Sexuality in Older Adult
Sexuality in Older Adult
Sexuality in Older Adult
Adult
Laura Morton, MD, CMD
KEYWORDS
Sexuality Geriatric Older adult Sexual dysfunction
Provider/patient communication
KEY POINTS
Sexuality is important to older adults, and they continue to be sexually active.
Sexual response cycles provide a framework for understanding sexuality and dysfunction.
Anatomic and physiologic changes with aging impact sexual function in both men and
women.
In patients with sexual dysfunction, a thorough medical, psychological, and social evalu-
ation is necessary to diagnose sexual dysfunction and develop a management plan
tailored to the underlying cause.
The topic of sex is not routinely raised in office visits; if providers initiate the conversation,
patients are more willing to discuss their sexual concerns.
INTRODUCTION
The population of people older than 65 is increasing more rapidly than all other age
groups. There were 46.2 million Americans over the age of 65 in 2014. This number
is projected to increase to 82.3 million by 2040 and 90 million by 2060.1 The health
care community will have to adapt and find ways to manage the diverse needs of
this increasing part of the population.
Sexuality is an important aspect of a person’s life, relationships, and overall quality
of life. Sexuality is often addressed in the popular media and social settings. Howev-
er, health care providers often overlook this topic, especially in the geriatric popula-
tion. Sexuality has been generally defined as dynamic result of physical ability, drive,
attitudes, chances for relationship, and sexual behavior.2 Sexuality is impacted by
physical, psychological, spiritual, and cultural factors. Intimacy describes the charac-
teristic of a relationship comprising feelings of closeness, warmth, and shared life
path. Sexual activity results from the interaction of each partner’s physical status,
interest, behavior, and attitudes and the underlying quality of the relationship itself
and intimacy level.3,4 Sexuality plays an important role in a person’s mental and
physical health and quality of life throughout the life spectrum. Therefore, providers
should continue to discuss sexuality and sexual concerns with their patients as they
age.
There are many cultural and societal myths that exist regarding sexuality in older
adults. These myths may result from media portrayal of older adults and sexual issues.
In a study of medical and psychology students,5 researchers found that knowledge
about aging was strongly linked with knowledge about sexuality. However, knowledge
about sexuality and aging was not associated with attitudes, which were more closely
related to personal beliefs or social norms.
Many commonly held beliefs about older adults and sexuality have no underlying
basis in reality. Common myths regarding older adults and sexuality include sexual ac-
tivities do not occur (older are asexual), it is humorous, it is filthy (“dirty old man” or
“spinster”), older people are too frail for sexual activity, the elderly are not sexually
desirable secondary to physical changes.6–8
Increasing knowledge about older adults and sexuality and about current sexual
practices, will hopefully dispel these myths and improve a provider’s ability to address
these issues throughout life.
Several studies of older adult sexuality and health in the United States3,4,9 report that
the prevalence of sexual activity with a partner in the last 12 months decreased with
increasing age: 73% who were age 57 to 64, 53% who were age 65 to 74, and
26% in those age 75 to 85. In this study, the likelihood of being sexually active was
less in women than men across all age groups. Sexually active respondents were
more likely to rate their health status positively. In those 75 to 85, 54% of sexually
active respondents had intercourse 2 to 3 times per month, and 23% had sex at least
once weekly. Seventy percent of men and 50% of women older than age 65 report in-
terest in sex. Other forms of sexual expression were queried, including oral sex and
masturbation. In the youngest age group, 58% engaged in oral sex compared with
31% in the oldest group. Masturbation was higher in the younger age group and in
men.9 The frequency of other forms of sexual expression, including hugging, kissing,
or sexual touching did not change with age.3 Availability of a spouse or sexual partner
impacts sexuality at older ages. In men 75 to 85, 78% report having a partner;
conversely, in women age 75 to 85, 40% report having a partner.9 This difference
may be related to longer life expectancy in women.
Among those sexually active, at least half of the respondents reported at least 1 sex-
ual problem. The most prevalent sexual problems reported in women are lack of inter-
est in sex, trouble with vaginal lubrication, inability to achieve orgasm, finding sex not
pleasurable, and pain with sex. For men, the most prevalent sexual problems reported
are trouble achieving or maintaining an erection, lack of interest in sex, achieving
orgasm too quickly, performance anxiety, and inability to orgasm. In all age groups
surveyed, 38% of men and 22% of women reported talking about sex with a physician
since age 50.9
Given these statistics, it is evident that older adults continue to be interested in sex
and that sexuality remains an important part of life.
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The first description of the sexual response cycle was in the landmark work of Masters
and Johnson. This model serves as the traditional medical framework for sexual
response and to categorize sexual dysfunction. The 4 stages of sexual response are:
1. Excitement: interest or urge for sexual activity
2. Plateau: vascular system and body’s response to stimulation
3. Orgasm: climax, height of physiologic response, involuntary
4. Resolution: recovery period after orgasm in which body returns to resting state
The Masters and Johnson model describes sexual response in terms of the body’s
physiologic response to arousal. Another way of viewing the Masters and Johnson
model is that it describes sexuality as a goal-directed experience. In the goal-
directed experience, the ultimate goal is intercourse and orgasm. A stepwise foreplay
experience (touching, kissing) culminates in intercourse and ultimately orgasm. How-
ever, if orgasm is not achieved, there is potential for feelings of failure. Following an
algorithm can lead to boredom or limit the sexual experience.10
However, a different model captures other important aspects of the sexual experi-
ence. In non–goal-directed sexual experience, each act of intimacy is viewed as satis-
fying on its own; intercourse and orgasm are not essential.10,11 The cycle of intimacy
can be created by partners, and adapted and adjusted throughout each sexual expe-
rience, which allows greater flexibility and spontaneity. By viewing sexual experiences
in a non–goal-directed manner, there is no specific path to follow, and any part of the
process can be repeated or skipped, depending on the moment and desires of the
participants. The non–goal-directed sexual model incorporates the psychological
and emotional aspects of sexual experiences and the intimacy shared by the partners.
Physiologic sexual response that occurs in women does exhibit changes with aging. If
pathologic or comorbid conditions are present, these can greatly impact female sex-
ual response. During the excitement phase, there is decreased vaginal blood flow,
genital engorgement, and lubrication. The plateau phase is prolonged and there is
less color change of the labia. Women maintain their capacity for multiple orgasms.
However, weaker and less frequent contractions of the perineal muscles occur. During
the resolution phase, there is a more rapid loss of vasocongestion than in younger
years.12
Female Sexual Physiology and Changes with Aging: Endocrine System
Loss of estrogen with menopause is a significant physiologic event that can affect
various aspects of women’s sexual function. The median age of menopause in the
United States is 51 years. Given that the average life expectancy of women is
81.2 years,13 women will spend approximately 30 years after menopause. Low levels
of estrogen lead to changes within the genitourinary tract, including12
Shortening of the vagina
Vaginal dryness
Changes in the bacterial flora and pH balance
Thinning of the labia
Decrease in fat pad under mons pubis
This urogenital atrophy makes the vaginal mucosa more susceptible to trauma from
sexual activity, potentially leading to dyspareunia and vaginal bleeding. There is also
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Several classification systems exist for female sexual dysfunction, including the Diag-
nostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition; International Classifi-
cation of Diseases, 10th Edition; and Consensus Statement from the Fourth
International Consultation on Sexual Medicine.12,14 Sexual dysfunction can be catego-
rized as follows: sexual desire disorder, sexual arousal disorder, orgasmic disorder,
vaginismus, and dyspareunia.12
In older adult women, the cause of sexual dysfunction can be primary or secondary
and includes psychological, physical, or social factors.12 Examples of secondary
causes of sexual dysfunction include depression (psychological), physical debility or
urinary incontinence and related anxiety (physical), and social factors, such as guilt
related to relationships after the loss of a spouse. To determine the etiology of the sex-
ual dysfunction, it is important to obtain a thorough history and perform a focused
physical examination. The history should include the timing, severity, frequency,
and duration of the sexual concern. To better understand the setting in which the
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sexual problems occur, it is important to also understand the social setting, the char-
acteristics of the relationship, medications, over-the-counter medications, and sub-
stance use. Medications commonly associated with female sexual dysfunction
include selective serotonin inhibitors, antipsychotics, mood stabilizers (eg, lithium),
phenytoin, digoxin, clonidine, and opioids.12,15 During this process, the information
about the partner’s health, physical, and mental functioning should be obtained.
Treatment of sexual dysfunction should be based on treating the underlying causes
of the sexual dysfunction. An interdisciplinary approach is useful to address these
complex issues in a holistic, person-centered manner, including psychosocial and
medical issues. Couples therapy and sex therapy can address interpersonal and rela-
tionship issues. Pelvic physical therapy helps women with pelvic floor dysfunction and
aid in those with dyspareunia. Lifestyle changes, including diet and exercise, promote
improvement of body image. Topical estrogens and lubricants are used for the treat-
ment of urogenital atrophy. Systemic hormone replacement therapy (HRT) remains
controversial in the treatment of female sexual dysfunction because of the lack of cer-
tainty regarding its role in prevention or promotion of adverse cardiovascular effects.16
There are no US Food and Drug Administration–approved medications for the treat-
ment of female sexual dysfunction.12 Given the population changes and importance
of sexual function to quality of life, hopefully more treatments will be developed to
manage female sexual dysfunction.
In the Massachusetts Male Aging Study,17 men were surveyed and followed up over
9 years regarding their sexual activity. At the end of the 9-year period, the average fre-
quency of intercourse declined by almost 2 times per month, and the average number
of erections decreased by 8 times per month. The frequency of ejaculation with
masturbation did not change during the study.
There are changes in male sexual physiology that occur with aging. There is a
gradual slowing of physical reaction time to stimulation; more time is required for
arousal, to complete the sexual activity, and to become aroused again for sexual ac-
tivity.18,19 Erections may become somewhat less firm with age, which may be caused
by the decrease in elastic fibers, collagen, and smooth muscle in the penis.8 Despite
these changes in erections, they usually retain the capacity for intercourse. There is
also lower production of semen and ejaculatory volume. Ejaculation is less forceful
with aging. Orgasm may be shorter in duration, less intense, and characterized by
decreased urethral and prostatic contractions. After orgasm, there is rapid detumes-
cence and testicular descent. The refractory period is prolonged. Male fertility usually
diminishes in the mid-70s, but may continue into the 90s.8,18,19
There are 4 primary types of male sexual dysfunction in older adults: erectile dysfunc-
tion (ED), decreased desire, psychological issues (including performance anxiety), and
inability to achieve orgasm.14,15,18,19 Decreased desire or libido can occur for multiple
reasons, including general health, decreased levels of testosterone, or psychosocial
concerns. Performance anxiety occurs when men become preoccupied with perfor-
mance and masculinity to such an extent that those thoughts lead to sexual diffi-
culties. This can be seen in widower’s syndrome, in which an older man in a new
relationship feels guilt and develops sexual dysfunction secondary to his perceived
unfaithfulness to his deceased spouse. Inability to orgasm or to achieve ejaculation
can occur.18,19
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Vascular and neurologic diseases are commonly associated with erectile dysfunc-
tion. Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease and obstructive sleep apnea are associ-
ated with ED through low testosterone levels secondary to chronic hypoxia and
respond to treatment with testosterone.22
Alcoholism can lead to ED by leading to increased levels of estrogen and decreased
levels of testosterone.15,20 In patients with liver disease, there is testicular atrophy, gy-
necomastia, and increased sexual dysfunction. Testosterone supplementation in
alcoholism is usually not effective treatment of erectile dysfunction.22 Smoking and
substance abuse also lead to ED through impairment of blood flow. Physical activity
can decrease the likelihood of or improve erectile dysfunction.18
PROVIDER/PATIENT INTERACTIONS
Sexuality in the older adult is a multifaceted subject that requires a holistic, person-
centered approach. However, the topic of older adult sexuality remains a challenge
in current medical practice. In a study by Lindau and colleagues,9 38% of men and
22% of women reported having discussed sex with a physician since the age of 50.
A study by Nusbaum and colleagues23 addressed the sexual health care needs of
women older than 65, especially patient/provider communication. For 68% of the
women in the study, sexuality had never arisen during an office visit. Older women
were less likely than younger women to have had the topic of sex raised during an of-
fice visit (33% vs 52%). When sex was raised during the visit, older women were twice
as likely as the physician to have raised the topic. Of those surveyed, 97% said they
would have discussed their sexual concerns had the physician asked. The older and
younger women reported that it was easier to discuss concerns about sexuality if the
physician raised the topic. Patient-related barriers to discussion of sexual issues
include embarrassment (patients prefer talking with a provider of similar age and
sex) and adequate time for the discussion. Providers appearing rushed hindered the
discussion of sexual issues. Eighty percent of the women surveyed were willing to re-
turn for another appointment specifically dedicated to their sexual concerns.23
Providers are also reluctant to initiate discussions about sexuality. Provider barriers
include23:
Believing the stereotype that older adults are asexual
Fear of offending patients
Lack of confidence in own skills to discuss sexual issues
Not having adequate time for the discussion
Provider discomfort with the subject matter
Provider seeming uninterested or impersonal
Given the importance of the topic of sexuality in older adults, providers and patients
must work together to improve discussions about sexual concerns. To improve dis-
cussions of sexuality with patients, providers should:
Exhibit professional demeanor
Be comfortable with subject of sex
Be understanding and empathetic
Inquire about the sexual function of the patient’s partner
Raise sexual health topic routinely, as in routine wellness
Use sexuality/sexual function questionnaire form in routine patient history forms
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SUMMARY
Sexuality is an important part of a person’s life, continuing into older age. Sexuality is
not traditionally discussed in the health care setting, even though patients express an
interest in discussing the topic if the provider initiates the conversation. With aging,
there are physiologic changes that occur that can impact sexual function. Other co-
morbid conditions can exacerbate other underlying sexual issues. To diagnose sexual
dysfunction, providers must obtain a thorough history and physical examination,
including psychosocial factors. The underlying etiology of the sexual dysfunction
serves as the basis for a person-centered management plan to address the patient’s
concerns. To improve the overall care of older adults with sexual concerns, providers
should initiate discussions with their patients, listen, and work with patients to create a
plan.
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