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36 Questions

This document contains 36 questions meant to help partners get to know each other on a deeper level over the course of answering them. The questions range from topics like who someone would want as a dinner guest, what their dreams are, favorite memories, regrets, what love and friendship mean to them, and more personal questions to help foster understanding and intimacy between partners.

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36 Questions

This document contains 36 questions meant to help partners get to know each other on a deeper level over the course of answering them. The questions range from topics like who someone would want as a dinner guest, what their dreams are, favorite memories, regrets, what love and friendship mean to them, and more personal questions to help foster understanding and intimacy between partners.

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36 Questions

LET'S FALL IN LOVE


1.

Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom


would you want as a dinner guest?
2.

Would you like to be famous? In what way?


3.

Before making a telephone call, do you ever


rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4.

What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?


5.

When did you last sing to yourself? Or to


someone else?
6.

If you were able to live to the age of 90 and


retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old
for the last 60 years of your life, which would
you want?
7.

Do you have a secret hunch about how you will


die?
8.

Name three things you and your partner appear


to have in common.
9.

For what in your life do you feel most grateful?


10.

If you could change anything about the way you


were raised, what would it be?
11.

Take four minutes and tell your partner your


life story in as much detail as possible.
12.

If you could wake up tomorrow having gained


any one quality or ability, what would it be?
13.
If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about
yourself, your life, the future or anything else,
what would you want to know?
14.

Is there something that you’ve dreamed of


doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
15.

What is the greatest accomplishment of your


life?
16.

What do you value most in a friendship?


17.

What is your most treasured memory?


18.

What is your most terrible memory?


19.

If you knew that in one year you would die


suddenly, would you change anything about the
way you are now living? Why?
20.
What does friendship mean to you?
21.

What roles do love and affection play in your


life?
22.

Alternate sharing something you consider a


positive characteristic of your partner. Share a
total of five items.
23.

How close and warm is your family? Do you feel


your childhood was happier than most other
people’s?
24.

How do you feel about your relationship with


your mother?
25.

Make three true “we” statements each. For


instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “
26.

Complete this sentence: "I wish I had someone


with whom I could share ... "
27.

If you were going to become a close friend with


your partner, please share what would be
important for him or her to know.
28.

Tell your partner what you like about them; be


very honest this time, saying things that you
might not say to someone you’ve just met.
29.

Share with your partner an embarrassing


moment in your life.
30.
When did you last cry in front of
another person? Or By yourself?
31.
Tell your partner something that
you like about them already.
32.
What, if anything, is too serious
to be joked about?
33.

If you were to die this evening with no


opportunity to communicate with anyone, what
would you most regret not having told someone?
Why haven’t you told them yet?
34.
Your house, containing everything you own,
catches fire. After saving your loved ones and
pets, you have time to safely make a final
dash to save any one item. What would it be?
Why?
35.
Of all the people in your family, whose
death would you find most disturbing?
Why?
36.
Share a personal problem and ask your
partner’s advice on how he or she might
handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect
back to you how you seem to be feeling about
the problem you have chosen.
Look each other in the eye for 4
minutes.
How do you feel now?
Do you want to spend more time
with each other

Do you feel closer to each other?

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