, and therefore the was not worthy of being honored and
beauty of the princess bride would not praised if it stood alone. Therefore, the
Confessions at an airport
W
hen your flight is delayed mother, and saying things like “If you
for four hours, you can ever want to have kids, you probably
choose to be annoyed should start sooner rather than later
and aggravated, or you because you never know how long it will
can use it to gain valuable material for a take…” and “If you don’t know about
newspaper column. Though I am usually marrying scrubs-boy after being together
a student of the school of annoyed and for four years, maybe he isn’t for you.”
aggravated, there was so much good sub- And my personal favorite, “Just wait until
ject matter happening all around me, it your kids are old enough to find out what
was hard to stay negative. I also learned nursing means…”
that four hours goes by very She met scrubs-boy on
quickly when you have so the PATH train and she
much fodder to absorb. And couldn’t believe that hus-
that some people get really, band #1 and I met when we
really annoyed when their were 13 years old. And that
flight is delayed, and they he had a full head of hair
spend their time yelling at when we met. And that
the people at customer ser- I was thin when we met
vice and using really bad ( Just kidding. I never told
words. No, this was not her that.)
me. I was too busy eaves- Banji Now let’s change chan-
dropping on everyone’s Ganchrow nels to the man sitting
conversations. behind us. And you can’t
Let’s begin with the make this stuff up. “So
young man who wore scrubs to the air- where are you off to?” the man sitting next
port. Only someone who wants everyone to the man behind us asked. “Well, my job
to know that he is a doctor wears scrubs is sending me to a rehab in Florida for my
to the airport. Please do not tell me that alcohol addiction.” Apparently this man
Across Down you didn’t have two minutes to put on a has been working for the same company
1. “”חבר 1. “The Five People You Meet pair of pants and a t-shirt. I know, first- for 30 years. He was married once, has
6. Coffee carriers in Heaven” author Mitch hand, that it takes less than two minutes some older children, and then he remar-
10. Makes a scene? 2. Reddish- purple
to get dressed when you are putting in ried and has an 8-year-old and a 5-year-
14. Took on, as freight 3. Brainstorms
15. ___about (approximately) 4. Two before Lev. no effort whatsoever. By the time we old. He wants to start setting a good exam-
16. In need of ice, maybe 5. Foot problem, perhaps
17. “”בוקר טוב 6. “Family” or Orthodox
20. Eggs, biologically 7. Ally with
21. Butler at Tara
22. Ann and Cod, e.g.
8. Animal acronym for
a sensational athlete
Though I am usually a student of the
23. Child’s room, often
25. Lead or copper, e.g.
9. Many Jews in Fl.
10. Battery’s partner in crime
school of annoyed and aggravated,
26. Bit of slander 11. “?”מבין there was so much good subject
27. “Be a pal!”
29. Ski lodges
12. Wayne’s “___ Grit”
13. Tennis units matter happening all around me, it
32. Funny Baron Cohen
35. Tree or roasted snack
18. “Get lost!”
22. MIT sessions was hard to stay negative.
36. “Don’t Bring Me Down” rockers, 24. MIT, e.g.
familiarly 26. Where magic happened
37. “”תודה in October of ‘86 boarded the plane, almost five hours after ple for them, so he is looking forward to
40. “Black-ish” protagonist 28. “Spider-Man” star
first seeing this doctor in his scrubs, we starting over. “The rehab is sending a limo
41. Dell, e.g. 29. Windy City, for short
43. Media attraction 30. Become inedible learned from his girlfriend of four years to the airport to pick me up.” “What do
45. Fables 31. “Do not change,” to an editor (who also is a doctor and was not wear- you do for a living?” The man sitting next
46. Jewish leader, once 32. Parts of a min. ing scrubs) that she also felt that he only to the man sitting behind us then asked.
48. Audio receivers 33. Loads wears the scrubs for attention. “I am an iron worker,” he said. “I build
49. Escape from Ford, e.g. 34. “?”מה שלומך
We also learned, from the girlfriend, bridges.” “It must be hard to do that kind
50. Commits a faux pas 35. “Fortunate Son” band, for short
54. Cotton thread used for gloves 38. 1 and 95, e.g. that she is going to make partner in her of work drunk,” responded the man sit-
56. Covered, as a song 39. He lost to DDE, twice medical practice in four months, and ting next to the man sitting behind us.
58. “You’ve Got Mail!” co. 42. Nut candy scrubs-boy has another six years before Hey, that is just what I was thinking!!!!
59. It means “against’ 44. Go for, as a prize he accomplishes the same goal in his prac- And then it was time to board the
60. “”ברוכים הבאים 46. One might drive you meshuga
tice. And that he wants to get married and plane and all my fun ended. Will scrubs-
62. Marvel’s Sebastian or Lee 47. Second part of Israel’s
63. “The King ___” second largest city have kids and she still is not ready. And boy marry his girlfriend? Will the man in
64. Cleanser brand 49. Planters needs that she went to medical school on a full rehab overcome his drinking problem?
65. Drench, in a way 51. He directed 28-Across scholarship. And that she and her boy- Will husband #1 and I ever spend four
66. Washing the dishes, e.g. 52. Ritzy street, out west friend went hiking in Vietnam and slept in nights sleeping in a cave? At least I can
67. “”שלום 53. Where much change is lost
a cave for four nights as part of the hike. answer one of those questions….
54. Whip unit
55. Interested in She told me that is the coolest experience
56. Jewish girl of song? ever and that I should put it on my bucket Banji Ganchrow was on a plane because
57. Prefix for “ten” list. I didn’t have the heart to tell her that she and husband #1 attended a family
60. Dracula, at times the only thing on my bucket list, currently, bar mitzvah. It was very lovely and they
61. Silent “yes”
is, “Get out of bed every morning.” had a wonderful time. (In case you were
My contribution to this conversation wondering….) And their flight home was
The solution to last week’s puzzle is on page 49. was sounding like a really old Jewish not delayed.
Monday
may 14
Loretta Weinberg,
State Senate
majority leader
Charlie Harary
Inspiration in Teaneck: James Tedesco, III,
To commemorate the Bergen County
first yahrzeit of Joseph
executive
Appel, Congregation
Bnai Yeshurun, the Photos courtesy NCJWBCS
may The Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly hosts its annual Appel family, and Jewish
Diversity in Bergen
USATF-authorized Rubin Run, a family-friendly community race Journeys/JInspire-Bergen
hosts Shabbat Yachad, B’nai Jacob in Jersey years, and her daughter and grandchildren
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Franklin Lakes: The easy-to-sing melodies, (201) 435-5725 or Info@ and camp at the JCC over the years.
Jewish Historical Society 8 p.m. 87 Overlook Drive. bnaijacobjc.com.
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Ina Cohen-Harris at its tepv.org. Shavuot in Teaneck: Dr. proceeds support invaluable cultural arts
gala dinner at Barnert Daniel Rynhold, Jewish programming at the JCC. Ms. Spiegel’s work A photograph by Rona Spiegel.
Temple, 6 p.m. 747 Shabbat in Teaneck: philosophy professor is online at www.red-zebra.net.
Route 208 South. Temple Emeth offers and coordinator of the
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8 p.m. 1666 Windsor Bernard Revel Graduate or email her at [email protected].
Celebrating Israel at 70
In commemoration of the 26th yahrzeit of Rabbi Isaac L.
Swift, who was the founding rabbi and rabbi emeritus of
Congregation Ahavath Torah in Englewood, Rabbi Yosef
Adler of Teaneck’s Congregation Rinat Yisrael and the
Torah Academy of Bergen County will discuss “The Sanc-
Sinai students tity of the Flag: A Tribute to Israel on its 70th Birthday” on
rehearse for Thursday, May 24. The lecture, co-sponsored by Ahavath
the upcoming Torah and the Rabbi Isaac L. Swift Chair of Judaic Stud-
production of ies at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly, is at the
“October Sky.” Englewood shul, 240 Broad Ave., after Mincha at 8:15 p.m.
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Trump team hired Israeli firm Ira Afromsky She did volunteer work City Board of Education
to dig up dirt on Obama officials Ira Howard Afromsky, 59, of at Englewood Hospital and for many years.
Ridgewood died May 1. Medical Center for more Predeceased by her hus-
Aides to U.S. President Donald Trump MSNBC, and Haaretz. Predeceased by his than 30 years. band of 58 years, Harold,
hired an Israeli private intelligence com- The Guardian quoted former U.K. For- mother, Dolores Afrom- Born in Germany, in 2002, she is survived
pany, Black Cube, to dig up dirt on offi- eign Secretary Jack Straw, who character- sky, he is survived by his she is survived by her by children, Lewis (Lorie),
cials serving in the administration of for- ized the allegations as “extraordinary” wife, Susan Evans, father, husband, Curt, daugh- David (Chuck), and Ruth
mer U.S. President Barack Obama, who and “appalling,” as saying that Trump Jerald Afromsky, children, ters, Audrey DeJonge of (Frank); grandchildren, Jef-
were involved in negotiating the 2015 Iran and Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Jonathan (Kerri), Ashleigh, Fort Lee and Ellen Ozeri frey (Amy), Amanda, Elyse
nuclear deal, according to documents Netanyahu were desperately trying to Sarah, and Jordan; siblings, of New York City; four (Dan), Jessica (Kevin), and
obtained by Britain’s Observer newspaper “discredit” officials involved in negotiat- Evelyn Brooks (Wayne), and grandchildren, and five great-grandchildren, Har-
and published first in the Guardian. ing the agreement. David (Melanie), and grand- great-grandchildren. rison and Clara.
According to the report, Trump staff- According to unnamed sources, U.S. sons, Jake and Luke. Arrangements were by Arrangements were by
ers hired the company in May 2017 to find officials with links to Trump reached out Donations can be made Eden Memorial Chapels, Robert Schoem’s Menorah
material to use against Ben Rhodes and to Black Cube several days after Trump to Autism Speaks. Arrange- Fort Lee. Chapel, Paramus.
Colin Kahl. paid his first presidential visit to Israel last ments were by Louis Subur-
The investigators reportedly were year. Trump made a promise to Netan- ban Chapel, Fair Lawn. Harriet Fischer Gerda Lehrer
instructed to probe Rhodes’ and Kahl’s yahu that Iran would not attain nuclear Harriet Fischer, née Rubin, Gerda Lehrer, 97,
private and public affairs to see if they weapons and expressed his disdain for Marion DeJonge 93, of Teaneck, formerly of died May 3.
had any links to lobbyists who were posi- the 2015 agreement, which he has repeat- Marion DeJonge, née the Bronx, died May 4. Predeceased by her
tively disposed toward Iran or were in a edly castigated as the “worst deal ever.” Mahler, 91, of Fort Lee She was a principal’s husband, Samuel, she is
position to personally benefit from the The Guardian report confirmed contact died May 5. secretary for the New York survived by sons, Mark and
nuclear deal. They also tried to get infor- between the Trump aides and the intel-
mation from the two men’s wives. ligence company, but it is still unknown
In addition, investigators were how much if any material was discovered
instructed to investigate media per- and what use, if any, was made of it.
sonalities who had spoken out in favor The White House declined to comment
of the deal in the New York Times, on the report. JNS.ORG
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